All Episodes
Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda — 402 episodes
Episode 376: Modesty, Dating Standards & Motive | Live at Beso Live
Episode 375: Q&A with JP Part 2 | Live at Beso Live
Episode 374: Finding Hope in Suffering | feat. Kirby Kelly
Episode 373: Q&A with JP Part 1 | Live at Beso Live
Episode 372: Guarding Your Heart | Live at Beso Live
Episode 371: How to hear God’s voice | Live at Beso Live
Episode 370: Blessed are the Spiraling (feat. Levi Lusko)
Episode 367: Eyeing the Impossible (feat. Shannon Bream)
Episode 366: Revival in Iran (feat. David Nasser)
Episode 365: Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)
Episode 364: The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)
Episode 363: Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)
Episode 362: How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)
Episode 361: Can I be Friends with my Ex?
Episode 360: Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)
Episode 359: The Way We Date Isn’t Working
Episode 358: Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)
Episode 357: How to Be Yourself
Episode 356: You Can Love the Bible! (feat. Amanda Bible Williams)
Episode 355: What Happens When We Sing (feat. Shane & Shane)
Episode 354: Can I Have Non-Christian Friends?
Episode 353: The Pressure to Perform (feat. Josiah Queen)
Episode 352: Sex by Design Part 2 (feat. Juli Slattery)
Episode 351: Sex by Design Part 1 (feat. Juli Slattery)
Episode 350: Is Sarcasm a Sin?
Episode 349: The Proof for Christmas (feat. Lee Strobel)
Episode 348: Seeing the Supernatural (feat. Lee Strobel)
Episode 347: Sleep, Alcohol, Food, and Your Brain (feat. Dr. Amen)
Episode 346: Am I Doing Enough for God?
Episode 345: Creating Real Community
Episode 344: Hearing and Obeying the Voice of God (feat. Jamie Winship)
Episode 343: Who are you, really? (Feat. Jamie Winship)
Episode 342: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
Episode 341: Should Christians Listen to Taylor Swift?
Episode 340: In Sickness and in Health (Dating Thoughts from the Hospital)
Episode 339: Dare to Be True (feat. Madi Prewett Troutt)
Episode 338: JP Health Update
Episode 337: How to Get Over Yourself
Episode 336: I’ve Lost My Passion for Jesus
Episode 335: The Roots of Revival (Feat. Tonya Prewett)
Episode 334: Can Ambition Honor God? (Feat. Ruslan KD)
Episode 333: Don’t Waste Your Waiting
Episode 332: Christians and ChatGPT
Episode 331: Over-Involved Parents
Episode 330: A Fresh Move of God (feat. Christine and Nick Caine)
Episode 329: Spiritual Boundaries in Dating?
Episode 328: Charismatic or Crazy? (Feat. Matt Chandler)
Episode 327: Should I Really Share THAT??
Episode 326: You Have a Calling! (feat. John Bevere)
Episode 325: When Fun Feels Forbidden
Episode 324: Change is Possible (feat. Girls Gone Bible)
Episode 323: Is Birth Control Biblical?
Episode 322: Following Jesus in the NBA (feat. Jonathan Isaac)
Episode 321: How Much Money Can I Keep? (from BeSo Live)
Episode 320: How to Love Someone Identifying as LGBTQ (from BeSo Live)
Episode 319: Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)
Episode 318: Top Questions From Young Adults (from BeSo Live)
Episode 317: Would Jesus Flip Tables Today? (from BeSo Live)
Episode 316: Taking Care of Your Body (from BeSo Live)
Episode 315: The Fight for Marriage (feat. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons)
Episode 314: Experiencing Jesus (feat. John Eldredge)
Episode 313: I Want their Approval!
Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?
Episode 311: Have I Missed God’s calling?
Episode 310: Are Catholics Christians?
Episode 309: Does God Always Hear My Prayers?
Episode 308: Contrary Convictions
Episode 307: How To Be a Better Friend
Episode 306: The Benefit of Doubt (feat. Craig Groeschel)
Episode 305: The Greatest Threat to Your Faith
Episode 304: How Dating Has Changed (feat. Ben Stuart)
Episode 303: Spiritual Warfare
Episode 302: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?
