All Episodes

Best Gabe Ever: A Stewardess In A Miniskirt with Elisawon Etidorhpa

Rerun 2026: The Cult of Wellness with Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, Internalized Homophobia and Having Kids While the World Is Burning

Best Gabe Ever: Cuck For The Lesbos with Elisawon Etidorhpa

Best Gabe Ever: The Straight Pride Flag Is Black and White with Catherine McCafferty

Best Gabe Ever: Give 7 Million Dollars To A Lesbian with Catherine McCafferty

Best Gabe Ever: Backrooms 2: Scientology Speedrun with Griffin Kelly

Best Gabe Ever: The Patreon Is Gonna Love This! with Griffin Kelly

Best Gabe Ever: Ride Or Di-arrhea with Josh Gondelman

Best Gabe Ever: Small Town TMZ with Chelsey Weber-Smith

Best Gabe Ever: The Nonbinary Catholic Saint with Chelsey Weber-Smith

Best Gabe Ever: You Kill, We Decide with Eliot Glazer

Best Gabe Ever: BuzzFeed Secrets and “Me! Magazine” with Eliot Glazer

Best Gabe Ever: Cheaters Get Baked Potatoes with Ruha Taslimi

Best Gabe Ever: Put Yourself In A Straight Person’s Shoes with Ruha Taslimi

Best Gabe Ever: Talking To You Man-To-Man with Charlie James

Best Gabe Ever: Everyone's Mad Because I'm Kind Of Rich with Charlie James

A Thousand Natural Shocks: Good Queer News Does Happen! with Ben Greene

Best Gabe Ever: Beyoncé got Cerise Castle Fired

Best Gabe Ever: Straight To Hell, Do Not Pass Go with Cerise Castle

Best Gabe Ever: Gabe Welcomes John Blakeslee To Internet Hatred

Best Gabe Ever: Gabe and John Blakeslee Save The Economy

Best Gabe Ever: If I Could Sing I’d Be Unbearable with Drew Burnett Gregory

Best Gabe Ever: Gabe Washed A Baggie Of Cocaine In The Laundry with Drew Burnett Gregory

Best Gabe Ever: Some People Suck And Some People Are Poly

Best Gabe Ever: The Biggest F Slur In The Room with BJ Colangelo

Best Gabe Ever: The Biggest F Slur In The Room with BJ Colangelo

Best Gabe Ever: The Kaskaskian Fire Breathing Dragon with Myq Kaplan

Best Gabe Ever: Bridezilla vs. Birthdayzilla with Myq Kaplan

Best Gabe Ever: Gabe And Ashley Gavin Open A Laundromat

Best Gabe Ever: Gabe and Ashley Gavin's New Manosphere Podcast

Best Gabe Ever: Live Penguins at the VH1 Holiday Party

Best Gabe Ever: You’re Too Broke To Be So Sexist with Lauren Ashley Smith

Best Gabe Ever: “Gabe’s Wedding Dress Code That Didn’t Happen” with Ella and Amy

Best Gabe Ever: A Couple Of Cool Divorcees with Girlfriends Ella Mielniczenko and Amy Nicholson

The Final Episode: Thank You! We Love You!

TLDRI: This Is For My Pregnant Wife!!

OCD Therapy For Couples with Emma Kazarian, Too Old To Find Love, and Thank You Notes

TLDRI: The Pigs Won't Be There??

Softcore Trauma with Margeaux Feldman, Long Distance Transitioning Partner, and Winding Down The Podcast

TLDRI: Hemingway Had Tons Of Thumbs

DBT with Dr. Shireen Rizvi and Dr. Jesse Finkelstein, Falling Out With BFF's BF and Bottom Surgery

TLDRI: We Are Horndogs Together!

Male Suffering Under Patriarchy with Jacob Tobia, Age Is Just A Number, and Fibromyalgia

TLDRI: Our Sixth Grade Boyfriends Are Gay

Environmental Justice with Alleen Brown, Judging Weight Gain, and PR Relationships

TLDRI: Fellas, Is It Gay To Help Another Man With A Box?

