How to get Divorced

In this episode of SELF-ish, I step away from teaching and share a raw life update.  From juggling single motherhood and building a mediation business to coaching soccer and navigating the ongoing court battles. I open up about what being SELF-ish looks like in real time.  Its not polished and its messy, human, and honest.  Join me as I reflect on how choosing yourself  shows up in the small moments and why the most powerful withness of you is always going to be YOU.

This interview was fantastic, jam-packed with invaluable insights on how to heal a broken heart after divorce. We all resonate with the pain of heartbreak, and Curtis generously equips us with numerous tools and actionable steps for navigating this journey towards healing. Throughout our conversation, we delve into the heart's natural inclination to shield itself from pain, and Curtis illuminates the path towards embracing self-love as the cornerstone of our healing process. With each revelation, we're reminded that true healing begins with nurturing ourselves."       His information is found here :  https://thought-coach.com/ For a free ocnsultion you can connect with me at   https://calendly.com/corriewoods22/20-mins-breakthrough-sessions  

Courage is the ability to confront fear, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation, despite feeling afraid. It involves taking action in the face of adversity, standing up for what is right, and persevering through difficult situations with strength and resolve. The word I think of with courage is strength. And what divorce reminded me of is that strength is often seen in hindsight when you pass through things that make you feel incredibly weak and you can't possibly see a brighter day. You got this For a Free Consutlation email me at [email protected]    

  In this episode brimming with insights, we dive deep into the intricacies of financial matters and asset division during divorce proceedings. It's a revelation: emotions and finances are a volatile mix during divorce—cue the frustration! Blair, our financial expert, emphasizes the importance of setting emotions aside during negotiations. With his expertise in numbers, he navigates us through: Understanding the composition of marital assets and effective negotiation strategies. Distinguishing between assets owned and debts owed. Strategies for rebuilding financial stability post-divorce. Tackling the uncertainties and complexities of finances. Knowing when it's time to enlist the expertise of professionals like Blair, who can save a significant amount of money. Blair is adept at detecting financial manipulation because, as he rightly says, numbers don't deceive. You can reach him at wealthanddivorcesolutions.com for a complimentary consultation. For further inquiries and information, feel free to contact me at [email protected]        

Welcome to the interview I had with Racael Cunningham who is a Marriage and relationship coach.  "When Divorce is an Option," We explore the complexities of navigating the journey of separation and the transformative power it holds. In this episode, we delve into the tools forged within marriage that become instrumental in the process of healing afterward. From trusting your instincts when the need to go arises, to addressing the fears of how divorce may affect your children, we tackle the tough questions head-on. Join us as we discuss the importance of self-healing both before and after the decision to divorce, allowing the journey to be a powerful catalyst for personal growth.  Throughout the podcast, you'll gain valuable insights into managing the emotional rollercoaster of decision-making, gracefully navigating co-parenting post-divorce, and embracing the often-overlooked aspect of post-divorce healing and growth. So, whether you're contemplating divorce or navigating life after separation, join us as we explore the transformative journey of reclaiming and rediscovering your identity beyond the confines of marriage. For a free Consultation, email me at [email protected]  

What exactly is imposter syndrome and how does it rear its head in your daily life? Divorce signifies a clean slate, offering a chance for a fresh start and a world of new possibilities. Yet, sometimes, we find ourselves stuck in old patterns, hindered by misconceptions about who we truly are. The real work post-divorce lies in dispelling these falsehoods and embracing our authentic selves. By shedding the lies we've internalized, we pave the way for genuine growth and the creation of the fulfilling life we aspire to and truly deserve. email me at [email protected] for a free consulation

Nick Meima brings over three decades of experience in the Marriage and Family support system. As a Therapist and Master Coach, his wisdom permeates every aspect of the conversation. He emphasizes the importance of seeking help if you're contemplating divorce, highlighting that the present moment is opportune. During our discussion, we delve into human behavior and psyche, particularly when individuals harbor the belief "I am not enough." Nick describes this state as akin to being in a prison, serving as the foundation for personal turmoil. Operating from this mindset often leads individuals to seek external validation, placing undue expectations on their partners to fill the void within. Eager for more insights? Tune in to this enriching podcast interview to uncover further wisdom. Connect with Nick at rebuilders.net or afterdivorcesupport.com for additional guidance and support You can email me for a free Consultation at [email protected]  

