Christian Dad's Podcast

In this heartfelt and practical conversation, James Pellicane sits down with her daughter Noelle (19) to talk about real fatherly leadership in the home. They dive deep into Proverbs 22:6 — “Train up a child in the way he should go” — and what that actually looked like in their family.Noelle shares honestly about:Being forced to do things she didn’t want to do (martial arts, intense driving training, etc.)The difference between welcomed and unwelcomed leadershipWhy strict parenting feels terrible in the moment but pays off laterHow to shift parenting styles as kids get olderMoney training: natural consequences, and giving independenceWhat parents of teens and adult children should focus on nowA must-watch for every parent who wants to raise capable, independent adults while keeping a strong relationship.To see show on YouTube: https://youtu.be/v5MzptvZ9UYItune: https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/62-permissive-leadership-is-still-toxic-why-being-unclear/id295386637?i=1000764240514 For more information about James:https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

What if the most toxic kind of leadership isn’t yelling or controlling… but staying silent?In this powerful episode, we expose how the absence of clear leadership quietly destroys families. Using Scripture from Ephesians and Colossians, the tragic story of King David’s family, and real-talk practical steps, we show why being unclear is actually unkind.You’ll walk away with five game-changing moves every dad can start today. If you want to stop reacting and start leading your family with love and clarity, this episode is for you.https://youtu.be/v5MzptvZ9UYhttps://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

Tired of constant complaining from your children (or maybe even yourself)? In this powerful episode, James Pellicane reveals the "secret sauce" to end whining in your family for good. Drawing from Scripture—especially 1 Corinthians 10 and Numbers 21—she shows why God takes complaining so seriously and how it blocks us from His best blessings. Discover three game-changing principles every parent needs: Model gratitude yourself (the apple doesn't fall far from the tree) Stop rewarding whining with attention (and start rewarding winning attitudes instead) Make complaining counterproductive with clear consequences If you want a whining-free family and kids who thrive with positive attitudes, this episode will transform your parenting. To watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianDadPodcast Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

Dad's old abandonment wounds are sabotaging Mom's push to get their 2-year-old out of the family bed—leading to 2 a.m. meltdowns, that hit Dad right in the gut. In this raw coaching session, host James calls it straight: You're not your absent dad, boundaries aren't abandonment, and your big-hearted "benefactor" nature is getting played by a toddler who knows exactly which button to push. With baby #2 arriving soon, the stakes are high. Game plan essentials: Apologize to your wife, lock arms on unity, return her to bed consistently (no rewards for chaos), lock the door if you have to, and commit—even when it hurts. Stop the midnight rescues. Step up, lead your home, and give your wife and kids the leadership now before the battles get bigger.

In this raw and heartfelt episode, new dad Josh D'Ambrosio sits down with host James to share his unexpected journey into fatherhood—one forged through personal hardship, renewed faith, and the wild reality of raising a spirited 2-year-old. Josh presses James for hard-won wisdom on what actually works when the toddler years hit. James lays it out plainly: staying fully present even when work pulls hard, locking arms with your spouse on a unified front, and intentionally building self-control and respect from the earliest age. With unflinching honesty, they dive into real discipline that gets results—including the when, why, and how of spanking as a calm, private, and dignified act of teaching rather than angry punishment. You'll hear practical strategies on staying consistent so kids aren't confused, staging everyday scenarios at home to prepare them for life, handling disrespect without losing your cool, and pairing clear consequences with generous rewards—all while protecting a warm, loving home and keeping parents from burning out. If you're a dad in the trenches (or about to be), this is the no-nonsense, faith-grounded conversation you didn't know you needed. Timeline 00:00 Introduction to Josh D'Ambrosio's Journey 04:33 Navigating Fatherhood as a New Dad 07:15 Discipline and Parenting Techniques 10:04 The Importance of Consistency in Parenting 12:53 Balancing Work and Family Life 15:40 The Role of a Father in Child Development 18:21 Challenges of Parenting a Two-Year-Old 30:12 Unified Parenting Strategies 32:12 Creating Scenarios for Learning 36:06 Rewards and Consequences in Parenting 38:54 Managing Disrespectful Behavior 41:57 The Importance of Timing in Discipline 49:02 Understanding Child Behavior and Needs To Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/PsTzC_zvwrQ https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/59-biblical-discipline-for-toddlers-a-new-dads/id295386637?i=1000741536482 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7x7QnQcoINiSFuwU7TVY0x?si=uEYZwI86RtuK9KSLtw_ceQ Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

