James Trail: from functional to flourishing

In this episode of the James Trail podcast, Isaac Etter rejoins Meredith Shuman to discuss the nuanced journey of interracial (transracial) adoption. Isaac shares his personal story of being raised by loving parents who, while providing a safe home, inadvertently left him unprepared for the racial and cultural complexities of the outside world. We dive into why "love is not enough" when raising a child of a different race and explore the one thing parents can do to dramatically improve their child's sense of identity and confidence.Key Topics Discussed:💡 The terminology debate: Why Isaac prefers the term "interracial adoption" over "transracial".💡 Cultural Identity: The importance of understanding hair care, skincare, and cultural nuances.💡 Racial Mirrors: Why seeing adults of the same race in authority roles changes a child's future.💡 Community Integration: Moving beyond "black hours" to making diversity a normal part of family life.Resources Mentioned:CASE (Center for Adoption Support and Education): Mentioned in relation to Tony Hines and his advocacy for updated adoption terminology. 🔗 - www.adoptionsupport.orgUnderstanding and Supporting Transracial Adoptees: Isaac’s training program focused on racial mirrors and identity.🔗 - www.identitylearning.coFor more information on Isaac's speaking engagements and advocacy work: 🔗 - www.isaacetter.com.

In this episode of the James Trail Podcast, host Meredith James sits down with Isaac Etter, an adoptee, activist, and founder of Parenting Different. Together, they pull back the curtain on the internal world of the adoptee, moving beyond the "Hallmark movie" narrative to explore the complexities of loss, grief, and the "ghosts" that inhabit adoptive homes.Isaac shares his personal journey of navigating a childhood narrative wrapped in rejection and abandonment, explaining how these early wounds often manifest in two distinct behavioral extremes: the "over-performer" perfectionist and the "disruptive" non-performer. This conversation is an essential guide for adoptive and foster parents looking to move from a "personal lens" of parenting to a "trauma-loss lens," ultimately building a foundation of honesty that allows children to thrive into adulthood.🎙️ Key Moments & Timestamps3:30 - The Mission of Parenting Different: Isaac discusses his organization’s goal to equip adoptive and foster parents with resources that recognize the inherent trauma and loss in adoption.7:15 - Grief Has an Expression: A breakdown of how a child’s "misbehavior" is often a biological expression of underlying grief and trauma.10:30 - Performance vs. Protection: Isaac explains why some adoptees become perfectionists to avoid further rejection, while others act out to avoid the pain of failing to be "perfect".16:40 - TBRI in Practice: A brief look at Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) as a modality for coming alongside kids with "hard parts" in their stories.21:15 - The Guilt of Curiosity: Why many adoptees feel a deep sense of guilt for being curious about their birth families or for not "celebrating" their adoption day.26:12 - Surrounded by Ghosts: Isaac’s powerful metaphor for the invisible presence of birth parents and the "ghosts" of what was lost in an adoptive home.Resources & Cited References:👉 Parenting Different: https://www.identitylearning.co/👉 Karyn Purvis Institute of Child Development (KPICD): https://child.tcu.edu/👉 Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI): https://child.tcu.edu

In this powerful conversation, healthcare executive Judson Howe joins Meredith Shuman to explore why the modern medical system is failing despite our record-breaking spending and advanced biomedical science. Drawing from his experience as a CFO and hospital leader, Judson argues that we have "transactionalized" healthcare and lost the vital component of relationship.The episode dives deep into the holistic meaning of "healing," tracing the Greek word sozo and the Old English word halen, which both encompass rescuing, delivering, and making whole—not just fixing a physical ailment. Judson discusses the "epidemic of loneliness" identified by the Surgeon General and how emotional and spiritual health are inextricably linked to physical outcomes.Key topics discussed include:✓ The 10x vs. 2x Mindset in Health: Why doing more of the same isn't working and why we need a generative, not extractive, model of care.✓ The NUKA System: Learning from the award-winning South Central Foundation in Alaska on how to treat patients as "customer-owners".✓ Trauma-Informed Care: How understanding the "unseen" wounds of trauma can transform clinics and improve staff retention.✓ Faith & Medicine: Integrating the biblical model of wholeness and the importance of clinical and spiritual leaders working together.Whether you are a healthcare professional, a patient navigating the system, or a neighbor looking to support those around you, this episode is a reminder that we are all "in the same bus together" and that true healing begins with love and community.About Our Guest: Judson Howe is a veteran healthcare executive and the host of Healthcare Reframed, a podcast dedicated to vulnerable conversations that challenge the status quo of the American medical system. Subscribe to his channel here: @HealthcareReframed, or visit his website at www.healthcarereframed.orgHOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more faith-based, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: @jamestrailglobal#MentalHealth #HealthcareReframed #FaithAndTrauma #HumanConnection #SabbathRest #JamesTrail #MoralInjury #Leadership

