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75 HARD Day 25- I got myself together, back on track for the morning, one hour one day at a time
Days 23 another free day, Day 24 job anxiety, paperwork, cleaning, Shotokan
My Queer Dreams- the redemption (and a lot of rambling about upbringing social experiences with school friends and fam)
Processing things about health and mindset
MUNA at The Shrine (night 2) May 9th 2026
MUNA’s Concert- they rocked! Great queer joy experience! (Some show footage in link below)
Queer group online question and answer checking posts
Interview anxiety and experience
Fitness Week 24 and 75 HARD Day 20 (pre MUNA concert)
Fitness Week 24 and 75 HARD Day 19
Fitness Week 23 and 75 HARD Day 18
Week 23 of 75 HARD Day 16 self care day, Day 17 reviewing some things for Sx management
Week 23 Day 14, 15
Week 23
Week 22 75 HARD Day 10
MUNA's new album dropped today! It is AWESOME!
Results and Mindset (see time stamps)
Gay stuff I’ve watched (starts at timestamp 13:22min, getting pitted experiences, EBay experiences)
Week 22, 75 HARD Days 8, 9
Week 22 (75 HARD Days 6, 7)
Final Powwow Gathering of Nations April 25, 2026 (unfortunately coming to an end)
Mimicking A Successful EBay Store
Social Media Marketing (broad and general overview)
75 HARD Days 1-5 (learned- bed time snacks, no socials when I wake up, Shotokan at night- Week 21)
Sales and Small Business Agency Models
EBay reality profits
EBay E-Commerce Intro (making money, profits, realistic details)
Getting Out of my Slump (New Week 21 Fitness Planning, Past Wks 18-20 recap)
The New Social World (social norms of political talk have changed my life currently)
The New Social World (social norms of political talk have changed my life currently)
I’m changing some pod topics, maybe. (Some about Fitness Week Posts)
“Outcome” (movie SPOILER mins 7-10), Dealing w/ Gossip in News, Politics, and Celebrities
What I’ve noticed from some changes during Fitness Weeks 15-20
My Queer Dreams- church pew breakup
18.6 overall worked out good, Happy Passover! (see link for relevant holiday info)
18.5 definitely looking up
18.4 wow rough day
Fitness Week 18.3
Fitness Week 18.1 & 18.2
Fitness Week 17.7
Fitness Week 17.6
Fitness Week 17.5
Fitness Week 17.4
Fitness Week 17.3
Fitness Week 17.2 (multiple topics, see notes below)
Internet Challenge Day 1
17.1 stomach hurt then headache, stretched but skipped workout
16.7 back at it, some social- date stressors
Fitness Week 16.4, 16.5, and 16.6 (Note: not sure about 16.4 recording and where it is saved, might be combined)
Fitness Week 16.3 (Note: wk 16.2 at this time cannot upload)
Fitness Week 16.1
Fitness Week 15.7
Weird jobs, weird recruiting job, legit job board (email me for names of unmentioned sites)
Job search weird experiences
Internet and Customizing Lifestyle
Free tech course w/ free CompTIA A+ exam vouchers: learn more (Links in description)
Fitness Week 15.6
Fitness Week 15.5
Fitness Week 15.4b
Fitness Week 15.4a
Fitness Week 15.2 & 15.3
Happy Belated Purim 2026 (and Happy Ramadan). Recent Blood Moon.
My Queer Dreams- The Race
Beginning of Fitness Week 15.1
End of Fitness Week 14.7
Masc Lesbian Dating (FB Group Series)
A pod got shut down, random topics
Fitness Week 14.5 breathwork; 14.6 Capoeira & Shotokan green to purple
Fitness Week 14.4
Fitness Week 14.3
Fitness Week 14.2
Fitness Week 14.1
Fitness Week 13.7
Fitness Week 13.6
13.5b a bit mixed w- pre interview prep (14 min for exercise time stamp)
Fitness Week 13.5
Fitness Week 13.4
Fitness Week 13.3
Fitness Week 13.2
My Queer Dreams: the bus
Spotify bans
Dating: How to NOT Ghost Somebody
Fitness Week 13.1
Fitness Week 12.7
Fitness Week 12.6
My queer dreams and a ramble (social dynamics, dating, career)
MUNA has a new music video!_ “Dancing on the Wall” (back entered, mini review NON SPOILER)
Dating and Studying topics
Study break
Fitness Week 12.3 (skipped) & 12.4 (negative mood shift and tracking mood)
Fitness Week 12.2 walking home (boring)
Fitness Week 12.1
Fitness Week 11.6 & 11.7
Fitness Week 11.5
Fitness Week 11.4
Fitness week 11.2 & 11.3
Fitness week 11.1
Fitness Week 10.7
Fitness Week 10.5 & 10.6
Fitness week 10.4
Fitness Week 10.3
Fitness Week 10.2
Fitness week 11.2 & 11.3
Fitness week 11.2 & 11.3
Fitness Week 10.1 of Year 3! Let's Begin! SEEING RESULTS
Fitness Week 9.7 End of week 9!
Fitness Week 9.6
Fitness Week 9.5 lifting and cardio
Fitness Week 9.4 symptomatic still
Fitness Week 9.3
Fitness Week 9.2 symptomatic and stretches only
My Queer Dreams- Tech Date
Masc Lesbians are EVERYWHERE (master list in link- to be continued)
Fitness Week 9.1 Goals: 3 gym days, 3 lift sessions, 3 outdoor walks
Fitness Week 8.6
Fitness Week 8.5
Fitness Week 8.4 MLK
Fitness Week 8.3
Fitness Week 8.1
Fitness Week 7.7
Fitness Week 7.6
Fitness Week 7.5 Tuesday
Fitness Week 7.4 Monday
Queer relationships and coping (not the best explanation, but here we are)
Fitness week 7.3 Sunday
Queer relationships and sample crush rejection coping (perceptions, anger, feeling led on)
Fitness week 7.2 Saturday
Fitness Week 6.7b Friday End of Fitness Week 6
Fitness Week 6.5 to 6.6 Wed and Thurs
Fitness Week 6.4 Tues
Fitness Week 6.3 Mon energy check and hang recap
Heated Rivalry my initial thoughts, feelings, queer lifestyle relevance
Social: scheduling sapphic dates, hangs, meets
Social life, stressors and mental coping methods (see notes for details)
2026 and the start of this year so far (rambling, timestamps, see notes below)
Kwanzaa Days 5,6,7 Ending (Nia, Kuumba, Imani)
Christmas Park 1M walk “Unicorn Medal”
Kwanzaa Ujamaa Day 4
Kwanzaa Ujima Day 3
Kwanzaa Umoja and Kujichagulia Day 1-2
Post 75 HARD, Exam Eve, Planning, Strategizing
FINAL COUNTDOWN 75 HARD Day 75!!!