Spiritual Jazz with Brandee Younger, A Partner’s Anxiety, and Sentimental Items

TLDRI: I Don’t Want To Be In The Vatican, I Want To Be In A Cave

Healing Attachment Wounds with Psychotherapist Jessica Baum, Worrying About Friend’s Marriage, and Brain Fog

TLDRI: It Has Been 18 Months Of Next Week

Fighting Trump with Michigan Secretary of State Jocelyn Benson, Healing While Getting Back Together, and Medicine

TLDRI: They Hit The Green Beat Too Much

Dolphins and Whales with Justin Gregg, The “Love Of My Life,” and Patriotism [MINISODE]

TLDRI: People Would Rather Go To Paris Than Therapy

Pelvic Floor Therapy with Dr. Sara Reardon, Internalized Misogyny and Facebook's Scandal - MINISODE

TLDRI: Middle Of The Day Yum Yum

Romantasy Books with Brigid Kemmerer, When Your Mom Dies, and Working With Your Spouse

TLDRI: “And We Were Gonna See Wicked Tonight?” *Sprinkle Sprinkle*

Working With Your Mom with Suzy Hopkins and Hallie Bateman, Relationship OCD, and Substack

TLDRI: I Have No Regard For The Law

Coaching Gay Men With Keegan Hirst, Reading Your Partner's Texts, and The First Trimester Of Pregnancy MINISODE

TLDRI: The Vibes Are Better On A Lunar Calendar

Virtual Communication with Andrew Brodsky, Jealousy Of Rich Friend, and Sliding Door Moments - MINISODE

TLDRI: So Your Boner Costs My Salary?

Nutritional Psychiatry with Dr. Drew Ramsey, Contacting Your Brother's Ex, and Our Best Practical Tips

TLDRI: I Wish You The Worst

First Heartbreak with Lisa A. Phillips, Resentment and Self-Promotion

TLDRI: They Could Have Been Pre-Recording It Like The Moon Landing

Bias with Anu Gupta, Obsessive Thoughts About Ex, Physical Pain - MINISODE

TLDRI: A Vodka Sandwich

Parenting Coaching with Marie Covington, Friends Canceling As “Boundaries,” and Springtime (Minisode)

TLDRI: I'm A Suburban Condo That Doesn't Have Any Windows

Horror And Genre Writing with Lucy Rose, Going No Contact With MAGA Family, and Learning New Skills

TLDRI: Annie Bided Her Time

Being A Death Doula with Suzanne O’Brien, Right Person Wrong Time, and Dogwhistles

TLDRI: You Gotta Clean Up Your Own Birth

Codependency and People Pleasing with Beatriz Victoria Albina, and Finding A New BFF

TLDRI: Hey Man, Light My Cheese On Fire!!

Indigenous Journalism with Charly Edsitty, Obsessively Googling A Stranger and Working Retail

TLDRI: We Could Have Solved A Murder But Instead It’s February

Modern Dating with The Dateable Podcast, Surface Level Friends, and Anxiety Triggers

TLDRI: The Appropriate Level of Ethylene Glycol is Zero

Motherhood and Non-Monogamy with Molly Roden Winter, The Aftermath Of Gabe's Attack, and The Masculinity Crisis

TLDRI: I Really Thought Birthday Bee Was Going To Take Off

REPLAY: OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!!

REPLAY: Moving In, Allison’s Mom and Weddings w/ Ruth Raskin

EMDR Therapy with Dr. Nicole Cain, Estranged From A Brother, and Liars

TLDRI: So She Finishes School And Commits To God

The Troubled Teen Industry with Meg Appelgate, Therapy-Resistant Siblings and Losing A Parent

TLDRI: You Blew Off Scarlett Johansson's Husband?!

