Cocoon After Dark

Send us Fan MailLights, Courage, Action: Lee Rose's Directorial OdysseyLee Rose: In-the-Face Storytelling, The Truth About Jane, and Refusing to DisappearHost Quincy interviews writer-director-producer Lee Rose about her career and approach to storytelling, highlighting The Truth About Jane as a project that enabled parent-child conversations and drew intense reactions, including death threats, a White House screening, and a fight to dedicate the film to Matthew Shepard. Rose traces her path from theater and production work to writing and producing TV movies, learning ruthless editing from Stockard Channing, and making her directorial debut with The Color of Courage, a civil-rights story she pushed to greenlight with Linda Hamilton’s support. She discusses being raised by a Black housekeeper, sexism in directing versus being gay, the shrinking pipeline for new diverse directors post-COVID/strikes, and advice to persist through shorts, grants, festivals, and DGA mentoring. Rose also reflects on coming out later in life, separating work from news, and currently writing a novel about generations of women and slavery.00:00 A Rebel Builds Her Own Table01:08 Welcome to Cocoon After Dark01:25 Rapid Fire and The Truth About Jane02:52 From Theater to TV Sets04:06 Learning to Let Words Go07:19 Becoming a Ruthless Editor09:14 Directorial Debut The Color of Courage13:56 Raised by Johnny and Identity15:18 Women Gay and Power on Set17:01 Who Gets Hired Now19:29 Advice for New Directors21:24 When Representation Catches Up24:46 Writing for Everyone Strong Leads26:39 Origins Late Bloomer Lessons29:23 Chores and Tough Love30:39 Truth About Jane Fallout33:07 Culture Backlash Today34:18 Staying Focused Creatively35:28 Mentoring Women Filmmakers36:38 Two Ideas at Once37:59 Coming Out at 3841:21 Parents and Upbringing47:37 Exes and Adulthood49:52 Martinis and Quitting Smoking51:09 Cruise and FarewellSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIntersections of Voice and Identity: Discovering Jen ChengHost Quincy interviews Jen Cheng, poet laureate of West Hollywood, about voice, identity, community, and showing up authentically. After rapid-fire questions, Jen reads her poem “10,000 Butterflies,” written in 2023 for a Grand Performances opportunity, tracing family survival, war, displacement, and queer safety across Hong Kong, China, and Buenos Aires. Jen discusses her pronouns (“she/ke”) and how Cantonese lacks binary gendered pronouns, then explains Cantonese vs. Mandarin and efforts to suppress Cantonese. She describes writing in English while incorporating Cantonese pronunciation, teaching workshops through the West Hollywood Library and WeHo Arts Pride, and moderating a March 29 event with the Mazer Lesbian Archives honoring Eloise Klein Healy. Jen shares coping tools (listening to Maya Angelou and James Baldwin), performance-anxiety techniques, a short rainbow meditation, and closes by reading “Still I Stand,” plus where to find her classes and links.00:00 Meet Jen Cheng01:10 Rapid Fire Warmup01:59 Poem 10000 Butterflies06:56 Pronouns and Language08:23 Cantonese vs Mandarin10:48 Writing and Roots14:07 Identity Shapes Art17:14 Creative Breakthroughs20:30 Finding Your Voice23:37 Poet Laureate Life27:33 Teaching and Queer Joy31:46 Stage Fright Tools35:50 Stress and PTSD Tools36:40 Grandma Confidence Story39:15 Grief and Spirit Guide39:53 Visibility on National Stage43:55 Coming Out and Pride47:27 Proudest Personal Growth50:00 Guided Rainbow Meditation54:30 Chakras and Creativity Blocks57:59 Courage Creativity Belonging59:11 Closing Poem and Where to FindSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

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Send us Fan MailIn a solo episode of Cocoon After Dark, Quincy Tessaverne argues that many queer people build beautiful lives yet could lose everything in a crisis because the system defaults to bloodline, not love, when paperwork is missing or outdated. She urges listeners to structure “queer wealth” with intention: review beneficiary designations yearly, title property correctly, and create written co-ownership agreements.Quincy explains how powers of attorney, medical proxies, and advance directives decide who can manage money, speak to doctors, and honor end-of-life wishes—otherwise next of kin may overrule partners and chosen family. The episode also explores queer caregiving pressures with aging parents, the need for boundaries and paid support, and planning for one’s own care. Finally, it covers chosen-family inheritance, living trusts to avoid probate, and directing wealth to partners, friends, pets, or LGBTQ+ causes as a lasting act of authorship.For in-home support use queer owned Sheridan Care.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn part two of her interview with coach Dr. Lorri Sulpizio, Quincy and Lorri discuss “growing up” in relationships by slowing down, prioritizing self-understanding over labels, and avoiding measuring love by speed rather than safety. They explore midlife women leaving long heterosexual marriages for relationships with women, the intensity of lesbian relationships, outness mismatches, and how fear and attachment wounds can drive conflict, red-flag blindness, and choosing partners who soothe old pain. Lorri describes her couples and one-on-one coaching approach, emphasizing emotional regulation, psychological safety, advocacy, conflict repair, and practical tactics like talking side-by-side or on walks. The episode also includes a first sponsor spot for Sheridan In-Home Care, an LGBT-founded provider serving Greater