In Real Life With Ellie & Ross

In this episode of IRL with Ellie & Ross, we’re back with Callan from Corrective Culture — the man behind the parasite cleanse that had us quite literally shitting our backs out. 💩Ellie’s diving into round two (yep, liver flukes are that stubborn 🪱), Ross wants to know why some people breeze through while others feel like death, and we unpack why gut health, posture, stress, and even your hormones are way more connected than anyone’s telling you.From period wins and parasite horror stories to instant posture hacks you can do at your desk... this one’s equal parts gross, hilarious, and genuinely life-changing.If you’ve ever wondered whether parasites are real, if your posture is screwing with your mood, or if your sugar habit is secretly feeding something you don’t want to know about… this episode is for you.

Some people hit rock bottom…. Our guest hit prison. In 2014, he was sentenced for drug possession and supply, a moment that could have destroyed him. Instead, it became the start of one of an incredible redemption story.Now, he’s the co-founder of booming wellness brand, Corrective Culture.. helping thousands detox their bodies, reset their minds and posture. We talk prison life, second chances, Corrective Culture and the very real things you’ll find in his parasite cleanse (Ross and I are doing it for 28 days… pray for us).This is the story of Callan Krause — proof you can burn your old life to the ground… and come back stronger than ever.Follow his journey on Instagram: @callankrause https://www.instagram.com/callankrause?igsh=MWh4NGM5OTV5b2lmdQ== // @correctiveculture https://www.instagram.com/correctiveculture?igsh=N2I3ajl2MHR5M3kxhttps://correctiveculture.com

Ever wondered if your low libido is actually just a blood sugar crash? Or if skipping breakfast is quietly messing with your mood, energy, and sex drive? In this episode of IRL with Ellie & Ross, we’re joined by clinical nutritionist and women’s health strategist Sally O’Neil (@sallyoneil) to break down the science of feeling good — for real.We’re talking hormones, cravings, PMS, perimenopause, libido, stress, the truth about fasting, and the sneaky ways diet culture has failed us. Plus: the best foods and supplements for better sex, mood, and energy — and the wellness trends Sally would cancel forever.Expect practical tips, no BS, and a whole new way to think about food and your body.🎧 Press play if you’re ready to feel good IRL.Keep up with the latest on: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithus TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#Women'sHealth #Nutrition #HormoneBalance #WellnessTrends #MedicalEducation

This week on IRL with Ellie & Ross​Chris Hansen (yes, THE To Catch a Predator guy) just followed Ellie & she shoots her shot and invites him on the podcast​The truth about why she really left Hollywood — and what the internet had to say about it​“Would you say that to your own daughter?” — Ellie claps back at the trolls​Charlize Theron’s Call Her Daddy story & the Hollywood predator problem​When confidence in a woman = “too much”​The double standard no one wants to admit​Ross opens up about confidence, self-worth & never fitting the mold​Ellie reads a letter from 8-year-old her… and it’s iconic​Manifestation, childhood dreams & knowing exactly who you areKeep up with the latest on: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusTikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

On the tail end of Ellie sharing her opinion on the recent allegations in regard to Jared Leto published by Airmail, Ellie shares some of the real reasons she walked away from living in Hollywood – after years of being invited to “meetings” that turned into grooming setups, being groped by a powerful CEO, and watching agencies knowingly feed young talent into the machine, she decided enough was enough.These aren’t hypotheticals…. This is what really happened. We break down the real experiences, the teams that protect predators, and the toxic culture the industry would rather you never hear about.Keep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusTikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Is love dead, or are we just doing it wrong? After the fallout from our OnlyFans episode, we’re unpacking why modern dating feels doomed — from commitment issues and dating app fatigue to the rise of sex robots and the death of deep connection. We break down the stats, spill listener tea, and ask the big question: can love still be saved… or are we all just swiping ourselves into oblivion?Keep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusTikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

This week on IRL with Ellie & Ross, we’re tearing down the façade of the OnlyFans fantasy. It’s sold as freedom — a fast track to money, confidence, and control. But behind the over glamorization is a much darker reality: emotional labour, digital footprints you can’t erase, and survival masked as empowerment.We’re talking about the marketing machine that funnels this world straight to teens — how sex work is glamorized on social media, and how big brands are now using sex workers from these platforms to target their youngest fans. Is it really about choice… or are we just normalizing something no one’s ready for? Because let’s be clear: there’s a difference between liberation — and survival.In this episode:​The truth behind the “easy money” myth and how much the majority REALLY make (it will shock you) ​Mental health, regrets, and permanent digital footprints​How OF people target minors and brands cash in​Impact on relationships and expectations​Should adult content be advertised to teens?​Listener poll: Would you date someone on OnlyFans?​Liberation vs. survival disguised as empowermentKeep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusTikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Join Ross and Ellie Gonsalves for an episode of IRL as they dive into Ellie’s wild ride on Big Brother VIP (2021)! In this tell-all, Ellie spills the tea on what really went down in the Sydney house, from 24/7 surveillance and communal showers to strategic alliances, drama and shocking betrayals. Expect juicy behind-the-scenes stories, like her fake tan standoff with Big Brother and the emotional highs and lows of outsmarting housemates. Ellie sets the record straight on media spin, addresses Omarosa’s claims, and reflects on her unlikely bond with Caitlyn Jenner. Plus, she shares hard-earned lessons on mental strength, navigating public backlash, and staying true to yourself in a cutthroat game. Packed with drama, laughs, and raw insights, this episode is a must-listen for reality TV fans and anyone craving an unfiltered look at Big Brother VIP.What to Expect:​Behind-the-Scenes Chaos: Ellie reveals the reality of living with no privacy, constant cameras, and Big Brother’s strict rules​Emotional Journey: From first-night nerves to the thrill of winning challenges, Ellie opens up about the highs, lows, and personal growth that changed her perspective.​Drama & Betrayals: The tense moments with the girls during the show, Luke Toki’s post-show shade, and the truth behind Omarosa’s exit​Unlikely Bonds: Ellie shares heartfelt stories of her connection with Caitlyn Jenner and unexpected friendships in the house and why she didn’t walk her down the isleFast Fire Highlights: Ellie describes each housemate in one word and we ask Grok to go unhinged and describe a few of them as well!Keep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusTikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

From sleeping rough to raising $10k – how 10 days on the streets shattered Ellie’s beliefs… and changed her life forever.What happens when a model and reality TV star agrees to give up everything – no phone, no wallet, no help – and live on the streets for 10 days? In this emotional episode, Ellie shares the brutal truth behind her time on SBS’s Filthy Rich & Homeless… and the moment everything she thought she knew about homelessness crumbled.Dropped 100km from Sydney with nothing but a sleeping bag, Ellie slept rough, begged for food, met a trans woman living in a playground, and was placed in a domestic violence shelter with women escaping horrific abuse. She even ended up in a cockroach-infested boarding house with nine men – and chose to sleep in a park instead.But it wasn’t just the conditions that broke her. It was the emotional and heartbreaking stories that were shared from people living through this crisis.Ross and Ellie unpack it all: the fear, the stereotypes, the stories that stuck, and the $10,000 Ellie raised afterward to help change one woman’s life.“This isn’t just a housing crisis. It’s a humanity crisis.”Press play – this one will change how you see the world.Keep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusTikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@irlwithusWant to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠National Organizations:​WHITE RIBBON: This is a 24-hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line for any Australian who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault. CALL: 1800 737 732 - Individuals can also access local support services and search the internet using Daisy, a free app developed by 1800RESPECT that protects user privacy.​Australian Red Cross: Offers programs for people experiencing homelessness and provides support for those at risk. ​Salvation Army: Provides free help and services for people experiencing homelessness. ​Homelessness Australia: Offers a directory of homelessness support services. ​AskIzzy: An online directory listing support services for those in need, including emergency housing, shelters, and other resources. ​Mission Australia: Provides social and affordable housing options and community services. ​Micah Projects: Offers Pathways out of Homelessness programs, funded by Brisbane City Council. ​Orange Sky: Provides free laundry, showers, and support for people experiencing homelessness and hardship. ​Vinnies: Offers various housing and accommodation options, including crisis accommodation, transitional housing, and community housing. ​DV Connect: Provides support and pathways to safety for people experiencing domestic, family, and sexual violence. ​Homeless Hotline (Queensland): A phone information and referral service for people experiencing homelessness. ​Australian Alliance to End Homelessness (AAEH): A national advocacy organization focused on ending homelessness. 

