All Episodes

Season 5 Episode 18 - The Desire You Haven’t Told Your Partner About...

Season 5 Episode 17 - Why Sex Stops Feeling the Same Over Time...

Season 5 Episode 16 - My Interview with HiThereCatSuit...

Season 5 Episode 15 - Borrowed Trust in Community...

Season 5 Episode 14 - Living for Other People’s Judgment...

Season 5 Episode 13 - What Most Men Were Never Taught About Power...

Season 5 Episode 12 - Safe or Just a Signal...

Season 5 Episode 11 - Comfortable but Stuck...

Season 5 Episode 10 - Erotic Intensity vs. Emotional Intimacy...

Season 5 Episode 9 -Fearful-Avoidant and the Lifestyle...

Season 5 Episode 8 - Long Distance Relationships...

Season 5 Episode 7 - Choosing What Fits...

Season 5 Episode 6 - Why We Go Back...

Season 5 Episode 5 - Being Single in the Lifestyle...

Season 5 Episode 4 - Taking Your Kink Public...

Season 5 Episode 3 - Monogamy in the Lifestyle...

Season 5 Episode 2 - Intimacy Without Sex in Scenes...

Season 5 Episode 1 - If I’m Not Needed, I Don’t Exist...

Season 4 - It's a Wrap!

Season 4 Episode 49 - Structure Does Not Equal Safety...

Season 4 Episode 48 - Learned Defiance vs. Self-Sabotage...

Season 4 Episode 47 - 200th Episode! Busting Common Myths...

Season 4 Episode 46 - When Help Becomes an Expectation...

Season 4 Episode 45 - How Hostility Is Warping Kink Culture...

Season 4 Episode 44 - Hurt vs. Harm in Power Exchange...

Season 4 Episode 43 - RSD, Trauma, and the Nervous System...

Season 4 Episode 42 - When the Body Reaches Before the Mind Feels Safe...

Season 4 Episode 41 - After the Scene Ends: When Connection Turns Quiet...

Season 4 Episode 40 - The Body Arc — When the Body Betrays, Commands, and Speaks...

Season 4 Episode 39 - Intimacy as Mutual Risk...

Season 4 - Episode 38 - The Friendship Deficit & Beyond...

Season 4 Episode 37 - When Both Are Hurting: How to Care Without Losing Yourself...

Season 4 Episode 36 - Kink, Community, and the Politics of Silencing...

Season 4 Episode 35 - Jealousy, Envy, and the Digital Trigger...

Season 4 Episode 34 - My Interview with Redwarrior...

Season 4 Episode 33 - Gender, Power, and the Pressure to Stay Put...

Season 4 Episode 32 - The Messy Middle: Between New and Grounded...

Season 4 Episode 31 - Reclaiming Kink After Abuse...

Season 4 Episode 30 - When Sadism Becomes the Self...

Season 4 Episode 29 - Being Outed – The Cost of Exposure...

Season 4 Episode 28 - Pickup Play, Negotiation, and the Crossroads of Swinger and BDSM Culture...

Season 4 Episode 27 - Living with Agency, Not Obligation...

Season 4 Episode 26 - Emotional Needs and Navigating Relationships...

Season 4 Episode 25 - The Urge to Lose...

Season 4 Episode 24 - Trauma Bonding in Relationships...

Season 4 Episode 23 - Love Bombing: Intensity Isn’t Intimacy...

Season 4 Episode 22 - When the Terms Change...

Season 4 Episode 21 - Erotic Mismatch in Relationships...

Season 4 Episode 20 – The Rise of Trauma-Irresponsible Educators in Kink...

Season 4 Episode 19 - Ghosting, Autonomy, and the Cost of Closure...

Season 4 Episode 18 - The Slow Burn of Resentment in Power Exchange...

Season 4 Episode 17 – Craving Punishment: BDSM, Shame, and the Psychology of Discipline

Season 4 Episode 16 - BDSM and Alcohol and Substance Use in Dungeon/Event Spaces...

