Cosmic Mistress

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Cosmic Mistress

Hosted by Somatic Healer, Intimacy Coach and Wellness RN, Amanda Frederick, Cosmic Mistress explores the path of becoming a powerful creator in love and life through deepening the intimacy of our relationships; with self, others and the divine.Amanda will interview powerful creators that share wisdom and hold keys to helping you unlock your own innate abilities to create a life that feels like heaven on earth. Tune in to each episode to explore topics like healing, sexuality, manifestation and spirituality.

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    Embodying the Erotic Flame: Play, Astrology, and Sisterhood with Saint

    In this high-vibrational episode of the Cosmic Mistress podcast, host Amanda Frederick sits down with her dear friend Saint, a somatic sexologist and master play facilitator. They explore how "playing" with our sensations can bridge the gap between our emotions and our sexuality. From Saint’s recent workshops at Envision to a deep dive into her astrological birth chart, this conversation is a roadmap for women looking to move from the shadow of the "martyr" into the light of their own authority. They also tackle the complexities of sisterhood, de-armoring through vulnerability, and the liberation found in getting naked—both emotionally and physically—with your community.Main Topics CoveredThe Erotic Flame & Holy Mess: Saint breaks down her workshops on activating life force energy and using competitive childhood games (like "lightsabers") to bring adults back into presence and play.Astrology Deep Dive: Amanda reads Saint’s birth chart, focusing on her First House Capricorn Stellium and what it means to step away from the "martyr" South Node in Cancer to become a self-governing authority.Boundaries as Joy: How Saint pivoted from event production for music festivals into coaching by learning that "if it doesn't bring me pleasure, why am I doing it?"Sisterhood Wounding: A candid discussion on overcoming jealousy, competition, and the fear of being "too much" for other women.The Power of Witnessing: Why the simple act of a sister saying "Thank you for sharing" is more effective than trying to "fix" her problems.De-armoring Through Nakedness: Why getting naked in nature or water (hot tubs, lakes) with other women acts as a powerful mechanism for reclaiming body sovereignty and shedding shame.The Good Girl Paradox: Exploring the somatic ritual of wanting to be called a "good girl" while refusing to actually be one, and how to hold boundaries that feel integrated.Heaven on Earth: Saint's vision of a world where people share their needs in real-time, lacing desire with fire and releasing suffering through existential kink.Key TakeawaysPlay is a Safety Mechanism: Just like pleasure, play tells your nervous system it is safe to experience challenging emotions. Mom’s especially need more play to reconnect with their inner child.Martyrdom vs. Authority: If you find yourself showing up out of obligation, you are leaking energy. True authority is mastering your craft and your identity so you can give from a place of genuine pleasure.Witnessing > Fixing: In sisterhood, you don't have to carry your friend's weight. You just have to witness it. This removes the burden from both parties and creates instant connection.Boundaries Allow for More Love: People actually like you more when you tell them exactly what you need. It removes the guesswork and allows them to support you successfully.Water is Feminine Medicine: Immersing yourself in water with other women helps set the guard down and allows for deep, collective vulnerability.Connect with SaintInstagram: @saintsomaticFree Ritual: DM Saint on Instagram to receive the "Good Girl Paradox" 90-minute somatic ritual for free.Offerings: One-on-one sessions, mentorship, bodywork, and upcoming group containers.Connect with Amanda FrederickInstagram: @thecosmicmistressWebsite: The Cosmic Mistress HomepageAre you ready to stop being the martyr and start being the authority of your own desire? Follow, Like, and Share this episode with a sister who needs to hear this. Leave a review to help us keep this cauldron of magic brewing!

