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Why I've Been Gone (This Time) - TMLL 147

Why Your Favorite Self Help Book Sucks (And What To Do About It) (TMLL 146)

How To Gauge Who You Should Spend Time (And Why Some May Be Avoiding You) (TMLL 145)

The Last Goal-Setting Solution You Will Ever Need To Learn (TMLL 144)

A Christmas Message You Are Not Going To Believer (But Will Love & Follow) (TMLL143)

You May Be One Book Away From A Breakthrough (TMLL 142)

The More You Want To Do A Thing, The Less Time You Can Spend Doing Other Things (TMLL 141)

Most Of The Feedback You Will Receive Is Bad (TMLL 140)

Not Knowing “The Right Way” Is An Asset (TMLL 139)

Money Is Not The Fix To Every Problem, But Money Will Fix A Lot Of Problems (TMLL 138)

Start With An Open Mind, Be Willing To Close It Shut If Necessary (TMLL 137)

You Have A Job To Bring More Positivity To The World At Large (TMLL 136)

How To Keep Motivated When The Motivation Is Just Not There (TMLL 135)

Personal Development Is Looking To The Future (TMLL 134)

Five Tips For Managing Family Gathering (TMLL 133)

Taking The Path Of Least Resistance On Purpose (TMLL 132)

On Will Smith & Working Too Many Projects (TMLL 131)

Being Boring On Purpose (TMLL 130)

Fundamentals Of Quitting (TMLL 129)

We Can All Be Coaches (TMLL 128)

‘Six Degrees Of Separation’ Is Real, And You Can Use The Concept To Your Advantage (TMLL 127)

Clear The Clutter (TMLL 126)

Beef Up Your Reading Habits (TMLL 125)

Know Who Are You Going To Take It From (TMLL 124)

We Are All Susceptible To 'Cults Of Personality' (TMLL 123)

Perseverance (TMLL 122)

Well, I Guess I’m Back (TMLL 121)

Set A Routine, Be Prepared For Distractions (TMLL 120)

Mentors Cannot Perform Magic (TMLL 119)

My Five Step Goal-Planning System (TMLL 118)

Plan Your Day Ahead Of Time...Backwards (TMLL 117)

The True Word For 2020 Is ‘Hard’ (TMLL 116)

The Next Conversation Could Lead To A Big Break. Or Not (TMLL 115)

You Learn More From Real-World Experience (TMLL 114)

Everything Is Better With A Friend (Or Competent Partner) (TMLL 113)

Leave Things Better Than You Found Them (TMLL 112)

The Risks You Should Never Take (TMLL 111)

The Right Way To Raise Your Averages (TMLL 110)

Ask The Question, "If It Weren't For Me..." (TMLL 109)

Life At The Center Of The Universe (TMLL 108)

Understand Your Motivations To Fight Your Temptations (TMLL 107)

Try To Work From State Of Calm Not Chaos (TMLL 106)

The Power Of Trickle Down Misery (TMLL 105)

All Rules Are Meant To Be Tested (TMLL 104)

Personal Improvement Is Work That Only You Can Do For Yourself (TMLL 103)

Who’s Got Your Back? (TMLL 102)

When Your Work Turns To ‘Work,’ Ask Yourself This Question (TMLL 101)

A Check List Is The Secret To Success (TMLL 100)

You Should Try Harder To Journal Your Life (TMLL 099)

If It Matters To Them, It Should Matters To You (TMLL 098)

Question Your Windows Of Opportunity (TMLL 097)

Don’t Let Anyone Steal Your Joy (TMLL 096)

Before You Take A Step, Buy A Map (TMLL 095)

Your Time Might As Well Be Now (TMLL 094)

Fighting Your Way Back (TMLL 093)

Your Definition Of Success Is YOUR Definition Of Success (TMLL 092)

The Fickleness Of Mob Rule (TMLL 091)

Lessons Aren’t Learned From Lists (TMLL 090)

How To Live More Economically (TMLL 089)

How To Give Good Feedback (TMLL 088)

To Be More Grateful Don’t Just Count Your Blessings (TMLL 087)

You’ve Failed Without Losing Hope (TMLL 086)

If All The Advice Is The Same, Why Aren't You Taking It? (TMLL 085)

Don't Panic (TMLL 084)

Are You Doing Too Much At Work? (TMLL 083)

People Are Simultaneously Inherently Good & Extremely Selfish (TMLL 082)

Don't Be Afraid To Give Up On A Good Idea Gone Bad (TMLL 081)

There Is Always A Chance For A New Partnership (TMLL 080)

Start A Journal When You Face A Major Change (TMLL 079)

The Struggle That Really Isn’t (TMLL 078)

A New Year & A Step Toward New Beginnings Any Time (TMLL 077)

