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#367: What is Transpersonal Sexology

#366: The Seven Flavours of Sex

#365: Live in the "Simmer Zone"

#364: Suggest Don't Ask

#363: Take the Pressure Off your Penis!

#362: Don't Let Your Primitive Brain Rule Your Relationship

#361: Great Sex is Not About Speed

#360: Sexual KPIs - Key Pleasure Indicators

#359: Your Relationship is Like a Boat that Carries you through Life

#358: Talk 'Erotic' Not 'Dirty'

#357: Great Sex is Rarely Spontaneous

#356: Approaching Sex As A Spiritual Practice

#355: You're Not Alone - Sexual Struggle is Normal

#354: Let Nature Boost Your Libido

#352: A Kiss Is Just A Kiss

#351: How to "Start the Dominos Falling"

#350: Move Towards Love-Led not Lust-Led Sex

#349: The Yin & Yang of Erotic Physiology

#348: Should Age Like A Fine Wine

#347: We All Need To "Come Out" To Our Unique Sexuality

#346: Burn Away the Undergrowth to Allow New Growth

#345: Don't Push a Relationship to Crisis Point, End It Sooner

#343: It's Normal to Find Other People Attractive

#342: The Dance of Initiation

#341: We All Need A Phone Policy!

#340: What Comes Before Consent

#339: More than Sex-Positive, We Need to be Sex-Comfortable

#338: Get Off the Hedonistic Treadmill!

#337: You Can't Search for Love. It's Already There. You Can Only Remove the Barriers to Let It In

#336: How to Communicate Complaints Effectively

#335: Nurture Your Soul with Sex

#334: How to Express Your Emotions Without Being "Emotional"

#333: Q and A: We're Time Poor - How Do We Add Some Zing?

#332: Be Conscious Not Complacent

#331: It's Ok to Disappoint Your Partner

#330: Moans and Groans – why sound is good in sex and how to make more

#329: Gateways to the Erotic Shift

#328: Safety is Sexy

#327: Pace Your Sexual Interactions

#326: Fly on the Wall Friday - my new Video Series

#325: When Things Get Wobbly Assume the Best and Get Curious

#323: Be "At Home" in Your Body

#322: Don't Ever Stop Kissing

#321: Consent From the Inside

#320: How To Say No Without It Feeling Like Rejection

#319: The Benefits of a Great Love Life Part 3: Sexual Transformation

#318: The Benefits of a Great Love Life Part 2: Relational Transformation

#317: The Benefits of a Great Love Life Part 1: Personal Transformation

#316: Take Your Partner Off A Sexual Pedestal

#315: Finesse Your Expertise on Each Other

#314: A Lingering Sense of Each Other

#313: How Do You Know When You're Having Good Sex?

#312: Conflict is Inevitable So Learn to Prevent, Manage and Repair

#311: The Bridgerton Effect

#310: Cuddle plus – an essential phase of the affection-sex continuum

#309: Moment-by-Moment Consent

#308: How To Give and Receive An Erotic Spanking

#307: Three Types of Sexual Communication: Chit-chat, In-the-moment and the Debrief

#306: What I Desire

#305: Lazy Sex

#304: It's Not "Needy" to Connect - It's Human!

#303: The Art of the Thrust

#302: Transformational Erotica

#301: Sex As Embodied Mindfulness Practice

#300: So Many Ways to Eat, So Many Ways to ...

#299: Date Night of Date Day?

#298: Teenage Love-making

#297: Turning Sex Lives Upside-Down - it's my life's work!

#296: The Sex Store in Your Pantry

#295: Do You PIV or VEP When You Have Sex?

#294: Take Your Penis for a Walk!

#293: It's Time to Let Our Souls Catch-Up

#292: Become A Sensual Explorer

#291: Q and A: My Wife Won't Pleasure Herself in Front of Me

#290: Subtle Shifts to Great Sex

#289: Q and A: My Husband Can't Keep an Erection, and He Smokes Lots of Marajuana

#288: Love in the Time of COVID-19

#287: Q and A: My Partner Doesn't Climax from Oral Sex and I'm Worried

#286: Meditate Your Way to Great Sex

#285: Q and A: My Partner Doesn't Like Kissing - What To Do?

#284: Communing - deep, intimate connection

#283: Q and A: We Want to Try a Threesome - How Do We Do It Safely?

#282: On Being a Human in a Female Body

#281: Q and A: How Do We Connect After So Much Stress?

#280: Get A Life! Your Sex Drive Needs the Dopamine

#279: Q and A: My Husband Is Having An Affair and I'm Relieved

#278: Stocking Up Your Love Larder - the key to spontaneous sex

#277: Q and A: How Do I Flex My New Found Interest in Sex?

#276: Intercourse as Foreplay

#275: Q and A: Fun in the Sun - How to Have Safe Holiday Sex

#274: Bake Your Cake Before You Ice It - the foundation of great sex

#273: Q and A: Is It Normal to Want Sex Twice A Day?

#272: How Has Sex Helped You Grow - Research Participants Wanted!

#271: Q and A: How Do I Meet My Sexual Needs in a Sexless Marriage

#270: Optimal Sexuality: Reaching Your Sexual Potental

#269: Q and A: How Do I Get My Mojo Back?

#268: It's the Sum of the Small Things

#267: Q and A: How to Reignite Our Love Life

#266: Relationship Vitamins

#265: I See You as Lover - the importance of attention in loving well

#264: The Pleasure of a Soft Cock

#263: Make Every Stroke Count

#262: You Can Make Love With Just A Kiss

#261: Finding the 'More' - the Spiritual Dimensions of Sex

#260: How To Stay In Love

#259: Expanding Your Sexual Play Part 2: How

#258: Expanding Your Sexual Play Part 1: What

#257: Simple Sex is Good Sex

#256: Solo Sex: Mindful Masturbation

#255: Own the Crone

#254: Porn Star versus Prude

#253: “When One is Pretending, the Whole Body Revolts”

#252: Non-Linear Lovemaking: the Picnic Approach to Sex

#251: Make Your Bedroom A Sanctuary

#250: Sexy Debriefing

#249: Getting Love Drunk

#248: Make-Over Your Sex Life

#247: Be Real, Express Yourself

#246: The Fairy Tales Got It Wrong

#245: Are Humans Naturally Monogamous - and if not, what does that mean?

#244: Gigglegasms

#243: Evolve with the Seven Elements of Sexuality

#242: Getting to Sex can be like Getting to the Gym

#241: Intensity Repels, Enticement Attracts - Like Chocolate Cake!

#240: Turn Yourself On and the World Turns On to You

#239: Therapy is Composting Your Sh*t

#238: Are You Flat-lining or Surfing in Life?

#237: How to Avoid Spiritual Bypassing in Sex and Relationships

#236: The Clitoris is Not an On/Off Button

#235: The Three Phases of Conscious Relationship Evolution

#234: Allow Self-Indulgence

#233: Are You Relationship-Oriented?

#232: Tantra: Sex Through Non-Sex

#231: A Multitude of Orgasmic Possibilities

#230: Sink In to Sync In

#229: Penises - does size really matter?

#228: What To Do When He Can't Come

#227: The Adolescent Male Masturbatory Model of Sex

#226: Merge Sex and Love Energies for Potent Connection

#225: Sex Is A Normal Part of Life

#224: We Judge ‘Normal’ Sex Based on Our Own Experiences

#223: How Do I Love Thee? Let Me Count the Ways...

#222: Project 'Great Sex'

#221: Beforeplay Suggestions

#220: Foreplay and Be-Foreplay

#219: How To Heighten Sensory Pleasure

#218: The Bedroom is for Expression, Not Suppression

#217: The Three Types of Sex All Couples Need

#216: Things that make you go 'mmm' and things that make you go 'ngh'

#215: Libido - the Interplay of Desire and Arousal

#214: The Good and Bad of Porn

#213: Bad Communication Styles: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

#212: My Journey to Becoming A Transpersonal Sexologist

#211: Seven Sex Tips for Busy People

#210: Penises Love A Soft Touch

#209: Share Before You Fix

#208: The Best Thing A Father Can Do

#207: The Exquisiteness of a Relaxed Vagina

#206: The Look of Love - Eye-Gazing

#205: Quanta of Deliciousness

#204: How to Maintain the 'Mmm' Factor

#203: How To Have Dirty Sex with Someone You Love

#202: Seven Benefits of Attending A LoveLife Couples Retreat

#201: Make Sex Your Hobby

#200: Partnered Sex is Not Solo Sex for Two

#199: Melting Moments

#198: Your Partner Can't Be Everything To You

#197: Sex is Good, Sleep is Better

#196: Savouring Sex

#195: Living La Vida Tantrika - The Tantric Life

#194: Be Kind - It Works!

#193: Pushing Boundaries

#192: Good Rest=Good Sex

#191: We Need Bliss

#190: Receptive Is Not Passive

#189: So Much Love

#188: A High-Quality Relationship is a High-Maintenance Relationship

#187: Sex As Spiritual Practice

#186: Playing with The Yin and Yang of Sex

#185: The Yin and Yang of Sex

#184: Third-Level Love-Making

#183: Vive La Difference

#182: Taking A Marriage Sabbatical

#181: The Basic Sexual Unit Is One

#180: A Penis Is For Connection Not Penetration

#179: Men Have Not Evolved To Sow Their Seed Widely

#178: Big Sex Is Beautiful Sex

#177: Women Are Not 'Naturally' Monogamous

#176: Sex Therapy and Tantra Retreats What To Do If You Have A Reluctant Partner

#175: The Chilled Build

#174: Mums and Dads Need Cuddle Time

#173: Good Head Does Not Mean Simulating A Vacuum Cleaner

#172: Is Porn Making Women Less Feminine

#171: Is Porn Making Men Less Masculine

#160: Erotic Wickedness - how to play with power exchange

#170: Rough Sex

#169: The Three Pillars of Love

#168: Seven Benefits of Attending My Couples Retreats

#167: Ban Penetration (the word, not the act)!

#166: Solo Cultivation - Mindful Masturbation for Men

#165: Our Bodies Thrive on Pleasure

#164: Leela: Cosmic Play, Sexual Play

#163: Toys For Grown-Ups

#162: Backdoor Pleasures

#161: The Sexual Glutton Vs The Sexual Gourmet

#159: Practice Expressing Your Feelings

#158: Let’s Talk About Our Sex

#157: Love Your Breasts

#156: Ditch the Sex Myths

#155: Relax Into Orgasm

#154: When A Woman Is Free To Be Herself Sex Takes On A Spiritual Dimension

#153: It All Starts With A Kiss

#152: The Ecstasy Is In The Spaces In-between

#151: Radical Honesty

#150: Strength in Softness, Softness in Strength

#149: Your New Years Resolution - Have Better Sex!

#148: Peace, Pleasure and Goodwill to All

#146: Say Yes! to Sex

#145: Finger Finesse

#144: Reluctance is not frigidity, it’s body awareness - she’s not ready!

#143: Mindful Sex - why it’s worth studying

#142: Love Thy Partner

#141: ‘Invitation' not ‘Penetration'

#140: Female Bodies Are Sexual Pleasure Machines

#139: Sex is the Base of Being Human

#138: Awaken Your Vagina for the Kind of Sex All Women and their Partners Deserve

#137: Bonking on the Right Side of the Brain

#136: Have Sex with God…

#135: So Many Boxes - So Little Freedom

#134: How to Move Forward When Your Partner Has Betrayed You

#133: Why Humans Are So Sexual

#132: Partnered Yoga - Erotic Connection

#131: Make Love Like You’re Playing An Instrument

#130: How to Talk to Kids About Sex - and why you need to

#129: Inviting A Third (or fourth or more…) - the right way to play

#128: Does Size Really Matter

#127: The Way of the Householder - how to make the everyday sublime

#126: Our Bodies Are the Best Sex Toy Ever

#125: Honour Your Genitals for Exquisite Sex - the Why and How

#124: Tango Tantra - Make Your Love Life Blissfully Connected

#123: The Yin & Yang of Sex Chemistry

#122: DIY Porn - It’s A Fun Way to Add Spice to Your Love Life

#121: Move Beyond Sleaze and Shame and Discover The Third Wave of Sexuality

#120: Don’t Fake It Till You Make It - ‘Cause You Won’t Make It

#119: Give Your Man Absolute Pleasure...Try Prostate Massage

#118: We’re All Individuals! There’s a Whole Spectrum of Sexuality

#117: My New Book "Seven Sex Goddesses" Released!

#116: Can Fisting Be Fabulous?

#115: Ten Reasons Why Married Women Have Affairs

#114: Mutual Pleasure Requires Mutual Responsibility - how to expand your sex play safely

#113: Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down - how to add restraint to your sex life

#112: What’s Your Eroticism - Intimate, Wild, Fun?

#111: 10 Tips for Your Vagina

#110: The Man Leads, the Woman Embellishes

#109: Unblock Energy for Greater Love

#108: The Sensual Dom(me)

#107: Explore Your Fantasies

#106: Dress-Ups!

#105: Consensual Non-Monotony

#104: Consensual Non-Monogamy

#103: Languid 69

#102: Sensual Non-Monogamy

#101: Make Love to Yourself

#100: Celibacy, Sexuality and Spirituality

#99: Spice Alone Tastes Terrible

#98: Should I Stay Or Should I Go

#97: Plugging In - Sex Without Movement

#96: Growing Better With Age

#95: Teaching Tantra in Paradise

#94: Time Apart Can Be Erotic

#93: When He's Lost Interest

#92: Q and A: Why Doesn't Porn Do It For Me?

#91: If Sex Hurts, Change What You're Doing

#90: Some Words for the Lower Desire Partner

#89: Trust Your Body

#88: Chill Out in Your Sanctuary

#87: Planning for Pleasure

#86: Make the Lead-Up Erotic

#85: Advice from Japanese Grandmothers on How to be Beautiful

#84: If You Want A Mature Relationship You Have to be Mature

#83: How Often Should We Have Sex?

#82: Slay the Pink Elephants!

#81: The Tantric Lounge Radio Show - Talking Sex, Science and Spirituality

#80: What Do Men Love Best About Sex?

#79: Fetishes Are Fine

#78: The Awesomeness of Men Who are Present

#77: Sex Doesn't Have to Involve the Genitals

#76: Winter's A Time for Sexual Growth

#75: An Erection Does Not Have To Be Serviced

#74: "My Ejaculation Opens the Door to Deeper Orgasms"

#73: To Come Or Not To Come

#72: Know Your Sexual Rhythm

#71: Fill Up Your Self-Love Tank

#70: The Cup-of-Tea Approach to Sexual Self-Coaching

#69: Trust Means Being OK with Not Knowing

#68: Renegotiate Your Contract

#67: Breathe Together - It's Tantric Foreplay

#66: The Number One Secret to Good Sex

#65: An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away - why sex is so good for you

#64: Teaching Sex Therapists Tantra

#63: Is "Good Enough" Sex Good Enough?

#62: Observing Love

#61: There is Always A Lower Desire Partner

#60: You Can't Find Balance, You Have To Craft It

#59: Sexual, Spiritual Business Leaders

#58: Positive Messages in 50 Shades of Grey

#57: Playing with Pleasure and Pain

#56: Pelvic Floor Pleasures - Advanced

#55: Pelvic Floor Pleasures - The Basics

#54: Three Good Reasons To Read Erotica

#53: Tantric Kink

#52: Tools for Self-Validation from a Luscious Woman

#51: How to Master the Art of Vaginal Stimulation

#50: Discover the G, A and Ohhhh-Spots

#49: The Tantric Quickie

#48: We All Need To Be Balanced in Our Masculine and Feminine Sides

#47: One Couple's "Kilimanjaro Walk" to Sexual Reconnection

#46: Feminine Receptivity and the Go-Getter Kind of Gal

#45: The Etiquette of Observing Breasts

#44: The World is Waking to Conscious Sex

#43: Try A Little Tenderness

#42: Erotica or Sleaze

#41: A Sensual Man Makes A Great Lover

#40: Sensuality Feeds Sexuality

#39: What is Sex Therapy, Sex Coaching and Tantra Teaching?

#38: The Beauty of Conflict

#37: A Woman's Body Opens In Stages

#36: Breathe Well: Live & Love Well

#35: Phone Sex

#34: Do Your Research - It's Fun!

#33: Unconditional Love Requires Self-validation

#32: Men Need a Muse Not Just A Vagina

#31: Teaching Tantra in Thailand

#30: Being Real

#29: Twelve Benefits of Sex

#28: Communicate - Human's Can't Read Minds!

#27: True Intimacy

#26: The Core of Tantra: Real Sex

#25: Sex as Entree not Dessert

#24: Fire and Water - Masculine and Feminine Sexual Energies

#23: High Libido Women Keep Their Sexual 'Water' Energy Simmering

#22: The Breadth of Sexuality and the Importance of Fun

#21: Prioritising Sex

#20: Obligation Sex is Self-imposed Low Level Sexual Trauma

#19: Not-So-Secret Men's Business

#18: Could We Have A Festival of Sexuality?

#17: Three Things A Whole Man Needs

#16: Valuing the Masculine

#15: Valuing the Feminine

#14: Face the Darkness to Find the Light

#13: Grow Up and Open Up Australia

#12: How Men Can Circulate Sexual Energy

#11: The Great G-Spot & Female Ejaculation Debate!

#10: Sexual Pleasure is the Great Equalizer

#9: Become a Black Belt in the Bedroom

#8: Neuroplasticity and Moulding Your Brain for Better Sex

#7: Raise Your Sexual Energy

#6: How To Consume An Ice-Cream - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 2

#5: How To Eat A Peach - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 1

#4: Love in the Time of Chaos

#3: A History of Sexual Misinformation

#2: Men Are From Earth, Women Are From Earth

#1: The Birth of the LoveLife Blog