Chasing Approval Almost Got Me Killed | Episode 167

EPISODE · Jan 17, 2025 · 29 MIN

Chasing Approval Almost Got Me Killed | Episode 167

from Voices for Voices® · host Founder of Voices for Voices®, Justin Alan Hayes

Chasing Approval Almost Got Me Killed | Episode 167SUPPORT THE VOICES FOR VOICES® TV SHOW AND PODCASThttps://www.voicesforvoices.org/shop/p/supporterChapter Markers0:00 Struggles With Self-Esteem and Substance Abuse11:49 Balancing College Life and Health22:00 Academic Competitiveness in Summer Class27:04 The Power of Supplements and VitaminsStruggling with self-esteem and substance abuse can be a lonely journey, but you're not alone. Many of us have faced the daunting challenge of finding our place in a world that often feels unwelcoming. Tune in as I recount my quest for validation through physical strength, the highs and lows of college life, and the risky behaviors that nearly derailed my path. This episode offers a candid look into my personal battles with identity, the impact of a life-threatening moment, and the transformative lessons learned along the way.Navigating college wasn't just about academics; it was a balancing act of social pressures and personal growth. I open up about my encounters with over-the-counter drugs and alcohol, culminating in a DUI that forced a reevaluation of priorities. With an unexpected connection to an exercise science major, I discovered the revitalizing power of simple dietary changes like flaxseed oil and sea salt, which helped me regain focus and energy. These small, yet significant, shifts enabled me to juggle the party scene with academic commitments, leading to surprising success and a new perspective on life.Join me as I share the turning point that was a summer class, where academic competitiveness ignited a passion for self-improvement. The power of supplements and vitamins became evident, pushing me to rethink my lifestyle and health choices. While this journey led to some health challenges, it also paved the way for newfound confidence and a proactive approach to success. This episode isn't just about my story; it's about the universal struggle for acceptance and the resilience found in unexpected places. Be part of this conversation as we continue to explore these insights on the Voices for Voices® TV show and podcast.The episode describes a personal journey grappling with mental health, societal pressures around physical appearance, and the struggles of youth. It explores the effects of substance use, the importance of self-care, and the shift from partying to academic success, culminating in a quest for balance and self-acceptance.• Reflection on the pressures of achieving physical perfection• Experiences with substances and the consequences of reckless partying• Hospitalization as a wake-up call for healthier choices• The transition from party lifestyle to academic focus and improved grades• Introduction of holistic health approaches and nutritious food• Importance of self-care and balancing social life with personal well-being• Encouragement for listeners to prioritize their mental health—Thanks for listening!Support Voices for Voices®: https://venmo.com/u/voicesforvoicesLearn more about Voices for Voices®: linktr.ee/Voicesforvoices#stopchasingvalidation #indaclub #bodybuilding #muscles #club #grind #chasingapproval #stopchasingpeople #stopseekingapproval #seekingapproval #howtostopchasing #externalvalidation #stopchasingvalidation #menstartchasing #approvalofothers #approval #needforapproval #stopchasingthem #approvaladdiction #stopchasingadvice #nochasing #approval-seeking #boostself-esteemandconfidence #fearofmissing #overcomingfear #masteringself-improvementandpersonaldevelopment #lifemasterySupport the show

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