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Behind The Highlight Reels
by Therisa Means & Cristal Rouse
Real talk. Raw stories. No filters. 🎙️ Faith | Love | Hustle | Failures We celebrate wins, own our flaws & laugh at life in between. Pull up a chair—you’ll feel right at home. 💜💖💜💖
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Permission to Breathe
Cristal and Therisa open in prayer and discuss giving yourself “permission to breathe” by slowing down, resting, and being gentle with yourself instead of constantly moving from goal to goal without celebrating progress. Using workout examples, they explain how pacing, breathing, and rest make the process effective, and connect breath to life and God’s daily mercies. They talk about allowing yourself to feel emotions, resetting and regrouping during heavy situations, and breaking negative habits through intentional, consistent choices rather than perfection, including taking personal responsibility alongside prayer. They share fasting mistakes to illustrate learning, consequences, and grace, encourage scheduling joy and celebration, and ask God for perspective and wisdom. They shout out Whitney’s “ChurchClothez.Faith” brand and close with prayer and anchor verses: 2 Corinthians 12:9, Romans 6:14, and James 4:6.Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Introductions01:50 Let’s Breathe02:57 Goal to Goal Living04:28 Celebrate the Journey09:28 Rest and Recovery Matters09:54 Breathe Through Life Stress10:40 Feel Emotions and Reset12:55 Consistency Not Perfection15:46 Faith Requires Action Steps17:32 Discipline Over Motivation19:24 Gods Reminders and Sleep Idol20:50 God Models Rest22:25 Fasting Fail Stories28:20 Grace And Growth29:55 Schedule Your Joy31:10 Takeaways And Shoutouts34:45 Prayer And Anchor VersesAnchor Verses:2 Corinthians 12:9Romans 6:14James 4:6Shoutouts: Therisa: Goat Sweatshirt: Churchclothez.faithCristal:YAHWEH Shirt: ChurchClothez.faithFor more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Caught Up In The Aesthetics
Therisa and Cristal open with prayer and discuss what it means to be caught up in aesthetics—prioritizing outward appearances, vibes, and presentation over substance, character, and the heart. They share examples like TikTok-hyped restaurants with poor food and service, Therisa’s shift from her “Naturally Transparent” platform to “Behind the Highlight Reels” to show real struggles, and the pressure of appearing strong while internally drowning, and Cristal’s past suicidal thoughts and the need to check on “strong friends.” They connect the topic to scripture, including 1 Samuel 8 about Israel demanding a king despite warnings, and emphasize building a solid foundation in God rather than chasing appearances in relationships, finances, homes, and life. They encourage viewers to seek help and prayer, share BTHRshow.com resources, and close with prayer and social/streaming platform info.Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Topic Intro00:09 Opening Prayer00:56 What Aesthetics Really Mean01:35 TikTok Vibes vs Quality02:20 From Facade to Real Talk04:29 When Looking Fine Hides Pain06:25 Check on Strong Friends08:42 God Sees the Heart11:38 Aesthetics in Relationships13:32 Saul and Samson Lessons15:39 Dating Fine but Toxic17:18 Three Little Pigs Lesson21:20 Applying It Today24:47 Growth and Healing27:39 Prayer and Resources29:56 Shout Outs and Thanks31:12 Closing Prayer32:18 Follow and SubscribeAnchor Verses:Entire Book of 1st Samuel Shoutouts: Therisa & Cristal:The Lord!SHEIN still the plugOur followers and viewers (You all are the best!)For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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We Real Inconsiderate Aint We?!?
