Classy & Confident In Christ

We talk about the side of purity that is not often talked about in the Christian community, which is from a man's perspective. I had a blessed opportunity to interview the man of God Dursey, and learn about his walk in Christ. Dursey talks about his own purity walk, and what we as the bride of Christ should be doing to remain pure.1 Thessalonians 4:3-5: "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor..." be sure to follow Dursey's business Fruit of Freedom Initiatives

God doesnt have you wait for no reason, majority of the time its for a valid reason."Women of Jerusalem, make me a promise. Don’t stir up love. Don’t wake it up until it’s ready.” (Song of Solomon 8:4 NIRV). " Do not go around trying to be God, keep your hand off of his stuff. Remember, your spouse is God's son or daughter before they are your Husband or Wife. God can turn things around when you have faith in Him and trust His plan for your life. The wait can make you more observant on things you don't see in the spiritual.

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The enemy already dislikes marriage and he will try to destroy it. The engagement season is the step before marriage and there will be many tests. Allow God to put His hand in this season as well because you will still need Him to be a part of your marriage.

Your oil will get you far. Allow God to use you. Your obedience is tied to someone else's blessing.

Not only is she quintessential to her family, but to the Kingdom of heaven. Proverbs 31 woman was a virtuous woman , she had morals and stood on God's principles, and she thrived in all areas of her life because she trusted God and the plans for her life.

Pray that God puts you in the position to be found by Godly Men. You will know by his fruit. Ask God for discernment when you interact with these men. Remember, not all men are assignments, they may just be your brother in Christ.

Allow God to break the emotional baggage that's in your life. What do you need to heal from? Parental wounds, the spirit of abandonment? Whatever it is God is a healer! Trust Him.

Celebrate the ending too!

We break every ungodly thing that has been spoken over our lives.Words can make or break your destination that God has for you. We want to reverse the word curses that may have come from those that were supposed to love us or protect us.

We're getting married this year! There is no more room for delay. We must stay focused on God's kingdom and promises for us. We are getting married with purpose and showing things can and will be done by honoring God. Honoring the plan He has for us.

God loved us because He gave us Jesus.For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.- John 3:16Wait on God, singleness is not a disease.

We have to remain pure in our singleness especially because society promotes sex in any and everything. We have to rebuke the devil and flee from temptation. We don't want to delay our marriage due to sexual immorality and disobedience.

Gods plan is perfect, His timing is perfect! Wait on God, and He'll do the rest!

We need to know what is in our bloodline so we can highlight to God what we need to cast out. These things are not only just physical but also spiritual. The things in our bloodline can be passed down to our children unknowingly. We also need to pay attention to who we decide to be in covenant with and what they carry because you marry everything they come with.

God has us in a season for a specific reason. Are we handling the areas God assigned us to? We have to complete one assignment to go to the next.

You know what God has for you. You will not be confused. e

Praying you're prepared for this next season in your life with your partner!!

I know we want to say what God has revealed to us but we must play our part and allow God in the details.

Learn to find you in this single season

An Intercessory Prayer

Its time to stop allowing the enemy to delay your marriage even further. Everything happens in His timing, but there are spirits and principalities that may be delaying us from what God has called us chosen ones to do... which is get married. There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens ‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭3:1‬ ‭

Praying that your husband is aware what God has called him to be. May he operates in his purpose. May he have thr the faith to succeed. For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.- Romans 12:3

Whatever you're going through in your single season will be 10x amplified in marriage. It is so important to get healed and delivered so that you can enter your marriage with less issues. Praying for your husband's healing is a part of being his wife. He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” ‭‭Mark‬ ‭5:34

Discernment can help you decipher a God thing from a worldly thing. Pray that husband has a discerning spirit before making a decision. So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?” ‭‭1 Kings‬ ‭3:9

Remember the past ‭‭can haunt you, but God can make things new. He has a promising future for us. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭43:19‬

May His Mind be refreshed and filled with the Holy Spirit. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. ‭‭Romans‬ ‭12:2‬

Who is your husband's leader? Are they leading him to Christ? May he seek God to keep him on the correct path. Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. ‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭13:7‬ ‭

May God renew his heart and make it clean. May He realize when his heart is deceitful. Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭51:10‬

Being a Father is needed in a child's developmental portion in their life. It's imperative to choose the right man to Father your children. May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful! ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭23:25‬ ‭

May we choose wisely on who we are in Godly covenant with. May this man of God be a perfect fit to honor God together. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:3‬ ‭‬‬

Today, we are focusing on purpose. Do you understand why you're in a certain place?Do you understand your purpose is for God's kingdom and not for you? Pray that your husband knows his purpose in life. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians‬ ‭2:10‬ ‬‬

Patience doesnt come easy. If we are believing God for something,may He direct us with patience and love. Because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. ‭‭James‬ ‭1:3‬ ‭‬‬

May your husband be filled with integrity in the work place to his marriage. May his morals honor God & His kingdom. Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out. ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭10:9‬

Pray for your husband to flee from temptation. The enemy loves to attack the husband because he is the headof the house. Keep praying him because we dont know what he endures on a daily basis. Why are you sleeping?” he asked them. “Get up and pray so that you will not fall into temptation.” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭22:46‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Thank God we are not our past and God forgives us. Pray for your husband's past that he does not dwell in it but, he can learn from it. Forget the former things do not dwell on the past.See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. Isaiah 43:18-19

Men often times ignore their emotions or keep it in. Today we want to pray that he reveals his emotions to you. When he's lost hope or going through any emotions he can seek God. May he seek Godly counsel regarding his situation. Because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. -James 1:20

He spends so much time protecting us,we have the intercede a hedge of protection for him. But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you. Psalms 5:11

May your husband have integrity and have morals. May your husband hang around others who have great character. Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character 1 Corinthians 15:33

Jesus died on the cross for us to be saved. I pray that the man of God has accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Thank God He has given us grace to live. “The Lord is my strength and my defense; he has become my salvation. He is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him.” Exodus 5:2

Purity is not only for sex, but having a pure mind, a heart, and speaking pure words. We don't talk too much about men being pure so it's time. Those who cleanse themselves from the latter will be instruments for special purposes, made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.

Does his words edify God? What is he speaking over his life and others? We must honor God with our words and refrain from speaking words of wrath. My lips will not say anything wicked, and my tongue will not utter lies. Job 27:4

May God grant your husband with great self-esteem. May he confident in whatever he does and know that the Lord is his provider. The Lord will be your confidence And will keep your foot from being caught. Proverbs 3:26

We all need wisdom, as we're called into marriage, we need to pray for our husband's wisdom as he makes decisions for our household. May God give him wisdom when he needs it. ‭‭ If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. James 1:5

Health is the largest part of wealth, if youre not healthy, how can you show up in everything else. We need our husbands here longer for us and our family. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones. ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3:8‬ ‭

We need each other, God has special people assigned to us known as destiny helpers. We need others to hold us accountable. Iron sharpens iron. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. ‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4:10‬ ‭

The family he creates is just as important as the one he comes from. Look at how he treats other family members. This will be a clear indication of how he will treat you. I pray that he did the work to seek healing. Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8 ‭‭ Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8 ‭‭

‭‭Finances need to be discussed before tying the know. There should be expectations and boundaries. There should be a financial plan discussed. Once that has been established, it should be less room for error. Trust God to bless his finances. Know that God is the ultimate source. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Luke‬ ‭6:38‬ ‭

Your husband should have a prayer life , since he is the priest of your household. He needs to have conversations with God in order to make wise decisions for your household. Therefore, I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. Mark 11:24