Season 4 Episode 15 - BDSM and Personal Power and Sovereignty...

Season 4 Episode 14 - BDSM and Trauma vs. Desire...

Season 4 Episode 13 - BDSM and the Sex Offender Debate...

Season 4 Episode 12 - BDSM and Coercion, Boundaries and Consent...

Season 4 Episode 11 - BDSM and People Pleasing...

Season 4 Episode 10 - BDSM and Military Mindset in Power Exchange...

Season 4 - Episode 9 - BDSM and Loneliness vs. Solitude...

Season 4 Episode 8 - BDSM and the Validation Trap in Power Exchange...

Season 4 Episode 7 - My discussion with JohnBaku...

Season 4 Episode 6 - BDSM and "Emotional Vampires..."

Season 4 Episode 5 - BDSM and the Business of “Education"...

Season 4 Episode 4 - BDSM and Shame and Guilt...

Season 4 Episode 3 - BDSM and Sexual Satisfaction vs. Fulfillment...

Season 4 Episode 2 - My interview with -JUPIT3R- and Cheethame...

Season 4 Episode 1 - My take on the incidents at the WoodShed in Orlando,Florida...

Season 3 - It's a Wrap!

Season 3 Episode 50 - BDSM and Eroticism...

Season 3 Episode 49 - BDSM and Role Reversal...

Season 3 Episode 48 - My discussion with DrSpankologist...

Season 3 Episode 47 - BDSM and The Double-Edged Sword of Praise Kink...

Season 3 Episode 46 - BDSM and the Middle East...

Season 3 Episode 45 - BDSM and Healing Emotional Neglect...

Season 3 Episode 44 - BDSM and Kink Dictation and Policing...

Season 3 Episode 43 - BDSM and Rules for Disengagement in Relationships...

Season 3 Episode 42 - BDSM and Burnout...

Season 3 Episode 41 - BDSM and the Role of Emotional Processing...

Season 3 Episode 40 - BDSM and Sexual Shame...

Season 3 Episode 39 - My discussion with Honeybeeeee about BDSM, Life and Being Older...

Season 3 Episode 38 - BDSM and Navigating Polyamory as a New Couple...

Season 3 Episode 37 - BDSM and Emotional Unavailability...

Season 3 Episode 36 - Isolating Partners...

Season 3 Episode 35 - BDSM and Personal Responsibility...

Season 3 Episode 34 - Women, Kink, Politics and more, my discussion with The_Stormyone and __Raven__

Season 3 Episode 33 - BDSM and Vanilla Partners...

Season 3 Episode 32 - BDSM and Jealousy in Dynamics...

Season 3 Episode 31 - BDSM and Disposable Relationships...

Season 3 Episode 30 - BDSM and Self vs. Identity...

Season 3 Episode 29 - BDSM and Long Distance Kink Relationships...

Season 3 Episode 28 - BDSM and CNC...

Season 3 Episode 27 - BDSM and Understanding Punishments in D/s Relationships...

Season 3 Episode 26 - BDSM and Effects of Explicit Content...

Season 3 Episode 25 - BDSM and Men's Mental Health...

Season 3 Episode 24 - BDSM and Intermittent Reinforcement...

Season 3 Episode 23 - BDSM and Ping-Pong Relationships...

Season 3 Episode 22 - BDSM and Religious Iconopgraphy...

Season 3 Episode 21 - BDSM and Navigating Your First Dungeon Experience...

Season 3 Episode 20 - BDSM and Mummification...

Season 3 Episode 19 - BDSM and Coprophilia...

Season 3 Episode 18 - Ask Me Anything...

Season 3 Episode 17 - BDSM and ANR...

Season 3 Episode 16 - BDSM and Our Authentic Self...

Season 3 Episode 15 - BDSM and Aging...

Season 3 Episode 14 - BDSM and Foot Fetishes...

Season 3 Episode 13 - BDSM and Trauma Dumping...