In this powerful and practical conversation, Bill Farrel — pastor, author of 61 books, father of three sons, and grandfather of eight — shares the proven principles that helped him raise confident, capable young men who are now three of his closest friends. Bill walks through the two core commitments that shaped his parenting: being fully present and becoming a student of each child. He discusses how parents can manage busy careers while staying relationally close, how to understand a child's motivation and stress points, and why every kid needs individualized leadership, not cookie-cutter parenting. You'll also hear Bill's insights on launching young adults, guiding teens through puberty, shifting your role from coach to consultant to friend, and handling dating, decision-making, and conflict with wisdom instead of control. If you want to raise children who grow into responsible, confident adults—and actually enjoy being around you—this rich, honest conversation will equip and encourage you. To enjoy on Youtube: https://youtu.be/VXcKT8NJsrA Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

What happens when a husband feels unseen, unheard, and flat-out discounted in his own home? He stops leading. He stops speaking up. He quietly gives up on the role God gave him. If you've ever felt dismissed in your marriage, or if you're the one doing the dismissing (even unintentionally), this episode is for you. Christian dads, you're not alone. Hit play, lean in. To enjoy on Youtube: https://youtu.be/bqf5Z3FeCmw Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

In this heartfelt episode, Noelle Pellicane shares her perspective on what her dad did right while raising her — offering an honest and insightful look into successful fathering techniques that truly make a difference. From love and consistency to guidance and faith, this conversation will encourage dads everywhere to reflect, grow, and lead with intention. Whether you're a new father, a seasoned parent, or someone who values family and faith, this episode delivers inspiration and practical wisdom for raising confident, grounded kids in today's world. To see on Youtube: https://youtu.be/6GiWB-FOssI Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

James used to believe the loudest voice in the room won. Then he discovered the opposite is true. In this warm, personal episode he shares his journey from constant talker to grateful listener—and the beautiful things that started happening the moment he got quiet: His wife felt safe and began sharing her real heart His kids stopped bracing for lectures and started opening up He finally heard what his own soul had been trying to tell him And best of all, God's voice—gentle, clear, unmistakable—became impossible to miss If you've ever wondered what might happen if you talked less and listened more, this episode is living proof: marriages soften, kids bloom, hearts heal, and God shows up in ways you never expected. Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

In this funny-but-convicting episode, James admits his own failures (loudly) and then hands you doable habits that actually turn you into the listener your wife and kids secretly wish you were. No therapy-speak, no guilt trip—just practical, dad-tested moves that calm the room, lower your blood pressure, and make your family feel heard. Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

Businesses live or die by their mission statement—yet many dads run their homes without one. Result? Endless debates about screen time, sports schedules, money, and holidays because nobody knows what actually matters most. In this hands-on episode, James walks you through the exact process he used to create a short, memorable family mission statement and 4 core values that now guide every decision—big and small—in his home. You'll leave with: A simple template you can finish in one evening with your wife Real-life examples that stick (even with teenagers) A clear filter for saying "yes" or "no" without guilt or arguments Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

Nothing prepares you for the day a loved one passes. In this raw, James shares what the first weeks and months felt like after losing his dad—and, more importantly, what actually helped (and what definitely didn't). Plua specific, no-fluff ways you can walk alongside any man, coworker, neighbor, or friend who just lost a loved one. Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

In this deeply personal episode, James pauses everything to honor his late father: No bullet points, no how-to list, just a son's overflowing gratitude for the things that can't be taught with words. What James caught is now what he's intentionally passing to his own children. If you've ever wondered what parts of you your kids will actually remember, or if you need fresh wind to keep pouring into the next generation after losing your own dad, this one will hit home. Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

Your kids don't need another toy, another activity, or even another life lesson from you. The single greatest gift you can hand them is a front-row seat to a dad who cherishes their mom—every single day. In this straight-to-the-point episode, James shares one surprisingly simple, totally doable habit that communicates love to your wife in a language she actually feels… and simultaneously gives your children rock-solid security, a blueprint for their future marriages, and proof that the gospel works in real life. No grand gestures, no big budget—just one practical move any husband can do that pays dividends for decades.

