Beyond the Home Study

In this episode, we sit down with Sara, National Director of Family Recruitment and Retention at a large child welfare agency, adoptee, and adoptive mom of 13, for a conversation that brings together both professional expertise and deeply lived experience.Sara offers a rare perspective on adoption and foster care, shaped not only by her leadership in the child welfare system but also by her own story as someone who has experienced adoption from multiple angles. We talk about what it really takes to recruit and support families, where the system is working, and where there are still gaps.This conversation goes beyond policy and process. You won't want to miss it!Don't forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, and our website.

Welcome back to our not-so-regular monthly life download.In this episode, we’re sharing our personal wins from April, the things that stretched us (because there’s always something), and what’s currently unfolding in our day-to-day lives. We also chat through what’s been on our minds lately and the little things helping us unwind when we’re running on empty.It’s honest, a little all over the place, and exactly the kind of conversation we’d be having if you were sitting on the couch with us.Don’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & our website

In this episode, Dan and Lindsay share their journey through infertility, adoption, and a situation that took an unexpected turn, including navigating an adoption scam and the ethical gaps that made it possible. Their story sheds light on the realities that aren’t always talked about and the importance of asking hard questions along the way.We talk about red flags, due diligence, and what it looks like to pursue adoption with both hope and wisdom. Through it all, their journey also points to resilience, faith, and the moment they finally welcomed their daughter.This episode is both cautionary and deeply hopeful and full of insight for anyone considering adoption.We’re so glad you’re here.Resources:A Step Ahead Adoption ServicesOur Season 1 episode with Valerie from A Step AheadDon’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our website!

Thanks for joining us for this meaningful conversation!In this episode, we sit down with Erin to talk about her international adoption journey and the unexpected challenges along the way. She shares how she went into the process knowing there could be unknowns—but later discovered her child had a cleft palate that wasn’t disclosed in the paperwork and required surgery.We talk through the emotional and ethical layers of that experience, the gap between expectations and reality, and why transparency in adoption matters so much. Erin also shares what it’s looked like to support her child well and navigate it all with openness and grace.We’re so glad you’re here!Don’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our website!

Thanks for joining us for this fun, off-the-cuff episode! We’re ditching the usual format and just catching up on real life—what’s been happening in our homes, what’s making us laugh, and what’s stretching us in this season.From Easter celebrations to the everyday rhythms of family life, this conversation moves through the real highs and lows of parenting little ones in a way that feels honest and familiar. It’s a mix of stories, a little chaos, and moments that might just make you think, “same here.”We’re all figuring it out as we go, and we’re really glad you’re here!Don’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our website!

Thanks for joining us for our final episode in the March Behavior Series! In this episode, we host a casual book club conversation on The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel M.D. , Tina Payne Bryson.Earlier this month, we invited you to read along with us, and now we’re sharing our honest thoughts—what we loved, what didn’t quite land for us, and whether we’d recommend it to a friend.Listen in as we break down some of the key concepts from the book, how they show up in real-life parenting, and where theory can feel different than practice (especially in the middle of everyday moments with kids).This episode is a relaxed, real-life reflection on one of the most popular parenting books out there—and a chance to think through what actually feels helpful in your own home.If you read along with us (or even if you didn’t), we’d love for you to join the conversation!Don’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our website!

Thanks for joining us for a bonus conversation in our March Behavior Series. In this episode, we sit down with adoptive mom Jess Pruess as she shares her journey through adoption, early behavioral challenges, and learning to advocate for her son.Jess opens up about the gap between expectations and reality, recognizing early signs of trauma, and learning to trust her instincts when something felt off.Listen in as we talk about early intervention, therapy supports like speech and occupational therapy, navigating school challenges, and her son’s ADHD diagnosis. Jess also shares what it’s looked like to grow in confidence as an advocate and parent.This episode is a reminder that you are the right parent for your child—and that trusting your gut and seeking support can make all the difference.Check out these resources mentioned in the episode:- The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk - The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton VerrierDon’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our website!

Thanks for joining us for another conversation in our March Behavior Series. In this episode, we sit down with adoptive mom Kristi Powell as she shares her firsthand experience parenting children with significant trauma and big behaviors. Kristi opens up about adopting four biological siblings from Brazil during the pandemic, and what it looked like to navigate intense transitions, unexpected challenges, and the realities of trauma in everyday family life.Listen in as we talk about what’s really underneath extreme behaviors, why traditional parenting approaches often fall short, and how safety, connection, and the right support can make all the difference. Kristi also shares practical insights on pursuing therapy, building a support system, and holding onto hope in the midst of hard seasons.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by big behaviors or wondered how to better support a child from a hard place, this episode is for you.Check out Kristi's books here!Don’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our new website!

