Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander

Do you know what you want for your life? Like actually know... not what you don't want but what you actually want? On today's episode we will dive into the importance of defining a compelling vision for your future and all the benefits that come with it. This may seem like a topic to basic to have an episode on but it is actually so important that there are coaching programs and workshops built completely around this one teaching point. I also could talk about it for quite a while because it is so fascinating but I'm going to stick to the basics and keep it short. So you can get maximum value in minimum time. Speaking of time if you are struggling as a prisoner to extremes and perfectionism wouldn't you like to get results faster? That is the benefit of a plan from someone who has gone through the problem and solved it before you! I overcame all-or-nothing thinking and put my most key insights into a free mini-course you can get today to collapse the time between your before and after. Get it at realcoachbruce.com To go even faster you can get the plan and a guide to hold you accountable and help you apply the insights in the text into your life. That is what I love to do! If you are interested in working with me lets talk! Book a free discovery call at realcoachbruce.com/sayyes and let's work together to change your life fast!

Do you constantly find yourself stuck in life’s extremes?   Either you have to fail or succeed.   It has to be perfect or it’s not worth it.   If you can’t be the best why wast your time?   This kind of mindset is known as all-or-nothing thinking and it has the capacity to not only ruin your business but you relationships and even your whole life.   On today’s episode of Authentic On Air we will be identifying some ways this mindset can show up in your business, why it is so dangerous and a couple of strategies for combating this mindset that you can implement today!   If you are listening to this and thinking this is totally me then I have something else for you! Go to realcoachbruce.com and get the All-or-nothing belief busting mini-course for free right now!   This 3-page document guides you through proven techniques that will allow you to start destroying this mindset today!   Please like and review this podcast on your favorite podcasting platform and leave a comment and subscribe if you are listening on Youtube.

Do you ever crave something radically different in your life but can’t quite nail it down? If so then strap in because this is the episode for you!   Every able minded person born into this world is given all kinds of different tools to navigate our time on this earthly plane. But too that are consistently given out to all of us be are the power to choose and the power to tell the truth.   These twin powers of honesty and decision may sound like the capability of the lamest superhero the 1950’s invented but I stand behind their potency.   In today’s episode you will learn how these simple tools can help you get everything you ever wanted in life and more.   Of course... if you are willing to commit to do a little work.   If you are willing to do just a little more work to get what you want then go to realcoachbruce.com and download the free mindset shifting mini-course that will move you powerfully out of all-or-nothing thinking and into a mindset that will end overwhelm, paralysis, and procrastination!  

Do you own or want to own a business but your ADHD has been a major roadblock for you to launch or scale? Then join along as coach Bruce shares his insights on overcoming the mindsets and obstacles often associated with ADHD to take your business to the next level. On episode 1 of season 3 we cover why ADHD is even a factor in overcoming disempowering mindsets.   For your free download of the mini course to destroy all-or-nothing thinking go to realcoachbruce.com  . You can get started overcoming this problematic mindset all on your own! Right now! Go! Get started!

Tonight will be the last episode of season 2 of my podcast Authentic On Air!   I’ll be taking a couple of weeks off after this to focus on pivoting my business and this podcast in a new direction.   Tonight’s episode will focus on the common struggles I met with while coaching ADHD parents and what I found that has brought on the pivot in my business.   As an adhd entrepreneur I have had plenty of struggle and I don’t want it to go to waste. So listen in to learn what I have learned and I bet you will find something that will help you out as well!   Listen live at 6pm et on Facebook and YouTube at @realcoachbruce   Available on all podcast platforms and YouTube at 7pm et.

On tonight’s episode I will be exploring the ways that being impatient has cost me across all the domains of my life and how I have managed to recover.   Also as has become customary I will catch those that are following up on my family’s odyssey of purpose and on where I sit currently across all 4 domains.   This will be an interesting topic so check it out today when I go live on Facebook or YouTube or when I post on tonight on YouTube and all major podcast platforms!   I am in a place right now where I am trying to impact as many ADHD parents as a possibly can because God has really just put it on my head to be of service.   So I want to give you an hour of my time completely free!   In that hour I will apply my training as a life coach to assess your  biggest obstacles and give you at least three strategies customized to provide immediate relief in your life. Free of cost or obligation.   Register for your free consultation now while my schedule still has openings! Free Consultation   I can’t wait to help you take back your life! See you soon!

Tonight on the Authentic On Air podcast I will be discussing the importance of thinking small for ADHD parents.   This applies in a few different ways and suggest mentalities that ADHD people aren’t necessarily familiar with.   My goal in life right now is to share the lessons in life that I have learned to help me stop sedating and running from my responsibilities as a spouse and a parent.   I spent so much time looking at the big picture over 20 years out that I had no idea what life was supposed to be to look like right now.   Plus we will cover some of the other powers of thinking small.   I am in a place right now where I am trying to impact as many ADHD parents as a possibly can because God has really just put it on my head to be of service.   So I want to give you an hour of my time completely free!   In that hour I will apply my training as a life coach to assess your  biggest obstacles and give you at least three strategies customized to provide immediate relief in your life. Free of cost or obligation.   Register for your free consultation now while my schedule still has openings! Register now   I can’t wait to help you take back your life! See you soon!

I want to talk about leadership. But not what it looks like when you do but instead what it looks like when you don’t.   I consider myself to be a leader. For myself. For my family. For my clients. For my following.   Am I always a good leader? No.   Here is the evidence that sometimes I flat out fail as a leader.   1. My wife is struggling to trust the process and have faith that we will find a place to live.   As my family’s spiritual leader I am supposed to clarify the vision and hold space for my family to find clarity and confidence in the vision through my leadership. Fail.   2. I have clients still living in the darkness of their lies and I am missing opportunities to collide with them through meaningful conversations because I haven’t done my due diligence.   I have a client who is hundreds of dollars behind on his coaching fees but because I wasn’t watching the backend of my automations I didn’t know. He is telling me weakly everything is trending well financially while he is declining on every payment. I can’t pay for him but I can hold him accountable and use it as a trigger for a truly honest conversation. But I have to be paying attention for that.   3. I want to build a social media movement guiding ADHD parents to mute their inner critic and trust their inner voice. Right now I can’t even get a conversation started with one follower, let alone tens of thousands.   The leader of a movement knows what to say to engage his followers in meaningful conversation and I am just not there as a leader yet.   I am not the leader I want to be! It sucks. But it is a fact.   Facts fuel solutions though. That is good news. I just defined 3 solid things I can actively start working on so I can increase my status as a leader.   That is how easy it is to grow when you tell the truth.   You admit what isn’t working.   You identify how you want it to work.   You take action to fix it.   What is something you are failing at that you want to fix right now?

On today’s episode of Authentic On Air “Our Impulsive Journey”, Coach Bruce provides an update on his journey, discussing his progress in his body, balance, business, and relationship with God.   He talks about the challenges he's faced, including health issues and the need to support his wife's healing and growth. He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for past actions and focusing on personal development.   Coach Bruce also shares his excitement and fear as he embarks on a new phase of his journey, leaving everything behind and rewriting the story of his family. He invites listeners to join him in uncovering their impulsive potential.   Takeaways   Taking responsibility for past actions and focusing on personal development is crucial for growth and improvement. Supporting and being a constant presence for a partner's healing and growth is essential in a relationship. Embracing fear and discomfort is a sign of growth and can lead to learning and self-discovery. Leaving behind everything known and rewriting one's story can be both exciting and terrifying. Uncovering one's impulsive potential and living impulsively can bring satisfaction and purpose to life.  