Toxic Productivity with Israa Nasir, A Partner's Poor Mental Health, and Soap Operas

TLDRI: I Think About Those Brooms All The Time

Gender with Dr. Lee Airton, Lying About Being Open and Posting Strangers Online

TLDRI: Baby, Ghosts Are In The Ground

Parenting while Disabled with Jessica Slice, Should Everyone Be In Therapy, and Our Favorite Songs

TLDRI: Meatballs in a Styrofoam Cup

Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin, Saving A Friendship, and Allison's New Book

Too Long Did Read [It]: I Came To This Panda Express For Cole Slaw

Talking Episode: Things We Can Only Say Behind A Paywall

Too Long Did Read [It]: If It’s Sand I’m Gonna Lose It

Talking To Kids About Sexism with Jo-Ann Finkelstein, Dating Someone Closeted, and Swimming

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Roommate Has Been Swallowing Toothpaste For 18 Years

A Viral Cheating Scandal with Jayna Marie, Living Alone For Your Mental Health and On-Screen Chemistry

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Dad Was Hypnotized At A County Fair

Somatic Therapy with Karden Rabin, and Dominant Masculinity

Too Long Did Read [It]: Sex Cups Are For Night

REPLAY: Olympic Superstar Simone Biles, Toxic Beauty Standards with Jackie Johnson and When We Feel Beautiful

Grief with Cody Delistraty, Forgiving Problematic Celebs, and Nepo Babies

Too Long Did Read [It]: TLDRI: It Sucks That I'm Trying To Be Nice Person

Fame with Greg Behrendt, Expressing Feelings For Someone Whose Heart You Broke and Microfeminism [Minisode]

Too Long Did Read [It]: If I Have A Kid Then I'll Have Stuff To Do

Trans Vocal Training with Isabella Ferrari, Throuple Communication and Secret Divorce [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: I'm Going To Do My Drama Here

Relationships and Mental Health with Todd Baratz, Insufferable Friends, and What Counts As Art [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: What is More Important!? Your Job or Your Wife?

Marketing Sex Work with Reina Del Mundo, Partner With Low Social Battery, and Do Not Disturb Setting [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: My Nipples Are Precariously Attached To My Body

Sobriety with Bruce W. Brackett, Women's Intuition, and Nice v. Kind

Too Long, Did Read (It): The Boob Had To Be Big Enough To Cover The Hole

Supercommunicators with Charles Duhigg, Disclosing Psychosis, and Audiobooks

Too Long, Did Read [It]: I'm Not Convinced This Lady Has Cancer

Etymology with Adam Aleksic, Engagement Expectations, and Philanthropy [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Detective Woof Woof and Sergeant Bow Wow

Autism on Tiktok with Paige Layle, Religious Siblings, and Trad Wives [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: Likable Villain Is My Whole Deal

Keith Haring with Brad Gooch, Getting Your Spouse To Go To Therapy, and Celebrity Interviews

Too Long Did Read [It]: Just Holler At Me If You Need Any More Info My Hombre

OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!! [FULL EPISODE]

Special Announcement

Predicting Trends with Lilah Raptopoulos, Loving Yourself While Dating, and Sensory Sensitivity

Too Long, Did Read [It]: A Squat Corrupted Flesh Sphere

Attachment Styles with Thais Gibson, Career Compromises, and Excited Delirium [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read [It]: I've Made Up With Almost All Of My Enemies

Check Out Sex Ed with DB

Feet For Free??? A JBU Talking Episode! [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Cry Laughing Emoji, Cry Laughing Emoji

Polyamory with Dedeker Winston, How To Know If You're Moving On and the 2024 Elections [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Shards Of Your Soul Go To Hell And Have To Be Redeemed

Boarding School with Jen Bashian, Using Your Privilege and Reviews [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read [It]: After The Last UFO Incident, The Government Reads My Mail

Child Stardom with Danny Tamberelli, Cutting Out A Friend, and Romanticizing Your Life [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read [It]: Allison's Husband, WHO WE LIKE

