All Episodes

272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller

271. Sexpert Swinger Cruises: F**king up more than you f**k - Amber Mallery

270. The Wild Ride of Following Your Pleasure - Karen Yates

269. F**king Your Friends is Mutual Aid - Dominatrix Empress Wu

268. Solo-Pleasure with the Lights Turned On – August McLaughin

267. Love in a F**ked up World - Dean Spade

266. Cry Hard. Cum Hard: the Connection Between Pleasure and Grief with Jess DeVries

265. The Tension of Erotic Energy: Premature Ejaculation of Vulnerability with Aaron Frazin

264. Burnt-Out Libido: When You Need a Polycule to Afford NYC with Justine Ang Fonte

263. When the Sex Party is Home: Power, Play, and Permission with Gili Jala

262. Sex Under Fascism: Being An Ethical Slut with Michelle Hy

261. The Practice of Relationship Anarchy with Ewan McConchie

260. The Collective Power of Queer, BDSM, and Non-Monogamous Communities with Liam Wignall

259. Year 5 Reflection with Dr. Nicole and Dr. Lydia

258. Your Empowered Pleasure-Based Sexuality Narrative with Jane Downey

257. The Voice of a Liberated Orgasm with Dr. Jen Gunsaullus, Ph. D

256. Radical Relating and Relationship Anarchy with Mel Cassidy

255. Embracing Authentic Queer Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Melissa Fabello, Ph.D

254. Queer Joy as Collective Resistance with Dr. JJ Wright

253. Chill Polyamory and Intentional Community Building with Genevieve

252. Exploring Your Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Frankie

251. The Heroic Dose of Polyamory and Sexual Communication with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers

250. Jealousy Orgasms and Sexual Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton

249. Relationship Anarchist: Stephen Symington

248: Liberating your Sexual and Relational Play with Dr. Liz Powell

247: The Skills of Rupture and Repair with Lux Gypsum

246: Becoming an Embodied and Empowered Sex Witch with Ashley Manta

245: Relationship Anarchist: Jezebel Blessing

244. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés

243. Owning Your Consent and Sexual Agency with Kitty Stryker

242. Pleasure is the Power: A Female Led Revolution with Dr. Tammy Nelson

241. Relationship Anarchist: Kara Szymanski

240. Stepping into Your Sensual Empowerment with Ally Iseman

239. Decolonizing and Unsettling Sexuality with Dr. Roger Khun

238. Dismantling Purity Culture: Abstinence, Drug Use, and Harm Reduction with Sheila Vakharia

237. Relationship Anarchist: Momo

236. Relaxing into an Abundance Mindset with Sex and Relationships with Roy Graff

235. Learning the Language of Creative, Erotic Intimacy with Darshana Avila

234. Exploring the Edge of Infidelity with Paul Keable

233. Relationship Anarchist: Aaron

232. Our Failure of Imagination with Non-Monogamy with Shai

231. Playing with your Erotic Edge & Sexuality Beyond Consent with Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou

230. Polyamory for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant

229. Relationship Anarchist: Lucy Halliday

228. Listening to the Body’s Truth through Psychedelics with Geoff Bathje

227. Jealousy vs Compersion: The Transformation of Liberated Love with Dr. Marie Thouin

226. The Psychedelic Dose of Non-Monogamy with Moss Herberholz

225. Relationship Anarchist: Chrisalis

224. The Anarchy of Sex Manifesto with Sally Emm

223. Sacred Sex Ed: Expansion and Liberation with Leola Watkins

222. Relational Ecology: The Interconnectedness of Our Pleasure with Kristina Scott

221. Relationship Anarchist: Erin O'Daniel

220. For the Anxious Person Practicing Non-Monogamy with Lola Phoenix

219. Exploring the Set + Setting of Your Relational Ecosystem with Kate

218. Embodying the Values of Anarchy with Prince Shakur

217. Relationship Anarchist: Betty O'Leary

216. Crying Through Non-Monogamy and Choosing It Anyway

215. Cumming into Presence and Integrating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dave Rabin

214. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés

213. Relationship Anarchist: Silver

212. The Edginess of Unconditional Love and Sexual Empathy with Bear Phillips

211. Untangling the Scripts for Intimacy and Setting Them on Fire with Elise Braunschweiger

210. Harm Reduction, Non-Monogamy, and Embodied Liberation with Justice Riveria

209. Relationship Anarchist: Juno Aventurine

208. Too Queer to be Monogamous with Jaime Delgado

207. The Sexual Wisdom and Liberation of All Bodies with Emily Royce

206. Year Four: Liberating My Authentic Voice

205. Relationship Anarchist: Star Stewart

204. Queering Our Religious Trauma and Sexual Liberation with Thickie Comrade

203. Healing to Create Our Collective Pleasure with Jessica McDuffee

202. BDSM, Kink, and Psychedelics: Exploring the Edge with Mike Margolies

201. Relationship Anarchist: Jasper Brown

200. Results from the First Research Study on Relationship Anarchy

199. Becoming a Turned On Female Leader with Pamela von Sabljar

198. Exploring Non-Monogamy and Queer Sexual Freedom with Ren DAuria

197. Relationship Anarchist: Mx. Flow

196. Building Psychedelic Communities of Care with Ifetayo Harvey

195. Following Abundant Pleasure After Purity Culture with Kelly Pastori

194. The Polywise Paradigm Shift with David Cooley

193. Relationship Anarchist: Miles Wilcox

192. The Set and Setting of Your Somatic Intuition with Dr. Karolina Mikos

191. Relationship Anarchy and The Romance Myth with Dean Spade

190. Claiming Each Other Across the Divide with Lorie Solis

189. Relationship Anarchist: Absayonika Hone

188. Crafting Deeper Love in Your Relationships with Taune Lyons

187. The Erotic Vortex to Anarchy with Rahi Chun

186. The Alchemy of Psychedelics and Sexual Liberation with Katie Sullivan

185. Relationship Anarchist: Aspen

184. Unleashing Your Divine Whore with Claire Dore

183. Embracing Your Pleasure in Relationship Anarchy with Marcia Baczynski

182. Energy Literacy and Compassionate Magnetism with Dr. Broderick Sawyer

181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis

180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed

179. Exploring Psychedelics and Intimacy with Jordan Dobrowski

178. Looking in the Mirror of Your Relationships with Dominatrix Eva Oh

177. Relationship Anarchist: Jase Brakoniecki

176. How to Deal with Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide [Audiobook]

175. The Polysecure Paradigm Shift with Jessica Fern

174. Finding Our Collective Healing in Somatics and Social Justice with Staci Haines

173. Relationship Anarchist: Jeff Parrett

172. Expanding into Integrated Narratives of Sexuality and Embodiment with Dr. Ido Cohen

171. Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals and Growing Cultures of Care with Camille Sapara Barton