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    Primal Reiki and Gemstone Alchemy: Reclaiming Your Magic with Talyn Fiore

    In this illuminating episode of the Cosmic Mistress podcast, host Amanda Frederick sits down with Talyn Fiore, a Reiki Master and high-vibrational jewelry expert. Talyn shares her raw and winding journey from Las Vegas to Nashville, including how a devastating breakup and a career in acting eventually led her to her true calling as a fierce, primal healer. They explore the science of high-frequency gemstones, the transformative "Master" level of Reiki, and why being authentic—even when it's messy—is the ultimate spiritual currency.Main Topics CoveredReiki as a Crystalline Web: Talyn explains how Reiki serves as the foundational grounding for other modalities like breathwork, light language, and inner child work.Gemstone Frequency & Toolkit: A deep dive into the Kate King jewelry line. Talyn discusses how different stones act as spiritual "concierges" to shift your energy for money, confidence, or grief.The Path of Resistance: Talyn shares her initially reluctant transition from pursuing an acting career in LA to fully embracing her role as a healer.Neutrality over "Toxic Positivity": A powerful discussion on why getting to complete neutrality is often more productive and accessible than forcing "self-love" during hard times.The Master Attunement "Tornado": What happens when you step into the Reiki Master frequency and how it acts as a massive life reckoning to align you with your soul's purpose.Primal Reiki & Creative Expression: How Talyn moved beyond the "silent and gentle" framework of traditional Reiki to include singing, humming, and primal movement.Light Language & The Concussion Reboot: Talyn reveals how a six-month "unplugging" due to a concussion cleared her channel and brought forth a new, "Italian-flared" light language.Healing the Father Wound: A vulnerable share about how subconscious patterns lead us to date people with the same energetic imprint as our parents until we heal the original wound.Key TakeawaysThe Solution Before the Problem: The universe often brings tools or mentors into your life before a major crisis, providing you with the bandwidth you'll need when the challenge arrives.Neutrality is the Quantum Void: When you take the negative or positive charge away from a situation, you enter a space of spaciousness where clarity and new outcomes become possible.Your Medicine Has an Accent: While modalities are passed down, your individual expression of that healing will be unique. True power comes when you allow the energy to "move you" rather than just checking boxes.Exposure is Liberation: Sharing your darkest, most "embarrassing" secrets removes the power of shame and creates a stage for your inner child to be seen and honored.The In-Person Primal Shift: Moving from virtual to in-person sessions can reveal a fiercer, more primal energy in your work, driven by physical resonance and environmental frequency.Connect with Talyn FioreWebsite: talynfiore.comInstagram: @talynfioreYouTube: Talyn Fiore (Listen to the chapters of her book for free!)Jewelry: Reach out for a Gemstone Frequency Consultation.Connect with Amanda FrederickInstagram: @thecosmicmistressWebsite: The Cosmic Mistress HomepageAre you ready to stop overthinking and start feeling your own "unique medicine"? Follow, Like, and Share this episode with someone who needs a reminder that they were always "magic." Your support helps us keep the high-vibrational dialogue flowing!

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    Sexual Vitality and Shadow Alchemy: Men’s Embodiment with John Paul

