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Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda — 395 episodes

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Episode 367: Eyeing the Impossible (feat. Shannon Bream)

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Episode 366: Revival in Iran (feat. David Nasser)

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Episode 365: Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)

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Episode 364: The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)

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Episode 363: Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)

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Episode 362: How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)

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Episode 361: Can I be Friends with my Ex?

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Episode 360: Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)

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Episode 359: The Way We Date Isn’t Working

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Episode 358: Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)

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Episode 357: How to Be Yourself

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Episode 356: You Can Love the Bible! (feat. Amanda Bible Williams)

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Episode 355: What Happens When We Sing (feat. Shane & Shane)

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Episode 354: Can I Have Non-Christian Friends?

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Episode 353: The Pressure to Perform (feat. Josiah Queen)

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Episode 352: Sex by Design Part 2 (feat. Juli Slattery)

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Episode 351: Sex by Design Part 1 (feat. Juli Slattery)

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Episode 350: Is Sarcasm a Sin?

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Episode 349: The Proof for Christmas (feat. Lee Strobel)

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Episode 348: Seeing the Supernatural (feat. Lee Strobel)

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Episode 347: Sleep, Alcohol, Food, and Your Brain (feat. Dr. Amen)

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Episode 346: Am I Doing Enough for God?

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Episode 345: Creating Real Community

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Episode 344: Hearing and Obeying the Voice of God (feat. Jamie Winship)

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Episode 343: Who are you, really? (Feat. Jamie Winship)

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Episode 342: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?

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Episode 341: Should Christians Listen to Taylor Swift?

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Episode 340: In Sickness and in Health (Dating Thoughts from the Hospital)

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Episode 339: Dare to Be True (feat. Madi Prewett Troutt)

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Episode 338: JP Health Update

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Episode 337: How to Get Over Yourself

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Episode 336: I’ve Lost My Passion for Jesus

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Episode 335: The Roots of Revival (Feat. Tonya Prewett)

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Episode 334: Can Ambition Honor God? (Feat. Ruslan KD)

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Episode 333: Don’t Waste Your Waiting

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Episode 332: Christians and ChatGPT

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Episode 331: Over-Involved Parents

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Episode 330: A Fresh Move of God (feat. Christine and Nick Caine)

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Episode 329: Spiritual Boundaries in Dating?

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Episode 328: Charismatic or Crazy? (Feat. Matt Chandler)

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Episode 327: Should I Really Share THAT??

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Episode 326: You Have a Calling! (feat. John Bevere)

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Episode 325: When Fun Feels Forbidden

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Episode 324: Change is Possible (feat. Girls Gone Bible)

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Episode 323: Is Birth Control Biblical?

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Episode 322: Following Jesus in the NBA (feat. Jonathan Isaac)

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Episode 321: How Much Money Can I Keep? (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 320: How to Love Someone Identifying as LGBTQ (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 319: Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 318: Top Questions From Young Adults (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 317: Would Jesus Flip Tables Today? (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 316: Taking Care of Your Body (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 315: The Fight for Marriage (feat. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons)

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Episode 314: Experiencing Jesus (feat. John Eldredge)

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Episode 313: I Want their Approval!

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Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?

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Episode 311: Have I Missed God’s calling?

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Episode 310: Are Catholics Christians?

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Episode 309: Does God Always Hear My Prayers?

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Episode 308: Contrary Convictions

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Episode 307: How To Be a Better Friend

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Episode 306: The Benefit of Doubt (feat. Craig Groeschel)

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Episode 305: The Greatest Threat to Your Faith

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Episode 304: How Dating Has Changed (feat. Ben Stuart)

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Episode 303: Spiritual Warfare

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Episode 302: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

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Episode 301: Afraid of the Future?

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Episode 300: Had Sex. Now What?

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Episode 299: Am I Called to anything?

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Episode 298: Where Are The Godly Girls?

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Episode 297: The Reason for Fasting

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Episode 296: Trauma, Same-Sex Attraction, and Mental Health (feat. Brenna Blain) Part 2

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Episode 295: Trauma, Same-Sex Attraction, and Mental Health (feat. Brenna Blain) Part 1

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Episode 294: I’ve Got Good News!

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Episode 293: Jesus in Hollywood (feat. Dallas Jenkins)

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Episode 292: The End is Near?!

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Episode 291: This One Is About You! (feat. Chad Veach)

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Episode 290: Why Trust The Bible?

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Episode 289: Conspiracies and Candidates (feat. Jason Woodruff)

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Episode 288: Living on Mission (feat. Brad Johnson)

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Episode 287: Hearing and Following God (feat. Tim Ross)

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Episode 286: Intrusive Thoughts

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Episode 285: When a Friend is in Sin

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Episode 284: Jealousy

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Episode 283: Where are the Godly Guys?

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Episode 282: Exorcisms, Curses, Demons, and the Devil (feat. Ryan Bethea)

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Episode 281: Debt, Degrees & Ditching the Victim Vibe

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Episode 280: Staying Humble (feat. Forrest Frank)

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Episode 279: Modesty

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Episode 278: Did Jesus Come to Bring Division?

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Episode 277: Cultural Q&A with JP

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Episode 276: Keep Your Commitments

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Episode 275: A Fully Leveraged Life

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Episode 274: Curiosity vs Doubt

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Episode 273: Ready for Revival

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Episode 272: Anxious About The Future

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Episode 271: How To Know if They're “The One”

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Episode 270: Forming Healthy Habits

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Episode 269: Sharing The Gospel (feat. Willie Robertson)

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Episode 268: Hearing God’s Voice

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Episode 267: God’s Design For Sex

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Episode 266: Honoring Your Parents as Adults (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 265: Pretending to be Christian (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 264: Live Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 263: Unrealistic Expectations for Marriage (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 262: Radical Hospitality

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Episode 261: Is Gambling a Sin?

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Episode 260: The Evidence For Jesus

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Episode 259: Consequences of a Porn Addiction

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Episode 258: Mean What You Say (But Don’t Say Things in a Mean Way!)

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Episode 257: Speaking in Tongues

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Episode 256: Should Women Be Pastors?

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Episode 255: Demonic Donuts and Satanic Spirits

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Episode 254: Make Better Decisions (feat. Craig Groeschel)

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Episode 253: Untangle Your Emotions (feat. Jennie Allen)

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Episode 252: Q&A with JP

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Episode 251: The Lie of “One Last Time”

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Episode 250: Revival?

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Episode 249: Living With Jesus (feat. John Mark Comer)

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Episode 248: Dealing with Loss (feat. Granger Smith)

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Episode 247: How to Actually Keep Your Resolutions

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Episode 246: Home for Christmas

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Episode 245: Legalism

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Episode 244: Dating (feat. Kait Warman and JJ Tomlin)

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Episode 243: How to Handle Suffering

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Episode 242: Dangerous Jesus and Race (feat. KB)

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Episode 241: I Ate Too Much

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Episode 240: How To Impress Your Boss

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Episode 239: Is Jesus Coming Back Soon?

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Episode 238: How We Approach God (feat. John Bevere)

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Episode 237: What Makes Sex Great?

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Episode 236: Praying With and For Your Future Spouse (feat. Scott Kedersha)

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Episode 235: How To Be Rich (feat. John Rinehart)

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Episode 234: You’re Not Alone (feat. Lisa Whittle)

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Episode 233: What's Up With Baptism?

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Episode 232: The Love Everybody Wants

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Episode 231: Angels and Demons

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Episode 230: Is Conflict Good or Bad?

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Episode 229: Talking About "Gray Areas" (feat. Mike Donehey)

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Episode 228: Why Don't You Pray? (feat. Addison Bevere)

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Episode 227: The Gift of Singleness (feat. Tara-Leigh Cobble)

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Episode 226: What Makes You Love God More? (feat. Tara-Leigh Cobble)

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Episode 225: Should I Want To Have Kids? And How Many?

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Episode 224: Compartmentalized Christians

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Episode 223: Should I Really Fear God?