Patient Centered Dementia Care with Katie and Jeffrey Norris, Relationship Compromises, and Book Recommendations [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: Stop Giving Advice To Murderers

Sex For Life with Myisha Battle, Not Having Friends and Millennials [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: It Sounds Deep, But It's Not Real

Art About Suicide with James III, Having Kids, and Modeling Behavior [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: Revenge Is Self-Care

The Baby Scoop Era with Sarah Reinhardt & Louise Browne, Wanting Different Things Than Your Crush, and Inside Jokes [MINISODE]

REPLAY: TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

REPLAY: K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gabe's Top Surgery

REPLAY: Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

Discovering Poetry with Maya Williams, Maintenance Therapy, and Working With Friends [MINISODE]

Too Long Did Read [It]: I'm A Buttercream Slut

Dog Physical Therapy with Tanya Plaoude, Triggering Your Partner, and Loyalty [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read (It): Have An Affair With HER Husband!

Just Between Us Trailer!

Curiosity with Scott Shigeoka, Wedding Speeches and The What About Me Effect [MINISODE]

Too Long, Did Read (It): They’re Withholding Words From Me Because I Refuse to Pay?

Around The World in 80 Days with Adrien Behn, Your Partner's Other Partner and Body Hair [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Can't Put Meat In An Unexpected Dessert

Eating Disorders with Shira Rosenbluth, Staying Friends With An Ex, and Beyonce [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): Maybe In The Future There Are No Rules

Mortuary Sciences with Kari Northey, Family Estrangement and Tough Love [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read It: She Remembered Swans Can Be Gay

Deep Sea Mining with James Hita, Does Love Conquer All and Allison's Colonoscopy [TEASER]

Too Long Did Read It: The Devil's Work Gets The Devil's Pay

Reading Our Auras with Steffi Hill, Accepting A New Future, and Rom Com Books

Too Long Did Read (It): It Is Chill Pill O'Clock!

Putting Your Kids on Social Media with Sarah Uncharted, Asking Someone’s Pronouns, and Slow Living [TEASER]

Too Long Did Read (It): I Was Trapped In My Own Backyard

Queer Dating Apps with Michael Kaye, An Unusual Poly Lie and Core Memories [TEASER]

Too Long Did Read (It): That Condom Is Lost To The Gods

Conversion Therapy with Simon Kent Fung, Embracing Singlehood and Our Turn Offs [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): You're Not Allowed To Experience Or Express Sadness

Intersex Advocacy with Alicia Roth Weigel, Going From Friends To Lovers, and Road Rage [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Were The Ocean And I Was The Sky

The History of Drag with Elyssa Maxx Goodman, Personality Disorder Stigma, and Glimmers [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): The Mazel Tov Slap

Anti-Racism with Dr. Roxy Manning, Getting Engaged Again, and Funniest IRL Moments [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Will Vomit If You Don't Approve It

Copaganda and Media Literacy with Alec Karakatsanis, When Your Dad Ruins Your Wedding, and Death [TEASER]

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Almost Drowned In A Wave Pool At A Waterpark Too!

ALLISON'S WEDDING! (And A Very Important Announcement!)

Too Long, Did Read (It): For Three Weeks In The Eighth Grade???

Guide Dogs with Katie McCoy, Telling Parents You Make Porn, and Ethical Wealth

Too Long, Did Read (It): Hey, This Person Killed My Mom

Ambition with Rainesford Stauffer, Incompatibility, and Parasocial Relationships

Too Long, Did Read (It): We've Been Sold A Kangaroo Lie

A Show About Abortion with Alison Leiby, How To Flirt, and People Pleasing

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Hope He Enjoyed My Life More Than I Did

Moral Panics with Chelsey Weber Smith, Disagreeing With A Friend, and Unions

Too Long, Did Read It: Do You Have Pinky Toes?