    In this raw and deeply transparent episode of the Cosmic Mistress podcast, host Amanda Frederick sits down with men's embodiment coach John Paul (JP). John Paul shares his transformative journey from surviving childhood sexual trauma and navigating a loss of identity in college sports to mastering Eastern wisdom technologies like Sexual Kung Fu. They dive into the mechanics of semen retention, the importance of "radical honesty" in relationship, and how JP alchemized his own darkest shadows—including his experience with infidelity—into a powerful program for men looking to reclaim their life force and purpose.Main Topics CoveredThe Catalyst of Trauma: John Paul opens up about the sexual abuse he experienced at 13 and how it initially dimmed his light, eventually leading him to yoga and holistic healing as a way to reclaim his body.The Loss of Athletic Identity: Transitioning from the high-stakes world of college baseball to construction, and how "investigating" Eastern wisdom provided a bridge to his true calling.Semen Retention & Sexual Vitality: JP explains his first "high" from energetic practices in the back of a car and how the Tao of Sexology changed his relationship with pleasure and sensation.Sunning the Perineum: A look at John Paul’s "COVID rebellion"—nomadic living, connecting with nature, and the physiological benefits of sunning energy centers (testicles and perineum).The Shame Core in Men: Identifying the common roots of "not enoughness" in men, primarily surrounding sexuality, pornography-based comparison, and financial status.Unconditional Self-Therapy: A breakdown of JP's simple morning practice for communicating with internal "parts" (mind, heart, gut) to receive intuitive wisdom.Shadow Alchemy & Infidelity: John Paul bravely discusses his own experience with cheating, the subsequent backend grief, and why he chose to share his mistakes publicly to support other men in their own healing.The "Cultivated Man" Vision: Insights into his group program that combines Sexual Kung Fu with deep sea-diving into the subconscious shadow.Key TakeawaysSexual Energy is Creative Power: Sexual energy isn't just for sex; it is the raw "fuel" for passion, purpose, and aliveness in every area of life.Celebrate and Challenge: Men support each other best by giving "flowers" (recognition) and calling each other forward into higher versions of themselves through radical accountability.Your Body is an Energy Map: Building a relationship with your internal organs (spleen, pancreas, thyroid) and major energy centers (Dantiens) allows you to hold a greater charge of life force.Radical Honesty is Liberation: Closing off a need or a fear is a form of self-abandonment. Being truthful, even when it’s terrifying, allows others to actually meet and love the real you.Pain into Power: Sustainable change often comes through an initiation of deep grief and remorse. Alchemizing these "warrior marks" makes you a more capable vessel for service.Connect with John PaulWebsite: JPKExperience.comInstagram: @jpkexperiencePodcast: The Cultivated Man PodcastConnect with Amanda FrederickInstagram: @thecosmicmistressWebsite: The Cosmic Mistress HomepageAre you ready to stop "snorkeling" and start deep-sea diving into your own potential? Follow, Like, and Share this episode with a brother who needs to hear this message. Leave a review to help us continue breaking the "matrix" and building the tribe!

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    Aggressive Blessings and Cosmic Melodies: Navigating the Edge of Mastery with Carter "Amel" Hansen

    Aggressive Blessings and Cosmic Melodies: Navigating the Edge of Mastery with Carter "Amel" HansenWhat happens when your life literally catches fire? For DJ and producer Carter Hansen (Amel), it was the "aggressive blessing" he needed to stop playing it safe. In this episode, Amanda and Carter explore the grit behind the glamour of the EDM world.From his days as a tech-rebellious Waldorf student to collaborating with Afrojack, David Guetta, and Martin Garrix, Carter discusses the discipline required to turn "imposter syndrome" into "international touring." We also get an exclusive look at his upcoming album, Journey of a Soul, a genre-bending project that brings his violin-playing roots into the modern club scene.Main Topics Covered The Power of Waldorf: Nurturing creativity without the box of traditional structure. The House Fire Initiation: Losing everything to gain a clear mission. Mentorship with Afrojack: The ballsy email that changed his career and the reality of the "waiting period." Creative Sovereignty: Using the "War of Art" philosophy to stay disciplined when inspiration fades. The Evolution of Amel: Blending electronic music with country-folk and live violin.Connect with Carter "Amel" Hansen Spotify: Amel Instagram: @amelmusic_official YouTube: Amel MusicConnect with Amanda Frederick Instagram: @thecosmicmistress Website: Amanda Frederick’s SchoolLove the show? If Carter’s story inspired you to trust your gut, please follow, like, and share this episode! Your support helps us keep the cosmic conversation going.

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    Street Kid to Spirit Guide: Reclaiming Your Power with Elizabeth Marie