If "It's not fair," "I'm bored," and "Do I have to?" are on repeat in your house, this episode is your rescue plan. James gives three battle-tested, no-yelling-required strategies that turn chronic complainers into grateful kids—without bribes, threats, or losing your mind. Real stories from his own home, simple scripts you can use tonight, and the one mindset shift that makes everything else work. Short, practical, and parent-changing

James shares a recent Yosemite hike where losing the trail for even a minute made everything harder. Same with life—when you know where you're headed with God, family, work, money, and yourself, daily choices get simpler. In this practical message, you'll get a straightforward way to picture the finish line for each area of your life. Once you see it, today's decisions fall into place naturally. No drama, just clear direction for busy dads.

Confidence isn't cockiness; it's knowing who placed those kids in your home and why. Too many fathers walk around half-convinced they're going to mess it all up. In this straight-up encouraging message, James reminds every dad: God didn't hand you this assignment by accident. He chose you, equipped you, and promises to back you up. You'll walk away believing three things deep in your bones: Your kids need YOU, not a perfect dad Your presence matters more than your performance God's power shows up strongest in your weakness Short, bold, and loaded with Scripture-fueled confidence. Play this when the doubts get loud; you really do got this dad thing.

Proverbs 22:6 says train up a child in the way he should go—and when it comes to money, most dads are winging it. In this practical, no-fluff episode, James gives every father three simple, battle-tested principles to teach kids a healthy, biblical view of money before the world teaches them the wrong one. No complicated budgets or allowance charts—just clear moves you can start this week so your kids grow up generous, wise, and free instead of stressed, entitled, or in debt

Are you making the most of the precious time you have with your kids in the car? James shares a personal story and explains why creating a listening atmosphere during those everyday drives can make a powerful difference in your relationship with your children—and even in how they mature.

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James Pellicane unpacks four battlegrounds where real fathers are called to long-suffering: With God (when heaven feels silent) With the Church (when people act like… people) With our Career (when promotion is slow or never) With Each Other (spouse, kids, in-laws—the daily grind) Then he draws the line: the one place Scripture never asks us to be patient—with sin. Straight-talk, no fluff, and immediately usable. If you're tired of confusing patience with passivity, this episode gives every dad the biblical clarity and practical grit to suffer long where it counts… and stand firm where it doesn't.

Some truths feel like gravel in your mouth: "You're too harsh with the kids." "You're married to your phone." "You're not the hero you think you are." Most dads dodge, deflect, or defend. 1 Corinthians 13 says real love does the opposite—it rejoices when the truth shows up, even when it hurts. In this direct, no-sugar-coating message, James Pellicane shows why dodging truth keeps us stuck and how leaning into it (about ourselves, our sin, and especially about God) actually sets us free. You'll leave with practical ways to welcome hard feedback at home, celebrate truth instead of resenting it, and model humility for your wife and children. Short, honest, and liberating for any father ready to grow up instead of cover up.

Most keep a quiet running tab: the time she embarrassed you at the party, the kid who lied, the coworker who threw you under the bus. Every replay adds another drop of poison to your marriage, your parenting, and your own peace. In this straightforward message from 1 Corinthians 13, James Pellicane shows exactly what "love keeps no record of wrongs" looks like in real life—no fluff, no therapy-speak. You'll see how the mental scorecard works, why it feels justified, and—most importantly—how to delete the file for good. Practical steps any father can start today to quit punishing people for past sins (including yourself) and finally live free. If you're tired of old mistakes stealing today's joy, this one's for you.

In this laugh-out-loud (and wince-out-loud) message, James Pellicane maps the exact stages every father travels from calm to volcano: the slow simmer, the sarcastic comment, the raised voice, the slammed door—and the regret that always follows. More importantly, you will get battle-tested steps to short-circuit the cycle before you lose it with your wife or kids. No guilt trips, no "just honest stories, real Scripture, and simple moves any dad can start using. Perfect for the man who wants his family to remember his laugh more than his temper.

1 Corinthians 13 says love "does not act rudely." Translation for dads: put the phone down at dinner, quit the sarcastic "whatever," and stop treating your wife like tech support. In this funny-but-it-hurts message, James Pellicane holds up the mirror with zero guilt trips and a lot of laughs. You'll walk away with laugh-out-loud examples of everyday dad-rudeness, plus simple swaps that turn rude into respectful. Short, relatable, and instantly usable for any father who wants his home to feel like a safe place instead of a sitcom with a laugh track only he hears.