LA and the Coachella Valley, and ends with reflections on representation, Instagram-based lesbian relationship content, and modeling healthy relationships for kids.00:00 Part Two Setup01:26 Sponsor Break02:22 Media Queerbait Talk03:47 Midlife Coming Out06:20 Labels Versus Self07:37 Coaching And Outness10:31 Outness Conflict Repair14:18 Relationship Lessons16:20 Spotting Red Flags19:19 Repair Without Shame20:59 Attachment Wounds27:37 Excitement Versus Safety28:52 Premarital Skills Gap31:11 Childhood Patterns Repeat32:34 Couples Coaching Method36:06 Modeling For Kids38:07 Repair After Hurt38:28 Blending Families Later40:29 Intentional Role Blending42:35 Family Meetings Not Balance48:59 Holding Without Control52:49 Side By Side Conflict55:39 Hiking And Connection59:12 Devices And Disconnection01:01:05 Instagram And Representation01:07:18 Final Reflections And ThanksFind Lorri here:https://www.lorrisulpizio.com/https://www.instagram.com/lorrisulpizio/Sheridan In-Home Care:https://www.sheridancare.com/310.204.1187https://www.instagram.com/sheridancare/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailQuincy sits down with leadership educator and former women’s college basketball coach Lorri Sulpizio for the first of a two-part conversation focused on “the fire”: what it costs to speak up when silence would be easier. Lorri—director of the Conscious Leadership Academy at the University of San Diego, founder/coach at LorriSulpizio.com, a queer mother of four, and a self-described leadership disruptor—shares how her leadership lens was forged through athletics and public consequence. She recounts growing up in conservative, Catholic family in Poway (San Diego), recognizing her sexuality early, and becoming an outspoken athlete attuned to gender inequity. Lorri describes how advocating for Title IX equity and refusing to stay quiet as a successful community college coach led to her being fired while pregnant and publicly outed, and how she chose to pursue a wrongful termination case despite warnings it could be long, grueling, and could end her coaching career. She details the emotional and physical experience of the trial, the pain of being publicly attacked, the surprise of who did and didn’t show up in support, and the importance of not anchoring to outcomes while telling the truth. The episode covers her landmark jury win in a community college Title IX case, her brief return to coaching at another two-year college until that program was cut, and how she ultimately shifted her PhD focus toward women’s voice and power in leadership. Lorri also discusses motherhood, identity beyond roles, asking for help, the pressure and burnout culture in youth sports, toxic coaching, fueling and recovery for young athletes, and how she and her ex-wife co-parent their four children after a divorce they frame as not “broken” or “failed.” The conversation closes with reflections on women’s leadership in sports organizations, and the Quincy ends by emphasizing the lingering personal cost—and necessary wholeness—of telling the truth in small-town systems.00:00 Meet Lorri Sulpizio: Leadership, Voice & the Fire We’re Starting With02:02 Warm-Up: Who Are You When No One Needs You? (Goofy, Musical, Competitive)03:36 Motherhood & What’s Next: Kids’ Ages, Empty-Nest Energy, New Creative Goals04:52 Growing Up Queer & Athletic in Conservative, Catholic San Diego06:36 Sports vs. Arts: Specialization, Choosing One Path, and What Kids Lose09:32 Finding Your Voice (and the Risk): Early Lessons in Gender Inequity11:45 What’s Changed in Girls’ Sports: Visibility, Gender Norms, and Progress Since Then13:32 The Firing: How Lorri Got Into Coaching, Coming Out, and Pushing Title IX21:04 The Lawsuit & Jury Trial: Telling the Truth, Pain on the Stand, and the Verdict24:54 Aftermath & Holding It Together: Support Systems, Asking for Help, and Mom Burnout33:16 Small Luxuries & the ‘Sliding Doors’ Question: Any Regrets Speaking Up?34:22 Leaving the Team Without Leaving the Players: Supporting Student-Athletes After the Fallout36:16 Program Canceled Again: Walking Away from Coaching and Shifting to Women’s Leadership37:35 Life After Divorce: Co-Parenting, New Partners, and Redefining ‘Family’38:52 Still an Athlete: From Basketball to Pickleball—and Retiring After Broken Ribs40:16 Team Pressure vs Solo Sports: Why Some Athletes Thrive Alone42:45 Parenting Athletes: Standards, Process Over Outcomes, and Dealing with Toxic Coaches48:06 The Youth Sports Machine: Overtraining, Club Tryouts, and Kids Burning Out55:57 Changing the System: What Coaches and Schools Can Do Differently59:49 Coaching the Coaches: Building Healthier Team Cultures (and a Future Course)01:01:16 Final Take: Women’s LeadersSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this intimate episode of Cocoon After Dark, Quincy  interviews Kymn Goldstein and Angela Brinskele, the dedicated custodians of the June L. Mazer Lesbian Archives. The conversation delves into the essence of preserving LGBTQ+ history, emphasizing the unique struggles and triumphs of the lesbian community. Despite technical and environmental challenges, the discussion remains rich and evocative, highlighting the significance of archiving artifacts from feminist history and lesbian culture. They explore how the archives capture voices and stories often overlooked, from activist athletes to concealed photographic moments. The effort to collect and maintain an authentic representation of diverse lesbian lives is underscored, revealing the power of written records, photographs, and oral histories in capturing ephemeral yet pivotal moments. Amid personal anecdotes and declarations of love for their work, Kim and Angela illuminate their vision for the archives' future—a reflection not just of inclusion, but of authoritative cultural creation and preservation.The Archives are located at: 626 Robertson Ave, West Hollywood. 