In this episode, Coach Bruce discusses the concept of impulsive faith and how it relates to his personal journey. He shares his struggles with feeling physically unwell and the challenges of maintaining a routine while on the move. Bruce also talks about the importance of trusting oneself and listening to the inner voice, as well as the role of faith in guiding one's actions. He emphasizes the need for balance between impulsivity and structure, and encourages ADHD parents to explore their own inner voice and live with power and potential.   Keywords: impulsive faith, personal journey, physical health, routine, trust oneself, inner voice, faith, balance, structure, ADHD parents, power, potential   Takeaways Impulsive faith is the idea of trusting oneself and listening to the inner voice. Maintaining physical health and a routine can be challenging while dealing with external stressors. Having faith in oneself is intertwined with having faith in a higher power. Finding balance between impulsivity and structure is important. ADHD parents can benefit from exploring their inner voice and living with power and potential.

On today’s episode of Authentic On Air the topic of worthiness is the focus and it is an intriguing exploration of where to look for your personal value.   Whether you see your value or not you have it.   When you see it you start to treat yourself like you are worth a shit. From there you can start to make decisions that drive you to your purpose.   Big takeaway: Know your worth and act accordingly.   Live by a code. Tell the truth about your situations and deal with what you can prove to be true.   Define a desired result and address the facts in a way that gets you the result you want.   If what you want is to stop letting life happen to you we should have a conversation.   At Impulsive we stop the guilt fear and shame conditioned into us and learn how to live by a code and deal in the currency of truth and the facts.   From there we teach you how to trust your impulses to guide you to a future of passion and purpose. www.impulsive.life/consult

If you are an ADHD adult it almost impossible to have a solid self-perception in this day and age. You were raised being told so much of what you naturally are is not ok.   Intense. Unfiltered. Impulsive. Emotional. Talkative. Awkward. Uncomfortable.   If you don’t feel like any of those things describe you try to remember the young version of you on the playground or the classroom being ostracized. Then try to shed the social norms that you have assimilated as preferred behavior and realize what is left is who you actually are.   The dissonance that is created between the core you and the one that is shown to the world today causes a lot of internal conflict that shows itself in some funky ways.   For me it was body dysmorphia and serial suppression to try and keep the depression and pain at bay. That started at a very young age. I just wanted to be a kid. But between my parents and the public school system I was told there was a specific type of kid I needed to be to be accepted in society.   In becoming that type I buried the real me deep inside until many years later and when I looked in the literal and metaphorical mirror it was always warped.   It showed parts of me as bigger than they were and others the reverse. Never could I just see myself for as I really was.   Long story short, do not make decisions based on how you feel about what you see in the warped mirror!   Live by a code. Tell the truth about your situations and deal with what you can prove to be true. Define a desired result and address the facts in a way that gets you the result you want. If what you want is to stop letting life happen to you we should have a conversation. At Impulsive we stop the guilt fear and shame conditioned into us and learn how to do just like I said before. Live by a code and deal in the currency of truth and the facts and from there teach you how to trust your impulses to guide you to a future of passion and purpose. www.impulsive.life/consult   If you like my content and the way I teach then you will love my webinar on the connect method. If you are an ADHD parent I can almost guarantee there is at least one important relationship that you are struggling to find deep engagement in. Whether it be with your spouse, your teenagers or pre-teens, your best friend or your father. The Connect Method teaches you how to find a deeper connection than you have ever known so you can Connect with who matters most. That is taught on Thursdays @ 3:30 pm central go to www.impulsive.life/connect to register right now!

Indecision has costs me so much over my life!   Years of deep engagement with my family.   Hundreds of thousands of dollars left on the table.   My fitness. A 400 lb bench press that I was just days away from.   Everything I have lost in this life has been from 1 of 2 things. Indecision and lies. More often than not they could be tied to the same root!   What decision are you putting off and what is it costing you?   For example if you are putting off the decision to do everything that it takes to reconnect with your spouse in a deep and meaningful way it is going to cost you… big.   But it doesn’t have to. Thursdays at 3:30pm central I will be teaching the Connect method to engage in dormant, distant, or estranged relationships with your closest loved ones.   Go to www.impulsive.life/connect to sign up for this free webinar and learn this method which can bring even the worst connections back from the dead. If love ever existed in a relationship there is a path back, you just have to make the decision to do what it takes.

**Episode Description:** In this enlightening episode of Authentic On Air, host Bruce Alexander welcomes Dr. Alondra Rogers, a dedicated social worker, autism consultant, author, and mother, for a profound conversation on neurodiversity, late diagnosis, and the journey of living and parenting within the autistic and ADHD spectrum. Dr. Rogers shares her personal and professional insights into the challenges and beauties of neurodivergence, highlighting the significance of self-awareness, acceptance, and the pursuit of authentic identity in a world that often misunderstands neurodiverse individuals.   **Key Takeaways:** 1. The Importance of Self-Identification: Dr. Rogers' story emphasizes the transformative power of understanding one's neurodivergence and advocating for oneself and one's family. 2. The Role of Professional Support: The discussion underscores the necessity of finding empathetic and knowledgeable support for navigating life as a neurodivergent individual or parent. 3. The Power of Community: Both guests advocate for the value of connecting with others who share similar experiences, reinforcing the importance of community in the journey toward self-acceptance.   **Resources:** - Dr. Alondra Rogers' Books: "Thriving Together" and "Meeting Myself in the Dark" - Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) - Neuroclastic - Embrace Autism   **Learn More About Coach Bruce:** Coach Bruce Alexander specializes in helping individuals, especially parents, embrace their authentic selves and manage the complexities of ADHD and autism in their families. With a focus on personal growth and community support, Bruce offers guidance and resources for navigating neurodiversity with grace and confidence. Consultation: www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/consultation   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Background 01:37 Late Diagnosis and Personal Experiences 06:53 Comparative Diagnosis and Self-Realization 09:18 Challenges in Getting a Diagnosis 13:34 The Complexity of Eye Contact and Masking 22:13 The Importance of Sharing Personal Experiences 26:07 Choosing a Career Path and Authenticity 29:01 The Challenge of Showing Up as Yourself 32:12 The Boundaries and Education of Therapy 37:09 Life Coaching and Holding Space 38:28 The Transformative Power of Therapy 39:28 Managing Emotional Investment in Therapy 42:14 Living a Neurodivergent Lifestyle 45:59 Trusting Your Inner Voice 46:24 The Reversion of Skills in Autism 50:17 Orienting to a New Reality 54:26 Empowerment through Training and ADHD 56:56 Understanding Autism Speaks 59:36 Finding Resources for ADHD and Autism 01:03:05 Curating Social Media Accounts 01:08:25 Respecting Children's Privacy on Social Media 01:10:15 Dr. Alondra Rogers' Work and Consultancy

    Summary In this episode, Coach Bruce opens up his journal and discusses random topics. He shares his experiences of being off medication and the challenges he faces in preparing for his podcast.   He explores the power of his own thoughts and beliefs, particularly around self-worth and body image. Bruce delves into the concept of expanding capacity and the importance of being true to oneself. He also discusses the impact of unconscious lies and the need to uncover internal truths. The episode concludes with a discussion on the future direction of the podcast.   Listen... I've been off of ADHD meds for over 2 weeks now and I have had full schedule.   So today I am going to cover 4-6 random topics from my personal digital conversations called the stack. There is a lot of really personal shit in there that I could possibly regret airing out but I'm feeling impulsive.   I am trying to be totally transparent with my audience anyways so let's just do it!   If you are interested in living a life so real that you could read your journal live and not have anything to hide than I can help you!   But you have to ask for help first! Go to http://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/assessment and take the ADHD Aimless Life assessment to get your Aimless Life Rating and free resources from me to start living your life on purpose!   Don't forget to like and comment on the video and follow me @AuthenticBruce on all platforms!   Takeaways Being off medication allows for more impulsivity and freedom to be oneself. Recognizing and challenging negative beliefs about self-worth and body image is crucial for personal growth. Expanding capacity in all areas of life leads to greater fulfillment and purpose. Uncovering unconscious lies and embracing truth is essential for personal transformation.

