Asking For a Friend

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Asking For a Friend

A show for people within high control groups who have genuine questions about the tenets they are being asked to accept on faith. This is a safe forum to respectfully investigate people's questions about the group they are in.

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    S02 E07 Is Armageddon Here Yet?

    To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity. Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S02 E06 The Blood Doctrine 180

    Also of note, is that blood transfusions have long been allowed for Jehovahs Witnesses in Bulgaria, because the country would have removed its charitable status. https://jz.help/en/jehovahs-witnesses-and-the-bulgaria-agreement/  To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity. Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S02 E05 The Law V Watchtower

    We discuss the bravery of Barbara Anderson in exposing the knowledge of Child Sexual Abuse right at the heart of Watchtower Headquarters. https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/politics/2002/09/29/couple-is-shunned-for-airing-allegations/30ba8024-9af0-4b89-9ea8-ff902ebe0849/ Bill Bowen's website Silent Lambs www.silentlambs.org  To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity. Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S02 E04 A Numbers Game

    To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S02 E03 Christmas and Cognitive Dissonance

     'When Prophecy Fails: a Social and Psychological Study of a Modern Group That Predicted the Destruction of the World' by Leon Festinger, Henry Riecken, Stanley Schachter To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records 

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    S02 E02 Apostate Member of the Governing Body

    'Crisis of Conscience' by Ray Franz: https://friendsofraymondfranz.com/'The Four Presidents of the Watchtower' by Edmond C Gruss: https://books.google.co.uk/books?id=jFDi5jGsyV8C&printsec=frontcover&redir_esc=y#v=onepage&q&f=falsePodcast interview with Howie Routledge Tran on JW Community Podcast: https://jwcommunitypodcast.simplecast.com/episodes/1a18bbfa$100 million lawsuit against WTS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSeEfJJPSBoLink to court document: https://storage.courtlistener.com/recap/gov.uscourts.nysd.652986/gov.uscourts.nysd.652986.1.0.pdfTo contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records  

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    S02 E01 Lets Talk About Sex (baby)

    To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S01E13 Additional Education

    Resources supporting this podcast:Pew Research: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2016/10/11/how-income-varies-among-u-s-religious-groups/Religion Watch: https://www.religionwatch.com/jehovahs-witnesses-educational-and-professional-deficit/Educational Attainment by sex and religion in the United States: https://paa2019.populationassociation.org/uploads/190745Jehovahs Witnesses and Higher Education: https://jw.support/blog/2019/12/02/jehovahs-witnesses-and-higher-education/To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S01E12 Rutherford. Wine, Women and Hitler

    References: 'The Four Presidents of the Watchtower' by Edmond C Gruss. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Presidents-Watch-Society-Jehovahs-Witnesses/dp/1594671311Photo of Christmas celebration at Brooklyn Bethel: https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/zu71me/the_last_time_christmas_was_celebrated_at/Evidence of Nazi Flags at Rutherford's Berlin convention: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdJEvw9pdAcTo contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    Ozzy and the Sisters

    An entertaining discussion about the carts compared to the perils of olden day field service, the role of the sisters and their legendary cleaning and catering skills, and then Adam gives us a detailed run down of what the Thursday meeting used to be like before the format radically changed into its current iteration.To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    Stand Up the real Charles Russell

    Books used to research this episode:The Four Presidents of the Watchtower Society by Edmund Gruss https://www.amazon.co.uk/Presidents-Watch-Society-Jehovahs-Witnesses/dp/1594671311Webpages used in this episode:https://loc.getarchive.net/media/the-evening-prayerhttps://jwdivorces.bravehost.com/russell.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/1880ZionsWatchTowerTo contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    The Disgusting Thing that Causes Desolation

    Links to the articles and emails mentioned in the show are as follows:https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2001/oct/08/religion.worldhttps://www.theguardian.com/uk/2001/oct/15/religion.unitednationshttps://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/united-nations-association.phpPlease contact us on [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    The Real Reason

    Adam looks at why the elders arrangement has been changed recently to allow men as young as 21 to become elders in congregations of Jehovah's Witnesses.Stephanie discusses why the book study meeting held in peoples home was removed and the team speculate as to the reasons behind the change.Louise discusses the court case that preceded the literature changing from having a fixed price printed on the covers, to being offered to householders for 'free', albeit it with strong encouragement to make a donation.Please contact us on [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records 

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    From Faith to Love. Being a Gay Jehovah's Witness

    Please contact us on [email protected] We will respect your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    S1 E6 Government Inquiries

