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Happiness That Doesn't Have to Be Ours

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A Different Kind of Safety

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Dharmette: The Safety of Seeing Clearly

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Practice Notes: Gripping and Opening

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What Do We Really Want?

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Knowing the Edge of What We Know

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One Arrangement Becomes Another

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Keeping Practice Connected to What Matters

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Freer in Relationship to Emotions

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Dharmette: Deepening Practice (5/5): Letting Change Teach Us

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Guided Meditation: Letting Change Show Itself

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Dharmette: Deepening Practice (4/5): Our Part in Practice

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Guided Meditation: Gently Inclining the Mind

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Practice Notes: Before Responding

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Dharmette: Practicing Patience

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Dharmette: Deepening Practice (3/5); Conversations that Open the Heart

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Guided Meditation: Becoming Receptive

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Guided Meditation: Feeling Supported

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Dharmette: Deepening Practice (2 of 5): Living Life with Care

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Guided Meditation: Touching the Wish to Not Harm

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Dharmette: Deepening Practice (1 of 5): Spiritual Friendship

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The Doorways We May Not Notice

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Pushing the Rock Up the Hill?

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Knowing Knowing

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Mindfulness as Coming Alive to Life

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Frameworks for Understanding Experience

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When Measuring Becomes Me-ing

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Dharmette: When Life Doesn't Obey Us (5/5): Other People Are Not Ours to Control

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Guided Meditation: We Cannot Make Their Choices for Them

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Dharmette: When Life Does Not Obey Us (4/5): The Moment is Always Moving

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Guided Meditation: Meeting the Moment That is Already Here

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Dharmette: When Life Does Not Obey Us (3/5): Thoughts Think Themselves

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Guided Meditation: Noticing Thoughts Arise

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Dharmette: When Life Does Not Obey Us (2/5): Caring For What We Cannot Control

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Guided Meditation: Meeting the Body with Care

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Listening for What's Beneath the Suffering

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Dharmette: When Life Does not Obey Us (1/5); Comfort Comes and Goes

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Guided Meditation: Being With the Coming and Going of Comfort

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Dharmette: Listening to this Moment

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Practice Notes: Mindfulness as Less Managing, More Listening

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Supports for Practice: Aspiration, Trust, Courage

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Impermanence and Uncertainty

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Being a Refuge for Others

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Mindfulness of Emotions using the RAFT tool

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Mindfulness of Breathing & walking instructions

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Disenchantment

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Dharmette: Creating Conditions for Peace

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Practice Notes: Simply Becoming Available

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Control and Surrender

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From Judgment to Discernment

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Simplicity

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Freedom as We Return

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Mindfulness of Breathing: Refuge and Insight

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Being a Refuge for Others

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Seeing Clearly

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Taking Refuge in the Present Moment

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Curiosity

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Crossing the Flood: Not Hurrying and Not Tarrying

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Non-Divisive Speech

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Dharmette: Perfectionism and the Cost of Fragmentation

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Practice Note: Noticing the Sorting

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Mind Training in the Noble Eightfold Path

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Ways Divisiveness Can Arise: Triangulation and Gossip

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Sila (ethics): Stopping More Suffering

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Right View and Right Intention: The Lens and the Lean

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The Eightfold Path: Releasing from Greed, Aversion and Delusion

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From "This Again?" to "Let's See:" Aversion and Curiosity

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Not Fighting Not-Knowing

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Not Fighting with Not Knowing

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Ending Well

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Guided Meditation: Noticing the Changing Nature of Experience

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Dharmette: Tightening and Opening as Signposts

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Practice Note: The Subtle Art of Not Trying So Hard

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The Freedom in an Ordinary Moment

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Walking in the Wilderness: Working with Doubt

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Fear at the Door: Inviting the Heart to Join

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Energy and Effort: Supporting Our Practice

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Guided Meditation: Gently Attuning to Your Energy

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Dharmette: Beginner's Mind as Wonder

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Practice Notes: Seeing Things Freshly

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Trusting the Stillness

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Making Friends with What's Here

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Guided Meditation: Sensations Over Stories

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From Clinging to Clarity

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Aiming the Heart

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Guided Meditation: Listening for Aspiration

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What's In the Way Is the Way

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Dharmette: Practicing Off the Cushion, On Purpose (5/5): Listening

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Guided Meditation: Hearing and Listening

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Finding Your Way Forward

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Guided Meditation: Choosing What Fits

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Dharmette: Practicing Off the Cushion, On Purpose (4/5): Waiting Well

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Guided Meditation: Simple Patience

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Dharmette: Practicing Off the Cushion, On Purpose 3/5; Monotasking

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Guided Meditation: One Thing

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Dharmette; Practicing Off the Cushion, On Purpose (2/5): Embodying Transitions

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Guided Meditation: Being Embodied

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Dharmette: Practicing Off the Cushion, On Purpose (1/5): Curating Our Attention

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Guided Meditation: Letting Things Be

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Lean in Softly: Listening as Daily Practice