White lace, sweaty calves, jealousy and a toothbrush used very inappropriately… yep, we’re back.This week, we’re recapping our vow renewal fairytale and the very spicy Honey Birdette shoot that followed — starring Ellie in lingerie AND Ross playing “husband”. We also dive into jealousy, body image, and whether Ross has ever regretted encouraging one of Ellie’s iconic (read: mostly naked) cover for Treats! Magazine.Then it’s time for our 3–5K running challenge update: Ellie’s calves are screaming, Ross won’t stop talking mid-run, and we settle the ultimate debate — should couples work out together, or is that a fast track to divorce?And finally, we let you ruin our reputations with your wildest listener questions — from petty revenge stories (yes, there were laxatives) to schoolyard trauma… we reveal it all. Keep Up with the Latest:Instagram: @irlwithusTikTok: @irlwithusWant to Partner? Contact: [email protected]

In this episode of In Real Life with Ellie & Ross, Ellie and Ross pull back the curtain on the magic (and craziness) of luxury event planning with the one and only Alysia Bridger. They trace back to when they met at Ellie’s unforgettable 30th, unpack the vision behind their Vogue-featured wedding at La Luna, and relive the secret Bridgerton-style vow renewal that went TikTok viral.From last-minute rainstorms to white-horse surprises, Alysia shares her secrets, shares the wildest requests she’s ever received (yes, including the NAKED client request), her best advice on planning your big day and reveals how she stays calm when everything’s on the line on everyones big day.What’s inside this episode:​How our Pinterest dreams turned into a Vogue wedding ​Pulling off a top-secret Bridgerton-style vow renewal with a white horse, torrential rain, and a huge suprise for Ross​The craziest client requests Alysia’s ever had (yes, including the fully naked situation)​Her advice and the most important things when planning YOUR big day ​Her survival guide for when sh*t hits the fan on someone’s “biggest day ever” ​Plus the little details everyone forgets but actually make or break an event.Keep Up with the Latest:Instagram: @irlwithusTikTok: @irlwithusWant to Partner?Contact: [email protected]

In this episode of In Real Life with Ellie & Ross, Ellie and Ross unpack a rollercoaster of growth, grief, and new challenges. Ellie opens up about the 10-year anniversary of her dad’s passing, sharing how loss has shaped her empathy and drive, while Ross reflects on their shared journey. They dive into the wild world of Zombie Plane, Ellie’s new film with Vanilla Ice and Chuck Norris and they expose shady behind-the-scenes drama from past projects Ellie has been involved in.Plus, the couple spills on their unexpected 3–5K daily run challenge—because who knew hating running could bring them closer? From raw emotions to Hollywood and Industry red flags, here is what’s covered in this episode: ​Marking 10 years since Ellie’s Dad’s passing and how grief evolves​Honoring loved ones by living boldly and embracing empathy​Ellie’s role in Zombie Plane and its iconic, chaotic vibe​Navigating film industry drama and setting firm boundaries​The 3–5K daily run challenge and its surprising relationship perks​Building consistency through shared goalsKeep Up with the Latest:​Instagram: @irlwithus​TikTok: @irlwithusWant to Partner?​Contact: [email protected]

In this first episode of In Real Life with Ellie & Ross for 2025, Ellie and Ross discuss “The Surprise Vow Renewal That Went Viral: 10+ Million Views, 2 Couture Dresses, a White Horse, Tears & Trolls.”Ellie pulled off the ultimate surprise: a surprise Bridgerton-style vow renewal that left Ross absolutely speechless… and sobbing. We’re talking a white horse, two custom Steven Khalil couture dresses, a six-month undercover mission with wedding planner Alysia Bridger, and a whole lotta love (and tears). In this episode, we spill everything, from how Ellie pulled it off without Ross suspecting a thing, to the emotional ceremony that’s racked up over 8 million views on TikTok. Plus, we get real about the backlash — because apparently renewing your vows after two years is controversial now? Get ready for the full story... drama, tears, trolls and all.Topics We Cover:  ​The inspiration behind the surprise vow renewal  ​How Ellie kept the secret and distracted Ross  ​The Bridgerton-inspired aesthetic and Ellie's horseback entrance  ​Fashion: two couture dresses and a style evolution  ​The ceremony and emotional moments  ​Final reflections on making memories and modern romance  ​Addressing the trolls: why we celebrated our love our wayKeep up with the latest on:Instagram: @irlwithusTikTok: @irlwithus  Want to partner? Contact: [email protected] 

In this week’s episode, we’re joined by the extraordinary Terri Irwin - wildlife warrior, conservation icon, author, and mother to Bindi and Robert Irwin. A true pioneer in wildlife preservation, Terri co-founded Australia Zoo and the Wildlife Warriors foundation, while also navigating the challenges of raising two kids in the public eye after the tragic loss of her soulmate, Steve Irwin. In this heartfelt conversation, Terri shares the life lessons she’s passed on to her children, how she’s balanced fame with family, and the powerful strength it took to keep going. This episode is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and insights that will leave you inspired and deeply moved.In This Episode:​Raising Bindi & Robert: Terri shares the life lessons she’s passed on to her kids—lessons that shaped them into the incredible people they are today. What would she include in a “parenting handbook” to help families approach life with more compassion, clarity, and understanding?​Behind Closed Doors: What’s Terri’s secret to unwinding after a crazy day at the zoo? You’ll be surprised by what she does when she’s not running a global conservation empire. ​Grief & Strength: Terri opens up about the profound grief of losing Steve Irwin and how she kept going while raising two kids and running Australia Zoo. She shares the raw challenges, fears, and powerful moments that helped her navigate the toughest period of her life.​Navigating Fame: Raising Bindi and Robert in the public eye wasn’t easy. How did Terri keep them grounded, ensuring they stayed true to themselves? Plus, she shares some of the most proud moments of their careers that will melt your heart.​Heartfelt Moments & Powerful Insights: Get ready for a mix of laughs, real talk, and powerful lessons from one of the most inspiring women on the planet.​Rapid-Fire Questions: We end with our fun rapid-fire questions, testing Terri’s knowledge on everything to win $5,000.Don’t miss this rare, honest, and engaging conversation with Terri IrwinKeep up with the latest on:Instagram: @theirlpodcastTikTok: @theirlpodcastWant to partner? Contact: [email protected]

This week on In Real Life with Ellie and Ross, we’re joined by power couple Bindi Irwin and Chandler Powell for an episode packed with love, laughter, and the kind of heartfelt honesty that will leave you inspired.In This Episode:Bindi and Chandler share the story of how they met while Bindi opens up about the challenges of growing up as a “child star” and dealing with relentless online bullying. She talks about the people who helped her through the toughest moments and how she’s found her strength over the years.We also dive into Bindi’s battle with endometriosis, her journey to finally being heard, and the physical and emotional toll it’s taken. Chandler reflects on what it’s been like supporting her through it all and offers advice for anyone standing beside a loved one through hard times.Ross and Ellie get the couple to share their secrets to a thriving relationship and the best advice for young couples trying to navigate life together. Plus, they tackle how they handle disagreements, balance fame, and what they’d do if they could spend one more night at the Steve Irwin Reserve with Steve.And for the grand finale? A high-stakes rapid-fire quiz, where Bindi and Chandler compete for $5,000 for Wildlife Warriors. Can they get all the answers right?From hilarious moments to tear-jerking insights, this episode is one for the books. Don’t miss this rare, real, and unfiltered glimpse into the lives of one of Australia’s most beloved couples.

This week, we’re diving into the wild (literally) with our good mate Robert Irwin, and we get PERSONAL. In this episode:What’s it really like growing up with the whole world watching you? Robert spills on the highs, the lows, what it’s REALLY like trying to find love, and carrying on the Irwin legacy while still trying to carve out his own path as a young man. We also get into:​The wildest animal (and celebrity) encounters of his life.​Whether he’s ever had imposter syndrome meeting world leaders and other celebrities.​His dream conversation if he could spend one night at Steve Irwin Reserve with his dad, Steve. This episode is full of jaw-dropping stories, heartfelt moments, and rapid-fire questions that us all in stitches. Whether you’re here for the feels, the tea, or the adventure, you won’t want to miss this one.Hit play now and prepare to see a side of Robert Irwin you may have never seen before.Support Wildlife Warriors here: https://wildlifewarriors.org.au/donate/

