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From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer — 317 episodes
Just Calm Down
It Wasn't About the Sex
"I Stopped. Why Isn't That Enough?"
Stop Listening to Everyone
You Know What to Do. Your Nervous System Doesn't.
Your Emotions Aren't the Problem
Why "I Don't Need Anyone" Isn't Healing - with Amie Woolsey
If It's Abuse, Can We Still Do This Work?
Same Conversation, Same Pain, Same Result
Working Harder is Making Things Worse
When Romance Feels Unsafe after Betrayal
When Relationship Work Makes Things Worse
Stop Asking if it's Working
Is it Fear or Actual Danger?
Can You Heal without Forgiving?
Is There Room for the Betrayer's Pain?
Using Recovery to Manipulate, Control, and Confuse
Does the Type of Betrayal Matter?
You Can Face What You Fear
A Holiday Message from Us
What Really Determines Whether Healing Moves Forward
Why You're Not Healing at the Same Speed
Shouldn't Love Be Enough?
Calming the Storm Together
"But It Only Happened Once..."
Protecting Your Relationship from an Emotional Affair
Telling the Truth Isn't Enough
The Truth Behind Overreacting in Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Trust Isn't Built How You Think
Are You Behind in Your Recovery?
Betrayal: Accountability vs. Expectations
Who Goes First in Recovery?
We're Stable, But Are We Actually Healing?
Why We're Pressing Pause (and What Comes Next)
When Men Are Betrayed: Breaking the Silence Around Male Betrayal Trauma
Building a Marriage Team
Sex Addiction: Is My Husband in Good Recovery?
Covert Abuse in Relationships
The Danger of Unhealed Betrayal
How to Heal Body Image After Betrayal
What About the Kids? How Betrayal Impacts Children and How to Support Them
A Non-Pathologizing Approach to Our Imperfections
Unmotivated or Unable? How to Tell the Difference
Why Some People Stay Stuck in Betrayal Trauma (And How to Move Forward)
What to Do When You're the Unmotivated Partner
Caring for Children While Healing from Betrayal
What to Do When Your Partner Lacks Motivation
The Impact of Agency on Mental Health - with Brianna Holmes - Episode 284
Can I Learn to Connect? - Episode 283
5 Key Things Couples Who Heal from Betrayal Do Differently - Episode 282
Bonus Episode - Guest Episode on KayLee Dunn's "Navigating Betrayal" Podcast
Four Hidden Fears in Trusting Again - Episode 281
Overcoming Hidden Barriers to Healing After Betrayal - Episode 280
How Long Does it Take to Heal from Betrayal? - Episode 279
Accidental Missteps that Hurt Betrayed Couples (and how to fix them) - Episode 278
Teaching Consent to Children - with Rachel Brian - Episode 277
Lessons from Great Listeners (Part 2) - Episode 276
When the Unfaithful is Also Betrayed - with Sam - Episode 275
Lessons from Great Listeners (Part 1) - Episode 274
What Does It Mean to Be Yourself? - Episode 272
A More Compassionate Approach to Addiction - with Dr. Carrie Wilkens - Episode 271
Stonewalling Your Partner - Episode 270
What I Have Learned as the Daughter of a Recovering Sex Addict - with Tara McCausland - Episode 269
What I've Learned and Unlearned in 25 Years as a Therapist - Episode 268
Staying Out of Victimhood - Episode 267
Honesty, Trust, and Reactivity - with Dr. Jason Whiting - Episode 266
Building a Protective Partnership - Episode 265
The Impact of Betrayal on a Partner's Identity - with Dr. Heidi Hastings - Episode 264
Self Advocacy (Part 2) - Episode 263
Healing from Patterns of Sexual Betrayal in Christ’s Light - with Jeni Brockbank - Episode 262
Self Advocacy (Part 1) - Episode 261
Power Dynamics in Relationships - with Bonnie Young - Episode 260
Being Honest with Yourself Can Change Your Relationship - Episode 259
Living with Unmet Expectations - Episode 258
A Deeper Look at Forgiveness and Apologies - with Lisa Stoddard-Reeves - Episode 257
Demystifying the Polygraph Test - with Jared Rockwood - Episode 256
Support vs. Enabling - Episode 255
When Betrayal Threatens Your Goodness - Episode 254
"I Meant Well...and Other Words That Kill Relationships" - with Heather Linchenko - Episode 253
Sweeping Your Side of the Street - Episode 252
