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Your Strong Relationship
by Adai Ad
EMPOWERING COUPLES. ENRICHING RELATIONSHIPS.Adai Ad means ‘successfully lasting’ in Hebrew; thus, an Adai Ad relationship is one that is successfully lasting, where all in the family thrive. Here, we share about marriage and dating for strong relationships (and also about when things aren't going well in the marriage). Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adaiad/support
Episodes
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60. Navigating the Roadmap of Marriage: Exploring Differentiation [with Chana Levitan, MSc]
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad (www.adaiad.org) speaks with Chana Levitan, MSc, about her newly released book, “Are We There Yet?”. It's practical and insightful about this "one thing" for successful marriage. After so many years of therapy and coaching, Chana concluded that the one thing for...
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59. Marriage Skills for Successful Marriage [with Lisa Twerski, LCSW]
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad (www.adaiad.org) speaks with Lisa Twerski, LCSW, about her newly released book, Me & You – What I Wish I Knew: A Marriage Manual for the Frum Community. This interview offers an insightful and practical conversation about building and deepening the marriage...
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58: Keeping your marriage strong over Yom Tov (with Kayla Levin)
Kayla Levin and Devora Krasnianski talk about relationships and stress around Yom Tov. We speak about in-laws, disappointments & expectations, differences of ideas, parents, kids. And how to manage our thoughts and feelings and ultimately our experience. Jam-packed with insights and perspectives....
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57: How Family Impacts Marriage (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Dr. Margo Neuberger talks about how family impacts marriage, about attachment styles and how you can have a successful marriage no matter your childhood and family dynamics. She also covers how to share about your family on a date. more from this series at ...
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56: Mental Illness & Marriage (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Dr. Yossi Shaffer
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55: 'Internet Addiction' & Marriage (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Dr. Binyamin Tepfer talks about how pornography addiction can impact a marriage. Covering: "Should I get married or begin dating with an addiction?" "Should I get into a relationship with someone who has or had an addiction?" How to talk about a porn or sex addiction during dating. What type of...
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54: Addictions & Marriage (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Rabbi Dr. Benzion Twerski talks about how addiction can impact a relationship. Covering: "Should I get married or begin dating with an addiction?" "Should I get into a relationship with someone who has or had an addiction?" more from this series at www.adaiad.org/marriage-ready www.adaiad.org...
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53: Tools & Mindsets for Marriage (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Basie Rosenblat, LCSW-R about some key mindsets and tools for your successful marriage.
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52: Does the Mizbeach cry when an abusive marriage ends?
Rabbi YY Jacobson shares an hashkafic view of ending an abusive marriage.
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51: Preparing for your role as husband (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Dr. Shmuel Brachfeld about how to prepare for your successful marriage - in the time before marriage. Introduction. Planting seeds that will be helpful in marriage. Why get married? It's not good for a man to be alone. Become one unit as husband and wife....
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50: How to stay connected with your husband over Pesach
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Hindi Kalmenson of Relationshift about effective mindsets for staying connected with your husband through the busyness, joys and stress of Pesach. In this talk, Hindi shares several very practical applications of the mashpia-mekabel dynamic. How to really...
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49: Preparing for your role as wife (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Reb. Malki Spira, LMHC and Ruchama Clapman of MASK about how to prepare for your successful marriage - in the time before marriage. Introduction Preparing now for your marriage relationship. The role of the wife has been transformed and this impacts...
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48: How Trauma Impacts Marriage (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Yehuda (Hudi) Kowalsky, LMHC and Ruchama Clapman of MASK about how past trauma can impact your future relationship and what you can do to set yourself up for success. Introduction What is 'trauma'? How does someone know if they still have the trauma 'in...
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47: Five Secrets of Effective Communication in your marriage
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Sara Gita Soble of Mindshift about effective communication in marriage. It's much more than words - it is a mindset. www.adaiad.org www.createrelationshift.com 0:00 About this talk 3:18 Why do people communicate? 5:00 Where do people get stuck in their...
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45: Now is the time to build your financial future. (for Newly Married)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Dovid Lieblich, CFP, EA about what newly married should know about building their financial future. (slides and other related resources www.adaiad.org/financial-future) Introduction About Dovid Lieblich and his story Newly marrieds have the best…
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44: What is Couples Therapy really like?
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Rivka Krumholz, LMFT, Rabbi Simcha Feuerman, LCSW-R, DHL and Ruchama Clapman of MASK about what is couples therapy all about. Introductions of panelists About MASK What is Couples Therapy? What are the benefits? It is the Relationship that is the client…
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43: Am I Ready for Marriage? (from "Marriage readiness" series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Dr. Debbie Akerman and Ruchama Clapman of MASK about important aspects of marriage readiness. Welcome Triangular Theory of Love: 1. Working together 2. Intimacy 3. Commitment How does age consider into marriage readiness? What does ‘giving’ mean in a...