"We are hungry for people willing to climb down off their pedestals and have meaningful conversations."In this episode of the James Trail Podcast, Meredith Shuman sits down with Judson Howe, creator of the Healthcare Reframed podcast and former healthcare executive. Together, they explore the "softer side" of leadership, the hidden crisis of moral injury in the medical field, and why our fast-paced society is starving for human connection.Judson shares his personal journey of transitioning from high-stakes corporate operations to a "season of capacity," where he learned the art of decanting ideas—slowing down to let truth and relationship breathe.In this episode, we discuss:- The Reality of Moral Injury: Why healthcare leaders and clinicians are facing a values crisis.- The Sierra Nevada Lesson: What standing on a 14,000-foot peak taught Judson about mortality and faith.- Healthcare Reframed: The inspiration behind traveling the country to have vulnerable, "fireside" chats with industry giants.- The Power of Sabbath: Practical ways to protect your internal cadence from the external chaos of the world.About Our Guest: Judson Howe is a veteran healthcare executive and the host of Healthcare Reframed, a podcast dedicated to vulnerable conversations that challenge the status quo of the American medical system. Subscribe to his channel here: @HealthcareReframed, or visit his website at www.healthcarereframed.orgHOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more faith-based, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: / jamestrailglobal#MentalHealth #HealthcareReframed #FaithAndTrauma #HumanConnection #SabbathRest #JamesTrail #MoralInjury #Leadership

In this episode, host Meredith Shuman is joined by pediatric dietitian and foster/adoptive mother Madison Tyler. Together, they explore the intersection of nutrition, childhood trauma, and family dynamics. Madison explains the vital difference between a dietitian and a nutritionist and shares her journey into trauma-informed feeding practices. They discuss how stress and past adverse experiences (ACEs) directly impact a child's relationship with food. Learn why kids might use food as a tool for control and how parents can shift their language to create a shame-free environment around the dinner table.HOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more faith-based, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: @jamestrailglobal

In this episode, we sit down with dedicated school counselor Crissy Skogan to pull back the curtain on the "burning issues" facing teenagers today. From the addictive nature of social media and the weight of cyberbullying to the crushing pressure of academic perfectionism, we explore how parents and educators can show up authentically for the next generation.Our guest shares powerful insights on why modeling vulnerability is more effective than just giving advice, and how creating "forced" spaces for self-care can open the door to deeper connection. We also discuss the innovative programs being implemented in schools—like Peer-Led Suicide Prevention and Mental Health First Aid—to ensure no student feels they have to carry their burdens alone.🕒 Key Moments & Timestamps0:00 – Creating Space for Vulnerability The importance of "forcing" shared activities (like a run or a walk) to get kids out of their rooms and into a headspace where they feel safe to share.1:25 – The "Human" Counselor Why it’s vital to let kids know that adults aren't robots and that being "authentic and human" is the foundation of a helping relationship.3:01 – Vulnerability vs. Oversharing A helpful rule of thumb on what is appropriate to share with students or children versus what should be reserved for adult peers.5:22 – The Social Media Struggle A deep dive into cyberbullying, the "consent talk" regarding digital images, and the impact of social media addiction.10:11 – The "One Hour" Rule A powerful recommendation from a high school senior on limiting social media use and why modeling proper usage as a parent is the #1 tool.11:05 – Academic Pressure & "The Need Behind the Behavior" Discussing the student who sobs over an 'A' and how to identify the narrative (value, worth, or fear) driving academic stress.18:01 – Relationship Dynamics in the Digital Age How hiding behind screens has made in-person conflict resolution and empathy more difficult for modern teens.24:45 – A Message to Parents A vital reminder: Your child’s struggle with mental health is not a reflection of "bad parenting."30:52 – Innovative School Resources An overview of Mental Health First Aid, "Sources of Strength," and the "True Sport" mindset for student-athletes.Useful links:http://mentalhealthfirstaid.org/population-focused-modules/teens/http://sourcesofstrength.orghttp://truesport.orgHOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more Christ-centric, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: / jamestrailglobal