310.659.2478. Call ahead to make a viewing appointment to see the vast collections of lesbian lives and feminist work from all over the country.  Insta: https://www.instagram.com/direct/t/106294824095985/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn a heartfelt and profound conversation with Quincy, Jen Torres, the Puerto Rican lesbian founder of Simply Lead, shares her journey of fighting for authenticity in the face of cultural and professional erasure. Joined by her partner Eboné, Jen delves into the struggles and triumphs of creating a space where everyone can thrive. Through personal anecdotes that range from the oppressive realities faced by BIPOC and LGBTQ individuals to the nourishment found in delicious foods and music, Jen highlights the importance of dismantling harmful norms and fostering environments where true selves can shine. The discussion encapsulates themes of identity, leadership, grief, and the power of coming home to oneself.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simplyleadllc/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jen-m-torres-166004116/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailNavigating Justice: A Queer Attorney's Journey with Alexis JamesJoin host Quincy from the Cocoon After Dark podcast as she interviews Alexis James, a queer attorney with a rich background in law and education. In this thought-provoking episode, Alexis opens up about her journey through the legal system, the personal toll of combating systemic injustice, and the challenges of maintaining hope and integrity in a detached world. Discover heartfelt stories of family law cases, reflections on the current socio-political climate, and the transformative power of community. Tune in for an inspiring conversation packed with insights, resilience, and the fight for justice.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:43 Weekend Highlights and Personal Interests03:19 Realizations About the Legal System06:47 Navigating Law School Challenges07:52 Changes in the Queer Community12:45 The Harsh Realities of Practicing Law20:15 Pivoting Careers and Finding New Passions23:39 Reflections on Current Social Issues27:53 Pride Events and Safety Concerns33:14 Experiencing Pride Events34:46 Safety Concerns in America35:55 Personal Reflections on Safety37:46 Losing Friends Over Politics40:48 The Class War and Social Issues46:32 The Power of Love and Relationships49:15 Meeting My Wife56:01 Coping Mechanisms and Hobbies01:00:12 Final Thoughts and FarewellInsta: https://www.instagram.com/thisisprideandpractice/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailCarlneesha Robinson: Building Community & Breaking BoundariesIn this episode, Quincy, sits down with Carlneeha Robinson, an Air Force tech sergeant and proud queer black content creator. Carlneesha shares her journey of balancing a high-pressure military career with a vibrant online presence, emphasizing humor, honesty, and authenticity. She opens up about her personal milestones, the joy of community-building, and the search for intentional love. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on visibility, resistance, and the courage to choose yourself, all wrapped up with candid anecdotes and future aspirations!00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:42 Finding Love and Intentional Relationships02:08 Building an Online Community05:54 Navigating Identity and Public Perception09:20 Military Service and Personal Journey12:33 Discovering Sexuality and Personal Experiences18:14 Balancing Online Presence and Military Life21:16 Exploring Power Dynamics in Relationships21:54 Height Preferences and Dating22:33 Navigating Queerness in the Military23:46 Military Dating Rules and DEI Changes26:48 Life as an Optometry Assistant in the Military29:32 Balancing Military Life and Social Media38:19 Future Aspirations and Personal Growthinstagram.com/carlneeshaSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when a single swipe rewrites your entire future? Olivia and Kelly didn't just fall in love-they leapt headfirst, marrying only months after meeting online and choosing to share their story with the world.In this conversation, we delve beyond social media fame and the age-gap curiosity to uncover the private truths and what it means to carry love in public, as well as how two women are reshaping what queer relationships look like.This isn't just about a viral couple. It's about risk, resilience, and the radical act of loving out loud.