Welcome back to our March Behavior Series on Beyond the Home Study.In this episode (Part 2 of 2), we continue our conversation with TBRI practitioners Amie Huggins and Marti Smith as we talk even more about the relationship between trauma and behavior.Listen in as we dig into why behavior charts often miss the mark for kids from hard places, how schools can better support regulation and connection, and we chat about their new book, Creating a Connected Classroom.If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on underneath big behaviors (especially in school settings), this episode is for you.Get Creating a Connected Classroom here!Want to connect with our guests? Send them an email!Marti Smith, OT & Amie Huggins, M.EdDon’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our new website!

Welcome back to our March Behavior Series on Beyond the Home Study.In this episode (Part 1 of 2), we sit down with TBRI practitioners Amie Huggins and Marti Smith to talk about what’s really going on underneath the behaviors we see in foster and adoptive children.We explore how Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) and occupational therapy help us better understand things like regulation, sensory needs, and proprioception — and why behavior is communication, not blatant defiance.Listen as we break down practical ways to respond to big behaviors while building safety, connection, and trust with the kids in our care.Get Creating a Connected Classroom here!Want to connect with our guests? Send them an email!Marti Smith ,OTR & Amie Huggins, M.EdDon’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!Instagram, Facebook, & check out our *new* website!

It's March and this month we’re talking all about behavior.Today's episode is about the realities of parenting foster and adopted children: big behaviors, unmet expectations, emotional triggers, and the differences between bio and adopted dynamics.Listen as we talk through the moments that leave you exhausted, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you’re doing any of this right.Don’t forget to Like, Follow, & Share!InstagramFacebookWebsite: www.yourehomenetwork.com

Welcome to Wins, Woes & What’s Happening — our monthly download on life.We’re covering our personal wins, what's been weighing on us this month, and new legislation affecting the system. Plus, what we’re watching when our brains are officially done for the day.Real life. Real foster care. No sugarcoating.Don't forget to Like, Follow, & Share!InstagramFacebookWebsite

In this powerful episode of Beyond the Home Study, we sit down with former foster youth and author Lainie Hartley to hear the story behind the system.Lainie shares what foster care felt like from her side — the pain, the hope, and the complicated relationships between foster and birth families. She challenges us to lead with empathy, not assumptions, and introduces her Bridge Program, designed to help foster and birth parents build understanding instead of division.This conversation will challenge the way you think about foster care — and maybe even the way you parent within it.Don't forget to Like, Follow, & Share!InstagramFacebookWebsite

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, we sit down with Karen Henderson, Director of Programs at CASA of the River Region, to talk about the life-changing impact of a CASA volunteer (Court Appointed Special Advocate) in the foster care system.Karen shares how CASA advocates support children through the court process, provide a consistent adult presence, and help ensure a child’s voice is heard. We also discuss secondary trauma, the need for volunteers (especially for teens) and the powerful story of a teenager who went from not wanting to attend school to graduating and inviting his CASA advocate to the ceremony.If you’ve ever wondered whether one adult can truly make a difference in foster care, this episode is for you.Learn more about CASA of the River Region:https://www.casariverregion.org/volunteerEmbrace a Child CASA Event:https://www.casariverregion.org/embrace-a-child Don't forget to Like, Follow, & Share! 📸 Instagram📘 Facebook 🌐 Website

Foster care is beautiful—and heartbreaking.In this Season 2 premiere, Lora Rose & Abbey are back and going deep! In this episode they share personal stories from inside foster care, including the joy of welcoming children in, the reality of reunification, and the grief that comes with letting go.Don't forget to Like, Follow, & Share! 📸 Instagram: @beyondthehomestudy🌐 Website: www.yourehomenetwork.com

In this season finale of Beyond the Home Study, hosts Lora Rose & Abbey share all their favorite things—from the sensory tools they can’t parent without to the coffee, books, apps, and even nail polish that help them feel human on the hard days. If you’re looking for fresh ideas, practical tools, or just a few fun favorites to brighten your week, this episode is for you.ResourcesThese are a few of our favorite things! Click here for the products mentioned in this episode.Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen & don't forget to follow us on Instagram! Stay tuned for Season 2!!

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey talk with Johanna Choate, who shares her powerful story of perseverance through the ups and downs of adoption. From unexpected twists in the process to the emotional toll of waiting, Johanna opens up about what it’s like to hold onto hope when things don’t go as planned.Memorable Quotes: “God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the called."“We just kind of belly flopped into it.”“Adoption was not our first plan by any stretch of the imagination.”Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen & don’t forget to follow us on Instagram. 