    The Irish Commission to Inquire into Child Abuse 2000: https://childabusecommission.ie/The Australian Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse 2012: https://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/Interview with Governing Body member, Geoffrey Jackson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erWV8YnTFtoInformation video about how to make an application for redress for Child Sexual abuse while in the Jehovah's Witnesses in Australia: https://saysorry.org/2024/02/19/jehovahs-witnesses-and-the-australian-national-redress-scheme/New Zealand Inquiry into Abuse in Care: https://www.abuseincare.org.nz/reports/whanaketia/preliminaries/recommendationsScottish Child Abuse Inquiry: https://www.childabuseinquiry.scot/England and Wales Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse (IICSA): https://www.iicsa.org.uk/UK Government proposals following IICSA: https://www.gov.uk/government/speeches/next-steps-to-tackle-child-sexual-exploitationIrish Scoping Inquiry into Historical Sexual Abuse in Schools run by Religious Orders: https://www.gov.ie/en/publication/42b7e-education-scoping-inquiry/#survivor-engagementMusic: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records 

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    Modern Slavery

    Please contact us on [email protected] We will respect  your anonymity.The links Lara referred to in the podcast are as follows: I was a Jehovah's Witness Forced Child Labourer facebook support group https://www.facebook.com/groups/901752817995187/The Say Sorry website https://saysorry.org/The Decult Conference New Zealand https://decult.net/The film 'Recovering from Religion with Music' by Banana Island Films https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJoOrhh6MSYUK House of Lords Inquiry into Modern Slavery https://committees.parliament.uk/committee/700/modern-slavery-act-2015-committee/news/203272/uks-response-to-modern-slavery-has-not-kept-up-with-the-advances-of-other-nations/The Lived Experience Human Trafficking Foundation https://www.humantraffickingfoundation.org/leapThe Survivors Alliance on Modern Slavery https://www.survivoralliance.org/anti-slavery-infoUK Anti Slavery Commissioner https://www.antislaverycommissioner.co.uk/Australian Anti Slavery Commissioner https://www.antislaverycommissioner.gov.au/contact-usAustralian Anti Slavery Hotline https://antislavery.org.au/free-legal-services/UN Special Rapporteur on Contemporary Forms of Slavery https://www.ohchr.org/en/special-procedures/sr-slaveryMusic: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records  

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    The Greater Number Cooling Off

    Adam and Louise discuss the figures in the 2024 Yearbook and what the trends show. There are some very interesting facts about the numbers of kingdom halls reducing, and the numbers pioneers in some countries, and how effective they are. Adam highlights how much of the worlds population lives in countries where Jehovah's Witnesses are banned and how this counters the narrative that every person will have a chance to convert before Armageddon.Adam has a little gem of information from the latest letter to congregations, that might have a huge implication for a future discussion around child labour, Child Labour laws and modern slavery as defined by the Modern Slavery Act 2015.We reference Paul Grundy's website, https://jwfacts.com/ and also https://avoidjw.org/ where you can get past issues of the Yearbook that are no longer available on the official JW website.To contact us please email: [email protected] We will respect  your anonymity.Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records 

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    What to do About Christmas

     Louise and Adam discuss how difficult navigating Christmas is when you are questioning, leaving or have just left Jehovah's Witnesses. They have some suggestions for navigating the guilt and awkwardness, picking and choosing the bits you like or doing something completely different. Adam reviews the history of Christmas within the Jehovah's Witnesses and how the doctrine has changed over time. We also find out what Adam did with his Advent Cheese.Adam discusses a recent Letter to Congregations regarding defibrillators.You can contact us at: [email protected] Your anonymity will be respected. We would love to hear any questions, comments or personal stories.Here is a link to the Elders Textbook Adam discusses in the show: https://avoidjw.org/manuals/elders-textbooks/Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    Is the Internet The Beginning of The End?

    You can contact us at: [email protected] Your anonymity will be respected. We would love to hear any questions, comments or personal stories.This week we referenced Paul Grundy's website www.jwfacts.com and www.avoidjw.org. We also recommended the book 'Crisis of Conscience' by Raymond Franz which can be purchased on Amazon https://www.amazon.co.uk/Crisis-Conscience-struggle-between-religion/dp/0999499211Music: 'You're Not Who You Say You Are' by Ancient Modesto, Written by Simon Endeacott, Produced by Ian David c Four Monkeys Records

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    Why Did the Music Change

    Music: You're Not Who You Say You Are by Ancient Modesto. Written by Simon Endeacott. Produced by Ian David. c Four Monkeys Records. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS2guNacFtoTestimony of Geoffrey Jackson, member of the Governing Body, to the Australian Royal Commission on Child Sexual Abuse: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eu6X1YU6YYIAuastralian Royal Commission, Case Study 29 Jehovah's Witnesses: https://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/case-studies/case-study-29-jehovahs-witnesses

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

A show for people within high control groups who have genuine questions about the tenets they are being asked to accept on faith. This is a safe forum to respectfully investigate people's questions about the group they are in.

HOSTED BY

Louise Harper, Adam Czarnobaj

Produced by Louise Harper

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