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailWelcome back to Cocoon After Dark! Season two launches with reflections on the impact of sharing personal stories and the importance of community, resonating across 380 cities in seven countries. Host Quincy discusses the theme of 'starting deeper' in 2026, emphasizing growth, alignment, and genuine connections. Quincy also addresses the challenges of navigating friendships amid political divides and the unexpected friendships gained through the podcast. The episode delves into personal growth, parental experiences, and the transformative power of love. Listeners are encouraged to reach out for support and explore Quincy’s consulting venture, Dreamy Cocoon Sleep, aimed at bringing stability and peace to busy households. Stay tuned for more engaging stories and connections.00:00 Welcome to Season Two!01:52 Reflecting on Last Year02:28 Embracing Growth in 202603:41 Navigating Friendships and Politics06:31 Building New Connections07:40 Parenting in Modern Times08:47 Finding Love Again11:53 Encouragement and Support13:02 Introducing Tree Me Cocoon Sleep14:24 Closing RemarksDreamy Cocoon Sleep Co. WebsiteSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this final episode of season one, we sit down with Stephen Cheung, President and CEO of the Los Angeles County Economic Development Corporation, for a conversation about power, responsibility, and the lives shaped in between.We talk about what LA28 represents—not just as a global moment, but as a real opportunity for LGBTQ-owned businesses to finally be seen, supported, and included in meaningful ways. Stephen shares how access, procurement, and long-term opportunity can either open doors or quietly close them, especially in a city as vast and complex as Los Angeles.We also step away from policy and into the personal: what it means to build a life as a gay man in public leadership, how hiking with his husband around the world keeps him grounded, and his very human vision of one day retiring surrounded by dogs, nature, and a little more quiet.This is a conversation about leadership with heart — and what it means to hold power with care.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this engaging episode of Cocoon After Dark, we welcome Kathy Barron, a witty and resilient writer, editor, and the driving force behind 'Women Who Sarcast' and 'Women Who Podcast.' Together, we delve into Kathy's journey through humor and sarcasm as tools of survival and connection in a world that often misunderstands both. From her early days of adventure and sports to her impactful contributions through magazine and podcasting, Kathy shares the layers of humor, heart, and defiance. We also touch on the power of storytelling, the challenges faced by independent women podcasters, and the importance of community and resilience in today's political climate. Tune in to discover how complexity and wit can be a profound form of grace.00:00 Introduction to Cocoon After Dark00:17 Meet Kathy Baron: The Woman Behind the Wit01:12 Kathy's Journey: From New York to Podcasting04:11 The Role of Sarcasm in Kathy's Life09:47 The Birth of the Magazine13:11 Challenges and Triumphs in Podcasting24:01 Supporting the Next Generation28:34 Reflecting on Childhood and Parental Influence29:27 Visibility and Representation in Schools33:57 Challenges and Support for the Trans Community42:47 Podcasting and Community Building44:43 Women Who Podcast Magazine49:45 Future of Podcasting and Collaboration53:21 Concluding Thoughts and ReflectionsInsta: https://www.instagram.com/womenwhopodcastmagazine/and: https://www.instagram.com/womenwhosarcast/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of 'Cocoon,' we sit down with Joy Matthews, a black queer health educator and volunteer coordinator at Together for Mental Wellbeing in the UK. Joy shares their journey of navigating complex relationships with their family, overcoming trauma, and redefining their mental health. They discuss the importance of community care, empathy, and a holistic approach to mental wellbeing. Joy reflects on their identity, experiences of dysmorphia, and the importance of staying true to oneself amidst societal pressures. Join us for an enlightening conversation about resilience, self-discovery, and the transformative power of care.00:00 Introduction to Joy Matthews01:34 Joy's Relationship with Parents02:12 Overcoming Childhood Trauma03:37 Navigating Mental Health and Identity05:29 Reconnecting with Family11:12 Stereotypes and Self-Discovery14:08 Gender Identity and Body Image24:07 Challenges in the Mental Health System26:41 Daily Work and Mental Health Coaching33:43 Facing Fears and Social Conventions34:17 Understanding and Empathy in Trans Experiences34:54 Personal Reflections and Advice to Younger Self37:17 Family Acceptance and Personal Identity39:31 Spirituality and Mental Health Journey42:44 Embracing Opportunities and Personal Growth54:07 Navigating Relationships and Social Perceptions59:29 Closing Thoughts and Final ReflectionsSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this compelling podcast episode, the host, recording from a cabana in Hawaii, dives into an intimate conversation with Keala Kenley, a trailblazing surfer who defied stereotypes and broke barriers in the world of professional surfing. Keala recounts her childhood challenges of being perceived as different, her struggle with gender norms, and her relentless pursuit to be accepted and respected in a male-dominated sport. The discussion explores her time on the professional tour, the immense pressure to conform to traditional feminine images, and her groundbreaking achievements, including pioneering big wave surfing for women. Despite facing significant setbacks, discrimination, and financial instability, Keala’s story is one of resilience, courage, and unwavering determination. This episode is a powerful testament to her legacy and an eye-opening narrative on the intersection of sports, identity, and cultural change.00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene01:09 Acknowledging Kayla's Impact02:19 Kayla's Early Life and Gender Identity05:07 Navigating Gender Expectations09:08 Discovering Surfing and Seeking Acceptance12:16 Struggles with Sexual Identity15:49 Life on the Pro Surfing Tour27:45 Coming Out and Living Authentically34:30 Self-Work and Healing35:16 Struggles with Bipolar Disorder35:33 Tour Challenges and Suicidal