75 HARD Day 74
75 HARD Day 73
75 HARD Day 72
75 HARD Day 71 new week
75 HARD Day 70
75 HARD Day 69
75 HARD Day 68
75 HARD Day 67
Crushes Update
75 HARD Day 66 (Little Tokyo hang, pricing lift tickets, plans for sleep and food)
75 HARD Day 65
75 HARD Day 64 (week 10)
75 HARD Day 63 (distracted)
75 HARD Day 62
75 HARD Day 61
75 HARD Day 60 (cleaning, lifting)
Skipped 75 HARD Say 59 (Sunday setting intentions)
75 HARD Day 58 (wanting results)
75 HARD Day 57 (Happy Black Friday)
5K Day, HAPPY THANKSGIVING! 75 HARD Day 56
75 HARD Day 55
75 HARD Day 54
75 HARD Day 53
75 HARD Day 51 (peer therapy experiences, sativa experiences, mood and naps)
75 HARD Week 8 Day 50
75 HARD Full Week 7
My Queer Dreams (The Rooftop Chillin’)
Is the LGBT community moving backward? (Media portrayal)
75 HARD Days 33-35 (end of week 5 and some results)
Gender and Trainings
C4 irritability, 6pm no phones, Election Day, 75 HARD Day 33
(Back entered) Fixed door, Shotokan outside, 75 HARD Day 32
Weighted backpack, karate video recorded, 75 HARD Day 31
Happy Dia de los Muertos, 75 HARD day 30 (check out the blog post in the description)
(back-entered) Halloween ranting 75 HARD Day
Pretty good day! Good energy! Good Shotokan practice 75 HARD Day 28
(Back entered) Interview day, 75 HARD Day 25
(Back entered) Moody 75 HARD Day 27
Today sped by, a little Shotokan practice before bedtime 75 HARD Day 26
Studying, family visits, and 75 HARD Days 23&24
Emotional dysregulation, muscle tension,caffeine crash
Career meetings, iron supplement Day 20 of 75 HARD
Day 19 of 75 HARD
Reset, shopping Day 18 of 75 HARD
Day 17 of 75 HARD (part b, and some driving rambling)
Day 16 of 75 HARD (what week 2 showed me, Shotokan white belt practice)
Day 15 of 75 HARD
Day 14 of 75 HARD
Day 13 of 75 HARD
END OF SHOTOKAN KARATE CHALLENGE- good thoughts
75 HARD Day 12
Day 30 Shotokan Karate
Day 29 Shotokan Karate
75 HARD Day 11
75 HARD Day 10
Day 28 Shotokan Karate
Day 27 Shotokan Karate
I almost skipped today! Strategies 75 HARD Day 9
Goal Setting: 75 HARD Day 8
RESULTS OF WEEK 1: 75 HARD
Outdoor Practice Day 26 Shotokan Karate
Day 25 Shotokan Karate
Strategy, personal health choices and 75 HARD Day 7
75 HARD Day 5
75 HARD Day 4
75 HARD Day 6: Shotokan Karate Day 24/30 Video in Description (min 17 the update info starts)
Day 24 Shotokan Karate (24min time stamp is where practice update info starts)
75 HARD (modified) Days 1&2
Day 23 Shotokan Karate
Day 22 Shotokan Karate
Day 21 Shotokan
Day 20 Shotokan
Day 19 Shotokan (mini- original file has an error)
(Days 18 & 19) Energy, Focus, Scheduling, Tracking: Day 18 Shotokan
Day 17 Shotokan (see notes for details)
Healthy Risk Taking for Goals; Day 16 Shotokan
Day 15 Shotokan
Sunday Sunset, Day 14 Shotokan (sorry my brain was done)
Day 13 Shotokan
Day 12 Shotokan- a lot more reflecting
DAY 11 SHOTOKAN KARATE: of a 30 day challenge
DAY 10 SHOTOKAN KARATE: of a 30 day challenge
DAY 9 SHOTOKAN KARATE: of a 30 day challenge
DAYS 6-8 SHOTOKAN KARATE: of a 30 day challenge
DAYS 4 & 5 SHOTOKAN KARATE: A 30 DAY CHALLENGE
DAYS 2&3 SHOTOKAN KARATE: of a 30 day challenge
DAY 1 SHOTOKAN KARATE: CHALLENGE 30 DAYS SEPT 15-OCT 15 2025
Fitness Program (FINAL!!! 0 days left LAW# 38 The Ultimate Cheat Code)
NEW UPCOMING Fitness Planning Starting Mon 9-15-25 SHOTOKAN KARATE (intro, see pod description for links and for details)
Fitness Program (1 day left LAW# 37 Building A ‘Look Of Power’)
My Next Fitness Steps (Sept. 15th beginning a new training regimen)
Fitness Program (2 days left LAW# 36 The Secret Science of Bacteria Bulking)
Fitness Program CATCHING UP (3 days left LAWS# 32, 33 The “Fat Trick” Used By A Former 4x Mr. Olympia To Build Thick Forearms, Huge Biceps… And Incredible Grip Strength!; Stressing in the Caribbean)
Fitness Program CATCHING UP, SEE NOTES (4 days left- LAWS#31, 26, 27 Always Look Out For #1; Find A Juice Head Near You And Do This…; How To ‘Fast Track’ Your Fitness Journey)
Fitness Program (5 days left -LAW# 30 Warming Up)
Political Avoidance and Values (propaganda and manipulation)
Fitness Program (9,8,7,6 days left- LAWS# 26,27 skipped, LAWS# 28,29 The Dumb Mistake I Made With Kell Brook’s Strength Coach, How Your Imagination Can Give You The Best Session Ever)
Body Image. Fitness Program (11, 10 days left- LAWS# 24, 25 Two Supersets That Build a Chiseled ‘V Shape’ Physique; The ‘One Muscle’ That Transforms Your Entire Physique)
Just Chatting. Fitness Program (13, 12 days left)
Coping with negative thoughts, unconscious energy drains, variety of exercises and motivation to workout. Fitness Program 14 days left (no LAW for this date)
Fitness Program (15 days left- LAW# 22 For Experienced Lifters Only)
Generational Patterns of Impulsivity, Strategy. Fitness Program 15 days left (LAW #23- The Boring Secret To Building Massive Slabs Of Muscle)
Fitness Program (18, 17, 16 days left- LAWS# 19,20,21 An Old School Bulking Tip; My Opinion On “Dirty” Bulking; Do Your Workouts Tick These Three Boxes?)