Climate Solutions with Molly Wood, Trying To Get Pregnant, and Alcohol

Too Long, Did Read (It): Widow Is Gender Neutral

Fantastic Fungi with Louie Schwartzberg, Friendship Closure and UFOs

Too Long, Did Read (It): I Guess Sissy's Growing Up

Stillbirth with Liz Glazer, Emotional Cheating and Risk

Too Long, Did Read (It): Jonah Hill Doesn't Think He Was Wrong

Black Culture with Sequoia Holmes, Not Loving Your Dad, and Surprises!

Too Long, Did Read (It): Three Pines Isn't On Any Maps

Non-binary Sports with Kae Ravichandran, Situationships, and Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder

Too Long, Did Read (It): To Put It Plainly, She Got Spat On By A Camel

Transphobia with Julia Serano, A Roommate with OCD, and Pride Month

Too Long, Did Read (It): It's A Good Lovemaking Song With Good Rhythm

Dating Show Diversity with 2 Black Girls 1 Rose, Disappointing Your Parents, and Medical Discrimination in Florida

Too Long Did Read (It): I Don't Have Any Emo Friends To Send This To

DOGS with Shannon Mioduszewski, When Your Partner's Friends Hate You and Guilt by Association

Too Long, Did Read (It): Whatever They Are, Here They Come Again

JBU Live - Gabe and Allison's Birthday! ANNOUNCEMENT

The Art Of Giving Advice with Meredith Goldstein, Losing People to QAnon, and Life Hacks

Too Long Did Read (It): I Think Men Might Be Bad

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

REPLAY: PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

Other People's Secrets with Kimi Culp, Female Friendships, and Senator Feinstein

Too Long Did Read (It): #BoyMoms Wanna Date Their Sons

Small Businesses With Steve Hall, Attachment Styles, and Anti-Semitism

TLDRI: I Don't Love It When It's Stinky Stinky

The Housing Crisis with Andreina Kniss, Trans Imposter Syndrome, and the WGA Writers Strike

TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem

A Secret Addiction with Laura Cathcart Robbins, Queerplatonic Partnership and Writing Workshops

Too Long Did Read (It): Scared And Confused About My Wife's Belly Button

Overcoming Sexual Shame with Zachary Zane, Weed As A Coping Mechanism and Allison’s Bachelorette

Too Long, Did Read (It): My Entire Life Doctors Have Wanted My Tonsils

The Fat Doctor with Dr. Asher Larmie, Relationship Baggage, and Fame

Too Long, Did Read (It): You Name It, We Shame It

"Revenge Porn" with Leah Juliett, Calling Someone In, and Avoidance Draft Episode for Apr 12, 2023

Too Long Did Read (It): Cocomelon Communist

Salary Transparency with Maya Lau, Friend Fights, and Memoirs

Too Long Did Read (It): Hey Baby, I Just Shit My Pants, Can I Get In Yours?

Suicide Awareness with Allison Herman, Recognizing Love and Vaginal "Health" Gummies

Too Long Did Read (It): I Left Shortly After She Started Crying

Intimate Partner Violence with Hayley Yocum, Writing For Pleasure and Small Business Ideas

Too Long, Did Read (It): You'll Never Dance On My Grave, You Evil Bitch

Male Friendship with Gabe Mollica, Compulsive Lying, and Material Possessions

Too Long, Did Read (It): Still Leaning Toward This Not Being Aliens

Making Movies with Producer Daniela Taplin Lundberg, Secret Relationships and ChatGPT

Too Long, Did Read (It): Surely Pinball of All Things Should Be Egalitarian

Gay and Gen Z Tiktok with Mak Ingemi, Dog Parenting, and Awards Shows

Too Long, Did Read (It): If You Kill A Stranger, You Can Get Away With It

Tabletop Role Playing Games with Eric Silver, Dating with ADHD and Expertise

Too Long, Did Read (It): If They Go Low, I'm Going To The Gutter

Compulsory Heterosexuality with Alayna Joy, Guilt Around Environmentalism and Boycotting Movies

Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her

Creating Apps with Tara Reed, When You're The Friend Who Plans Everything, and Gender Reveal Parties

