All Episodes

Pt.2 Romantic Hope: What it Looks Like and How To Look for it

#57 "Romantic Hope Pt.1: The Importance of Romantic Hope During Challenging Times"

Season 3 Premiere: #56 A New Take on The 'Open' Relationship

#55 Listener Question Updates and Follow-ups: Jennifer, Ranjani and Bryan

#54 "How am I Supposed to Find a Relationship When I Feel Dead Inside?" Listener Question from Bryan, 51

#53 "What If Being Single Is Actually An Orientation?" -Paul, 49

#52 Why You Should Go to Your High School Reunion & Why Reunions Matter More Than Ever

#51: "Why am I glad to be divorced but sad about being single?" Listener Question from Ranjani, 47

#50 "What are the Pros & Cons of Staying Single vs. Dating?" Listener Question from Paul, 49

#49 How to Rethink Long Distance Relationships Today

#48 How to Move to Friendship (After Having Feelings)

#47 How to Date Like an Athlete (Without Playing Games)

#46 How to Think About Money & Compatibility

Season 2: Preview & Research Updates

Dating Climate Change and Why Golden And Later Are Different

"State of Date" Meditation/Prep Talk

#45 How to Get Into a "State of Date"

#44 How to Play the "Mid-Range" Game

#43 How To Do A "Crush Audit"

#42 How to Set Yourself Up & The Lodge Line

#41 The Unlisted Approach

#40 "Will I Ever Feel That Way Again?": Listener Question from Gabe, 57

#39 Finding Connection in Contrast and Differences

#38 Ask For Focus Instead of a Relationship

Valentine's Bonus: The Afterlife Set-Up

#37 The Root of Finding the Right Person

#36 Signs of Success vs Signs of Striving

#35 Artificial Intelligence And The Later Dater

#34 The Issue With Dating "Goals"

#33 Go Ahead and Age Yourself

#32 Organic Connections Today and The Power of Tupperware

#31 Rethinking Wasted Time In Dating

#30 The Heartbreak Plan For Later Daters

#29 What Gen Z Understands About Dating, Why It Matters and Why They Love Gen X

#28 What Do You Find Attractive...Today?

#27 Beyond "The Gratitude" Question: A Thanksgiving Episode

#26 The Role of Place And Space On A Date

#25 It's Easy To Meet But Harder To Connect: A Key Later Dater Insight

#24 Meg Ryan's New Movie and Reconnecting With Someone From Your Past

#23 "I've Never Been Married And Feel Like It's A Mark Against Me": Listener Question from Susanna, 46

#22 Don't Date Someone You Like

#21 Later Dater Labels and Stigmas

#20 The Shape of Your Heart vs. Your Relationship History

#19 The Death of The Crush: And Why Your Past Crushes Matter Today

#18 Top Traits of Later Daters Today

#17 How Do I Meet Women If I Don’t Want To Use Dating Apps?: Listener Question from Graham, 56

#16 "Being Open" as a Later Dater

#15 Longer Doesn't Always Mean Stronger: Better Ways To Measure Romantic Impact

#14 "I Haven't Dated Since 1999": Listener Question from Jennifer, 48

#13 "I Don't Want To Repeat The Past": Listener Question from Mark, 52

#12 Heartbreak And The Later Dater Part 2: The Overlooked Value of Heartache

#11 Do I Want To Deal With This? How to Listen to Someone Else's Less-Than-Perfect Past

#10 Heartbreak and The Later Dater Part 1: Why You Never Want To Outgrow It

#9 Baggage or Luggage? How To Think About Your Past

#8 The Problem With "The Numbers Game"

#7 From Sitting To Swiping: A Quick History of The Dating Industry

#6 When Dating Feels Overwhelming: Intergalactic Dating Part 2

#5 Why Most Dating Advice is Sh*tty

#4 When Dating Feels Overwhelming: Intergalactic Dating Part 1

#3 Everyone Is a Museum and Most of Us Stay in the Lobby

#2 We're All Dating All The Time

#1 The Later Dater Today: Who, Why and What To Expect

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