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey sit down with Valerie Marble, newly published author & CEO of A Step Ahead Adoption Services, to walk through the first questions every prospective adoptive parent should be asking. Valerie breaks down how to start the adoption journey with clarity and confidence—covering what to consider when looking at your timeline, what finances may look like, how often disruptions really happen, plus so much more! Whether you’re just beginning to explore adoption or already deep in research mode, this episode is full of grounded, practical guidance from someone who’s been on both sides of the process.ResourcesA Step Ahead Adoption ServicesValerie's Book: Living Through the Journey: a journal for hopeful adoptive parentsSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. And don't forget to follow us on Instagram!

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey unpack the concept of co-regulation—how parents can help children calm down by first calming themselves. Drawing from personal experiences and real-life parenting moments, they discuss what co-regulation looks like in the context of foster care and adoption, how to respond to meltdowns, and why repair matters after we lose our cool. Memorable Quotes:“"I feel like I have a hundred pound weight on my shoulders."“Mirror neurons, baby!”Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen & don’t forget to follow us on Instagram!

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey explore the powerful role of play in building attachment and supporting child development. They unpack how play fosters connection, how trauma can influence a child’s ability to engage, and why movement-based play is key to emotional regulation. Memorable Quotes:"Your best toys are yourself and your creativity."“Redefine your definition of play and know that it's much broader than you think."Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen & don’t forget to follow us on Instagram!

In this heartfelt episode of Beyond the Home Study, hosts Lora Rose & Abbey sit down with Jessica and Ryan McMichael to share their powerful story of adoption. From the heartbreak of disrupted matches to the joy of welcoming their children home, Jessica and Ryan offer an honest look at the emotional ups and downs of building a family through adoption. Memorable Quotes:"Adoption was always Plan A for us.""Every hardship, every piece of paperwork, it's all worth it.""There's no playbook for adoption, just start the conversation."Support the Show:If you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen & don't forget to follow us on Instagram!

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey dive into the importance of community for parents, especially those navigating foster care and adoption. They unpack what community really means, from local support systems to online spaces, and discuss the barriers that make connection difficult. The conversation highlights the vulnerability it takes to form relationships, the impact of parenting challenges on social life, and the beauty of finding “your people.”Memorable Quotes:"Community doesn't have to look the same for everyone; it's about finding what works for you.""Finding your people is about recognizing the pockets of community around you."ResourcesFollow us on Instagram!Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey open up about the things they wish they had known before beginning their adoption and foster care journeys. They share the emotional weight of waiting for placements, the complexities of navigating relationships with birth mothers, and the never-ending paperwork that adoption entails. Memorable Quotes"I wish I understood the emotional weight of waiting.""You really don't know what to expect.""Adoption does not heal infertility."ResourcesFollow us on InstagramSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, hosts Lora Rose and Abbey sit down with author and adoptive mom Kristin Hill Taylor, who shares her three very different adoption stories. While agencies were involved, each connection to her children’s birth moms came through unique personal relationships — a family friend, a lawyer, and even her doctor. Kristin reflects on how these experiences shaped her perspective on adoption and ultimately inspired her writing career. She also opens up about open adoption, navigating work and family, and the importance of community support throughout the journey.Sound Bites "We fell into it backward." "I think God built our family."Resources Kristin’s Website: www.kristinhilltaylor.com Kristin’s Books on Amazon:Peace in the Process: How Adoption Built My Faith & My FamilyBringing Home More Than Groceries: Stories About Gathering & Nourishing PeopleCreated for Communion: Discovering God’s Design for Biblical FriendshipSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast & don’t forget to follow us on Instagram!

Description:In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey unpack the whirlwind of the first 30 days after bringing a child home through foster care or adoption. From navigating time in the NICU to setting realistic expectations for attachment, they share practical tips and honest reflections on what those early days really look like. You’ll hear why self-care matters, how to balance routines with flexibility, and why limiting visitors can make a big difference for both you and your child.Memorable Quotes:“You have to prioritize yourself.”“You want this tone to be connection.”Follow us on InstagramSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