    Cosmic Mistress: Street Kid to Spirit GuideIn this high-vibe, no-nonsense episode, Amanda Frederick welcomes a "hip-hop baddie," psychic medium, and the visionary owner of Cosmic Tea Holistic Shop. This story is one of radical resilience, moving from a childhood of severe trauma and homelessness to becoming one of Denver’s most sought-after intuitive healers.This conversation strips away the "love and light" facade of modern spirituality, replacing it with gritty truth about protecting your energy, healing the "mother wound," and understanding the "timestamp" on our soul contracts. Whether you’re a "baby empath" looking for boundaries or a seasoned seeker ready to face your shadows, this blunt, heart-centered wisdom offers a masterclass in reclaiming your power.Main Topics Covered The Making of a Seer: A journey from reading minds at age four to navigating life as a "street kid" with profound gifts. Sobriety & Leveling Up: How sobriety in 2011 unlocked psychic predictions that have led to over 500 proven outcomes. Auric Field Maintenance: A deep dive into how grief and sorrow create "holes" in our energy that allow parasites and entities to enter. The Soulmate Myth: Understanding the difference between karmic lessons, soulmates, and the "cost" of the Twin Flame journey. Business & Resilience: Opening a shop during a global pandemic and handling "haters" with the spirit of a light warrior.Connect with Amanda Frederick Instagram: @thecosmicmistress Website: Amanda Frederick’s SchoolLove the show? If this episode sparked a shift in your awareness, please follow, like, and share it with someone who needs to hear this message today. Your support helps us expand the reach of these cosmic conversations!

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    Sovereign Souls and Soul Contracts: Navigating the Hero’s Journey with Yehuda HaLevi

    Sovereign Souls and Soul Contracts: Navigating the Hero’s Journey with Yehuda HaLeviIn this soul-stirring episode, Amanda Frederick sits down with 23-year-old podcast host and studio director Yehuda HaLevi to explore the profound intersection of ancient wisdom and modern living. From the mystical Jewish concept of Tikun to the active co-creation of our personal "Hero’s Journey," this conversation serves as a roadmap for anyone feeling drained by their current path or seeking a deeper connection to their divine mission. Whether you are navigating a career shift, healing family dynamics, or looking to move from "receiving to get" toward "receiving to give," this episode offers the grounded perspective needed to bridge the gap between your human experience and your soul's calling.Main Topics Covered The Power of Upbringing: How Yehuda’s healer parents influenced his commitment to being "good" rather than just "successful." Soul Contracts & Family: Understanding the Hebrew concept of Tikun (rectification) and why our families are often our greatest mirrors for growth. The "Drain" vs. Resistance: How to discern when an environment is depleting your life force versus when it is simply challenging you to evolve. Four States of Giving and Receiving: A deep dive into the Jewish framework of moving from egoic taking to becoming a vessel for divine blessing. The Hero’s Journey for Men: Why the concepts of surrender and divine guidance can be particularly challenging for the masculine ego. The "Contraction" Before Expansion: Comparing the creative process and spiritual growth to the visceral experience of birth and labor. Ancestry and Belonging: The importance of "rewriting the blank page" of your history while standing on the shoulders of the giants who came before you.Key Takeaways Surrender as an Active Choice: Surrender isn't about passive resignation; it is a "co-authored" state with the Divine where you remain an active participant in your story. The Vessel Mentality: The highest state of being is "receiving for the sake of giving." When you ask for what you need to fulfill your mission, it isn't selfish—it's necessary. Transcending the Ego Lens: By viewing triggers and difficult people as "decreed" tools for your learning, you can meet them with acceptance rather than victimhood.Connect with Yehuda HaLevi Instagram: @shelllsandshadows TikTok: @shellssandshadows Spotify: Shells and Shadows YouTube: Watch on YouTube Apple Podcasts: Listen on AppleConnect with Amanda Frederick Instagram: @thecosmicmistress Website: Amanda Frederick’s SchoolLove the show? If this episode sparked a shift in your awareness, please follow, like, and share it with someone who needs to hear this message today. Your support helps us expand the reach of these cosmic conversations!