In this first episode of IRL “Conversations”, Ellie and Ross discuss “What’s Driving them Crazy, What’s Giving them Hope & How they Focus and Reset” Ellie and Ross dive into the everyday annoyances that as Ross likes to say are ‘Grinding his gears’ and Ellie flat out says are ‘Pissing her off’ — like why tipping before service feels like a scam and whether donation prompts at checkout are actual charity or just corporate greed in disguise.They also question the expectations of weddings (should your friends really go broke for YOUR big day?) and calling out the relentless sports betting ads targeting young, vulnerable audiences.But don’t worry, we’re not all doom and gloom. From the rise of health-conscious living to the de-influencing movement (they’re calling BS on fake Instagram ads), there’s plenty to feel hopeful about.Topics We Cover:​ Why tipping before service is wrong.​ Charitable donations or corporate guilt trips—what’s really happening at checkout?​ Bachelor and Bachelorette party boundaries: strippers, escorts, and the line that gets crossed because “it’s just what you do”​ Why sports betting ads are manipulative​ Is the influencer/celebrity culture finally on its way out?Warning: Unfiltered opinions ahead. Keep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@theirlpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@theirlpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠

Red Flags, Love Languages & Listener Questions: The Secrets Behind 15+ Years TogetherIn this juicy, unfiltered finale of the two-part series on building a lasting relationship, Ellie and Ross dive deep into the messy, magical, and downright hilarious realities of 15+ years together.What’s Inside This Episode:​ Red Flags: How to spot them and what to do when they’re waving—because not all that glitters is gold.​ Love Languages: Discover the 5 love languages and how Ellie and Ross ranked theirs to strengthen their bond.​ Communication in Chaos: Can you actually “talk it out” when emotions are running high? Spoiler: sometimes, no.​ Embarrassing Moments: From bathroom blunders to the ultimate shower mishap​ Tips for Finding ‘The One’: Red flags, green lights, and what really matters when looking for a life partner.​ Listener Q&A: Nothing’s off-limits. Yes, they answer that question: “Do you go to the toilet in front of each other?” Plus, navigating bisexuality in a committed relationship and how to handle jealousy like a pro.​ Ellie & Ross: After the Relationship? What would dating look like if these two ever called it quits? (Hint: apps aren’t for them.)Ellie and Ross break down their top 3 loves and hates about each other, tackle modern dating chaos, and share the one thing they’re prioritizing moving forward as a couple.In this final instalment, Ellie and Ross speak candidly about their relationship—and it’s not always pretty. (Sometimes, it’s downright shitty. Literally.)Keep up with the latest on:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@theirlpodcast⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@theirlpodcast⁠⁠⁠Want to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠Produced by: Fōcl Media

How do you build a relationship that lasts over 15 years, through life’s curveballs, loss, career chaos, and even feeding crocodiles? Ellie and Ross are sharing their personal blueprint for love, trust, and partnership in this juicy, laugh-out-loud episode of IRL with Ellie & Ross. What’s Inside This Episode: • How They Got Together: From a high school flirtation to falling head over heels two years later, discover how fate—and Ellie’s BS claim about her “fashion business goals”—ignited their love story. • Why Marriage Took Forever: Career ambitions, personal heartbreaks, and Ross’s unwavering patience (yes, he held onto a ring deposit for years) finally led to the big moment. • The Proposal You’ll Replay: Crocodiles, the Irwin family, and an unforgettable day at Australia Zoo.. this was not the day Ellie had originally planned but turned out to be even better. • Laying the Foundations: the secrets behind dodging communication disasters and cultivating real understanding • Respecting Differences: How to embrace and even celebrate your partner’s quirks—even when they drive you crazy sometimes • Building Trust and Vulnerability: Why these two go hand in hand and how they’ve strengthened Ellie and Ross’s bond over the years. • Creating a Shared Vision: Tips for crafting a future together that fuels both your dreams and your relationship goals. From non-negotiables to deep dives into what love really means, this episode is a blend of heartfelt advice, wild stories, and tips to help strengthen your own relationships or be clear on before you enter into one.  Spoiler: They’re answering the big question: What does it really take to make love last? So whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this episode is packed with relatable moments, real honesty, and lessons that helped Ellie and Ross find love and keep it.  Share your thoughts with Ellie and Ross via voice note Keep up with the latest on: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@irlwithus TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@irlwithus Want to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ Produced by Fōcl Media:  https://foclmedia.com.au/

