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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett — 247 episodes

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8 Flirty Things to Say (and Not to Say) When You Freeze Up Around Women

2

The 10 Most Surprisingly Sexy Things to Say on a First Date

3

The 7 Lies that Keep You From Approaching—and 7 Tips to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere

4

The 10 Texting Commandments: How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting Dates

5

21 Flirty Ways to Make Her Feel Authentic Attraction (How to Escape the Friend Zone, Part 2)

6

The Date Seemed Great… So Why Did You End Up in the Friend Zone? (Part 1)

7

“You’re Not Broken!” 3 Steps to Lasting Dating Confidence (with Attachment Style Expert Thais Gibson)

8

11 Pickup Lines That Are Classy, Not Creepy—Say These to Any Woman, Anywhere

9

“The Best First Date of My Life” — How Tony Learned to Flirt and Won Jennifer Over

10

5 Flirting Moments that Broke My Brain (and Rewired What I Thought Was Possible)

11

7 Days, 7 Online Dating Openers: What to Write on the Apps Every Day of the Week

12

It’s the Least Sexy Skill in Dating—and It Might Land You Your Dream Girl

13

My Flirting Hall of Shame: 7 Times I Screwed Up Royally with Women (Learn from My F-ups!)

14

Ghosted? Not for Long! Here are 22 Funny Text Messages to Get Her Writing You Back

15

Struggling to Get Second Dates? Take Drastic Action: “Blow Up” Your Next First Date!

16

In 2026, Women Want You to Approach Them More Than Ever (Seriously!) Here’s Why

17

Stop Running Out of Things to Say: 8 Topics that Ignite Flirty Conversations with Women

18

“Should I Start an OnlyFans?” 31 Funny, Flirty Things to Say to Women When You Approach

19

5 Pickup Lines for Guys Who Hate Pickup Lines: Stop Overthinking, Approach Her, and Just Say This

20

“Women Want Hot Guys” Is Bullsh*t: How Shekar Went from Self-Doubt to Approaching Confidence (Live Coaching)

21

How Robbie Went from Panic Attacks to Fearless Approaching—and Got 7 Numbers in 1 Night (Live Coaching)

22

37 Flirty Things to Say on First Dates to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Second Dates

23

How to Flirt So Good She Can’t Stop Thinking About You (Live Coaching with Evan)

24

How to Date in Your Social Circle—without Being “That Creepy Guy” (Live Coaching with A.J.)

25

JUST. SAY. THIS. Your Cheat Sheet to Stop Freezing and Start Flirting in 7 Scary Dating Moments

26

You Want to Approach—But Anxiety Stops You. The 7 Steps to Confidently Meet Women Anywhere

27

47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say with Women

28

The “Slime Effect”: 7 Flirting Mistakes that Creep Women Out—and What to Say Instead

29

You Like Her, But You’re Trapped in the Friend Zone. Flirt Like This to Escape (Live Coaching with Matt)

30

What’s Your Flirting Level? Why It’s the Secret to Less Ghosting and More Second Dates

31

I Was That Creepy Guy: 5 Brutal Mistakes That Pushed Women Away

32

The 6 Lies About Dating Apps That Cost You Quality Matches

33

He Wrote WHAT On His Bio? Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts Cringe Online Dating Profiles

34

I Failed at Approaching Women… Until One Night Changed Everything

35

From ‘I’m Not Feeling It’ to ‘I Can’t Wait to See You Again’ — The 6 Levels of Flirting Mastery

36

7 Make-or-Break Dating Moments to Either Win Her Interest… Or Lose It

37

I Can’t Believe These Are Real: 15 Dating App Openers Men Actually Sent to Women

38

“I Thought I Wasn’t Enough… and Then I Met Rachel” (Live Coaching with Charlie)

39

Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

40

‘I Was Getting Ghosted on the Dating Apps, but Now Women Reply to My Openers’ (Live Coaching with Evan)

41

Fix the Flirting Flaw that Creeps Women Out (the New Rules of Dating, Part 2)

42

Bad Dating Advice Has Failed Decent Men: Here Are 26 New Rules for 2026 That Actually Work (Part 1)

43

Stop Freezing Up! What to Say to Meet Women in Real Life (No Weird Pickup Lines Needed)

44

“I Approached a Woman and 2 Strangers Literally Applauded Me” (Live Coaching with Andrew)