In this episode of Behind The Highlight Reels hosts Cristal and Therisa discuss whether we are treating God like a genie in a bottle or are we truly being considerate of God. Do we truly include Him in decisions rather than “checking a box” and moving ahead? They emphasize waiting for God’s answer, being persistent in prayer (ask, seek, knock), and recognizing that God cares about both big and small matters. They talk about treating God like a genie versus cultivating a relationship, referencing the Lord’s Prayer structure, trust and surrender to God’s will and timing, and discernment through the Holy Spirit’s nudges, peace, conviction, or discomfort. They share personal examples about buying a car, house-hunting in a fast market, relationships where God said no, and accepting God’s Will in a family member’s death. They close with four tips: Go to God about every decision, Seek the Holy Spirit, Wait for an answer, and Surrender the outcome.Check out this episode and let us know what you think.Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Prayer00:37 Considerate of God01:48 Waiting for Answers03:19 God in Small Things05:42 Renewed Strength Waiting07:31 Ask Seek Knock08:53 Hearing No and Not Yet11:30 Podcast and Box Checking13:27 God Is Not a Genie16:49 Quality Time in Silence19:55 Worship Beyond Silence22:06 Letting God Lead23:35 Relationship Not Genie26:45 Four Decision Tips28:42 Seek the Spirit29:36 Wait and Discern34:15 Surrender the Outcome36:34 Shoutouts and Verses39:07 Closing PrayerAnchor Verses:Proverbs 3:5-7Matthew 6:33Matthew 8:7Isaiah 40:31Shoutouts: Therisa: Yahweh Shirt: Churchclothez.faithAfrican earrings: SheinCristal:Anointed Shirt: Pastor Ace For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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When My Mouth Moves Faster Than My Spirit
Welcome to Behind the Highlight Reels with Therisa and Cristal! In this episode, we discuss the challenges of controlling our tongues and the importance of slowing down to listen and think before speaking. Our conversation dives into real-life situations like handling anger in traffic and the struggles of controlling our emotions. We also reflect on biblical principles, including James 1:19, and share personal stories and practical tips on how to align our actions with our faith. Join us for an insightful discussion on how to practice patience, empathy, and understanding in our daily lives. Don't miss out!Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer01:20 When Your Mouth Moves Faster Than Your Spirit02:53 Controlling Anger and Traffic Frustrations04:37 Understanding Others' Perspectives17:21 Leadership and Letting Go of Control18:57 Impulses and Sharing Personal Information19:32 The Power of Silence and Timing20:39 Lessons from David and Joseph22:22 Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth26:42 Handling Anger and Triggers33:56 Concluding Thoughts and AnnouncementsAnchor Verses:Proverbs 15:1James 1:19-20Proverbs 29:11Colossians 3:8Proverbs 12:18Ephesians 4:26-27Proverbs 10:19Psalms 34:13Proverbs 21:23Shoutouts: Therisa: Outfit: SheinPants: TorridCristal:Attitude in Court: Annalise Keating (The Amazing Viola Davis) **Watch the episode to know what we are talking aboutFor more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Love 'Em, Like 'Em, or Just Pray for 'Em (Part 2)
This topic was so good we had to do two parts!! In Part 2 of this episode Therisa & Cristal talk about friendships that hurt but also help you grow, including how friends can “elevate” you by opening your eyes and shaping how you share your life. They discuss taking responsibility when harm happens, learning from therapy that friendships require defined expectations, and recognizing that people have different capacities in different seasons. They emphasize empathy, not setting friends up for failure by expecting strengths they don’t have, and accepting that not everyone communicates the same way or provides closure. The conversation includes personal examples (emergency contacts while single, friends sharing locations, church and travel mishaps, and being accountable in different areas like business, food, or fitness). They wrap up with encouragement to forgive yourself and your friends, choose