All Episodes
Divorce University Online — 353 episodes
Top 5 Accusations in Child Custody Court
5 Ways Narcissists Manipulate Children
Can ChatGPT Solve Your Child Custody Issues?
Keys to Success with a GAL (Guardian Ad Litem)
Surviving Custody with a Narcissist
2 Types of Family Law Attorneys
#Coldplaygate
Destroying Your Ex Does Not Win Your Case
Core Foundations in Child Custody
Retaliation in Child Custody Court
Were You the One Doing Everything
What You Say V. How You Say It (In Court)
Trauma Bond with a Narcissist
5 Common Legal Traps with a Narcissist
Exposing the Narcissist's Abuse
Self Love is Key to Ending Toxic Relationships
Presenting Your Child Custody Case
Coercive Control by Narcissists
Narcissists Want a Rematch
Court-Ordered Custody Mediation Against a Narcissist
Narcissists Jumble Your Brain
When Life Gives You Lemons
Parenting Plan Blueprint
Navigating a Broken Court System
5 Types of Court Hearings in Child Custody
5 Strategies to Stay Centered with a Narcissist
5 Red Flags of a Narcissistic Co-Parent
3 Ways Narcissists Condition You
5 Common Ways Narcissistic Co-Parents Manipulate
Change of Circumstances in Child Custody
7 Strategies to Level Up Your Custody Game
Does it Help Your Case When the Other Parent Lies
Fighting a Corrupt Child Custody System
Child Custody Is Never Fair
Your Attorney's Agenda in Child Custody
The Power of Poise
Pacing When Communicating with a Narcissist
Should I or Shouldn't I
When the Narcissist Texts You: The Anxiety and Chaos Inside
My Ex Is the Problem
Legal Custody Disagreements
It Takes A Village
What Is Your Priority?
It's the Little Things
When Your Child Refuses To Go
How to Feel Certain in Child Custody
The Enormity of the Tedium
Determining What Is Important in Child Custody
The Narcissist is the Key
Custody is a Marathon, Not a Sprint
You Are In Charge of Your Child Custody Case
Trust the Process
Expectations vs Reality in Child Custody
Finding a Narcissist's Kryptonite
What You Say vs What You Do
The Power of Doing Nothing
Early Decisions Are the Most Impactful
Your Life is a Story
When Child Custody Feels Overwhelming
Creating Child Custody Magnets
It Won't Always Be This Way
Exchanging the Children
The Nature of the Narcissist
3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case
Change of Circumstances in Child Custody
Do Judges Understand Narcissism?
False Allegations In Child Custody
Overthinking In Child Custody
Narcissists vs. Empaths
Nesting in Child Custody
What Toddlers and Narcissists Have In Common
Why Narcissists Win In Court
Have I Screwed Up My Case
The Calm Before the Child Custody Storm
Breaking Toxic Patterns in Child Custody
Weathering the Seasons of Child Custody
Breaking Up With Narcissism
Does Grey Rocking a Narcissist Really Work?
Presenting Evidence in Child Custody Court
3 Tips for Success in Child Custody Court
What Is Your Biggest Failure?
Narcissists Never Change
Reducing Conflict With A Narcissist
Why Did You Choose A Narcissist?
When Your Narcissistic Ex Lies In Court
Understanding Discovery – Interrogatories, Subpoenas, Documents
An Attorney for the Child in Custody Cases
Defending Yourself Against Your Co-Parent
4 Tips for Negotiating With A Narcissist
Child Custody Trials
3 Ways to Get More Parenting Time
Your Co-Parenting Campaign Strategy
When You Resent Your Co-Parent
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is Exhausting
9 Rules of the Child Custody Game
You Can't Afford to Screw It Up
Is Your Co-Parenting Causing Stress For Your Child?
5 Secrets to Influence Your Judge
The Struggle is Real in Child Custody
Trapping the Narcissist in Child Custody
5 Mistakes that Will Hurt Your Child Custody Case
Anxiety and Stress in Child Custody
Getting the Upper Hand in Child Custody
What is a Child Custody Evaluation
Child Custody is a Mental Game
Perspective with Thomas' Ex Wife
Pulling Your Fat Out of the Fire
Grief Is A Process
A Love Story
The Tragic Ending
REPLAY: Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation?
Appeals
On a Scale of 1-10, How Jerky Is Your Ex?
