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Lessons With A King — 352 episodes
Lesson 1991: To Get Good At It, I Must Be Ok With Sucking At It First
Lesson 1990: A Leader Makes Decisions
Lesson 1989: Give The Gift Of Attention
Lesson 1988: There's A Chance Something Will Go Wrong
Lesson 1987: Make Something Useful
Lesson 1986: I Must Learn When To Control The Situation
Lesson 1985: I Must Learn When To Surrender To The Situation
Lesson 1984: Own The Distribution
Lesson 1983: Sacrifice More Or Want Less
Lesson 1982: Keep At It
Lesson 1981: More Shots, More Goals
Lesson 1980: Monsters Are Never Satisfied
Lesson 1979: The More Time I Do It, The Better I Get At It
Lesson 1978: Show Respect
Lesson 1977: Give First
Lesson 1976: Make Them Feel Valued
Lesson 1975: Respect Life Outside Work
Lesson 1974: The More Specific The Question, The Better The Answer
Lesson 1973: I Need Support
Lesson 1972: Make The Work The Reward
Lesson 1971: Have A Clear Vision
Lesson 1970: Seasons Will Change
Lesson 1969: Embrace Forgiveness
Lesson 1968: Verify AI Results
Lesson 1967: Teaching It Helps Me Learn Better
Lesson 1966: Helping Others Help When I'm Lonely
Lesson 1965: Reduce Phone Use
Lesson 1964: Get A Whiteboard
Lesson 1963: No To "Smart" Appliances
Lesson 1962: To Get Attention, Give Attention
Lesson 1961: Stay Out Of Arguments
Lesson 1960: A Great Story Leads To Change
Lesson 1959: It's Ok If I Reject It
Lesson 1958: Create Opportunities For Others
Lesson 1957: The Shorter The Ad The Better
Lesson 1956: Leave Them Better Than I Found Them
Lesson 1955: Celebrate My Partner
Lesson 1954: I Must Show Up When It's My Turn
Lesson 1953: Do Something Ridiculous Just For The Joy Of It?
Lesson 1952: Create It For One Person
Lesson 1951: Kill The Comparison Effect
Lesson 1950: Wants Are Rarely Ever Needs
Lesson 1949: I Have My Team's Back
Lesson 1948: Seven Sales Emails A Month
Lesson 1947: Asking For Help Is Not Weakness
Lesson 1946: Art Can Heal
Lesson 1945: Find Ways To Make Things Better
Lesson 1944: Compromise Is Essential
Lesson 1943: Sponsor More People
Lesson 1942: Happiness Is An Epiphenomenon
Lesson 1941: Amplify My Assets
Lesson 1940: Create Opportunities For Others
Lesson 1939: It's Ok To Do It For Me
Lesson 1938: Say Their Name Correctly
Lesson 1937: Ask More Questions
Lesson 1936: Focus On The Long Game
Lesson 1935: Value Is Directly Proportional To Scarcity
Lesson 1934: Love All That They Are
Lesson 1933: Apophenia Is Powerful
Lesson 1932: Show More Kindness
Lesson 1931: Take Advantage Of Every Opportunity
Lesson 1930: A Brief Is A Source Of Truth
Lesson 1929: Make Taking Action A Pleasure
Lesson 1928: My Tribe Influences My Thinking
Lesson 1927: Find My Tribe
Lesson 1926: Own Principles
Lesson 1925: Haters Are Usually Doing Worse
Lesson 1924: Put The Spolight On Amazing People
Lesson 1923: No New War (If I Can Help it)
Lesson 1922: I Must Contribute
Lesson 1921: Have A Stretch Goal
Lesson 1920: I Have To Be More Understanding
Lesson 1919: Document As Much As Possible
Lesson 1918: I Will Pick Myself
Lesson 1917: Nobody Can "Want" It For Me
Lesson 1916: Starting From Scratch Can Be A Good Thing
Lesson 1915: A Failure Can Be One Step Closer To A Win
Lesson 1914: The Issue Can Be An Asset
Lesson 1913: Embrace Fun
Lesson 1912: Making Impact Takes Time
Lesson 1911: Give My Partner A Self-Made Coupon
Lesson 1910: Embrace Sensate Focus
Lesson 1909: With The Right Motivation, I'll Find The Time
Lesson 1908: Write Down The Problem I Want To Solve
Lesson 1907: 5 Seconds To Get Their Attention
Lesson 1906: Likes Are Useless