friends wisely, and seek God’s guidance and discernment, ending with shout-outs and a prayer for divine friendships and community.Chapters:00:00 Judas & the ‘Hater Is Your Elevator’ Friendship Lesson00:49 Friendship Hurt, Accountability, and Becoming More Cautious With Trust02:26 Therapy Takeaways: Seasons, Percentages, and Setting Expectations03:48 Not Everyone Communicates the Same: Capacity Talks vs. No-Closure Friends05:15 Emergency Contacts & Single Life: Who Really Shows Up?08:03 Don’t Set Friends Up to Fail: Knowing Strengths (Easter Bunny Story)10:01 Different Friends for Different Goals: Gym, Food, and Accountability12:23 Friend Roles & Love Languages: Business Friend, Prayer Friend, and Real Talk14:33 When to Pray vs. When to Be ‘Foolish’: Reading the Room With Friends15:03 The ‘Call-When-Needed’ Friend: Men’s Perspective, Boundaries, and Standards15:43 Friendship Standards Change With Seasons (Dating, Marriage, Capacity)16:57 Forgiveness, No Closure Needed & Don’t Set Friends Up to Fail17:40 “Friend Had One Job” — The Nashville Breakfast Mix‑Up Storytime22:31 What Conflict Teaches: Learning Friends’ Triggers, Discernment & Being the Voice of Reason25:56 Wrap-Up Takeaways: Choose Friends Wisely, Pray, Manage Expectations26:01 Shoutouts: Brands, Friends, and Inviting Viewers Into the Community28:22 Anchor Verses Tease + Closing Prayer for Divine Friendships29:41 Pork Chop Biscuit Anchor Verses:Ecclesiastes 4:9-10Proverbs 18:24Proverbs 13:201 Corinthians 15:33Proverbs 27:17Galatians 6:2Shoutouts: Therisa: The Lord: for answering my prayers for divine friendshipsMy divine friendsMade to Worship shirt: SheinOur new friends: our viewers!! Cristal:T-shirt: God is Dope clothing lineGodAll Cristal friends (She named them all in the episode lol)For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Love 'Em, Like 'Em, or Just Pray for 'Em (Part 1)
This topic was so good we had to do two parts!! In Part 1 of this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' Therisa and Cristal dive deep into the evolution of friendships. They start with an opening prayer before sharing their personal journeys, reflecting on childhood friends, the impact of life changes, and how friendships transform over time. They discuss the difference between friends and acquaintances, the significance of meaningful connections, and even touch on the pain of friendships that ended without closure. Through it all, they highlight the importance of divine friendships and the role of acquaintances, best friends, and everything in between in their lives.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer01:22 Childhood Friendships and Changes04:32 High School and College Friendships07:07 Adult Friendships and Prayers Answered12:38 Friendship Challenges and Reflections14:24 Friendship Dynamics and Wedding Planning15:49 Unappreciated Efforts and Misunderstandings19:18 Categorizing Friendships22:42 Arguments and Reconciliation25:33 Acceptance and Moving On27:47 Biblical Perspective on FriendshipsAnchor Verses:Ecclesiastes 4:9-10Proverbs 18:24Proverbs 13:201 Corinthians 15:33Proverbs 27:17Galatians 6:2Shoutouts: Therisa: The Lord: for answering my prayers for divine friendshipsMy divine friendsMade to Worship shirt: SheinOur new friends: our viewers!! Cristal:T-shirt: God is Dope clothing lineGodAll Cristal friends (She named them all in the episode lol)For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Overcoming Insecurities
Join Therisa and Cristal in episode 305 of 'Behind the Highlight Reels' as they dive deep into the topic of overcoming insecurities. They open the episode with a heartfelt prayer, asking for vulnerability and strength from God. Throughout the discussion, Issa and Crystal share their personal insecurities, such as physical appearance and personal value, discussing weight issues and imposter syndrome. They explore how their faith and prayer life help them manage these insecurities. The episode is filled with candid moments, personal anecdotes, and a genuine exploration of how to find security in God. Tune in to see the real-life struggles and faith-driven solutions behind the highlight reels.