Join Lora Rose & Abbey as they laugh through the everyday parenting battles we all face—but sometimes decide just aren’t worth the fight. From kids refusing to wear what you picked out to the chaos of mealtimes and routines, they share real-life stories of when it’s better to let go for the sake of connection. This episode is full of honesty, humor, and grace for the messy middle of parenting.Memorable Quotes: "You can't be all things to all people." "Sometimes you just have to let them wear the pajamas."Links & Resources:Follow us on InstagramSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey engage in an open and honest conversation about the complexities of motherhood, work-life balance, and personal identity. They share their personal journeys, the emotional struggles of parenting, and the societal pressures surrounding work and family roles. In this EpisodeNavigating motherhood involves constant evaluation of personal choices.The balance between work and family is a common struggle for many mothers.Emotional health is crucial in the journey of parenting.It's important to recognize the invisible load that mothers carry.Finding identity beyond motherhood can be challenging but necessary.Support systems play a vital role in managing parenting responsibilities.It's okay to seek escape from motherhood at times.Personal growth often comes from reflecting on past experiences.Every mother's journey is unique and should be respected.Open conversations about these struggles can foster community and understanding.Links & Resources:Follow us on InstagramSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose and Abbey interview Wilson Munsterman, an adoptee, author, and college student. Wilson shares his adoption story, the dynamics of his adoptive family, and his experiences growing up as a transracial adoptee. In this episodeWilson’s adoption story, from being born in China to joining his adoptive family at 10 months.The role of cultural identity and how it shaped his experiences.Struggles with self-worth, belonging, and feeling “enough.”How Wilson reframed his journey to focus on positivity and growth.Why he wrote Marked by Adoption and the impact it’s had on readers.The importance of grace in adoptive parenting and navigating complex family dynamics.Why sharing positive adoption stories matters for adoptees and families alike.Resources & LinksSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ ⁠Buy us a coffee⁠ to support the podcast & don't forget to follow us on⁠ Instagram⁠

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey sit down with Beth Michiemo, a foster mom with experience parenting both biological and foster children. Beth shares her journey into foster care, the dynamics within her blended family, and the emotional realities of welcoming children from hard places. In this episodeBeth shares her journey into foster care and what motivated her to start.The dynamics of parenting three biological kids, one adopted child, and one currently in foster care.Why community support is vital for foster families.The emotional and spiritual demands of foster care compared to biological parenting.The importance of being sensitive to the backgrounds and needs of foster children.Why foster care is truly a family commitment.ResourcesDownload our⁠ FREE teacher email template⁠Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen & don't forget to follow us on⁠ Instagram⁠

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey dive into the complexities of navigating adult relationships as parents — especially for those who have adopted or fostered children. Through personal stories and candid reflections, they explore how friendships evolve after parenthood, how to respond to awkward adoption-related comments, and why community with like-minded families is so vital. This conversation is a gentle reminder that you're not alone, and meaningful connections are possible, even in this season.In This Episode:– Navigating friendships post-adoption and the shifts that come with parenting– Handling awkward or insensitive comments about your child’s story– How to find (and be) the kind of friend who “gets it”– Understanding that some friendships may be more surface-level and that’s okay– Navigating limited social opportunities while parenting in the foster care system– What it looks like to reevaluate your needs and expectations in friendships– How honesty about your family’s story can help build connectionResources:Download our⁠ FREE teacher email templateSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ ⁠Buy us a coffee⁠ to support the podcast & don't forget to follow us on⁠ Instagram⁠

Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of disrupted adoption matches and the emotional impact of when an adoption plan does not move forward. Please listen with care if you’ve experienced adoption loss or related grief.Summary:In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose and Abbey sit down with adoptive mom and teacher Tara to talk through the emotional ups and downs of her open adoption journey. From navigating failed matches to parenting both biological and adopted school-aged children, Tara shares what’s surprised her most about adoption and what she wishes she’d known. In This Episode:How Tara and her husband’s adoption journey beganNavigating the grief and hope of failed adoption matchesCreating meaningful connections with birth mothersTalking to kids about their adoption storiesManaging adoption conversations at school and with peersResources:Download our ⁠FREE teacher email template⁠Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ ⁠Buy us a coffee⁠ to support the podcast & don't forget to follow us on ⁠Instagram

Summary:In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose & Abbey dive into the complexities of advocating for adopted and foster children in school environments. From navigating 504 Plans and IEPs to fostering relationships with teachers, they offer practical strategies and personal insights to help parents feel empowered and equipped. This episode highlights the unique needs trauma-impacted children may bring into the classroom—and how parents can effectively communicate those needs to educators with clarity and compassion.In This Episode:The difference between IEPs and 504 PlansWhy one-size-fits-all education often fails adopted childrenWhen and how to begin the advocacy process (hint: it starts early!)How to build trust and collaborate with teachers and school teamsWhy understanding the school system can make you a stronger advocateTips for approaching childcare settings with the same intentionalityThe importance of leading with compassion—for both your child and their educatorsDownload our FREE teacher email template Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast& don't forget to follow us on Instagram

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose, a pediatric occupational therapist, and Abbey Ramirez explore the powerful connection between sensory processing and trauma in children. Through honest reflection and real-life stories, they shed light on the unique challenges that trauma-impacted children face, and how those challenges often show up as sensory-seeking or sensory-avoiding behaviors. With Lora's professional insight and Abbey's parenting perspective, this episode offers both understanding and practical support for caregivers navigating sensory needs in adopted and foster children.In This Episode:How trauma affects sensory processing in childrenRecognizing the difference between sensory seekers and avoidersSimple strategies to support your child’s nervous systemThe role of compassion and co-regulation in challenging momentsWhy modeling body awareness mattersWhen to seek out therapy or extra supportEncouragement for parents to trust their gutLinks & ResourcesFREE training for KY Foster Parents STAR Institute - free resources for parentsQuiz- What's Your Sensory Style?Support the ShowIf you’ve found value in our conversations, we’d love your support!⭐️ Leave us a rating and review—it helps more people find the show.☕ Buy us a coffee to help keep the podcast going!

