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Grow Yourself Up — 171 episodes

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Ep 170: Longing, Adult Love Relationships and Feeling Seen and Heard

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Ep 169: Ambivalence, Love and Hate in Motherhood and Parenting

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Ep 168: Sensory Systems, Integration, Trauma and Family Considerations

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Ep167: Rage, Vitality, Agency and Growing up in Motherhood with Lisa Marchiano. Re-release

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Ep 166: Overfunctioning, Emotional Neglect and the Circle of Care

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Ep 165: Ancestral Healing and Wisdom, Power and Growing Up in Motherhood with Kate Merrick. Re-release

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Ep 164: Neurodivergent Family Life, Home Education and Breaking Cycles with Amanda Appiagyei

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Ep 163: Neurodivergence, Unmasking, Late Diagnosis and Growing Up with Dr Emma Offord

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Ep 162: Guilt and Shame in Parenting: Ask Cath (Re-release)

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Ep 161: Control and the Chaotic Shit Show (Re-release)

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Ep 160: Sovereignty, Secure Attachment and Unconditional Love

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Ep 159: Attachment Styles, Finding our Voice, Avoidance, Grief and Growing with Anne Power

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Ep 158: Complex Trauma, Mother Wounds and Generational Healing with Dr Arielle Schwartz

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Ep 157: Generational Clashes and Parenting as Gardening

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Ep 156: Earned Secure Attachment

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Ep 155: Attachment Theory, Reparenting and Earned Secure Attachment

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Ep 154: Fantasy, Family Nervous Systems, Stress Responses and Success

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Ep 153: Rage, Shame, Terror and Making Space for your Inner Baby

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Ep 152: Bibliotherapy: Books for a Healing Journey

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Ep 151: Progressive Education, Neurodivergence, Healing and Growing with Kimberley Olliff Cooper

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Ep 150: Generational Trauma, Shame, Emotional Neglect and Sugar Addiction with Gerardine Boyle

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Ep 149: Self Care for Winter, How to be Selfish and Self Advocacy with Suzy Reading

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Ep 148: Our Humanity and the Paradox of Healing

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Ep 147: Your Body Really Does Remember and Shifting Patterns with Dr Kathrin Stauffer (Re-release)

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Ep 146: Narcissism, Emotional Neglect and Perfectionism with Dr Kathrin Stauffer

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Ep 145: Relationships, the Mental Load and Growing Up in Motherhood with Catherine Topham Sly

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Ep 144: Emotional Neglect and Experiencing our Children’s Emotions

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Ep 143: Shame, People Pleasing, Fawning and our Kids

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Ep 142: Trauma Recovery, Justice and Mothering the Mother with Dr. Judith Herman

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Ep 141: Chronic Stress, Urgency and Nervous System Repatterning

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Ep 140: Context, Holidays and Being the Default Parent

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Ep 139: Control and the Chaotic Shit Show

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Ep 138: Transitions, Expectations and First Times

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Ep 137: Needs, Our Humanity and Shame

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Ep 136: Neediness, Choice and Growing Up in Motherhood with Mara Glatzel (Re-release)

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Ep 135: Overworking, Redefining Success and Growing Up with Tamu Thomas

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Ep 134: Fertility, Longing , Fantasies and Growing up in Motherhood with Julianne Boutaleb

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Ep 133: Childhood Trauma, Embodiment, Parental Burnout and our Nervous Systems

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Ep 132: ADHD, Executive Functioning and Shame

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Ep 131: Growing Up and Tending to Ourselves in Motherhood with Dr Jenny Turner

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Ep 130: Secure Attachment, Postpartum and Growing up in Motherhood with Jodi Pawluski (Re-release)

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Ep 129: Healing and Breaking Cycles in Parenting with Maggie Viers (Re-release)

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Ep 128: Am I Failing My Kids and Secure Attachment

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Ep127: A Mother's Journey to Conscious Parenting and Parenting Teens with Yvonne Smyth (Re-release)

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Ep 126: Creativity and Growing Up in Motherhood with Flora Cruft

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Ep 125: Burnout and Parenting When Our Kids Struggle with Kendra Wilde (Re-release)

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Ep 124: The Good Girl Grid and Owning our Own Motherhood Experience

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Ep 123: Ancestral Healing and Wisdom, Power and Growing Up in Motherhood with Kate Merrick

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Ep 122: Our Inner Child, Authenticity, Big Emotions and Feedback

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Ep 121: Thoughts on Embracing and Enjoying Time with our Kids

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Ep 120: The Fatherwound, Patriarchy and Growing up in Fatherhood with Clint Davis (Re-release)

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Ep 119: Rage, Vitality, Agency and Growing up in Motherhood with Lisa Marchiano

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Ep 118: Stress Responses, Feelings, Mood and Emotional Flow