In this episode, Coach Bruce Alexander introduces a problem-solving technique and shares his personal journey of growth and learning. He emphasizes the importance of defining the problem and possibility, and delves deeper into the challenges and pain points associated with the problem. He also explores the concept of the pit, where one must confront and overcome obstacles. Finally, he discusses the importance of a compelling future and introduces the principles and path that will lead to transformation. In this conversation, Coach Bruce discusses the principles and mindset necessary for solving problems and making positive changes in life. He emphasizes the need for personal growth and the willingness to seek help and support. He also highlights the importance of changing mentality and perspective, taking the first step, and taking control of one's life. Bruce emphasizes the need to redefine success and meet one's own standards. He outlines a path to change, including a life inventory, defining core values and beliefs, setting clear destinations, and destroying limiting beliefs. The conversation concludes with the importance of unlocking the door to change.   Consultation: http://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/consultation   Takeaways Defining the problem and possibility is crucial for problem-solving. Confronting and understanding the challenges and pain points associated with the problem is necessary for growth. Overcoming obstacles in the pit is essential for transformation. A compelling future and clear principles provide stability and guidance on the path to transformation. Adopting the right mindset and principles is crucial for solving problems and making positive changes in life. Seeking help and support is not a sign of weakness, but a necessary step towards growth and success. Changing mentality and perspective is essential for overcoming obstacles and achieving goals. Taking the first step and being willing to do the work are key to making progress. Redefining success and meeting one's own standards is more important than conforming to societal expectations. Having a clear destination and setting specific goals is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment. Identifying and destroying limiting beliefs is necessary for unlocking the door to change.

Is Adderall my blessing and my curse? I can’t really feel. I can identify. I can define but I can’t capitalize on feelings as fuel if I don’t actually feel them. You will forget this again and again unless you live by a code. What is a huge fucking choice you have been ignoring that could unlock the next major step in your life?   That's ok. I am breaking that pattern so I don't find myself back in a life I don't know again. If you need help breaking your patterns go to https://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/assessment and take the ADHD Aimless Life Assessment to see if you are on the road that was almost a dead end for me. It is not my aim to Shepard every ADHD parent in the world to the life that they deserve but I do want every neurodivergent parent to find the passion for life I have found again! I want it for you! You are my people! If my message resonates with you then you should take the aimless life assessment right now because I have clear steps for you to follow to start your journey to go and get that life. If you don’t like me or my energy find someone else but do something. Put a message in the comments and I will even help you find resources that have nothing to do with my that fit you better! But I want you to commit today to take control! Stop letting life happen to you and start making it happen for you. Time is a wasting!

I went all in on myself as a meat cutter, as a restaurant manager, as a firefighter, as a public educator and now as a business owner. Why did giving everything I had to the job not yield the success I desired?   In this compelling episode, Coach Bruce Alexander dives into his neurodivergent struggles within various work environments, from being a meat cutter to a public educator and now an entrepreneur. Bruce reflects on his journey of misunderstanding workplace dynamics, the challenge of building relationships, and his pursuit of success through hyper-focus on tasks, often neglecting the essential aspect of social integration.   **Key Takeaways:** 1. **Understanding Neurodiversity in the Workplace**: Bruce's story highlights the unique challenges neurodivergent individuals face in standard work settings. 2. **The Importance of Relationships**: The episode underscores the critical role of building and maintaining work relationships for career advancement. 3. **Self-Reflection and Growth**: Bruce shares his evolution in recognizing the value of feedback and the necessity of aligning with organizational goals.   **Resources:** - **Aimless Life Assessment**: A tool for listeners to evaluate their career and life satisfaction, available at www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/assessment. - **Support for Neurodivergent Individuals**: Bruce provides insights into navigating neurotypical work environments and advocating for oneself.   **Learn More About Coach Bruce:** As a coach, Bruce Alexander specializes in assisting ADHD parents in finding balance and purpose. With a focus on authenticity and neurodiversity, Bruce is dedicated to helping others embrace their unique selves and overcome the challenges posed by conventional work structures.   **Episode Description for Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander: Season 2, Episode 2 - "My Neurodivergent Struggle Against Work"**   In this compelling episode, Coach Bruce Alexander dives into his neurodivergent struggles within various work environments, from being a meat cutter to a public educator and now an entrepreneur. Bruce reflects on his journey of misunderstanding workplace dynamics, the challenge of building relationships, and his pursuit of success through hyper-focus on tasks, often neglecting the essential aspect of social integration.   **Key Takeaways:** 1. **Understanding Neurodiversity in the Workplace**: Bruce's story highlights the unique challenges neurodivergent individuals face in standard work settings. 2. **The Importance of Relationships**: The episode underscores the critical role of building and maintaining work relationships for career advancement. 3. **Self-Reflection and Growth**: Bruce shares his evolution in recognizing the value of feedback and the necessity of aligning with organizational goals.   **Resources:** - **Aimless Life Assessment**: A tool for listeners to evaluate their career and life satisfaction, available at www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/assessment . - **Support for Neurodivergent Individuals**: Bruce provides insights into navigating neurotypical work environments and advocating for oneself.   **Learn More About Coach Bruce:** As a coach, Bruce Alexander specializes in assisting ADHD parents in finding balance and purpose. With a focus on authenticity and neurodiversity, Bruce is dedicated to helping others embrace their unique selves and overcome the challenges posed by conventional work structures.   Moments: 00:00 Introduction 02:23 Main Takeaways 04:18 Blaming Others and Lack of Relationship Building 05:15 Feedback and Perception 07:11 Recognizing Neurodivergence 08:38 Understanding the Neurotypical Workplace 09:38 Accepting Uniqueness and Seeking Help 10:08 Storytime: Recognizing Signs of Job Loss 11:39 Supporting Friends in Difficult Situations 12:39 Struggles in the Fire Department 14:20 Reputation and Masking 15:49 Distracting and Numbing Oneself 17:19 Consequences of Numbing 18:00 Losing Connection with God 19:45 Taking Control and Finding Purpose 20:44 Call to Action 21:30 Consider the Consequences 22:00 Closing Remarks

Does religious Practice need to look different neurodivergents?   In this groundbreaking episode, Coach Bruce Alexander embarks on a deeply personal journey, exploring the intersection of neurodiversity and faith. Titled "My Neurodivergent Struggle with God," Bruce delves into the complexities of maintaining religious practice as an adult diagnosed with ADHD and autism.   He shares his lifelong battle with self-doubt, the challenge of reconciling impulsive and consistent aspects of faith, and how neurodivergent individuals can redefine their spiritual path.   **Key Takeaways:**  **Neurodiversity and Faith**: Understanding how ADHD and autism impact religious practice and belief.  **Personal Growth**: Embracing self-awareness and authenticity in one's spiritual journey.  **Adapting Religious Practice**: Tailoring spiritual habits to accommodate neurodivergent needs.   **Resources:**  **Free Assessment Tool**: Visit ADHD burnout/aimless life assessment quiz for personalized guidance on navigating neurodiversity and control.  **Support Groups**: Engage with communities that focus on neurodiversity and spirituality.   **Learn More About Coach Bruce:** Bruce Alexander is not only the voice behind Authentic On Air but also a dedicated ADHD life coach. His mission is to guide individuals through their struggles with neurodiversity, offering tools and strategies for embracing their authentic selves and leading a life filled with passion and purpose. Consult with Coach Bruce   00:00 Introduction to Season 2 03:13 My Neurodivergent Struggle with God 04:12 Religious Practice for Neurodivergent People 08:07 The Impact of ADHD and Autism on Religious Practice 16:00 Setting a Different Standard for Neurodivergent People 23:30 The Importance of a Foundation and Personal Goals 25:06 Does Religious Practice Need to Look Different for Neurodivergence? 30:44 Redefining Success and Making Choices 37:24 Taking Action and Saying Yes to Growth 38:07 Conclusion and Call to Action

Podcast overhaul| Coach Bruce discusses rebranding his podcast   Yikes! I am burning everything I have done for my podcast to the ground!   Well not exactly. I am going to hang on to a couple of assets and ideas but what comes on season 2 of Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander should feel drastically different. I hope you will love it!   And if you don't that's ok because someone will!