Fitness Program (21, 20, 19 days left- LAWS# 16,17,18 The Greatest Comeback In Football History?; Why Carbs Are Making You Fat; The Optimal Body Fat Percentage For Rapid Gains)
Menstrual cycles, PMS, weight rambling: Fitness Program (23, 22 days left- LAW #14 #15 How To Build Thick Muscles On A Tight Schedule; Brown Stuff From The Himalayas)
Fitness Program (25, 24 days left- LAWS #12, 13 Spain’s Secret For Living A Long And Healthy Life; Add This To Each Session To Get Strong)
Fitness Program (26 days left- LAW # 11 Sleep)
Fitness Program (28, 27 days left- LAWS # 9,10 The Common Mistake That Kills Muscle Growth; The Secret To Building Strength And Size)
Fitness Program (29 days left- LAW # 8 surprise your muscles)
Fitness Program (30 days left- LAW #7 Lift Fast)
Fitness Program (31 days left- LAW #6 Go Slowly)
Fitness Program (32 days left- LAW #5 Muscle Growth & Consistency)
Fitness Program (33 days left- LAW #4: There is a 52 kg Turtle on The Loose… And It’s Knocking People Out!)
Fitness Program (34 days left- LAW #3 Ferrari Fuel)
Fitness Program (35 days left- LAW #1 bulking formula)
Fitness Program (36 days left- LAW #1 The ‘Bulking Formula’ For Huge Gains)
Fitness Program (37 days left- LAW# 2 Cakes and KFC)
Rave! HARD SUMMER 2025 and Starting a Fitness Program (38 days left, counting down- LAW#34 “If You’re Not Checking, You’re Guessing!”)
My Queer Dreams (airport & shower)
About Straight Homophobic Friends (is LGBT+ queer representation infringing on straight privilege?)
Anti LGBT Policies, Bans (Reading Comments)
LGBT Leather and BDSM culture under attack (anti-LGBT policies and homophobia on mainstream platforms)
Censorship of Gay Content (anti-LGBT platforms)
Torrance 1st Annual Pride Experience (Los Angeles County, California, New pride events)
Homophobic Platforms (boycott YouTube, boycott Google, they are homophobic)
My General Social Experiences Lately (how I’m spending my time today)
Messages from a homophobic transphobic dude (is this homophobic?)
Are People Secretly More Hateful Lately? (Pride Bootcamp, KNOW propaganda online)
Pride Bootcamp (anxiety and goal avoidance, intro to emotional defenses)
Pride bootcamp (changing lifestyle patterns, queer high holy days)
Politics and Conclave and Religion (LGBT stuff)
Side gig $ goals per week, Pride planning
Will I go to a Meetup? Trying to change my fitness and eating (various updates)
More about Yentl (second discussion of the movie, gender and sexuality topics)
Yentl- the movie (spoiler alert, synopsis begins at minute 30)
Seeing Progress (my life hacks, tracking, data)
Lunar Eclipse March 2025 and Queer Socializing Thoughts
I have homophobic and anti semitic friends! (Prejudice, non aligned values)
How I am Deleting Everybody, No More Politics (topic starts @ 38mins, values in a opposite culture)
LGBT Friendly Ramadan 2025 Virtual meet and Quran Study (Los Angeles Based)
Happy Ramadan 2025! Ramadan of Last Year 2024 Recap Story and New Ramadan 2025.
When your family finds your gay content online!
Homophobic Social Media Fakes (Calling Out Inactive Incels)
Approaching Political Differences (managing and repairing relationships as a queer person)
My Queer Dreams- the ski trip & the restaurant (+ some talk about platform censorship of LGBTQ+)
MY QUEER DREAMS- Masc Clothing and the Old School (& a weird dream & 2 other dreams)
My Queer Dreams- the Instagram plan
Human Rights vs. Current President vs. Religion
Internet?! Information Control, Disconnecting, Addiction (nice long rambling)
LA Fires, go back, belongings
LA Fires hang in there fellow Angelinos (volunteering, views of poverty vs wealth, self care)
LA Fires
Alternative ways to meet dates, and stories
Happy 2025! Happy Imani! Happy Kwanzaa and Hanukkah!
HAPPY Holidays 2024
Dating and Anxiety (Communication on Dating Apps, Queer Social Life Series Continued)
Queer Social Life and The Choice to NOT Come Out (Let’s talk about this other option)
Queer Social Life and the impact of positive energy of others
Queer Social Life and holiday meet ups
Queer Social Life and asking out a date
Queer Social Life and Dating Apps Update
Queer and Socializing
Coping with The Trump (2024 general election)
Queer Dating- attunement to help attunement
My queer dreams- the weather adventure
My queer dreams- Queer work dorms
Queer Dating- What Do You Bring to the Table?
