Abide and Thrive Podcast

Drew and Kelsea talk about how they have grown in faith and marriage over the past 11 years. They share what started out lacking and has become strong, and what began strong and only has grown stronger with time. Donate to Abide and Thrive here: abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea ask each other a variety of questions, some fun and lighthearted, and others deep and serious. This is a great way to get to know them better! It's also a model for others to emulate in their relationships, romantic or not. If you would like to donate to the Abide and Thrive podcast, you have the opportunity to give here: abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea reflect on the parable Jesus tells in Matthew 20. They talk about Kingdom principles and how the Lord is continually growing their hearts through this scripture. Support for this episode comes from https://wagnersportschiropractic.comDonate to Abide & Thriveabide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea re-release 3 episodes pertaining to singleness all in one brand new, lengthy recording. We hope this edifies and encourages our single friends, and shines wisdom to those who aren't. Donate to the Abide & Thrive Podcast here: abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea discuss having Christ-like communication amid conflict, tiredness, stress, and trial. Donate to Abide & Thrive abide-and-thrive.org/donateSupport for this episode comes fromhttps://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea share a number of conversations to discuss before a couple gets married. The point here isn't necessarily fishing for red flags, but rather building covenantal commitment. This content is also beneficial for those who have already said "I do" to check in with their spouse for continued marital health. Donate to Abide and Thrive abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea answer the following questions about break ups: - How do I break up well? - How do I be friends post-break up? - What do we do when we are the one initiating the break up, but the other person isn’t hearing it? - Is it wrong to break up if there isn’t a sin issue or relationship problem? - How do I break up without hurting them? - How do we not re-catch feelings when we break up and they respond unexpectedly kindly? Donate to the podcast abide-and-thrive.org/donate Support for this episode comes from wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea help listeners learn how to discern for themselves the ever-popular dating questions of "are they right for me?" and "is this person the one?" by providing a list of questions to sort through and examine with The Lord.

In this episode, Drew and Kelsea answer the following questions about dating: When is the right age to start a relationship? What is dating supposed to look like for a teenager?What is dating supposed to look like for a college student? Donate to this podcast https://abide-and-thrive.orgSupport for this episode comes from https://share.google/407sn3J7qngQDFAMB

Drew and Kelsea discuss 2 Corinthians 9:8 and explore how we can abound in every good work. The lens, as always, is discipleship and relationships.Donate to this podcast https://abide-and-thrive.orgSupport for this episode comes from https://share.google/UvXl9zW2HrWjDmEiu

This episode is dedicated to the season of marriage engagements. Drew and Kelsea reflect on their own experience while engaged, and also share wisdom they have gained over the years since. Donate to Abide & Thrive at abide-and-thrive.org/donateSupport for this episode comes fromwagnersportschiropractic.com

Kelsea asks Drew questions about his journey with humility. He reflects on both pride and insecurity, and how they are actually linked. Center by Bethel Music (I mistakenly said UPPERROOM in the episode) & Abbie Gamboa https://youtu.be/ZKSXhpAi3RE?si=BaUvJZgc8kL6FA4ZUnoffendable by Brant Hansen https://share.google/cbt6Ngh3dvdzoWAHlDonate to this podcast hereabide-and-thrive.org/donateSupport for this episode comes from https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

In this episode Drew and Kelsea discuss the highly underrated state of being in relationship known as gentleness. They talk about how pivotal it has been in their relationship over the years, explaining how things have been with and without gentleness, signs it is present, and how to cultivate more of it. Donate to the ministry of Abide & Thrive here https://abide-and-thrive.orgSupport for this podcast comes from https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

In this episode Drew and Kelsea discuss how to discern what content we each allow to pour into ourselves spiritually. This requires intentional, self-aware focus, because we all have ownership over what we consume. Donate to Abide & Thrive here https://abide-and-thrive.orgSupport for this episode comes from https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea share their experience with taking a fast specifically from complaining. Donate to Abide & Thrive here https://abide-and-thrive.orgSupport for this episode comes from https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

In this episode we talk about submission and walking in your calling. This content is specifically geared towards men, though not limited to only them. As always, receive the principles and apply them to your circumstances. Donate to Abide & Thrive here https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate Support for this episode comes fromhttps://wagnersportschiropractic.com

In this episode, we chat about our experiences practicing Sabbath. Donate to Abide and Thrive atabide-and-thrive.org/donate

An episode of rich spiritual depth. Donate to Abide & Thrive by visiting https://abide-and-thrive.org/donateSupport for this episode comes from http://wagnersportschiropractic.com

How can I discern if I, or the person I am interested in, truly loves the Lord? This is a hard teaching on the difference between a believer and a disciple. Listening to the entire episode will be particularly important to gain full understanding of this teaching. Use this as wisdom before entering marriage. Or, if already married, use this as an invitation to draw nearer to The Lord.Donate to the Abide & Thrive Podcast here: abide-and-thrive.org/donate

If we could go back and give wise words to ourselves as newlyweds, what would it be? Listen and find out! To support this podcast, visit https://abide-and-thrive.orgThis episode is sponsored by https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew & Kelsea discuss how they have learned to navigate arguments. They reflect on the earlier days of marriage, and share learned wisdom and strategies that has lead to holier arguing. Donate to Abide & Thrive here: abide-and-thrive.org/donateSupport for the Abide & Thrive Podcast comes from https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Marriages are like plants; they need to be fed! Drew and Kelsea discuss a number of ways they have poured into their marriage over the years. This episode is less of a "how to" and more of an inspirational resource to help other marriages feed the plants of their own relationships.To support the Abide & Thrive podcast, visit abide-and-thrive.org/donateLibby App https://apps.apple.com/us/app/libby-the-library-app/id1076402606

Drew and Kelsea have a conversation about the importance of honesty in relationships, particularly with those who are married.To support Abide & Thrive, visit https://abide-and-thrive.orgThis episode is sponsored by https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea have a conversation about the importance of holy marriages. Why? Because marriage is so much bigger than the 2 people in them. Drew and Kelsea share why it might matter for Christians to pursue marriages that look starkly set apart from the rest of the world. To support the Abide & Thrive podcast, visit https://abide-and-thrive.orgThis episode is sponsored by https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Kelsea reflects on an impactful realization she had while reading a familiar Bible story. She and Drew then discuss how God often brings provision through difficult circumstances. If we are new to the faith, or come from rigid religious circles, hard times can feel like heavenly punishment for our own mistakes or shortcomings. However, Kelsea's reflections reveal more insight and depth to God's character. To support Abide & Thrive, visit https://abide-and-thrive.org

A lack of emotional submission to the Father can actually leave us vulnerable to the temptation of lust, specifically in pornography.Drew and Kelsea spend time discussing why living fully surrendered to God matters in our fight against sin. In fighting pornography, lines of defense, like accountability partners, porn-blocking apps, and removing phone access are all beneficial, AND we must also guard our emotions from the enemy. If you would like to donate to Abide & Thrive, visit https://abide-and-thrive.orgThis episode is sponsored byhttps://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea start by openly talking about how they struggled recording this episode due to their own negative thoughts. 2 Corinthians 10:5, Philippians 4:8, & 1 Peter 5:8 are all referenced. This is a Spirit-inspired episode discussing something that may seem trivial, but can be pivotal for our lives and relationships. One battlefield Satan attacks us is our minds, so it is imperative for us to adequately learn how to rebuke the enemy from our thoughts and consistently pursue a Kingdom mindset. To support this podcast, visit abide-and-thrive.org/donateThis episode is sponsored by https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Proverbs 16:24 says "Kind words are like honey - sweet to the soul and healing to the body." Drew and Kelsea model what it looks like to speak kind, healing words over each other. The hope is, by hearing this, listeners might be inspired to speak kind, healing words over spouses and loved ones in their lives as well. If this episode encouraged you, consider sowing into this podcast and visit: abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea share thoughts on how to seek peace. They discuss what it looks like to be open to peace, speaking to each other and about each other in ways that would promote and protect peace. Other things talked about are vacation, pouring into their marriage, serving together, seeking peace in harsh work environments, and talking kindly about one's self to promote peace. To support this podcast financially, visitabide-and-thrive.org/donateEpisode sponsored by https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea welcome you to Season 3 of the Abide & Thrive podcast! Throughout the episode they discuss how they have seen God at work in their own hearts over the past two years. All of this is shared so listeners can apply it to their own situations and walks with God. To support Abide & Thrive, visit https://abide-and-thrive.orgThis episode is sponsored by https://wagnersportschiropractic.com

Drew and Kelsea discuss healthy ways to sustain a long distance dating relationship. Want to support this podcast? abide-and-thrive.org/donateInstagram: abide.thrive

Drew & Kelsea talk about a few things they are actively learning in their marriage of 10.5 years (apologizing more authentically, growing in Christ doesn’t stop, leaning into the present good of marriage, and appreciating being best friends).Why won’t you apologize? - Harriet Learner https://a.co/d/4l3GhbyWant to support this podcast? Visit abide-and-thrive.org/donate Instagram https://www.instagram.com/abide.thrive?igsh=MWIwNzU0cWtsam82eA==