Podcast Summary: In this episode, host Bruce Alexander converses with Celia Contreras, a stand-up comedian known for her appearances on the Kill Tony podcast. Celia shares her raw and authentic life experiences, including her struggles with bipolar disorder, her turbulent family life, and her journey in the world of comedy. The conversation delves into the themes of authenticity, mental health, and finding humor in dark places. Celia's story is a testament to the power of honesty, resilience, and humor in navigating life's challenges. Key Takeaways: Authenticity in Comedy: Celia’s journey in stand-up comedy highlights the importance of being true to oneself. Her style of dark comedy, drawn from her personal experiences, demonstrates how embracing one’s story can resonate with others. Mental Health Awareness: Celia openly discusses her bipolar disorder, offering insights into the reality of living with mental illness. Her experiences underline the need for understanding and support in managing mental health. Family Dynamics and Personal Growth: The podcast sheds light on the complexities of family relationships and the impact they have on personal development. Celia’s anecdotes reveal how family can shape our perception of ourselves and our world. The Healing Power of Humor: Celia's ability to find humor in her life's challenges serves as a reminder of the therapeutic value of laughter and the role of comedy in healing and coping. Resilience in the Face of Adversity: The episode inspires listeners to persevere through hardships. Celia's story is an example of how embracing one's authentic self can lead to personal empowerment. Follow Celia on Instagram @Celia_a_Gram Check out Coach Bruce's Resources: Get the 9 steps for the ADHD dad to radically improve communication now and communicate in your relationships with intention and authority! It is not just for ADHD dads, anyone with ADHD WILL benefit from it! Change the way you communicate today Get the “How To Life” workbook here for a step by step guide to developing your life instruction manual! Get it now About the Host: Bruce Alexander, a seasoned podcaster, delves into conversations with industry leaders, offering listeners a blend of informative and inspirational content. Subscribe and Follow: Don’t forget to review, subscribe to our podcast for more insightful episodes. 

Join host Bruce Alexander in a deep dive with Mark Savant, a top-tier podcast consultant and host. This episode is more than just podcasting tips; it's a journey into embracing authenticity, the power of disagreeing respectfully, and leveraging AI in podcasting. Discover how Mark balances his roles as an entrepreneur, husband, and father while refusing to sacrifice his personal values for success. Get ready for an insightful discussion on the importance of authenticity in personal and professional life, the evolving role of AI in content creation, and much more. 🌟 #Podcast #Authenticity #Entrepreneurship #AIInnovation #MarkSavant   Episode Summary: Join Bruce Alexander as he engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Mark Savant, a renowned podcast consultant and host. This episode delves into the importance of staying true to oneself while navigating the dynamic world of podcasting and entrepreneurship. Key Points Discussed: Mark Savant's Journey: A look into how Mark carved a niche for himself in the podcasting industry while maintaining his authentic voice. The Role of AI in Podcasting: Insights into how artificial intelligence is shaping content creation and the future of podcasting. Balancing Professional and Personal Life: Mark shares his strategies for juggling his roles as an entrepreneur, husband, and father without compromising his values. The Power of Disagreeing Respectfully: A discussion on the significance of having constructive disagreements and how it fosters growth and innovation. Tips for Aspiring Podcasters: Practical advice from Mark for those looking to start their podcasting journey. Resources Mentioned: Get the 9 steps for the ADHD dad to radically improve communication now and communicate in your relationships with intention and authority! It is not just for ADHD dads, anyone with ADHD WILL benefit from it! https://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/9steps-specialoffer Get the “How To Life” workbook here for a step by step guide to developing your life instruction manual! https://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/howtolife Connect with Mark Savant: Website: https://link.me/marksavantmedia Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/marksavantmedia/ About the Host: Bruce Alexander, a seasoned podcaster, delves into conversations with industry leaders, offering listeners a blend of informative and inspirational content. Subscribe and Follow: Don’t forget to subscribe to our podcast for more insightful episodes. 

What if there was more to sobriety than just NOT drinking? Have we been looking at this problem all wrong? Summary In this conversation, Bruce Alexander reflects on the importance of change and challenges listeners to think about their own experiences with major life overhauls. He then introduces his guest, Billy Sue Smith, who shares her journey to becoming her authentic self and the role therapy played in her transformation. They discuss the struggles with authenticity, the power of unloading in therapy, and the importance of seeking help and support. They also explore the balance between being authentic and adapting to different situations, and the role of doubt and fear in personal growth. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the love for TED Talks and the power of storytelling. In this part of the conversation, Bruce Alexander discusses his goals, including giving a TED Talk, and the challenge of managing his passion for various causes. He also talks about the importance of being authentic and not downplaying his excitement for life. Bruce shares his experience as a parent and the transition he is facing as his children move out. He opens up about his sobriety journey and the benefits of living authentically. The conversation concludes with a discussion about golf and the fear of failure in sobriety. In this conversation, the guest discusses their decision to abstain from alcohol and how it has brought them more joy and fun in life. They express a deep love and value for themselves and a desire to protect what they have built. The host appreciates the guest's vulnerability and emphasizes the importance of leaving a review to reach more listeners. The guest shares various ways to engage with the podcast and support the creation of authentic content. The conversation concludes with an offer of authenticity and identity coaching to help individuals align their true selves with their public identity.   Takeaways Setting goals and pursuing passions can be fulfilling, but it's important to manage commitments and avoid overwhelm. Being authentic and embracing excitement for life can lead to a sense of peace and fulfillment. The transition of children leaving home can be challenging, but it's important to give them space and maintain a supportive relationship. Sobriety can bring clarity and peace, and it's important to define sobriety in a way that aligns with personal values. Living authentically allows for deeper connections and the opportunity to inspire others.   Communication Course for ADHD Dads Comes with: Free digital download "Unmasking ADHD Blueprint" ​Free access to ADHD dads private community of supportive members        Free audio lesson "Top 10 Hacks for the ADHD Dad to Thrive in the Workplace" ​Free access to the "Passion, Purpose, and Self-acceptance" video collection ​Free exclusive ADHD Dad t-shirt, you just pay shipping and handling!  https://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/9steps-specialoffer   Get the “How To Life” workbook here for a step by step guide to developing your life instruction manual! https://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/howtolife   #adhdemotions #adhdlove #adhdawareness #adhdmemes #adhdmasking #adhdmen #adhdparenting #adhdacceptance #selflove #selfacceptance #lifecoach #deeperconnection #purpose  #authentic  