In this engaging conversation, Meredith Shuman and Cristina Skokan explore the multifaceted role of a school counselor, the challenges teens face today, and the importance of mental health awareness. Cristina shares her journey into counseling, her passion for coaching volleyball, and the significance of fostering healthy relationships among students. They discuss the impact of social media, academic pressures, and the need for vulnerability in communication. Cristina emphasizes the importance of parental support and innovative mental health programs in schools, while also touching on the role of faith in navigating life's challenges. The conversation concludes with reflections on the beauty of change and the importance of self-care.00:00 - Introduction and Personal Connections02:52 - Career Journey and Passion for Counseling06:01 - The Role of a School Counselor08:54 - Coaching Volleyball and Building Team Chemistry11:56 - Mental Health Awareness in Sports14:55 - Family Life and Fostering Children17:38 - Navigating Vulnerability in Counseling20:49 - Teen Challenges: Social Media and Mental Health34:36 - Academic Pressure and Mental Health38:47 - Understanding Teen Stress and Parental Support41:19 - Navigating Relationships in the Digital Age43:15 - Supporting Teens Through Breakups50:15 - The Importance of Vulnerability and Modeling51:32 - Integrating Faith in Mental Health Conversations53:50 - Innovative Mental Health Initiatives in Schools59:19 - The Role of Identity in Student Athletes' Mental HealthResources & Further Information:Need to talk to someone now? Text or call 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.Learn More: Look into getting certified in a Mental Health First Aid course in your area!https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.orgWhat is one thing you can do today to help build hope in your community? Let us know in the comments!HOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more Christ-centric, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: / jamestrailglobal

Parenting in a hyper-connected world feels impossible, but it doesn't have to be. In this critical conversation, we welcome Jamie from Screen Sanity to equip parents with the facts and tools they need to protect their children and foster deeper, real-life connection.We tackle difficult topics head-on:Pornography's Pervasiveness: Jamie Gordon shares alarming statistics (25% of all search engine searches are porn!) and provides clear strategies for talking to your kids about accidental exposure, recommending the book "Good Pictures, Bad Pictures."Online Gaming Risks: We discuss the dangers of online gaming with strangers and how to recognize the signs of addictive behavior (behavior changes when asked to get off). Jamie offers the Kami Kanai Game Decision Tree as a helpful visual tool.Battling Big Tech: Understand how social media algorithms are designed to create addiction and what parents can do to counteract this massive, billion-dollar industry.Making Intentional Choices: Learn about the "Create, Connect, Consume" screen time model and explore device alternatives (Gab phones, Gizmo watches, flip phones) to ensure you're giving a device for a reason, not just because "everyone else has one."Screens don't have to ruin your family. It's about being intentional, not eliminating.Screen Sanity Website & Resources: https://screensanity.orgHOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more Christ-centric, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: / jamestrailglobal

The digital age has brought incredible tools, but it's also created a massive battleground in our homes. In this eye-opening conversation, we dive deep into the world of Screen Sanity with Jamie Gordon, a licensed social worker and advocate for digital well-being.Jamie shares staggering statistics that reveal the intense pressure and impact of screens on young people today: from the shocking average age of first pornography exposure to the fact that 86% of youth want to be a social media influencer.In This Episode, You'll Discover:📌 The Mission of Screen Sanity: Learn how the organization started and its core mission to reduce loneliness, depression, and anxiety by fostering digital health in families.📌 The "Start with Yourself" Principle: Why parental modeling is crucial, and the concept of "fubbing" (snubbing someone with your phone). Jamie shares a powerful story about what kids really want from their parents.📌 Creating Internal vs. External Filters: Why simply blocking content isn't enough, and how to help your kids build an internal filter to navigate the tough stuff online.📌 The START Acronym: A practical framework for families seeking digital health, including creating essential device-free zones like tables and bedtimes.📌 Critical Resources & Programs: Hear about Screen Sanity's innovative work training therapists, school counselors, and even pediatricians to approach mental health through a digital lens.This is a must-listen for any parent, educator, therapist, or caregiver struggling to keep pace with the ever-changing digital landscape. It’s about fighting isolation and keeping kids captivated by life, not screens.Screen Sanity Website & Resources: https://screensanity.orgHOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more Christ-centric, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: / jamestrailglobal

