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Sorry For Ghosting You

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5 Things I’m Currently Loving

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What Kind of Trauma Do You Have? with Kobe Campbell

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Does God Want Me To Be Gay? with Mike Maeshiro

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Doing Mushrooms May Have Saved My Faith

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Dear Diary: Why is the Bar Set So Low? with Tutti del Monte

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What A Sabbatical Really Looks Like

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And We're Back!!!

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A Closed Door Leads to a Greater Yes

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Life in a Post-Roe World with Dr. Natalie Crawford

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I’m Taking a Sabbatical + Here’s Why

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Navigating Physical Boundaries While You’re Deconstructing with Alessandra Conti

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Kat Spills the Tea: The One that Got Away

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He Said / She Said: Who Should Pay for the First Date Though? with Shaun Galanos

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Sex Ed 101: (Spoiler Alert) Sex Isn’t Like the Movies with Dr. Celeste Holbrook

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The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex with Sheila Wray Gregoire

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Ask Kat: How to Be an LGBTQ+ Ally, Interfaith Relationships, and Bridgerton

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My Egg Freezing Experience

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Meditation for Gratitude

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Meditation for Anxiety with Jackie Viramontez

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When You Feel BURNED OUT

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Deconstruction Part III: What Would Jesus Do?

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Deconstruction Part II: Am I Still a Christian?

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Deconstruction Part I: What Is It + How Do I Know I’m Experiencing It?

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I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet with Shauna Niequist

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Sex Ed 101: Vibrators, Positions + Oral… OH MY! with Dr. Celeste Holbrook

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He Said/She Said: Submission with Manwell Reyes

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Dear Diary: Am I a Good Kisser? with Tutti del Monte

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Ask Kat: Tithing During Deconstruction? Faith Compatibility in Dating + More

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Leaving the Church to Find Jesus

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Real Talk: Dating Non-Christians

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Churchless: Searching for My Place Outside of Church

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Letting Go vs. Giving Up

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$7/Day to a 6-Figure Book Deal: Part III

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$7/Day to a 6-Figure Book Deal: Part II

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$7/Day to a 6-Figure Book Deal: Part I

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Tears, Fears + Searching for Vision with Johan Martinez-Khalilian

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I Kinda Suck at Dating: A 2021 Reflection

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Church + S*x: How Did We Get It So Wrong? with Sheila Wray Gregoire

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How to Get Real Results From Online Dating with Kait Warman

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Is S*xual Compatibility a Myth? with Jaiya and Ian

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Dear Diary: Excerpts from my Middle School Journal with Tutti del Monte

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Friendship Breakups with Andi Andrew

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Ask Kat: Dating While Deconstructing, Botox, Legalism + More...

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Is It the Holy Spirit or My Trauma? with Kobe Campbell

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The Eyes of Tammy Faye with Jonathan Merritt

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Lessons From My Therapist with Kat Harris

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He Said/She Said: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? with Manwell Reyes

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He Said/She Said: Sex/Life with Manwell Reyes

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He Said/She Said: Double Standards with Manwell Reyes

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Sex Ed 101 with Dr. Celeste Holbrook

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TRC REMIX: Being Single is Hard... Real Talk with Mia Fieldes

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TRC REMIX: Cheating, Ghosting, Finances + Sex with Shaun Galanos

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TRC REMIX: The #1 Dating Myth Keeping You Stuck with Stephanie May Wilson

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TRC REMIX: The Sex Talk: When, How + Why to Have it in Dating

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TRC REMIX: Are You Blocking Yourself from Love? with Jillian Turecki

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TRC REMIX: Who Should I Date? with Phylicia Masonheimer

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TRC REMIX: Purity Culture, Painful Sex + Debunking Shame Narrative with Dr. Celeste Holbrook

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TRC REMIX: Getting to Know Your Period with Kate Eskuri

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TRC REMIX: Is Masturbation a Sin? Part II

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TRC REMIX: Is Masturbation a Sin? Part I

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Is My Body Bad? with Christopher West

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What Does the Bible Really Say About Sex: Part II

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What Does the Bible Really Say About Sex: Part I

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Learning to Listen: A Guided Meditation

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Are You Really OK? A Mental Health Check Up with Debra Fileta

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The Science of Anxiety + How to Stabilize Once You're Triggered

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Identifying Anxiety Triggers

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When Is It Time to Go to Therapy? with Kobe Campbell

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My Favorite ‘F’ Words: Faith + Feminism with Meghan Tschanz

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Pure or Impure?: Reframing the Dialogue Around Sex with Brenda Marie Davies

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Sexless in the City: My Breaking Point

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Waiting for Marriage...Is It Really Worth It? with Nights at the Round Table

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Deconstruction 101 with Nights at the Round Table

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The Women Tell All: Should I Marry a Christian? with Carrie Lloyd and Kait Warman

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Strong Women Run In My DNA: The Story of Hannah

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Dating is a Curb, NOT a Cliff with Dr. Christie Kederian

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Work On Your ‘Ish: If You Don’t Heal Your Past, It Will Haunt You with Demetria Stallings

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Thank You For Rejecting Me with Kait Warman

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Is My Heart Deceitful Above All Things? A Conversation with AD Thomason

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Is Chivalry Dead?

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Are We Weaponizing Scripture to Silence Women? with Tiffany Bluhm

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BONUS: The Hard Truth About Closure with Hannah Brencher

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Just Because You Know A Story By Heart, Doesn’t Mean It’s True with Ruthie Lindsey

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BONUS: Want Kids One Day? A Conversation with Afton Vechery of Modern Fertility

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Choosing Love is Worth the Risk with Jasmine Star

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Single + Broke: How to Set Yourself Up for Financial Success Today with Anthony O’Neal

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2020 Reflections: Looking Back to Move Forward

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FaceTime Dates, Politics, + Double Standards: How 2020 Has Forever Changed Dating

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Cheating, Ghosting, Finances + Sex with Shaun Galanos

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That’s What He Said: Sexual Formation + Cultivating Desire with Jon Tyson

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That’s What He Said: Marriage Prep 101: Sacrifice, Intentionality + Growth with Tim Timberlake

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That’s What He Said: Where Are All the Single Godly Men? With Ben Stuart

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Another One Bites the Dust: Sex Scandals in the Evangelical Church

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That's What He Said: Is Asking for a Set-Up Desperate? with Matt Jones

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Faith + Politics Part II: Can I Love My Neighbor Through My Politics? with Stephanie Summers

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[BONUS] Faith + Politics Part I: Why Pro-Birth is Not Enough with Ashley Abercrombie

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That’s What He Said: How to Create a Culture of Honor in Dating with Jeff Johnson

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That’s What He Said: How to Let Him Know You’re Into Him with Jarod Nickerson

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That’s What He Said: DM Dating // Going from DMs to Real Life with Jamal Miller