170. Liberating Our Pleasure and Labor from Whorephobia with Katherine Yeagel

169. Relationship Anarchist: Ren Cerebral

168. Your Fierce, Fearless, and Fully Engaged Sexuality with Tristan Taormino

167. The Non-Monogamy Research Playground with Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud

166. From SSRI’s to Psychedelics with Dr. Sam Zand

165. Relationship Anarchist: August Wolff

164. Pleasure Activists Embrace Pleasure, Pain, and Everything In-Between with Jimanekia Eborn

163. Your Self-Discovery Journey of Sexual Liberation with Dr. Juliana Hauser

162. Queering the Narrative of Psychedelics and Pleasure with Bia LaBate

161. Relationship Anarchist: Kat Pfligler

160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill

159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner

158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas

157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline

156. Unlocking Your Inner Dominatrix and Finding Erotic Catharsis with Mistress Wild Iris

155. The Relational Power of Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Integration with Tony Moss

154. Year Three: A Feminist Tale of Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Pleasure

153. Relationship Anarchist: Lara Okafor

152. Pleasure and Passion: Exploring Sex-Positive Expression with Anita Nevar

151. Stepping Into the Next Playfully Erotic Version of Yourself with Nicolle Hodges

150. Reconceptualizing Attachment as an Act of Social Justice with Dr. Adele Lafrance

149. Relationship Anarchist: Renya NeoNorton

148. Exploring the Nuance of Fundamental Christianity, Psychedelics, and Therapy with Liara Roux

147. Power Play: Healing, Abolitionism, and Spirituality with Tshegofatso Senne

146. Nerding Out On the Wheel of Consent with Dr. Betty Martin

145. The Gift of Non-Monogamy Ending in Divorce with Dirty Lola

144. Queering Psychedelics, Consent, and Community with Cy

143. Kinky Christianity to Relationship Anarchy Embodiment with Juliet Barrett

142. Celebrating Your Slutty Pleasure to Dismantle the Systems with Tamara Pincus

141. The Divine Eroticism of our Fantasy Narratives with Artemisia de Vine

140. Trusting in Love: Drugs, Spiritual Healers, and Decolonizing Psychedelic Therapy with Danielle Herrera

139. The Sensual and Mindfulness Practice of Kink and Psychedelics with Leia Friedwoman

138. The Healing of Earth-Based Medicines with Shane Norte

137. What's Your Frame For Relationship Anarchy? with Tuck Malloy

136. Waiting for a Hug: Activism for the Chronically Under-Touched with Aaron Johnson

135. Just Another Old, Married, Non-Monogamous Love Story with Kyros

134. Healing From the Grooming of Purity Culture with Dr. Rachel Smith

133. Mystical Drug Experiences, Connection, and Existentialism With Dr. Nick Beller

132. Creating New Patterns of Pleasure: Sex, Relationships, and Psychedelics with Juliana Rose

131. Coming Home to Our Sensual Embodiment and Open Hearts with Sarah White

130. Relationship Anarchy vs. Libertarianism: Beyond the Status Quo with Mel Cassidy

129. Deep Sex-Positivity for the Political Liberation of Our Pleasure with Dr. Carol Queen

128. What's Your Cage?: Drug Use Pleasure Enhancement and Harm Reduction with Irina Alexander

127. Every Breath Can Be an Orgasm: Intimacy, Social Justice, and Somatics with Caffyn Jesse

126. Navigating the Risks of Kink and Edge Play with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

125. Unpacking the Political Nature of Relationship Anarchy and Non-Monogamy with Michelle Hy

124. Play as Rebellion: Eco Sexuality, Kink Healing, and Somatic Connection with Elmo Painter-Edington

123. Leather Dykes, 24/7 D/s Dynamics, and the Intimacy of Heavy Impact Play with BCT

122. So, I Started Wearing My Purity Ring Again

121. Beginning to Question Non-Monogamy and Queerness with Fadl Fakhouri

120. How About We Make Love, Not Porn? with Cindy Gallop

119. Sex and Drugs Are Gonna Save the World with Britta Love

118. Dating A.I.? Exploring Intimacy Under Capitalism with Laura Mae Northrup

117. Playing with the Pleasure of Your Gender Magic with Rae McDaniel

116. How Conversations About Our Vaginas Will Bring Radical Pleasure with Lindsay Wynn

115. Are Therapists Causing Harm When it Comes to Sexuality? with Raquel Savage

114. Unlocking Potential: Embracing Your Intuitive Calling with Jasmine Prince

113. The End of Faking Orgasms and Beginning of Prioritizing Pleasure with Kelly Gordon

112. Basic Sex Ed As A Therapist Will Get You Fired? with Soleil Merroir

111. The Ethical Argument Against Monogamy, and Becoming a Dominatrix with Mistress Sybil Fury

110. MDMA, Ketamine, or Psilocybin Psychedelic Therapy and Pleasure? with Dr. Craig Heacock

109. The Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord and Finding Queer Belonging with Maxx Hill

108. Exploring the Kinky Non-Monogamy and Vanilla Monogamy Sex Spectrum with Hannah Witton

107. Recovering from Spiritual Trauma through Psychedelics and our Inner Healing Wisdom with Kayla Felten

106. Pleasure Equity and the Last Big Taboo of Sexuality with Damian

105. Healing through Kink with Chaney Williams

104. From Serial Monogamy to Polyamory and The One Penis Policy with Chad from PolyamFam

103. Year Two: The Queer, Kinky, Non-Monogamous Sex Educator Bringing Fire and Fury

102. Contraception, Psychedelics, and Psychopharmacology with Andi Rose and Jaycee

101. What's Wrong with the Field of Psychology? Liberation Psychology with Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez

100. Masturbation Meditation #3: Pussy Breathing

99. So, I Need To Have More Kinky Sex? Burnout, Passion, and Systematic Change with Karla Scherf

98. The Transformation of Kink and Surrogate Partner Therapy: Safety, Honesty, and Play with Brandon Hunter-Haydon

97. Hope for Ending the Generational Trauma with Amber Underwood

96. Modern Revolutions: Politicized Healing Under Racial Capitalism with B Stepp

95. Stories of Collective Liberation: Leadership Beyond Dominance, Psychedelic Expression, and Hope for a New Future with Naomi Grace

94. Reclaiming the Power of the Feminine Energy: Community, Intuition, and Rituals with Akinke Lucas

93. The Week After the Orgy: Time and Energy in Non-Monogamy with Sadie Lune

92. Platonic Intimacy, Forced Birth, and Sexism with Asia Dorsey

91. What Is The Most Pleasurable Sex You've Experienced? with Annie Philpott

90. How About Swinging? Pegging, Prostate Orgasms, and the Bisexual Man with Cooper Beckett

89. Burning The Holy Mormon Underwear: Kink, Community, and the God Complex with Madazon

88. The Revolution is Now: Are We Ready to Flip The Board of Capitalism? with Kori Doty

87. Stop Waiting for Others to Validate Your Shine: A New Paradigm of Healing and Spirituality with Eduardo Viezca

86. Am I Cutting Off My Identity By Only Having Sex with One Person? with Chris K

85. Embracing Your Sluthood and Geeking Out About Relationship Anarchy with Brian Gibney

84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade

83. Everyone is Alone Together: Celibacy, People Pleasing, and Self-Love with Ally McDowell

82. What Is Tantra? with Yoli Maya Yeh

81. Masturbation: It's Amazing and I Can't Tell Anyone About It with Jess DeVries

80. Are You Carrying Trauma From a Past Life? with Cai Carvalhaes

79. Think BIG and Scare Yourself with Alycia Levels-Moore

78. A Spiritual Direction Session: What is Spirituality? with Mandie McGlynn

77. I was the Poster Child for Purity: Asexuality, Spiritual Abuse, and Racism with Trifecta

76. Polyamory Is an Equally Bad Decision: Kink, Intersecting Identities, and Power Dynamics with Tien

75. Erotic Creativity: Surrogate Partner Therapy, Slowing Down Sex, and Relationship Anarchy with Carlene Ostedgaard

74. Sex Work Was The Beginning of My True Healing Journey with Cassie Porter

73. The Feminist Sex Wars: Suzie Jones Who Takes a Sexy Selfie is a Slut with Emma Phillips

72. Contradictions: Pansexuality, Intersecting Identities, and Shadow Sides with Evelyn Kim

71. Community Building: Masking, Polysecure, and Boundaries as an Act of Love with Jesse Holzman

70. Understanding Sex Within Culture: Condoms, Circumcision, and Capitalistic Competition with Amber Mallery

69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night

68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy with Arushi

67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words with Alan Mckee

66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States with Dayna Troisi

65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper

64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish with Anarella Martinez-Madrid

63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion with Mei Zarnitsyna

62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets with Gem Cut

61. Wrestling with Questions Around Identity: Sexuality, Gender, and Careers with Betsey Zemke

60. Exploring the Unconscious: Synchronicity, Dreams, and Psychedelic Psychotherapy with Manny Dominguez

59. The Intersection of Disability and Sexuality with Robin Wilson Beattie

58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church with Clark Hazel

57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Ebony Holloway

56. Building a Relationship Contract: Queer Theory, Kinky Monogamy, and the Relationship Escalator with Tom Doctor

55. Tuning Into My Embodied Self: Demi-Sexuality, Polyamory, and Somatic Experiencing with Meggie Twible

54. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love with Aubri Lancaster