In this powerful and emotional episode, Lora Rose and Abbey sit down with Chelsie, a birth mom who courageously shares her adoption journey. From finding out she was pregnant at 14 to navigating the adoption process and choosing an adoptive family, Chelsie opens up about the deep emotional layers of her experience. She talks about the healing she's found, the complexity of open adoption, and the importance of seeing and supporting birth moms with compassion—not judgment. Whether you're a hopeful adoptive parent, an expectant mom considering adoption, or simply someone who wants to understand more, Chelsie's story is one you won’t forget.In This Episode:Chelsie’s pregnancy journey at just 14 years oldThe emotional weight of hiding her pregnancyFinding safety and support at an adoption centerHow she chose the adoptive family—“It was a God thing”The realities and beauty of open adoptionFacing guilt, shame, and identity as a young birth momHow becoming a mom again brought healingCommon misconceptions about birth momsSupport the Show:If you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast ✨Follow us on Instagram for more stories and conversations: ⁠@beyondthehomestudy⁠

In this solo episode of Beyond the Home Study, Abbey Ramirez dives deeper into the world of private adoption. Picking up from Part 1 with Laura Noonan, Abbey addresses the many lingering questions potential adoptive parents have — from choosing between an agency or attorney to understanding the emotional and financial realities of the adoption journey. Drawing from her personal experience, Abbey offers practical advice, gentle encouragement, and an honest look at what it’s really like to walk this path.Whether you're just beginning to explore adoption or are already in the process, this episode will leave you feeling more informed and a little less alone.In This Episode:- Agency vs. private attorney: what you need to know- The real cost of adoption — and how to plan for it- Fundraising tips and mindsets- Creating your family profile book: why it mattersLinks & Resources:Ohio Adoption Grant Program Adoption Credit | Internal Revenue ServiceFollow us on InstagramSupport the show If you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

This is Part 1 of a special two-part series on Private Adoption 101. In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Abbey Ramirez is joined by Laura Noonan to answer real questions from a woman exploring the possibility of private adoption. Abbey and Laura walk through what the process actually looks like—from first steps to matching—and share both personal experiences and practical tips. Together, they discuss how to navigate emotional challenges, choose between an agency or a lawyer, prepare financially, and build meaningful relationships with birth mothers. Whether you're just beginning to consider adoption or are already on the path, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and insight.In This EpisodeWhat to expect emotionally when considering adoptionLaura’s family story: how they decided to adoptWhy connection with birth moms is vitalUnderstanding trauma in adoption and its impact on bondingDifferences between agencies and attorneys—and how to chooseBuilding your family profile book (and why it matters)Budgeting for adoption: what to plan forThe highs and lows of the matching processWhy openness can create more opportunitiesHow to start the conversation with your support networkLinks & ResourcesFollow us on Instagram: @beyondthehomestudyIf this episode helped you, please rate & review the showSupport our work at Buy Me a Coffee ☕💛📌 Stay tuned for Part 2 next week, where we go even deeper into the logistics of private adoption—from legal steps to post-placement support.

