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Take the Upgrade — 93 episodes

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Will EMDR Heal My Trauma, Overcoming People Pleasing, and Neurodivergence: Knowledge About How Your Brain Works is Power

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The Pause Is the Work

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The Moment I Finally Allowed Divorce on the Table

4

The Real Reason Your Family Feels out of Sync

5

Time Doesn't Mature a Marriage — Intention Does

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Sex in Marriage Isn't a Chore Chart

7

Why Your Husband Won't Give You What You Need (Even When You Ask)

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Why the Way You Talk to Your Partner Is Slowly Breaking Your Marriage

9

Live Beyond the Fantasy List in Your Head

10

Addressing the Pattern, not the Person

11

Self Awareness, Acceptance, and the Problem with Principled Living

12

Pulling in Extra Support for Your Self Care

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Rethinking Intuition, the Science of Decision Making, and How to Be OK Not Knowing the Solution Yet

14

The Art of Attunement in Relationships

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Loving Without Resentment

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78 - Time to Conduct an Honest Self-Inquiry

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77- End-of-Year Relationship Wrap-up

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76- End-of-Year Home Wrap-up

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75 - End-of-Year Money Wrap-up

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74 - How to Ask for What You Want

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73 - How to Make Family Time Actually Fun

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72 - Forced Vulnerability

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71 - Very Scary Episode About Hair Coloring Incident and "Painting Done"

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70 - Design a Routine that Works for You and the Newest Trick on the Block

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69 - Intuition vs. Emotion and How to Tell the Difference

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68 - Knowing When Fear Can Be Your Teacher and Friend

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67 - Moving From Codependence to Empowerment

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66 - How to Get to Your Future Self

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65 - What Everyone Else is Doing is an Illusion

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64 - Learn What Jealous Feelings Are Actually Showing You

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63 - Gearing up for a Big Life Change the 'Take the Upgrade' Way

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62 - Aligning Your Physical and Emotional Health

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61 - Using Your Enneagram Profile to Become the Best Version of Yourself

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60 - Align Your Home With Marie Kondo Consultant Ashely Barber

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59 - Introducing the Align Program

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58 - City of Girls by Elizabeth Gilbert - Join Leanne's Book Club

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57 -The Third Space

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56 - Where Your Value Really Comes From

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55 - Where Confidence Really Comes From

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54 - When Perception Gets in the Way of Our Experience

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53 - Take Control of Your Life by Mel Robbins - Join Leanne's Book Club

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52- Telling the Difference Between What You *Think* You Want and What You *Really* Want

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51- Timing in Your Life is Delicate: Don't Burn the Popcorn!

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50 - How to Actually Do Summer, as an Adult

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49 - Loving What Is by Byron Katie - Join Leanne's Book Club

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48 - Enjoy a Season of Coasting After a Season of Constant Striving

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47 - Curating a Life that is for the Real You

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46 - Building a Life that Works for You - Join Leanne's Book Club

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45 - What Does Tired Look Like? Adults Misbehave When Stressed, too

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44 - Knowing When it's Time to Make a Change: The Serenity Prayer

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43 - So, What's the Catch? Bringing Hidden Expectations to Light

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42 - The Real Heart of Self Care is Protection

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41 - A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle - Take Away Messages Just for You

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40 - Tuning in to Cycles, Seasons and Rhythms of Life

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39 - How to Make Big Decisions When Timing Is Everything

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38 - Start Seeing Self-Sabotage for What it Really Is

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37 - The Four Agreements Make You Free - Join Leanne's Book Club

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36 - Is it True That a Life With Boundaries is Actually Kindest Way to Live?

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35 - Millennials are the Burn out Generation: BuzzFeed, Relaxation and Making Time

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34 - Motherhood in the First Year

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33 - The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo - Join Leanne's Book Club!

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32 - Relationship Red Flags: How to Know What to Look for

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31 - Identifying a Victim Mentality in Yourself and 3 Actions You can Take to Break Free

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30 - How to Know When You're Ready to Talk to a Therapist

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29 - How to Transition to a New Year and Listener Q&A

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28 - The Best Relationship Advice We've Ever Gotten - Join Leanne's Book Club!

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27 - Self Care Looks Different for Everyone and Listener Q&A

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26 - Identifying Your Core Values as in Brene Brown's Dare to Lead and Listener Q&A

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25 - Knowing What to Pay Attention to and Listener Q&A

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24 - Dare to Lead by Brene Brown - Join Leanne's Book Club!

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23 - What to do for Goal Paralysis and Listener Q&A

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22 - Why Do I Feel Tired All the Time?

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21 - How to Prevent, Manage and Listen to Burn-out in Your Work

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20 - The ONE Thing - Join Leanne's Book Club!

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19 - Celebrating Your Progress: There is no Finish Line

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18 - How to Recover From a Downward Spiral and the Power of Momentum

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17 - How Stepping Away from the Social Scene Can Power Your Creativity

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16 - This Just in! Don't Fight Your Weaknesses - They're Your Secret Weapon

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15 - Do The Work, Because No One Can Do it for You

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14 - Going Back to School, for Grown-ups

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13 - Manifesting Wealth: The Dave Ramsey Way

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12 - I Don't Know . . . Yet

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11 - Pick Your Word

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10 - Trust That Things Come Together

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09 - How to Be Courageous and Kind at the Same Time

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08 - Manage the Fear of Leveling Up

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07 - How to Follow Your Intuition

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06 - Successful People Have Help in Their Corner

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05 - Learn How to Be OK With the Wait

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04 - The Right Way to Get a Jump Start

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03 - Awareness Is the First Step

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02 - How to Master Active Decision Making

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01 - Take the Upgrade