Season 3 Episode 12 - BDSM and Dacryphilia...

Season 3 Episode 11 - BDSM and Unexpected Endings...

Season 3 Episode 10 - BDSM and Vulnerability in Masculinity...

Season 3 Episode 9 - BDSM and Substance use during scenes...

Season 3 Episode 8 - BDSM and Challenging the Norm of Aftercare...

Season 3 Episode 7 - Atlanta Tragedy - Content Warning...

Season 3 Episode 6 - BDSM and Social Media Responsibility...

Season 3 Episode 5 - BDSM and Pleasure and Pain...

Season 3 Episode 4 - Parenting and BDSM discussion Part 1, with Corey and Cassandra...

Season 3 Episode 3 - BDSM and Collar Dynamics...

Season 3 Episode 2 - BDSM and Hypnosis...

Season 3 Episode 1 - BDSM and Attention-Seeking Behavior in Social Media...

Season 2 Episode 57 - Special Episode on Findoms...

Season 2 - It's a Wrap...

Season 2 Episode 55 - BDSM and Limits of Self...

Season 2 Episode 54 - Consent Framework Discussion with Ms_Kitten_ Part 1...

Season 2 Episode 53 - BDSM and Music...

Season 2 Episode 52 - BDSM and Attacks on Masculinity...

Season 2 Episode 51 - BDSM and Self-Esteem...

Season 2 Episode 50 - BDSM and Jealousy...

Season 2 Episode 49 - Objectification discussion with Brooke_ish...

Season 2 Episode 48 - BDSM and Relationship Ethics...

Season 2 Episode 47 - BDSM and Electrical Play...

Season 2 Episode 46 - BDSM and Navigating Rebellion and Rejection in Relationships...

Season 2 Episode 45 - BDSM and Toys vs the Mind...

Season 2 Episode 44 - BDSM and Consent vs Boundaries...

Season 2 Episode 43 - BDSM and Sexual Affinity vs Sexual Objectification...

Season 2 Episode 42 - BDSM and Lingering Impact of Hurtful Words...

Season 2 Episode 41 - BDSM and Active Listening...

Season 2 Episode 40 - BDSM and Eroticism versus Sex...

Season 2 Episode 39 - BDSM and STI's, Sexual Health, Bug Chasing and Differing Opinions...

Season 2 Episode 38 - Emotional Dysregulation discussion with Clinical Psychologist Elise Loprieno...

Season 2 Episode 37 - BDSM and Sensation Seeking and Emotional Bleed Part 2...

Season 2 Episode 36 - BDSM and Risk and Emotional Bleed Part 1...

Season 2 Episode 35 - BDSM and Incels, Cultural Appropriation and Misinformation, oh my...

Season 2 Episode 34 - BDSM and a Burial Scene...

Season 2 Episode 33 - Rope Discussion Part 2 with BoundAshLeigh...

Season 2 Episode 32 - Rope Discussion Part 1 with SemenawaPrincess...

Season 2 Episode 31 - BDSM and Nostalgic Relationships...

Season 2 Episode 30 - Rope Bondage Discussion with Mr TinkerTrain...

Season 2 Episode 29 - BDSM and Humiliation Play...

Season 2 Episode 28 - BDSM and Letting go...

Season 2 Episode 27 - BDSM and Bulls...

Season 2 Episode 26 - BDSM and Hyper-Masculinity...

Season 2 Episode 25 - BDSM and Punishments...

Season 2 Episode 24 - BDSM and Fear of Being Alone...

Season 2 Episode 23 - BDSM and Silence and Projection...

Season 2 Episode 22 - Brooke_ish and TPE

Season 2 Episode 21 - BDSM and Embracing the Unknown...

Season 2 Episode 20 - BDSM and Fantasy vs. Reality...

Season 2 Episode 19 - BDSM and Men's Mental Health...

Season 2 Episode 18 - BDSM and Using Psychology to Manipulate Relationships...

Season 2 Episode 17 - BDSM and Kink Politics...

Season 2 Episode 16 - BDSM and Praise Kink

Season 2 Episode 15 - BDSM and Introversion - Extroversion in BDSM...

Season 2 Episode 14 - BDSM and Needle Play discussion with Ms_Kitten_

Season 2 Episode 13 - BDSM and Shame, Secrets and Dirty desires, the private life we want no one to know about...

Season 2 Episode 12 - BDSM and Attachment Styles...

Season 2 Episode 11 - BDSM and Dynamic Political Differences...

Season 2 Episode 10 - BDSM and When a Dynamic Ends part 2...

Season 2 Episode 9 - BDSM and When a Dynamic Ends part 1...

Season 2 Episode 8 - BDSM and Aftercare for Dominants...

Season 2 Episode 7 - BDSM and Kink Educators...

Season 2 Episode 6 - BDSM and Kinky People Killing BDSM...

Season 2 Episode 5 - BDSM and Disposable Relationships...

Season 2 Episode 4 - BDSM and Auralism...

Season 2 Episode 3 - BDSM and When the Spark Fades...

Season 2 - Episode 2 - BDSM and Consent Violations...

Season 2 - Episode 1 - BDSM and Open Marriages...

Episode 45 - Onward to 2023!

Episode 44 - Lactation discussion with Brooke_ish

Episode 43 - BDSM and Empowerment vs Disempowerment...

Episode 42 - My chat with Scorpio1375

Episode 41 - BDSM and Interrogation scenes and Waterboarding...

Episode 40 - BDSM and Scent Attraction...

Episode 39 - BDSM and Euphoria vs. Connectivity...

Episode 38 - BDSM and Breakups, Sex and Infidelity...

Episode 37 - BDSM and Rejection Resiliency...

Episode 36 - BDSM and Your Dominant is not your Therapist...

Episode 35 - BDSM and Giving the Lifestyle a Bad Name...

Episode 34 - BDSM and Hurt vs. Harm

Episode 33 - BDSM and Sadism vs Sexual Sadism Disorder...

Episode 32 - BDSM and Emotional Responses...

Episode 31 - BDSM and Relationship Green Flags...

Episode 30 - BDSM and the D.I.E. Philosophy...

Episode 29 - BDSM and Misandry...

Episode 28 - BDSM and Exhibitionism...

Episode 27 - BDSM and Self-Objectification and Sexualization

Episode 26 - BDSM and Kink Shaming...

Episode 25 - BDSM and Civil Discourse...

Episode 24 - BDSM and Our Core Values...

Episode 23 - BDSM and Sex Drives/Thoughts...

Episode 22 - The mysterious gift of submission...

Episode 21 - BDSM And Golden Showers...

Episode 20 - BDSM and Dirty Talk...

Episode 19 - BDSM and Sensory Deprivation

Episode 18 - BDSM and Consent - Being under the Influence...

Episode 17 - BDSM and Religions Ritual Connections Part 2

Episode 16 - BDSM and Religions Ritual Connections Part 1

Episode 15 - BDSM and Aftercare

Episode 14 - BDSM and Mentors

Episode 13 - BDSM and Trauma Exposure

Episode 12 - BDSM and Vetting

Episode 11 - BDSM and Behavioral Change...

Episode 10 - BDSM and One-Sided Relationships...

Episode 9 - Dominant-Dominant Relationship - My discussion with LunaLux and Sovereign_Kane

Episode 8 - BDSM and Operant Conditioning and Behavioral Modification...

Episode 7 - BDSM and Infidelity...

Episode 6 - Praise inside of the BDSM Lifestyle

Episode 5 - Love, Loss, and Giref. A 27 Year Dynamic Love Story...

Episode 4 - What is a Fetish?

Episode 3 - BDSM and Mindful Intimacy...

Episode 2 - BDSM and the Psychology behind the myths...

Episode 1 - BDSM Principles