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    Beyond "Feeling Better": Second-Order Change in Relationships with David Lieberman

    In this insightful episode of the Cosmic Mistress podcast, host Amanda Frederick sits down with David Lieberman, a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Lewisville, Colorado. David specializes in "second-order change"—a transformational approach that goes beyond temporary behavioral fixes to create lasting, structural shifts in how individuals relate to one another. They explore the limits of traditional "tips and tricks," the profound potential of betrayal as a cry for help, and why true authenticity often requires the risk of not belonging.Main Topics Covered1. First-Order vs. Second-Order Change: Understanding the difference between behavioral "Band-Aids" (feeling better) and transformational change (doing things differently).2. The Three Clients in the Room: David’s unique perspective that in couples therapy, there are three distinct clients: Partner A, Partner B, and the relationship itself.3. Betrayal as a "Flare": A compassionate look at infidelity as a cry for help and a roadmap for how couples can rebuild integrity and self-esteem after a breach of trust.4. Experiential Therapy & Metaphors: How "modeling" emotions through sculptures and using metaphors (like "knitting" instead of pornography use) can depersonalize conflict and open space for creativity.5. Consensual Non-Monogamy: Navigating the "inculturated shoulds" of monogamy and exploring open relationship dynamics with authenticity.6. The Agitation Before the Breakthrough: Why things often feel harder and more "shitty" right before a major psychological transformation occurs.7. Modeling Emotionality for Children: The importance of showing up as a "perfectly imperfect" human for your kids, including the power of crying without apologizing for your sadness.8. The "Double Bind" of Authenticity: Choosing between being inauthentic to belong or being authentic at the risk of losing connection.Key Takeaways1. You Can't "Unsee" the Bike: Once you achieve second-order change (like learning to ride a bike), you cannot return to your previous state. The relationship must evolve to meet this new level of awareness.2. Stop Outsourcing Vulnerability: Whether it’s through alcohol or emotional labor performed by a partner, outsourcing prevents you from connecting with your own internal power.3. Conflict is Communication: 90% of communication is unspoken. High-quality therapy interprets the affect and unspoken cues to find the "thicker story" underneath.4. Trust is a Dilemma: Choosing to trust is an inflection point. Once you decide to lean in, you cannot easily retreat to the safety of skepticism without losing part of yourself.5. Self-Integrity is the Foundation: When you are in alignment with your own ethics and passions, you can handle a partner's "no" without losing your sense of self.Connect with David LiebermanWebsite: www.PeopleNotProblems.comFree Event: "Why Just Feeling Better Isn't Enough"Date: April 14thTime: 6:00 PM – 7:00 PMLocation: Boulder Main Library (Boulder Creek Room)Services: Couples Therapy, Intensive Immersions, and Suicide Prevention individual work.Connect with the Host (Amanda Frederick)Instagram: @thecosmicmistressWebsite: The Cosmic Mistress HomepageAre you ready to take off the training wheels? Follow, Like, and Share this episode with someone who is tired of "tips and tricks" and ready for real transformation. Leave a review to help us bring more expert voices to your ears!

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    Standing in Your Light: Shamanic Energy and Ancestral Healing with Ariela Halevi