My Queer Dreams: The Poetry Bar
Columbus Day, Indigenous People's Day, General Human Rights (Some Related Thoughts)
Reflection (health, breaks, rest, recovering)
Coping with Ego & Career
Writing projects and pod plans brainstorms (rambling)
My Queer Dreams (the pop up rave crush)
Tidbits on Religion and Communication (quickie and Some about dating apps, but more to continue on that topic in the future)
Religion and Dating
"Just One Of The Guys" (Movie; SPOILER) Gender Movie Review
Authenticity In Relationships (friendships, subcultures)
Attracting Others (also some ramble about work and career path updates)
Gay Dating and Potential Deal Breakers
(multi topic episode)
Black Pride San Diego, Meeting People and describing events and gay clubs
Sexual repression and some religions
End of Pride 2024 and where we go from here
My Queer Dreams
Ending Therapy
Last Week of Pride Month, Tomboy Official IG, Gender and Books
LGBTQ+ Social Life and Copy Skills
Pride LA GAY DAY (a very happy time)
Happy Juneteenth 2024
Plans
Caffeine cycle
Dream, week, and work
Gummies, Creativity Blocks, Online Community, LGBT Dream
Not sure what to title this
Dating and nowadays (current)
LA Pride 2024 (what I did, topics arising from what I did, SO MANY FUN EXPERIENCES TO SHARE!)
My LA Pride 2024 Alternative
Job Progressing, Possible Money Moves
Pride Month Eve!
Memorial Weekend Catch Up
Balancing as a Pride Bootcamp
Social, Sales, Morning Creativity
Ramble (few pod updates, wrapping up some details of most recent few episodes)
Pride bootcamp week 1 (Intro on the focus)
Work and Training (I will record a cleaner more focused update from this episode)
More Finance Topics (this might be very repetitive)
Finances and Work Training (first steps to multiple income streams and moving)
Good First Week of Work (adjusting and balancing for health)
Financial Mindset (reselling, finances, returns, dropshipping, Caleb Hammer for inspiration)
Clothing and Gender Identity (business casual attire)
Job Updates
LGBTQ+ and Alaskan Indigenous (learning and studying these cultures)
Job success and interviewing processes
Lgbtq+ Qpoc and minorities and education and job success
Getting Misgendered
Weekly Reflection (new job upcoming training, schedule adjustment, health, exercise, mentality)
Accepting a Job Training
Mixing Friends & Business: NO (balancing altruism with unwarranted guilt)
Reflection and planning for next week
Job Search Process (with some early tips)
Incels (manosphere niche, does this apply to LGBTQ+ at all?)
Manosphere (Cis het men are frustrated with traditional dating, pilot intro)
End of February Start if March (health check in)
Strategies in a new week (getting things going for Monday)
Set up the week for success, budget day
Back to the Basics (things are looking good)
Organizing and Resetting (after reflections and strategizing)
Random multi topic episode
Happy Prez Weekend 2024
Have a Happy Valentine’s Day! (How I’m doing what I need for myself to show myself love and peace)
Happy Valentine’s Eve (love day followed by joy, peace, and patience)
Uber Eats delivery Drive Rant (Super Bowl Sunday baits)
Main Digital Marketing Website back up!
Defining a new week
Update about Digital Marketing Gig Submissions
Starting to address mental health in a positive way
Quick Hello
LGBTQ+ and Job Interview (remote tech job phase 1 of 3)
LGBTQ+ Career and Mindset (starting to talk about the importance of mindset with career goals)
How I am Fixing My Recent Mood Dip (dealing w/ things, getting back on track, my optimistic method)
LGBTQ+ Community and Creating Career Opportunities Online (Digital Marketing, See some educational resources listed below)
Masc and Stem LGBTQ+ Go-Go Dancers (Catching up, L Word, Side Hustle Content)
Is Spotify Singling Out LGBT Content? AND Talk about Platonic Queer Texting (also some catching up)
Four Agreements (opinions of end)
Four Agreements 132-134
General ramble
Four Agreements 129-131
Four Agreements 126-128
Daily Tues 1/9/24 (insomnia and planning around insomnia BACK ENTERED)
Happy Kwanzaa Days 6-7 & NYD 2024
Happy Kwanzaa Days 2-4 (Kujichagulia, Ujima, and Ujamaa)
Kwanzaa Day 5- Nia (Purpose)
Your Plan: The “Remember & Reflect” sections (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
LGBT sexuality and the “Un Clobber” book (about how the church misuses the Bible against LGBTQ+)
Spiritual Balance (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
Four Agreements 123-125 (perception and mindset)
Kwanzaa 2023 Umoja- unity
My Christmas Food for Thought (not very Christmassy, understanding the future of humanity)
Happy Holidays- my own style of holiday plans
Growing, Repairing, and Selling Project (garage cleaning)
Social Balance (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
Four Agreements 120-122 (parasite wants to keep living on)
Four Agreements 117-119 (emotional refrain of the warrior, seizing the day as of time is limited)
Emotions Balance (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
Intellectual Balance (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
Four Agreements 114-116 (mental illness, abuse, controlling emotions, forgiveness, compassion)
Physical Balance (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
Four Agreements 111-113
Daily December 18, 2023 (mental energy, processing speeds)
Financial Balance (Lifestyle Balance Bootcamp)
Four Agreements 108-110 (breaking agreements)
Four Agreements 105-107 (changing fears)
The Four Agreements 102-104
New View on Resolutions
Health & Music Journeys
My Queer Dreams (McDonald’s mega church)
I’m back! My side hustle money, THE RONA got me! (My queer dreams in the next ep posting soon today)
Poly, alternative, and non hetero normative relationships (LGBTQ+ relationships and validity)
My Queer Dreams- Can I Get Your Number
Strategizing a new credit building journey (mostly rambling about my weekend)
LGBTQ+ and Money Mindset
LGBTQ+ Coping with negative thought processes
LGBTQ+ Nutrition basics (stress and some theory behind daily functionality)
LGBTQ+ health (some tips, experiences, find community, holidays, an lgbtq+ church panel discussion)
A tad shook but still good, reflecting on relationships, interview prep plans
How I’m refocusing my energy around the house (social energy, mindful tasks)
Can you make money with an online store? (Shopify, Etsy, EBay, OfferUp)
Happy November!