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:20 Opening Prayer01:16 Discussing Personal Insecurities04:49 Imposter Syndrome09:24 Technical Difficulties and Transparency12:05 Turning to God for Guidance14:41 The Importance of Prayer19:42 Struggles with the Stair Master20:16 Shifting Perspectives and Prayer21:01 Gym Insecurities and Overcoming Them22:54 Weight Loss Journey and Setbacks24:37 God's Role in Overcoming Insecurities26:33 Trusting God's Plan31:29 Enjoying the Journey34:37 Shoutouts and Closing PrayerAnchor Verses:Ephesians 1:3-41 Peter 2:9-10Proverbs 3:5-6Shoutouts: Therisa: Blazer & Earrings: SheinWorkout Trainer: Courtney Duncan, Stay Fit™ for Life (StayFitForLife.net)Cristal:Mark 10:45 “Called to Serve” shirt: SheinWorkout Trainer: James, Alpha Lion Fitness (@alphalionfitness23)For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Savior Complex
In this eye-opening episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, hosts Cristal and Therisa dive deep into the topic of the 'Savior Complex.' They start with a prayer and then elaborate on what the savior complex is, sharing personal stories and insights. The hosts discuss how the need to 'save' everyone can detract from one's well-being and spiritual growth. They explore the importance of setting boundaries, seeking guidance from God, and understanding one's limitations. They also emphasize the crucial role of rest and intentionality in service and ministry. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that encourages letting go of self-imposed burdens and trusting God as the ultimate savior.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer01:18 Understanding the Savior Complex02:26 Personal Experiences with the Savior Complex04:40 The Dangers of Overcommitting09:59 Root Causes of the Savior Complex12:23 Transactional Relationships and Childhood Influences15:15 Realizing Limitations and Seeking God's Guidance20:52 Balancing Ambition and Divine Alignment25:19 Trusting God's Plan25:59 The Savior Complex27:19 Letting Go and Trusting God30:17 Balancing Ministry and Personal Life32:38 Taking Care of Yourself40:56 Final Thoughts and ShoutoutsAnchor Verses:Psalms 20:7Philippians 4:6-7 Shoutouts: Therisa: The Lord Gold Collar Clips & Plaid Vest: SHEINViewers, Followers, & ListenersWorkout Trainer: Courtney Duncan, Stay Fit™ for Life (StayFitForLife.net)Cristal:Earrings: SBJ Boutique (SBJBoutique.com) Camo Grace Hat: Orange Sweat Shirt: Community Love Hub (https://www.communitylove.site)For more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Bible in One Hand, Red Flag in the Other
In episode 303, hosts Therisa and Cristal delve deep into the complexities of dating within Christian life. They discuss the difficulties, lessons, and personal growth they've experienced since season two, emphasizing their evolving perspectives on relationships, dating expectations, and personal standards. Both hosts share insights on maintaining abstinence, the importance of non-negotiables, and preparing oneself for a future spouse. With transparency, they reveal their own red flags and areas they've worked on for self-improvement. Join them in this heartfelt, faith-centered conversation about love, relationships, and trusting God's timing.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer00:53 Discussing Dating in Christian Lives01:45 Changes in Dating Perspectives03:08 Personal Growth and Expectations08:00 Challenges and Strategies in Abstinent Dating17:57 Navigating Temptations and Maintaining Boundaries26:56 Dealing with Non-Negotiables in Relationships27:28 Importance of Shared Faith in a Relationship29:57 Setting and Maintaining Personal Boundaries30:20 Navigating Romantic Expectations30:56 Learning from Past Relationships35:09 Self-Improvement and Personal Growth38:42 The Role of Control and Flexibility42:47 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections43:52 Shoutouts and Final RemarksAnchor Verses:Proverbs 31:10-121 Corinthians 13:4-7Psalms 37:4-5Shoutouts: Therisa: The LordCassette Tape “Best of 80s” Earrings: Shein Cristal:Earrings: SBJ Boutique (www.sbjboutique.com)Bible Nerd T-shirt: Bible MuseumAntonio: fine black man that purchased the shirt for herBoth: Hat Bar Experience & Hats: Sercy Co Nashville, TNFor more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Is the Gospel Being Watered Down?!