    In this deeply mystical episode of the Cosmic Mistress podcast, host Amanda Frederick welcomes Ariela Halevi, an intuitive guide who weaves together the ancient wisdom of Jewish mysticism (Kabbalah) and shamanic energy medicine. Ariela shares her profound journey from a "disruptive" child to a spiritual leader, exploring how personal tragedies—including the loss of her mother and her son’s health crisis—served as the "dark night of the soul" that forged her current path. They dive into the "dirt work" of ancestral healing, the power of somatic retrieval, and why true receiving requires us to clear the "clogs" of our past.Main Topics CoveredThe Four Elements Pathway: Ariela explains how she uses Earth (shadow/ancestry), Water (somatic/body), Air (intuition), and Fire (divine purpose) to guide women back to their soul story.Kabbalah as "Receiving": Understanding the Hebrew root of Kabbalah and how spiritual "clogs" prevent us from hearing the guidance of the Divine.Returning to Mystic Roots: Ariela’s discovery of her rabbinical lineage and how she reclaimed the word "shaman" by grounding it in her own Jewish ancestry.The "Dirt Work" of Ancestry: A deep dive into how DNA stores the stories of our ancestors and why we must heal both "wise and well" and "unwell" lineages.Quantum Belonging: A beautiful discussion on how connecting to all timelines of your ancestry creates a deeper sense of wholeness and safety.Healing Through Loss: How to find purpose after devastating grief, such as the loss of a child, by becoming the "vehicle" through which their soul’s purpose continues.Somatic Integration over Spiritual Bypassing: Why "sobbing on the floor" or "dancing like crazy" is often the necessary medicine that the mind tries to resist.Walking Prayer: Ariela shares her daily rituals—from the Modeh Ani prayer to finding magic in the mundane—to turn every day into a ceremony.Key TakeawaysShadows are Just Stories: Your wounds and traumas are not your identity; they are the "dirt" from which your gifts grow.The Ancestral Mirror: We all carry the energy of both the victim and the perpetrator within our lineage. Reclaiming these parts through "soul retrieval" allows for true forgiveness and integration.Safety is the Foundation: Real transformation doesn't happen by "blowing the doors open." It happens at a sustainably slow pace where the nervous system feels safe enough to let go.The "Kink in the Hose": Suppressing difficult emotions doesn't just hide the pain—it blocks your access to ecstasy, joy, and physical health.As Above, So Below: Our purpose is to bring the mystical insights gathered from the Air and Fire elements back down into the Earth of our physical bodies.Connect with Ariela HaleviWebsite: arielahalevi.comInstagram: @arielahaleviThe Soul's Way Training: An 8-month mentorship incubator (Opening for September).Upcoming Project: Kabbalistic Oracle Cards.Connect with Amanda FrederickInstagram: @thecosmicmistressWebsite: The Cosmic Mistress HomepageAre you ready to uncover the truth of why you're here? Follow, Like, and Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stand in her light. Leave a review to help our community grow and bring more magic into the everyday!

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    Resonant Truths: Finding Your Voice with Marni Mae

    "I don’t want my voice and my presence to be disruptive." For years, Marni Mae lived by this belief, silencing her inner song to fit into a corporate world that looked perfect on paper but felt like a "soul misalignment." From the heartbreak of discovery in an unfaithful engagement to the high-pressure hallways of Google, Marni’s journey is a powerful testament to what happens when we stop self-abandoning and start listening to our own frequency.In this episode, Marni shares the incredible moment she was called to sing during a shamanic birth in Ecuador—reigniting a gift she had buried since childhood—and how she now uses voice activation to help others unlock their unique "keys." If you’ve ever felt like a chameleon playing a role just to belong, this conversation is your invitation to stop dimming your light and start contributing your unique note to the universal song.Main Topics Covered• The Path of Misalignment: Marni’s transition from high-stakes business consulting and Google to the world of mysticism and frequency.• The Wound of Belonging: How childhood rejection from singing groups led to a decade-long pattern of self-abandonment and "playing the role."• Heartbreak as Heart Opening: Navigating the devastating end of an engagement and how the "truth setting you free" often feels like a physical relief.• The "Paper-Perfect" Life: Why being miserable in a "dream job" is often a sign of soul misalignment rather than environmental failure.• The Ecuador Activation: The life-changing story of living with a shamanic midwife and being forced to use her voice to heal a woman in labor.• The Science of Sound: Understanding how everything is light, sound, and frequency, and how music transforms our physical reality.• Universe as "One Song": Exploring the concept that we are all instruments in a universal orchestra with a unique "why" to contribute.Key Takeaways• Self-Abandonment is a Choice: We often choose the discomfort of the "known" over the relief of the "unknown" because of an instinctual fear of not belonging.• The Power of Attunement: You don’t need to change your environment if the issue is internal; however, surrounding yourself with people who "know themselves" helps you attune to a higher frequency.• Risking is Living: To truly love and truly live, you must be willing to risk the identity you built for safety in exchange for your authentic self.• Your Voice is a Tool for Transformation: Music and voice aren't about "sounding good" or perfection—they are about heart, intention, and the ability to shift the frequency of a space or person.• Leadership is Going First: Being your truest self is an act of leadership that gives others permission to do the same.Episode Chapters0:00 - 2:01 Introduction to Marni Mae: A Journey from Consulting to Mysticism2:01 - 3:55 The Silence of Childhood: Rejection and the Need to Belong3:55 - 5:13 The Corporate Dream: Vanderbilt, Consulting, and Playing a Role5:13 - 7:51 The Prophecy of Betrayal: Facing Truth in a Broken Engagement7:51 - 10:19 Reclaiming Power: Heart Opening After Total Self-Abandonment10:19 - 12:00 The Golden Handcuffs: Facing Soul Misalignment at Google12:00 - 14:52 The Risk of the Unknown: Choosing Relief Over Familiar Discomfort14:52 - 17:01 Leaving the "Ideal" Life: Seeking Internal Peace Over Paper Success17:01 - 20:25 The Shamanic Midwife: A Life-Changing Invitation to Ecuador20:25 - 28:15 The Birth of a Voice: Sound Frequency and the Universal SongConnect with Marni MaeWebsite: marnimae.comConnect with the Host (Amanda)Instagram: @thecosmicmistressWebsite & Courses: Amanda Frederick’s SchoolEnjoyed this episode? Please Follow, Like, and Share the Cosmic Mistress podcast! Your support helps us bring more mystical conversations and transformative guests to your ears.