Matching Your Attorney with Your Goals
Ex Parte/Emergency Child Custody Hearings: To File or Not to File
Mediation with a High Conflict Ex
Move Away and Relocation Requests in Child Custody
Killer Strategies for Custody Motions
Child Custody: Bonding vs. Discipline
Happiness: Your Moral Obligation to Your Children
Co-Parent Communication: Mom vs. Dad
Are You Addicted to Drama?
Are You Relying on Your Children for Your Happiness?
Make a Clean Break
Parallel Parenting with a High Conflict Ex
What to Say in Court
Creating Your Game Plan
Are You Waiting for Permission?
REPLAY: Out of the Mouth of Babes
Is Your Ex Stealing Your Happiness?
Is It Time to Change Course in Your Custody Case?
Understanding the Motion/Request for Order Process
Are You a Perfectionist in Your Child Custody Case?
Knowledge vs. Wisdom in Child Custody
Disciplining Your Child Won't Hurt Your Custody Case
Standing Your Ground in Child Custody Cases
Start Creating
Stop Imagining
Everybody Hates Me
Every Problem Has a Solution
Marital Hatred
The Divorce Storm
Men vs. Women
The Humbling Experience of Raising Children
Nothing Succeeds Like Success
Who Can Do It? Anyone
My Child Hates Me
Happiness Makes You a Better Parent
Your Hidden Power
Why Your Children MUST Be in Therapy
Best Interest of the Child
Listener Questions Answered
But…….I'm Right!
Seashells By The Seashore
Are You Chasing Sunk Costs?
Children Caught In The Middle
Law Of Attraction
Lighting Your Fire
Starving the Beast
Child Custody Fears
Child Support and Verbal Agreements
Your Divorce Song
Brevity Is Effective
Pointless Anger
Legal Strategy vs. Life Strategy
Destroying Your Ex
Child Custody Declarations: Biggest Errors
5 Easy Steps to a Win-Win
Don't Drink and Post!
Therefore What?
Thinking On Your Feet
FEAR NOT
Do Your Actions Match Your Word?
Why Isn't My Judge Listening?
How Can I Protect Myself?
When to Stop Fighting
No Means No
Jack of All Trades, Master of None
Starting Small
Don't Get Too Close to the Edge
What Is a Through Line?
New Beginnings
What Is A Forensic Expert?
What Is It Worth?
Biggest Divorce Mistakes
Top Ten Divorce Questions
One More Thing…………
Affairs – From Each Perspective
Are You Giving Away Your Power?
Be A Drama Destroyer
One is the Loneliest Number
Raising Self-Reliant Children After Divorce
Are You Seeking Closure?
Two Strategies for Winning
Understanding the Psychology of Divorce
How to Embrace Your Inner Awesomeness!
I've Been Served with a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Now What?
I'm Self-Represented. How Do I Prepare for a Court Hearing?
Are You Flexing Your Emotional Muscles?
How to Win in Mediation
Presenting Documents to Win in Child Custody Court
Perjury, Contempt & Enforcement
Think Like Your Judge to Win in Child Custody Court
Get Coached Up to Defend Your Domestic Violence Case
Be Positive in Child Custody Court
Who Is Responsible for You?
Is Divorce Worth the Wreckage?
When to Stop Negotiating
Parental Alienation
Swallowing Your Pride
Where Will You Be in 5 Years?
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Financial Security After Divorce
Co-Parenting Chaos
Self Focus vs. Ex Focus
It's Only Words
What Does the Court Want From You?
This Too Shall Pass
STEP FIVE: Don't Allow Other People to Knock You Off Track
STEP FOUR: Regularly Take a Progress Inventory
STEP THREE: Making the Big Things Your Priority
STEP TWO: Take the Bull by the Horns
STEP ONE: Dream Big!
Five Steps to Getting Off the Divorce Treadmill
Finding Your Inner Lawyer
Your Grief is Your Own
Do I Need a Lawyer or a Divorce Coach?
Your Emotions Are Your Biggest Enemy in 2021
Don't Let the Turkeys Get You Down in 2021
Helping Your Children with Transitions
Build Your Cocoon
Level Up Your Parenting
Don't Wish for Things to Be Easier
How to Solve Any Divorce Disagreement
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist!
Knowledge is Power!
Stories from the Battlefield!
What Do You Really Want?
Easing Kids Into a Parenting Schedule
Decision Making in Divorce
Managing Your Ex's View of Your World
High Conflict and the Dreaded Attribution
How to Stop the Argument that Never Ends
Should I Hire an Aggressive Attorney
Stop Being Afraid!