In this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' Therisa and Cristal dive deep into the topic of whether the gospel is being watered down in modern church teachings. They discuss the importance of preaching the full message of the Bible, including the consequences of actions and not just focusing on prosperity. The hosts share their thoughts on various preachers and the necessity of conveying both the positive and challenging aspects of Christianity. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on delivering the truth and navigating through spiritual guidance.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer01:02 Discussion on Joel Osteen and Prosperity Teaching02:53 The Importance of Preaching the Whole Truth07:19 Personal Reflections on Sharing the Gospel08:33 Balancing Truth and Timing in Ministry10:23 The Role of Conviction and Obedience15:09 Preaching Hell and the Full Gospel19:59 Living with Christ vs. Living in the World21:19 Understanding Grace and Forgiveness22:16 The Journey of Following Christ23:26 Daily Commitment to Christ24:15 The Challenge of Change25:11 Personal Testimonies and Deliverance27:40 Resources and Guidance for Believers29:22 Scriptural References and Final Thoughts34:28 Shoutouts and ConclusionAnchor Verses:Revelation 22:18-19Proverbs 30:5-62 Corinthians 4:2Ezekiel 3:18-19Shoutouts: Therisa: The LordEarrings & “God’s Favorite” shirt: SheinRetwist & Style: NuLynie SalonCristal:“Flabbergasted” shirt: SheinCristal’s Grandad: Thomas RouseWorld Overcomers: Church and Church Family supportHaven Bible appPastor References: Dr. Kevin A. Williams (New Jerusalem Cathedral, Greensboro, NC)Pastor Nate Davis (Now Church, Chapel Hill, NC)Andy Thompson (World Overcomers, Durham, NC)Jerry Flowers Jr.Philip Anthony MitchellTony EvansPriscilla ShirerSarah Jakes RobertsToure RobertsJackie Hill PerryFor more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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First Fruits
In the premiere of Season 3, co-hosts Therisa & Cristal reunite in Nashville to reflect on their personal journeys and the evolution of their podcast, ‘Behind the Highlight Reels’. Despite facing geographical and personal challenges, they share their gratitude in a heartfelt prayer before diving into discussions about the importance of tithing, their first encounter, and how their friendship turned into a collaborative podcast journey. They also explore the lessons and growth experienced through the seasons, emphasizing the significance of vulnerability, accountability, and recognizing God’s plan in their lives. The episode highlights their commitment to keeping God at the center and celebrating small victories while staying grounded in their spiritual mission. Join them as they embark on a new chapter filled with faith, gratitude, and intentional reflection. Chapters:00:00 Welcome to Season Three!00:46 A Prayer for Guidance01:33 Reflecting on Our Journey03:19 The Birth of a Podcast Partnership04:57 Challenges and Growth08:12 The Power of Vulnerability 12:06 Balancing Responsibilities 17:12 Celebrating Our Progress20:25 Reflecting on Purpose and Ministry20:57 Ambition and God’s Timing22:42 Authenticity in Conversations27:16 Support and Gratitude32:53 Faith and Tithing34:42 Closing Prayers and FarewellAnchor Verses: 1 Timothy 6:6I Thessalonians 5:18Psalms 100: 4-5Shoutouts: Therisa: The LordSupporters, fans, followers, subscribers, people who do or don’t like or commentGraffiti blazer: SheinCristal:Jesus Athletic Outfit: SheinFor more information about the daily Prayers, BTHR Events, Giveaways & more, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Season 2 Finale - Growing in Spirit: The Final Fruits of Kindness, Goodness, and Patience
In the season two finale of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' hosts Cristal and Therisa dive deep into the final fruits of the spirit: kindness, goodness, and patience. Filled with personal anecdotes, lots of laughs, scriptural insights, and heartfelt prayers, this episode explores the importance of cultivating these virtues in our daily lives. The hosts also reflect on their journey throughout the second season, sharing how they've seen God's work firsthand. Whether you're catching up or tuning in for the first time, this episode promises engaging discussions and spiritual enlightenment. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for updates on season three! 00:00 Welcome to the Season Finale01:25 Opening Prayer02:33 Recap of Previous Episodes02:51 Discussing Kindness, Goodness, and Patience03:45 Defining Kindness and Goodness05:02 Biblical References on Kindness06:37 Personal Stories and Reflections20:21 The Role of a Shepherd30:05 Building Trust and Relationships30:25 God's Goodness Amidst Chaos31:24 The Defeat of Satan32:06 Living Out Goodness36:08 Patience and Faith in Trying Times36:43 The Importance of Discipleship46:23 Accepting Jesus Christ50:39 Season Finale and Future Plans For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Discovering the Fruits of the Spirit: A Focus on Love, Joy, and Peace