Episode 301: Afraid of the Future?
Episode 300: Had Sex. Now What?
Episode 299: Am I Called to anything?
Episode 298: Where Are The Godly Girls?
Episode 297: The Reason for Fasting
Episode 296: Trauma, Same-Sex Attraction, and Mental Health (feat. Brenna Blain) Part 2
Episode 295: Trauma, Same-Sex Attraction, and Mental Health (feat. Brenna Blain) Part 1
Episode 294: I’ve Got Good News!
Episode 293: Jesus in Hollywood (feat. Dallas Jenkins)
Episode 292: The End is Near?!
Episode 291: This One Is About You! (feat. Chad Veach)
Episode 290: Why Trust The Bible?
Episode 289: Conspiracies and Candidates (feat. Jason Woodruff)
Episode 288: Living on Mission (feat. Brad Johnson)
Episode 287: Hearing and Following God (feat. Tim Ross)
Episode 286: Intrusive Thoughts
Episode 285: When a Friend is in Sin
Episode 284: Jealousy
Episode 283: Where are the Godly Guys?
Episode 282: Exorcisms, Curses, Demons, and the Devil (feat. Ryan Bethea)
Episode 281: Debt, Degrees & Ditching the Victim Vibe
Episode 280: Staying Humble (feat. Forrest Frank)
Episode 279: Modesty
Episode 278: Did Jesus Come to Bring Division?
Episode 277: Cultural Q&A with JP
Episode 276: Keep Your Commitments
Episode 275: A Fully Leveraged Life
Episode 274: Curiosity vs Doubt
Episode 273: Ready for Revival
Episode 272: Anxious About The Future
Episode 271: How To Know if They're “The One”
Episode 270: Forming Healthy Habits
Episode 269: Sharing The Gospel (feat. Willie Robertson)
Episode 268: Hearing God’s Voice
Episode 267: God’s Design For Sex
Episode 266: Honoring Your Parents as Adults (from BeSo Live)
Episode 265: Pretending to be Christian (from BeSo Live)
Episode 264: Live Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)
Episode 263: Unrealistic Expectations for Marriage (from BeSo Live)
Episode 262: Radical Hospitality
Episode 261: Is Gambling a Sin?
Episode 260: The Evidence For Jesus
Episode 259: Consequences of a Porn Addiction
Episode 258: Mean What You Say (But Don’t Say Things in a Mean Way!)
Episode 257: Speaking in Tongues
Episode 256: Should Women Be Pastors?
Episode 255: Demonic Donuts and Satanic Spirits
Episode 254: Make Better Decisions (feat. Craig Groeschel)
Episode 253: Untangle Your Emotions (feat. Jennie Allen)
Episode 252: Q&A with JP
Episode 251: The Lie of “One Last Time”
Episode 250: Revival?
Episode 249: Living With Jesus (feat. John Mark Comer)
Episode 248: Dealing with Loss (feat. Granger Smith)
Episode 247: How to Actually Keep Your Resolutions
Episode 246: Home for Christmas
Episode 245: Legalism
Episode 244: Dating (feat. Kait Warman and JJ Tomlin)
Episode 243: How to Handle Suffering
Episode 242: Dangerous Jesus and Race (feat. KB)
Episode 241: I Ate Too Much
Episode 240: How To Impress Your Boss
Episode 239: Is Jesus Coming Back Soon?
Episode 238: How We Approach God (feat. John Bevere)
Episode 237: What Makes Sex Great?
Episode 236: Praying With and For Your Future Spouse (feat. Scott Kedersha)
Episode 235: How To Be Rich (feat. John Rinehart)
Episode 234: You’re Not Alone (feat. Lisa Whittle)
Episode 233: What's Up With Baptism?
Episode 232: The Love Everybody Wants
Episode 231: Angels and Demons
Episode 230: Is Conflict Good or Bad?