1 Corinthians 13 says love "does not boast, it is not proud." Most can quote it, but many still live with pride running in the background. This episode humerously shows how pride shows up in a dad's life: the need to be the smartest guy in the room, the quiet resentment when another father gets recognized, the refusal to admit we're wrong in front of our kids, the subtle one-up stories at the dinner table. More importantly, it gives the biblical remedy: cultivate a teachable spirit. When a dad stays willing to learn—from his wife, his children, other men, and especially from God—pride loses its foothold.

Most men quickly identify boasting in others yet miss it in themselves. This episode examines the spectrum—from overt bragging to subtle sulking and false modesty—and shows how each version undermines a father's influence at home. Listeners will learn to recognize these patterns in their own lives and understand the practical opposite: humility that builds trust with wife and children. Direct, no-nonsense teaching with clear takeaways for any dad who wants to lead without self-promotion.

Every dad feels it: that quiet sting when another father rolls up in the newer truck, posts the perfect vacation pics, or brags about his kid's scholarship. Envy doesn't announce itself with horns—it slips in as a whisper: "You should have that too." In this episode we pull the mask off envy: where it's born, how it grows, and why it's especially toxic for fathers who are supposed to model contentment for their families. Once you see the pattern, you can shut it down before it poisons your marriage, your joy, and your kids' view of success.

Grab a cup of coffee and join James as he interviews Rich Guerra, Superintendent of the SoCal Network of the Assemblies of God. Rich shares practical advice for young ministers while offering valuable insights that seasoned ministers will also appreciate. In this conversation, you'll learn how to effectively work with a board, communicate your vision, and lead with impact. Pastor Rich also opens up about past mistakes, providing honest lessons that can help guide others in their ministry journey.

Missionary evangelist Jason Frenn shares practical insights on effective parenting and how fathers can lead their homes spiritually. He speaks candidly about raising his own children and the importance of guiding them without conforming to cultural Christianity.

God has a unique blueprint for every one of us, but bruises from life-losses, layoffs, heartbreak-whisper that it's over. This talk, delivered live at South Coast Church in Imperial Beach, San Diego, refuses the whisper. Instead: believe again, dream again, hope again. You'll walk out with a dead-simple game plan

Jesus spoke this to men who'd lost sleep over empty bowls-fear, anxiety, all of it. In Matthew six verse twenty-five he simply says: life is more than food, the body more than clothes. Period. No loopholes, no exceptions. If that's true, then worry's a form of disrespect.

Bob LaFave shares practical ideas on ways to romance your wife to the mens group at San Diego First Assembly. Bob pulls no punches with the men of San Diego First Assembly: romance isn't dead, you just stopped doing it. In this straight-talk session recorded live, Bob drops simple, budget-friendly, marriage-changing ideas. Perfect for any man who wants to keep the homefires burning.

In this heartfelt Christian Dad Podcast treasure, former pastor of San Diego First Assembly Richard Dresselhaus shares as a seasoned husband, battle-tested truths from over five decades of wedded bliss-proving love isn't fireworks, it's faithful choices. From forgiving fast to laughing through the lean years, he drops practical gems. No fluff, just legacy-building advice for dads wanting a marriage that outlasts the mortgage. Warm, wise, and worth replaying.

Jesus didn't say try once-he said keep knocking. In this message, James take Ask, seek, knock and aim it straight at your real battles: the stalled project, the teenager's door, the dream you've outgrown. Persistence isn't grit-it's obedience. You knock till the wall thins, then swings. Work, marriage, parenting-every win starts here: ask boldly, seek relentlessly, knock without apology. The kingdom opens to the stubborn.

James Pellicane dishes out a hilarious yet hard-hitting take: we're quick to give God our hearts, but not our sacred appetites, In this fun, relatable episode, he shares dad stories of trading fast food for real food.

Hey, this one's gold-James says winning begets winning, so start small: help your kid rack up school victories, and watch confidence snowball into everything else. No magic-just a dad's trick to make homework feel like play, and suddenly they've got momentum for life. Skip this, and you're handing them their first loss.