In this episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, Cristal and Therisa continue their exploration of the Fruits of the Spirit, focusing on love, joy, and peace. They delve into Bible scriptures, sharing personal insights and experiences, and discuss how these virtues can transform one's life. Join them as they pray for guidance, share relatable stories, and provide practical advice on incorporating these fruits into daily living. Discover the deeper meaning behind these biblical principles and how to apply them in your journey of faith. 00:00 Introduction and Prayer01:17 Discussing the Fruit of Love04:08 Personal Stories and Reflections on Love15:49 Exploring the Fruit of Joy25:17 Understanding the Fruit of Peace29:26 Recap and Final Thoughts Business Shout Out: Therisa’s Shoutouts:Therisa’s Lipstick: Dusk to Dawn CosmeticsFB: https://www.facebook.com/DuskToDawnCosmeticsLLCWebsite: https://dusktodawncosmetics.com/ Therisa’s Retwist/Hair: Mercedes Howie in Greensboro, NCIG: @kamiyas_beautyAddress: The Studio Suites on Randleman Rd, Greensboro, NCPhone number: (336) 328-7087For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Living the Fruits: Balancing Faith, Gentleness & Self Control in Everyday Life
Join Cristal and Therisa as they delve into the first of a three-part series on the Fruits of the Spirit from Galatians. In this episode, they discuss the challenges and personal struggles with faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Watch as they share their journey and offer tips on how to incorporate these virtues into daily life, backed by personal stories, biblical insights, and lots of prayers. Tune in for an engaging and transparent conversation aimed at spiritual growth and character development. 00:00 Introduction and Overview of the Episode00:41 Opening Prayer and Setting the Tone01:17 Discussing the Fruits of the Spirit04:43 Faithfulness: Personal Reflections and Insights13:19 Gentleness: Challenges and Growth19:08 Embracing Humility and Self-Compassion19:37 Struggles with Self-Control21:05 The Importance of Self-Control23:14 Real-Life Examples of Self-Control26:38 Connecting Self-Control with Faith33:35 Practical Tips for Self-Control37:57 Closing Thoughts and Shoutouts Business Shout Out:Cristal's Shoutouts:Cristal’s shirt: SHEIN Therisa’s Shoutouts:Therisa’s Lipstick: Dusk to Dawn CosmeticsFB: https://www.facebook.com/DuskToDawnCosmeticsLLCWebsite: https://dusktodawncosmetics.com/ Therisa’s Retwist/Hair: Mercedes Howie in Greensboro, NCIG: @kamiyas_beautyAddress: The Studio Suites on Randleman Rd, Greensboro, NCPhone number: (336) 328-7087For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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True Love vs Social Media Myths
In this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels', co-hosts Therisa and Cristal delve into the complex topic of love and media, examining how contemporary portrayals of love have shifted perspectives. They discuss God's view on love, the challenges of dating, and the notion of 'Single Awareness Month'. The conversation touches on the effects of church hurt, the importance of community in faith, the over-sexualization of dating, and the need for realistic expectations set by faith rather than media. The hosts also share personal stories and insights on dating as Christians, the impact of societal expectations on relationships, and the importance of using God's guidance in selecting friends, partners, and mentors. Tune in for deep reflections on keeping Christ at the forefront in all aspects of relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Prayer01:18 Love and Media: February Focus02:17 Dating Expectations vs. Reality03:18 Challenges of Christian Dating04:49 Church Hurt and Community10:59 Dating Apps and Over-Sexualization20:24 Marriage and Social Media Perceptions34:52 The Role of Bridesmaids and Groomsmen36:25 Intentional Wedding Planning37:55 Financial Planning for Weddings38:18 Honeymoon Priorities39:07 Setting Boundaries for Wedding Guests40:53 Godly Relationships and Mentorship43:41 Divine Connections and Friendships51:01 Trusting God's Timing for Children53:58 Shout Outs and Gratitude56:13 Closing Remarks and Prayer Business Shout Out: Cristal's shirt: Only YHWHIG: @onlyyhwh.llcWebsite: onlyyhwh.comTherisa's church: NOW ChurchIG: NowChurchNCWebsite: https://www.nowchurchnc.com/ For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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They Not Like Us: Praying for Difficult People