Episode 229: Talking About "Gray Areas" (feat. Mike Donehey)
Episode 228: Why Don't You Pray? (feat. Addison Bevere)
Episode 227: The Gift of Singleness (feat. Tara-Leigh Cobble)
Episode 226: What Makes You Love God More? (feat. Tara-Leigh Cobble)
Episode 225: Should I Want To Have Kids? And How Many?
Episode 224: Compartmentalized Christians
Episode 223: Should I Really Fear God?
Episode 222: My Christian Friends Aren’t Acting Like Christians
Episode 221: God Didn’t Answer My Prayer (feat. Albert Tate)
Episode 220: Am I Too Flirty?
Episode 219: Reset Your Mental Health (feat. Debra Fileta)
Episode 218: Do I Have Salvation?
Episode 217: How To Become a Better Leader
Episode 216: Be a Good Hang (feat. Scott Brickell)
Episode 215: What To Do When You Feel Alone (from BeSo Live)
Episode 214: Things To Know Before Engagement + A Bonus! (from BeSo Live)
Episode 213: Q&A with Jonathan Pokluda (from BeSo Live)
Episode 212: Speaking The Truth In Love (from BeSo Live)
Episode 211: Why The Church Matters (feat. Josh Howerton)
Episode 210: Music and Mental Health (feat. Jennifer Hart)
Episode 209: A Life Well Lived (feat. Bob Goff)
Episode 208: Should We Pray Together in Dating?
Episode 207: My Significant Other’s Parents
Episode 206: Celebrities for Jesus (feat. Katelyn Beaty)
Episode 205: Why Do I Do What I Don't Want To Do?
Episode 204: Inside The P*rn Industry and Freedom From It (feat. Joshua Broome)
Episode 203: A Conversation With A Former P*rn Star (feat. Joshua Broome)
Episode 202: Guard Your Heart
Episode 201: Single and Ready to Mingle
Episode 200: How To Be An Influencer
Episode 199: How To Human (feat. Carlos Whittaker)
Episode 198: Alcohol
Episode 197: Simplify Your New Year
Episode 196: Are they Christian enough to date?
Episode 195: Resolved to be Holy
Episode 194: The Benefit of Confession
Episode 193: Religion and Family
Episode 192: Secular Work (feat. Jordan Raynor)
Episode 191: Politics and Family
Episode 190: Money and Family
Episode 189: Is Self-Care Satanic?
Episode 188: Sex and Dating (feat. Tovares Grey)
Episode 187: Navigating Charged Topics
Episode 186: Healing, Hurts, and Trauma (feat. Toni Collier)
Episode 185: How to Find Biblical Community
Episode 184: There Are No Rules in Dating
Episode 183: How to Read the Bible
Episode 182: Not Good Enough For God
Episode 181: What You Need to Hear
Episode 180: Your New Playlist (feat. Jon Acuff)
Episode 179: The God Who Stays (feat. Matthew West)
Episode 178: Why Abide?
Episode 177: Why Commit?
Episode 176: Forgive and Forget?
Episode 175: Why Media Matters
Episode 174: Life Isn't What I Expected
Episode 173: Toxic Friendships
Episode 172: Manifestation, Mediums, and Spiritual Things
Episode 171: What If I’m Not Attracted to Them?
Episode 170: Resilient (feat. John Eldredge)
Episode 169: What Does It Mean to Fear God?
Episode 168: Live Your Truth
Episode 167: The Life We’re Looking For (feat. Andy Crouch)
Episode 166: Is God Disappointed in Me?
Episode 165: How to Hear from God
Episode 164: How to Respond to Cheating
Episode 163: From Mess to Ministry (feat. Scott Harrison)
Episode 162: What is God like? (feat. Lisa Bevere)
Episode 161: Generational Sin from BeSo Live
Episode 160: Q&A from BeSo Live
Episode 159: Contentment from BeSo Live
Episode 158: How to talk to your s/o about your past
Episode 157: Have I Committed the Unforgivable Sin?
Episode 156: God of Creation (feat. Jordan Raynor)
Episode 155: How Do You Feel About Your Job?
Episode 154: Is Masturbation a Sin?
Episode 153: We Disagree (So Let's Talk About It!)
