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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast — 291 episodes
291 Inside Dating: Touching All the Bases Enroute to a Home Run Relationship, Pt 4: Getting to Third Base
290 Inside Dating: Touching All the Bases Enroute to a Home Run Relationship, Pt 3: Getting to Second Base
289 Inside Dating: Touching All the Bases Enroute to a Home Run Relationship, Pt 2: Getting to First Base
288 Inside Dating: Touching All the Bases Enroute to a Home Run Relationship, Pt 1: The On-Deck Circle
287 Michael Singer Talks About Emotional Suppression, Expression & Transmutation
286 Keys to Emotional Regulation, Pt. 3: Mental Regulation
285 Keys to Emotional Regulation, Pt. 2: Physical Regulation
284 Keys to Emotional Regulation, Pt. 1: Spiritual Regulation
283 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 6: Awakened Communication
282 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 5: Awakened Politics (& Religion)
281 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 4: Awakened Reactivity
280 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 3: Awakened Competition
279 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 2: Awakened Friendship
278 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 1: Awakened Patriotism
277 Revisiting Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, Pt. 3: Divas, Damsels & Deceivers: An Exploration of Modern Femininity
276 Revisiting Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, Pt. 2: Fathers, Fakers & Fuckers: An Exploration of Modern Masculinity
275 Revisiting Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, Pt. 1: Understanding the Controversy
274 Readiness Factors: How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship, Pt. 3: Logistical Factors
273 Readiness Factors: How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship, Pt. 2: Emotional Factors
272 Readiness Factors: How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship, Pt. 1: Situational Factors
271 Allowing Life to Be Your Matchmaker: An Interview with Beth and Waven
270 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 7: The Commitment to Ask for Help
269 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 6: The Commitment to Find "The Middle Way"
268 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 5: The Commitment to Seek Truth
267 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 4: The Commitment to Handle Life's Challenges
266 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health Pt. 3: The Commitment to Manage Your Inner Space
265 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 2: The Commitment to Understand the Nature of Mind
264 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 1: The Commitment to Choose a Conscious Path
263 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 5—Look for Synergy NOT Similarity
262 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 4—Look for Claimers NOT Blamers
261 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 3— Look for Like NOT Love
260 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 2— Look for Barriers NOT Boys (or Babes)
259 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 1—Look for Shared Commitments NOT Shared Chemistry
258 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 6—Don't Self
257 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 5—Don't Know
256 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 4—Don't Recall
255 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 3—Don't Attach
254 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 2—Don't Resist
253 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 1—Choose Your Path Wisely
252 Every Day is New Year's Day: Thoughts on Living Your Best Life—Today
251 Being Ready for Your Christmas Moment
250 How to Have Happy Holidays
249 Conquering the Fear that is Keeping You Stuck and Single
248 Mastering the Dating Game
247 Afraid of "Killer B's"? You Should Be. They're Killing Your Pursuit of Intimacy
246 The Single Insight That Leads to Attracting Lasting Love
245 Why Seeking a Relationship Keeps You from Having One
244 The Secret to Being a "High Value" Partner
243 What Relationship Costume Are You Wearing? (Halloween Special)
242 David Deida: Opening Beyond Self to Infinity
241 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 7: Aliveness is Prioritized
240 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 6: Appreciation is Spoken
239 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 5: Agreements are Kept
237 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 4: Affection is Felt
236 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 3: Authenticity is Expressed
238 Who Killed Charlie Kirk? (It's not who they say it is.)
235 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 2: Acceptance is Given
234 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 1: Alignment is Shared
233 When to Walk Away: Thoughts on When (and how!) To End a Relationship
232 Perspectives on Parenting: What I Got Right, What I Got Wrong, and What We All Can Learn
231 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 3
230 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 2
229 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 1
228 Michael Singer on How to Feel Love All the Time
227 Music: Madness or Magnificence? Songs You Should Love AND Listen to, Pt. 4
226 Music: Madness or Magnificence? Songs You Should Love AND Listen to, Pt. 3
225 Music: Madness or Magnificence? 3 More Songs You Should Love but NOT Listen to, Pt. 2
224 Music: Madness or Magnificence? 3 Songs You Should Love but NOT Listen to, Pt. 1
223 A Few Good Men: Fathers & the Necessity of the Masculine
222 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 5: Anger
221 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 4: Anxiety
220 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 3: Stress
219 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 2: Insecurity
218 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 1: Loneliness
217 Quantum Questions: How Answering 7 Radical Questions Leads to Attracting a Healthy, Lasting, Intimate Relationship
216 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 6: The Construction Phase
215 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 5: The Compatibility Stage
214 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 4: The Chemistry Stage
213 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 3: The Contact Stage
212 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 2: The Cleansing Stage
211 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 1: Why It's More Difficult Today Than Ever
210 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 5: Being with Another Human Being
209 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 4: Meeting Emotional Needs
208 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 3: Sex
207 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 2: Money & Couples
206 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 1: Money & Dating
205 Roy's Rants (Vol. 3): Valentine's Day Edition: Roy Rants About the Struggle to Connect
204 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 5: Improving Your People Skills
203 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 4: Making "Whole-Body YES!" Decisions
202 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 3: Making a Big, Bold Statement to Yourself
201 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 2: The Year of the Enneagram
200 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 1: Living from Your Zone of Genius
199 Quantum Completion: 10 Questions That Can Make '25 Come Alive
198 Rudolph the Enlightened Reindeer
197 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 5: A Crazy View Concerning Results
196 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 4: A Crazy View Concerning Thoughts
195 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 3: A Crazy View Concerning Criticism
194 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 2: A Crazy View Concerning Problems
193 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 1: A Crazy View of Feelings
192 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 3: The Selling Phase
191 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 2: The Maintenance Phase
190 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 1: The Purchase Phase
189 A Deep Dive Into Trauma: A Conscious Perspective on Life's Deepest Pain (and how to resolve it)
188 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #5: Am I Ready to Work With a Relationship Coach?
187 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #4: What makes a WOMAN most attractive to the opposite sex?
186 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #3: What makes a MAN most attractive to the opposite sex?
185 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #2: What strategy should a 50-year-old (ish) person use to find a life partner?
184 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #1: What qualities should a person look for in a life partner?
183 Warning Signs: 5 (Subtle) Signs a Relationship is Headed for Trouble
182 His Freedom, Her Love: A Talk by David Deida
181 What They Never Told You: The Root Cause of Masculine & Feminine Suffering
180 The Five Steps to Letting Go of The Past, Pt. 2
179 The Five Steps to Letting Go of the Past, Pt. 1
178 Roy Biancalana Interviews Lyla, a Former Client of His
177 Five Signs You Need a Relationship Coach
176 Michael Singer on Learning to Prefer Reality
175 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 7: Un-Accepted Reality
174 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 6: Un-Finished Past
173 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 5: Un-Spoken Truth
172 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 4: Un-Questioned Beliefs
171 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 3: Un-Kept Agreements
170 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 2: Un-felt Feelings
169 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 1: Un-owned Responsibility
168 Four Types of Women Guys Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Femininity
167 Four Types of Guys Women Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Masculinity
166 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 5: The Destination—A Conversation with Jim Dethmer
165 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 4: The Direction—Identifying the Next Step on Your Spiritual Journey
164 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 3: The Discovery—Waking Up to Who You Truly Are
163 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 2: The Decision—The Moment Your Spiritual Journey Begins
162 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 1: The Description—What is Awakening & Why You Should Be Interested
161 Roy's Rants (Vol. 2): 4 Things Single People Rarely Do and it Makes Roy's Head Explode
160 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 6 Masculine vs. Feminine
159 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 5: Selfish vs. Unselfish
158 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment
157 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 3: Compassion vs Responsibility
156 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 2: Thinking vs Feeling
155 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 1: Acceptance vs. Action
154 Michael Singer on How to Stay Centered in a Chaotic World
153 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 7: Your STRATEGY Makeover
152 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 6: Your EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY Makeover
151 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide & a Complete Makeover So That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 5: Your CONFIDENCE Makeover
150 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 4: Your PERSONALITY Makeover
149 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 3: Your SOCIAL Makeover
148 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 2: Your Passion Makeover
147 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide & a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 1: Your Physical Presentation Makeover
146 Clean the Slate: The Most Important (but ignored) Step to Ensuring a "Happy New Year" (and a new relationship!)
145 A Crash Course on Boundaries: When to Set Them, How to Enforce Them
144 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 5: The Law of Healing
143 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 4: The Law of Suffering
142 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 3: The Law of Opposites
141 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 2: The Law of Attention
140 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 1: The Law of Attraction
139 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 3: The Basics of Getting Close
138 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 2: The Basics of Getting Connected
137 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 1: The Basics of Getting Clear
136 Roy Rants! (Vol. 1): What Drives a Conscious Relationship Coach Absolutely Insane
135 Michael Singer on Learning to Stay Open
134 Crisis Points, Pt. 3: The Old-Life Crisis
133 Crisis Points, Pt. 2: The Mid-Life Crisis
132 Crisis Points, Pt. 1: The Young-Life Crisis
131 Trigger Warning: Pt. 5: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
130 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 4: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
129 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 3: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
128 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 2: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
127 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 1: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
126 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 8: The Last Time
125 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 7: Beyond Ego
124 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 6: Personality Blind Spots
123 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 5: Sexual Polarity
122 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 4: Body Intelligence
121 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 3: The Success Formula
120 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 2: The Human Condition
119 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 1: Radical Responsibility
118 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Dumped!", Pt. 3
117 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Played!", Pt. 2
116 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Ghosted!", Pt. 1
115 The Intersection of Spirituality & Sexuality: A Talk by David Deida
114 Let's Talk About Attachment Styles (and How to Transcend Them)
113 A Single Woman's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Woman Needs to do in Her Search for a Partner
112 A Single Man's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Man Needs to do in His Search for a Partner
111 The Birthday Battle (Roy's Birthday Edition)
110 Wisdom for "The Search": How Looking for a Partner is Like Looking for a House
109 How to Resurrect Your Love Life (Easter Edition)
108 The Secret to Attracting Lasting Love
107 Six Words of Advice: The Direct Path to Freedom and Peace—for Life & Love
106 The Case for Chivalry
105 Dark Matters, Pt. 5: Working with Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Depression)
104 Dark Matters, Pt. 4: Working with Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Resentment)
103 Dark Matters, Pt. 3: Working with Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Insecurity)
102 Dark Matters, Pt. 2: Working With Some of Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Anxiety)
101 Dark Matters, Pt. 1: Working with Some of Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Loneliness)
100 Did You See Your Shadow?
99 Movies with a Message, Pt. 3
098 Movies with a Message, Pt. 2
097 Movies with a Message, Pt. 1
096 Online Dating: Finding Your Mate without Losing Your Mind
095 A Conscious Perspective on Weight Loss (Encore Presentation)
094 What It's Like to Work With Roy: A Deep Dive Into Roy's 4-Month Individual Coaching Program
093 Family Drama: Thoughts on Surviving the Holidays
092 How to Stay Single: Mastering THE Attitude That Will Ruin Your Love Life
091 Being Complete: Making Space for a Magnificent 2023
090: Practical Ways to Love Yourself
089 Gratitude as a Way of Life (Thanksgiving Edition)
088 The Scarcity Mindset: The Silent Killer of the Single Person's Soul
087 Have You Ever Thought of Being a Coach?
086 What Relationship Costume Are You Wearing? (Halloween Edition)
085 Three Subtle Forks in Your Relationship Road
084 Conscious Listening: How to Be A Great Partner
083 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 7
082 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 6
081 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 5
080 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 4
079 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 3
078 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 2
077 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 1
076 The Purpose of a Relationship
075 The Trans Controversy
074 How to Be Good in Bed
073 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Construction Season
072 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Exploration Season
071 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Attraction Season
070 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Preparation Season
069 Enneagram Fear Types: The Observer, The Loyalist & The Adventurist
068 Enneagram Shame Types: The Helper, The Achiever & The Individualist
067 Enneagram Anger Types: The Challenger, The Peacemaker & The Reformer
066 Quantum Questions (Pt. 5): What is My Personality (Enneagram) Type and How is it Sabotaging My life and Love Life?
065 Quantum Questions (Pt. 4): Why Am I Single?
064 Quantum Questions (Pt. 3): Why Don't I Feel Alive, Passionate & Motivated?
063 Quantum Questions (Pt. 2): What Am I REALLY Feeling?
062 Quantum Questions (Pt. 1): What's Here, Now?
061 What to Do When Your "Picker" is Broken
060 Fire Your "Relationship Coach!"
059 Break Ups: How I Wish I Had Handled Mine (and how I hope you handle yours)
058 Relationship Sabotaging Personas—Do You Have One?
057 How to End Drama (if you want to)
056 Triggered! What We Can Learn From Will Smith at the Oscars
055 The 3 Most Unpopular Secrets to Genuine Personal Growth, Secret #3
054 The 3 Most Unpopular Secrets to Genuine Personal Growth, Secret #2
053 The 3 Most Unpopular Secrets to Genuine Personal Growth, Secret #1
052 Why Intimacy is Better Without Compatibility
051 What Men Want
050 What Women Want
049 The Way of a Yogi
048 The Chemistry Question
047 The Dating Manifesto, Pt. 3
046 The Dating Manifesto, Pt. 2
045 The Dating Manifesto, Pt. 1
044 The Soulmate Signature
042 A Mindful Approach to Weight Loss
042 Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy
041 Intelligent Dating
040 Mastering Masculine & Feminine Dynamics
039 Flirting: A Crash Course on Making a Connection
038 How to Offer Conscious Compassion
037 Relationship Completion
036 Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships
035 Becoming a Coach: Impact, Independence & Income
034 Learning to Trust Again
033 How to Find Love: A Talk by Michael Singer
032 Soulmates & Teammates: How to Never Get Dumped (or Divorced)
031 Rewriting Your Love Story (Make it a Happy Ending!)
030 The 7 Best Personal Growth Books Ever Written
029 Spirituality 101: The Basic Insight that Launches an Authentic Spiritual Life
028 What to Do When You're Triggered
027 Curiosity: The Secret to Attracting Lasting Love
026 How to Be Your Most Attractive Self
025 Unwinding Your Core Story of Deficiency
024 Overcoming the Fear of Rejection
023 Relationship Decision Making
022 Communication: Learning to Speak Unarguably
021 Communication: Identifying Your REAL Love Language
020 Communication: Let's Get Naked!
019 Finding Your "Needle" in the Haystack
018 What it Means to Live & Love Consciously: A Conversation with Jim Dethmer
017 The Enemy Within: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Love Life
016 The Hidden Danger of The Five Love Languages
015 Ending Conflict: How to Create Connection and Harmony
014 How To Feel Good (almost) All The Time
013 What to Do When You're An Emotional Wreck
012 Sexual Intelligence
011 The REAL Reason You're Still Single
010 Relating Authentically
009 Compatibility: What's Important, What's Not
008 Why the Law of Attraction Will Ruin Your Love Life
007 New Beginnings
006 Fit to Be Tied
005 Straight Talk on Internet Dating
004 Breaking Free of The Relationship Groundhog Day Syndrome
003 It's a Wonderful (Love) Life?
002 The REAL Reason Relationships Are So Difficult
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