16: My Black Marriage Research

Greetings, Lovebugs! Welcome to our second experience. Come with me as I share the first part of my latest research project – an exploration focused on education, economics, and marriageability of Black boys and men. While the podcast primarily caters to Black women, the research holds greater significance for the entire Black community, and I explore the debt America owes Black Americans.The discussion navigates the complexities of understanding and improving conditions for Black men and boys as I call attention to the debts they have inherited and how it has impacted Black Love and the Black Family. I also unravel historic evidence, spotlight improvements, and ambitiously work towards a self-sufficient future for Black communities.Until next time, please remember that if you have a Secret Story you want to share with me, I invite you to drop your truth! I also invite you to enroll in the Nurturing My Self-Esteem Mini-Course or grab the Feminine Identity Bundle.Correction: The author is not Tracey Chapman, but Audrey B. Chapman. Time Stamps:[4:04] - Gain some insights on academic research.[6:18] - America should dissolve its oppressive barriers against Black boys and men.[9:24] - I advocate for accessible research for all.[12:43] - Much research needs to be adapted for Black people.[15:11] - I desire for my research communication to be comprehensible for all.[18:26] - My line of research studies how education and economics impact the marital status of Black men.[20:14] - My research especially targets debts in education, economics, and marriage for Black boys and men.[23:47] - I use models and address the lasting effects of racism.[26:24] - I connect financial language, diverse models, and cultural insights.[28:09] - I explain how my research also examines the educational, economic, and marital debts owed to Black men to improve their societal standing.[30:30] - I directly address Black mothers, urging them to raise their sons to contribute meaningfully to society.[32:28] - Black fathers, your sons need you![34:12] - I move into the subject of debt owed to Black boys.[37:11] - I borrow the word “rift” to depict racial discord.[40:15] - I call Black men to the front again.[41:50] - I recommend a few helpful resources regarding this topic.​​[44:37] - I address intergenerational cycles.[48:02] - My research proposes a collective approach.[51:44] - Marriage among less-educated Black Americans may face increased stress due to financial instability and strain.[54:20] - Some progress connects to acknowledging men's need to earn, supporting families, before discussing marital structures.[56:25] - Securing a high school diploma benefits Black men.[1:02:34] - I encourage young Black women to seek guidance on education, careers, and relationships.[1:05:02] - Educational injustices affect Black men, women, and children, ultimately shaping conflicting beliefs on marriage and masculinity.[1:06:59] - I close by expressing appreciation for strong Black marriages, urging listeners to actively contribute to family and community healing.Connect with Me:Website: https://matchmarrymate.com/Instagram: @matchmarrymateBecome a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/matchmarrymateBook a Call: https://matchmarrymate.com/calls/ Literature & Links MentionedMy Black Marriage Research Blog Post {+ Episode Guide}His Dating Pivot Blog PostMarriage As A Cultural Norm Podcast Episode Of Boys & Men by Richard ReevesWhy I Love Black Women by Michael Eric DysonThe Spirit of a Man by Iyanla Vanzant