Endgame: Mastering the High Conflict Divorce with Vani Kovitch

Following up on last week’s episode, Vani Kovitch is looking back over the red flags that her narcissistic ex began to exhibit over the course of their relationship. Many of us can relate with Vani seeing her narcissist slowly taking their mask off and this episode just might help things click into place if some of these signs are starting to crop up in your relationship. More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Take off your rose-colored glasses, because on this episode of Endgame Vani Kovitch breaks down the top ten red flags that you may be dating a narcissist. Vani not only describes the telltale signs but also shares behavioral examples and emphasizes how the worst indicators may sneak in over time. Whether you are sure you’re dealing with a narcissist or haven’t even considered it these are the warning signs to watch for.    More From Vani Kovitch  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]  This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today Vani Kovitch takes us on a comprehensive journey in tackling fear surrounding the  divorce process; both in how it can stop us and how it can become a tool. Vani explores hard, actionable tactics to isolating and taking on our fears and even shares some of the anxieties that she experienced and ultimately overcame. You won’t want to miss these invaluable ideas as you entire the fight of your life!   More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today Vani Kovitch gives shout-at-your-screen-tv a whole other meaning. Come with us as Vani breaks down and analyzes Dorit Kemsley’s situation as she begins what will surely be a high-conflict divorce process. Vani gives us a rundown of the situation so far and explains how she would start to take the reins before Dorit’s soon-to-be-ex takes over.   More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Divorce coach Vani Kovitch shares invaluable insights about the impact of divorce on mental health in this episode of Endgame. Vani shares how we measure stress and where divorce falls on that scale while imparting the importance of validating that struggle. She also points out some of the many ways that stress can manifest and even some of her personal experience through her own high-conflict divorce. You don’t want to miss these critical warnings and perspectives!   More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of Endgame Vani sits down with her friend and coach Heather White. Heather is a wellness entrepreneur and Pilates instructor. She is the head of Feel Real Good Co., a new wellness ecosystem where Pilates is the spine and everything else is designed to make you feel better in your body. Heather shares her enlightening story of coming to understand that she was trapped in a relationship with a narcissist and how she ultimately designed to find a path out. She offers a nuanced and relatable of realizing that your relationship and partner are not what they seem. Heather’s story is such an inspiration for anyone who may be feeling trapped or toeing the line about trying to begin the fight of their life. More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this Episode of Endgame: Mastering the High Conflict Divorce our host Vani Kovitch walks you through the first steps to take when starting your divorce battle. Vani explains how to get in touch to prepare for this fight of your life and even takes the quiz that will help her understand the exact enemy you will be fighting together. For those of you wanting to reach Vani or unsure how to begin this process, this is the episode for you!   To hear Vani more fully explain the three types of narcissists, check out our episode titled ‘Know Your Enemy: Understanding the Three Types of Narcissists’ wherever you get your podcasts.   More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

…that is the question. In this episode of Endgame host Vani Kovitch discusses the dilemma many people face with their high-conflict ex; deciding how much forgiveness to grant them. Vani stresses that forgiveness is not necessary but a deeply personal decision, and it can ultimately be a kindness you give more to yourself than to your ex. Vani also shares insights and experiences from her clients’ perspectives as well as her own high-conflict divorce.   More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you are finding yourself lost and stretched thin amidst your high conflict divorce, Vani Kovitch has come with just the advice you’ll need. In this episode of Endgame Vani covers many of the ways our energy and personhood can be lost when fighting this battle and how to stave off some of these issues. She shares important tips on how to safeguard your health, your friendship, and your hobbies. Maybe most importantly, Vani wants to remind you that this is not a sprint, but a marathon.   Make sure to catch all the critical tips and warning signs in this new episode.   More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode of Endgame Vani Kovitch sits down with her good friend Melanie Allen Hauglum to discuss her harrowing divorce, during which she discovered she had been misled and conned. Melanie was a philanthropist, a mother, and Vani’s ride-or-die.   What Melanie went through in her high conflict divorce will resonate with many; she was abused and neglected in her marriage and even pitted against her children in the divorce process. But Melanie will share not just her challenges, but how she fought through and built her world back up on the other side. She also reveals the legal loophole that her ex used to exploit her trust and offers some critical advice on how to avoid similar problems. More From Vani Kovitch Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Endgame Vani Kovitch sits down with Dr. Elisa Malangone to hear her remarkable and, at times, surreal path through divorce. Elisa shares how she faced the vitriol and unsurmountable odds thrown at her, and even built an incredible new career from these challenges. Elisa Malangone is an internationally recognized Transformational Specialist, Medium, speaker, and author based in Denver, Colorado. For over a decade, she has helped individuals reconnect with their soul’s purpose, offering clarity, healing, and deep personal transformation. Her guiding philosophy is: “Partner with your purpose, and your purpose will partner with you.” Learn more at ElisaInsight.com.   More From Vani Kovitch Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected]   This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of Endgame: Mastering the High Conflict Divorce Vani Kovitch helps prepare you for when the unthinkable happens; your soon-to-be-ex starts a new relationship before the ink is even dry on divorce papers.    