Dads aren't just providers-they're protectors of the fire between him and his wife. A good husband fans the flame frequently: date nights, dumb jokes, saying thank-you when she's had a rotten day. If you're letting the embers cool, you're failing at the gig that matters most. For every man who's a husband first, dad second. James has 3 practical tips to keep the flame alive in your marriage.

1 Corinthians 13 says love doesn't envy-meaning real spirituality isn't yours to hoard. James Pellicane tells our San Diego First Assembly youth: if you're secretly ticked when they win, you're off track.

Buckle up for this adrenaline-pumping Christian Dad Podcast episode where James challenges you to ditch safe faith for the wild adventure God calls us to-like stepping out in obedience amid family pressures or career leaps. Perfect for fathers ready to trade comfort for legacy.

Ever catch yourself pushing off that family talk or quiet time with God, only to pray for strength later? In this no-nonsense Christian Dad Podcast episode, James tackles procrastination head-on with raw honesty and Bible-backed breakthroughs. You'll get real stories from dad life, quick wins and faith-fueled habits to reclaim your time and legacy. Short, punchy, and life-changing for busy fathers ditching excuses for purpose.

Pulling from James 1 and Proverbs 3, the host shares raw stories of waiting through career stalls, kid chaos, and faith tests-plus actionable steps like prayer anchors and gratitude shifts to turn delays into divine setups. A must for fathers building legacy with steady joy over stress.

Dive into this uplifting Christian Dad Podcast episode where we break down how to transform your Sabbath from just 'off' time into vibrant, soul-filling connection with God. Packed with Bible tips from Exodus and Jesus' ways-like ditching screens, family rituals, and joyful worship-you'll get easy steps to make Sundays recharge your spirit amid busy dad life. Short, inspiring, and totally doable!

In this thought-provoking episode of the Christian Dad Podcast, host explores the Second Commandment's warning against graven images, revealing how everyday idols like success, tech, and comfort steal our worship from God. Through biblical insights, real-life stories, and practical steps, learn to spot and smash these hidden barriers to true devotion-perfect for dads seeking deeper faith in a distracted world.

Trevor Smith, son of Phillip Smith (Episode 18), shares candidly about the lasting impact of his father's actions and choices. Through personal stories and reflections, Trevor highlights how his dad's example spoke louder than words — shaping his character, faith, and approach to life. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that the way a father lives, leads, and loves leaves an indelible mark on his children. Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned father, or someone seeking encouragement from real-life examples, this conversation offers practical insight and inspiration for leaving a lasting legacy.

Phillip Smith shares his experience raising two boys what it truly means to be the steady, dependable foundation your family needs. Learn practical ways to lead with love, provide guidance in difficult times, and strengthen your family through faith, consistency, and intentional action. Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned father, this message offers encouragement and actionable advice to help you be the rock your loved ones can always rely on. Tune in for inspiration, real-life wisdom, and motivation to build a legacy that lasts.

Life doesn't always go the way we expect, and sometimes God's plan feels confusing or even unfair. Through Scripture and real-life examples, you'll discover how God uses even the hardest, most confusing seasons to grow our faith, strengthen our character, and deepen our relationship with Him. This message offers hope, clarity, and encouragement for anyone wrestling with unanswered questions and unexpected challenges.

In this powerful, heartfelt episode of What Dad Did Right, we sit down with Pastor Will Tyler, a dad walking the foster-care journey with faith, perseverance, and real love. Will shares the joys and challenges of raising a foster child — from building trust to navigating tough discipline moments — all while keeping love and grace at the center.

Kent Kraining spills how intentional milestones-like wilderness quests and legacy talks-flipped the script for his boys, turning wild energy into godly grit. From backyard challenges to heart-deep handoffs, this 2009 chat arms dads with a blueprint: spot the spark, build the bridge, and watch God shape the man. No fluff-just real stories of sons stepping up, stronger.

When your kid bolts from the faith you poured into them, what do you do? Pastor Frank Wooden lays it bare-no pat answers, just the gut-wrenching wait, the late-night prayers, and the wild grace that brought his son back from the edge. From Sweet Water River Church in San Diego, this 2009 heart-to-heart is for every dad staring down rebellion: learn to love fierce, pray harder, and trust God's plot twist. If your family's in the storm, this episode's your anchor.