What connection do you have with creativity? Do you apply out of the box thinking to social situations and your interactions with the world? Welcome to Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander. I am your host Bruce Alexander. It might get a little weird in the Authentic On Air studio today… At least I hope so, because animator and installation Artist Dan Moyer is here today. I am looking forward to getting a peek into the mind of an artist. Creativity and authenticity are natural bedfellows is far as I am concerned. Creativity boils down to being able to find ways to solve problems. Authenticity boils down to honoring yourself through what ever problems you face. What connection do you have with creativity? Do you apply out of the box thinking to social situations and your interactions with the world? I wouldn’t have always considered applying creative solutions to the “fitting problem”. But as I have accepted the uniqueness of my authentic self I have learned that I have a special ability to look at things from an uncommon perspective. Why wouldn’t I leverage my unique skills to make my own life better?   I was initially introduced to Dan through the homeschool group created by my guest from episode 21 Lori Ann Wild. I don’t remember seeing him at the group often but I knew that we shared at least some common ground when it came to parenting our children guided by love first.   We became Facebook friends and eventually I remember attending one of his children’s birthday parties IRL. This was early in my journey of self acceptance. I had started to embrace my Authentic self but only around the people who had already seen and accepted the unfiltered version of myself I had only showed when I was too exhausted from shift work to deal with any sort of pretense.   Dan existed at the time as a free spirit if I had ever seen one and so did a large majority of the people in attendance at this party. I always tried to tough out anything that could provide my kids a good time but this was hard.   I remember a lot of tie die and leg hair. Bra-less chest and the smell of essential oils. I also noticed a lack of brown skin.   Every wall I had shot up and I shut down. I am still not to the place where I am comfortable enough with my authentic self to be open immediately to every experience but I will sit in my discomfort until I put myself out there. Back then I was nowhere close to that point.   In a space filled with people who had no desire to conform to what society told them to be or to hide they’re weird. I felt so out of place. Magnify that by being the only black man in a space and you have a recipe for not having a good time.   I am embarrassed at all the snap judgments I made that day and I shudder to think how small I let others uniqueness make me feel in comparison.   I left that party, what felt like an eternity later having made almost no meaningful connections. But I remained Facebook friends with Dan despite what had been shockingly disparate social circles.   In the ensuing years I loved watching Dan on social media because he was like an open book. It felt like he almost made a point to put the ugliest parts of his life online for me to experience them with him. He was so open about the pain his was feeling throughout his divorce that I cried for him. When he became unemployed and was floundering like so many other were in secret he shared it.   He would occasionally post on days that he was feeling low that he needed encouragement and he wouldn’t vague-book about it either. He would lay out how he was hurting and what kind of support he needed.   Do you know how brave that is? I did and I reached out on one of his post and told him how much his honesty impacted me. We had probably the most vulnerable masculine exchange of emotions I had ever had as an adult to that point. That conversation laid a heavy part of the foundation that my acceptance of self sits on today.   I want to thank Dan for unknowingly leading the way for me. For being a guiding light of vulnerability that eventually guided me to the safe harbor that is authenticity. Thank you Dan for being your Authentic self and thank you for being here on my show today.   Discover more about LoriAnn:   You can find Lori Ann on IG @wildernedge More information about her nature school programs can be found here: wwww.stfrancisofthewoods.org   Learn more about my coaching services    Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book: "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life" Free Ebook My free Blueprint for ADHD men to unmask their ADHD: Free bluebrint Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/authenticidentitymanagement/  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected].    Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share it with friends and family. Subscribe to stay tuned for our latest conversations! Embrace your true self with Authentic Identity Management's identity coaching. Book a free 30-minute consultation today. 

Warning!!!! This episode contains detailed accounts of domestic violence that might be triggering of other domestic violence survivors and those currently in situations in which they find themselves unable to escape. If you are someone you know is a current victim of domestic violence please go to: National Domestic Violence Hotline Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service  800-799-7233 Learn more Oklahoma Heartline 2-1-1 Dial 2-1-1 Link straight to Ok Domestic Violence resources National Resource Center on Domestic Violence https://nrcdv.org SAFETY ALERT: If you are in danger, please use a safer computer and consider calling 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233   You can also contact your local YWCA for a variety of assistance or Palomar if you are in Oklahoma City.   Maralen Pennyfeather is so much more than her abuse story and I really enjoyed getting to know so much more of her in episode 22 of Authentic On Air. This ADHD host really loved going on a neurodivergent roller coaster of a conversation with my ADHD and Autistic guest. We got into a lot of deep and emotional subjects but we also had a great time and laughed together.  I know I truly gained a friend in this one and I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did. Find out more about Maralen Instagram: @thewoundedlotus TikTok: @maralenpennyfeather Podcast: The Marvelous Mystonic Muggles Coach Bruce is a life coach for ADHD men Download my free 5-step blueprint to ADHD unmasking: https://www.authenticidentitymanagement.com/5-techniques   Take the Authentic Assessment to identify if you might be ready for Coach Bruce help you make a change: https://authenticim.myclickfunnels.com/lead-funnel-3-cf-2-0   Email: [email protected] for details or questions

What is your relationship like with nature? Join me, Bruce Alexander, as I sit down with LoriAnn Wilde. LoriAnn is the Nature Program Coordinator at Prairiewood Forest School in Coyle, Oklahoma. In addition to running the nature school program, she also studies herbalism, leads wildcrafting walks, composes text for the annual Oklahoma Wildcrafting Calendar, homeschools her children, and facilitates Women of the Woods group.   Key Topics Explored The value of community and nature Practical reprosity Her dreams to buy land, live on and create a forest school How the pandemic fast tracked some plans for her life The first time she met the land she now lives on Step by step description of her grounding practice Her one rule: practice kindness, not simply be kind. It’s an ongoing practice. Plans she has for the future   Discover more about LoriAnn: You can find Lori Ann on IG @wildernedge More information about her nature school programs can be found here: wwww.stfrancisofthewoods.org Learn more about my coaching services  Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book: "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life"   Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook: @authenticidentitymanagement  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected].   Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share it with friends and family. Subscribe to stay tuned for our latest conversations! Embrace your true self with Authentic Identity Management's identity coaching. Book a free 30-minute consultation today.

Have you ever wondered what the story behind the host is?   Well, today is your lucky day because this is a special episode, a podcast takeover by Taylor Doe!   Taylor took over the studio to interview me, dig into my story and share vulnerably with my audience.   Taylor is a community builder, TEDx speaker and former guest on Authentic on Air.   Key Topics Explored Mentorship The most memorable meal I’ve had, what it was and who I enjoyed it with Life after mistakes Where I grew up, how often I moved in my childhood Discover more about Taylor: You can find Taylor on IG @tdoe His website www.andthenmoments.com His TEDx talk: And Then Moments To listen to my interview of him, see Episode 9: Listen Here   Learn more about my coaching services  Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book: 7 Shocking Ways You Are Ruining Your Life... Unmask Today: Get my free 5 step blueprint to unmask today! Take the free Authentic Assessment to judge or compatibility for a coaching relationship Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook:@authenticidentitymanagement  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected].  Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share it with friends and family. Subscribe to stay tuned for our latest conversations! Embrace your true self with Authentic Identity Management's identity coaching. Book a free 30-minute consultation today.

Do you have close friends you’ve been through all different seasons of life with? How have those relationships supported you, and you’ve been able to support them?    Join me as I sit down with Maralen and LaTresha. They are long-term best friends, mothers, neurodivergent and postcast hosts!  Key Topics Explored:   Navigating a long-term friendship Late-term ADHD and Austin diagnoses Raising neurodivergent children and advocating for them Watching your best friend endure an abusive relationship Reclaiming your voice Using your platform to give a voice to a population that doesn’t have one First time having TWO guest in the studio!   Discover more about Maralen and LaTresha:   Check out their podcast, Marvelous Mystonic Muggles Podcast, here: MMM on Apple Podcast You can find their podcast on YouTube: MMM Podcast You can find them on IG @mmmpodcast23 You can reach out to both of them at [email protected]   Learn more about my coaching services  Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book, : "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life"   Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook:@AuthenticIdentityManagement  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected].    Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share it with friends and family. Subscribe to stay tuned for our latest conversations!    Embrace your true self with Authentic Identity Management's identity coaching. Take the Authentic Assessment to see if you are a good fit for a 30-minute consultation today! 

Have you ever come to a fork in the road in your career and struggled to figure out your next move?    Welcome to an insightful discussion on navigating career crossroads and embracing authenticity in life. In this episode, your host Bruce Alexander engages in a candid conversation with Tolu Adebekun, a versatile speaker, data analyst, and former semi-pro basketball player currently in a phase he dubs "funemployment." Key topics explored include: Tolu's experience of being made redundant after 12 years at a company Contrasts in workplace dynamics between the US and the UK Empowering individuals with emotional intelligence for effective self-leadership and guiding others The perils of tethering one's identity to their career or job Tolu's unique interpretation of authenticity Unpacking the intricacies behind the advice "work hard and you will succeed" from his parents   Discover more about Tolu: Instagram: @tadebekun Leadership podcast: DunamisEQ Christian podcast: Reasons To Behold Tech leaders podcast: What Makes YOU Tick? Learn more about my coaching services  Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book, : "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life"   Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook:@AuthenticIdentityManagement  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected].   Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook: @authenticidentitymanagement. For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected]. Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share it with friends and family. Subscribe to stay tuned for our latest conversations! Embrace your true self with Authentic Identity Management's identity coaching. Book a free 30-minute consultation today. [email protected].  