Stop the Madness!
Forging Your Alliance
Remembering Your Wedding Day
Leaving an Abusive Spouse
In Every Divorce, Your Ex Is Your Natural Ally
Collateral Damage
Parenting During Coronavirus
No Pain, No Gain
Can I Save This Marriage?
Using Humor to Help You Have Difficult Conversations
How to Get the Best Result in Divorce Mediation
When Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate?
7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty
Can This Marriage Be Saved?
Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation?
Difficult Conversations
It All Starts With Your Thoughts
Co-Parents! Written Communication Is Better
Is Litigation Killing You?
Do I Need A Divorce Coach?
The Right of First Refusal
Moving On From Divorce
My Kids Are Saying………
Verbal and Emotional Abuse
What's Love Got To Do With It?
Long Distance Parenting
I Want My Divorce to Be Done, So What's Taking So Long?
Become A Relationship Ninja
Overcoming Blaming Others
Holding On to Hope
Breaking Up Is Hard to Do
What Does A Good Marriage Even Look Like?
FEAR – False Evidence Appearing Real
Where Do Your Kids Want to Live, and Should You Care?
BONUS: Out of the Mouth of Babes
What Is Your Divorce Goal?
Do You Want to Win Your Case or Feel Heard?
Co-Parenting Teenagers
Are You In the Divorce Box or Riding the Wave?
To Date or Not To Date?
Digging Holes in the Sand
Are You a Co-Dependent?
Are You or Your Attorney Drinking from a Firehose?
What Is the Court's Agenda in a Divorce?
How to Defeat Loneliness.
Is Your Spouse Having a Midlife Crisis?
What Can We Learn From #Ellen about Kindness?
How Can I Protect My Kids?
Help! The Fighting Never Ends!
What Is Parallel Parenting?
What Do You Want On Your Tombstone?
My Ex Is A Liar!
So, You Think Your Ex Is Crazy?
Why Am I Losing My Custody Case?
Pride Goeth Before Destruction
Feelings – Yours, Mine, and Ours!
It's All About Control!
Vindication: The Heart of Post-Divorce Conflict
No Fault Divorce…….Really?
Cover Your……..Monkey's Butt!
Got Parental Alienation?
Why Won't the Pain Stop?!
DON'T Behave the Way You Feel!
REVENGE: We All Want It!
The Five Stages of Divorce Grief Recovery
Wisdom from on High – 5 Biblical Quotes to Live By After Divorce or Separation
One Powerful Idea to Revolutionize Your Co-Parenting Relationship
Do You Know the ONE Resource That Will Turn the Tables on Your Divorce?
How can you combat post-divorce grief?
How do you handle the religious training of children after divorce?
I Am Not a Victim
Understanding Attorney Retainers, Fees, and Billing
Divorce Court Process Flyover
What Are Your Divorce Superpowers?
The Number One Divorce Secret: It Will Be Better Tomorrow,
Four Weapons That Demolish Post-Separation Negativity
How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation
The Secret to Healthy Post-Divorce Relationships
Five Resolutions to Transform You After Divorce
Courts Can't Change Your Ex
The Shot Heard Round The World
Step-Parenting
Communication 201 - Examples of Effective Communication
Communication A Vital Co-Parenting Skill
Care and Feeding of Attorneys
How Much Does All Of This Really Cost?
Child Custody From The Child's Point of View
I'm Restrained from seeing My Children, How Can I Get My Kids Back?
Are Your Emotions Causing You to Lose Your Case?
Men Are Narcissist, Women Are Borderline
Help, my spouse is having an affair. What should I do?
THE TRICK TO BEING NICE WHEN YOU DON'T WANT TO.
Financial Issues Part 4 - Spousal Support
Financial Issues Part 3
Financial Issues Part 2
Thanksgiving - Family American Style
Preparing Financial Issues Part One
Motions Part Two - How to Write a Declaration Supporting Your Motion
Motions - How to Get Temporary Court Orders, Part One
The Emotional Aspects of the Divorce versus the Lawsuit
Avoiding The Battle
Don't Let your Ex Rent Space in Your Head
Will Divorce Mediation Work For Me?
Why Thinking About "Child Custody" Will Hurt Your Case
You Don't Know What You Don't Know
Use Your Head—Not Your Heart
The Key Is You
About Your Hosts - Thomas & Tammy Ferreira