53. True Crime: Holding Onto What He Could Be vs. What He Was with Jamie Baier

52. Year One Reflection with Your Host

51. Being Transgender is My Super Power with Corey Rae

50. I'm a Polyamorous Person in a Monogamous Relationship: Black Holes, Relationship Anarchy, and Queer Deconstruction with Aurora Higgs

49. The Creative Expression of Pornography with Lina Bembe

48. That's Not the End of the Story: Spicy Childhoods and Talking about Sex with Jason Best

47. The Mythology of A-Sexuality: I never had a crush! with Destinie Vidro

46. The Eroticism of a Shared Vision with Matthew Gamble

45. Are You Willing to Sip Your Own Medicine? with Natalie

44. How Men Cry with Dxtr Spits

43. Reclaiming the Sovern Meaning of Church with Amanda

42. Public Art with a Cause with Jason Avery

41. I'm Too Jealous for Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joli Hamilton

40. The Paradox of Our Identities with Jordanna

39. You're Your Own Superhero with Nico Cathcart

38. Be Ready to Be Confused with Desmond Napoles

37. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 2 with Nexus J

36. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 1 with Nexus J

35. The Struggle of Living with Vitoria

34. What Does it Mean to Manifest? with Anna

33. Claiming Your Pussy Power with Tazima Paris

32. Coming Out to Your Conservative Family: Are You a Gay Villian? with Jordan Parvex

31. Life is Too Short to Do One Thing with Keith Ramsey

30. Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System with Ren Grabert

29. Limiting Beliefs Around Love: Sound Healing, People Pleasing, and Finding Your Purpose with Sasha

28. You are Enough: How the ADA Shaped America with Cyndi Jones

27. I Got Double F**ked, and Finally, I Released! with Ze Royale

26. Mind, Body, Spirit: Letting Go of an Eating Disorder with Isa

25. Hot and Steamy Consent: Communicating Your Sexual Desires and Exploring Polyamory with Karen Yates

24. If You Can Sit For a Tattoo, You Can Have a Vasectomy with Drew

23. God Loves Queers: The Faith Journey of a Lesbian Bishop with Brenda Bos

22. The Hot F**king Mess of Legalized Cannabis: Is Your Consumption Ethical? with Anna Epstein

21. The Internet Age Gap: Is Curation Making Real-Life Intolerable? with Noah Scalin

20. Escaping the Multi-Level Marketing Scheme of Mormonism with Rayna Flannery

19. When Do You Leave a Relationship: Polyamory, Sadism, and Self-Care with Empress Wu

18. The Gray Forefront of Psychedelic Research with Manesh Girn

17. Let's Not Take Things Too Personally: HPV, Social Media, and Anxiety Brain with Kellie

16. The Anarchy of Beginning From Love with Nat Vikitsreth

15. Radical Everyday Acts: Jumping the Turnstile with Christiana

14. Defying Labels: Discovering I was an Abuser and Abused with Gary

13. Behind the Scenes of OnlyFans with Ramona Romance

12. The Psychedelic Experience of Post-Traumatic Growth with Jessica Cadoch

11. Nuns, Cum Socks, and Relationship Anarchy with Glitter Moneyyy

10a. Inner Parent Art Meditation Only

10. Leaving the Secure Job to Create Your Own Career + Inner Parent Art Meditation with Pam

9. Squirting, Wrestling, and Cannibalism! OH MY! with Lola Jean

8. God is Pro-Abortion: an Agnostic and a Christian Share Their Stories with Kim

7. White People, It's Not About You: Moving Through the Discomfort of Growth with Shimmy LaRoux

6a. Guided Masturbation Meditation Only

6. The Vulnerability of Sex and Connection: Yoni Massage Therapy and Guided Masturbation Meditation with Patrick

5. Staying Safe on Mushrooms: Progressing from Cannabis to Psychedelics with Michelle Janikian

4. Voluntary Female Sterilization at 26: I Don't Want Kids with Rae

3. Commentary with a Slice of Comedy: Spiritual Trauma and Fundamental Christianity with Fundie Fridays

2. Out Here for the Queers: Sex Work, Activism, and Advocacy with Cruel Valentine

1. Cannasexual and Finding Pleasure After Trauma with Ashley Manta