45

‘I Sent a Voice Note About Her Boobs…to HER! Can I Recover?’ Dating Coach Connell Barrett Breaks It Down

46

From Ghosted to Getting Great Dates: The 26 New Rules of Online Dating for 2026 (Part 2)

47

Online Dating Is Brutal in 2026—Here Are 26 New Rules to Finally Get Good Matches (Part 1)

48

Introducing The 6 Icks: A New Dating Framework to Never Be Creepy—and Always Flirt with Charm

49

The Truth about Liquid Courage + 9 Ways to Make Sobriety Your New Edge in Dating (Part 3)

50

I Approached Models in Miami Stone-Cold Sober… and Everything Changed (Sober Dating, Part 2 of 3)

51

I Chose My Girlfriend Over Johnnie Walker: Love Lessons from 1,000 Days Sober (Part 1)

52

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘How Do I Start Conversations with Women without Making It Awkward?’

53

The E=MC² of Dating: How to Be Charismatic to Women (Even if You’re Shy or Introverted)

54

From Boring to Banter! 5 Flirty Banter Secrets that Create Instant Romantic Chemistry

55

“She Dumped Me for Her Ex! What Am I Doing Wrong?” Your Trickiest Dating Questions Answered

56

From No Dates to 2 Dates a Week: New Strategies to Fill Your Dating Dance Card

57

How a Shy, Lonely Software Engineer Learned to Flirt and Found his Dream Woman—and How You Can, Too!

58

“Nice Guys Are Sexy—if They Do This One Thing.” A Maxim Model’s Dating Secret

59

How to TRIPLE Your Number of Hinge Matches (with ‘Date Smarter’ Author Tim Molnar)

60

Be Magnetic to Women as the Nice Guy You Are—By Doing ONE Thing

61

From Reddit Rage to Real Connection: How Ajay Learned that Women Actually Like Good Guys!

62

Flip the Authenticity Switch: 4 New Ways to Approach Women IRL (No Pickup Tricks Needed)

63

How Shy Robbie Got 5 Numbers in 3 Hours! Steal This Move for Fearless Approaching

64

5 Fixes to Make Your Online Dating Profile a Match Magnet Today—New Photos NOT Needed

65

From Playdates to First Dates: The Single Dad’s Dating Reset (Live Coaching with Zach!)

66

Stop! Getting! Ghosted! The 5 Flirting Escalators to Turn First Dates into Second (and Third and Eighth) Dates

67

‘My Penis is Small. Should I Have Surgery to Impress Women?’ Dating Coach Connell Barrett Takes Your Questions

68

Women Reveal the Truth: Approaching is Charming, Not Creepy—if You Do THIS

69

Become a Magnetic Flirt on First Dates in 3 Simple Moves (Live Coaching with Matthew)

70

“His Coke Dealer Came to the Date!” 5 Funny Dating Disasters to Keep YOU from Being Her Horror Story

71

Will You Find True Love—or End Up Settling? It All Comes Down to ONE Thing

72

The Shy Guy’s Advantage: 5 Approaching Secrets to Help Introverts Confidently Connect with Women

73

You’re Making a HUGE Mistake on the Apps—Fix It Now! + Steal My Hinge Prompt for More Matches

74

5 Texting Mistakes Women HATE! + 5 Ninja Text Moves to Get Her Pursuing You

75

Women Can Tell If You Watch Too Much Porn—and it’s Destroying Your Dating Life (with Frank Rich)

76

Do Women Ignore You on the Apps? Use My ‘Back to the Future’ Opener for a Date by Saturday

77

Stop Getting Ghosted! The 10 Texting Commandments that Get Women Writing You Back (Textual Healing, Part 2)

78

How to Stop Settling in Love: A Therapist Explains Why You Choose the Wrong Relationships (with Jason VanRuler)

79

Spank You Very Much: The Nice Guy’s Guide to Hot, Shame-Free Sex (with Kink Expert Amanda Dames)

80

Textual Healing: The New Way to Text and Get Dates—Play, Play, Play… Pull the Trigger (Part 1 of 3)

81

The One Flirting Secret that Changes Everything—from Apps to Dates to Charming Approaches

82

The Write Stuff: How to Turn Your Boring Bio into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Clint)

83

The Content Trap: Use My ‘80/20 Rule’ to Go from Overthinking to Effortless Flirting

84

The Neuroscience of Attraction: How to Rewire Your Brain for Dating Success (with Harvard’s Dr. Ali Binazir)

85

From Invisible to Irresistible: The 7 Dating Superpowers that Ignite Attraction—Even if You’re Shy or Introverted

86

The Professional Man’s Paradox: Why You Succeed at Work but Struggle with Women (with Matchmaker Lisa Goodman)

87

7 Make-or-Break Dating Moments to Either Get the Girl… or Get Friend-Zoned

88

Sex Tips for Shy Guys: How to Touch Her, Talk Dirty and Rock Her World (with Sex Coach Kirsten Trammell)

89

From Frozen to Fearless! True Stories of Shy Guys Who Beat Approach Anxiety and Found Love IRL

90

20 Dating Lessons That Took Me 20 Years to Master—You’ll Learn Them by Lunch (Special Series!)

91

The Speed Dating Move that Drives Women Wild: Why Vulnerability Wins Every Time (Featuring Kavita Ajwani)

92

Textual Healing! Connell’s 4-Part Texting Formula to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting Dates

93

I Got Rejected 567 Times… Which is Why I’m GREAT with Women Now

94

The Flirty Dozen: 12 Ways to Smash Out of the Friend Zone and Spark Connection on First Dates

95

How to Be Bold, Flirty—and Never, Ever ‘That Creepy Guy’: A Dating Guide for Modern Gentlemen

96

27 Flirting Tips in 27 Minutes! Go from the Friend Zone to the First Kiss—FAST

97

Use these 8 Flirty Questions to Stop Boring Women and Spark Deep, Romantic Conversations

98

Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

99

Tongue-Tied with Women? Become a Funny Flirt with 3 Simple Moves and Get Her Giggling! (Live Coaching with Jake)

100

From Dateless to Dates on Demand! How to Improve Your Profile and Get 2 Dates Per Week (Part 4 of 4)

101

7 Powerful Secrets to Attraction that Women Have Taught Me (You Need to Know These!)

102

Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

103

This Simple Move Makes You 500% Better at Approaching—Science Proves It! (Featuring ‘Date Smarter’ Author Tim Molnar)

104

From Lonely to Lining Up Dates: 6 Simple Moves that Make Women Swipe Right on the Apps (Part 3)

105

Unlock the 3 S’s for Unshakable Confidence—and Attract the Women You Want!

106

Get Ready to Love, Love, LOVE the Dating Apps! 6 Profile Fixes for More Matches Fast (Part 2 of 4)

107

Do Women Ignore You on the Apps? These 12 Profile MUSTS Will Finally Get You Great Matches (Part 1 of 4)

108

‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

109

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I Don’t Think I’m Good-Looking. Do I Even Have a Chance with Women?’

110

Tired of Struggling on Tinder and Bumble? Try the Innovative Dating App that Helps Men and Women Connect IRL!

111

Too Anxious to Approach? Use these 5 Steps to Boldly Meet and Date Wonderful Women (Live Coaching with Ryan)

112

Women Love Nice, Nerdy Guys like YOU—If You Do 1 Important Thing (with Dating Coach Nick Notas)

113

From ‘I’m Too Short’ to ‘I Feel Amazing!’ How to Transform Your Dating Confidence NOW (Live Coaching with Ryan)

114

You’re Missing Her Signals! Dating Expert Talia Koren on How to Tell When a Woman Likes You

115

Ignore These 5 Dating Lies—Or Stay Single Forever!

116

Why You Freeze When You Want to Approach Beautiful Women—& How to Fix it NOW (Live Coaching with John!)

117

Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

118

3 Hidden Reasons Why Women Lose Interest in You—and How to Keep Them Attracted Long-Term! with Johnny Cassell

119

The 7 ‘Friend Zone’ Destroyers: Go from Hearing ‘Let’s Be Friends’ to ‘Let’s Go to Your Place!’

120

Tired of Swiping? How Matchmaking Can Set You Up with Incredible Women (Ditch the Apps for Good!)

