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rana abdelhamid on running for ny state assembly, muslims in government, ice raids, + more

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how to have fun and experiment in 2026

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rajid selim on building dost, the music business grind, and the rise of desi artists

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surprise, we're married!

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why zohran mamdani might be bad for nyc...

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almost cancelling our wedding, getting detained in spain, and more on where we've been

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working at google by day, olympics boxer by night w/ zinnat ferdous

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resentment, holding a grudge, and how to let things go

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the most diabolical lies our immigrant parents told us growing up

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family business = free babysitting + free labor

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choosing your own career and rejecting the immigrant parent life path

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nyc horror stories: living in the red light district, apartment break ins, and crazy neighbors

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why brown people romanticize codependence

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is brown aunty hate justified?

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dameer on actually representing bangladesh, global dj moments, modernizing bangla music

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the hidden cost of code-switching to fit in

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south asian propaganda we're not falling for | tanning, moving out, islamophobia

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nyc has a generational opportunity with zohran mamdani

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an honest talk on our wedding | finances, societal pressures, + do we invite our judgmental family?

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5 things we don't owe to our immigrant parents

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do we owe everything to our immigrant parents?

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surprise, we're engaged!

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how to escape the south asian competitive mindset

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toxic south asian traditions that we won't be teaching our kids

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how to deal with friend breakups | loneliness, self-blame, hope

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why do south asians compete with one another?: a breakdown

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reacting to your unfiltered south asian pet peeves

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success mindset shifts that the average person doesn't want you to know

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interracial relationships, how to stop bed rotting, post-grad jobs: an advice session

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6 red flags we had to unlearn to save our relationships

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toxic productivity + the hidden ways it manifests in your life

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these are our south asian hot takes...

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how to protect your peace in a toxic environment

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here are some things we hid from our south asian parents...

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escaping child marriage at 12 to graduating from harvard w/ aria mustary

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ending the cycle of self sabotaging + unlearning it as child of immigrants

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breaking down self-sabotaging for children of immigrants

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budgeting for beginners: tips to save more money

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a lot is happening in the pop culture world and here are our thoughts...

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how you can overcome seasonal depression + 7 tips to survive it

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job hunting for 16 months + tips to finally get one

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gaining respect as an adult - in the workplace, families, + friendships

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the parentified child of immigrants, explained

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getting real about our holiday season anxiety...

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how to stop fearing change and actually welcome it (for people in a rut)

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chemical engineer by day, world-touring bangladeshi comedian by night w/ shafi hossain

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how to control your anger and channel it into good

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why life is better when you're busy

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reacting to your controversial south asian pet peeves

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feeling unfulfilled in life, ungrateful siblings, + #1 tip for seniors: an advice session

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125 concerts in a year, the bangla edm wave, + manifesting your dream life w/ ARINI

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when brown traditions become toxic

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building a south asian bubble tea empire w/ shaheer khan, owner of pyo chai

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how quitting drinking has changed my life (and how you can do it too)

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maybe im the problem. (this is your sign to self reflect)

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exposing some gatekept confidence tips

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an honest conversation on poor eating habits as a south asian

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coachella's 1st bangladeshi artist + climbing the music industry w/ jai wolf

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reacting to your spicy relationship stories + friends who embarrass you in public

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scandinavian aesthetic, monet and jalen controversy, and why's everyone a dj??

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from nano engineer to bengali restaurateur w/ munzzy

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are you whitewashed for not speaking your native language perfectly?

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storytime of getting followed by a random man in nyc + safety tips

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have magnetic energy in 10 easy steps

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how expectations hinder you from growing as a south asian

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how to maintain friends, from someone that sucks at maintaining friends

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8 signs that you're settling in your relationship

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risks we took in our 20s that saved our lives

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really bad life advice you should never follow

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is it possible to balance everything in life?

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overthinking in relationships, challenging norms, + standing up to parents: an advice session

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productivity tips for neurodivergent people

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hot takes on the brown influencer world w/ shawtysin

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hostel realities, foreign tsa scares, and more solo travel stories

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hustle culture is more toxic than you think

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things we hated about our culture before we grew up

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is our generation too soft for the world?

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we traveled to bangladesh after 20 years! here's what shocked us 🇧🇩

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haggling and gifting culture for south asians

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how to stop taking criticism so personally

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simplifying the process of making female friends as an adult

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embarrassing high school stories that altered our brain chemistries

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taking that risk + fighting complacency in your 20s

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what we learned about money in our 20s

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relationship red flags that you're probably overlooking

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ins and outs for 2024: we are not going to feel guilty about rest this year!

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what's the american dream for POC's?

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why do brown people strive for white approval?

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the art of detachment + learning to love the journey

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routines that we can't live without in our 20s

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is discipline the thief of joy for south asians?

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south asians' problem with money + our toxic spending habits

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tryna figure out the rest of your life in your 20s

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mental health is still taboo + how we got help

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opening up bout our adhd + ocd

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what's it like being muslim post 9/11?

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where we've been + our first video episode!

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our 1st live event announcement + mashnun's moving to nyc!

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our hot takes on the barbie movie

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q+a! why we started the pod, pursuing the arts as a south asian, and special announcements!