Find Meaning In Your Obstacles (TMLL 076)

The Story That You Tell About Yourself (TMLL 075)

When All You Can Do Is Admit You Have A Problem (TMLL 074)

Let People Off The Hook (TMLL 073)

Elephants In The Room Need To Be Addressed, Not Necessarily Dealt With (TMLL 072)

You Are Not Powerless (TMLL 071)

You Need To 'Fame Up' Your Efforts To Get Noticed (TMLL 070)

The Deposits Going Into Your Relationship Accounts (TMLL 069)

Place Your Priorities & Discuss Those Priorities With The People That Really Matter (TMLL 068)

When The Effort You Invest Gives You Blah Results (TMLL 067)

Picture Tomorrow’s Success To Motivate Your Efforts Today (TMLL 066)

Being A Dreamer Does Require Occasionally Waking Up (TMLL 065)

Worry About The People And The Processes Will Take Care Of Themselves (TMLL 064)

You Can Not Have A Perfect Day Every Day (TMLL 063)

Cite Your Sources (TMLL 062)

People Should Ask Questions About Your Motives, Not Question Them (TMLL 061)

Keeping A Journal Should Not Be A Waste Of Time (TMLL 060)

Maybe You Don't Need That New Tool (TMLL 059)

The Weight And Value Of Your Time (TMLL 058)

Putting Out The Right Messages At The Right Time (TMLL 057)

Have Your Contingency Plans Ready And Tested (TMLL 056)

How To Set A Routine When You Suddenly Find Yourself Without An Routine (TMLL 055)

Everyone Loves Happy Faith, No One Appreciates Real Faith (TMLL 054)

You're Not Going To Be Ready When The Time Comes (TMLL 053)

It has To Be The Right Time to ‘Name Names’’ (TMLL 052)

There Is Always Room On The Cleanup Committee (TMLL 051)

Be Mindful Of What You Are 'Advertising' (TMLL 050)

Too Dumb To Know Better Makes A Great Story But A Bad Plan Of Action (TMLL 049)

Adulting Should be More Than A Meme (TMLL 048)

Another Reminder Of The Rights You Do Have (TMLL 047)

Always Push For A Little Extra Effort In Practice (TMLL 046)

A Deep Dive Into Morning Routines (TMLL 045)

Plan Your Resolutions And Reflections For Your Birthday (TMLL 044)

Be Prepared (TMLL 043)

How To Handle Lack Of Feedback (TMLL 042)

How To Speak Up And Be More Confidence In Giving Talks And Presentations (TMLL 041)

Learn To Tell Shorter Stories About Yourself To Yourself (TMLL 040)

Upcoming Triumphs Are Not So Obvious In The Moment (TMLL 039)

Now May Not Be The Best Time To Offer Advice (TMLL 038)

Most Of Life Is Improvised And Made Up As You Go Along (TMLL 037)

Six Things To Do When You Are Facing Overwhelm (TMLL 036)

What To Do After You Get A Win (TMLL 035)

Maximizing Pleasure Versus Minimizing Pain (TMLL 034)

Think Of It As Your Fault (TMLL 033)

Calculus Is Not Harder Than Second Grade Math (TMLL 032)

Love Should Never Hurt (TMLL 031)

Make Note Of Where Your Motivation Comes From (TMLL 030)

It’s Okay To Be Frustrated With Your Situation (TMLL 029)

Don’t Worry About The Wrong Choice (TMLL 028)

Why Are You Questioning Others? (TMLL 027)

Regularly Evaluate Your Capacity For Giving & Your Addiction To Receiving (TMLL 026)

You Don’t Need A Reason To Celebrate (TMLL 025)

Real Change Starts With A Change Of Mindset (TMLL 024)

Make Time To Check On Your Allies (TMLL 023)

Make Time To Make Time To Take Some Time Off (TMLL 022)

Your Preparation Is For The Windows Of Opportunity (TMLL 021)

Spontaneity Takes A Lot More Preparation Than You Think (TMLL 020)

You Must Prepare Before Having Difficult Conversations (TMLL 019)

Never A Bad Time For A Reminder On Gratitude (TMLL 018)

Failing To Accomplish Does Not Make You A Failure (TMLL 017)

You’ll Be Happier If You Love The Journey More Than The Destination (TMLL 016)

Don’t Get Hung Up On Your Shortcomings (TMLL 015)

The Little Things Do Matter (TMLL 014)

Don't Just Speak Encouraging Words (TMLL 013)

Take On Actions, Don’t Take Up Acting (TMLL 012)

Make A List Of The Good & The Bad (TMLL 011)

Don't Be Embarrassed By Your Current Level Of Performance (TMLL 010)

What To Do When You Find You Cannot Contribute (TMLL 009)