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    Cosmic Conversations: Light Stone on Soul Contracts, Sacred Sexuality, and Rising from Rock Bottom

    What happens when your entire identity—your career, company, and future—is wiped out in a single weekend? This week, Amanda sits down with Light Stone, human excellence coach, fantasy author, and former D&D stage performer, to explore his journey through public cancel culture, depression, and personal rebirth.In a raw, unfiltered conversation, they dive into relational “events” vs. “vectors,” sacred sexuality, and how to reframe trauma as fuel for authentic living. This episode is for anyone navigating identity crises, heartbreak, or seeking conscious approaches to love and self-growth.Listen to learn how to transform life’s darkest moments into a beacon of light.Main Topics Covered:Identity Annihilation: Losing a gaming company, $300k in contracts, and facing public shaming and death threats overnight.Holding the Will to Live: How his daughter and therapist helped him navigate depression and suicidal ideation.From Events to Vectors: Understanding temporary experiences versus growth-oriented relationships.Sacred Sexuality & Consent: Aligning on the spiritual vs. recreational meaning of sex through radical communication.The Vetting Process: Key questions to ensure integrity, alignment, and safety before intimacy.Soul Contracts & The "One": Exploring pre-ordained agreements, past-life connections, and divine counterparts.Transmuting Trauma: Reframing childhood wounds, divorce, and public shaming as resources for joy and stability.The Power of Self-Love: Using symbolic rituals, like replacing black jade with clear quartz, to embody self-respect and healing.Key Takeaways:Stabilize Before You Soar: Focus first on basic needs—finances, home, and self-care—before jumping back into relationships.Intimacy Requires Radical Communication: Ask the hard questions to ensure clarity and alignment with partners.Choose Your Vector: Identify whether a relationship is an “event” or a “vector” to avoid misaligned dynamics.Trauma as Fuel: Life’s deepest wounds are resources to build resilience, boundaries, and self-love.Vows Over Oaths: Make personal vows to guide your behavior, especially around sexuality and relationships, to ensure integrity.Connect with Light Stone:Coaching: https://stoneprotocol.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/lightstone.mediaYouTube: https://youtube.com/@lightstonemediaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lightstone.mediaGuest/referrals: DM “STONE” to @LightStone.MediaIf this conversation resonated with you, follow, like, and share the Cosmic Mistress podcast. Subscribe so you never miss a transformative episode!Connect with the Host, Amanda Frederick:Instagram: instagram.com/thecosmicmistressWebsite: amanda-frederick-s-school.teachable.comYoutube: www.youtube.com/@CosmicMistress

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    Energetics, Intuition & the School of Inner Knowing with Tanin Matin