The Future of TV with Ashley Ray, Weaponizing Therapy and Where We Grew Up

How To Have A "Good" Life with Dr. Marc Schulz, Gabe's Broken Engagement, and George Santos

The Ethics of True Crime with Yvette Gentile, Disclosing A Death By Suicide and Confrontation

Family Secrets with Carmen Rita Wong, When Your Ex Gets Engaged and 2023 Predictions

White QAnon Moms with Cristen Conger, Partner Won't Go Vegan, and Anti-Drag Legislation

REPLAY: The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

Midwifery and Conception with Liam Kali, Being There For A Young Relative and Compromise

K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gaby's Top Surgery

CATS (the animal) with Dr. Kristyn Vitale, Hating Your Mom, and Christmas Content

Broadway! with Robert Hartwell, Hating To Exercise, and the Overton Window

ALLISON'S ENGAGEMENT STORY! (And Some Other Stuff Too!)

Puppets! with David Bizzaro, Your Partner's Gender Identity, and Superstitions

Parenting Mentally Ill Children with Kelli Richardson Lawson, When You Care More Than Your Partner and Marital Hatred

Psychedelic Problems with Dr. Lily Kay Ross and Dave Nickels, Painful Sex, and Revenge

Defining Feminism with Florence Given, When To Buy A House With Your Partner And Incongruous Parts Of Our Personalities

The Future of Reality Dating Shows with Claire Fallon and Emma Gray, Asexual Coming Out, and Quiet Quitting

Buzzfeed and Mental Health with Ella Hart, Defining The Relationship, and The Fundamental Attribution Error

Combating Negative Thoughts with Dr. Monica Vermani, Can You Tell Your Coworker You Like Them, and Sick Burns

Queer Paradise with Mitra Kaboli, Having No Romantic Experience and Safe Injection Sites

SPIDERS with Catherine Scott, Gendered Wedding Dress Codes and Scandalous Dancing

Getting Unstuck with Britt Frank, When Your Friends Cheat and Niblings

The Mental Toll of Knee Surgery with Kaegan Hadley , Hating Your Friend's Partner and Celebrity Breakups

Friendship Coaching with Danielle Bayard Jackson, Sensory Problems, and Investigating A Former Head of State

Keeping Romance Alive with Kristen Meinzer & Jolenta Greenberg, Leaving A Stressful Job and Updating Our Language

Destroying the Path to Youth Incarceration with Armand King, Being Alone After A Break Up and Our Worst Takes

Bad Sex with Nona Willis Aronowitz, Being Uncomfortable Networking, and Gaby and Mal's Engagement Story

Finding The Funny In ADHD with Blaire Postman, Friends Who Won't Accept Help and Gifts

Unlocking Your Sexuality with Katie Roberts, Fighting Moral Scrupulosity OCD and Brittney Griner's Detainment

Sikh Wisdom with Dr. Simran Jeet Singh, Compulsively Checking Your Ex's Social Media, and Gaby's (Shocking!) Dating Life

Facial Difference Equality with Phyllida Swift, When Your Family Doesn't Want A Relationship, and Unintentional Harm

Queer Family Secrets with Gayla Turner, Wedding Drama, and the Jan 6th Hearings

Embracing The Bittersweet with Susan Cain, Saying Goodbye, and Liking Yourself

Getting A Late Autism Diagnosis with Demi Burnett, Being Wrong For Your Partner, and Feedback on Our Guests

Drag! with Monet X Change, Bipolar Bestie, and Allison's Vegetarianism

Good News with Upworthy's Alison Rosen, Not Feeling Heard and Gaby's Hatred of Comedy

Disinformation with Bridget Todd, Friend Crushes, and the Supreme Court

Jewish Identity with Ginna Green and Lynn Harris, Navigating Male Coworkers, and First Impressions

The Business of Medicine with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, Going Out Alone, and Villains Draft Episode for May 18, 2022