Happy Halloween! Holidays and Community (My interests in Pagan culture, holiday origins)
Mental Health Mondays (should this be a series?)
Happy Intersex Awareness! (And more deliveries, and more projects)
Can Podcasting Make Money? (Free webinar today on Spotify for Podcasters, 9am PST)
Wake up it’s Friday! Appointments, deliveries, studying
Rant about the Mental Health System
Just Rest (check out the link below for Dry Creek Wrangler School)
Tech Jobs, Entry Level Jobs, Experience, Govt Job Support (portfolios and experience)
Supplements, Energy Dips, Portfolio (cash flow & work experience)
My crypto adventures (STEPN, Solana)
Weekend rest, budgeting, health and wellness
Workout with me (it’s c4 o’clock)
Helpful Projects, Job, Education, Career Experiences (a recap on some relevant experiences)
Making money on Ebay, Craigslist, Offerup, online & in person sales (gig economy)
Projects for Multiple Income Sources (gig economy)
Credit repair planning for yourself
Journaling to decrease toxic social interactions, workout, meals (healthy choices)
My Queer Dreams- the house (and death and social and religion)
My Gender | personal identity experiences and experiences with the perceptions of others
Holidays Daze (2022 holidays)
Money Tips for returns, pre-scheduling payments, strategizing (refunds, strategizing payment plans)
1. Gender relevant activities in my childhood and adulthood 2. Dating activities tying back to gender expression as kid (double episode)
Economics, Finance (money making)
Dating During the Rona
Talking to Uber Eats about Uber Pro Card (note: pro card has very high fees)
My Plans for this year/ events, Digital Marketing Freelancing (today’s schedule and next few months)
Easy cash within 1-3 weeks (Uber Eats, payouts, RBG, Presto Shopper)
Healthy choices, Long term relationships and keeping caught up (caffeine, organics, rest, friends)
Reviewing some money making methods (current side gigs, mystery apartment shopper, Uber Eats)
One friendship conflict, Friday 13th gay wedding, tips for free car help w/ 511 & free air (a daily)
OfferUp Has Jobs! Queer Friday 13th Wedding, and blood sugar and caffeine crash combos (health)
My Housing and Job Strategies
Friendships
Communication in dating
Dating Ghosting
Daily October 2, 2023 (getting a more positive mindset)
Daily October 1, 2023 (late night gym workout)
Daily Thurs Sept 28, 2023 (entre app and job resource, protecting energy, sleep)
Daily September 27, 2023
Daily Tues Sept 26, 2023
Daily Mon Sept 25, 2023
Daily Sat Sept 24, 2023
Daily Sat sept 16- Wed sept 20
Daily Sat Sept 16, 2023
Fear of Financial Health
Daily October 3, 2023 (monetization and platform changes)
What it’s like to be LGBT in a religious household and environment (my own experiences and theories)
My Queer Dreams
Passport Bros (but not in the LGBT+ communities)
Dating Intro, Gender Norms (Andrew Tate and Passport Bros)
Daily September 3, 2023
Daily September 11, 2023 (time management, prioritizing projects)
Daily September 10, 2023 (boundaries and energy management)
Daily September 9, 2023
Daily September 8, 2023
Daily September 7, 2023
Daily September 6, 2023
Daily September 5, 2023 (sleep hygiene)
Daily September 4, 2023 (Labor Day)
Mal and The Ultimatum and masc representation
Stud/ Masc Appreciation Month (happy September 2023 Stud/ Masc appreciation month)
Daily September 1, 2023 (reflections on the week, strategy)
Daily August 31, 2023 (Friday eve)
Daily August 29, 2023 (so much to do, so little time, passion projects)
Daily August 28, 2023 (forced relaxation, organizing my day and week)
My Loose Opinions about Mainstream News, Propaganda, and Legislation (general food for thought)
The Four Agreements 99-101 (the realistic representation of our self vs. the inaccurate)
Daily August 26, 2023 (some cancelled plans today, such a weird day!)
Daily August 25, 2023 (gig viewing Apts and ai project)
Daily August 24, 2023 (jobs search)
Daily August 23, 2023
Daily August 22, 2023 (This is such a weird week already!)
Daily August 21, 2023 (the more projects the merrier)
The Four Agreements 96-98 (coping with changing old agreements, setting boundaries, discomfort)
Daily August 28, 2023 (forced relaxation, organizing my day and week)
Daily August 17, 2023 (health, wellness and applications)
CBT ABC Model and Depression (challenges and work arounds)
Daily August 16, 2023 (snowboard training, creative weed Wednesday)
Four agreements 93-95 Breaking Old Agreements
Daily August 15, 2023 (making up for some lost time)
Four Agreements 89-91 (failure and non judgement)
Local Gay Bar (first experience at the bar closest to me “Artesia Bar”)
Drag Show Bans are Causing Drama (Drag Shows and Branson Missouri)
The Four Agreements 83-85 (what If depression and anxiety are getting in the way of our best?)
The Four Agreements 80-82
Four Agreements 78-79 (money, work, happiness)
The Four Agreements 75-77 (do your best)
My Queer Dreams (gay diner and spin class)
Gay Porn Studio (Helix Studios TV, my opinions and praise toward happy portrayal of LGBTQ+) sex pos.