How has travel impacted your life and shown you different ways of living?    Welcome to Authentic on Air with Bruce Alexander, my guest today is Kalyn Armstrong. She travels around the globe with her partner and is a fellow podcast host of “What Do We Call This Podcast?” Join us as we discuss…   …Living out of a suitcase to embrace travel …Her 6 month sabbatical from alcohol …Finding community again and again across the world …Overcoming fear to vulnerable in relationships …How sadness is okay, to feel it and let it out …All the ways she is preparing to be a parent before the time comes …Gender complications in a male dominated work force …And so much more!   Links & Information:   You can find Kalyn on instagram @kalyn.Bree Her podcast can be found here Learn more about my coaching services  Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book, : "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life"   Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook:@AuthenticIdentityManagement  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected]. If you enjoyed today's episode, please take a moment to review and share it with friends and family who might appreciate it. Don't forget to subscribe to stay updated with our latest conversations. Lastly, if you're struggling to embrace your true self in various aspects of your life, Authentic Identity Management offers authenticity coaching to help you become the most authentic version of yourself. Contact us for a free 30-minute consultation.

Have you ever made major changes to your life based on love?    Welcome back to "Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander"! In today's episode, I sit down with Kendall Breitman to talk about her inspiring journey from Havertown, PA to Tel-Aviv for her partner. Kendall is a journalist, who has spent time working for Bloomberg, Politico, USA Today and MSNBC. In this episode we discuss..   …Kendall's perspective on the acceptance of being gay in Israel. …Kendall's background and why she's the perfect guest for our show. …Defining authenticity in Kendall's own words. …The monumental transition from Havertown to Tel-Aviv and its impact. …Family and friends' reactions to Kendall's life-altering decision. …Dealing with negative comments and challenges. …How her career as a reporter was influenced by her authentic self. …Facing online harassment as a news personality. …The impact of those experiences on Kendall's self-image and journey. …Kendall's advice for anyone who might be facing similar challenges.   Links: Kendall can be found on IG @kendall_brietman   You can always reach out to me at [email protected] or find me on IG @authenticidentitymanagement   If you enjoyed today's episode, please take a moment to review and share it with friends and family who might appreciate it. Don't forget to subscribe to stay updated with our latest conversations.   Lastly, if you're struggling to embrace your true self in various aspects of your life, Authentic Identity Management offers identity coaching to help you become the most authentic version of yourself. Contact us for a free 30-minute consultation.   #AuthenticOnAir #PodcastTalks #AuthenticLiving #InternationalFashion #InspiringStories #SelfAcceptance #IdentityCoaching #KendallBreitman  

Have you ever wondered if a two time Emmy award winning rapper battles with authenticity just like you or me?   Join me, Bruce Alexander, as I sit down with local OKC legend Jabee. He’s a rapper, activist, entrepreneur, Emmy award winner, and solid guy. We talk about… …What authenticity looks like for someone in the public eye. …Being prideful but not proud …Maintaining creative integrity while working with other artists and reaching a wider audience …His artistic process …A wrongful arrest in 2015, how he felt about it and navigated it …How he handles multiple different businesses and his musical career   You can find Jabee at his website, www.mynameisjabee.com On Instagram @mynameisjabee And Facebook at Jabee Williams His OKC restaurants are: Scrambld, on Facebook or Instagram @scrambld23rd Eastside Pizza House, on Facebook or Instagram @eastsidepizzahouse You can always reach out to me at [email protected] Or on instagram @authenticidentitymanagment   #blackacceptance #engagingconversations #beyourself #podcast #blacklove #defyexpectation #vulnerability #openconversation #knowthyself  @JabeeWilliams 

How difficult is it for you to let people into your lives? Do you struggle to share authentically with the people you love?    Join me, Bruce Alexander, as I sit down with my good friend Larissa Port. Larissa is a self described “pretend homesteader”, mother to four neurodivergent children, dog foster-mom, and a talented artist.  In this conversation, we tackle… 🎙️…How different enneagrams process emotions and situations. 🎙️…Parenting children with autism, and seeing the world through their eyes 🎙️…Living with chronic pain and autoimmune issues 🎙️…The struggle to allow people in fully, and tell them how you’re actually doing 🎙️…Doing better than our parents and learning to step into that role, even when it cost you relationships.   Links: You can find Larissa on instagram @lport Learn more about my coaching services  Website: www.AuthenticIdentityManagement.com  Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book, : "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life"   Connect with us on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook:@AuthenticIdentityManagement  For inquiries or feedback, reach out via email: [email protected].   #podcasting #podcastlife #podcastepisode #podcastersofinstagram #podcast #safespace #openconversations #authenticconversations #selfacceptance #authenticaudience #personalgrowth #beyourself #knowyourself #DiverseFamilies #EmbracingAuthenticity #vulnerability #LoveAndLaughter #MeaningfulStories #Empowerment #Neurodivergence #authenticity 

When you think of wellness, do you think of your physical health, spiritual health, or both?   Join me as I talk with Ramses Amun as he shares his healing journey and approaching health in a holistic manner. Ramses is a veteran, black ex-pat, Yoga teacher, mindset mentor, retreat host and all-around open man.    In this episode we cover…   ..How he joined the military looking for travel, and the hope that he would be more accepted as a black man in America with a decorated uniform. ..The military wasn’t able to give him identity answers he wanted, but allowed him to have the life he has today …A brain tumor discovered in 2016 which helped him realize life is finite and he can’t keep going down the same path. ..His weight loss journey, it started as a physical care for his body but turned into realizing he was not valuing himself and caring for his soul. The healing came in stages. ..Holistically approaches to health ..Dealing with PTSD, anger, and depression from his military time and living as a black male in America ..The history of Kemetic yoga ..How he has encountered different attitudes and views of blackness all over the world ..The healing, and joy, he has found living in Mexico   Contact & Links: Ramses has retreats coming up at the end of this year, beginning of next. To find him, reach out on Instagram @ramses_amun If you want to contact me, reach out at [email protected] or Instagram or Facebook @AuthenticIdentityManagement This episode is available in video format on YouTube on AuthenticBruce  #HolisticWellness #HealingJourney #MindsetMentor #BlackExpat #YogaTeacher #RamsesAmun #LifeTransformation #MentalHealthMatters #VeteransJourney #KemeticYoga #CulturalAwareness #EnlightenedLiving #LifeAfterMilitary #SelfDiscovery #Retreats2023

Hello out there to my Authentic Audience! I recently sat down with Adam King, local news anchor, CrossFit trainer, and investigative journalist to discuss how he shows up authentically in such a public facing role. Adam is dynamic, genuine and deeply cares about the community he serves. Join us as we discuss…   🎙️What it’s like being a news anchor in a major market like OKC, and the challenges that come along with delivering sometimes difficult news while staying empathetic and authentic. 🎙️The importance of connecting with viewers on a human level, and how authenticity can break down barriers. 🎙️The responsibility and weight that comes along with telling someone else’s story in a way that is truthful and honoring. 🎙️Privilege, how it affects people’s perceptions of societal issues. 🎙️How individuals are needed to recognize systematic problems so we can actively work towards solutions. 🎙️Adam’s journeys of personal growth, and how he encourages others to be themselves and be active in the world around them. 🎙️Future plans for Adam and his commitment to making a positive difference in the world. Links and Resources:   You can catch Adam King on Fox 25 News at 5:00 p.m. and the Late Edition at 9:00 p.m. Link here. You can find Adam on Instagram @adamking_td To watch this episode, visit Authentic Bruce on YouTube here. You can reach out to me personally at [email protected]   #safespace #spiritualfitness #selfacceptance #selfmastery #personalgrowth #authenticconversations #blackacceptance #beyourself #knowyourself  