Vani covers some of the biggest potential complications that arrive with this newcomer, such as complications in legal proceedings and the confusion it can cause for your children. But Vani also covers important self-preservation techniques and how this may actually be your biggest stroke of luck yet. Make sure to listen and prepare yourself for fresh faces and new nightmares.    More From Vani Kovitch  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your life is full of important relationships with other people; your parents, your children, your friends, etc. And all of those people have unique relationships with each other. Now these relationships are being affected and tested by your high conflict divorce. In this episode of Endgame, Vani Kovitch discusses the importance of maintaining all of the relationships peripheral to your divorce and how to protect your network through this difficult time.    Vani discusses how to protect friendships and protect your spaces outside of your divorce, while also working to understand who is truly here to support you. She also covers the complications of crisscrossing relationships in your extended family and how to avoid the drama that arises when people feel that they must pick sides.     Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is the second episode in our two-part interview with Dr. Lanie Resnick! Dr. Resnick is a clinical psychologist, certified psychoanalyst, and specialist in children’s development. Lanie is often called to court to testify on child custody cases and is very familiar with navigating high conflict divorce dynamics. In this fantastic interview Dr. Resnick shares invaluable information about how to best protect yourself and your child throughout divorce proceedings. Dr. Resnick has wonderful insights from her years of experience about the rights and protections guaranteed to your child. She also shares important warning signs of tactics that your narcissistic ex may attempt to use to triangulate you, them, and your children. Make sure to catch all three parts of this incredible conversation to understand how to best protect yourself and your relationships in and out of the courtroom! Connect with Dr. Lanie Resnick at [email protected] More From Vani Kovitch Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: [email protected] This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is the first episode in our two-part interview with Dr. Lanie Resnick! Dr. Resnick is a clinical psychologist, certified psychoanalyst, and specialist in children’s development. Lanie is often called to court to testify on child custody cases and is very familiar with navigating high conflict divorce dynamics. In this fantastic interview Dr. Resnick shares invaluable information about how to best protect yourself and your child throughout divorce proceedings. Dr. Resnick has wonderful insights from her years of experience about the rights and protections guaranteed to your child. She also shares important warning signs of tactics that your narcissistic ex may attempt to use to triangulate you, them, and your children. Make sure to catch both parts of this incredible conversation to understand how to best protect yourself and your relationships in and out of the courtroom!    Connect with Dr. Lanie Resnick at [email protected]    More From Vani Kovitch  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vani Kovitch explains the three different classifications of narcissists and helps you understand how to identify who you are dealing with in your high conflict divorce. Vani covers not only the definition of each type, but also provides examples of behaviors that will help you find the label that best fits your narcissist.       Make sure to take Vani’s quick and simple quiz to get invaluable feedback from Vani herself that will help you understand exactly which type of narcissist you are up against! Vani will email you with personalized results and targeted strategies for your situation. You can find the quiz at:    www.vanidivorcecoach.com    More From Vani Kovitch  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode Vani provides timely advice for getting through the already difficult holiday season while dealing with a combative ex-spouse.    Vani provides important tips that will put up guardrails to make sure that you and your loved ones can have safe and peaceful celebrations during this transition. She also provides some great advice on how to see new opportunities in what might initially seem like disappointing changes to tradition. If you are struggling to reshape your holidays after your high conflict divorce Vani is here to help you through!    More From Vani Kovitch  Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sherri Sharma joins Vani to discuss how to most effectively use your general when facing potential hazards in a high conflict divorce. Sherri has spent more than 15 years focusing exclusively on matrimonial and family law, including the equitable distribution of assets, custody, child and spousal support, as well as prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Sherri represents a range of clients, from investment bankers, private equity investors, and hedge fund managers, to lawyers and business owners, to artists and actors. Sherri also represents the spouses of her professional clients and works with unmarried and same-sex couples.    Sherri offers insights about communication methods, prenuptial agreements, and co-parenting with narcissistic spouses during the divorce process. She also touches on when, and when not, to turn to your attorney in the divorce process. Sherri and Vani even discuss preemptive steps you can take to protect yourself during the marriage process and how to protect yourself from a combative ex.    You can learn more about Sherri on her website here!    More From Vani Kovitch  Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we’ll explore the foundational topic of finances, focusing on the importance of understanding, awareness, and preparation. I’ll walk you through my top seven “Items of Awareness” that everyone should stay on top of—whether you’re facing a divorce or not.  Keep these key areas on your radar:  Household bills Tax statements  Mortgage or rent details (How much? Are you on the title of the home?)  Kids and trusts for your children  Bank account information  Credit cards (Do you have your own, a joint card, or both?)  Frozen assets  If there’s one takeaway from today’s episode, it’s this: educate yourself about your finances and stay informed.  As we begin laying the foundation for what’s to come in this podcast, I want to thank you all again for your incredible support.  More From Vani Kovitch  Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nick Demos and Vani explore the transformative power of breathwork in this episode. Nick is a Tony and Olivier award winning Broadway producer, Hatha Yoga teacher, Pranayama Master Teacher, and so much more. Vani explains that Nick was a key member of her Dream Team during her divorce process. Nick helped her learn how to regulate her nervous system through breathwork to stay collected and empowered while facing down a high conflict divorce.     