    In this expansive and deeply embodied conversation, Amanda sits down with Tanin Matin for a flowing dialogue on energetics, intuition, nervous system capacity, trauma, embodiment, and conscious creation.Tanin shares her lived experience as a multi-dimensional being, energetic master, and spiritual teacher, offering grounded wisdom on how intuition is not something we “think” our way into—but something we remember through presence, safety, and awareness. Together, they explore how trauma, nervous system dysregulation, and over-identification with the mind can distort intuition, and how cultivating embodied awareness opens the door to clarity, discernment, and aligned creation.This episode weaves together somatics, spiritual intelligence, intuition, and play—reminding listeners that growth doesn’t require perfection, and that joy, curiosity, and humanity are essential parts of the awakening path.🌿 Key Topics CoveredExpanded awareness and intuitive perceptionTrauma, dissociation, and reconnecting to the bodyThe nervous system as the gateway to intuitionPresence vs. projection in intuitive guidanceEnergetic mastery and awareness-based healingDiscernment between ego, emotion, and intuitionCommunity, safety, and relational healingPeace, desire, and creating from alignmentTanin Matin is Trauma Healer and Spiritual Mentor. Tanin helps high performers heal survial patterns, trauma, and multi-dimentional karmas to embody their full power. She runs a spiritual healing certification program called, The Energetic Revolution and will be launching her new creation: The School of Intuition in the Spring of 2026.Connect with Tanin MatinInstagram: @IamtaninmatinConnect with Amanda FrederickInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecosmicmistress/Website: https://amanda-frederick-s-school.teachable.com/p/homepageThis episode is an invitation to slow down, come back into the body, and trust the intelligence moving through you. When intuition is grounded in safety, awareness, and presence, creation becomes less forceful—and far more magical.

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    Heaven on Earth, the Void, and the Courage to Become with Ben Duffy

    Welcome to the Cosmic Mistress Podcast with host Amanda Frederick. Lets begin with a a deep, expansive conversation on desire, creation, responsibility, and what it truly means to become a powerful creator. Joined by therapist, liberation guide, and podcast host Ben Duffy, this episode explores the raw, human, and spiritual dimensions of awakening—moving through suffering, surrender, ego death, and radical self-acceptance.This is not a conversation about bypassing pain or “positive thinking,” but about turning toward darkness, understanding desire at its root, and reclaiming authorship over one’s inner and outer worlds. Together, Amanda and Ben examine how authenticity, community, and a collective myth of oneness may be the doorway to a new heaven on earth.Key Topics CoveredHeaven on earth as a personal, co-created experienceSuffering, resistance, and the power of surrenderEgo death, rebirth, and radical self-acceptanceDesire, shadow, and unconscious patternsEmptiness, the void, and infinite possibilityAuthenticity beyond a fixed selfIndividualism vs. collective consciousness and communityCreating in service to spirit rather than egoBen Duffy is a Psychotherapist, Liberation Guide, Model, and Podcaster on the Spiritualfxckboy Podcast. Ben blends Western Psychology and Eastern wisdom traditions to help people “remodel the architecture of their experience.”Connect with Ben DuffyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/spiritualfxckboy/Website: https://benjamenduffy.com/Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1x21xpBXsJsszJiViBGhuT?si=9c005c83caea42aeConnect with Amanda FrederickInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecosmicmistress/Website: https://amanda-frederick-s-school.teachable.com/p/homepageThis episode invites listeners to release the need to be “fixed,” to trust the intelligence of pain, and to step into authorship of their inner world. When we stop resisting life and start relating to it consciously, creation becomes playful, meaningful, and deeply human.Welcome to Cosmic Mistress—where desire meets devotion, and heaven begins within.

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Hosted by Somatic Healer, Intimacy Coach and Wellness RN, Amanda Frederick, Cosmic Mistress explores the path of becoming a powerful creator in love and life through deepening the intimacy of our relationships; with self, others and the divine.Amanda will interview powerful creators that share wisdom and hold keys to helping you unlock your own innate abilities to create a life that feels like heaven on earth. Tune in to each episode to explore topics like healing, sexuality, manifestation and spirituality.

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Amanda Frederick

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