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Episode 222: My Christian Friends Aren’t Acting Like Christians

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Episode 221: God Didn’t Answer My Prayer (feat. Albert Tate)

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Episode 220: Am I Too Flirty?

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Episode 219: Reset Your Mental Health (feat. Debra Fileta)

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Episode 218: Do I Have Salvation?

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Episode 217: How To Become a Better Leader

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Episode 216: Be a Good Hang (feat. Scott Brickell)

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Episode 215: What To Do When You Feel Alone (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 214: Things To Know Before Engagement + A Bonus! (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 213: Q&A with Jonathan Pokluda (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 212: Speaking The Truth In Love (from BeSo Live)

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Episode 211: Why The Church Matters (feat. Josh Howerton)

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Episode 210: Music and Mental Health (feat. Jennifer Hart)

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Episode 209: A Life Well Lived (feat. Bob Goff)

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Episode 208: Should We Pray Together in Dating?

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Episode 207: My Significant Other’s Parents

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Episode 206: Celebrities for Jesus (feat. Katelyn Beaty)

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Episode 205: Why Do I Do What I Don't Want To Do?

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Episode 204: Inside The P*rn Industry and Freedom From It (feat. Joshua Broome)

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Episode 203: A Conversation With A Former P*rn Star (feat. Joshua Broome)

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Episode 202: Guard Your Heart

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Episode 201: Single and Ready to Mingle

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Episode 200: How To Be An Influencer

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Episode 199: How To Human (feat. Carlos Whittaker)

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Episode 198: Alcohol

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Episode 197: Simplify Your New Year

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Episode 196: Are they Christian enough to date?

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Episode 195: Resolved to be Holy

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Episode 194: The Benefit of Confession

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Episode 193: Religion and Family

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Episode 192: Secular Work (feat. Jordan Raynor)

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Episode 191: Politics and Family

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Episode 190: Money and Family

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Episode 189: Is Self-Care Satanic?

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Episode 188: Sex and Dating (feat. Tovares Grey)

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Episode 187: Navigating Charged Topics

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Episode 186: Healing, Hurts, and Trauma (feat. Toni Collier)

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Episode 185: How to Find Biblical Community

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Episode 184: There Are No Rules in Dating

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Episode 183: How to Read the Bible

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Episode 182: Not Good Enough For God

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Episode 181: What You Need to Hear

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Episode 180: Your New Playlist (feat. Jon Acuff)

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Episode 179: The God Who Stays (feat. Matthew West)

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Episode 178: Why Abide?

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Episode 177: Why Commit?

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Episode 176: Forgive and Forget?

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Episode 175: Why Media Matters

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Episode 174: Life Isn't What I Expected

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Episode 173: Toxic Friendships

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Episode 172: Manifestation, Mediums, and Spiritual Things

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Episode 171: What If I’m Not Attracted to Them?

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Episode 170: Resilient (feat. John Eldredge)

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Episode 169: What Does It Mean to Fear God?

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Episode 168: Live Your Truth

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Episode 167: The Life We’re Looking For (feat. Andy Crouch)

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Episode 166: Is God Disappointed in Me?

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Episode 165: How to Hear from God

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Episode 164: How to Respond to Cheating

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Episode 163: From Mess to Ministry (feat. Scott Harrison)

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Episode 162: What is God like? (feat. Lisa Bevere)

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Episode 161: Generational Sin from BeSo Live

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Episode 160: Q&A from BeSo Live

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Episode 159: Contentment from BeSo Live

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Episode 158: How to talk to your s/o about your past

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Episode 157: Have I Committed the Unforgivable Sin?

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Episode 156: God of Creation (feat. Jordan Raynor)

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Episode 155: How Do You Feel About Your Job?

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Episode 154: Is Masturbation a Sin?

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Episode 153: We Disagree (So Let's Talk About It!)

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Episode 152: Perception Management

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Episode 151: How to Abide

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Episode 150: Finding your People (feat. Jennie Allen)

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Episode 149: Training for Divorce

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Episode 148: Are you too busy?

