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Abstinence is the Only Correct Path to Sex says Tony Gaskins

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This Situationship Taught Me About What I Want in Bed ft. Sabrina Zohar

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You Abandoned Me, Stop Calling it a Breakup ft. Shaun Ross

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So We're Just Gonna Pretend Like... | Responding to Your Comments Live Via G

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He Felt Like the Dad I Never Had. That Was the Problem ft. Via G

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If It Don't Apply, Let It Fly | Responding to Your Comments Live: Kendrick Sampson

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Romantic Love Is the Most Narrow Form of Love ft. Kendrick Sampson

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I'm (Still) Concerned About Our Love, Pt. 3

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He's Gay. She's a Lesbian. They're In a Co-Parenting Arrangement With Their Son

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Criticism Has No Place in a Relationship ft. The Gottmans

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The Lengths One Catfish Went to Avoid Getting Caught

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Listen Again: Singer Mario Opens Up About Emotional Healing After Maternal Trauma

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Listen Again: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS ft. Lena Waithe

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Listen Again: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft. Cree Summer

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If There Was a Female Version of “Viagra”, Would You Take It?

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Naomi Sharon: Learning About OCD Taught Me Why I Can't Let Go

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Does Unrequited Love Mean the Love Wasn't Real? ft. Tanerélle

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I Embarrassed Him and We Had to Talk About It

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Stop Turning Me Into Inspiration Porn — Ericka Hart on Nasty Work

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Loving Someone Based on How They Present Is the Whole Problem

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The Most Intimate Thing a Man Can Do for His Family ft. Jared Brady & Jonathan Singletary

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How to Be in a Relationship Without One Foot Out the Door - Inayah on Going from Leaver to Lover

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He Cheated. Then He Had a Son. Here's What He Did Differently

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I'm Sorry.

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Part II: Finding Happily Ever After Without a Romantic Partner ft. Melyssa Ford

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Everyone Wants This Kind of Love… Until It Costs Them Something

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Is It Wrong to Still Want Attention if You’re in a Relationship ft. Lauren Morrison

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This Changes How You See Avoidantly Attached People ft. Dr. Amir Levine

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This Kama Sutra Secret About Hands Changes Everything

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The Year I Decided I’d Never Divorce My Husband

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I Spent Years Forcing Relationships… Here’s What I Learned ft. Affion Crockett

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The Secret to Attracting a Husband, Not Just a Boyfriend ft. Kamie Crawford

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I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu

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Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis

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What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson

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Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise

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What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford

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Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke

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Spinning the Block Doesn’t Work Without This ft. Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown

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Do We Believe Her Now? | Abby De La Rosa Returns to Discuss Her Alternative Relationship

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What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines

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Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce

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The Real Reason We Started an Open Relationship

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When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré

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Intimacy Started When This Secret Came to Light ft. Jonathan Van Ness

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Navigating Parenting Differences as Lovers

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Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio

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Seema Anand on Overcoming Shame with the Kama Sutra’s Secrets

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Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe ft. Tanerélle

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What My Autism Diagnosis Taught Me About Love and Feeling Safe ft. Chrisette Michele

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Is It Too Late to Become Who I Thought I’d Be? ft Chy Fontenette

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Should Relationships be THIS Hard? ft. Beleaf & Yvette Henry

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Could a Single Moment Be Controlling Your Love Story? Ft Andre Holland

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How Inner Child Work Can Save Your (love) Life featuring Lilly Singh

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How Jemele Hill is Fighting Back Against America’s #1 Sex Life Killers

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The Truth About Getting The Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. Rosa Acosta

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Am I Still Who You Want? Are You Becoming Who I Need? A Relationship Check-In + Free Guide ft Jared Brady

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My Mom Talked to Me About Sex, And It Made Me Rebel ft. Blair Imani

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What holds a relationship together when life falls apart ft Dr. Laura Berman

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Inside the Male Fantasy: The Surprising Request Men Keep Paying For ft. The Pink Parley

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He Had Multiple Lovers and I Was Good with Just Him. Alyson Stoner On Their Intro To Polyamory

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The Eartha Kitt Effect Why Women Are Happily Choosing the Single Life for Life

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No One Talks About How Hard Making Friends As An Adult Is ft. Krista Williams

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Is a Good Man Good Enough? ft. Miranda Rae Mayo

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Are They Your Type or Your Trauma Response ft. Anwar White

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What’s the Emotional Tax on Casual Sex? ft. Decisions Decisions

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Too Many of Us Are Living with High-Functioning Depression ft. Dr. Judith Joseph

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Kama Sutra Secrets Every Woman Deserves to Know ft. Seema Anand

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He Was Never Going To Commit And Here's Why ft. Duckwrth

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I Wanted My Man, Not the Sex: Tamsen Fadal on Losing Her Libido At the Worst Possible Time

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Go Where you are Celebrated, Not Just Tolerated ft. Kennedy Ryan

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Having the Sex I’d Want My Daughter to Expect with Xosha

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Jessie Woo Opens Up About Surviving Sexual Assault, Reclaiming Pleasure and Building Healthy Love After Trauma

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Alessia Cara Opens Up About How Death Anxiety Affects Her Relationships

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Raven-Symoné and Miranda on How Sleep Divorce Strengthened Their Marriage

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Cree Summer Opens Up About How Emotional Safety Reignited Her Sex Drive After 50

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Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!

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B. Simone Opens Up About Putting God First, Chastity and Demisexuality

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Karamo Brown on Evolving Sexual and Emotional Needs Over Time

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Khadeen and Devale Ellis on Defying Gender Roles to Save Their Marriage

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Jessie Reyez on Why Boundaries Are a Form of Love

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Deepica Mutyala Breaks Down Dating as a Successful Woman and Manifesting a Relationship With Purpose

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Lena Waithe Reflects on Emotional Intimacy and Platonic Relationships

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Tika Sumpter Breaks Down What Sex Education Looks At Home

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Singer Mario Opens Up About Emotional Healing After Maternal Trauma

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Forget What You Thought You Knew About Good Sex and Start HERE

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Kerry Washington: We Are as Sick as Our Secrets

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Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires

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Ride Our Emotional Roller Coaster: The Concluding Episode of Lovers & Friends

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Get the Fairytale You Need - Despite What You Think You Want feat. Damona Hoffman

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If Someone Says I’m Too Feminine or Too Masculine, I Know We Won’t Work feat. Mal Wright

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A Therapist and Her Husband Chose To Be Childfree. Here's Why feat. Vanessa and Xander Marin

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If You Haven’t Found Your Go To Position, Try These from the Kama Sutra feat. Seema Anand

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Tonight's Conversation vs Lovers and Friends: Orgasm Gap and Relationships Being Mid

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Why Is ShxtsNGigs Dominating the Sex / Relationship Podcast Game?

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I Love Older Men, but I Regret Dating Them in My Twenties feat. Anna Akana

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No, THAT’S Not Normal! How Hormones Could Be Impacting Your Sex Life and Health

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Self Love: My Key to Not Being Blinded By Hurt and Constant Criticism

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I Understand Jada Pinkett Smith and Will's Relationship because of This

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I Never Stayed Past the Honeymoon Phase and Here’s Why feat. Brenden Durell