Drew and Kelsea share a compassionate conversation about how hard waiting in a period of singleness can be. They offer empathetic suggestions and share resources. But mainly, they practice "seeing" those in the waiting. The 7 Myths of Singleness - Sam Allberry https://samallberry.com/booksGood Plans - Red Rocks Worship https://youtu.be/O-3lMrhm8HQ?si=TbkfSJekJWWb6rr0Psalm 139If you would like to support this podcast, please visit abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea share a handful of their testimonies witnessing God being a faithful provider. To support this podcast, please donate to:www.abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea teach from Proverbs 2 to help listeners make wise decisions in any given circumstance. Want to support this podcast? Visit abide-and-thrive.org/donate

In a world of hurry and busy, we are called to be intentional with slowness and rest. Drew and Kelsea spend time in this episode talking about what they are learning on their journey of stillness. To support this ministry, visit abide-and-thrive.org/donateBook mentioned: Practicing The Way by John Mark ComerFor further study read the following: To Hell With The Hustle - Jefferson Bethke Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools - Tyler StatonInvitation To Solitude and Silence - Ruth Haley BartonWaiting Isn't A Waste - Mark VroegopThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry - John Mark Comer

In this episode, Drew and Kelsea offer green flags that come directly from the Bible! May this content be helpful for all your relationships, romantic or not.To support this podcast, visit abide-and-thrive.org/donate

The Bible is full of relationship advice. In this episode, Drew and Kelsea offer a number of relationship red flags right out of the Bible. To support this podcast, visit abide-and-thrive.org/donate

In this episode Drew and Kelsea discuss the following questions about dating, that all ultimately land with discernment: What age is best to start dating? How long should I date before getting married? What age should I get married? What are some ways to keep your relationship spiritual? How do you bring God back into the dating process if he has faded? How do you start a conversation with a significant other to discuss expectations? What are godly ways to go from single, to dating, to engaged, to married? To support this podcast, please visit abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea discuss what Disciples of Jesus are to do about slander. To support this ministry, visit abide-and-thrive.org/donateMajor scripture of influence: 1 Peter 2

Drew and Kelsea discuss how they learned to pray for their future spouse, long before they ever met each other. They also briefly talk about the booklet they wrote "Prayers For My Future Spouse." Booklet link: https://a.co/d/3ImC3dkSupport this podcast: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea unpack different aspects of dating well. Culture is full of advice in this area, but it can be hard to discern what is spiritually beneficial. Hopefully, this episode will be helpful for those seeking to date more wisely.To support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Life is full of a million little moments that matter, though we don't often give them mind. Drew and Kelsea spend time talking about small moments of significance in their lives, and why these are important to their relationship.To support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

A follow up to the previous episode where Drew talked about lust in singleness. Now, Drew and Kelsea both continue the discussion about walking in step with the Spirit, and also explore lust within marriage.To support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Kelsea asks Drew questions about his experience navigating lust.Porn research and resource websites:https://www.covenanteyes.comhttps://fightthenewdrug.orghttps://exoduscry.comTo support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Drew and Kelsea reflect on a song that has held a lot of meaning recently, pertaining to having a slower pace.The Slower I Go - SEU Worship, Chelsea Plankhttps://youtu.be/rBFqlf3HZSo?si=SeF9UxM3w395nlNfTo support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

We discuss a handful of relationship questions we've received lately... all of which land with the same answer!- How do I handle past trauma with the person I'm dating?- How do I stop sinning in my dating relationship?- How do I know if I am not ready for a relationship?- Is my relationship an idol?- How do I know if they're the one if marriage is hard even in the best circumstances?To support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

What do we do when we are discouraged? Do we just truck on through to "get better?" Or is there another way to operate?Worn - Tenth Avenue Northhttps://youtu.be/zulKcYItKIA?si=6r82UxOXTh76JPzaDefender - Jesus Culturehttps://youtu.be/DtPgAFpkJLE?si=BmLZkWbPobE7XsXkTo support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

We discuss not wanting to speak ill of other people, what to do when we recognize we are doing it, and how to cultivate heart postures which only speak to build others up.See “Words Have Power” season 2 episode 2To support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate

Everything in creation has seasons, including humans. We discuss the ins and outs of the seasons - pruning and dormancy as well as bloom and harvest. We hope this episode equips you as you navigate your current season.Ecclesiastes 3:1-11To support and further this podcast, give to: https://abide-and-thrive.org/donate