"Sex Educated" - with Bonnie Young - Episode 251
How Loved Ones Can Offer Support - Episode 250
Should I Stay Or Go? - with Amie Woolsey - Episode 249
Can Safety Needs Go Too Far? - Episode 248
An Affair, a Murder, and a Divorce - with Ashlee Boyson - Episode 247
Building a Life After Divorce - Episode 246
Unintentionally Hurting Your Partner - Episode 245
Disarming Coercive Behaviors - Episode 244
The Challenge of Rebuilding Trust - With Brannon Patrick - Episode 243
Inpatient vs. Outpatient Treatment - Episode 242
A Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Betrayed Partner - Episode 241
A Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Recovering Partner - Episode 240
"No More Mr. Nice Guy" - with Dr. Robert Glover - Episode 239
The Lure of the Victim Mindset
Resilience in the Aftermath of Betrayal - with KayLee Dunn - Episode 238
Narcissism or Emotional Immaturity? - with Tony Overbay - Episode 237
The Importance of Men's Work - with Kurt Francom - Episode 236
The Four Levels of Communication - with Nathaniel Gustafson - Episode 235
Transactional vs. Transformational Relationship Dynamics - with Julia Witt - Episode 234
Taking Ownership of Our Stories - with Jason Portnoy - Episode 233
Worthiness vs. Trust - Episode 232
Healing Rituals in Marriage - with Amanda Christensen, LMFT - Episode 231
Loving at a Distance While Keeping the Flame Alive - with KayLee Dunn - Episode 230
Affair-Proofing Your Relationship - with Shannon Brown, LMFT - Episode 229
A Broader Look at Spiritual Intimacy - Episode 228
A Broader Look at Intellectual Intimacy - Episode 227
A Broader Look at Emotional Intimacy - Episode 226
A Broader Look at Physical Intimacy - Episode 225
When the Betrayed Become Abusive - Episode 224
The History of Addiction - with Dr. Carl Erik Fisher - Episode 223
Understanding Men, Lust, and Marriage - Episode 222
Authenticity in Recovery - Episode 221
Healthy Emotional Regulation - Episode 220
Why Do I Feel Worse When We Get Closer? - Episode 219
Holding Space - with Heather Plett - Episode 218
The Difference Between a Passive or Proactive Recovery - Episode 217
The Nuances of Forgiveness and Trust in Relationships - Episode 216
Is Anger Necessary for Recovery? - Episode 215
The Importance of Honesty and Transparency in Recovery - with Sathiya Sam - Episode 214
What's Hijacking So Many Beautiful Relationships? - with Dr. Jacob Hess - Episode 213
Can You Be in Recovery and Not Sober? - Episode 212
What If You Can't Accept an Apology? - Episode 211
Improving Your Apologies - Episode 210
Four Phases of Healing After Sexual Betrayal - with Tammy Gustafson - Episode 209
A Better Way to Approach Sexual Brokenness in Our Churches - Episode 208
Relearning Touch After Betrayal (Part 2) - with Wendy Maltz - Episode 207
Relearning Touch After Betrayal - with Wendy Maltz (Part 1) - Episode 206
Sitting with Discomfort - Episode 205
The Power of No - Episode 204
In Search of Heroic Masculinity - Ben Pacini - Episode 203
4 Ways the Betrayed Can Improve Their Healing - Episode 202
4 Ways the Betrayer Can Improve Their Recovery - Episode 201
Is My Partner an Addict or Just Being a Jerk? - Episode 200
Shame vs. Regret - Episode 199
Malicious Compliance - Episode 198
Decreasing Chaos in Recovery - Episode 197
Balancing Positivity and Negativity - Episode 196
Drama Bonding - Episode 195
Why Formal Disclosure Matters (Part 2) - Episode 194
Why Formal Disclosure Matters (Part 1) - Episode 193
Dealing with the Post-Betrayal Freeze - Episode 192
Finding Your True Self After Betrayal - Episode 191
Checking Our Blind Spots - Episode 190
When Is It Objectification? - Episode 189
Are You Motivated by Fear or Love? - Episode 188
Protecting Victims of the Pornography Industry - Dani Pinter, Senior Legal Counsel NCOSE - Episode 187
Addressing the Betrayer's Pain - Episode 186
Should You Confront Your Parents About Your Childhood? - Episode 185
Healing Our Relationship with Food - with Emily Fonnesbeck - Episode 184
Is it a Slip? A Relapse? A Setback? - Episode 183
The Benefits of Family Work - Episode 182
Emotional Safety in Relationships - Episode 181