Overall, divorce can be a transformative experience that prompts individuals to reevaluate their identity, values, and goals.  While it may initially be a challenging process, it can ultimately lead to greater self-awareness, empowerment, and the opportunity for a new chapter in life. You are Divorced, Now what? You get to decide. If you are ready for a free Consultation email me at [email protected]    

It's important to differentiate between attachment and being in love, as attachment alone may not necessarily indicate a healthy or fulfilling relationship.  Love involves a deeper emotional connection, mutual respect, and genuine care for the other person's well-being. When you feel like you have loss a sense of identity and you don't know who you are outside of being in a relationship with them is an indicator of attachment. Your identity will shift through your life, seasons, ages and experiences so don't forget that. It should evolve. But all of us know that feeling of "I  dont know who the fuck I am," and if who you are is dependent on how someone feels about you, its because my friend, you are attached. For a Complimentary consultation, please email me at [email protected]  

Ashley's upbringing in a challenging home environment shaped her early experiences, leading her into two marriages where she exhibited a high "window of tolerance." This concept refers to her familiarity with chaos, addiction, and emotional abuse, making it difficult for her to recognize the possibility of a different, healthier life. As a single mother of six, Ashley's journey began at the tender age of 16 when she welcomed her first child and entered her first marriage. Her story is compelling as she navigated the complexities of this relationship, gradually finding the courage to acknowledge that her husband's choices were detrimental to her young family. Despite enduring years of turmoil in two abusive marriages, Ashley persevered, ultimately becoming a therapist and life coach. In our interview, Ashley shares profound insights into resilience and determination, emphasizing the importance of not giving up. She delves into the intricacies of the nervous system and the trauma associated with not being believed when experiencing abuse. Through her experiences and wisdom, Ashley offers valuable perspectives on strength, healing, and the power of belief in one's journey towards healing and growth.

In today's podcast, I have the pleasure of hosting the remarkable Denita Bremer, a truly cherished individual in my circle. Our discussion delves into the intricate world of attachment, exploring the various coping mechanisms we develop to fulfill our needs. We particularly focus on the interplay between anxious and avoidant attachment styles, examining how they manifest in our relationships and offering insights on how to foster healing. We all employ coping mechanisms to meet our needs, often leading to a reliance on our loved ones. Together, we unpack the perennial question: "What drives this behavior?" Join us as we navigate the complexities of attachment with insight, reflection, and a sprinkle of humor. Here is how to findd her current work: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/if-im-so-blessed-why-cant-i-feel-good/id1733936159    

Coral Ward is a resilient single mom of four who weathered the storm of a challenging marriage for a staggering 12 years. So compelling is her journey that she even wrote a book about it. Coming from a background marked by divorce, she grew up amidst a sea of blended families, boasting an impressive 15 siblings. Her commitment to stay married was shaken when she found out about her spouse's infidelity during pregnancy.  This discovery threw her into a tumultuous struggle. The urge to scrutinize his phone and monitor his emails consumed her, leaving her feeling constantly on edge. Despite discovering the betrayal in the most gut-wrenching manner, she remained steadfast in her resolve to salvage the marriage she had dedicated herself to. She also shares about her commitment in finding Joy with her life no matter what. It wasn't until she relinquished her fixation on his infidelity that she found the serenity and timing to release herself from the marriage and embark on the journey of divorce. Stay tuned Find her here: https://glutenfreewithcoral.com Her app: https://zazzi.app/  

This remarkable woman right here... She's a single mom of two, a Coach for Healthy Habits, a Cancer survivor, and currently navigating life with an MS diagnosis. In this episode, we delve into her story—a tale of how her marriage became a lifeline, brought two beautiful children into her world, and yet, struggled with the absence of true intimacy. Marriage, they say, leaves no stone unturned. Learning the art of self-confrontation within the confines of marriage is indeed a Herculean task. Her narrative is one of profound compassion and understanding, resonating on every level. She candidly discusses the myriad challenges she faced navigating relationships and marriage, emphasizing that not having all the answers is not only acceptable but commendable. Curiosity has become her guiding light, lifting her head high amidst the trials. Remarkably, her relationship with her ex now stands stronger than ever before. Discover more about her journey at newsoulrising.com.      