In this final episode of Grief & Loss, Ellie and Ross invite special guest, David the Medium, to see if they can  connect with their dads while exploring the mysteries of the afterlife. Have you ever wondered what happens after we pass? Can spirits really communicate with us, and if so, how? Do our loved ones still find ways to be with us, even after they’re gone? If these questions have ever crossed your mind, you’re not alone — and this episode is for you.   David the Medium brings a unique and powerful perspective as he attempts to connect Ellie and Ross with their dads. Offering a profound insight into the world of spirits, the afterlife, and the healing power of these connections Ellie and Ross explore this together, Ellie with open arms, Ross with a skeptical view, but both with open minds.   In This Episode, You’ll Hear: •           The Mysteries of the Afterlife: What happens after we pass? David shares his insights into the spiritual realm. •           How Spirits Communicate with Us: From signs to synchronicities, David explains how spirits connect with the living, and how we can stay open to these messages from the other side. •           The Role of a Medium: What does it mean to be a medium, and how can their work bridge the gap between the living and the dead? David reveals how these spiritual connections offer comfort, peace, and healing. •           A Personal Journey of Connection & Healing: With David's guidance, Ellie and Ross explore the deep emotional healing that can come from connecting with their fathers — and how these connections have helped them navigate their grief.   This episode is a deeply emotional, spiritual, and healing conversation that might just change the way you view life, death, and the possibility of connection beyond this world.   Share your thoughts with Ellie and Ross via voice note: ⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/irlwithus   Keep up with the latest on: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/irlwithus⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@irlwithus⁠⁠⁠⁠   Want to partner?  Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠   Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/⁠⁠

Join Ellie and Ross as they discuss the intense and often unspoken realities of grief. In this second part of the three-part series 'Navigating Grief & Loss', Ross shares the devastating impact of losing his father to cancer and how it reshaped his life and his bond with Ellie. Ellie opens up about hitting an unimaginable low after her father’s passing, facing choices and moments that would forever change her. Together, they dive into the brutal highs and lows of loss, revealing how grief can push us to our limits and transform us in ways we’d never expect. In this episode, you’ll hear: The Unfiltered Truth About Grief: Shock, anger, denial, and finally acceptance—Ellie and Ross let us in on their whirlwind of emotions and the personal battles they faced. With the help of counselor Albert, they uncover how grief can strip you bare before guiding you to a new sense of self. A Life-Changing Moment: After her father’s death, Ellie spiraled to an unimaginable low, confronted by choices she never thought she’d face. Overwhelmed by sadness and depression, she found herself at a breaking point that would forever change her approach to grief — and to survival. Hard-Won Wisdom on Healing: Ross shares the process that helped him face his loss — real truths about the importance of speaking up, seeking therapy, and finding ways to process pain in your own way. His story may be just what someone needs to begin their own journey toward healing. Family Pressure & Responsibility: Losing his father forced Ross into a role he didn’t choose in ways no one could prepare you for. With courage and candor, he describes the weight of financial and legal duties that came crashing down, forever altering his understanding of family and duty. Join Ellie and Ross as they uncover the messy, painful, but ultimately transformative journey of grief. You might just find insights, comfort, or a new perspective that helps you on your own path. Share your thoughts with Ellie and Ross via voice note: ⁠ https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus Keep up with the latest on: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/irlwithus⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@irlwithus⁠⁠⁠ Want to partner?  Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠⁠⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/⁠⁠