121

How to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Instantly Attract Women

122

How to Make Bold Moves without Being Creepy: A Top Coach for Women Tells All! (with Evan Marc Katz)

123

Does Love (and Life) Feel Like a Grind? The ‘3 Classes of Experience’ Will Set You Free

124

It’s Rom-Complicated! How Nice Guys Can Get the Girl: Lessons from ‘Say Anything’ (with Hollywood Producer Cristina Nava)

125

My Girlfriend Jess Reveals the #1 Secret to Landing Second Dates! (Most Men Make 3 BIG Mistakes)

126

“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

127

LIVE Approaches: Hear Me Chat Up Cuties IRL—Listen NOW to Get Numbers and Dates Tonight! (Part 4)

128

Say This, Get the Date (No Flaking!) How To Never Run Out of Things to Say (Part 3 of 4)

129

Struggle Talking to Women IRL? My 3 Openers (90% Success Rate!) Fix that Instantly (Part 2 of 4)

130

Special Series! Stop Trying to ‘Approach’—Do THIS to Meet & Attract Women IRL the Right Way (Part 1 of 4)

131

Tired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!

132

What’s YOUR Dating Superpower? Discover the 7 Attractors that Make Women Want to Date You

133

Struggling with Dating Confidence? Try this Mindset Shift to Become Instantly Magnetic to Women (Live Coaching Results)

134

How to Read Women, Know What to Say, and Get Her Asking YOU Out: Hayley Quinn’s Secrets to Attraction

135

How to Meet Your Dream Woman—and How Jason Dated a Lakers Cheerleader! (Live Coaching)

136

Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to Find Love by Watching Rom-Com Movies (Seriously!) Episode 1: ‘Groundhog Day’

137

“I Went from Zero to 83 Matches in a Week!” The 6 Essential Photos You Need for Dating App Success

138

“Will You Be My Boyfriend?” The 10 Green Lights that Trigger Instant Attraction in Wonderful Women

139

Exclusive! How to Win on Dating Apps—Secrets from the Man Who Invented Swiping, Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen

140

10 Invisible Red Flags that Get You Rejected: Which Mistakes Are YOU Making? Plus 10 Fast Fixes

141

What to Write on Your Bio: 7 Secrets for Way More Matches! Plus: Steal These 10 Funny, Flirty Prompts

142

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘HELP! She Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep During Sex. What Do I Do?’

143

Dating Apps Are Broken—Inner Circle is the Fix! Find Love Using this Innovative App (Featuring David Vermeulen)

144

Forget Resolutions! Here's Your New Year's REVOLUTION: 5 Game-Changing Dating Strategies to Attract Your Ideal Girlfriend in 2025

145

From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

146

Which Dating App is Right for YOU? The Top 7 Apps to Swipe Right on Love and Find Your Soulmate

147

Bummed About NO Good Matches on the Apps? These 15 Quick Fixes Will Turn Your Profile into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Zach)

148

From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year’s Eve

149

Make Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with Jack

150

Stop Settling TODAY! How to Crush Self-Doubt and Attract the Special Woman You Deserve — Featuring Garrain Jones

151

Stuck in Your Head at the Bars? How to Confidently Approach and Talk to Women—Even if You’re Shy (Live Coaching with Eric!)

152

From Dull to Dynamic: How Passion and Authenticity Make You Magnetic to Women, Featuring John R. Miles

153

1,000 First Dates Later: My Top 7 Easy Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Her Asking You for Date No. 2

154

Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

155

Live Coaching Session: Connell’s Client Matt Conquers His Fear of Approaching—and Gets 2 Phone Numbers!

156

How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

157

Bestselling Author Dr. Robert Glover on How to Confidently Meet Women without Being Too Nice (Encore Episode)

158

My Girlfriend Tells All! How We Connected on Our First Date (Featuring My Amazing Partner Jessamin) Part 5 of 5

159

The New Way to Confidently Approach and Connect with Women (Part 4 of 5)

160

How to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5)

161

You’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)

162

How to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity—Part 1 of a Special Series

163

How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get Rejected

164

3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying

165

The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid

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How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)

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How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity

168

10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach

169

The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!

170

Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”

171

The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

172

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’

173

How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren

174

How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out

175

5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women

176

Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag

177

Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge

178

The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!

179

The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women

180

LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!