Join James Trail in the powerful continuation of Meredith’s conversation with David Galvin, where they explore the critical role of the faith community in suicide prevention.This episode is a call to action for pastors, ministers, and all believers to approach the complex issue of suicide with compassion, biblical truth, and courage. David dismantles the myth that Jesus didn't face suicidal temptation, drawing a profound parallel to the temptation in the wilderness where the enemy urged him to "Jump." This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to become a bridge, not a barrier, to someone's healing and hope. Timestamps & Key Moments:0:00 - Did Jesus ever deal with suicidal thoughts? (Matthew 4)1:09 - The danger of telling someone to "just pray" or "just have more faith."2:04 - Judas Iscariot: The friend Jesus lost to suicide.4:10 - Why Easter is the perfect time to talk about suicide from the pulpit.6:00 - Acts 16 and the Jailer: The Bible's first recorded suicide intervention.6:57 - Paul's life-saving shout: "Don't harm yourself! We're all here."8:15 - The four groups in your church impacted by suicide.10:52 - Why silence persists: Suicide is an emotion problem, not an information problem.15:50 - The biggest mistake ministers make when trying to help.18:03 - Our job is to lead people to safety, not to solutions.19:19 - The power of using direct language: "Are you thinking about killing yourself?"21:00 - How to practice asking the question and why it makes people feel cared for.24:16 - How simply saying you listened to a podcast about suicide prevention can open the door for someone to confess their pain.26:22 - The role of the outdoors and nature in healing and "removing the noise."David Galvan (he/him) has dedicated over 15 years to speaking, training, and leading conversations about whole-person health and suicide prevention. As the Mental Health First Aid Trainer-in-Residence at St. Michael’s Episcopal Church in Colorado Springs and a Director/Trainer with the Soul Shop Movement, David has personally trained thousands of individuals in Mental Health First Aid, QPR, and ACEs. He has spoken to over 30,000 students across the country, equipping schools, faith communities, and non-profits to address mental health, suicide prevention, and hope-centered care. David is passionate about ensuring every person has access to help, healing, and hope.🔗 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/djgalvan Resources & Further Information:Need to talk to someone now? Text or call 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.Learn More: Look into getting certified in a Mental Health First Aid course in your area!https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.orgWhat is one thing you can do today to help build hope in your community? Let us know in the comments!HOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more Christ-centric, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamestrailglobal/

In recognition of Suicide Prevention Month (September), Meredith sits down with David Galvan, a respected and passionate trainer in Mental Health First Aid and suicide prevention. David challenges us to shift our focus from just preventing death to actively helping people "live and live to their fullest," bringing a perspective that is informed by his Christian faith and biblical worldview.Learn why Mental Health First Aid needs to be as common as CPR, the critical importance of using person-first, non-stigmatizing language around suicide, and the simple, practical advice that can save a life: "Just open the door."Key Moments You Don't Want to Miss:* 0:45 The staggering statistics: Why you're more likely to see a panic attack than someone choking.* 3:12 David's "accidental on purpose" journey into suicide prevention after a community tragedy, including the moment a quote about hope and social connection called him to action through his faith.* 5:50 Language Correction: Why we say "died by suicide" and not "committed suicide."* 8:15 The powerful difference between "attempting suicide" and a "suicide attempt."* 12:10 The simple, life-saving advice: "Just open the door."* 14:30 The "Who Are Your Three?" Challenge: The most practical thing you can do to reduce isolation and increase hope in your life and community.David Galvan (he/him) has dedicated over 15 years to speaking, training, and leading conversations about whole-person health and suicide prevention. As the Mental Health First Aid Trainer-in-Residence at St. Michael’s Episcopal Church in Colorado Springs and a Director/Trainer with the Soul Shop Movement, David has personally trained thousands of individuals in Mental Health First Aid, QPR, and ACEs. He has spoken to over 30,000 students across the country, equipping schools, faith communities, and non-profits to address mental health, suicide prevention, and hope-centered care. David is passionate about ensuring every person has access to help, healing, and hope.🔗 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/djgalvan Resources & Further Information:* Need to talk to someone now? Text or call 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.* Learn More: Look into getting certified in a Mental Health First Aid course in your area!* https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.orgWhat is one thing you can do today to help build hope in your community? Let us know in the comments!HOW YOU CAN SUPPORT:🔔 LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more Christ-centric, trauma-informed mental health content!💵 DONATE: We appreciate your donations and partnership. Please visit https://www.jamestrail.org/donate to support our work!🔗 Stay Connected with Us :💻 Website: https://jamestrail.org/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamestrailglobal/