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Episode 147: Deconstructing Your Faith

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Episode 146: Christian Mathematics

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Episode 145: You're Being Brainwashed!

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Episode 144: How To Be An Influencer (feat. Kyle Idleman)

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Episode 143: Let's Talk About Sex

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Episode 142: Is Holiness Outdated? (feat. Jackie Hill Perry)

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Episode 141: Home For The Holidays (and I'm not looking forward to it!)

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Episode 140: I Need A Drink

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Episode 139: How Heaven Makes Your Life Better On Earth

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Episode 138: Red Flags For Girls

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Episode 137: Red Flags For Guys

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Episode 136: Who Am I Supposed To Be? (feat. Jamie Ivey)

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Episode 135: What Does Faith Look Like?

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Episode 134: How To Make Decisions

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Episode 133: Is God Even Listening? (feat. Derwin Gray)

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Episode 132: Why Is Dating So Hard? (feat. Lisa Anderson)

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Episode 131: I Want What They Have

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Episode 130: Anxiety (feat. David Marvin)

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Episode 129: Is the Bible Authoritative?

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Episode 128: Dating Q&A

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Episode 127: The Rise And Fall Of The Megachurch

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Episode 126: In My Feelings

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Episode 125: Cynicism In Christianity

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Episode 124: How To Make Disciples

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Episode 123: Lukewarm Faith

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Episode 122: What Should I Look For In a Church?

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Episode 121: What is Gaslighting?

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Episode 120: The Importance of Worship (feat. Shane and Shane)

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Episode 119: Why Professionalism Matters

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Episode 118: Wedding Planning

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Episode 117: How to Breakup (and can I get back together with my ex??)

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Episode 116: What Will Heaven Be Like?

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Episode 115: Battling Burnout

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Episode 114: Following Jesus In The Workplace (feat. John Houston)

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Episode 113: Is Following Jesus Fun?

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Episode 112: How To Share Your Faith (And Why You Should!)

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Episode 111: Why Pride Will Ruin Your Life

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Episode 110: Can Christians Struggle With Mental Health (feat. Debra Fileta)

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Episode 109: Honoring Your Parents As An Adult

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Episode 108: How To Give Biblical Counsel

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Episode 107: Who Goes To Heaven? (and how can I know if I will?)

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Episode 106: Should I Want To Have Kids?

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Episode 105: Cancel Culture

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Episode 104: How To Have Grit

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Episode 103: Food

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Episode 102: Thank You For Rejecting Me (feat. Kait Warman)

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Episode 101: Lies Young Adults Believe (feat. Paul Angone)

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Episode 100: Arranged Marriage??

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Episode 99: Secrets To Dating Better (aka The Best of Outdated)

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Episode 98: Online Dating

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Episode 97: How Do I Know When I'm Ready To Date?

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Episode 96: Finding Freedom From Sin (feat. John Elmore)

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Episode 95: Video Games

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Episode 94: Does Modesty Matter?

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Episode 93: I'm Single And I Don't Want To Be

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Episode 92: Materialism

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Episode 91: Goodbye 2020! (And our resolutions for 2021)

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Episode 90: Finding "The One"

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Episode 89: Spiritual Gifts

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Episode 88: How To Break A Soul Tie (and are they real?)

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Episode 87: Learning To Love The Bible (feat. Tara-Leigh Cobble)

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Episode 86: Long Distance Relationships

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Episode 85: Mental Health

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Episode 84: Insecurity

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Episode 83: Learning How To Pray

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Episode 82: Ken Costa Interview

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Episode 81: Who Should I Vote For?

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Episode 80: Can you be just friends with the opposite sex?

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Episode 79: Your Highest Aspiration

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Episode 78: Understanding the Holy Spirit

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Episode 77: In The World, But Not Of It (feat. Jeanine Amapola)

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Episode 76: Living With Loneliness

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Episode 75: Christians and Alcohol

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Episode 74: Pursuing Unity

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Episode 73: How Far Is Too Far?

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Episode 72: The Worldwide Search for Kathy's Replacement

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Episode 71: When Should We Breakup?

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Episode 70: How To Disagree

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Episode 69: The Enneagram and the Bible

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Episode 68: Grief as a Christian

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Episode 67: Stewardship Is A Lame Word

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Episode 66: Watch Your Words!

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Episode 65: Why You Don't Pray

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Episode 64: How To Live Authentically

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Episode 63: How To Memorize Scripture

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Episode 62: How To Not Gossip

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Costi Hinn (Episode 26)

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Episode 61: Church Post-Covid

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Episode 60: Technology Post-COVID

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Ben Higgins (Episode 25)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Bryan Carter (Episode 24)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Propaganda (Episode 23)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Brad Jones (Episode 22)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Michael Todd (Episode 21)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: The Chosen (Episode 20)

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Episode 059: Clayton King on Dating and Life Change

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Episode 058: Apathy with Micah Tyler

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Micah Tyler (Episode 19)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Jason Castro (Episode 18)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Tara-Leigh Cobble (Episode 17)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Sean Lowe (Episode 16)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Coach Scott Drew (Episode 15)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Jamie Ivey (Episode 14)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Tedashii (Episode 13)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Shane Barnard (Episode 12)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Adam Tarnow (Episode 11)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Clayton King (Episode 10)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Christian Huff (Episode 9)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Matt Chandler (Episode 8)

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Episode 057: How Has The Internet Changed Dating?

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Ben Stuart and Timothy Ateek (Episode 7)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Shane & Shane, Jefferson Bethke (Episode 6)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: David Marvin (Episode 5)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Annie F. Downs (Episode 4)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Preachers N Sneakers (Episode 3)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Jennie Allen (Episode 2)

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Quarantine Cold Calls: Todd Wagner (Episode 1)

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Episode 056: How To Change The World

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Episode 055: Stuck In Dating

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Episode 054: How Important Is Physical Attraction?

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Episode 053: Get Out Of Your Head!

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Episode 052: Becoming Courageous

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Episode 051: Overcoming Shame

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Episode 050: How To Find Your Purpose

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Episode 049: Money Management

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Episode 048: Simplify Your Life

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Episode 047: The Cynical Christian

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Episode 046: Are you a Christian?

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Episode 045: New Year, New You!

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Episode 044: Attitude of Gratitude

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Episode 043: How To Choose Joy

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Episode 042: Family Time

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Episode 041: How To Slow Down Your Life

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Episode 040.5: LIVE Q&A

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Episode 040: The Pokluda's Story

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Episode 039: Why Should I Read The Bible?

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Episode 038: Stuck In Sin

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Episode 037: Comparison

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Episode 036: Sex

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Episode 035: Dealing With Heartbreak

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Episode 034: Why Guys Don't Ask Girls Out

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Episode 033: The Person You Need To Date!!

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Episode 032: Self-Care

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Episode 031: Anxiety

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Episode 030: How to talk about Jesus with people who don't know Jesus

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Episode 029: Do I need a mentor?

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Episode 028: Developing Discipline

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Episode 027: Can Christians Party?

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Episode 026: Mistakes in Relationships

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Episode 025: How to Find Love

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Episode 024: Mailbag!!!

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Episode 023: Can Christians Cuss?

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Episode 022: What I Wish I Knew When I Was 22

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Episode 021: How To Succeed At Failure

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Episode 020: Dry Seasons

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Episode 019: Netflix or No Netflix?

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Episode 018: Church Problems

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Episode 017: Friendships

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Episode 016: Abortion

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Episode 015: People Pleasing

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Episode 014: All About Break-Ups

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Episode 013: Workplace Expectations

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Episode 012: Body Image

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Episode 011: Money

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Episode 010: Social Media

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Episode 009: Singleness

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Episode 008: How To Find God's Will

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Episode 007: What To Look For In A Girl

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Episode 006: What To Look For In A Guy

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Episode 005: Stressed Out

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Episode 004: JP Doesn't Do A "Quiet Time"

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Episode 003: How To Handle Conflict

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Episode 002: Finding Freedom From Porn

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Episode 001: Relationships Q&A

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Episode 000: Intro