All Episodes
Modern Anarchy — 265 episodes
263. When the Sex Party is Home: Power, Play, and Permission with Gili Jala
262. Sex Under Fascism: Being An Ethical Slut with Michelle Hy
261. The Practice of Relationship Anarchy with Ewan McConchie
260. The Collective Power of Queer, BDSM, and Non-Monogamous Communities with Liam Wignall
259. Year 5 Reflection with Dr. Nicole and Dr. Lydia
258. Your Empowered Pleasure-Based Sexuality Narrative with Jane Downey
257. The Voice of a Liberated Orgasm with Dr. Jen Gunsaullus, Ph. D
256. Radical Relating and Relationship Anarchy with Mel Cassidy
255. Embracing Authentic Queer Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Melissa Fabello, Ph.D
254. Queer Joy as Collective Resistance with Dr. JJ Wright
253. Chill Polyamory and Intentional Community Building with Genevieve
252. Exploring Your Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Frankie
251. The Heroic Dose of Polyamory and Sexual Communication with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
250. Jealousy Orgasms and Sexual Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton
249. Relationship Anarchist: Stephen Symington
248: Liberating your Sexual and Relational Play with Dr. Liz Powell
247: The Skills of Rupture and Repair with Lux Gypsum
246: Becoming an Embodied and Empowered Sex Witch with Ashley Manta
245: Relationship Anarchist: Jezebel Blessing
244. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés
243. Owning Your Consent and Sexual Agency with Kitty Stryker
242. Pleasure is the Power: A Female Led Revolution with Dr. Tammy Nelson
241. Relationship Anarchist: Kara Szymanski
240. Stepping into Your Sensual Empowerment with Ally Iseman
239. Decolonizing and Unsettling Sexuality with Dr. Roger Khun
238. Dismantling Purity Culture: Abstinence, Drug Use, and Harm Reduction with Sheila Vakharia
237. Relationship Anarchist: Momo
236. Relaxing into an Abundance Mindset with Sex and Relationships with Roy Graff
235. Learning the Language of Creative, Erotic Intimacy with Darshana Avila
234. Exploring the Edge of Infidelity with Paul Keable
233. Relationship Anarchist: Aaron
232. Our Failure of Imagination with Non-Monogamy with Shai
231. Playing with your Erotic Edge & Sexuality Beyond Consent with Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou
230. Polyamory for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant
229. Relationship Anarchist: Lucy Halliday
228. Listening to the Body’s Truth through Psychedelics with Geoff Bathje
227. Jealousy vs Compersion: The Transformation of Liberated Love with Dr. Marie Thouin
226. The Psychedelic Dose of Non-Monogamy with Moss Herberholz
225. Relationship Anarchist: Chrisalis
224. The Anarchy of Sex Manifesto with Sally Emm
223. Sacred Sex Ed: Expansion and Liberation with Leola Watkins
222. Relational Ecology: The Interconnectedness of Our Pleasure with Kristina Scott
221. Relationship Anarchist: Erin O'Daniel
220. For the Anxious Person Practicing Non-Monogamy with Lola Phoenix
219. Exploring the Set + Setting of Your Relational Ecosystem with Kate
218. Embodying the Values of Anarchy with Prince Shakur
217. Relationship Anarchist: Betty O'Leary
216. Crying Through Non-Monogamy and Choosing It Anyway
215. Cumming into Presence and Integrating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dave Rabin
214. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés
213. Relationship Anarchist: Silver
212. The Edginess of Unconditional Love and Sexual Empathy with Bear Phillips
211. Untangling the Scripts for Intimacy and Setting Them on Fire with Elise Braunschweiger
210. Harm Reduction, Non-Monogamy, and Embodied Liberation with Justice Riveria
209. Relationship Anarchist: Juno Aventurine
208. Too Queer to be Monogamous with Jaime Delgado
207. The Sexual Wisdom and Liberation of All Bodies with Emily Royce
206. Year Four: Liberating My Authentic Voice
205. Relationship Anarchist: Star Stewart
204. Queering Our Religious Trauma and Sexual Liberation with Thickie Comrade
203. Healing to Create Our Collective Pleasure with Jessica McDuffee
202. BDSM, Kink, and Psychedelics: Exploring the Edge with Mike Margolies
201. Relationship Anarchist: Jasper Brown
200. Results from the First Research Study on Relationship Anarchy
199. Becoming a Turned On Female Leader with Pamela von Sabljar
198. Exploring Non-Monogamy and Queer Sexual Freedom with Ren DAuria
197. Relationship Anarchist: Mx. Flow
196. Building Psychedelic Communities of Care with Ifetayo Harvey
195. Following Abundant Pleasure After Purity Culture with Kelly Pastori
194. The Polywise Paradigm Shift with David Cooley
193. Relationship Anarchist: Miles Wilcox
192. The Set and Setting of Your Somatic Intuition with Dr. Karolina Mikos
191. Relationship Anarchy and The Romance Myth with Dean Spade
190. Claiming Each Other Across the Divide with Lorie Solis
189. Relationship Anarchist: Absayonika Hone
188. Crafting Deeper Love in Your Relationships with Taune Lyons
187. The Erotic Vortex to Anarchy with Rahi Chun
186. The Alchemy of Psychedelics and Sexual Liberation with Katie Sullivan
185. Relationship Anarchist: Aspen
184. Unleashing Your Divine Whore with Claire Dore
183. Embracing Your Pleasure in Relationship Anarchy with Marcia Baczynski
182. Energy Literacy and Compassionate Magnetism with Dr. Broderick Sawyer
181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis
180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed
179. Exploring Psychedelics and Intimacy with Jordan Dobrowski
178. Looking in the Mirror of Your Relationships with Dominatrix Eva Oh
177. Relationship Anarchist: Jase Brakoniecki
176. How to Deal with Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide [Audiobook]
175. The Polysecure Paradigm Shift with Jessica Fern
174. Finding Our Collective Healing in Somatics and Social Justice with Staci Haines
173. Relationship Anarchist: Jeff Parrett
172. Expanding into Integrated Narratives of Sexuality and Embodiment with Dr. Ido Cohen
171. Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals and Growing Cultures of Care with Camille Sapara Barton
170. Liberating Our Pleasure and Labor from Whorephobia with Katherine Yeagel
169. Relationship Anarchist: Ren Cerebral
168. Your Fierce, Fearless, and Fully Engaged Sexuality with Tristan Taormino
167. The Non-Monogamy Research Playground with Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud
166. From SSRI’s to Psychedelics with Dr. Sam Zand
165. Relationship Anarchist: August Wolff
164. Pleasure Activists Embrace Pleasure, Pain, and Everything In-Between with Jimanekia Eborn
163. Your Self-Discovery Journey of Sexual Liberation with Dr. Juliana Hauser
162. Queering the Narrative of Psychedelics and Pleasure with Bia LaBate
161. Relationship Anarchist: Kat Pfligler
160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill
159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner
158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas
157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline
156. Unlocking Your Inner Dominatrix and Finding Erotic Catharsis with Mistress Wild Iris
155. The Relational Power of Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Integration with Tony Moss
154. Year Three: A Feminist Tale of Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Pleasure
153. Relationship Anarchist: Lara Okafor
152. Pleasure and Passion: Exploring Sex-Positive Expression with Anita Nevar
151. Stepping Into the Next Playfully Erotic Version of Yourself with Nicolle Hodges
150. Reconceptualizing Attachment as an Act of Social Justice with Dr. Adele Lafrance
149. Relationship Anarchist: Renya NeoNorton
148. Exploring the Nuance of Fundamental Christianity, Psychedelics, and Therapy with Liara Roux
147. Power Play: Healing, Abolitionism, and Spirituality with Tshegofatso Senne
146. Nerding Out On the Wheel of Consent with Dr. Betty Martin
145. The Gift of Non-Monogamy Ending in Divorce with Dirty Lola
144. Queering Psychedelics, Consent, and Community with Cy
143. Kinky Christianity to Relationship Anarchy Embodiment with Juliet Barrett
142. Celebrating Your Slutty Pleasure to Dismantle the Systems with Tamara Pincus
141. The Divine Eroticism of our Fantasy Narratives with Artemisia de Vine
140. Trusting in Love: Drugs, Spiritual Healers, and Decolonizing Psychedelic Therapy with Danielle Herrera
139. The Sensual and Mindfulness Practice of Kink and Psychedelics with Leia Friedwoman
138. The Healing of Earth-Based Medicines with Shane Norte
137. What's Your Frame For Relationship Anarchy? with Tuck Malloy
136. Waiting for a Hug: Activism for the Chronically Under-Touched with Aaron Johnson
135. Just Another Old, Married, Non-Monogamous Love Story with Kyros
134. Healing From the Grooming of Purity Culture with Dr. Rachel Smith
133. Mystical Drug Experiences, Connection, and Existentialism With Dr. Nick Beller
132. Creating New Patterns of Pleasure: Sex, Relationships, and Psychedelics with Juliana Rose
131. Coming Home to Our Sensual Embodiment and Open Hearts with Sarah White
130. Relationship Anarchy vs. Libertarianism: Beyond the Status Quo with Mel Cassidy
129. Deep Sex-Positivity for the Political Liberation of Our Pleasure with Dr. Carol Queen
128. What's Your Cage?: Drug Use Pleasure Enhancement and Harm Reduction with Irina Alexander
127. Every Breath Can Be an Orgasm: Intimacy, Social Justice, and Somatics with Caffyn Jesse
126. Navigating the Risks of Kink and Edge Play with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff
125. Unpacking the Political Nature of Relationship Anarchy and Non-Monogamy with Michelle Hy
124. Play as Rebellion: Eco Sexuality, Kink Healing, and Somatic Connection with Elmo Painter-Edington
123. Leather Dykes, 24/7 D/s Dynamics, and the Intimacy of Heavy Impact Play with BCT
122. So, I Started Wearing My Purity Ring Again
121. Beginning to Question Non-Monogamy and Queerness with Fadl Fakhouri
120. How About We Make Love, Not Porn? with Cindy Gallop
119. Sex and Drugs Are Gonna Save the World with Britta Love
118. Dating A.I.? Exploring Intimacy Under Capitalism with Laura Mae Northrup
117. Playing with the Pleasure of Your Gender Magic with Rae McDaniel
116. How Conversations About Our Vaginas Will Bring Radical Pleasure with Lindsay Wynn
115. Are Therapists Causing Harm When it Comes to Sexuality? with Raquel Savage
114. Unlocking Potential: Embracing Your Intuitive Calling with Jasmine Prince
113. The End of Faking Orgasms and Beginning of Prioritizing Pleasure with Kelly Gordon
112. Basic Sex Ed As A Therapist Will Get You Fired? with Soleil Merroir
111. The Ethical Argument Against Monogamy, and Becoming a Dominatrix with Mistress Sybil Fury
110. MDMA, Ketamine, or Psilocybin Psychedelic Therapy and Pleasure? with Dr. Craig Heacock
109. The Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord and Finding Queer Belonging with Maxx Hill
108. Exploring the Kinky Non-Monogamy and Vanilla Monogamy Sex Spectrum with Hannah Witton
107. Recovering from Spiritual Trauma through Psychedelics and our Inner Healing Wisdom with Kayla Felten
106. Pleasure Equity and the Last Big Taboo of Sexuality with Damian
105. Healing through Kink with Chaney Williams
104. From Serial Monogamy to Polyamory and The One Penis Policy with Chad from PolyamFam
103. Year Two: The Queer, Kinky, Non-Monogamous Sex Educator Bringing Fire and Fury
102. Contraception, Psychedelics, and Psychopharmacology with Andi Rose and Jaycee
101. What's Wrong with the Field of Psychology? Liberation Psychology with Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez
100. Masturbation Meditation #3: Pussy Breathing
99. So, I Need To Have More Kinky Sex? Burnout, Passion, and Systematic Change with Karla Scherf
98. The Transformation of Kink and Surrogate Partner Therapy: Safety, Honesty, and Play with Brandon Hunter-Haydon
97. Hope for Ending the Generational Trauma with Amber Underwood
96. Modern Revolutions: Politicized Healing Under Racial Capitalism with B Stepp
95. Stories of Collective Liberation: Leadership Beyond Dominance, Psychedelic Expression, and Hope for a New Future with Naomi Grace
94. Reclaiming the Power of the Feminine Energy: Community, Intuition, and Rituals with Akinke Lucas
93. The Week After the Orgy: Time and Energy in Non-Monogamy with Sadie Lune
92. Platonic Intimacy, Forced Birth, and Sexism with Asia Dorsey
91. What Is The Most Pleasurable Sex You've Experienced? with Annie Philpott
90. How About Swinging? Pegging, Prostate Orgasms, and the Bisexual Man with Cooper Beckett
89. Burning The Holy Mormon Underwear: Kink, Community, and the God Complex with Madazon
88. The Revolution is Now: Are We Ready to Flip The Board of Capitalism? with Kori Doty
87. Stop Waiting for Others to Validate Your Shine: A New Paradigm of Healing and Spirituality with Eduardo Viezca
86. Am I Cutting Off My Identity By Only Having Sex with One Person? with Chris K
85. Embracing Your Sluthood and Geeking Out About Relationship Anarchy with Brian Gibney
84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade
83. Everyone is Alone Together: Celibacy, People Pleasing, and Self-Love with Ally McDowell
82. What Is Tantra? with Yoli Maya Yeh
81. Masturbation: It's Amazing and I Can't Tell Anyone About It with Jess DeVries
80. Are You Carrying Trauma From a Past Life? with Cai Carvalhaes
79. Think BIG and Scare Yourself with Alycia Levels-Moore
78. A Spiritual Direction Session: What is Spirituality? with Mandie McGlynn
77. I was the Poster Child for Purity: Asexuality, Spiritual Abuse, and Racism with Trifecta
76. Polyamory Is an Equally Bad Decision: Kink, Intersecting Identities, and Power Dynamics with Tien
75. Erotic Creativity: Surrogate Partner Therapy, Slowing Down Sex, and Relationship Anarchy with Carlene Ostedgaard
74. Sex Work Was The Beginning of My True Healing Journey with Cassie Porter
73. The Feminist Sex Wars: Suzie Jones Who Takes a Sexy Selfie is a Slut with Emma Phillips
72. Contradictions: Pansexuality, Intersecting Identities, and Shadow Sides with Evelyn Kim
71. Community Building: Masking, Polysecure, and Boundaries as an Act of Love with Jesse Holzman
70. Understanding Sex Within Culture: Condoms, Circumcision, and Capitalistic Competition with Amber Mallery
69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night
68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy with Arushi
67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words with Alan Mckee
66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States with Dayna Troisi
65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper
64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish with Anarella Martinez-Madrid
63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion with Mei Zarnitsyna
62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets with Gem Cut
61. Wrestling with Questions Around Identity: Sexuality, Gender, and Careers with Betsey Zemke
60. Exploring the Unconscious: Synchronicity, Dreams, and Psychedelic Psychotherapy with Manny Dominguez
59. The Intersection of Disability and Sexuality with Robin Wilson Beattie
58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church with Clark Hazel
57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Ebony Holloway
56. Building a Relationship Contract: Queer Theory, Kinky Monogamy, and the Relationship Escalator with Tom Doctor
55. Tuning Into My Embodied Self: Demi-Sexuality, Polyamory, and Somatic Experiencing with Meggie Twible
54. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love with Aubri Lancaster
53. True Crime: Holding Onto What He Could Be vs. What He Was with Jamie Baier
52. Year One Reflection with Your Host
51. Being Transgender is My Super Power with Corey Rae
50. I'm a Polyamorous Person in a Monogamous Relationship: Black Holes, Relationship Anarchy, and Queer Deconstruction with Aurora Higgs
49. The Creative Expression of Pornography with Lina Bembe
48. That's Not the End of the Story: Spicy Childhoods and Talking about Sex with Jason Best
47. The Mythology of A-Sexuality: I never had a crush! with Destinie Vidro
46. The Eroticism of a Shared Vision with Matthew Gamble
45. Are You Willing to Sip Your Own Medicine? with Natalie
44. How Men Cry with Dxtr Spits
43. Reclaiming the Sovern Meaning of Church with Amanda
42. Public Art with a Cause with Jason Avery
41. I'm Too Jealous for Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joli Hamilton
40. The Paradox of Our Identities with Jordanna
39. You're Your Own Superhero with Nico Cathcart
38. Be Ready to Be Confused with Desmond Napoles
37. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 2 with Nexus J
36. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 1 with Nexus J
35. The Struggle of Living with Vitoria
34. What Does it Mean to Manifest? with Anna
33. Claiming Your Pussy Power with Tazima Paris
32. Coming Out to Your Conservative Family: Are You a Gay Villian? with Jordan Parvex
31. Life is Too Short to Do One Thing with Keith Ramsey
30. Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System with Ren Grabert
29. Limiting Beliefs Around Love: Sound Healing, People Pleasing, and Finding Your Purpose with Sasha
28. You are Enough: How the ADA Shaped America with Cyndi Jones
27. I Got Double F**ked, and Finally, I Released! with Ze Royale
26. Mind, Body, Spirit: Letting Go of an Eating Disorder with Isa
25. Hot and Steamy Consent: Communicating Your Sexual Desires and Exploring Polyamory with Karen Yates
24. If You Can Sit For a Tattoo, You Can Have a Vasectomy with Drew
23. God Loves Queers: The Faith Journey of a Lesbian Bishop with Brenda Bos
22. The Hot F**king Mess of Legalized Cannabis: Is Your Consumption Ethical? with Anna Epstein
21. The Internet Age Gap: Is Curation Making Real-Life Intolerable? with Noah Scalin
20. Escaping the Multi-Level Marketing Scheme of Mormonism with Rayna Flannery
19. When Do You Leave a Relationship: Polyamory, Sadism, and Self-Care with Empress Wu
18. The Gray Forefront of Psychedelic Research with Manesh Girn
17. Let's Not Take Things Too Personally: HPV, Social Media, and Anxiety Brain with Kellie
16. The Anarchy of Beginning From Love with Nat Vikitsreth
15. Radical Everyday Acts: Jumping the Turnstile with Christiana
14. Defying Labels: Discovering I was an Abuser and Abused with Gary
13. Behind the Scenes of OnlyFans with Ramona Romance
12. The Psychedelic Experience of Post-Traumatic Growth with Jessica Cadoch
11. Nuns, Cum Socks, and Relationship Anarchy with Glitter Moneyyy
10a. Inner Parent Art Meditation Only
10. Leaving the Secure Job to Create Your Own Career + Inner Parent Art Meditation with Pam
9. Squirting, Wrestling, and Cannibalism! OH MY! with Lola Jean
8. God is Pro-Abortion: an Agnostic and a Christian Share Their Stories with Kim
7. White People, It's Not About You: Moving Through the Discomfort of Growth with Shimmy LaRoux
6a. Guided Masturbation Meditation Only
6. The Vulnerability of Sex and Connection: Yoni Massage Therapy and Guided Masturbation Meditation with Patrick
5. Staying Safe on Mushrooms: Progressing from Cannabis to Psychedelics with Michelle Janikian
4. Voluntary Female Sterilization at 26: I Don't Want Kids with Rae
3. Commentary with a Slice of Comedy: Spiritual Trauma and Fundamental Christianity with Fundie Fridays
2. Out Here for the Queers: Sex Work, Activism, and Advocacy with Cruel Valentine
1. Cannasexual and Finding Pleasure After Trauma with Ashley Manta