Episode 152: Perception Management
Episode 151: How to Abide
Episode 150: Finding your People (feat. Jennie Allen)
Episode 149: Training for Divorce
Episode 148: Are you too busy?
Episode 147: Deconstructing Your Faith
Episode 146: Christian Mathematics
Episode 145: You're Being Brainwashed!
Episode 144: How To Be An Influencer (feat. Kyle Idleman)
Episode 143: Let's Talk About Sex
Episode 142: Is Holiness Outdated? (feat. Jackie Hill Perry)
Episode 141: Home For The Holidays (and I'm not looking forward to it!)
Episode 140: I Need A Drink
Episode 139: How Heaven Makes Your Life Better On Earth
Episode 138: Red Flags For Girls
Episode 137: Red Flags For Guys
Episode 136: Who Am I Supposed To Be? (feat. Jamie Ivey)
Episode 135: What Does Faith Look Like?
Episode 134: How To Make Decisions
Episode 133: Is God Even Listening? (feat. Derwin Gray)
Episode 132: Why Is Dating So Hard? (feat. Lisa Anderson)
Episode 131: I Want What They Have
Episode 130: Anxiety (feat. David Marvin)
Episode 129: Is the Bible Authoritative?
Episode 128: Dating Q&A
Episode 127: The Rise And Fall Of The Megachurch
Episode 126: In My Feelings
Episode 125: Cynicism In Christianity
Episode 124: How To Make Disciples
Episode 123: Lukewarm Faith
Episode 122: What Should I Look For In a Church?
Episode 121: What is Gaslighting?
Episode 120: The Importance of Worship (feat. Shane and Shane)
Episode 119: Why Professionalism Matters
Episode 118: Wedding Planning
Episode 117: How to Breakup (and can I get back together with my ex??)
Episode 116: What Will Heaven Be Like?
Episode 115: Battling Burnout
Episode 114: Following Jesus In The Workplace (feat. John Houston)
Episode 113: Is Following Jesus Fun?
Episode 112: How To Share Your Faith (And Why You Should!)
Episode 111: Why Pride Will Ruin Your Life
Episode 110: Can Christians Struggle With Mental Health (feat. Debra Fileta)
Episode 109: Honoring Your Parents As An Adult
Episode 108: How To Give Biblical Counsel
Episode 107: Who Goes To Heaven? (and how can I know if I will?)
Episode 106: Should I Want To Have Kids?
Episode 105: Cancel Culture
Episode 104: How To Have Grit
Episode 103: Food
Episode 102: Thank You For Rejecting Me (feat. Kait Warman)
Episode 101: Lies Young Adults Believe (feat. Paul Angone)
Episode 100: Arranged Marriage??
Episode 99: Secrets To Dating Better (aka The Best of Outdated)
Episode 98: Online Dating
Episode 97: How Do I Know When I'm Ready To Date?
Episode 96: Finding Freedom From Sin (feat. John Elmore)
Episode 95: Video Games
Episode 94: Does Modesty Matter?
Episode 93: I'm Single And I Don't Want To Be
Episode 92: Materialism
Episode 91: Goodbye 2020! (And our resolutions for 2021)
Episode 90: Finding "The One"
Episode 89: Spiritual Gifts
Episode 88: How To Break A Soul Tie (and are they real?)
Episode 87: Learning To Love The Bible (feat. Tara-Leigh Cobble)
Episode 86: Long Distance Relationships
Episode 85: Mental Health
Episode 84: Insecurity
Episode 83: Learning How To Pray
Episode 82: Ken Costa Interview
Episode 81: Who Should I Vote For?
Episode 80: Can you be just friends with the opposite sex?
Episode 79: Your Highest Aspiration
Episode 78: Understanding the Holy Spirit
Episode 77: In The World, But Not Of It (feat. Jeanine Amapola)
Episode 76: Living With Loneliness
Episode 75: Christians and Alcohol
Episode 74: Pursuing Unity
Episode 73: How Far Is Too Far?
Episode 72: The Worldwide Search for Kathy's Replacement
Episode 71: When Should We Breakup?
