And Just Like That... We Found Therapy - A Sex and the City Podcast

This week we're covering Season 3, Episode 12 of Sex and the City — the one where Carrie finally tells Aiden about Big. And honestly? It's a lot.I'm joined by Idit Sharoni, licensed marriage and family therapist, founder of Relationship Experts, and host of the podcast Relationships Uncomplicated. Idit specialises in infidelity recovery, and she brings a perspective I genuinely wasn't expecting — because the answer to "should you always tell?" is not what you think it is.We get into:Whether honesty is actually always the best policy in relationshipsWhat it means when your partner has no idea the affair was happening — and what that says about connectionThe difference between "sufferers" and "explorers" after infidelityHow to disclose an affair (and what Carrie absolutely got wrong about timing)Why women who cheat often feel more vindicated than menWhether Carrie ever really had a chance of making it work with AidenWhat wanting to know every detail is really about — and when it hurts more than it helpsWe also cover Miranda's disastrous speed dating lie, Charlotte and Trey's wedding night, and Samantha storming out of Vera Wang. A full episode.Find Idit:🌐 Website: https://iditsharoni.com/💔 It's Okay To Stay (Infidelity Recovery Program): https://infidelityrecovery.iditsharoni.com/🎙️ Relationships Uncomplicated (Podcast): https://iditsharoni.com/category/podcast/📸 Instagram: @therelationshipexperts📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iditsharonilmft▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Iditsharonicounseling🔍 Is He Your Mr. Big? Submit your story: https://form.typeform.com/to/T6T0HPpsFollow the pod on IG/TikTok/YouTube/Substack @wefoundtherapypod / I love y'all ❣️

Carrie Bradshaw is having an affair. And somehow she's the villain and the victim — often in the same scene.This week I'm joined by Minaa B — licensed therapist and author of Owning Our Struggles — to break down Season 3, Episode 11 of Sex and the City: Running with Scissors. The one where Natasha finds out, a tooth gets chipped, and Carrie delivers the most iconic breakup line in the show's history.We get into the guilt and pleasure duality of affairs, the gendered double standard women face when they cheat, all-or-nothing thinking and why one slip becomes a full spiral, and what Samantha's STI scare reveals about the stories we tell ourselves to feel exempt from consequences.We also talk about how to be a good friend to someone doing something you don't agree with — without shaming them into silence or losing yourself in the process.Find Minaa B:📖 Owning Our Struggles — available wherever books are sold🎙️ This Feels Familiar — on all podcast platforms📩 Substack: All the Hard Things📱 @minaa_b on Instagram