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42: Supporting your husband's work for parnassah (from Money & Shalom Bayis series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Yael Trusch about supporting your husband's work for parnassah. www.adaiad.org/money-shalom 0:00 Introduction 3:19 What is supportive (and what is not) 6:38 Focusing on what we do have, not what we don’t have 9:34 When trust in Hashem, it impacts your...
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41: Don't let money become a fight (from Money & Shalom Bayis series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Yael Trusch about communicating about money. www.adaiad.org/money-shalom 0:00 Introduction. 3:04 Negative effects about fighting about money. 8:02 Conversation about money shows you about your values. 10:15 Date Night to discuss topics around money. 18:06...
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40: Creating your Relationship Vision
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Rabbi Pinney and Helana Herman about Creating your Relationship Vision. This talk also covers some key points of the Imago Dialog and other tools. http://adaiad.org/herman-vision for worksheets and other resources mentioned in the talk contact Helana…
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39: Gifting your Marriage Relationship with a Change.
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Rabbi Pinney and Helana Herman about Gifting your Marriage Relationship with a change. This talk also covers some key points of the Imago Dialog and other tools. www.adaiad.org/herman-gifting for worksheets and other resources mentioned in the talk contact...
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38: Answering your questions about intimacy
Pamela Klein, LCSW answers questions about intimacy (with Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad) www.adaiad.org/intimacy-series [email protected] 718-395-9185 0:00 Introduction 1:32 What is desire & arousal? 3:57 Brakes & Accelerators. 7:23 I push myself and then I feel bad about that. (consent…
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37: Communicating with your spouse about intimacy
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad speaks with Pamela Klein, LCSW about intimacy www.adaiad.org/intimacy-series 0:00 Introduction 1:26 Why is it important to talk about intimacy? 2:47 Why is it so difficult to have such conversations? 5:24 How to start the conversation? 8:53 When to have the...
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36: Triggers, Emotions and You
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Zalman Nelson, LCSW about triggers, emotions and how to get insight into yourself. This is all so important as you relate to your spouse. www.adaiad.org www.zalmannelson.com more related resources: www.adaiad.org/nelson-triggers-emotions
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35: How you can help someone in an abusive situation. (from End the Abuse series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Avital Levin, education director at Shalom Task Force, about "How you can help someone in an abusive situation". Covering: What is supportive, what to say and not to say, the importance of believing, how the community can support victims and survivors of...
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34: Power of Community against Domestic Abuse (from End the Abuse series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Dr. Shana Frydman of Shalom Task Force about "What is Abuse Anyway?" describing what abuse is, what might be going on for the victim and their family, and what the community ought to be doing for the victims of abuse. Part 1 of the 'Power of Community'...
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33: Resetting your Shalom Bayis - for Husbands
Rabbi Shais Taub talks about what the husband can do to reset the marriage - bringing your good marriage to even greater levels.
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32: Asking your Spouse for What You Want or Need
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Yeshaya Kraus, LCSW of Shalom Task Force about how to ask effectively for what you want and need.
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31: Budgeting Basics & Shalom Bayis (from Money & Shalom Bayis series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Rabbi Eliyahu Prero, a financial coach at Mesila* about how to develop an effective budget as a team. Rabbi Prero will share some Dos and Don'ts of discussing your budget. *Mesila’s mission is to empower families and businesses to seek, achieve and…
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30: Financial Stress & Shalom Bayis (from Money & Shalom Bayis series)
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Rabbi Eliyahu Prero, a financial coach at Mesila* about how to navigate financial issues as a team. Rabbi Prero will share some Dos and Don'ts of working through financial stress. *Mesila’s mission is to empower families and businesses to seek, achieve and...
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29: Peaceful & Joyful Yom Tov
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Velvel & Estie Lipskier about Shalom Bayis tools and mindsets for a peaceful and joyful Yom Tov
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28: Newlyweds' guide to money (from Money & Shalom Bayis series)
Newlyweds' guide to money: some dos and don'ts Different money personalities and habits. How to navigate it all? It is important to get on the same page about money – before it turns into conflict and tension. Chaya Margolin, a noted Financial Counselor shares some basic financial responsibility...
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27: Helping someone with Shalom Bayis. Dos & Don'ts.
Helping someone work through marriage issues is a huge responsibility. The number one rule in medicine “Do No Harm” is definitely apropos here. You certainly do not want to make a difficult situation even more complex. The questions you ask, the perspectives you share, the words you use; these…
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26: I love you, but please change
Are you hoping that your spouse would consistently meet more of your needs, wants and desires? Instead of complaining, criticizing or withdrawing to try to get what you want from your spouse, how about asking? Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, M.S., LCPC discusses how you can effectively make requests for...
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25: Surviving marital betrayal
When people get married they never dream that they might be betrayed by their spouse. BH, it doesn’t happen often. But if it does happen to someone, it is such a shocking realization. It’s like living in a nightmare. There is shock, devastation, profound hurt and feelings of being betrayed and...
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24: Preparing the marriage for a baby
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Frayda Kaplan, certified Gottman educator (Bringing Baby Home). Frayda shares some valuable tips and insights for preparing your marriage for this exciting new addition to your family.
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23: How your childhood memories still trigger you today
Getting triggered is a message: there’s a part of us that feels all that, needs our attention, and will continue to get triggered until has our focus. The key to growth and shifts in our relationships is moving away from reacting to the triggerer to the part of ourselves getting triggered. Zalman...
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22: Can it be me who is ruining our marriage?
Sometimes, without realizing, one or both of a couple is harming the marriage relationship. Often, they think that "If just my spouse would change." And then with a bit more introspection, they think, "Can it be me who is ruining our marriage?" Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad interviews David Kohn,...
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21: Personality types and relationships
(the sound quality is poor for a few minutes and then clears up. sorry) Your personality and temperament impact how you interact with others and yourself. So naturally, it impacts your marriage relationship. Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad explores this idea with Esther Friedman, a Temperament...
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20: Is this normal? Recognizing abuse early in marriage. (from End the Abuse series)
The wedding is over and the young couple settles into shanah rishonah and a life together. For most, there is the bliss. And the normal challenges and the typical 'hard work' of building the marriage. Sadly, for a few, it is the beginning of a nightmare of abuse and control. Devora Krasnianski of...
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19: Organized Home & Shalom Bayis
Having a clean and organized home the benefits to the family. How might you get the whole family involved in keeping the house orderly? Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Bassie Kalmanson, master organizer, about practical tips and insights for keeping your home and life organized and…
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18: Pesach & Shalom Bayis
Rabbi Abba and Chanie Perelmuter, Shluchim at Shul by the Shore in Long Beach, CA address the typical Pesach stresses in their unique Perelmutter style – humor and practicality. They share tips, insights and laughs from their many Pesach experiences – with young children and with grandchildren…
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17: Parenting as a team - even with different parenting styles
Of course, all parents want the best for their children.But sometimes the mother and father have different ideas about what that might be. Estee Lieblich shares some important mindsets and practical ideas to reach those goals.
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16: Good Communication is KEY for a Successful Marriage.
Good Communication is KEY for a Successful Marriage. Lisa Twerski, LCSW shares some important mindsets and tools for effective communication for everyday conversations and those harder ones.
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15: Parenting as a Team - Children who question your derech
When children are not following the derech on which their parents raised them, it can be very frustrating to the parents. There are so many emotions going on for each parent, and the other family members. There may be differing opinions about what to do and handle the situation. But at all times,...
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14: Pregnancy & Marriage
While it is the wife who is physically expecting the baby, much is happening for both the husband and wife. It is important to understand each other and talk about it. Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad talks with Sarah Eichler, Childbirth Educator and Lactation Consultant, about important...
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13: Parenting Young Children as a Team
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Dr. Yael Respler, noted psychotherapist in the areas of family, marital and intimate relationship issues. Minor differences in parenting style are all right. However, children will get confused when parents have different approaches. And worse, they are...
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12: Money & Marriage
Money. It’s important, we all need some money to pay for the things we need to live. Too often this becomes an area that couples don’t like to talk about. Or an area of conflict, or is evaded to avoid conflicts. Sometimes, it is from different values or patterns from family of origin. It may be...
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11: The gentle art of in-law relationships
“You don’t just marry your spouse, you marry the family.” For many this is a blessing. For others, the in-laws can be a point of contention. There’s an art to creating healthy and loving relationships with your in-laws (or at the very least, tolerable relationships). Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad...
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10: I'm feeling abused. Is it really abuse?
Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with David Kohn, LCSW, CASAC about the difference between dysfunction, mental illness and domestic abuse. And why that difference matters.
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EMPOWERING COUPLES. ENRICHING RELATIONSHIPS.Adai Ad means ‘successfully lasting’ in Hebrew; thus, an Adai Ad relationship is one that is successfully lasting, where all in the family thrive. Here, we share about marriage and dating for strong relationships (and also about when things aren't going well in the marriage). Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adaiad/support
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