181

Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too

182

LIVE COACHING! What to Say When You Approach Women, to Be Charming and NOT Creepy

183

5 Ways to Flirt, Connect and Make Sparks Fly with Your Ideal Woman

184

The 6 Game-Changing Photos to Get More Matches on the Apps

185

A Dating Coach Rates the Rom-Coms: ‘Love Actually’

186

Struggling with Flirting? How To Go from Brutally Boring to Confidently Charismatic

187

My 7 Biggest “Aha!” Dating Moments… Revealed

188

7 Flirting Secrets Women Want You to Know with Melanie Sutrathada

189

Sober Dating, Part 2: 7 Ways to Confidently Attract Women, without Using Alcohol

190

Sober Dating, Part 1: How I (Finally!) Quit Drinking, and How YOU Can Confidently Date without Booze

191

15 Dating Tips in 15 Minutes!

192

5 Ways to Be More FUN with Women and Escape the Friend Zone

193

3 Dreaded First-Date Mistakes to Avoid, and What to Do Instead

194

For Dating Confidence, Unleash the Power of Radical Authenticity

195

Use these 5 Escalation Secrets to Escape the Dreaded Friend Zone

196

How to Become a Man of Authentic Action… and Attract Your Soulmate

197

The Power of Presence: 6 Ways to Get Out of Your Head and Flirt with Charm

198

Do THIS to Make Dating a Lot Less Painful and a Lot More Fun

199

The Magic Move to Get Quality Online-Dating Matches

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Use these 5 Moves for Great First Dates

201

How to Become a Man of Action

202

Lip Service: 7 Ways to Confidently Go for the First Kiss

203

How to Charm Beautiful Women: 7 Simple Flirting Moves

204

Use the “3 Times Rule” and Stop Getting Ghosted

205

Are You Man Enough to Be Feminine? How to Truly Connect with Women

206

Risky Business: For Instant Confidence, Become a Bold Risktaker

207

“How Do I Get More Dates on the Apps?” Your online-dating questions answered!

208

Revealed! The 4 Pillars of Instant Dating Confidence

209

How to Flirt with Women: the Wrong Way (DON’T do this) and the Right Way!

210

11 Ways to Make Dating Fun & Get More Dates NOW

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Ask the Dating Coach! “Help! How Do I Stop Getting Friend Zoned on First Dates?”

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How to Make Her Your Girlfriend, in 7 Easy Moves

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The Right Way to Approach Women, with Confidence and Charm

214

8 Tested Tips to Escape “Interview Mode” on Dates and Create a Connection

215

The 5 Super Shifts to Gain Confidence and Start Attracting Wonderful Women

216

Do THIS to Be Fun and Flirty on Dates + 5 More Myths Busted

217

7 Dating Disasters to Avoid: How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 2

218

Consent is Sexy! How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 1

219

“Women Only Want Hot Guys” + 4 Other Dating Myths Demolished!

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LIVE COACHING! The secret to avoiding awkward silences on dates + how to go for the kiss

221

4 Ways to Stop Fearing Rejection and Start Feeling Confident

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LIVE COACHING! How to Be More Attractive to Women TODAY, using the ‘Confidence Code’

223

What’s Your Dating Superpower? 6 Ways to Spark Connections!

224

7 First Date Outfits for Men, with style expert Riane Bawalan

225

Your biggest dating problems… solved!

226

21 Dating Tips for Introverts, with Amber Brooks, editor of DatingAdvice.com

227

9 Advanced Dating Moves! Plus: How to Ask for a Number

228

How to Be a Better Man, Featuring Alex Manley, author of “The New Masculinity”

229

First Date Topics to Create a Strong Connection

230

How to Be an Attractive Man, with Dr. Robert Glover and “The Big Stick” Author Tony Endelman

231

How to Describe Yourself on a Dating App: 15 Moves for More Matches

232

12 Tips on Dating as an Introverted Man, with Anthony Recenello

233

How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App: 23 Quick Tips!

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First Date Tips for Guys: 27 Tips to Make Sparks Fly

235

How to Be More Confident with Women? Become Radically Authentic!

236

LIVE COACHING! How to Get Out of the Friend Zone on Dates and Make Sparks Fly

237

How to Date Wonderful Women without Approaching or Using Apps

238

How to Be Flirty and Funny—and Never Run Out of Things to Say

239

LIVE COACHING! How Connell’s client went from fearful to confidently approaching women…and getting dates!

240

From nerdy to flirty! How to stop doubting yourself and attract your dream girlfriend (with Brian Pippard)

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How To Be a Confident Man

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How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

243

How To Talk To Women

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What Women Want In Men

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How to Flirt with Girls Online

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How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend

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