Get ready to be wowed as we dive into the riveting journey of Shane – a man of wisdom and insight, shaped by the highs and lows of not one, not two, but three marriages! With  a wealth of experience under his belt, Shane is here to share his tales of navigating the choppy waters of divorce and dispelling the myths that surround it. Imagine this: a man who's faced some of the most frustrating aspects of divorce, including the weight of others' judgments. "It's easy to judge from the outside," Shane muses, "whether someone has 'good enough' reasons to leave a marriage." His candid reflections offer a glimpse into the complexities of relationships and the harsh realities that many face. He also shares his experiences within his religious upbringing and the stark differences in how men and women are viewed during the divorce process. It's a topic that's sure to spark conversation and challenge societal norms. This story isn't just one for the books – it's a testament to resilience, growth, and the power of self-reflection. Shane's insights will touch the hearts of all those ready to listen, offering a fresh perspective on love, loss, and the journey to self-discovery.        

Tyler King was an absolute delight to engage with! His wealth of experience from three marriages and divorces is truly enlightening. Here are some nuggets of wisdom he shared: "I longed for divine guidance, seeking clarity and assurance from a higher power. It's a common yearning in such situations." "While divorce wasn't my desired outcome, I'm not delusional about the reality." Here's what he discovered about himself: "I found myself more deeply invested in the relationship than she was." "I assumed the role of caretaker." "I often overextended myself to accommodate." "I adapted excessively to her needs." Tyler possesses a remarkable ability to comprehend both ends of the spectrum, making this episode a must-listen for all.      

  Miss Merrie Hanson is the Podcast host for "Happy Before the Ever After." She is also running for the Miss Utah Pageant in March as a mom with 2 young kids. Her story is of her first marriage in which she and her husband did not have any kids. She shares her journey about how she questioned herself and her decision to marry for years before she had the courage to move on. She shares her anger and resentment and ultimately what led her to peacefully divorce. I'm proud to have gotten to know this incredible woman, and she is an example for us all.      

Dave was incredible to talk with and he is FULL of value and insight. His story is  – a tale of love, loss, and self-discovery. Doesnt this describe the dovorce journey perfectly? Meet Dave: a young man entrenched in conservative values who found his college sweetheart, embarking on a 19-year journey of marriage. But beneath the surface lies a story of complexity and growth. "Marriage is more than a ceremony," Dave reflects, describing the essence of his experience. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't hard either, and Amidst the bliss, he admits, "I didn't know who my wife actually was."  As their desires and wants shifted thorughout their marriage, Dave came to realize that his need for speed and intensity versus her longing for something different wasnt allowing their marriage to grow. "We didn't have the tools," Dave shares, highlighting the importance of communication and understanding. Thanks for joining   Find Dave here:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/324797989522690/   Email me for a Free consultation or if you have any questions: [email protected]  

Rebecca is a soul sister of mine and a fellow lover of all things Astrology. She is a Master Reiki Practitioner, Life Coach, and is on the path to training in Shamanism. As a single mom of 8, she has made it her mission to help people come home to themselves. We discuss the conditioning we experience as women as we navigate a "Savior Complex." Often, we feel an obligation to fix everything. She shares her story of her marriage to a spouse with a porn addiction and provides insight into discerning which part is ours and which part belongs to him. Whether to stay or leave your marriage, the ultimate truth is that the decision and its consequences belong to you. She talks about her journey of self-discovery regarding her role and how it contributed to the breakdown of her marriage. Sending love to you, Rebecca. Find her on Instagram @rebeccaspotten.      

This is just a fun topic in and of itself. I wish there was a magical formula. Its hard to talk about the normalcy of change within even the most committed relationships. People grow. People change. They are supposed to. If I can give you one thought and one answer to this curiousity of when to leave a marriage, it would be this... You are ready to go when you are willing to accept the consequences of this choice. MOST consequences are learned as they come...   Corriewoodscoaching.com If you are ready to Join my group Coaching program called Intention, you can email me for a FREE consultation. Its a 6 month program that will teach you HOW to heal beyond divorce.

 Welcome to my intro episode of "Healing beyond divorce." I'm your host, your resident Divorce coach and biggest  cheerleader for post-divorce greatness.  IS that even a thing? I am claiming that it is.  Listen up right now.... You are about to Detox from your divorce. Friendly reminder that you are not dead just because  you are divorced.  On Todays topic, we're diving into the heart of my eternal message I share wherever I go. That is, Divorce is always an option. Love yall and email me with any questions you may have or if you are ready to start the intentional work of Healing Beyond divorce.   corriewoodscoaching.com