#111 - Does Knowing Your Love Languages Actually Matter in Your Marriage? This Unique Perspective Might Change Your Mind.

What makes you feel loved by your husband? Is it kind words, when he thanks you for a job well done, or when he calls you his favorite pet name? Is it when he pitches in around the house, does the dishes without being asked, or changes a dirty diaper?  How about when he comes home with flowers, brings you a beautiful necklace for Valentine’s Day, or your favorite cookies on his way home from work? Perhaps it’s when he puts his phone down and has a real, undivided attention conversation with you? A babysitter is called and he takes you out on a real date? It might even be when he holds your hand, lets you put his feet on him as you watch a movie on the couch, or gives you a big hug. If you’ve been around long enough, you’ve probably heard the term “Love Languages” before. If you haven’t, we’ll get into it a bit today. Most people would say knowing these about each other are super important to the marriage… and I mostly agree. But I also have a unique perspective that might surprise you or make you mad, either one, I’m here for it.  Go grab your coffee and let’s go. Loads of Love, Lydia --> FOLLOW so you don't miss a show! --> Leave a 5-star rating & written review --> Leave me a SpeakPipe question! --> Join the Christian Wife and Marriage Facebook community