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Ep 117: Your Body Really Does Remember and Shifting Patterns with Dr Kathrin Stauffer

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Ep 116: Healing, Autoimmunity, Quantum Biology and Growing Up in Motherhood with Dr Catherine Clinton

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Ep 115: Permission, Tending to Ourselves and Tending to the World

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Ep 114: Boundaries and Values in the Holidays

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Ep 113: Understand your Nervous System to Support Yourself

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Ep 112: Developmental Trauma, Healing and Growing Up in Fatherhood with Stephen Terrell

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Ep 111: Welcoming in More Ease and Harmony

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Ep 110: Eating Disorders, Shame, Developmental Trauma and Attachment Styles

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Ep 109: Growing Up in Motherhood and Making all Feelings Safe with Alita Blanchard

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Ep 108: Why Bother with Validating Emotions and Holding Space?

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Ep 107: Childhood Trauma, The Nervous System and Mothering (Re-release)

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Ep 106: Emotional Defence Strategies, Interoception and Emotional Flow

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Ep 105: Breaking up with Self Abandonment

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Ep 104: Desperation, Cycle Breaking and Self Abandonment

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Ep 103: Emotional Flow, Dissociation and the Complexity of Allowing and Processing Emotion

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Ep 102: Chronic Stress, Nervous System Patterns and Healing

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Ep 101: Neurodivergence, Unschooling, Consent Based Living and Growing Up in Motherhood with Fran Liberatore

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Ep 100: Home Education, Extracting ourselves from Systems and Growing Up in Motherhood with Julie Walter

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Ep 99: Birth, Postpartum, Mother in laws and Growing Up in Motherhood with Concetta Ferretti

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Ep 98: Intrusions, Control and Growing Up in Motherhood with Anna Butcher (Re-release)

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Ep 97: Power, Systems, Gardening and Growing Up in Motherhood with Marchelle Farrell

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Ep 96: Partner Rage, Postpartum Health and Healing in Motherhood with Molly Caro May. (Re-release)

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Ep 95: Hypervigilence, Knowing Ourselves, Enoughness and Values in Parenting

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Ep 94: People Pleasing, Boundaries and Our Needs

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Ep 93: Matrescence and Growing Up in Motherhood with Lucy Jones (Re-release)

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Ep 92: Respect, Needs, Divorce and Growing Up in Motherhood with Nicola Rae

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Ep 91: Perimenopause, Early Postpartum and Growing Up in Motherhood with Kate Codrington

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Ep 90: Building Better Brains, Primitive Reflexes and Growing up in Motherhood with Lorraine Driscoll

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Ep 89: Guilt and Shame in Parenting: Ask Cath

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Ep 88: Learning to Meet Needs is a Practise (Re-release)

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Ep 87: The Fatherwound, Patriarchy and Growing up in Fatherhood with Clint Davis

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Ep 86: Being a Changemaker, Fawning and Growing Up in Motherhood with Kemi Omijeh

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Ep 85: Making Sense of Our Own Experience: Culture, Generational Trauma and Parenting Practises

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Ep 84: Mental Health and Personal Growth in our Mothering with Emily Adler Mosqueda (Re-release)

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Ep 83: Well being, Perimenopause and Growing Up in Motherhood with Thalia Pellegrini

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Ep 82: Intrusive Thoughts and Growing Up in Motherhood with Caroline Boyd

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Ep 81: Reflections on Perfectionism and Honouring our Journey's

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Ep 80: Relationships, Expectations and Obligations

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Ep 79: Anxiety, Somatics and Growing Up in Motherhood with Colleen Adrian

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Ep 78: Resources, Rage and Ruptures

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Ep 77: Developmental Trauma, Healing and Growing Up in Fatherhood with Stephen Terrell

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Ep 76: Relationships, Self-Responsibility and Roast Potatoes (part re-release)

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Ep 75: Slow Parenthood, Matrescence and Growing up in Motherhood with Mariana Castaman

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Ep 74: Busting Shame and Growing Up in Fatherhood with Josh Connolly

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Ep 73: Secure Attachment, Shame and Anxiety

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Ep 72: Secure Attachment, Postpartum and Growing up in Motherhood with Jodi Pawluski

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Ep 71: Why Care About Attachment Styles?