Episode 70: How To Disagree
Episode 69: The Enneagram and the Bible
Episode 68: Grief as a Christian
Episode 67: Stewardship Is A Lame Word
Episode 66: Watch Your Words!
Episode 65: Why You Don't Pray
Episode 64: How To Live Authentically
Episode 63: How To Memorize Scripture
Episode 62: How To Not Gossip
Quarantine Cold Calls: Costi Hinn (Episode 26)
Episode 61: Church Post-Covid
Episode 60: Technology Post-COVID
Quarantine Cold Calls: Ben Higgins (Episode 25)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Bryan Carter (Episode 24)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Propaganda (Episode 23)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Brad Jones (Episode 22)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Michael Todd (Episode 21)
Quarantine Cold Calls: The Chosen (Episode 20)
Episode 059: Clayton King on Dating and Life Change
Episode 058: Apathy with Micah Tyler
Quarantine Cold Calls: Micah Tyler (Episode 19)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Jason Castro (Episode 18)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Tara-Leigh Cobble (Episode 17)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Sean Lowe (Episode 16)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Coach Scott Drew (Episode 15)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Jamie Ivey (Episode 14)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Tedashii (Episode 13)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Shane Barnard (Episode 12)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Adam Tarnow (Episode 11)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Clayton King (Episode 10)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Christian Huff (Episode 9)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Matt Chandler (Episode 8)
Episode 057: How Has The Internet Changed Dating?
Quarantine Cold Calls: Ben Stuart and Timothy Ateek (Episode 7)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Shane & Shane, Jefferson Bethke (Episode 6)
Quarantine Cold Calls: David Marvin (Episode 5)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Annie F. Downs (Episode 4)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Preachers N Sneakers (Episode 3)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Jennie Allen (Episode 2)
Quarantine Cold Calls: Todd Wagner (Episode 1)
Episode 056: How To Change The World
Episode 055: Stuck In Dating
Episode 054: How Important Is Physical Attraction?
Episode 053: Get Out Of Your Head!
Episode 052: Becoming Courageous
Episode 051: Overcoming Shame
Episode 050: How To Find Your Purpose
Episode 049: Money Management
Episode 048: Simplify Your Life
Episode 047: The Cynical Christian
Episode 046: Are you a Christian?
Episode 045: New Year, New You!
Episode 044: Attitude of Gratitude
Episode 043: How To Choose Joy
Episode 042: Family Time
Episode 041: How To Slow Down Your Life
Episode 040.5: LIVE Q&A
Episode 040: The Pokluda's Story
Episode 039: Why Should I Read The Bible?
Episode 038: Stuck In Sin
Episode 037: Comparison
Episode 036: Sex
Episode 035: Dealing With Heartbreak
Episode 034: Why Guys Don't Ask Girls Out
Episode 033: The Person You Need To Date!!
Episode 032: Self-Care
Episode 031: Anxiety
Episode 030: How to talk about Jesus with people who don't know Jesus
Episode 029: Do I need a mentor?
Episode 028: Developing Discipline
Episode 027: Can Christians Party?
Episode 026: Mistakes in Relationships
Episode 025: How to Find Love
Episode 024: Mailbag!!!
Episode 023: Can Christians Cuss?
Episode 022: What I Wish I Knew When I Was 22
Episode 021: How To Succeed At Failure
Episode 020: Dry Seasons
Episode 019: Netflix or No Netflix?
Episode 018: Church Problems
Episode 017: Friendships
Episode 016: Abortion
Episode 015: People Pleasing
Episode 014: All About Break-Ups
Episode 013: Workplace Expectations
Episode 012: Body Image
Episode 011: Money
Episode 010: Social Media
Episode 009: Singleness
Episode 008: How To Find God's Will
Episode 007: What To Look For In A Girl
Episode 006: What To Look For In A Guy
Episode 005: Stressed Out
Episode 004: JP Doesn't Do A "Quiet Time"
Episode 003: How To Handle Conflict
Episode 002: Finding Freedom From Porn
Episode 001: Relationships Q&A
Episode 000: Intro