Ideation36:41 Support from Family37:31 Leaving the Tour and HBO Opportunity46:16 Transition to Free Surfing48:28 Financial Struggles and Industry Bias52:54 Breaking Barriers in Big Wave Surfing01:05:39 Recognition and Continued Challenges01:07:16 Final Thoughts and Call for JusticeSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailJoin us for a profound conversation with Eboné Bell, a pioneering voice in representing queer women and non-binary individuals. From founding Tag Magazine to breaking stereotypes in leadership, Eboné shares her journey of creating spaces of inclusivity and authenticity. Discover her personal stories, the impact of her work, and insights on allyship, belonging, and leading with empathy. Don't miss this engaging and inspiring discussion on the importance of representation and living authentically.00:00 Introduction to EA Bell01:34 Holiday Plans and Traditions04:42 Family Background and Upbringing08:08 College Experiences and Challenges12:55 The Power of Authenticity18:22 Creating Tag Magazine22:51 Reclaiming Personal Narrative26:35 Exploring Music and Leadership27:17 Challenging Leadership Norms29:57 Empathy and Social Awareness33:14 Travel Experiences and Cultural Insights39:31 Misconceptions and Identity45:10 Evolving Beliefs and Spirituality53:39 Future Aspirations and LegacyFind Eboné on Insta:https://www.instagram.com/ebone.bell/Webiste: https://www.ebonebell.com/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, Quincy, the host, reflects on the incredible journey of season one, sharing lessons learned about recording, editing, and deep, meaningful conversations. Expressing deep gratitude to listeners for their support and engagement, the host also sets the stage for the upcoming season with promises of even deeper connections and more vulnerable dialogues. Listeners are encouraged to contribute their ideas and stories to shape the future content. The episode closes with personal reflections on goals for the next year, the importance of showing up authentically, and a hopeful outlook for the future.00:00 Reflecting on an Incredible Season01:03 Gratitude and Acknowledgements02:17 Looking Ahead: Season Two Plans03:34 Personal Aspirations for the Future04:50 A Promise for the Next Year05:42 Final Thoughts and FarewellApply to be on the show at INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/cocoonafterdark/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this enriching episode, we dive deep with Whitni Miller from BDE Moves, exploring the intricate realms of desire, intimacy, and queerness. Whitni empowers women, queer folks, and anyone feeling out of sync to reclaim their erotic voice with presence rather than performance. Through candid conversations, discover how Whitni's personal and professional journeys have shaped their understanding of sexual health, legacies of trauma, and the importance of play in desire. Learn practical tips for fostering intimacy, from mirror games to maintaining eroticism in long-term relationships, and why understanding oneself is paramount to connecting with others. Ideal for those exploring their sexual identity, dealing with perimenopausal changes, or simply looking to deepen their relationship dynamics.00:00 Introduction and Guest Bio00:51 Diving into Kinks and Vulnerability02:50 Exploring Desire and Arousal04:08 Dating and Sexual Compatibility14:40 Understanding Queerness and Late Blooming22:27 Navigating Kink Spaces35:41 Intimacy and Playfulness in Relationships42:34 Exploring the Power of Intimacy43:13 Teaching Intimacy to Couples45:30 Addressing Sexual Trauma and Trust48:43 Porn Literacy and Sexual Education50:32 The Role of Sexual Intimacy Coordinators53:54 Encouraging Self-Pleasure and Masturbation01:04:26 Navigating Queer Relationships in Public01:11:52 The Importance of Stillness and Self-Connection01:16:14 Conclusion and Retreat InformationInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bde.moves/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailHot, Sassy, and Science-Backed: Unleashing Midlife Power with Kate WellsIn this fiery episode of 'Cocoon After Dark,' host Quincy gets candid with Kate Wells, hormone expert and co-founder of the audacious brand Parlor Games. Kate dives into the science and sass behind Silky Peach, a vaginal estriol cream designed to combat menopause symptoms. They explore the intricate relationship between hormonal changes and sex life, demystify bioidentical hormones, and share cheeky anecdotes about breaking medical taboos. From boosting libido to tackling incontinence, this episode is a no-holds-barred celebration of female empowerment and sexuality in midlife.00:00 Introduction to Cocoon After Dark00:55 Kate Wells on Menopause and Relationships04:05 Building a Business Rooted in Vagina Sass and Science09:44 The Sexy, Sassy Sisterhood Community11:47 Transformative Stories and Product Impact25:29 Understanding Bioidentical Hormones34:24 Understanding Estriol Absorption34:48 Using Estriol Cream in Different Ways35:35 Estrogen in Face Creams37:56 Menopause and Healthcare Challenges41:09 The Benefits of DHEA Cream46:22 Progesterone and Its Importance49:11 Chaos Calmer: Anti-Anxiety Cream54:26 Reclaiming Vitality and Health01:00:49 Final Thoughts and ResourcesLINKS:Silky Peach: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/SPCMASTER.htmlVibrant Third: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/Vibrant-Third.htmlRebounce Cream: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/ReBounce.htmlChaos Tamer: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/Chaos-Calmer.htmlMore