In this episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' hosts Cristal and Therisa delve into the timely topic of praying for leaders and those we may not agree with, especially in light of the recent presidential inauguration. They share personal experiences, biblical teachings, and practical steps on how to genuinely pray for people in positions of power and those we consider our enemies. The discussion covers heart posture, forgiveness, and trusting God's plan in political and personal realms. Join the conversation and be inspired to see your enemies through the lenses of Jesus. Bible Verses to Study:- 2 Corinthians 5:17- Ecclesiastes 3: 1- Matthew 5:44-48- Luke 23:34- 1 Timothy 2:1-4- Romans 13:1- Proverbs 3:5- Philippians 4:6 00:00 Welcome and Introduction00:19 Praying for Leaders and Enemies02:56 Personal Experiences with Prayer05:00 The Importance of Forgiveness08:14 Balancing Grace and Wisdom11:29 Biblical Teachings on Love and Prayer18:00 Guarding Your Heart27:16 The Power of Words and Heart Posture29:17 Praying for Leaders and Trusting God's Plan31:32 Testimonies of Faith and God's Provision33:40 Understanding God's Multiplication and Authority41:12 Checking Your Heart and Intentions44:56 Sharing Testimonies and Community Engagement46:46 Shout outs and Closing Prayer Business Shout Out: Cristal's shirt: World Overcomers Christian Church For information about the weekly Bible Study, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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Tech Advances vs. Divine Authority: Finding the Line
In this episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, hosts Therisa and Cristal delve into the thought-provoking topic of how technology can sometimes seem to minimize God's authority. They discuss the ways modern technology has placed humans in a position of control, significantly impacting our reliance on God. They explore various aspects including artificial insemination, the role of medical advancements, and the potential perversion of God's wisdom in these innovations. Despite acknowledging the benefits technology can provide, they emphasize the importance of seeking God as the ultimate source and maintaining humility in our usage of technological advancements. The episode also offers practical tips for balancing faith and technology, urging viewers to read their Bibles and seek divine guidance in all aspects of life. 00:00 Introduction and Opening Prayer00:53 How Technology Minimizes God's Authority02:16 The Role of Technology in Childbirth04:33 Ethical Boundaries in Medical Technology07:05 The Importance of Humility and Faith10:53 Technology's Impact on Christian Life18:27 Using Technology as a Resource, Not the Source25:25 Finding the Right Resources26:25 Reflecting on Past Sermons27:06 The Importance of Taking Notes28:36 God's Plan and Guidance29:44 Technology and Faith31:25 Recap and Tips36:20 The Role of the Holy Spirit42:13 Shoutouts and Conclusion
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Repentance Unveiled: From Theory to Practice
In this episode of Behind the Highlight Reels, hosts Therisa and Cristal discuss the importance of true repentance in the Christian faith. They delve into the biblical and everyday definitions of repentance, sharing personal stories and experiences about turning away from sin and the struggles involved. The conversation highlights the significance of heart posture, intentional prayer, and actionable steps toward genuine change. The episode also includes a prayer session and practical tips for viewers on how to start their own journey towards repentance. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of repentance and find encouragement in your spiritual walk. 00:00 Introduction and Setup01:09 Starting the Discussion on Repentance03:43 Defining Repentance08:35 Personal Reflections on Repentance14:38 Struggles and Continuous Journey20:42 Struggles with Sexual Immorality22:07 Overcoming Addiction: A Personal Story23:42 The Power of Prayer and Deliverance25:38 The Journey of Repentance30:45 Practical Tips for Repentance36:05 Closing Thoughts and Shoutouts
