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Relationship Alive! — 256 episodes · page 1 of 3

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264: Why You Keep Living the Same Story (and How to Change It) - with Megan Macedo
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263: Peter Levine - Reconnection for High Conflict Couples (When Your Partner Becomes the Trigger)
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262: What High-Conflict Couples Taught Me About Healing the Political Divide
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261: Sue Johnson - Being Truly Seen: Healing Trauma Through Attachment Science (EFIT)
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260: How to Turn Your Vulnerability into Your Relationship Superpower - with Ken Page
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259: Don't Fight Your Negative Thoughts...Join Them! (to Overcome Them)
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​​258: When Desire Fades, Come Together - Emily Nagoski & the Science of Longlasting Sexual Connection

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257: Two Obvious (but IMPORTANT) Healthy Relationship Principles

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256 - Something Personal - Where I've Been and Where We're Going

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255: How to Be Courageous (especially when it's hard)

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254: From a "Fair" Relationship to Radical Generosity - the 80/80 Marriage with Kaley and Nate Klemp

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253: How to Keep Children from Wrecking Your Relationship - The Baby Bomb with Kara Hoppe and Stan Tatkin

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252: How and Why to Get Better at Conflict - Getting to Zero with Jayson Gaddis

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251: Rebuilding Trust During a Crisis - with Pete Pearson

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250: Start Your Day with Being OK

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249: When You're the One Doing ALL the Work

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248: What Are Your Rights in a Healthy Relationship?

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247: The Path from an Insecure Attachment Style to a Healthy Relationship

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246: How to Get Honest with Yourself

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245: How to Not Die Alone - Using Science to Crack the Code of Modern Dating - with Logan Ury

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244: A Practical Approach for Big Changes

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243: Ultimatums - The Good and The Bad

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242: Using Creativity for Emotional Alchemy - plus a song!

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241: Breaking Up and Moving On - What's Normal? What's the "Right" Way?

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240: When You're in Conflict - How to Find Optimal Outcomes - with Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler

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239: How to Avoid the Negative Bypass

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238: Unmotivated Partners - What To Do? - with Pete Pearson

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237: Overcoming Procrastination - Session with David Burns and Neil Sattin

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236: When Talking about How You Feel Goes Horribly Wrong

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235: Microaggressions in Life and Love with Kevin Nadal

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234: The Anti-Relationship Episode

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233: What Makes a Marriage Last - with Marlo Thomas and Phil Donahue

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232: Solving the Acceptance Paradox - with Neil Sattin

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231: How to Make Better Decisions in Your Relationships (and Avoid Common Pitfalls) - with Logan Ury

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230: How to Win Any Argument

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229: Sexting for Fun and Connection

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228: Facing Overwhelm - Session with David Burns and Neil Sattin

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227: Racism, Racial Equity, and Relationships - with Neil Sattin

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226: Feeling Good - What Matters and What Doesn't - with David Burns

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225: Overcoming Shame and Getting Real about Relationships

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224: What Romance Novels Teach Us about Real-Life Love and Desire - with Mara Wells

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223: How to Boost Your Oxytocin for a Sense of Wellbeing - Even If You're Solo - with Jessica Zager

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222: Hints to Improve Digital Intimacy and Stay Sane (and Connected) during a Lockdown

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221: Love in the Time of Coronavirus - COVID19 and Your Relationships

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220: Reclaiming (and Enjoying) Your Sexual Self - Taking Sexy Back with Alexandra Solomon

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219: Your Questions Answered - More on Judgment and Grieving

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218: Sacred Instructions - Indigenous Wisdom for Your Relationship - with Sherri Mitchell

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217: How to Heal after a Breakup

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216: Steering Clear of Judging Yourself and Others

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215: Your Erotic Blueprint - The Work of Jaiya - with Ian Ferguson

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214: Do Breakups Have To Be Messy?

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213: How to Handle an Aching Heart - with Guy Finley

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212: Something Deeply Personal - with Neil Sattin

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211: Sometimes You Just Have to Stop - with Neil Sattin

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210: How to Escape the Drama Triangle - with Stephen Karpman

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209: How to Communicate about Your Emotions - with Neil Sattin

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208: Sex and Porn Addiction - Myths and Reality - with Paula Hall

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207: Getting Truthful about the Ways You Hold Back - with Neil Sattin

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206: How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld

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205: [Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin

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204: Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

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203: How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin

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202: Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown

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201: Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin

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200: Pleasure Activism - Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown

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199: What To Do When Things Get Challenging

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198: Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds - with Peter Levine

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197: Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy with Neil Sattin

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196: Harnessing the Transformative Power of Your Core Emotions - The Change Triangle with Hilary Jacobs Hendel

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195: How to Turn a Negative View of Your Partner into Something Positive

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194: Heart vs. Head: Mismatched Processing Styles with Sue Johnson
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193: How Mindfulness Can Ignite Passion - Buddha's Bedroom with Cheryl Fraser

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192: When Love Vanishes or Affairs Happen - What To Do? - Your Questions Answered

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191: How It All Fits Together with Keith Witt

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190: How to Truly Be Yourself in Your Relationship

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189: From Disconnection and Loneliness to Aliveness and Intimacy - AEDP for Couples with David Mars

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188: Don't Be A Victim of Attachment Theory
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187: More Love Less Conflict - Communication and Mindset Secrets with Jonathan Robinson

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186: Getting to the Truth within You
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185: 20 Minutes a Week to Relationship Bliss - with Alicia Muñoz

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184: Forget the Love Languages - Let's Talk about the Four Fear Languages

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183: Real-Life Skills for Getting the Love You Want - with Helen LaKelly Hunt and Harville Hendrix

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182: Is Variety a Spice or a Vice?

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181: Depression? What You Can Do with Michael Yapko

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180: Are You Truly Committed?

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179: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love with Julie and John Gottman

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178: The New Monogamy: From Assumptions to Integrity with Tammy Nelson

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177: How To Get Past Your Resentment

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176: Healing Trauma and Attachment Injuries through Intimacy: AEDP with Diana Fosha

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175: What’s Keeping You From Changing?
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174: She Comes First: More Orgasms For Women with Ian Kerner

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173: A Gift For You

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172: The Power of The Hold Me Tight Conversation with Sue Johnson

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171: Does your need to feel special keep you from connecting?

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170: Embodying Well-Being and the Lover Within: Zapchen - with Julie Henderson

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168: Practical Skills for Building Your Emotional Intelligence with Jordan Harbinger

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167: How to Keep Assumptions from Eroding Your Relationship

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166: Are You Addicted to Love and Relationships? - with Sherry Gaba

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165: Should You Start Over with Someone New?

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164: How Love Can Dissolve Conflict - Relationship Magic with Guy Finley

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