Wow: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/MoreWOW.htmlLast but NOT least the LUBE: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/BNL.htmlSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we sit down with Kayla Nielsen, a world-renowned yoga teacher, podcaster, and survivor of domestic violence. Kayla shares her powerful story of reclaiming her body and life as she navigates through trauma, love, and healing. Married to Alex, Kayla speaks about their journey together, from meeting in Nicaragua to building a life founded on love and safety. The discussion delves deep into topics like the aftermath of domestic violence, the importance of self-trust, and the transformative power of queer love. Learn how Kayla turned her pain into purpose and how yoga played a pivotal role in her healing process.00:00 Introduction to Kayla Nielsen01:01 Meeting Alex: A Love Story Begins07:03 Building a Life Together17:37 Navigating Infertility and Surrogacy21:16 Surviving Domestic Violence27:02 Navigating Unexpected Love27:46 Coping with Trauma and Addiction30:35 Legal Battles and Re-traumatization33:49 Support Systems in Domestic Violence39:59 Healing Through Yoga and Meditation44:08 Living and Traveling Abroad48:04 Meditation and Self-Healing Practices53:10 Teaching Yoga and Addressing Trauma54:13 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsKayla's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaylalanielsen/Cocoon After Dark Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cocoonafterdark/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailJoin us on this episode of 'Cocoon After Dark' as we dive into the multifaceted life of Michelle Flamer-Powell. Michelle shares her journey through queer motherhood, corporate leadership, and spirituality while adding her unique humor and vulnerability. She reveals insights about deep conversations being her 'kink,' navigating through heartbreak, and finding solace in spiritual practices such as astrology and IFS therapy. Michelle also touches on her co-hosting role in the 'Live Out Loud' podcast, her experiences with dating, and the challenges of living authentically. This candid and enlightening conversation goes beyond the surface, offering raw and real-life lessons.00:00 Introduction to Michelle Flamer-Powell01:16 Fun and Vulnerable Questions02:48 Deep Conversations and Personal Insights06:51 Coming Out and Personal History13:34 Podcasting and Spirituality19:49 Therapy and Personal Growth23:29 Camp Memories and Parenting Reflections32:30 Volunteering and Future Plans33:47 Podcast Rituals and Human Design34:48 Exploring Human Design Types35:21 Parenting with Human Design38:18 Embracing Authenticity and Boundaries40:11 Political Frustrations and Social Media47:52 Navigating Dating and Astrology54:55 Funny and Awkward Dating Stories01:04:28 Concluding Thoughts and Future PlansSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailOut Vote: Empowering LGBTQIA+ Youth Towards Civic Engagement🌈 From a simple selfie to sparking a movement—join Isaac & Ranen of Out Vote HQ as they revolutionize civic engagement! 🔥In this episode, the host interviews Isaac James and Rainin Miao, co-founders of Out Vote, a queer-led movement aimed at reinvigorating civic engagement among Gen Z LGBTQIA+ individuals. They discuss their inspiration, stemming from their time in Washington D.C., and the importance of political participation beyond national elections. They emphasize the ongoing challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community and the need for systemic change through grassroots efforts. The conversation covers their fellowship program, their strategies for fostering community engagement, and the vital role of joy and resilience in their activism. They also highlight their funding needs and their vision for a healed democracy where marginalized voices are heard and valued.00:00 Introduction and Apology for Audio Issues01:08 Meet the Guests: Isaac James and Rain Meow02:00 The Vision Behind Out Vote03:04 The Journey to Founding Out Vote04:46 Challenges and Motivations08:38 Building a Youth-Led Movement16:16 Engaging High School Students in Civic Activities21:13 Managing Burnout and Funding26:46 Creating Joy and Safety in Activism31:58 Biggest Wins and Future Vision34:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughtshttps://www.outvotehq.org/https://www.instagram.com/outvotehq/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this emotional episode of Cocoon After Dark, host Quincy discusses the deep and often hidden impacts of dating the wrong people when you have children. She shares personal stories of her two past relationships with unhealed individuals and how these relationships affected her youngest daughter. The episode delves into the long-term emotional effects on children who experience instability and unpredictability in their home environments. Quincy introduces the 'Five Rs'—Reflect, Recognize, Reassess, Repair, and Rebuild—as strategies to protect children and ensure a nurturing, stable environment. Ending on a note of hope and healing, she emphasizes the importance of choosing peace and safety over companionship for the well-being of both parent and child.