The Role of Anger in Healing - Episode 180
Relationship Conflict Patterns with Adam Fisher (Part 3) - Episode 179
Our Valentine’s Day Guide for Messy Relationships - Episode 178
Embracing Differences in Your Marriage - Episode 177
Building a Marriage-Centered Family - Episode 176
Taking Care of Yourself as You Rebuild Broken Trust - Episode 175
Should I Feel Compassion for My Addicted Partner? - Episode 174
Why Marriage Cannot Fix a Pornography Addiction - Episode 173
Taking the First Steps After a Sexual Betrayal - Episode 172
Healthy Support vs. Parenting Your Partner - Episode 171
The Problem of Acting Needless and Wantless - Episode 170
Patience in Healing - Episode 169
The Lure of the Victim Mindset - Episode 168
Balancing Autonomy and Partnership in a Committed Relationship - Episode 167
How Our Relationships Influence our Internal Motivation - Episode 166
Helping Children be Intrinsically Motivated - Episode 165
A community for relationship recovery - Episode 164
How we build trust with others - Hank Smith (part 2) - Episode 163
How we build trust with others - Hank Smith (part 1) - Episode 162
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis - Tony Overbay (part 2) - Episode 161
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis - Tony Overbay (part 1) - Episode 160
Why healthy self-talk matters in recovery - Todd Sylvester - Episode 159
The challenge of enjoyment in the age of addiction - Dr. Mark Chamberlain - Episode 158
Healing a marriage damaged by virtual infidelity - Mark Chamberlain - Episode 157
Protecting children from sexual abuse - Jessica Mockett - Episode 156
Reclaiming your Sexuality - Dr. Finlayson-Fife - Episode 155
Relearning touch after betrayal - Wendy Maltz (part 2) - Episode 154
Relearning touch after betrayal - Wendy Maltz (part 1) - Episode 153
Relationship Conflict Patterns - Dr. Adam Fisher (part 2) - Episode 152
Relationship Conflict Patterns - Dr. Adam Fisher (part 1) - Episode 151
Living after interpersonal loss - Lisa Clark (park 2) - Episode 150
Living after interpersonal loss - Lisa Clark (part 1) - Episode 149
Why porn is bad for marriages - Wendy Maltz (part 2) - Episode 148
Why porn is bad for marriages - Wendy Maltz (part 1) - Episode 147
Finding comedy in tragedy - Lisa Valentine Clark (part 2) - Episode 146
Finding comedy in tragedy - Lisa Valentine Clark (part 1) - Episode 145
When women abuse men - Lisa Renda (part 2) - Episode 144
When women abuse men - Lisa Renda (part 1) - Episode 143
Going to the source of the problem - Sam Tielemans (part 2) - Episode 142
Going to the source of the problem - Sam Tielemans (part 1) - Episode 141
Owning your recovery - Tim’s story - Episode 140
Sexual healing from sexual abuse - Wendy Maltz - Episode 139
A better way to approach sexual brokenness in our churches - Daniel Weiss - Episode 138
Healing shame in recovery - Sathiya Sam - Episode 137
Discovering your couples’ sexual style - Dr. Barry McCarthy - Episode 136
Deeper healing with breath work - Roxanne Granata - Episode 135
What's hijacking so many beautiful relationships? - Dr. Jacob Hess - Episode 134
Supporting our teens with screens, social media, and mental health - Smith Alley - Episode 133
Moving forward in the aftermath of her worst case scenario - Kim - Episode 132
Practicing sexual mindfulness as a couple - Dr. Chelom Leavitt - Episode 131
Four phases of healing after sexual betrayal - Tammy Gustafson - Episode 130
The power of community in pornography recovery - Chandler R. - Episode 129
Improve your self-awareness - Genny Rumancik - Episode 128
Launching young adults doesn't have to become a crisis - Dr. Mark McConville - Episode 127
Ladies, your low sex drive doesn't mean you're broken - Jamee Andelin - Episode 126
A better way to discuss pornography concerns when dating - Dr. Adam Moore and Wendy Morkel - Episode 125
Settling into the journey of healing from betrayal trauma - Jeni Gessel aka "Scabs" - Episode 124
How families can be a resource in addiction recovery - Danny and Emily Deaton - Episode 123
Refusing the victim mindset even when you've been victimized - Lindsay and Danny Poelman - Episode 122