How connected are you to your culture? Do you celebrate it and have shared experiences with friends and family around it? Welcome Authentic Audience to our 11th episode! Join me as I talk to Robert Ruiz, a community builder, musician, husband, father, and stage 4 cancer survivor. Robert wears many hats, but one close to him is bringing people together. Join us as we discuss…   🎩…Creating authentic cultural festivals that bring families together for shared experiences 🎩…The history and lasting impact of Mariachi 🎩…How being a “jack of all trades” can give you a diverse range of experience and allow you to bring innovative ideas to the table 🎩…How losing or failing isn’t a negative, it comes with the territory of putting yourself out there and trying new things 🎩…His journey through stage 4 cancer, how it affected his family and changed his perspective 🎩…How he navigates parenting and autism, bullying and mental health struggles with his son   To connect with Robert:  -You can find Robert on facebook at Robert Ruiz and his Mariachi band here.  -To learn more about Fiestas Patrias, hosted every September, check out OCCC on Facebook   Links to items from the episode:  Go here to see the music video of the song Robert mentions. To learn more about Autism, visit this website.  Click here to learn more about bullying Lyrics to “Urge” Con mi dolor Causando penas voy rodando por ahí No hay una frase de cariño para mí Todos me miran con desprecio y con rencor Mi corazón Está cansado, tan cansado de sufrir Que muchas veces le he escuchado repetir Estas palabras que me llenan de dolor Urge Una persona que me arrulle entre sus brazos A quien contarle de mis triunfos y fracasos Que me comprenda y que me quite de sufrir Urge Que me despierten con un beso enamorado Que me devuelvan el amor que me han negado Porque también tengo derecho de vivir Urge Una persona que me arrulle entre sus brazos A quien contarle de mis triunfos y fracasos Que me comprenda y que me quite de sufrir Urge Que me despierten con un beso enamorado Que me devuelvan el amor que me han negado Porque también tengo derecho de vivir English Translation With my pain I go rolling around, causing sorrows everywhere There's not a single tender word for me Everyone looks at me with disdain and resentment My heart Is tired, so tired of suffering That many times I've heard it repeat These words that fill me with pain   It's urgent For someone to cradle me in their arms To whom I can tell of my triumphs and failures Who understands me and takes away my pain It's urgent To be awakened with a loving kiss To be given back the love that has been denied me Because I too have the right to live   It's urgent For someone to cradle me in their arms To whom I can tell of my triumphs and failures Who understands me and takes away my pain It's urgent To be awakened with a loving kiss To be given back the love that has been denied me Because I too have the right to live As always, reach out to me with any questions or conversations at [email protected] Find me on IG @authenticidentitymanagement Catch other episodes of this podcast on all major podcast platforms, or on YouTube @AuthenticBruce  

My most raw and vulnerable conversation yet and it comes as we reach our 10th episode. Career relationship builder and networker Peter Evans joins me in the Authentic On air studio. Welcome back Authentic audience!  Have you gone through a season where you hid your struggles from your friends, family and coworkers? Have you felt like you shouldn’t ask for help, even though you love helping others? Join me, Bruce Alexander, as I talk with my friend and mentor, Peter Evans.    In today’s episode, we go over….   …How Peter got started down the ROTC path, but an unexpected hearing issue changed his plans. …A friend who believed in him created a job at his company and helped him get started in his career (if you haven’t listened to Taylor Doe’s episode, go check it out. Perfect example of an “and then” moment) …Discussing counseling, the positive effects it has on our lives to open up honestly with another person …Being the one who always helps others, and looking out for friends, and realizing he didn’t know how to ask for help …Boundaries and forgiveness in relationships …Putting his identity in networking and being the “go to” guy, and realizing how false that was for him.  …His love for his nephews and how they’ve impacted his life …Finding time for creativity and play in his personal life Take a step towards self-discovery with my free e-book, : "7 Shocking Ways Pretending To Be Content is Ruining Your Life"   Check out more episodes of Authentic on Air on all major podcast platforms or the AuthenticBruce YouTube channel. You can find me on Instagram, Threads, LinkedIn, and Facebook  @authenticidentitymanagement

Don’t Shorten Your Story: Identifying Pivotal Moments and Individuals to Develop Your Character with  @TEDx  speaker Taylor Doe ( @taylordoe  ) Hello Authentic Audience! When you tell your story of how you reached success in life, who are the people you met and relationships you formed that helped you along the way? Do you say their names as you tell your story? Join me as I sit down with Taylor Doe and tackle these questions. Taylor is a TEDx speaker, tech company owner, thought leader and storyteller.   On episode 9 of Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander, Taylor and I discuss…   …The question that started him down his line of work, when a kid in his life asked “I want one of the good jobs. How do people get the good jobs?” …Serving others in unique ways, from his Valentine’s Day project to senior prom.  …How shame stops successful people from fully telling their story, and saying the names of people who helped them reach higher levels of success.  …Finding the nuance in people’s stories …Being able to be authentic in the streets, and on the golf course …Practical tips to help improve your public speaking and mitigating unknowns.    You can find Taylor Doe on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tdoe/. His TEDx talk is available on YouTube “How People Get the Good Jobs” and if you are interested in having him speak or help you leverage your "and then moments" check out his website.   #andthenmoments #authenticconnections #podcast #podcastconversations #motivation #selfimprovement #personalgrowth

I am an authenticity and identity coach and I wanted to create a podcast as a lead-gen tool, originally. As I started to look at what that might look like; it became less and less about my business and more and more about putting something of value into the world and creating opportunities to have healing and insightful conversations that would facilitate more authenticity in the world. This podcast was created as a space to explore authenticity and the variety of ways it can affect how we show up daily. Guests will range from CEO’s and entrepreneurs to stay-at-home moms and perpetual students. Every person in this world wakes up everyday and consciously or subconsciously makes a decision to enter the world as themselves or not and I want to explore the stories of how that decision has impacted peoples lives. By providing a variety of interviews, stories and resources I desire to create a community that promotes growth, acceptance and understanding for people who have felt alone, singled out, or bullied for being different. Life is a complicated puzzle and we are all pieces. I hope you will join me as I help find your fit.

Welcome Authentic audience to another episode of Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander. Our guest today is the Declutter queen, Christina Rose. Christina is a chronic disorganization specialist specializing in the mind, body, and home. She brings her passion for helping others to supporting individuals in overcoming the difficulties brought about by chronic disorganization.    Do you often feel as if you’re constantly failing at keeping a routine, you can never fit in time for the gym or an adequate meal, and life is always chaotic? Join me as I talk with Christina Rose, the Declutter queen as we discuss the following:   …How she helps her clients work on their mind, body and soul to bring peace and organization into their lives. She truly helps them get their sh*t together!  …Healing trauma from the root and reprogramming our brains for lasting change …Making the conscious choice to lead a life very differently than that of our upbringing, and break generational trauma …Disassociating from her life and showing up as the person everyone expected her to be. How playing this role drained her, and stopped her from personal growth …Teaching her coaching clients systems and routines so they are able to actually change their lives.   You can find Christina on IG @declutterqueenok

Hello to my Authentic audience! Bruce here. Join me as I talk to Regan Shorter, a photographer and content creator based in Puerto Rico and Oklahoma. We walk through how she got started in her industry to all the lessons she has learned as an introvert in the creative freelance world. Regan is my former neighbor and someone who has openly shared her knowledge with me to help my own growth. She has the ability to make people feel seen, even when it drains her introvert battery. When she isn’t working with clients, or as a Joby creator, she shares tutorials for other creators and her travel experiences on her instagram and YouTube channel.    Highlights:   …The journey from marketing major in college, trying (and failing) at different jobs, until she took a risk to branch out into photography and YouTube. …Challenges and mistakes she learned along the way that she used to improve boundaries and communication with future clients.  …Learning the speed at which she works best, knowing a slower pace is more sustainable and prevents burnout …Being discerning about people she lets into her life and honoring her more private nature.  Find more of Regan Shorter @regan.shorter and @by.Regan on Instagram and Regan Shorter for some great YouTube Content!