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Cocoon After Dark, the host is joined by Elise Braunschweiger, founder of Queer Conscious Connections, a matchmaking and coaching service for the LGBTQ community. They discuss the challenges of dating beyond heteronormative scripts, focusing on identity, timing, safety, and the value of being seen in one’s truth. Elise shares insights on creating intentional, grounded connections for lesbians and queer individuals. The conversation covers various topics such as generational differences in labels like 'lesbian' and 'queer,' the impact of COVID-19 on dating behaviors, the role of bars and events versus apps in queer dating culture, and the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals in smaller towns. Personal anecdotes, considerations for dating readiness, and a success story from Elise's matchmaking experience underscore the potential for healing and finding meaningful relationships at any age.Elise Braunschweiger is the Founder & CEO of Queer Conscious Connections, a matchmaking and date coaching agency that specializes in services for the LGBTQIA+ community. As a lesbian herself, and after several years working in management for an award-winning, international matchmaking firm, Elise saw a desperate need for dating services that were created by and for queer people. QCC aims to help anyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or relationship status, achieve a more enriching and satisfying love life - and, hopefully, enjoy the journey along the way. Queer Conscious Connections offers personalized 1:1 date coaching and bespoke matchmaking services. As a matchmaking agency, QCC is constantly seeking commitment-ready daters who might be open to being considered as a match for their clients (at no cost). If this sounds like you, we’d love to have you join our database to be considered on an ongoing basis for free introductions.Insta: https://www.instagram.com/yourdatingcopilot/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan Mail🌈 Discover a new level of beauty empowerment with Misty Marie! Dive into her expert insights on Great Lengths extensions, her non-gender conforming identity, and the spicy details of her latest venture, 'No Tulips.' Catch it all on Cocoon After Dark! 💥🎧 #Podcast #InclusiveBeauty #EntrepreneurshipEmail:[email protected] Insta: @themistymarieBusiness Insta: @no.tulipsSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan Mail🌈 Episode 2 of our "UnF@&kable With" series is here! 🎙️ Dive into the stories of resilience and strength among queer youth, as we explore minority stress and how one affirming person can make all the difference. Listen now and be inspired! Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailFormer trial lawyer turned visionary founder Justin Ayars, JD is reimagining what healthcare can feel like through EqualityMD--a digital ecosystem rooted in trust, inclusion, and belonging. In this episode, we explore what happens when healing moves beyond insurance and paperwork and becomes something profoundly human. It's not about the body. It's about identity. About LGBTQ+ lives, it's about veterans, and marginalized communities being believed, seen, and understood. It's about rewriting what care means when the system has never fully cared for you.  Because the most powerful kind of healing starts where judgment ends. For queer hearts, BiPoc brilliance, trans courage,  and every body that's ever felt othered in the medical space- this one's for you.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailWe meet Jade Azevedo tonight- skater, dreamer, mosh pit lover. They have just enough punk to flip the script. They once broke their back in the mosh pit at a Bikini Kill concert. Loves their mom's cooking, and yes, they did get into a huge brawl... at a bar... wearing fishnets.Their queer skate crew is their heartbeat, chosen family, and the foundation for a radical vision: a skate shop where you pay what you can afford, so the next generation of skaters isn't left out on the asphalt and builds community over competition.This is a story about rebellion, resilience, and the queer grit of global streets. Welcome to Cocoon After Dark.You can find Jade skateboarding across LA in skateparks and on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/sapphicsskatela/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan Mail💎 Unfuckable with.Not louder. Not harder. Not untouchable.It’s the moment you refuse to hand your peace over to someone else’s chaos.It’s resilience with a queer heartbeat — the softness that survives, the wholeness that doesn’t shatter.Minority stress may press heavy, but our chosen families, our stories, our refusal to absorb shame? That’s the medicine. That’s what makes us unfuckable with.🎙️ Episode 1 of our new mini-series is live: What Does “Unfuckable With” Really Mean?We’re redefining strength for queer lives — less armor, more aliveness.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when your life shatters in one breath—when betrayal, addiction, and loss collide? Nikki LaCroce calls 2021 her "personal armageddon", and in this episode, she opens up about leaving a decade-long abusive relationship, losing her mother at the peak of the pandemic, and finding true love, and how those two griefs and one brief moment of curiosity changed her forever.From those ashes, Nikki built a new voice and a new mission-helping others claim their stories and step into their truth through her work at her company NikkiLaCroce.com. Together, we talk about resilience, intimacy after loss, and the scars that follow even the tenderest moments. The conversation is raw, and soulful, and proof what what breaks us can also remake us.https://nikkilacroce.com/services/Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Living Out Loud Podcast, Quincy Tessaverne shares her powerful story, The Woman Grief Made: The Day a College Tour Went Very Badly. With raw honesty, she opens up about losing her son, Josh, and how grief has forever reshaped her life as a mother, woman, and entrepreneur. Listeners will hear a vulnerable account of how one ordinary day shattered her world, and how she continues to carry love, resilience, and hope alongside unimaginable loss. This conversation speaks to anyone navigating grief, healing after tragedy, or searching for strength through motherhood, resilience, and love that endures beyond loThis episode was recorded by Michele Flamer for the Living Out Loud Podcast, where real stories are shared with raw honesty and heart.