Lesson 1905: Create Lifetime Friendships
Lesson 1904: It's Ok To Change My Mind
Lesson 1903: Double The Amount Of "Action Time' Relative To The "Research Time"
Lesson 1902: A Crisis Can Be A Catalyst
Lesson 1901: Start A Pact
Lesson 1850: Respect Everyone No Matter Their Role
Lesson 1849: Listen More
Lesson 1848: Speak Less
Lesson 1847: False Confidence Is Dangerous
Lesson 1846: Great Coincidences Come From Great Plans
Lesson 1845: Be Consistently Reliable
Lesson 1844: Embrace Weird Ideas
Lesson 1843: Start That Business
Lesson 1842: I Must Endure The Boring Parts To Get To The Amazing Parts
Lesson 1841: When Stuck, Take The Smallest Action Possible
Lesson 1840: Embrace Repetition
Lesson 1839: They Want What They Want
Lesson 1838: Technique Before Speed
Lesson 1837: Do Something Delightful
Lesson 1836: Be Kind To Myself
Lesson 1835: Always Consider The Cost And The Benefit
Lesson 1834: Regret Is More Painful Than Failure
Lesson 1833: To Change Direction, Move First
Lesson 1832: Create Emotional Connection
Lesson 1831: It All Matters
Lesson 1830: Embrace Indirect Mentors
Lesson 1829: Eject The Bad Ones
Lesson 1828: Ask For That Favour
Lesson 1827: Pick A Grand Mission For The Year
Lesson 1826: Create A Brag Book For Me
Lesson 1825: Chill Out
Lesson 1824: Rejection Is Information
Lesson 1823: Embrace Connection
Lesson 1822: I Might Have To Work With People I AM No Fan Of
Lesson 1821: The More They Like Me, The More They Want To Work With Me
Lsson 1820: Make Sure I'm Not Stalling
Lesson 1819: I Am Not For Everyone
Lesson 1818: Focus On My "One Thing"
Lesson 1817: It's An Office, Not A Family
Lesson 1816: Show Respect
Lesson 1815: Get Advice From My Future Self
Lesson 1814: Get Better At Figuring It Out
Lesson 1813: Pick The Right Mentor
Lesson 1812: Keep Building Connection
Lesson 1811: Mistakes Are Lessons
Lesson 1810: Make Others Feel Good
Lesson 1809: Embrace Researching
Lesson 1808: Register My Domain Name
Lesson 1807: The More Time I Take, The More Durable It Is
Lesson 1806: It's Ok To Change My Decision
Lesson 1805: Magnify Their Light
Lesson 1804: Do One Good Thing Today
Lesson 1803: Make Good Habits Easy To Achieve
Lesson 1802: Make Bad Habits Difficult To Achieve
Lesson 1801: Change Leads To A New Beginning
Lesson 1800: Visualise The End
Lesson 1799: The More I Know About Them, The More I Understand Them
Lesson 1798: Taboos Can Be Business Opportunities
Lesson 1797: Spending Is Important
Lesson 1796: Saving Is Important
Lesson 1795: Always Have Something To Look Forward To
Lesson 1794: Appreciate My Partner Daily
Lesson 1793: Embrace Hard Conversations
Lesson 1792: Have An "It's Time To Work" Signal
Lesson 1791: I Can't Make You Happy All The Time
Lesson 1790: Uproot The Weeds
Lesson 1789: Tomorrow Will Come Whether I'm Ready Or Not
Lesson 1788: A Good Story Can Lead To Change
Lesson 1787: A Disappointment Might Just Be A Delay
Lesson 1786: Learning Something New Takes Effort
Lesson 1785: Take A Walk Whenever I'm Stuck
Lesson 1784: There's No Need To Max Out
Lesson 1783: It's Difficult To Predict A Hit
Lesson 1782: My Work Says A Lot About Me
Lesson 1781: There Is Always A Helper
Lesson 1780: I Won't Give Up On Myself
Lesson 1779: Do It Better Next Time
Lesson 1778: Happy Or Right; Choose Wisely
Lesson 1777: My Choices Say A Lot About Me
Lesson 1776: Encourage Curiosity
Lesson 1775: Variable Rewards Are Powerful
Lesson 1774: Be Kind To Myself
Lesson 1773: Say "Hi" First
Lesson 1772: Make Art With Loved Ones
Lesson 1771: I Define My Style
Lesson 1770: Embrace De-escalation
Lesson 1769: Overconfidence Can Hurt Me