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose and Abbey sit down with Anna Bernacki—an adoptee, former foster parent and now adoptive mom of four. Anna shares her deeply personal story of growing up as an adoptee, choosing to foster, and parenting in a transracial family. Together, they unpack the emotional layers of adoption: grief, identity, language, and the importance of honest conversations. Anna brings wisdom, vulnerability, and a hopeful challenge to adoptive parents to listen, stay humble, and build supportive communities.In This EpisodeAnna shares her story as an adoptee and adoptive parentHow adoptees often feel like detectives piecing together their historyWhy the language we use around adoption mattersNavigating racial identity in transracial adoptive familiesThe grief that can come with adoption — and how it shows upWhy community support makes all the differenceLinks & Resources:Follow Anna Bernacki on Instagram at @anna.bernacki &@parentingdifferentFREE OFFER: Try Thrive, Parenting Different’s support platform for adoptive parents — get your first 30 days free: https://www.parentingdifferent.com/podcastofferConnect with us on Instagram @beyondthehomestudySupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora Rose and Abbey sit down with Samantha Miller, adoptive mom and cohost of the Going There podcast, to have an honest conversation about birth moms — and how we talk about them with our children, our families, and in our communities.Samantha shares her own adoption journey, including the beauty and challenges of open adoption, setting boundaries, and honoring the birth mom in her child’s story. Together, they unpack how faith and community can shape the way we talk about adoption and how adoptive parents can approach these relationships with humility, honesty, and grace.In This Episode:Why birth moms deserve honor and space in adoption storiesNavigating open adoption boundariesTalking to kids about their birth moms from a young ageThe role of the church in better supporting birth and adoptive familiesResources & Links:🎧 Going There Podcast (with Samantha Miller)Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, hosts Lora Rose and Abbey open up about their personal experiences with transracial adoption. They reflect on the importance of representation, the realities of foster care versus adoption, and how they support their children's racial and cultural identities. With honesty and grace, Lora Rose and Abbey emphasize the importance of humility, lifelong learning, and the role of community in raising children through adoption.In This Episode:The differences between foster care and adoption preparationWhy representation in toys and media mattersHow children identify with others who look like themThe value of building a diverse, supportive communityModeling cultural curiosity and openness as parentsWhy early conversations about race are essentialTools and resources to support transracial adopteesEmbracing growth, grace, and learning in adoptive parentingSupport the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Lora and Abbey dive into the joys and challenges of traveling with kids—especially those who are adopted. From Memorial Day meals and RV adventures to managing expectations and finding felt safety on the go, they offer practical advice and personal stories to help families travel with more peace and flexibility.In this episode:- Strategies for travel with adopted children- Sleep, snack, and screen-time hacks- Toy swaps and creative entertainment ideas- Tips for food, routines, and staying grounded on the road- How to reframe travel as parenting in a different placeLinks & Resources:Travel bag backpack for infant car seat: https://amzn.to/3F6qPjSTravel bag backpack for convertible car seat: https://amzn.to/4jkY5ls Travel Case for Yoto Mini: https://amzn.to/4kfm9r2 Squigs: https://amzn.to/4jrAPCmDrawing pad: https://amzn.to/43PG6yKWooly Willy: https://amzn.to/43QvEXNMagnetic guys: https://amzn.to/43mjm9DMagnetic board: https://amzn.to/3HfgdjjKids Bluetooth Headphones: https://amzn.to/43nZ9QR Rings for Stroller or Carrier Seat: https://amzn.to/4dx8lWb Support the ShowIf you’re loving these conversations, help us keep going!⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ Buy us a coffee to support the podcast

In this episode of Beyond the Home Study, Abbey and Lora bring both heart and humor as they dive into parenting hot takes—from screen time to crawling and whether it's ok to change your adopted child's name. They also share personal family updates, celebrate milestones, and reflect on what it means to parent with intention in both biological and adoptive families.Through candid conversations, they explore the tension between societal expectations and real-life parenting, especially in the context of adoption and foster care. You'll hear honest thoughts on misunderstood parenting tools, the developmental importance of crawling, how to respect birth parents in adoption stories, and why it's okay to shift your approach as your kids grow.Support the Show:⭐ Leave a rating and review wherever you listen☕ ⁠Buy us a coffee⁠ to support the podcast💬 Join the ConversationWhat’s your biggest parenting hot take? Have a milestone moment or a screen-time opinion to share? Drop us a comment or DM—we’d love to hear from you!Follow us on Instagram:@beyondthehomestudy

In this episode, Lora and Abbey dive into the beautifully messy world of sibling relationships in adoptive families. From shifting birth order to navigating loyalty, grief, and identity, this conversation brings nuance and compassion to the often-overlooked dynamics between siblings. They explore how adoption affects every child in the family—not just the one who joined through adoption—and share ways to support kids through open communication, shared family values, and intentional parenting.You'll hear real talk about balancing different needs, making space for big feelings, and celebrating the unique roles each child plays. Whether you're preparing to grow your family or already parenting through adoption, this episode is packed with insights, encouragement, and reminders that there's no one right way to do family.In this episode:How adoption can shift sibling roles and birth orderWhy loyalty and grief often show up in sibling dynamicsTips for having open, age-appropriate conversations about adoptionHow to hold space for individuality while nurturing family valuesEncouragement for navigating sibling rivalry with grace and intentionWhy resilience often grows through messy momentsSupport the ShowIf you’ve found value in our conversations, we’d love your support!⭐️ Leave us a rating and review—it helps more people find the show.☕⁠ Buy us a coffee⁠ to help keep the podcast going!We want to hear from you!How has adoption shaped sibling relationships in your home? Share your stories or questions in the comments, or send us a message—we love connecting with you!Be sure to follow us on Instagram ⁠@beyondthehomestudy

In this heartfelt episode of Beyond the Home Study, Abbey and Lora sit down with Bethany Meacham, an adoptive mom of over 10 years, to explore the real and raw journey of international adoption. Bethany opens up about what led her family to adopt, the challenges of the adoption process, and how they prepared their hearts—and home—for a new child.From tough conversations about race and identity to the complexities of sibling dynamics, Bethany shares the lessons she's learned and the growth her family has experienced along the way. With honesty and compassion, she offers encouragement and wise advice for families considering adoption, especially those who want to do it thoughtfully and well.📌 In This Episode:Bethany’s path from foster care to international adoptionHow grief and personal loss shaped her heart for adoptionThe challenges of international adoption—including trauma and waitingNavigating race, identity, and cultural heritage with intentionWhat changed when Malachi came home: sibling dynamics and family growthWhy preparation, education, and ongoing support are essential for adoptive familiesEncouragement and real talk for those considering adoptionLinks & Resources:Visit Bethany’s website: www.handletteringbybethany.comFollow her on TikTok: @bethanymeachQuestions, comments, or your own adoption story? Email us at [email protected] & follow us on Instagram: @beyondthehomestudy

It’s our very first guest episode, and we couldn’t be more excited to welcome Emily Burns to the mic! In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation, Emily shares her unique journey through embryo adoption — a path that allowed her to both adopt and experience pregnancy.We talk about what it’s really like to navigate infertility, choose donor embryos, and embrace motherhood in a way most people haven’t heard much about. Emily gets real about the emotional rollercoaster, the medical and ethical considerations, and the incredible love that fueled every step of her path to parenthood.This one’s for anyone curious about the lesser-known corners of adoption — or anyone who just needs to hear an honest, beautiful story of hope and perseverance. In this episode:Emily shares her personal story of choosing embryo adoption after infertilityWe explore how embryo adoption combines the experiences of pregnancy and adoptionThe emotional process of selecting donor embryos — and what makes it so complexWhy medical history can be tricky (and how families navigate it)Emily finished the sentence “I adopted because…” — now it’s your turn!Share your 'why' in the comments or message us on Instagram. We’d love to hear how your path to parenthood has unfolded. 🔗 Links & Resources:National Embryo Donation Center Got a question or story to share? Email us at: [email protected] at: [email protected]📲 Follow us on Instagram for updates and sneak peeks:@beyondthehomestudy

In this heartfelt episode, Abbey and Lora open up about their personal journeys with adoption—the why, the how, and all the messy, beautiful emotions in between. From early dreams of motherhood to pivotal moments that shaped their decisions, they share the real, raw, and redemptive sides of walking through adoption.You’ll hear about the importance of community support, the reality of navigating expectations, and why we believe that even if you're not called to adopt, you're absolutely called to care. We also dive into a real conversation about the "savior complex" and how important it is to keep adoption centered on love, humility, and honoring every unique story.In this episode, we cover:- How personal experiences led to choosing adoption- The critical role of community in the adoption journey- The difference between a "call to adopt" and caring for orphans in other ways- Navigating infertility, fostering, and family reactions- Why every adoption story is different—and that’s a good thingWe’re sharing our hearts and hope it encourages yours—whether you're on your own adoption journey or simply looking for ways to show up for vulnerable children and families.✨ Links & Resources9 Questions to Ask Yourself if You're Considering Adoption We’d love to hear from you! Finish the sentence: "I adopted because..." and share it with us in the comments or send us a DM on Instagram!

Some days, parenting feels like a wild ride you didn’t totally sign up for—and that’s especially true when adoption, emotional exhaustion, or transitions are part of the mix. In this episode, Abbey and Lora get real about the emotional toll of motherhood, sharing their own messy, beautiful experiences and the small (but powerful!) strategies that help them reset when things feel overwhelming.We’re talking about the mindset shifts that keep us going, how cleaning can actually be therapeutic (yes, vacuuming counts!), and the importance of giving yourself a break—literally and emotionally. Whether you're parenting through grief, transition, or just a really long week, we want you to know: you’re not alone, and you’re doing better than you think.In this episode, we explore:- Sleep deprivation & parenting capacity- Cleaning hacks that double as emotional resets- Practical ways to reframe your mindset on tough days- How to recognize what you need as a parentFrom “pull-up days” to “green chair moments,” this episode is your reminder that growth happens in the hard stuff—and that taking care of yourself is part of taking care of your family.✨ LINKS & RESOURCES ✨Yoto Player How-To: https://us.yotoplay.com/make-your-own- click the FAQs for adding a podcast like Thomas the TrainIG & Podcasts we mentioned: -Risen Motherhood, Raising Boys & Girls, Flourishing Homes & Families, Feeding LittlesFreebie: Bedtime Battles: A How-to Guide for Helping Your Adopted Toddler SleepGot a question, a story to share, or something you want us to talk about on the podcast? Email us anytime at [email protected]

Adoption is always an emotional journey, but Abbey’s story is one for the books. In this special bonus episode, Abbey opens up about the rollercoaster of adopting her twin girls—from navigating the NICU to embracing the unexpected timing of their birth, all while processing family loss.She shares the deep emotions of welcoming two new lives into her family, the meaning behind their names, and how she found peace in the chaos. Plus, she reflects on her connection with the birth mother, the support that carried her through, and the unexpected joys of parenting twins.If you love heartwarming, real-life adoption stories, this one’s for you! 💛🎧 Listen in for:✨ The whirlwind of NICU life with premature twins✨ The emotional highs and lows of adoption✨ Finding peace in the unknowns of the journey✨ The power of community and support✨ How Abbey is honoring and supporting the birth motherAdoption is complex, beautiful, and full of surprises—this story is proof of that. Chapters00:00 The Exciting News of Adoption02:56 Navigating Grief and New Life06:10 The Journey to California08:55 First Encounters with the Twins12:22 Bonding and NICU Experiences15:09 Open Adoption and Communication18:09 Next Steps for the Twins21:00 Choosing Names with Meaning23:47 Navigating Adoption Complexities31:14 Life Changes and New Beginnings

Let’s be honest—sleep is one of the most talked about (and misunderstood) parts of parenting. In this episode, we’re getting real about all things sleep: the myths, the pressure, the late-night chaos, and why “just sleep when the baby sleeps” deserves a permanent eye-roll.Join us, Lora and Abbey, as we unpack our personal experiences with sleep challenges—from those newborn nights to parenting older kiddos through bedtime battles. We’re busting the myth that there's a one-size-fits-all sleep strategy, talking about the controversial "cry it out" method, and why flexibility (and grace!) are essential—especially for adoptive and foster families.In this episode, we dive into:- The unrealistic expectations around baby sleep- Why routines > rigid schedules- The truth about "crying it out"- How sleep ties into child development and emotional safety- Customizing sleep strategies for your unique family- The importance of intentional rest—for you, too!Whether you're deep in the newborn fog, navigating sleep with a foster placement, or just wondering if your kid is ever going to sleep through the night... this one’s for you. Grab your coffee (in your ember mug 😉) and come hang with us for a conversation full of honesty, validation, and a whole lot of grace.✨Freebie: Bedtime Battles: A How-to Guide for Helping Your Adopted Toddler Sleep💌 Have questions, comments, or a story to share with us? We’d love to hear from you! Email us anytime at [email protected]

Meltdowns, Tantrums & The Witching Hour—Oh My!Ever wonder why your kid saves their biggest meltdowns for right when you’re about to sit down and breathe for the first time all day? Or why they suddenly go feral when both parents are home? We’ve got answers!In this rapid-fire Q&A episode, we’re diving into all the juicy questions about meltdowns and tantrums—why they happen, what they really mean, and how to survive them without losing your mind. We’re talking about the infamous “witching hour” (yes, it’s real), why your kid acts worse when both parents are around, and how to actually help without just throwing snacks and prayers at the problem.We’re breaking down:🔹 Why the “witching hour” turns your sweet kid into a tiny tornado🔹 The “mommy effect” and why kids save their big feelings just for you (lucky, right?)🔹 How to keep your cool when your frustration is rising🔹 Why “attention-seeking” is really “connection-seeking” (and why that matters!)🔹 The magic of matching your child’s emotions to help them calm down🔹 Balancing boundaries with empathy—because yes, both matter!Parenting is wild, but you don’t have to do it alone. Tune in and get the practical tips (and maybe a little reassurance) that you need to make these moments just a little bit easier!Let’s do this. Chapters00:00 Understanding Meltdowns: The Witching Hour04:20 Parental Dynamics: Why Meltdowns Happen When Both Parents Are Home08:07 The Safe Space: Why Kids Act Out at Home12:15 Managing Overstimulation: Keeping Emotions in Check18:19 Balancing Boundaries: Seeking Perspective vs. Holding Ground

You’ve got 10 minutes to grab milk before school pickup, and then—boom. Your child is on the floor, wailing, flailing, and making sure the entire store knows they are not okay. Meanwhile, you’re standing there, heart racing, feeling every pair of eyes on you. Why is this so triggering? And what on earth are you supposed to do next?In this episode, we’re unpacking why these public meltdowns happen (hint: it’s never just about the fruit snacks) and why they can feel so overwhelming—not just for our kids, but for us as parents, too. We’ll share what actually helps in these moments, what doesn’t, and how to keep your cool when you’d rather melt into the floor yourself.No perfect parenting advice here—just two moms who have been there and a few strategies that have actually worked for us. Because if you’ve ever felt like the worst parent in the world over a public meltdown… you’re not.Hit play, take a deep breath, and let’s talk tantrums.