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Holding Space with Julia — 55 episodes

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Episode #55 – Everyday Regulation: Bringing Nervous System Calm into Daily Life

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Episode #54 – When Your Child Keeps Calling "Mom… Mom… Mom…"

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Episode #53 – When Your Partner Gets Defensive: Responding with Curiosity, Not Criticism

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Episode #52 – The Power of Attunement When Your Partner Is Overwhelmed

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Episode #51 Setting Boundaries Without Rupturing Connection

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Episode #50 How to Handle Repeated Requests (When You've Already Said No)

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Episode #49 – The Role of Co-Regulation During Transitions

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Episode #48 When Your Child Won't Go to Sleep: A Nervous System Perspective

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Episode #47 – Managing Morning Chaos: Bringing Nervous System Calm to the Rush

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Episode #46 — Listening Beneath the Behaviour: Behaviour as Memory & Motion

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Episode #45 — The Child Freeze Response: Completing Stress Cycles Through Safety & Play

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Episode #44 — "Manipulative" Behaviours: Adaptations for Connection Under Threat

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Episode #43 — "You Don't Love Me": Attachment Protest as a Safety Check

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Episode #42 — The "Ignore Me" Response: When Withdrawal Becomes Protection

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Episode #41 — Sibling Rivalry Through a Regulation Lens

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Episode #40 — The Connection Behind Clinginess

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Episode #39 Is It Defiance… or a Fight for Agency?

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Episode #38 Why "Selective Hearing" Might Actually Be Dysregulation

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Episode # 37 – From Conflict to Connection: Repair as the Root of Safety

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Episode #36 – How to Repair After Rupture

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Episode # 35 – When Your Child Hits You: Responding Without Shame

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Episode #34 – When Your Child Refuses to Listen: Shifting from Control to Connection

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Episode # 33 – When Your Child Lies: A Nervous System View of Truth and Safety

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Episode #32 Why Your Partner's Shutdown Might Be a Stress Response, Not Disinterest

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Episode #31 When Your Child Says 'I Hate You!

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Episode #30 Flipping Your Lid – And What to Do Next

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Episode #29 Dan Siegel's Hand Model of the Brain

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Episode # 28 Going Deeper with Julia

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Episode 27: From Behaviour to Connection: A Nervous System Lens

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Episode 26: Recovering After a Rupture

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Episode 25: "I'm Not My Parent… But Sometimes I Still Lose It"

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Episode 24: "Good Parents Never Yell"… and Other Myths

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Episode 23: From Chaos to Clarity: Calming a Dysregulated Home or Classroom

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Episode 22: What to Do When You Feel Like You're Failing as a Parent

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Episode 21: When Our Kids' Feelings Trigger Our Own

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Episode 20: Kids' Behaviour is Communication, Not Manipulation

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Episode 19: The "I Am" Sessions

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Why Play Is the Language of Healing

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Sand Tray Therapy: The Stories Beneath the Surface

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A Tour of the Playroom Zones

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When Kids Repeat the Same Game: What Does It Mean?

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The Power of Symbolic Play (and Why It Matters)

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What a Play Therapist Is Really Watching For

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Why Children Don't Need to Talk to Heal

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The Difference Between Play and Therapeutic Play

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What Is Non-Directive Play Therapy

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The Power of "I Feel" in Building Trust & Calm

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A Vulnerable Check In & What's Ahead

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The Feelings Wheel

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Why We Shut Down When Emotions Aren't Welcomed

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What Does Emotional Safety Really Feel Like?

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Mirror Neurons and the Magic of Calm Presence

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Co-Regulation vs Self-Regulation: What's the Difference?

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Name It to Tame It: A Nervous System Tool for Kids & Adults

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Using Emotional Language- When We Say "I'm Upset"