Nick has great insights today on how to incorporate breathwork into your life, especially when you’re going through a high stress divorce. He also explains the science behind pranayama and how it can even help prevent stress before it happens. Practice, awareness, and finding the right support for your journey are so important, and this episode is such great inspiration for where to start!     Learn more about Nick on his website here.    More From Vani Kovitch  Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com  Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach  LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch  Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach  Email: [email protected]  This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode of Endgame, Vani breaks down one of the most critical components in any high conflict divorce: your attorney. Think of them not just as legal counsel, but as your general in a war that affects your children, your finances, and your future.  Vani shares the top five mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist, including choosing the wrong attorney, failing to plan ahead, and underestimating the financial and emotional toll of a drawn-out battle. With real-life insight and personal experience, she guides listeners through what to look for, what to avoid, and why trusting your gut could be the most important decision you make.  If you are preparing to divorce someone with narcissistic traits, this episode is a must-listen. Learn how to protect your resources, build your strategy, and find the right partner to fight by your side.    More From Vani Kovitch   Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com   Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach   LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch   Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach   Email: [email protected]  This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ivan Drucker joins Vani to teach us about the importance of IT security when going through a high conflict divorce. Ivan was the very first member of Vani’s dream team, and today we learn why you should have an IT expert on your own divorce team. Ivan is an accomplished Mac expert and former Apple engineer, and he has so much wisdom to share in today’s episode.      Ivan has insight on everything from how to secure your accounts, to where you should focus your efforts when planning your IT security. Ivan hopes that he can make IT safety accessible and understandable to our listeners who might be preparing for their own fight of their lives.    For more information, visit Ivan’s website here.    More From Vani Kovitch   Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com   Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach   LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch   Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach   Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stacy Francis joins Vani to share what a divorce financial planner can do, and why they fill an important role in your divorce dream team. Stacy is the founder of Francis Financial and a well-respected financial planner specializing in divorce planning. Today, she breaks down some of the services a divorce financial planner provides, and what you can do to get financially ready for a divorce.    Stacy also shares some of her personal inspiration for getting into the divorce financial planning field. She hopes that stories like hers can help inspire and motivate others to take charge of their finances and get financially ready for the fight of their lives.      Thank you so much to Stacy for coming on the podcast. For more information visit Francis Financial or Savvy Ladies!    More From Vani Kovitch   Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com   Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach   LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch   Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach   Email: [email protected]  This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The listeners have questions, and Vani has the answers. In this episode, she answers audience questions that everyone should have the answers to as they prepare to enter into a high conflict divorce.  Vani has great tips for these listeners, from advice on staying emotionally resilient, to make sure your children’s emotional needs are met as well. She also guides listeners on what to do before they file as well. Preparation is so important when it comes to getting our and successfully filing for divorce.     Thank you so much to the listeners that submitted today’s questions. If you or someone you know also has questions about high conflict divorce, visit Vani’s website here or send a message on Instagram @vanikovitch!   More From Vani Kovitch   Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com   Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach   LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch   Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach   Email: [email protected]      This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Endgame, mastering the high conflict divorce! In today’s very first episode, our host Vani walks us through the show and what’s to come. She tells us everything from how to know you’re divorcing a narcissist to what a divorce coach can do for you. Make sure to follow along and get ready to tune in each week as Vani helps you get ready for what could be the fight of your life.    More From Vani Kovitch   Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com   Instagram:  @vanidivorcecoach   LinkedIn:  Vani Kovitch   Facebook:  Vani Divorce Coach   Email: [email protected]    This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“Endgame: Mastering the High Conflict Divorce with Vani Kovitch" is for women currently battling a High Conflict divorce from a spouse with a High Conflict personality. Host Vani Kovitch combines her professional expertise as a Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach with her personal experience of successfully navigating her own HC divorce to provide invaluable guidance, practical strategies, and emotional support.    Whether you're just beginning your divorce journey or feeling stuck in the process, Vani's straightforward advice and first-hand understanding provide the roadmap you need to navigate your high conflict divorce successfully and emerge stronger on the other side.  This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast   IG: @reddrockmusic   www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices