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284 Keys to Emotional Regulation, Pt. 1: Spiritual Regulation

283 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 6: Awakened Communication

282 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 5: Awakened Politics (& Religion)

281 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 4: Awakened Reactivity

280 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 3: Awakened Competition

279 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 2: Awakened Friendship

278 Living an Awakened Life, Pt. 1: Awakened Patriotism

277 Revisiting Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, Pt. 3: Divas, Damsels & Deceivers: An Exploration of Modern Femininity

276 Revisiting Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, Pt. 2: Fathers, Fakers & Fuckers: An Exploration of Modern Masculinity

275 Revisiting Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, Pt. 1: Understanding the Controversy

274 Readiness Factors: How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship, Pt. 3: Logistical Factors

273 Readiness Factors: How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship, Pt. 2: Emotional Factors

272 Readiness Factors: How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship, Pt. 1: Situational Factors

271 Allowing Life to Be Your Matchmaker: An Interview with Beth and Waven

270 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 7: The Commitment to Ask for Help

269 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 6: The Commitment to Find "The Middle Way"

268 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 5: The Commitment to Seek Truth

267 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 4: The Commitment to Handle Life's Challenges

266 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health Pt. 3: The Commitment to Manage Your Inner Space

265 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 2: The Commitment to Understand the Nature of Mind

264 Living Above the Fray: The 7 Pillars of Mental Health, Pt. 1: The Commitment to Choose a Conscious Path

263 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 5—Look for Synergy NOT Similarity

262 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 4—Look for Claimers NOT Blamers

261 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 3— Look for Like NOT Love

260 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 2— Look for Barriers NOT Boys (or Babes)

259 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 1—Look for Shared Commitments NOT Shared Chemistry

258 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 6—Don't Self

257 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 5—Don't Know

256 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 4—Don't Recall

255 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 3—Don't Attach

254 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 2—Don't Resist

253 The 5-Fold Path to Happiness & Freedom, Pt. 1—Choose Your Path Wisely

252 Every Day is New Year's Day: Thoughts on Living Your Best Life—Today

251 Being Ready for Your Christmas Moment

250 How to Have Happy Holidays

249 Conquering the Fear that is Keeping You Stuck and Single

248 Mastering the Dating Game

247 Afraid of "Killer B's"? You Should Be. They're Killing Your Pursuit of Intimacy

246 The Single Insight That Leads to Attracting Lasting Love

245 Why Seeking a Relationship Keeps You from Having One

244 The Secret to Being a "High Value" Partner

243 What Relationship Costume Are You Wearing? (Halloween Special)

242 David Deida: Opening Beyond Self to Infinity

241 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 7: Aliveness is Prioritized

240 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 6: Appreciation is Spoken

239 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 5: Agreements are Kept

237 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 4: Affection is Felt

236 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 3: Authenticity is Expressed

238 Who Killed Charlie Kirk? (It's not who they say it is.)

235 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 2: Acceptance is Given

234 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 1: Alignment is Shared

233 When to Walk Away: Thoughts on When (and how!) To End a Relationship

232 Perspectives on Parenting: What I Got Right, What I Got Wrong, and What We All Can Learn

231 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 3

230 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 2

229 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 1

228 Michael Singer on How to Feel Love All the Time

227 Music: Madness or Magnificence? Songs You Should Love AND Listen to, Pt. 4

226 Music: Madness or Magnificence? Songs You Should Love AND Listen to, Pt. 3

225 Music: Madness or Magnificence? 3 More Songs You Should Love but NOT Listen to, Pt. 2

224 Music: Madness or Magnificence? 3 Songs You Should Love but NOT Listen to, Pt. 1

223 A Few Good Men: Fathers & the Necessity of the Masculine

222 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 5: Anger

221 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 4: Anxiety

220 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 3: Stress

219 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 2: Insecurity

218 Finding Freedom From... Pt. 1: Loneliness

217 Quantum Questions: How Answering 7 Radical Questions Leads to Attracting a Healthy, Lasting, Intimate Relationship

216 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 6: The Construction Phase

215 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 5: The Compatibility Stage

214 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 4: The Chemistry Stage

213 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 3: The Contact Stage

212 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 2: The Cleansing Stage

211 Mindful Manifestation: A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Life Partner, Pt. 1: Why It's More Difficult Today Than Ever

210 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 5: Being with Another Human Being

209 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 4: Meeting Emotional Needs

208 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 3: Sex

207 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 2: Money & Couples

206 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 1: Money & Dating

205 Roy's Rants (Vol. 3): Valentine's Day Edition: Roy Rants About the Struggle to Connect

204 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 5: Improving Your People Skills

203 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 4: Making "Whole-Body YES!" Decisions

202 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 3: Making a Big, Bold Statement to Yourself

201 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 2: The Year of the Enneagram

200 The Big Five in '25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 1: Living from Your Zone of Genius

199 Quantum Completion: 10 Questions That Can Make '25 Come Alive

198 Rudolph the Enlightened Reindeer

197 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 5: A Crazy View Concerning Results

196 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 4: A Crazy View Concerning Thoughts

195 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 3: A Crazy View Concerning Criticism

194 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 2: A Crazy View Concerning Problems

193 Crazy Consciousness: 5 Reasons to Reject Conscious Relationship Perspectives, Pt. 1: A Crazy View of Feelings

192 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 3: The Selling Phase

191 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 2: The Maintenance Phase

190 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 1: The Purchase Phase

189 A Deep Dive Into Trauma: A Conscious Perspective on Life's Deepest Pain (and how to resolve it)

188 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #5: Am I Ready to Work With a Relationship Coach?

187 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #4: What makes a WOMAN most attractive to the opposite sex?

186 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #3: What makes a MAN most attractive to the opposite sex?

185 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #2: What strategy should a 50-year-old (ish) person use to find a life partner?

184 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #1: What qualities should a person look for in a life partner?

183 Warning Signs: 5 (Subtle) Signs a Relationship is Headed for Trouble

182 His Freedom, Her Love: A Talk by David Deida

181 What They Never Told You: The Root Cause of Masculine & Feminine Suffering

180 The Five Steps to Letting Go of The Past, Pt. 2

179 The Five Steps to Letting Go of the Past, Pt. 1

178 Roy Biancalana Interviews Lyla, a Former Client of His

177 Five Signs You Need a Relationship Coach

176 Michael Singer on Learning to Prefer Reality

175 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 7: Un-Accepted Reality

174 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 6: Un-Finished Past

173 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 5: Un-Spoken Truth

172 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 4: Un-Questioned Beliefs

171 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 3: Un-Kept Agreements

170 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 2: Un-felt Feelings

169 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 1: Un-owned Responsibility

168 Four Types of Women Guys Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Femininity

167 Four Types of Guys Women Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Masculinity

166 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 5: The Destination—A Conversation with Jim Dethmer

165 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 4: The Direction—Identifying the Next Step on Your Spiritual Journey

164 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 3: The Discovery—Waking Up to Who You Truly Are

163 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 2: The Decision—The Moment Your Spiritual Journey Begins

162 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 1: The Description—What is Awakening & Why You Should Be Interested

161 Roy's Rants (Vol. 2): 4 Things Single People Rarely Do and it Makes Roy's Head Explode

160 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 6 Masculine vs. Feminine

159 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 5: Selfish vs. Unselfish

158 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment

157 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 3: Compassion vs Responsibility

156 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 2: Thinking vs Feeling

155 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 1: Acceptance vs. Action

154 Michael Singer on How to Stay Centered in a Chaotic World

153 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 7: Your STRATEGY Makeover

152 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 6: Your EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY Makeover

151 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide & a Complete Makeover So That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 5: Your CONFIDENCE Makeover

150 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 4: Your PERSONALITY Makeover

149 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 3: Your SOCIAL Makeover

148 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 2: Your Passion Makeover

147 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide & a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 1: Your Physical Presentation Makeover

146 Clean the Slate: The Most Important (but ignored) Step to Ensuring a "Happy New Year" (and a new relationship!)

145 A Crash Course on Boundaries: When to Set Them, How to Enforce Them

144 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 5: The Law of Healing

143 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 4: The Law of Suffering

142 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 3: The Law of Opposites

141 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 2: The Law of Attention

140 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 1: The Law of Attraction

139 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 3: The Basics of Getting Close

138 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 2: The Basics of Getting Connected

137 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 1: The Basics of Getting Clear

136 Roy Rants! (Vol. 1): What Drives a Conscious Relationship Coach Absolutely Insane

135 Michael Singer on Learning to Stay Open

134 Crisis Points, Pt. 3: The Old-Life Crisis

133 Crisis Points, Pt. 2: The Mid-Life Crisis

132 Crisis Points, Pt. 1: The Young-Life Crisis

131 Trigger Warning: Pt. 5: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It

130 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 4: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It

129 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 3: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It

128 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 2: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It

127 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 1: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It

126 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 8: The Last Time

125 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 7: Beyond Ego

124 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 6: Personality Blind Spots

123 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 5: Sexual Polarity

122 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 4: Body Intelligence

121 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 3: The Success Formula

120 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 2: The Human Condition

119 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 1: Radical Responsibility

118 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Dumped!", Pt. 3

117 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Played!", Pt. 2

116 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Ghosted!", Pt. 1

115 The Intersection of Spirituality & Sexuality: A Talk by David Deida

114 Let's Talk About Attachment Styles (and How to Transcend Them)

113 A Single Woman's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Woman Needs to do in Her Search for a Partner

112 A Single Man's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Man Needs to do in His Search for a Partner

111 The Birthday Battle (Roy's Birthday Edition)

110 Wisdom for "The Search": How Looking for a Partner is Like Looking for a House

109 How to Resurrect Your Love Life (Easter Edition)

108 The Secret to Attracting Lasting Love

107 Six Words of Advice: The Direct Path to Freedom and Peace—for Life & Love

106 The Case for Chivalry

105 Dark Matters, Pt. 5: Working with Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Depression)

104 Dark Matters, Pt. 4: Working with Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Resentment)

103 Dark Matters, Pt. 3: Working with Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Insecurity)

102 Dark Matters, Pt. 2: Working With Some of Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Anxiety)

101 Dark Matters, Pt. 1: Working with Some of Life's Most Difficult Emotions (Loneliness)

100 Did You See Your Shadow?

99 Movies with a Message, Pt. 3

098 Movies with a Message, Pt. 2

097 Movies with a Message, Pt. 1

096 Online Dating: Finding Your Mate without Losing Your Mind

095 A Conscious Perspective on Weight Loss (Encore Presentation)

094 What It's Like to Work With Roy: A Deep Dive Into Roy's 4-Month Individual Coaching Program

093 Family Drama: Thoughts on Surviving the Holidays

092 How to Stay Single: Mastering THE Attitude That Will Ruin Your Love Life

091 Being Complete: Making Space for a Magnificent 2023

090: Practical Ways to Love Yourself

089 Gratitude as a Way of Life (Thanksgiving Edition)

088 The Scarcity Mindset: The Silent Killer of the Single Person's Soul

087 Have You Ever Thought of Being a Coach?

086 What Relationship Costume Are You Wearing? (Halloween Edition)

085 Three Subtle Forks in Your Relationship Road

084 Conscious Listening: How to Be A Great Partner

083 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 7

082 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 6

081 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 5

080 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 4

079 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 3

078 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 2

077 Quantum Quotes: Pithy Wisdom for Life & Love, Pt. 1

076 The Purpose of a Relationship

075 The Trans Controversy

074 How to Be Good in Bed

073 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Construction Season

072 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Exploration Season

071 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Attraction Season

070 Navigating the 4 Relationship "Seasons" — The Preparation Season

069 Enneagram Fear Types: The Observer, The Loyalist & The Adventurist

068 Enneagram Shame Types: The Helper, The Achiever & The Individualist

067 Enneagram Anger Types: The Challenger, The Peacemaker & The Reformer

066 Quantum Questions (Pt. 5): What is My Personality (Enneagram) Type and How is it Sabotaging My life and Love Life?

065 Quantum Questions (Pt. 4): Why Am I Single?

064 Quantum Questions (Pt. 3): Why Don't I Feel Alive, Passionate & Motivated?

063 Quantum Questions (Pt. 2): What Am I REALLY Feeling?

062 Quantum Questions (Pt. 1): What's Here, Now?

061 What to Do When Your "Picker" is Broken

060 Fire Your "Relationship Coach!"

059 Break Ups: How I Wish I Had Handled Mine (and how I hope you handle yours)

058 Relationship Sabotaging Personas—Do You Have One?

057 How to End Drama (if you want to)

056 Triggered! What We Can Learn From Will Smith at the Oscars

055 The 3 Most Unpopular Secrets to Genuine Personal Growth, Secret #3

054 The 3 Most Unpopular Secrets to Genuine Personal Growth, Secret #2

053 The 3 Most Unpopular Secrets to Genuine Personal Growth, Secret #1

052 Why Intimacy is Better Without Compatibility

051 What Men Want

050 What Women Want

049 The Way of a Yogi

048 The Chemistry Question

047 The Dating Manifesto, Pt. 3

046 The Dating Manifesto, Pt. 2

045 The Dating Manifesto, Pt. 1

044 The Soulmate Signature

042 A Mindful Approach to Weight Loss

042 Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy

041 Intelligent Dating

040 Mastering Masculine & Feminine Dynamics

039 Flirting: A Crash Course on Making a Connection

038 How to Offer Conscious Compassion

037 Relationship Completion

036 Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships

035 Becoming a Coach: Impact, Independence & Income

034 Learning to Trust Again

033 How to Find Love: A Talk by Michael Singer

032 Soulmates & Teammates: How to Never Get Dumped (or Divorced)

031 Rewriting Your Love Story (Make it a Happy Ending!)

030 The 7 Best Personal Growth Books Ever Written

029 Spirituality 101: The Basic Insight that Launches an Authentic Spiritual Life

028 What to Do When You're Triggered

027 Curiosity: The Secret to Attracting Lasting Love

026 How to Be Your Most Attractive Self

025 Unwinding Your Core Story of Deficiency

024 Overcoming the Fear of Rejection

023 Relationship Decision Making

022 Communication: Learning to Speak Unarguably

021 Communication: Identifying Your REAL Love Language

020 Communication: Let's Get Naked!

019 Finding Your "Needle" in the Haystack

018 What it Means to Live & Love Consciously: A Conversation with Jim Dethmer

017 The Enemy Within: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Love Life

016 The Hidden Danger of The Five Love Languages

015 Ending Conflict: How to Create Connection and Harmony

014 How To Feel Good (almost) All The Time

013 What to Do When You're An Emotional Wreck

012 Sexual Intelligence

011 The REAL Reason You're Still Single

010 Relating Authentically

009 Compatibility: What's Important, What's Not

008 Why the Law of Attraction Will Ruin Your Love Life

007 New Beginnings

006 Fit to Be Tied

005 Straight Talk on Internet Dating

004 Breaking Free of The Relationship Groundhog Day Syndrome

003 It's a Wonderful (Love) Life?

002 The REAL Reason Relationships Are So Difficult

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