Welcome to episode 6! I sit down with Regina Joy Lane, a lifelong entrepreneur, mother, wife, DEI consultant, keynote speaker, podcast host, and community centered woman. She is passionate about helping others find their purpose and joy. Regina is a truly authentic person who has pivoted many times in her life and allowed her mistakes to become fuel for her personal growth.  Highlights we discussed:   Regina’s first business, how she built a small stationery business into a full scale marketing agency and then selling most of it to be there when her children needed her.  What she learned, and how she navigated, leaving a 20 year marriage. Learning to co-parent and build new, healthy habits for herself. Learning the values of having restorative hobbies and true rest.  Open dialogue about parenting mistakes, and apologizing to our kids when we realize the trauma we have passed down. Her journey to starting her own podcast, figuring it out as she goes and enjoying the journey. 

Hello, listeners! Your host Bruce Alexander here! Join me as I take you on an extraordinary journey through an episode that's filled to the brim with insightful conversation and profound revelations. In this installment, I'm thrilled to be joined by the incredible Evelyn Smith! Evelyn also known as Eve is a, multiple year contestant for Ms. Oklahoma, a recent university graduate, and enlightened soul embracing her self and being and example to others Together we dive headfirst into captivating discussions about identity, personal growth, authenticity, and the art of navigating life's twists and turns. Throughout our engaging exchange, Evelyn Smith takes us along her remarkable path of self-discovery, emphasizing the pivotal role of recognizing and embracing core values. We delve deep into the subject of societal expectations, vulnerability, and the transformative power of staying true to oneself—no matter the pressures from the outside world.   As we progress through the conversation, Evelyn navigates various life domains, from her ambitions in the professional realm to the intricate tapestry of her personal relationships. Her stories of triumph over adversity underscore the incredible potential that challenges hold for catalyzing personal development and empowerment.   Our discussion also unearths the profound significance of mentors and supportive communities in nurturing personal growth. She shares heartwarming anecdotes about mentoring that truly highlight the incredible impact that investing in the growth of others can have on our own journey of transformation.   Later in the show, we shine a spotlight on effective communication—guided by the principle of understanding before seeking to be understood. Smith shares invaluable insights into the art of meaningful sharing, emphasizing the importance of timing and relevance in our interactions.   And finally, we wrap up with a reflection on my own transition into the world of podcasting. A journey that seeks to embody authenticity and provides a platform for guests to openly share their unique stories and experiences.   In closing, I encourage all of you to embark on your own journey of self-discovery, armed with self-love and a commitment to personal growth. So, join me on "Authentic On Air" as we weave together an inspiring tapestry of conversations that celebrate authenticity, encourage self-discovery, and foster deeper connections with ourselves and others.   Highlights: - Evelyn's early introduction to affirmations by her mother and how they shaped her self-confidence. - The importance of genuine connections and her desire to be a role model for others. - Embracing uncertainty and learning to trust the process of personal growth. - Navigating toxic relationships and the power of stepping away from harmful situations. - Evelyn's aspirations and her mission to leave a positive impact on the community.   Disclaimer: The podcast promotes authenticity and personal growth but is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. Listeners struggling with mental health issues are encouraged to seek professional assistance.

Hey there, it's Bruce Alexander from "Authentic On Air"! I just had an enlightening chat with my mentor, Derek Sier. We had such a good conversation I had to put it into two episodes! My guest is a remarkable guy who is committed to uniting people and organizations in Oklahoma City. He's all about community, connection, and mentoring. We delved into some fascinating topics like the struggle of staying authentic while making small compromises to reach our goals. It's not about right or wrong; it's about challenging ourselves and growing closer to our identity. We also discussed the importance of communication and understanding different perspectives. Derek emphasized the need for nuance when engaging with others as assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. It's vital to approach conversations with curiosity and respect for each other's experiences. Our conversation was thought-provoking and eye-opening. Derek's passion for bringing people together is truly inspiring, and I'm grateful he joined me on the show. If you have any thoughts on today's episode, feel free to reach out on Instagram, Facebook threads, or LinkedIn @AuthenticIdentityManagement. And don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel @AuthenticBruce for bonus content and uncut conversations with video! Thanks for tuning in today! Until next time!

Hey there, it's Bruce Alexander from "Authentic On Air"! I just had an enlightening chat with my mentor, Derek Sier. We had a few technical hiccups, but hey, I'm still learning the ropes! My guest is a remarkable guy who is committed to uniting people and organizations in Oklahoma City. He's all about community, connection, and mentoring. We delved into some fascinating topics like the struggle of staying authentic while making small compromises to reach our goals. It's not about right or wrong; it's about challenging ourselves and growing closer to our identity. We also discussed the importance of communication and understanding different perspectives. Derek emphasized the need for nuance when engaging with others as assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. It's vital to approach conversations with curiosity and respect for each other's experiences. Our conversation was thought-provoking and eye-opening. Derek's passion for bringing people together is truly inspiring, and I'm grateful he joined me on the show. If you have any thoughts on today's episode, feel free to reach out on Instagram, Facebook threads, or LinkedIn @AuthenticIdentityManagement. And don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel @AuthenticBruce for bonus content and uncut conversations with video! Thanks for tuning in today! Until next time!

I apologize for the subpar audio but I am glad I was able to grab this conversation from the first video recording because it was a really good one.

In this episode, Bruce is joined by Anna Rhodes, a guest who had a profound impact on his life. Anna and Bruce had little interaction for eight years until a tragedy struck her family. Anna shares her journey of recovery with thousands of followers, using humor and authenticity to connect with others. Her openness and bravery make her a hero to many, including Bruce. The conversation delves into vulnerability in relationships, the importance of knowing oneself, and the power of stand-up comedy, which Anna has recently started performing. Bruce and Anna discuss their own personal growth and how life events and experiences have shaped them. Bruce shares how his marriage changed after his wife's illness, and how it led to a deeper and more authentic connection. Anna talks about her life in different locations and her recent venture into stand-up comedy. The episode concludes with a candid conversation about overcoming imposter syndrome in creative pursuits and learning to find joy in the journey of personal growth. Join us today as we go deep and engage in an insightful conversation about all things identity.

Bruce Alexander interviews his wife and owner of Milk and Honey Virtual, Kate Alexander, about authenticity, imposter syndrome, and their personal journey towards living a more authentic life. They discuss the importance of being true to oneself, recognizing limitations, and the challenges of showing up authentically in various areas of life. Kate shares her experience as a virtual assistant and her mission to support individuals and organizations that are making a positive impact in the world. They also touch on the impact of authenticity on their family life and the benefits of being vulnerable. Key highlights Authenticity is about recognizing your limitations and staying true to your values Imposter syndrome is common, but realizing that nobody knows what they're doing can help build confidence Being authentic may not always lead to immediate success, but it attracts the right people and opportunities Authenticity is important in personal and professional relationships Kate's virtual assistant business, Milk and Honey Virtual, focuses on supporting individuals and organizations that are making a positive impact The importance of flexibility and being present for their family Overcoming imposter syndrome and embracing vulnerability Listener challenge Reflect on a situation where you felt the need to be someone you're not. How did it make you feel? Consider how you can show up more authentically in similar situations in the future. Social handles Instagram https://www.instagram.com/authenticidentitymanagement/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticIdentityManagement Twitter https://twitter.com/AuthenticBruce Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/bruce-alexander-aim/   If you enjoyed this episode, follow and subscribe to Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander. Connect with Bruce on social media for more content on authenticity and personal growth.