Creating a sexually safe relationship - Tammy Hill - Episode 121
How to stay optimistic and motivated after a recovery setback - Geoff Steurer - Episode 120
Setting boundaries with family during the Holidays - Geoff & Jody Steurer - Episode 119
Building a shame-free marriage in recovery - Hayden and Savannah Paul - Episode 118
How burnout can make you stronger - Valerie Hamaker - Episode 117
How we build trust with others (part 2) - Hank Smith - Episode 116
How we build trust with others (part 1) - Hank Smith - Episode 115
Helping children develop their own internal filters - Emily Jones - Episode 114
Essential Truths for Relationships - Dr. Wally Goddard - Episode 113
9 signals it's time to speak up (part 2) - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Episode 112
9 signals it's time to speak up - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams (part 1) - Episode 111
Rebuilding broken trust - Geoff Steurer & Tony Overbay - Episode 110
Why healthy self-talk matters in recovery - Todd Sylvester - Episode 109
A mindful way to address addiction and trauma - Jacob Hess - Episode 108
Sponsoring and supporting others in recovery - Thomas 2.0 (part 2) - Episode 107
From Dark to Light: One man's recovery from pornography and lust - Thomas 2.0 (part 1) - Episode 106
How men can build friendships with other men - Connor Beaton - Episode 104
Improve your life by choosing faith over fear - Richie Norton - Episode 103
How to stop enabling others - Geoff Steurer & Valerie Hamaker - Episode 102
Responding to sexual offenses - Dr. Stefanie Carnes - Episode 101
What I've learned after recording 99 episodes - Geoff Steurer - Episode 100
An Inspiring Story of Betrayal, Survival, and Hope - Heidi Tucker - Episode 99
Relational mindfulness - Liz Higgins - Episode 98
The Un-Alone Club - Emi Bass - Episode 97
Growing as a couple after betrayal - Seth and Melanie Studley - Episode 96
Building trust with our children to increase our influence - Emily Christensen - Episode 95
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis (part 2) - Tony Overbay - Episode 94
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis (part 1) - Tony Overbay - Episode 93
Creating an intentional life - Kristin Andrus - Episode 92
Culture-based attachment shaming - Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S (part 2) - Episode 91
Creating space for your emotions - Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S (part 1) - Episode 90
Should we have empathy for the betrayer? - KayLee Dunn - Episode 89
Trusting yourself after betrayal - Melissa Ruff - Episode 88
Reclaiming your sexuality - Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Episode 87
How to become more honest - Dr. Mark Matheson (part 2) - Episode 86
How to become more honest - Dr. Mark Matheson (part 1) - Episode 85
Breaking the silence - Creed and Crishelle - Episode 84
How a group of young adults are changing the conversation around sex and shame - Reach 10 - Episode 83
How one couple's recovery is helping thousands of people - Rhyll and Steven Croshaw (part 2) - Episode 82
Living in long-term recovery - Rhyll and Steven Croshaw (part 1) - Episode 81
Ashlee's story of recovery from pornography - Episode 80
Therapeutic Disclosure - Geoff Steurer and Healing with WORTH (part 2) - Episode 79
Therapeutic Disclosure - Geoff Steurer and Healing with WORTH (part 1) - Episode 78
Pep talks to put everything in perspective - Erica Wilcox, LPC (part 2) - Episode 77
EMDR in the real world - Erica Wilcox, LPC (part 1) - Episode 76
Transforming fear and conflict in your life - Chad Ford - Episode 75
Confronting abuse in marriage - Kimberly Day - Episode 74
The challenge of enjoyment in the age of addiction - Dr. Mark Chamberlain (part 2) - Episode 73
Healing a marriage damaged by virtual infidelity - Dr. Mark Chamberlain (part 1) - Episode 72
Compassion in marriage after betrayal - Dr. Wally Goddard (part 2) - Episode 71
Your Blueprint for Happiness - Dr. Wally Goddard (part 1) - Episode 70
Staying safe after betrayal - Dr. Jill Manning (part 2) - Episode 69