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailWe're Just Besties...Making a Baby (no Really)What happens when your gay best friend is your soulmate, your straight best friend is your baby mama, and both of you have significant others? Apparently...you make a whole damn family.In this episode, Caroline and Darais drop into the cocoon to talk about what it's like to build a modern family without the mess of sex but with all of the spreadsheets, love, and flying sperm across the country. We cover coparenting while partnered, redefining intimacy (without the awkward cuddle talk), and why this baby is basically the makeover we all want.Come for the baby talk, stay for the group chat dynamics, and leave questioning why YOU didn't have a baby with your best friend, too.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailFrom the flashing lights of Making the Band to the intimate corners of reinvention, Pillow Prince (Jared Garner) has lived many lives: go-go dancer, reality TV star, queer artist, and now the voice behind the new album Slept On.In this episode, Pillow opens up about:✨ His experience on being scouted for Netflix’s Making the Band✨ The shedding of old skins — from Jared to Pillow Prince✨ The tension between performance, pleasure, and power (yes, we talk about top and bottom energy and even pegging)✨ Why Mariah Carey and Beyoncé continue to shape his artistry✨ What he wants you to feel when you press play on Slept OnFollow Pillow Prince on Instagram @pillowprinceee and stream Slept On now on Spotify and Apple Music.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailIn this 20-minute episode, I delve into beauty standards through the lens of a Gen X Lesbian. From growing up without much SPF and getting my face fried to the point of blistering to navigating age in midlife. It's about turning back the clock, but also about honoring the beauty of my skin going forward, by eating right, taking vitamins, and, of course, wearing sun protection. I share why SPF is non-negotiable for keeping spots at bay, why laser treatments can be a game changer, and why redefining beauty as confidence and care is more liberating than any trend.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailWesley Grey Hartmann lives at the intersection of intellect, embodiment, and unapologetic authenticity. By day, he is a trusted mortgage advisor and math geek helping people secure their futures with clarity and confidence. By night, he is a go-go dancer, costume designer, and production company called Wes Hollywood in Los Angeles. He is a luminous reminder that queer-joy and self-expression deserve as much time as spreadsheets. His world isn't one of balancing two worlds-it's about integrating them, and inviting others to do the same.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailMenopause isn't just an ending, it's a turning of the page. In this solo episode, I share and perhaps overshare the humor and heartache of being a Gen X lesbian moving through hot flashes, raising a teen, and still daring to find love. These are the layers of my book called life-messy, radiant, and real-that makes this chapter worth celebrating.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailHey, it's Quincy- Welcome to Cocoon After Dark. Tonight it's just you and me in a solo episode where I'm getting raw about jealousy.From friendship to lovers- jealousy has haunted so many corners of my life. Sometimes it was my own, sometimes it was directed at me, but it always left an indelible mark.LGBTQ love and jealousy are as real as it is in heterosexual relationships, and that's why I'm talking about why freedom is the sexiest loyalty there is and how that trust deepens intimacy and desire.In this episode, I dive into the moments where jealousy became a problem, the way it quietly erodes trust, corrodes intimacy, and why I believe freedom and trust are the biggest and sexiest antidotes we have. This one's vulnerable, it's unfiltered, and it might just make you rethink how you hold- or let go of_ the people you love and truly live in the moment.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailBeneath the shimmer of indigo, past the polite masks and surface sparkle, lives Quincy's unseen skin-the layer you can't touch but can't ignore. This podcast isn't about small talk; it's about slipping into the raw frequencies where perception, Scorpio fire, and restless curiosity collide. With Scorpio magnetism and ENFP heat, this podcast seduces chaos into clarity, leaving you flushed with truth you can't quite name- but can't stop feeling.Support the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan MailThis is Season 1 of Cocoon After Dark- where we get real, deep, and sexy about the LGBTQ voices you want to hear. We talk about body image, sex positivity, age gap relationships, queer identity, sperm donation, money, jealousy, and more. Come join us on this exciting adventure over the next few months of season one. You won't want to miss an episodeSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark