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You’re Probably Right
by Murray Ed
In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative. This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only. Please be aware that some content may be emotionally triggering and of a sensitive nature. Therefore Listener discretion is advised.
Episodes
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Why So Angry? The Room With the Window
Why can you still be so angry with someone you may not even want back? In Episode 389 of You’re Probably Right, MCM tells the story of Clara, a woman sitting in a nearly empty room with a window on one side and a door on the other. Outside the window is Daniel, the man she spent so much time...
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How to Go Numb to the Person Who Discarded You
How do you become numb to someone who still seems able to press every emotional button you have? Not numb to love. Not numb to your children. Not numb to your faith. Not numb to friendship, generosity, intimacy, or the possibility of somebody else loving you properly. Numb to them. In Episode 388...
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I've Been Trying to Make You Love Me, but Everything I Try Drives You Further From Me
What happens when every attempt to save the relationship seems to make it worse? You try harder. You become more attentive. You give more. You communicate more. You try to look better. You become more patient. You become more useful. You study what changed. You study what they need. You study...
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How to Devalue the Ex Who Discarded You Episode #386
How do you stop giving enormous emotional value to someone who already stopped choosing you? In Episode 386 of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down what it really means to “devalue” an ex after being discarded. This is not about revenge. It is not about humiliating them. It is not about...
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They Don’t Want to Fix It. They Just Want You to Stop Being Mad.
What if they do not actually want to repair the relationship? What if they just want you to stop being mad? In Episode 385 of You’re Probably Right, MCM looks at the strange moment when somebody finally becomes concerned about your pain only after your pain begins changing their experience of…
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The Difference Between Saying You’re Sorry and Being Sorry
There is a difference between saying you’re sorry and actually being sorry. And sometimes we give people credit for an apology they never really gave us. In Episode 384 of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the difference between remorse, discomfort, apology, access, forgiveness, and actual...
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The Delilah Effect: When One Person Has Your Number
You can be sensible about almost everybody. Then one particular person sends seven words: “I was just thinking about you today.” And suddenly everything you had decided starts feeling negotiable again. In Episode 383 of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what he calls The Delilah Effect: the...
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How Do You Know When It Is Time to Stop Looking Back and Let Someone Go?
How do you know when it is time to stop looking back and let someone go? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about the kind of attachment that does not disappear just because the relationship ended. People often make letting go sound simple. Block the number. Delete the pictures....
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Are These Real Red Flags, or Am I Overthinking His Behaviour?
Are these real red flags? Or are you overthinking his behaviour? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes on one of the hardest questions a woman can ask when something in a relationship no longer feels right. Because once something feels off, it can be difficult to know what you are...
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How Can You Plan a Future With Someone You Barely Know?
How can somebody talk about a future with you when they barely know who you are? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores one of the quieter problems in modern relationships: people planning futures with people they have not truly become curious about yet. They can talk about the...
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Are We Actually Compatible Enough for a Future Together?
Are we actually compatible enough for a future together? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes on one of the most important questions a couple can ask before marriage, commitment, children, shared finances, or building a life that cannot easily be untangled. Compatibility is not…
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I Really Thought They Would Choose Me. But I Was Lying to Myself Too.
Why did it feel so real if they were never really choosing you? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about the kind of relationship that can leave you more confused than an actual breakup. Because sometimes there was never a clean beginning. And because of that, there was never a...
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Can I Trust Him, or Is He Lying, Hiding Something, or Seeing Someone Else?
Can you trust him? Or is he lying, hiding something, or seeing someone else? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most painful questions women ask when something in a relationship no longer feels clear. Maybe his explanation does not make sense. Maybe his phone…
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Is He Emotionally Available, and Why Won’t He Communicate Openly With Me?
Is he emotionally available? And if he cares, why won’t he communicate openly? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most frustrating questions women ask when a man seems present in some ways but emotionally hard to reach in others. Emotional availability does not mean…
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Why Is He Pulling Away, Becoming Inconsistent, or Suddenly Not Communicating?
Why is he pulling away? Why is he becoming inconsistent? Why did the communication suddenly change? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most common and painful questions women ask when a man’s behaviour starts shifting. The answer is not found in one quiet day. Not…
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Does He Really Like Me or Love Me, and How Can I Tell?
Does he really like you? Does he love you? And how can you actually tell? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most common questions women ask when they are trying to understand a man’s feelings, intentions, and behaviour. The answer is not found in one expensive…
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Does He Actually Want a Relationship With Me, or Is He Just Keeping Things Casual?
Does he actually want a relationship with you, or is he just keeping things casual? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the biggest questions many women ask when dating a man who seems interested, but not always clear. The answer is not found in one impressive date. Not…
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When the Relationship Ends but the Access Doesn’t
What happens when a relationship ends, but access to the person does not? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the Jordan and Taylor scenario: two people who became emotionally or physically close because life kept placing them in the same environment, but when the…
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Do They Really Want to Be Alone, or Just Free From Reciprocity?
Do some people really want to be alone? Or do they want connection without obligation? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM gives a deep, direct, and uncomfortable breakdown of modern aloneness, controlled connection, and the way some people say they want peace, space, and independence...
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Should You Delete the Memories of Someone You Used to Love?
Should you delete the pictures, messages, videos, gifts, and little pieces of someone you used to love? Or should you keep them? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM reflects on the complicated emotional weight of old relationship memories, especially when the relationship is already…
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Always Keep Them Guessing: The Relational Prediction Reset
What happens when people think they know exactly how you are going to respond? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM introduces the idea of the Relational Prediction Reset, or RPR. This is not about manipulation. It is not about making people chase you. It is not about acting cold…
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The Most Boring Episode of You’re Probably Right
This might be the episode I should have erased.I sat down with ten introspective questions that were supposed to lead somewhere interesting. They didn’t. The questions weren’t great, my answers weren’t much better, and somewhere along the way I realized I was recording an episode that probably…
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Why Am I So Afraid of Being Found Out?
What if social anxiety is not always about being afraid of people? What if it is about being afraid of what people might discover if they watch you closely enough? In Episode 367 of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about childhood bullying, social anxiety, learning struggles, performance…
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Why Do I Over Explain When I Feel Put on the Spot?
What if you are not bad at communicating, but sometimes have too many thoughts arriving at once? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM uses himself as the case study while exploring verbal processing, memory, social pressure, over explaining, and why some people communicate very…
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When Caring Becomes Carrying: Why I Wrote Care Without Carrying | Episode 365
t what point does caring about someone become carrying the entire relationship?In Episode 365 of You’re Probably Right, Michael Charles Murray explains why he wrote Care Without Carrying: How to Love Deeply Without Losing Yourself in an Unequal Relationship.This episode examines the difference...
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Your Best Wasn’t the Problem
What if your best was not the problem? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about rejection, effort, self-blame, and the painful realization that more love, more loyalty, more patience, or more hard work does not always change another person’s decision. This is not only about...
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Why Do I Stop Being Myself When I’m Afraid of Losing Someone?
Why do some people stop being themselves the moment they finally get something—or someone—they’re afraid to lose? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when fear quietly takes over and your life starts revolving around keeping, managing, protecting, or not losing a...
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They Like You… But Are They Safe to Love?
How do you know if someone is actually safe to love? Not just attractive. Not just exciting. Not just interested. Safe. One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is believing that because someone likes them, they must also be capable of loving them well. Those are not the same thing. In...
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Why Do I Keep Choosing Avoidant Partners?
Why do some people keep choosing dismissive avoidant partners, even after recognizing the same painful pattern?In this deeply personal episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM examines why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so irresistible in the beginning. The constant communication, rapid...
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What Do Average Men Really Want From Women? (What Women Keep Missing)
In Episode 358 of You're Probably Right, we continue one of the biggest conversations this podcast has ever started.Women have become comfortable telling men exactly what they want:A provider. A protector. A leader. A man with ambition. A man who earns well. A man who can build a future.But…
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Love by Committee: When Friends, Family, Exes and Social Media Control Your Relationship
How many people get a vote in your relationship? In Episode 359, MCM examines how friends, family, exes, coworkers, group chats and social media can influence private relationship decisions, damage trust and make reconciliation more difficult.This episode explores relationship interference,...
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20 Things That Trip You Up With Someone Who Doesn’t Love You
In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down 20 ways people get trapped in one sided relationships, situationships, and unhealthy emotional attachments.This is for the person who keeps giving, explaining, paying, forgiving, waiting, and trying to prove their worth to someone who…
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What Are You Really Looking For In A Life Partner?
Most people say they want love, but very few people have actually decided what they are looking for in a life partner.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down one of the most important questions in modern dating: how do you know whether someone is actually worth building a life with?This...
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You Knew It Was Wrong, So Why Did You Stay?
Sometimes the hardest truth is not that you were confused. It is that you knew something was wrong earlier than you wanted to admit.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down why people stay in relationships, jobs, friendships, family roles, and life situations long after the…
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Episode 354: Relationship Economics, How Good People Go Emotionally Bankrupt
Episode 354: Relationship Economics, How Good People Go Emotionally BankruptWhat if relationships had an economy?What if every conversation, every sacrifice, every act of patience, every thoughtful gift, every moment of intimacy, and every second chance was a deposit into an emotional bank...
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Episode 353: They Don't Want You Back, They Just Want Access
What happens when someone leaves the relationship, changes the relationship, or quietly downgrades the relationship, but still expects access to you afterward?Not commitment.Not accountability.Not reconciliation.Just access.In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an honest look at one...
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352: The Nice Guy Trap: Sacrifice Isn’t the Problem. Discernment Is.
Being a nice guy is not the problem. Sacrifice is not the problem. The problem is giving covenant-level commitment to someone who does not share covenant-level convictions. In this episode, MCM breaks down why many men feel used, unappreciated, and exhausted in relationships. Not because they…
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Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?
Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?Ghosting. Situationships. Breadcrumbing. Monkey barring. Orbiting. Ghostlighting.Modern dating seems to invent a new word every week, but what if all of these behaviours are really pointing to the same problem?In this episode, MCM explores a theory...
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Episode 350: Should I Take Them Back? 10 Questions Before You Let Them Return
What do you do when someone who hurt you tries to come back around?This episode is not about marriage. Marriage is a different covenant, a different commitment, and a different agreement before God. This conversation is about dating, talking, situationships, and relationships that never reached...
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What Does the Average Man Really Want From a Woman? | Let Me Say It for Him: The Big Five
In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly:What does the average man really want from a woman?Not the rich man. Not the celebrity. Not the womanizer. Not the man with endless options.The average working man.The regular man with…
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348. When the Small Letdown Finally Tells the Truth
I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect.This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to moments. The people who are not stupid, not weak…
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Episode 347: Why Didn’t I Know I Was Enough?
In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I reflect on what happens when you look back at an old version of yourself and realize you were not as worthless, hopeless, unattractive, or broken as you felt at the time.This is a personal rumination about weight loss, old Smule recordings, self...
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Episode 346 You’re Not Trying To Get Them Back. You’re Trying To Get Back To The Moment
In Episode 346 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the difference between missing a person and missing a moment.Sometimes you are not really trying to get them back. You are trying to get back to the one stretch of time where life felt rare, electric, and almost impossible. The look. The...
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Have You Actually Ever Really Been in Love? Love, Marriage, Attachment & Loneliness
real love, love or attachment, love or loneliness, love or lust, love or fear, emotional attachment, emotional dependence, marriage and love, Christian marriage, covenant marriage, relationship truth, fear of being alone, infatuation, desire versus love, timing in relationships, love and duty…
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The Man Behind the Myth | Episode 344
Episode 344 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is a spoken-word cultural reflection on what happens when Black men are desired, chosen, and pursued not as full human beings, but as myths.This episode goes into colour, culture, country of origin, body, voice, masculinity, sexuality, fantasy,...
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Respect Over Love = Love + Respect + Peace Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast
Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is not a soft conversation. It is not padded. It is not dressed up. I got right into it.This is a spoken-word style episode about why respect matters more than people think, why love without respect becomes dangerous, and why so many people stay in...
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Why Your Mind Replays Emotional Moments Like Movies | Episode 342
Episode 342 of You’re Probably Right Podcast asks why some emotional moments do not just fade. They replay. Not as ideas, but as scenes. A look. A sentence. A silence. A soft moment that felt real. A cold moment that wiped it away.In this episode, Mike breaks down why some minds keep reopening...
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A Match Made in Hell, Part 5: When Fruit Tells the Truth | Episode 341
Episode 341 of You’re Probably Right Podcast closes out the A Match Made in Hell series by asking the deeper question most people never get to: not just what happened, not just what label fits, but what fruit did the bond actually produce.This episode moves past the usual modern language of…
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A Match Made in Hell, Part 2: Why Vague People Keep You Stuck | Episode 340
Episode 340 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell series with a deep look at the vague, self-protective, selectively intimate person. This is the kind of person who can do warmth, chemistry, closeness, eye contact, private vulnerability, and emotional access in the...
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A Match made in hell Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered You Episode 339
A Match Made in Hell, Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered YouWhy do you still want one more moment with someone who already showed you where you stand?In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, we break down the painful psychology behind unclear...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative. This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only. Please be aware that some content may be emotionally triggering and of a sensitive nature. Therefore Listener discretion is advised.
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Murray Ed
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