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Ep 70: Sobriety, Self Responsibility and Growing up in Motherhood with Cat Sims

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Ep 69: Attachment, Regulation, Emotional Neglect and Feeling States

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Ep 68: Matrescence and Growing Up in Motherhood with Lucy Jones

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Ep 67: Estrangement, Having a Narcissistic Mother and Growing Up in Motherhood with Harriet Shearsmith

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Ep 66: Emotional Neglect and Narcissistic Families

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Ep 65: Childhood Trauma, The Nervous System and Mothering

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Ep 64: Shifting Generational Trauma and Thoughts on Food

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Ep 63: When Our Needs Feel Illegitimate (Re-release)

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Ep 62: Self Mothering: Putting it into Practise (Re-release)

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Ep 61: The Importance of Good Enough Parenting and Rupture and Repair for all Ages

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Ep 60: The Family Nervous System, Transitions and Stress Responses

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Ep 59: Birth Trauma, Dissociation and Growing Up in Motherhood with Sophie Burch

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Ep 58: Words of Encouragement for Holidays (Re-release)

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Ep 57: Process, Self Care and Growing up in Motherhood with Suzy Reading

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Ep 56: The Messy Imperfection of Rupture and Repair

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Ep 55: Intrusions, Control and Growing Up in Motherhood with Anna Butcher

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Ep 54: Ways to Support and Resource Ourselves

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Ep 53: Neediness, Choice and Growing Up in Motherhood with Mara Glatzel

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Ep 52: The Complex Journey of Meeting Needs

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Ep 51: Partner Rage, Postpartum Health and Healing in Motherhood with Molly Caro May

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Ep 50: Shame, Perfectionism and Holidays

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Ep 49: Burnout and Parenting When Our Kids Struggle with Kendra Wilde

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Ep 48: Understanding our Jealousy and Envy

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Ep 47: Anxiety, Control, Letting Go and Perfectionism in our Mothering with Azalia Suhaimi

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Ep 46: Making Space For Grief

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Ep 45: Productivity, Always Being Busy and Starting to Stop (part re-release)

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Ep 44: Perfectionism, Baby Sleep, Breastfeeding and Rage with Hannah Clapham

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Ep 43: The Complexity of Shifting and Breaking Cycles

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Ep 42: Blame, Responsibility and Co-regulation

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Ep 41: Healing and Breaking Cycles in Parenting with Maggie Viers

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Ep 40: Self Mothering: Putting it into Practise

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Ep 39: A Mother's Journey to Conscious Parenting and Parenting Teens with Yvonne Smyth

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Ep 38: The Scourge of Shame and Why it Matters

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Ep 37: What Drives Anxiety and A Key Tool to Help

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Ep 36: Growing Ourselves Up in Friendship and Work with Tamu Thomas (re-release)

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Ep 35: Being a Good Enough Parent

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Ep 34: Uncertainty, Anxiety and Control

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Ep 33: Mental Health and Personal Growth in our Mothering with Emily Adler Mosqueda

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Ep 32: Practical Tips To Make Change

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Ep 31: Being a Good Enough Mother with Ali Pember

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Ep 30: A Different Way to Approach a New Year (and why it is important)

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Ep 29: A Loving Message To Support You and Your Values

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Ep 28: Words for When Things Feel Like Shit

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Ep 27: Christmas and Self Compassion

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Ep 26: When Our Needs Feel Illegitimate

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Ep 25: Boundaries and Why Healing People Pleasing in Parenting is Important

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Ep 24: Managing the Challenge of Holiday Times to Thrive and Maximise Joy

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Ep 23: Patterns That Can Lead to People Pleasing and Starting to Stop

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Ep 22: People Pleasing Patterns In Our Lives and Careers with Tamu Thomas

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Ep 21: People Pleasing and Parenting

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Ep 20: Why are Boundaries so Integral to Needs? (Re-release)

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Ep 19: Balancing Our Own Healing with Raising Kids

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Ep 18: The Most Important Ingredient in Post Traumatic Growth

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Ep 17: Part 3: Making Decisions in Our Adult Love Relationships

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Ep 16: Unwinding from Overdoing and Rest

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Ep 15: Resilience, Joy, Processing and Witnessing

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Ep 14: Trauma, Understanding the Impact of Childhood Trauma and Research

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Ep 13: Part 1: Post Traumatic Growth, Decisions and Careers

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Ep 12: How Do I Start to Meet My Needs? (Re-release)

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Ep 11: Part 2: Maintaining Our Love Relationships in Early Parenthood

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Ep 10: Part 1: Maintaining and Nourishing Our Love Relationships in Early Parenthood

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Ep 9: Why Is My Window of Tolerance Narrow (Experience Dysregulation) And How Can I Help Myself?

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Ep 8: Window of Tolerance, Co-Regulation

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Ep 7: Shifting Patterns in our Families: Things to Hold in Mind

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Ep 6: Words of Encouragement for the School Holidays and Holidays

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Ep 5: Words of Encouragement for the Hard Days

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Ep 4: Needs, Boundaries and Consequences of Not Meeting Needs

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Ep 3: Joy, Our Window of Tolerance And Re-Patterning Our Nervous Systems

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Ep 2: Coming Into A Relationship With Our Needs

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Ep 1: Why Is Meeting Our Own Needs Important And Why Is It So Hard?

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