Benevolent Sexism with Celeste Headlee, Trusting Your Decisions, and Student Loans

THE FIRST OFFICIAL TALKING EPISODE THAT EVERYONE ASKED FOR

Disability Rights with Imani Barbarin, Uneven Sex Drives, and Sharing Your Opinion

The Importance of Reading with Glory Edim of Well-Read Black Girl, Dating Your Friend's Ex and Gaby's Gender Journey

Small Farming with Jake Hunt, Navigating a YouTube Addiction, and Allison's Book

Sex and Dating Over 50 with Laura Stassi, Having A Transphobic Mentor, and the Zeitgeist

Saving Yourself with Cameron Esposito, Letting Go of a Toxic Ex and Comfort Food

Whale Conservation with Jared Towers, Lack of Motivation, and Boredom (Part Two)

From Well-Read Black Girl: Min Jin Lee on Being a Student of bell hooks

LGBTQ+ Youth with Camp Brave Trails, Anti-Vax Partner, and Boredom Part 1

Fighting Fast Fashion with Ayesha Barenblat, Dating With A Disability and Changing Your Name

Burnout with Dr. Shelly Bhowmik, Your Partner's Financial Literacy and Surgery

Progressive Politics with City Council Candidates Hugo Soto-Martinez and Eunisses Hernandez, Your Partner Wanting to Break Up and Technology

Multi-Level Marketing with Anti-MLM Activist Roberta Blevins, Revealing Your Mental Health Symptoms to a Partner and Facing Your Fears

Sexological Bodywork with Dolly Josette, Falling For Broken People, and Moving

The Future of Veganism with Roanne Van Voorst, the Pressure of Societal Beauty Standards and Nostalgia

Writing Cult Classics with Kiwi Smith, Accepting Anxiety, and Celebrity Deaths

Resolving Twitter Beefs with YA Author Becky Albertalli, Crushing On Your Roommate, and Big Life Changes

Romance Novels with Jackie Kashian, Dating Again After A HORRIBLE Breakup, and Family Loyalty

Side Hustles with Daniella Flores, Suddenly Wanting Children, and Reboots

Reimagining Nutrition with Vanessa Rissetto, Getting A Pet When You're Afraid of Animals and Professionalism

Tattoos with Artist Brittny Abad, BF Hanging With Ex, and Democracy

Utopian Lifestyles with Avery Trufelman, Sibling-Parent Conflicts, and Love Songs

Lolita with Jamie Loftus, Friends At Different Life Stages, and Prevention

Teaching Our Youth with Joe Dombrowski, Changing Your Own Mind and Manifesting

Cannabis Advocacy with Ellen Scanlon, Defining Romance, and If We Were President

Mommying While Muslim with Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri, Different Arguing Styles and Changing Ourselves with a Magic Wand

Psychedelics and Mental Health with Researcher Matthew W. Johnson, Forgiveness in Sobriety, and Brand Deals

Living for Content with Connor Franta, Dating After Sexual Trauma, and Sibling Dynamics

Interviewing Skills with LBGTQ&A's Jeffrey Masters, Hating Your Friend's Awful Boyfriend and Our Comedic Voices

Abortions and Poltical Comedy with Lizz Winstead, Supporting Partner's Self-Criticism, and Oversharing

Cults with Dr. Steve Hassan, Determining "The One" and Family Traditions

Edgar Allan Poe with Catherine Baab-Muguira, Gaby's History With Polyamory and Traveling

"Dirty" Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter, Estranged Parents and Foster Pets

Delivery Apps Exposed with Ahmed Ali Akbar, Dating Your First Queer Hook Up, and Aging

Home Renovation with This Old House's Kevin O'Connor, Adjusting To Mental Stability and Compatibility

Harm Reduction with Monique Tula, Worrying Your Partner Is A "Bad Person," and Nudity

The Science of Change with Maya Shankar, Entitled Men, and Burnout

Criminal Injustice with Public Defender Olayemi Olurin, The Creative Process and Social Media and Celebrity Couples

