How Doing "Nice Things" For Your Wife Can Cause Problems

Can you do something nice for your wife… but STILL cause problems in your marriage?YES!See how doing the dishes (or other “nice” things) can either HELP or HURT your marriage.It all depends on how you SEE your wife.Summary:-Concepts from the book Leadership and Self-Deception from The Arbinger Institute-When you see your wife as a PERSON, you see her as HER OWN PERSON and someone you can serve-When you see her as an OBJECT, you see her as a vehicle, an obstacle, or irrelevant-You can still do “nice things” (like the dishes)  but to GET something from her. This leads to PROBLEMS in the marriage.-When you don’t get the attention, appreciation or affection you want, you tend to see her as an OBSTACLE and start getting upset, disengaged, etc.-The solution: Choose to SERVE because you want to GIVE. Because you want to be that guy. Not because you want to GET or want her to ACT or FEEL a certain way.-This is also the MOST LIKELY way you will get attention, appreciation and affection FREELY GIVEN.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io