6. My Partner's Invitation into my Self-Pleasure Practice

I've moved back to O'ahu, spending lots of time on the North Shore, learning to surf, and having more incredible cervical orgasms.  In this episode, I highlight the gift being on the North Shore during surf season (Winter) has been, the incredibly intimate experiences I had with my most recent partner, and I reveal why I don't use condoms or contraception, and the harm these and lubricants can bring to our mind-body system. Episode Highlights: [2:32]  I Moved Back to O’ahu [3:53]  The Seven Mile Miracle (North Shore) [8:28]  My First Surf Lesson [9:06]  Wana (Sea Urchins) aka "Fauna" 🙃 [10:23]  More Cervical Orgasms & New Partner [15:38]  Self-Pleasure Demo with Partner [16:00]  Porn, Shame, Self-Abandonment [19:55]  Inviting my Partner to Touch Me [20:57]  Spontaneous vs. Response Arousal [25:27]  My Spontaneous Arousal with Partner [27:26]  vs. Typical Responsive Arousal  [27:59]  Best Sex Post-Celibacy [30:34]  Vulva, Vagina, and The Three Gates [31:22]  Disclaimer to my Future Husband [32:08]  Inviting Him to Pleasure Me (Communication, Exploration) [33:11]  My Doctor-Patient Fantasy [33:53]  His Guidance During Penetrative Sex [34:59]  Jackhammering (vs. Grinding, Gyrating, etc.) [37:36]  The Multiorgasmic Experience [39:23]  Loss of Emotional Safety [41:20]  Surf Competition / Hurley Pro Sunset Beach 2024 [44:15]  Unprotected Sex [47:31]  Chemicals in Condoms, Contraceptives, Lubricant, Vaginal Microbiome, pH, Osmolality [69:37]  Contraception: Fertility Cycling, Withdrawal & Peeing, Hormonal Implications for Women, Surgical, Neem for Men [78:59]  Sensation vs. Friction Sex [79:57]  Post-Nut Clarity [84:15]  Empaths, Numbing, Responsibility, Support [86:04]  Sensation vs. Friction Sex   Useful Links https://www.catrinax.com https://www.instagram.com/catrinaarmendariz https://www.youtube.com/@catrinax https://www.youtube.com/c/catrinaarmendariz