New Things with Michelle Khare, Friend Avoidance, and Being Wrong About

Couples As Co-Workers with BenDeLaCreme and Gus Lanza, Making Therapy Effective, and Politicized Language

Migraine Headaches with Dr. Teshamae Monteith, Defining Love and Citizen Space Travel

#FREEBRITNEY with Babs Grey and Tess Barker, Cultural Differences and Active Listening

The Beauty Industry with Gabrielle Korn, The Other Woman And Going Off Your Meds

Artificial Intelligence with Ash Fontana and HYPOTHETICALS

Should You Lend Your Partner Money and If Therapy "Worked"

PRIDE LIVE PART TWO! Coming Out Advice with Lucy Dacus and Internalized Homophobia/Transphobia with Alexis Sanchez

PRIDE LIVE PART ONE! Trans Rights with ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio and THE GAY OFFS with Kalen Allen

Anti-Asian Racism with SuChin Pak and HYPOTHETICALS

How To Get Over Heartbreak And Forced Adult Friendships

Understanding ADHD with Jak Levine-Pritzker and HYPOTHETICALS

When To Say I Love You And Athletes Prioritizing Their Mental Health

When Your Partner Gets An HIV Diagnosis with Michele Dunn Baker

Converting To Judaism And Gaby Buying A House

MENTAL HEALTH 101: What Can You Do If You Can't Afford Therapy with Therapist Whitney Goodman (@sitwithwhit)

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Do Diagnoses Matter with Dr. Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle

MENTAL HEALTH 101: The Importance of Sleep with Dr. Courtney Bancroft

MENTAL HEALTH 101: People Of Color and Therapy with Melissa Moya-Brinkman (LPC)

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Bad Therapy with Therapists Caroline Wiita and Ben Fineman

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Finding The Right Therapist For You with LMFT Esther Boykin

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Medication with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin

MENTAL HEALTH 101: Trauma with Dr. Shaili Jain

All Things Autism with Amythest Schaber and HYPOTHETICALS

How To Tell If Your Relationship Concerns Are Valid and Vaccines

Sex Work, Kink, And Creativity with Bree Essrig

Should Gaby And Allison Get Married, OCD, and Behaviors Vs. Beliefs

Handwriting Analysis with Graphologist Elaine Charal and HYPOTHETICALS

The "Right" Response to Heartbreak and Trigger Warnings

Fertility Awareness and Natural Birth Control with Megan McNamara and HYPOTHETICALS

Dealing With Confrontation and Love At First Sight

Finance, Work, and Mental Health with Tony Verheyen and Hypotheticals

Handling Academic Rejection and Our Goals For The Future

The Intersection of Food and Mental Health with Cookbook Author Julia Turshen and HYPOTHETICALS

A Timeline of Achievement and Re-Entering Society

How To Be Sexually Fulfilled During a Pandemic with Planned Parenthood's Dr. Sarah Flowers and HYPOTHETICALS

Allison's Big Injury, Problematic Faves, and the Kindness of Strangers

Online Dating with Relationship Coach Damona Hoffman and HYPOTHETICALS

What To Do If You Don't Feel Comfortable Around Your Partner's Kid And Judgement

Destigmatizing Bats with Merlin Tuttle and HYPOTHETICALS

How To Compassionately Break Up With Someone And Our Best Advice

Education Reform with former teacher and activist Fatima Iqbal-Zubair and HYPOTHETICALS

Being Friends With A Friend's Ex And Narrative Therapy

Career Counseling with Brian Hutchison, How To Not Carry Your Old Baggage Into New Relationships and Happiness

How To Be An Ethical Slut With Janet Hardy, Different Forms of Therapy and Facts Vs. Opinions

LGBTQ Music History with Darryl W. Bullock, Balancing Work/Activism and Memory

The Myth of Laziness with Dr. Devon Price, How To Talk To Your Family About OCD Tendencies and Found Family

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