Story Time: past religious social life, how dating looked back then, explaining social circles…
My Queer Dreams (poly interest) & a Story of a Guy Crush from the Past
Gay Virgins Part 2 (LGBTQ+ societal expectations, same-sex social rules)
Gay Virgins Part 1 (LGBTQ+ virginity, Maddie T. Wiener, asexuality, & roles of religion)
Lofi Beats and Sleep
Multiple Topics
Happy August! Talking about music (current projects)
Queer media, my queer lifestyle lately
Daily July 30, 2023 (energy management)
QTPOC and Chosen Family
Therapy experience as a QTPOC person
Today’s Queer Experiences (listening to a QTPOC sex therapist on a pod, gym, therapy)
Daily July 24, 2023 (balance, social stress support, finance stress support)
The Four Agreements 83-85 (what If depression and anxiety are getting in the way of our best?)
Daily July 20, 2023 (finance, job resources, healthcare)
LGBT Speed Dating Online (will I do it?)
The Four Agreements 80-82
Daily July 19, 2023 (insomnia)
Four Agreements 78-79 (money, work, happiness)
My LGBT Life Lately (things that have come up, what I’ve been doing, what I’m working on)
The Four Agreements 75-77 (do your best)
Daily July 18, 2023 (gigs)
Daily July 17, 2023 (insomnia, website traffic)
Daily July 16, 2023 (job applications, money making projects)
The Four Agreements 71-74 (communication)
The Four Agreements 67-70
Daily 7/15/23 (Uber eats ride along)
The Four Agreements 63-66
Daily July 14, 2023 (nootropics)
Daily July 12, 2023 and plans for July 13, 2023
My Queer Dreams (rock gym and memory)
Daily July 11, 2023 (avoidance, planning, journaling)
Gender Norms in SoCal Subculture and Discomfort vs. Comfort (club etiquette)
San Diego Black Pride, July 9&10 2023 Daily
My Queer Dreams (the steps)
July 8, 2023 (discipline, strategy, self care)
Daily July 4, 2023 (errands; ego)
Daily July 3, 2023 (self care days)
July 4th (what I’ve been watching)
Daily June 29, 2023 (optimizing, centering)
Daily July 1, 2023 (good gym day, improving mind body connection)
Daily June 30, 2023 (to-do list tasks getting done, focus)
My Mindset as an LGBT adult staying w/ parents (and other random updated thoughts)
Daily June 28, 2023 (C4 energy)
Queer Life, Queer Drama (where does it come from?)
June 27, 2023 (anxiety + insomnia = GO EXERCISE)
The Four Agreements 56-62
The Four Agreements 53-56
Daily June 25, 2023
Daily June 23, 2023 (errands)
Daily June 24, 2023 (Compton Pride)
The Four Agreements 47-50
The Four Agreements 43-46
My Non-binary REPLIKA AI Bot (it has a mind of its own)
Daily June 21, 2023 (anxiety, insomnia and distraction skills)
Daily June 20, 2023 (self sabotage, strategizing)
Being Androgynous & Being Masc (how women may respond)
How did you know that you’re gay?
Daily June 18, 2023 (new week energy, Father’s Day)
I Got Misgendered
Daily June 9 & 10 (Pride, dating, feeling better)
The Four Agreements 39-42 (gossip and safe spaces)
Daily June 8, 2023 (job interviews, career, finance)
Daily June 7, 2023 (lgbtq+ state of emergency & lgbtq+ resources)
Daily June 6, 2023 (on my soap box about Pride and LGBTQ+ thoughts)
Queer confidence, styling clothing, hat preferences, self acceptance (Queer Eye New Orleans S7E1)
Four Agreements 35-38 (black magic of insults, gossip)
The Four Agreements 31-34 (black magic of negative words)
The Four Agreements 29 & 30 (dealing with other people’s negativity)
The Four Agreements 25-28
My Pride Itinerary and recent updates
Daily June 5, 2023
The Four Agreements 21-24
Daily June 1, 2023 HAPPY PRIDE MONTH
The Four Agreements pages 19-20.5
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVE! (Stonewall Riots)
Daily May 30, 2023
The Four Agreements pages 14-18
Daily May 22, 2023
The Four Agreements pages 10-13.5
Daily May 13, 2023
Daily May 21, 2023
Daily May 12, 2023
Sexuality and Society
The Four Agreements pages 1-4.3
LGBTQ+ and Pap Smears? (My naïveté and medical experiences)
LGBTQ+ and Establishing Medical Care (experience, anxiety)
Daily May 11, 2023
Daily May 9, 2023 & Midnight May 10
Gender Expression, Ethnicity & Fitness: experiences and observations
Daily May 8, 2023
“Grooming” & Prejudice in Politics and Religion (trans and LGBTQ+ discrimination in policies)
Intersex
LGBTQ+ and some Housing Lessons
LGBTQ+ and the Wild House
LGBTQ+ Living in Unconventional Loft
LGBTQ+ Hotel Living
LGBTQ+ Sub Leasing Experience
LGBTQ+ Apartment Living (back to the roomie w/ the child, now enters roomie’s toxic mom)
LGBTQ+ Work as an RA and Campus life
LGBTQ+ Apartment Sharing Experience
LGBTQ+ and housemates, roomies (experiences mini series)
My QPOC Life (Music and Sports *SPOILER ALERT)
LGBTQ+ and ex Mormons
LGBTQ+ & Scientology
Ashley Gavin’s FULL FREE comedy special, GO WATCH!!! (April 23, 2023)
LGBT+ community, comedy, acting, characters (Talking about the craft of acting and playing roles)
“Swarm” Prime Video series, Some LGBTQ+ content I’ve caught up on, My routine cultural studies
Happy 420!