Self-care for betrayal trauma - Dr. Jill Manning (part 1) - Episode 68
Discover and use your voice - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Episode 67
20 Keys to Healthy Sex - Laura Brotherson (part 2) - Episode 66
20 Keys to Healthy Sex - Laura Brotherson (part 1) - Episode 65
How to improve your body image - Amy Harman (part 2) - Episode 64
Making Peace with your Body - Amy Harman (part 1) - Episode 63
Peaceful co-parenting after divorce - Jessica, Matt, and Steve (part 2) - Episode 62
Creating a healthy post-divorce relationship with your Ex - Jessica, Matt, and Steve (part 1) - Episode 61
The problem with idealizing motherhood and glorifying self-neglect - Dr. Julie Hanks (part 2) - Episode 60
Assertiveness for Betrayed Women - Dr. Julie Hanks (part 1) - Episode 59
When missionaries struggle with pornography - Rick Thompson, LCSW - Episode 58
How women can heal from relationship abandonment - Gaelyn Rae Emerson (part 2) - Episode 57
Staying resilient when your husband relapses - Gaelyn Rae Emerson (part 1) - Episode 56
Why you should share your addiction recovery story (and how) - Steven Shields (part 2) - Episode 53
A story of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery - Steven and Kayla Shields (part 1) - Episode 52
Helping women who struggle with pornography - Alice Taylor (part 2) - Episode 51
Women who struggle with pornography addiction - Alice Taylor (part 1) - Episode 50
Forgiving ourselves - Dr. Wendy Ulrich (part 2) - Episode 49
Why is forgiveness so difficult? - Wendy Ulrich (part 1) - Episode 48
Responding effectively to abused children - Jessica Mockett (part 2) - Episode 47
Protecting children from sexual abuse - Jessica Mockett (part 1) - Episode 46
How to avoid a victim mindset - Troy Love (part 2) - Episode 45
Healing from loss, neglect, rejection, betrayal, and abuse - Troy Love (part 1) - Episode 44
What every leader needs to know about pornography - Kurt Francom - Episode 43
Toxic giving and taking in relationships - Mari Lee (part 2) - Episode 42
Using mindfulness to treat addiction and trauma - Mari Lee (part 1) - Episode 41
How betrayal trauma affects women's spiritual lives - Dr. Carmel White (part 2) - Episode 40
What betrayed women want everyone to know - Dr. Carmel White (part 1) - Episode 39
Finding Peace When Anxious Or Troubled - Geoff Steurer - Episode 38
Six guideposts of true recovery from addiction - Geoff Steurer - Episode 37
Let's practice healing trauma exercises - Katy Willis (part 2)- Episode 36
Healing Trauma Through Yoga - Katy Willis (part 1) - Episode 35
Mindfulness 101 - Taylor Chambers, LMFT (part 2) - Episode 33
Help your children become resilient against pornography - Taylor Chambers, LMFT (part 1) - Episode 32
Sexual Wholeness in Marriage - Michelle Linford - Episode 31
The power of group therapy - Forest Benedict (part 2) - Episode 30
Self-care for men in recovery from addiction - Forest Benedict (part 1) - Episode 29
Changing the pornography discussion with our kids - Dr. Dean Busby (part 2) - Episode 28
A Better Way to Teach Your Kids About Sex - Dr. Dean Busby (part 1) - Episode 27
Your Brain on Porn - Dr. Don Hilton - Episode 26
How to bring up pornography concerns when dating - Vauna Davis (part 2) - Episode 25
Helping Young Adults Change the Conversation about Pornography - Vauna Davis (part 1) - Episode 24
Finding freedom and peace when betrayed - Roxanne Kennedy (part 2) - Episode 23
Betrayal trauma, divorce, and healing - Roxanne Kennedy (part 1) - Episode 22
Teaching Children Media Literacy - Dina Alexander (part 2) - Episode 20
Teaching Children Media Literacy - Dina Alexander (part 1) - Episode 19
Common Questions about Recovery - Dr. Adam Moore (part 2) - Episode 16
Common Questions about Recovery - Dr. Adam Moore (part 1) - Episode 15
Fight the New Drug - Clay Olsen (part 2) - Episode 14
Fight the New Drug - Clay Olsen (part 1) - Episode 13
Protecting Young Minds - Kristen Jenson (part 2) - Episode 12
Protecting Young Minds - Kristen Jenson (part 1) - Episode 11
Patterns of Healing - Michelle Linford (part 2) - Episode 8
Patterns of Healing - Michelle Linford (part 1) - Episode 7