Lesson 1768: Write It For One Person First
Lesson 1767: Creating A Legacy Starts Today
Lesson 1766: Consistency > Intensity
Lesson 1765: Winning Comes With Its Problems
Lesson 1764: Share Something Personal
Lesson 1763: Make Space For People To Connect
Lesson 1762: Motivation Has To Be Properly Aimed
Lesson 1761: My Work Will Outlive Me
Lesson 1760: Joy Is Important
Lesson 1759: Epic Stories Beat Data
Lesson 1758: Every Decision I Make Should Lead Me Closer To My Goal
Lesson 1757: They Won't Always Be The Right Partner
Lesson 1756: Time Cannot Be Renewed
Lesson 1755: Create With My Friends
Lesson 1754: "A Moment" Is Not "The Moment"
Lesson 1753: Walk In Nature To Feel Better
Lesson 1752: Make It Easier For My People To Invite Their Friends To My "Thing"
Lesson 1751: Focus On My People
Lesson 1750: Be A Specialist
Lesson 1749: I Must Get Better At Lowering My Expectations
Lesson 1748: Give More Now
Lesson 1747: AI Is A Tool
Lesson 1746: New Can Be Interesting
Lesson 1745: To Create What I Want, I Have To Stay Reasonably "Cheap"
Lesson 1744: It's Ok To Abandon A Project
Lesson 1743: Anger Is Expensive
Lesson 1742: Strategy First
Lesson 1741: It Is Rarely Ever "That Serious"
Lesson 1740: I Define My "Good Life"
Lesson 1739: Growth Requires Struggle
Lesson 1738: Learn To Explain My Decisions
Lesson 1737: Make Something With Someone I Care About
Lesson 1736: Give A Thoughtful Compliment
Lesson 1735: If I like them, I should let them know
Lesson 1734: Teach That New Thing
Lesson 1733: Be On Time
Lesson 1732: Building A Culture Takes Time
Lesson 1731: I Will Disappoint Some People
Lesson 1730: Follow My Life Purpose
Lesson 1729: Competition Is Good
Lesson 1728: Create Superfans
Lesson 1727: Curiosity Is My Friend
Lesson 1726: Experience > Instinct
Lesson 1725: Subtracting Can Be Helpful When Things Are Not Working
Lesson 1724: Give The Right Incentive
Lesson 1723: Limit The Number Of Choices
Lesson 1722: Celebrate Streaks
Lesson 1721: Create Streaks
Lesson 1720: Master The Space Between Stimulus And Response
Lesson 1719: Reduce Risks
Lesson 1718: I Love Who I Love
Lesson 1717: Embrace Simplicity
Lesson 1716: Focus On That One Thing I'm Amazing At
Lesson 1715: Always Identify Their True Motivations
Lesson 1714: It's Ok If I Don't Fit In
Lesson 1713: Embrace Wonder
Lesson 1712: Always Ask "Why?"
Lesson 1711: Marketing Firs
Lesson 1710: Have A "Green Flags" List
Lesson 1709: Find The Right Collaborator
Lesson 1708: Ignore Pointless Arguments
Lesson 1707: A Business Is NOT A Family
Lesson 1706: A Business Is A Team
Lesson 1705: The Prompt Might Not Work The First Time
Lesson 1704: To Grow, I Must Be Ok Being Uncomfortable
Lesson 1703: Empower Teammates To Make Decisions
Lesson 1702: Reduce The Number Of My Goals
Lesson 1701: Define The Purpose Before Creating
Lesson 1700: Have A Grand Exit
Lesson 1699: Embrace Radical Acceptance
Lesson 1698: Stick It Out
Lesson 1697: Be The Friend Who Lifts Spirits Up
Lesson 1696: A Power Nap Can Be Essential
Lesson 1695: Embrace Emotional Intelligence
Lesson 1694: Get More Sunlight
Lesson 1693: Use The Right Tech
Lesson 1692: Be A Connector
Lesson 1691: Spend Time With The Right People
Lesson 1690: Be Deliberate With Directional Decisions
Lesson 1689: We All Make Mistakes
Lesson 1688: Bring Delight
Lesson 1687: Make Work Fun
Lesson 1686: Good Stress Is Essential
Lesson 1685: Make Things Better For Everyone
Lesson 1684: I Am Not Late
Lesson 1683: Stay Active
Lesson 1682: Be The One Who Reduces Friction
Lesson 1681: We Need Real Connections
Lesson 1680: Have A Grand Exit
Lesson 1679: Embrace "So What?"
Lesson 1678: Show Up With Care
Lesson 1677: I Have To Try More To Create More
Lesson 1676: Talk About Money With Loved Ones
Lesson 1675: Find My People
Lesson 1674: Embrace Connections
Lesson 1673: Make AI Work For You
Lesson 1672: Reward Consistency
Lesson 1671: It's Always Ok To Start Again
Lesson 1670: Rest Is Essential
Lesson 1669: I Have To Do It Over And Over To Get Better At It
Lesson 1668: A Good Dopamine Hit Requires Effort
Lesson 1667: Cheap Dopamine Hits Usually End Up Being Expensive
Lesson 1666: The Work Is What Matters
Lesson 1665: Embrace What I Excel At
Lesson 1664: If It Works, Keep Doing It
Lesson 1663: Sometimes It's Good To Be The Odd Person
Lesson 1662: Get A Small Team Of All Stars
Lesson 1661: Be The One Who Cares More
Lesson 1660: Create A Wonderful Customer Experience
Lesson 1659: Give Them Permission To Reach Out
Lesson 1658: Tension Can Be Good
Lesson 1657: It's Ok To Be Random
Lesson 1656: Embrace The Right Strategy
Lesson 1655: My Trauma Does Not Define Me
Lesson 1654: Better > More
Lesson 1653: To Care For Something Means To Ignore Something Else
Lesson 1652: The Third Chance May Never Come
Lesson 1651: Use The Right Reference
Lesson 1650: Tell Helpful Stories
Lesson 1649: Show Up Through The Difficult Times
Lesson 1648: I Might Have To Play A Different Role
Lesson 1647: My Follower Count Won't Make Me Any Better At What I Do
Lesson 1646: To Win, I Must Play
Lesson 1645: Keep Moving Towards Better
Lesson 1644: Ask For What I Want
Lesson 1643: Embrace The Ideal Attitude
Lesson 1642: There's No After Party Without The Show
Lesson 1641: Enjoy The After Party
Lesson 1640: Professionals Show Up. Every. Single. Time
Lesson 1639: It Takes A While To Build A Great Thing
Lesson 1638: Pay Off The Promise
Lesson 1637: Once It's In Public, Expect Opinions
Lesson 1636: Highlight Their Value
Lesson 1635: Embrace Gradual Reveals
Lesson 1634: Ask For It
Lesson 1633: Be A Coach
Lesson 1632: Get The Right Coach
Lesson 1631: I Have To Let Some Tasks Go
Lesson 1630: Saying Sorry Can Make People Feel Better
Lesson 1629: Send More Handwritten Notes
Lesson 1628: Shipping Junk Is Expensive
Lesson 1627: Be A Benefit
Lesson 1626: A Simple Process > A Perfect Process
Lesson 1625: Curiosity Can Beat Fear
Lesson 1624: Names > Numbers
Lesson 1623: I Have To Learn When To Speed Up
Lesson 1622: I Have To Learn When To Go Slow
Lesson 1621: It Can Be Done Better
Lesson 1620: They All Have Burdens They Carry
Lesson 1619: Run From Buy Now Pay Later
Lesson 1618: Decision-making Is Expensive
Lesson 1617: Some People Will Be Disappointed
Lesson 1616: Start The Interaction
Lesson 1615: Every Path Has Its Difficulties
Lesson 1614: There Is No Magic Bullet
Lesson 1613: Set Clear Expectations
Lesson 1612: Process > Outcome
Lesson 1611: Learn To Do It Before I Need It
Lesson 1610: A Good Note Inspires A Story
Lesson 1609: It Can Be Popular But Not Good
Lesson 1608: It Can Be Good But Not Popular
Lesson 1607: They Might Not Value My Work
Lesson 1606: Have A "Green Flags" List
Lesson 1605: More Information, More Trust
Lesson 1604: Send A Gift Today
Lesson 1603: Tension Leads To Growth
Lesson 1602: Point Them To The Right Person
Lesson 1601: Have A Grand Entrance
Lesson 1600: It's Last Time Will Come
Lesson 1599: Make Good Work. Deliver On Time. Be Easy To Get Along With. Pick Two
Lesson 1598: Create Despite The Pushback
Lesson 1597: Encourage Subscriptions
Lesson 1596: Let Go Of Grudges
Lesson 1595: Reliable > Authentic
Lesson 1594: There Will Be Another Show
Lesson 1593: Make My "Quirk" An Edge
Lesson 1592: Perfect Is Not Ideal
Lesson 1591: Not All Ideas Are Great Ideas
Lesson 1590: Give Myself What I Needed As A Kid