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Holiday Blues: Love, Loss, and New Traditions
In this heartfelt episode of 'Behind the Highlight Reels,' hosts Cristal and Therisa discuss dealing with the holiday blues. They dive into personal experiences of loneliness, grief, and the challenges of coping without loved ones during festive times. They emphasize the importance of community, shared moments, and keeping the memory of those who have passed alive. Tune in for an honest conversation and thoughtful insights on how to navigate the complex emotions of the holiday season.For information about the weekly Bible Study and the weekly Prayer Call, go to www.bthrshow.com today!00:00 Welcome to the Holiday Blues Special00:49 Opening Prayer and Setting the Tone01:39 Personal Struggles During the Holidays04:11 Coping with Loss and Loneliness08:48 Navigating Family Dynamics17:17 Gift Giving and Financial Realities21:29 Navigating Family Expectations During Holidays22:05 Cherishing Family Traditions and Quality Time22:53 Coping with Loss During the Holidays23:54 Finding Strength in Community26:36 Balancing Relationships and Holiday Expectations27:29 Reviving the Joy of Christmas31:06 Keeping Memories of Loved Ones Alive35:06 Creating New Holiday Traditions37:51 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Exploring Boundaries: Healthy Limits and God's Purpose
Welcome to Episode 2 of Season 2 of Behind the Highlight Reels with Therisa and Cristal. In this episode, they delve into the concept of boundaries, addressing its often negative connotation and exploring its true meaning from both a secular and biblical perspective. They discuss the importance of boundaries in various aspects of life, including relationships, work, and spirituality. The episode also touches on personal experiences, the role of therapy & Jesus, and practical tips for setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. Tune in to gain insights on how to create and respect boundaries to foster healthier relationships and personal growth. For information about the weekly Bible Study and the weekly Prayer Call, go to www.bthrshow.com today! 00:00 Welcome to Ep 20201:15 Understanding Boundaries05:00 Personal Experiences with Boundaries09:10 Parenting and Boundaries14:08 God's Boundaries27:51 Struggles with Boundaries in Relationships29:00 Health and Dietary Boundaries31:03 Biblical Interpretation of Boundaries35:29 Tips for Setting and Maintaining Boundaries36:05 The Role of Therapy in Boundary Setting41:18 Prayer and Spiritual Support for Boundaries42:45 Realistic and Achievable Boundaries44:04 Final Thoughts and Shout-outs
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Discipline Diaries: Faith, Fitness and Fresh Starts
In the first episode of Season 2, hosts Therisa and Cristal kick off 'Behind the Highlight Reels' with an insightful conversation about the realistic behind-the-scenes struggles and successes often absent from social media's polished exterior. They share their excitement for the new season, set to launch on November 30th, and dive into transparent discussions about navigating life's challenges and victories.The episode focuses on the importance of discipline and obedience in various aspects of life, including reading the Bible, being obedient, and committing to personal fitness goals. They highlight the significance of staying true to their faith journey, even when it isn't easy or glamorous, and encourage listeners to embrace the messiness of their own paths. The duo also introduces additional events such as Cristal’s weekly Bible Study “The Word with Friends” and Therisa’s weekly Prayer Call, emphasizing community and support in spiritual growth.Black Business Shout Out:Cristal's hat: Life Clothing Apparel from LifeBrandApparel.net or @thelifebrandllc on InstagramFor information about the weekly Bible Study and the weekly Prayer Call, go to www.bthrshow.com today!
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Real talk. Raw stories. No filters. 🎙️ Faith | Love | Hustle | Failures We celebrate wins, own our flaws & laugh at life in between. Pull up a chair—you’ll feel right at home. 💜💖💜💖
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Therisa Means & Cristal Rouse
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