Are You Supporting Your Supporters? (TMLL 008)

The Cost Of Dreams (TMLL 007)

More Than Semantics Between ‘A Little Effort’ And ‘As Little Effort’ (TMLL 006)

Embrace Your Early Fans & Supporters (TMLL 005)

Just Drink More Water & Do Whatever It Is You Need To Just Get Done (TMLL 004)

The Jerk Factor Is Real & You Should Not Contribute To It (TMLL 003)

First Understand Your Time Problem, Then Plan A Fix (TMLL 002)

Be Careful When Highlighting Or Downplaying A Person’s Talents (TMLL 001)

TMLC 161 / Lessons Learned #11 - The Best Is Yet To Come

TMLC 160 / Lessons Learned #10 - It’s Over When You Say It’s Over

TMLC 159 / Lessons Learned #09 - When It's Over, It’s Over

TMLC 158 / Lessons Learned #08 - Don’t Be Afraid Of Repetition, Or Being Repetitive

TMLC 157 / Lessons Learned #07 - Be Real, Even If It Means 'Authentic'

TMLC 156 / Lessons Learned #06 - Vet Your Sources

TMLC 155 / Lessons Learned #05 - Thank Those Who Inspire You

TMLC 154 / Lessons Learned #04 - It’s Okay To Start Over & Pretend It Never Ended

TMLC 153 / Lessons Learned #03 - Change Is Necessary & Good For Business

TMLC 152 / Lessons Learned #02 - Creativity Can Be Overrated

TMLC 151 / Lessons Learned #01 - It’s All About The Learning

TMLC 150 - The Milestone Means The End Of The Ten Minute Life Coach

TMLC 149 - Does A Life Lesson Need Ten Minutes?

TMLC 148 - You Can Consume Too Much Personal Development

TMLC 147 - A Reminder About How Tough The Journey Will Be

TMLC 146 - We All Judge Too Many Books By Their Covers

TMLC 145 - Your Lack Of Accountability Will Bring The Most Disappointment To Yourself

TMLC 144 - Some Problems You Have No Control Over

TMLC 143 - Evaluate Regularly, Upgrade When Necessary And Possible

TMLC 142 - The Ungratefulness You Find When You Try To Focus On Gratitude

TMLC 141 - Ask The Right Questions To Get The Real Answers

TMLC 140 - You May Have To Leave YOU Behind To Progress In Your Journey

TMLC 139 - You Have To Take Some Things Off Your Full Plate

TMLC 138 - The True Cost Of An 'Upgraded' Life

TMLC 137 - Get A Better Grasp Of Your Finances This Year

TMLC 136 - How To Use A Resource & Accountability Sheet

TMLC 135 - Put In The Amount Of Effort You Are Able To

TMLC 134 - Refresh Of The Five Step Goal Setting Process

TMLC 133 - A Life That Is Boring On Purpose

TMLC 132 - For Depression, Keep Being A Pest Until You Become Their Problem

TMLC 131 - A Checklist Can Be Your Best Friend

TMLC 130 - You Can Not Make It If You Do Not Try

TMLC 129 - Self-Care Should Be Self-Evident

TMLC 128 - The Stories You Tell About Others Are Sacred

TMLC 127 - Make Sure You Are Living Your Life As Advertised To The World

TMLC 126 - Don't Set Yourself Up To Need A Miracle

TMLC 125 - Dont Give Up, Do Stop Fighting

TMLC 124 - Don't Let Lack Of An Audience Keep You From Working On Your Message

TMLC 123 - J Cleveland's Mea Culpa For Misguided Direction

TMLC 122 - Apologizes Are Not Signs Of Weakness

TMLC 121 - Add Increased Effort, Look For Increased Results

TMLC 120 - Internal Versus External Motivation

TMLC 119 - Are You Living The Life Of The Huxtables Or The Bundys?

TMLC 118 - You Are Not Better Than Them

TMLC 117 - Be Consistent In Who You Are

TMLC 116 - Why Are You Asking Why?

TMLC 115 - You Need Fewer Sacred Cows

TMLC 114 - When Things Get Rough, Remember A Time When Things Were Much Better

TMLC 113 - No, You Really Shouldn't Judge A Book By It's Cover

TMLC 112 - Don't Waste My Time

TMLC 111 - Friendly Faces Don't Always Offer Lasting Friendships

TMLC 110 - Focusing On Our New Target Demographic

TMLC 109 - Wanting It More Helps, But It Takes More

TMLC 108 - Follow The Four Priorities In The Right Order

TMLC 107 - Let Work Pay For Your Bills & Your Passions

TMLC 106 – Our Heroes Are Fallible

TMLC 105 – Focus On Doing Your Job

TMLC 104 – A ‘No' Deciphered Is A Gift

TMLC 103 – Freedom Of Speech Comes With The Freedom To Not Speak

TMLC 102 – Encouragement For Those Preparing To Start A New Thing

TMLC 101 – Never Shy Away From Trying New Things

TMLC 100 – Longevity Requires Honest Evaluation Of Your Work

TMLC 099 – Persistence & Perseverance Got Us This Far

TMLC 098 – You Are The Ultimate Authority On Your Qualifications

TMLC 097 – Misery Is Always A Choice

TMLC 096 – Limiting Exposure To People Not Working Toward Your Favor

TMLC 095 – Stay Prepared For Constant Change & Improvements

TMLC 094 – Don't Be Afraid To Delete The Thing And Move On

TMLC 093 – Start Your Accountability Goals With Small Actions

TMLC 092 – Make Sure To Keep Your Standards In Check

TMLC 091 – When The Struggle Is Real

TMLC 090 – Keep On Doing What Is Working

TMLC 089 – What If You Are Not On A Winning Team

TMLC 088 – Gratitude Exercises

TMLC 087 – There Is No One ‘Right' Way

TMLC 086 – The Funny Thing About Faith

TMLC 085 – Repetition Is Needed For Improvement

TMLC 084 – The Five Step Goal Quickstart Plan

TMLC 083 – Find A Way To Pause & Reset

TMLC 082 – Is This Snake Oil?

TMLC 081 – Keep Fighting The ‘Good' Fight?

TMLC 080 – Disappointment Is Proof That You Care

TMLC 079 – I Apologize For Pushing, But Will Not Stop Pushing

TMLC 078 – Don't Let Good Production Value Gloss Over Bad Info

TMLC 077 – The Way To Reach A Milestone Is To Keep On Doing What You Are Doing

TMLC 076 – Ignorance Is Not Bliss

TMLC 075 – 75th Episode Milestone

TMLC 074 – Some Days You Just Have To Start…Somewhere

TMLC 073 – A Friend In Need Is A Pain Indeed

TMLC 072 – Setup, Teardown, Pacing & Spacing

TMLC 071 – You Can Always Say No

TMLC 070 – When The Energy Is Not There, You Still Must Provide The Effort

TMLC 069 – People Need Excuses, But You Should Fight That Need

TMLC 068 – Just Because You See It Does Not Make It Obvious

TMLC 067 – Explaining Don't Die, Rule #1 Of Payne's Principles

TMLC 066 – Always Be Selling (Your Ideas To Others)

TMLC 065 – Be Wary Of Five Star Reviews

TMLC 064 – You CAN NOT Be Anything You Want To Be

TMLC 063 – Yes, You Already Have The Answers

TMLC 062 – It's Gonna Take A Little Time

TMLC 061 – Embrace Your Haters, Detractors, & Complainers

TMLC 060 – Goals Setting Should Be Simple

TMLC 059 – Seek Opportunies To be A Cheerleader

TMLC 058 – Dealing With A Major Loss

TMLC 057 – Don’t Let Your Current Station In Life Determine Your Ability To Advance

TMLC 056 – Beware False Prophets Targeting You For Profit

TMLC 055 – Find More Ways To Tell Your Story

TMLC 054 – Is It Really Better To Have Loved And Lost?

TMLC 053 – Beware False Leads Created From Survivorship Bias

TMLC 052 – Doubters vs Haters

TMLC 051 – What If Don’t Have The Passion?

TMLC 050 – We Celebrate All Milestones, And You Should Too

TMLC 049 – Lack Of Talent No Excuse For Not Making An Attempt

TMLC 048 – Know & Respect The Value & Worth

TMLC 047 – Holding Back The Jealousy

TMLC 046 – When It Is Right To Consider Giving Up

TMLC 046 – When It Is Right To Consider Giving Up

TMLC 045 – You Need To Have A Plan

TMLC 044 – …And We’re Back (Maybe)

TMLC 043 – Things Get Better

TMLC 042 – The Second Act For The Ten Minute Life Coach

TMLC 041 – What You Want Versus What You Need & Losing The Website

TMLC 040 – Choosing Life Management Over Time Management & Where To FInd Us

TMLC 039 – The Importance Of Deadlines And Priorities & Stitcher Smart Radio

TMLC 038 – Saying You’re Sorry Is Easier Than You Think & Evaluating ‘Accountability On Me’

TMLC 037 – The Trouble With Fish Tales And Your Need To Keep Your Stories Consistent & A Desperate Call For A Show Of Affection

TMLC 036 – I Hate Networking But I Do It Anyway & Survey Results

TMLC 035 – Facing A Full Stop Moment & Industry Changes Warrants A Thank You

TMLC 034 – Showing Love For Your Haters & Third Shot At The Second Survey