In "Ellie's Journey Through Loss," the first episode of our poignant three-part series on Navigating Grief and Loss, Ellie bravely shares her personal story following the heartbreaking suicide of her father. Join Ellie and Ross as they delve into the profound effects this loss has had on their lives.In this deeply reflective episode, we’re exploring:​Heartfelt Memories: Ellie shares powerful stories that illuminate the special bond she had with her dad and the unforgettable moments that shaped their relationship.​The Shocking Call: Experience the gut-wrenching details of the phone call that changed everything, and the emotional chaos that ensued.​Tools for Survival: Discover how self-help and wellness practices became lifelines for Ellie and Ross, providing unexpected strength in the face of unspeakable grief.​Navigating the Aftermath: Get raw and real about the challenges of planning a funeral, seeking counseling, and piecing life back together after loss.This isn’t just a recounting of tragedy; it’s an invitation to engage in meaningful conversations about grief and healing. We encourage you to listen and share your thoughts with us via voice note: ⁠ https://www.speakpipe.com/IrlwithusKeep up with the latest on:InstagramTikTokWant to partner with us? Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/⁠⁠

In "The Final Word: Your Questions, Our Reflections, & Hypotheticals," we’re closing out our "Our Childfree Choice" series with an episode that that asks the big what ifs. Get ready for candid listener feedback and heated discussions that explore the realities of choosing a childfree life. In this explosive finale, we’re tackling:​Your burning questions, from what would we do if Ellie was to fall pregnant, embryo freezing and the fear of aging without kids​Our reactions to listener comments that shine a light on the pressures surrounding parenthood​Hypothetical scenarios that could make us rethink everything​The truth about navigating a partner’s desire for kids when you’re set against it This isn’t just a wrap-up; it’s a call to engage in the conversations that matter! We want to hear from you—send us your thoughts and feedback via voice note: ⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus⁠ Don’t miss out on this thought-provoking conclusion!Keep up with the latest on:InstagramTikTok Want to partner with us? Contact: ⁠[email protected]⁠ Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/

In 'Perspectives and Expectations', we delve deep into the complexities of choosing a childfree life. Get ready for Ross' brutally honest take on the viral '117 Reasons' list, and we discuss hidden pressures faced by men, women, and couples. From laugh-out-loud moments to hard-hitting truths, this episode is your front-row seat to the conversation everyone's talking about but few dare to have. In this episode, we're getting into:​Ross' perspective on the '117 Reasons to Remain Childfree' list​The stark differences in expectations for men vs. women when it comes to having children​Insights from public figures like Elon Musk, Jordan Peterson and John Cena on the topic​Unpacking the age-old question: Is choosing not to have kids selfish?​Clarifying why our choice doesn't mean we dislike childrenWe would love to hear your questions, thoughts and feedback. Send us a voice note: ⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus⁠Keep up with the latest on:InstagramTikTokWant to partner with us? Contact: [email protected] by Fōcl Media https://foclmedia.com.au/

In 'Our Childfree Journey: Facing Backlash, Haters, Supporters, and Our Top 3 Reasons'; we dive headfirst into the storm that followed Ellie’s ‘117 Reasons to Remain Childfree’ list. From praise and support to intense backlash, the reactions were explosive. We also unpack our top 3 reasons why we each want to live a child free life. In this episode, we’re getting into:​The wide range of reactions – reading the heartwarming support to the outright hate we received​The most talked-about controversial reasons from the list​Sharing how we’ve navigated the 'controversy' ​Discuss the common criticisms breakdown the 'you're selfish' responses​Unpack what our top 3 reasons and experiences that lead to this decisionWe would love to hear your questions, thoughts and feedback.. send us a voice note: https://www.speakpipe.com/IrlwithusKeep up with the latest on:InstagramTikTokWant to partner with us? Contact: [email protected] by Fōcl Mediahttps://foclmedia.com.au/

Welcome to the first episode of "IN REAL LIFE with Ellie & Ross”. Diving deep into a topic that sparks plenty of conversation: the choice to live childfree. Ellie shares her list of 117 REASONS TO REMAIN CHILDFREE and what lead us to make this decision. In this episode, we discuss:- motivations for this podcast series- why the ‘117 reasons to remain child free’ list was created and then shared publicly- what personal experiences shaped this decision. - the mixed reactions we have received—from supportive messages to some of the hateful criticisms. - how do you answer the loaded question 'Do you want kids?'Whether you’re childfree, a parent puzzled by those who aren’t, or still undecided – this series will challenge everything you think you know.We would love to hear your questions, thoughts and feedback.. send us a voice note: https://www.speakpipe.com/IrlwithusKeep up with the latest on:InstagramTikTokWant to partner with us? Contact: [email protected] by Fōcl Mediahttps://foclmedia.com.au/