Are Algorithms Targeting the Trans Community? (A conspiracy theory)
Temp side gigs (not click bait)
Funding my summer party and Pride celebration
My Current WFH Experiences
Basic Day
Post gym
My Cultural Practices (some of them)
Confidence
De-Programming and the Ego
Sex Positivity Thinking, Open Sharing, Learning Shame
Higher Self & Happiness
Sex Positive Thinking (body awareness, human history of nudity vs. clothing)
Connection to Self
Sexuality Differences (straight vs non straight)
Fulfillment
Relationships and Proximity (relationship series)
Not Being Dragged Down
Body and Health
Images
Having Trans Friends (what it is like FOR ME having trans friends)
Drag Legislation (drag is not a crime)
Frequencies and Fear, Authenticity and Barriers
Creativity, Passion & Hunger
Aligning with Personal Values
Maintaining Patterns (good or bad)
Holding Space and Social Drains
Spending Energy
Trading some social media hours for some musical creativity
Changing an Environment
Planning
Fears
Shtisel (Relationship Series)
Frequency and Energy
Breaking Cycles
Building Tolerance and Skills
Cultivating Relationships (Relationship Series)
Other People’s Problems
Perception of Circumstances
Gifts Used
Sifting
Queer Internet (straights vs. gays)
Patience and Breaks
Attachment and Giftedness
Gender and Locker Rooms/ Bathrooms / Swimming (Gender Series)
From Lilly Singh’s Book to Aina Brei’Yon’s Book
Masc for Masc (Relationship Series)
The Final Countdown
Alterations in Life (music, culture, creativity & fitness)
Flexibility
Flakiness (Relationship Series)
Subscribing to a Healthier Lifestyle
Societal Subscriptions
How We Come Into the World with Different Equipment & My Recent Social Experiences
Holding Space (Gratitude in the Midst of Struggle)
Helping, Distraction & Gratitude (catching up!)
Assessing Costs and Benefits of Decisions
Replika App (Relationship Series)
Early Relationships, Aligning Preferences, Temperaments and Insecurities (Relationship Series)
If There are Sucky Days
The Universe and Perspective
Time Alone and Multitasking
My Queer Vegas Trip February 2023
Relationship with the Self (w/ meditation)
Meditation, Self Care and Fulfillment
Recent Hobbies, Interests and To-Do List
Problem Solving in Relationships
Early Phases of dealing w/ mild anxiety
Perspective
Evolving Life
Addressing the Changing Self
Trying to Gage
Beginning to look at foundations
Dispensary, Gym, Music & Dance
Supplements, Substances & Social
Returning to a Foundation
Be A Triangle (book day 5)
Boundaries, trust, energy (morning brain dump)
Day 4b (some rambling)
Hurt People Hurt People (happiness and social impacts)
Social Health
Happy Valentine’s Day
Tools and Skills
Reflect, Recover, and Plan
Gender Expression Examples (Mak Ingemi topic)
Lilly Singh Book (starting “Be a Triangle”)
A New Approach
Another Phase with Improvements
Boundaries and Mental Health Days
Reflections
Fixing Barriers and Hangups
The Basics
My Queer Dreams
My Queer Dreams (queer super mall crush)
Illness and Recovering
The Mental Health Fund (for QTBIPOC, March 1-31 of 2023)
Japan and LGBT Marriage (controversy)
SB 49 Bill and Parents Bill of Rights (North Carolina)
Censorship and LGBTQ+ Culture (Social Media)
Relationship Stages (Erickson’s)
Problem Solving a Social Stressor & Strategizing Progress
Visualization, Bob Proctor quote & Day 15
Day 14
About the Grumpies
Behavioral Activation, Choosing Momentum-Increasing Steps to Goals (Day 12)
Day 10
Day 9
Day 8
Negativity Influencing Financial Behaviors
Dating apps
Goth Drag Kings (Hamburger Mary’s)
Dating Apps versus Matchmaking
Do Parent Weaknesses or Strengths Contribute to an Adult Child’s Masc/Femme Personality?
Body Positivity and Self Esteem (taking inspiration from content creators for motivation)
Friday 13th (Day 5, on track, exercise, balancing lifestyle flexibility and recovering)
Third Sleepy Day (still keeping it simple)
Planning & Portfolio (managing my routine)
Queer Workbook, self-worth (“new year new me” mentality)
Queer Dating Rules and Roles
Queer Dance Etiquette
Non gendered child attire, trans adults and conservatives
Gender Dysphoria topic & Sexual Harassment topic
Queer and Workplace Professionalism (safe work spaces)
The Gayborhood
Dating during my Teens
Car ramble, traditions, and community
Arrows and Gender (and a random blog link below)
Holiday Queer Experience & Family
My Queer Dreams- phone calls
Gender Expression and Body Image (trigger warning| mindset, patterns, eating, activity, and clothing fit)
Glamour Episode w/ L Word Cast
Transtape (binding and packing)
Check out Lexie Peterss: she/they (linear success, healing journey)
Socializing, supplements, spicing up routines
Travel & dating as Trans, non-binary, and/or perceived non-Cis
Taco Tuesday w/ Lesbians
Avoiding Workaholic Tendencies
L Word Gen Q Spoilers and Opinions
Sports and Exercise
Nudes, Wiki feet & Security
L Word Spoilers- LA LGBTQ+ Community & Collabs
Queer Social Life (Lately and in the Past)
LGBTQ+ Folx and Therapy Experiences
Scheduling Life- studying, cleaning, groceries, exercise
Morning Tea Time- end of week
L Word- complete spoiler
Morning Tea Time- queer road maps and visualization
Queer Progress Writings
Personal Development- speeding through today
Queer Personal Development- taking breaks
Holiday Drama- how I cope
My Queer Dreams- the EDM grill
Queer Empowerment- preworkouts and mindset
Queer Empowerment- back on track
Queer Empowerment- weird night, good decisions
Queer Empowerment- intermittent fasting
Queer Empowerment- Metal Music and Androgyny
Weekly Reflection Sunday
My Queer Dating- meeting, staying in contact, sexuality topics and gender topics
My Queer Dating- gender & genitalia
Gender Dysphoria | preferences
Supertime pilot | Jade and Arrows
My LGBTQ+ Journey
Queer Motivation (adult)
My Queer Dating Poly Dating and Communication
My Queer Dating (traditional straights, long term commitments and validity)
My Queer Dating (2: meeting through connections)
My Queer Dating (meeting through connections)
Lifestyle Satisfaction, Screen Time and Snacking (Liver King)
Stimulants
Mae Martin
My Queer Dating (looking for…)
My Queer Dating (new series)
Happy National Coming Out Day 2022
Building Deeper Connections
Rambling to Catch Up
My Queer Dreams (the stroll)
Pod recommendation The way love goes
Thoray Maronesy
Why You are Single
My Queer Dreams (Betty’s Birthday)
Real Talk (deep interpretation of queer dream)
My Queer Dreams (Amusement Park Crush)
Gender Rules
Professional Branding as LGBTQ+
Privacy, Secrets, Gossip and Relationships
My Queer Dreams (Bisexual Marathon and a Crush)
Other People Coming Out
Roommates and Gender Presentation
My Queer Dreams (9/13/22 dream)
Power of Positivity
My Queer Dreams (ig magazine)
Adult Entertainment (Camilag.24 androgynous adult content)
Positive Lifestyle Challenge (Jaime Messina and morning mindsets)
Coming Out Multiple Times
Masculine “Standards” (Are there any? What are they?)
Straight Cis Hetero Convo
Adult Entertainment (interviews w/ workers)
Trans + Queer Minorities & a Cis Het Perspective
My Queer Dreams (a booth and a festival)
Adult Entertainment (confidence, shame and awkwardness)
Adult Entertainment (consent)
Adult Entertainment (my new series & the complexities)
My Queer Dreams (San Francisco)
My Queer Dreams (showers, a recurring location)
My Queer Dreams ( Amber’s Closet)
My Queer Dreams (Masc presenting females)
My Queer Dreams (L Word and a crush)
My Queer Dreams (hotel, outside, & elevator)
My Queer Dreams (online dating made it to a dream & bonus dream)
My Queer Dreams (a hybrid hotel)
My Queer Dreams (an ex at a kickback)
My Queer Dreams (a kick back & joking)
Formal Events
Jelie of Kickback Couture and Reason Studios Interview (Black, LGBTQ+, masc presenting, female rapper, producer, and more; music production, personal experience with music, Reason, Propellerhead)
Rita Brent Comedian (Black, female, lesbian, comedian, singer, writer, songwriter)
Just Me Rambling
TACO Tarantino and story about money, mooching and travel
Ashley Gavin (sex engineer episode)
Spas and Gender
Dating While Adjusting to Rona and Economic Change
My Parents, Their Religion and LGBT
Ashley Gavin (sexuality and gender identity content)
Absent due to The Rona (but doing fine)
Black Pride and Race and Ethnicity Dynamics (after thoughts)
Work Relationships and Ego Dynamics (complexities)
Substances Tidbits (how to tell if substances may be a problem and societal views about taboos)
Work Relationships and Ego (processing speeds, productivity, taking time off, work-life balance).
Black Pride (race and ethnicity, privilege, racism, prejudice)
Relationships and Internal Dynamics [self-esteem, perception, self-talk, & dating]
Relationships and Discussions (communication, where arguments can come from)
Dani Max “Coming Out Happy” (self help book)
Human Sexuality (reading 2 of my grad school class reflection journals)
Pride versus Shame (in sexuality, gender and a personal history)
Sleep, rest and relaxation (Pride Bootcamp 2022)
Music, sound and art (pride bootcamp 2022)
Socializing (Pride Bootcamp 2022)
Sleep, wake, energy, mood (Pride Bootcamp 2022)
Pride Bootcamp 2022 (Introduction)
Self Help Tidbits from John Delony (technology and finance balance)
Gendered Clothing (stressors, styles and situations)
Social Situations (where May anxiety come from)
Insecurities Tidbits (Coping with situations when insecurities arise)
LGBT and Non-Cis Insomnia and Relaxation (Coping & developing helpful methods)
Communicating with Cis, Non-LGBT Friends (part 2/2, sharing about relationships, coping methods)
Communicating with Cis, Non-LGBT Friends (part 1/2, sharing about relationships, social complexities
Balancing Lifestyle Updates (tidbits about methods)
Baby Gays, Coming Out & LGBT Culture- personal experiences (part 2)
Baby Gays, Coming Out, and LGBT Culture- what can be expected (part 1)
Attachment Styles and Desires in a Relationship.
Avoidant Attachment with Partners
Education and Millennial Money
Knowing your sexuality and gender
Outing
Valentine’s Day Check-in
Stressors and Goals Rant
Sobriety and Substances
Queer Dating and Breanne Williamson’s Podcast
Questions People are Afraid to ask Queer Women
Identity Studs and Butches
Identity and Stems
Rant about Life Stressors and Re-Evaluations
Jealousy
Gender and Holidays
Dating and Mixing Dates with Friends, Family, and other social groups
Sleep
Gender Across the Lifespan
Rogue Episode
Interacting with religious and cultural info: method even if you don’t subscribe
Substances and Drugs and LGBT Safe Spaces
Dating & Partying Dynamics in the LGBT+ Realm
Non-binary Intimacy
Hetero Normative Standards
Non-binary and Models
Deepening Relationships: dealing with difficulties
Deepening Relationships: Energy and Attunement
Deepening Relationships: training your emotions
Crushes
Baby Gays
Dating Life and LGBTQ+ Dynamics
Finances, poverty and Improving
Happy San Diego Pride 2021!
Dating and Striking Out
Dating Life Evolutions
Dating Life Evolutions
Tomboys and Sports
Queer Sex Ed- conversations
Tomboys and Clothing for Hot Weather- Dysphoria, body image
Dating and Pride
Socializing and Pride
Dealing with the Failures and Mistakes
Tomboys and Thailand
Gender and Anxiety
Androgyny- expanding the mind
Sex
Ambivalence/ Confusion and Courage
Gender Dysphoria and Coping
Gender Dysphoria
Dysphoria and Self Help
Gender and Non-binary: Transcending
Thoughts on Gender
Dating Complexities of Learning about one another
Crushes, Subtleties of Communication and the Ego
Femmes who Flirt
Tomboy clothing tips for work attire
Communication Styles and Ghosting
Gender
Tomboy Official (Trailer)