Pastor Stuart Williams shares his incredible story of growing up during apartheid in South Africa, losing his entire family in a tragic accident, and leading a diverse church in Calgary, Canada. This deeply honest conversation explores trauma, empathy, cultural transformation, and the power of the gospel to heal.Whether you're in ministry, parenting, or simply seeking healing from personal or collective trauma, this episode is a reminder that vulnerability, silence, and presence can be sacred acts.🔔 Subscribe for more real conversations about trauma-informed care, healing, and faith.This episode was recorded on March 27th, 2024. Stuart is currently serving as Vice Dean at Ambrose University: https://ambrose.edu/ambrose-university-announces-new-vice-dean-theology-appointment#:~:text=He%20has%20taught%20courses%20at,Williams%20holds%20a%20DMin.

What does it mean to say yes — even when you know it’s going to be hard?Jenn and Eric from Replanted Ministry share their journey through foster care, adoption, and trauma-informed ministry. They open up about the beauty they’ve witnessed, the heartbreak they’ve carried, and how community can change the story for families walking hard roads.Whether you're a foster or adoptive parent, a ministry leader, or someone who cares about families navigating trauma — this conversation is full of hope, honesty, and hard-won wisdom.RESOURCES MENTIONED:🌱 Replanted Ministry • Ministry Homepage: https://www.replantedministry.org • Replanted Conference: https://replantedconference.org • Attend Replanted Chicago 2025 (Oct 23–25): https://replantedconference.regfox.com/replanted-conference-2025 • Host a Conference in Your Area: https://replantedconference.org/host/ • Replanted Group Curriculum (Adults & Kids): https://www.replantedministry.org/courses-and-curriculum/📚 Books • Replanted: Faith-Based Support for Adoptive and Foster Families – https://www.amazon.com/dp/1599475375 • Thriving Families: A Trauma-Informed Guidebook for Foster, Adoptive, and Kinship Parents – https://www.amazon.com/dp/1513810472

What does it mean to say yes — even when you know it’s going to be hard?Will and Carrie share their real journey through foster care, adoption, parenting, and trauma-informed care. They open up about the beauty they found, the brokenness they had to face, and how their understanding of family and healing has changed along the way.If you’re parenting through trauma, supporting kids from hard places, or building a family differently than you expected — this conversation will remind you: you’re not alone.✨ Subscribe for more real conversations about trauma-informed care, parenting, and building safe spaces for kids and families.Connect with Will & Carrie:Website: www.connectedparentingminute.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/ConnectedParentingMinuteInstagram: www.instagram.com/connected.parenting.minute/YouTube: www.youtube.com/@connectedparentingminuteConnected Parenting Minute Podcast:Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connected-parenting-minute/id1680645043Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/0IeqOdbhLjudF0zHnpCKpe?si=7ac4c14d3ed84f67The Empowered Parent Podcast: www.onebighappyhome.com/podcast/🧠 Learn about TBRI® (Trust-Based Relational Intervention): child.tcu.edu/about-us/tbri/📚 Recommended Reads:The Connected Parent by Karyn Purvis and Lisa QuallsThe Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne BrysonThe Power of Showing Up by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne BrysonThe Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog by Bruce Perry and Maia SzalavitzWhat Happened to You? by Bruce Perry and Oprah WinfreyThe Let Them Theory by Mel RobbinsCrucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler

Meredith talks with Daniela Coats, a therapist and the founder of With Siblings, an organization focused on supporting biological children in foster and adoptive families. They talk about Daniela’s personal journey growing up with foster siblings, how that shaped her professional path, and what it means to create emotional space for all kids in a family. Daniela shares powerful insights on birth order, scripts for awkward questions, and how faith and therapy intersect in this work.🔗 LinksLists of trainings that can be hosted live: https://www.withsiblings.org/home/training-and-consultationPre-recorded trainings, worksheets, guide, and other free resources: https://stan.store/with_siblingsThe Day Lily Turned (un)Invisible: https://a.co/d/3lJ8y6J"Siblings... if only for a short time" Shirts https://www.bonfire.com/if-only-for-a-short-time/Be Still Counseling and Consulting: https://www.bestilltherapy.com/daniela-coatsProduction Credits:Producer: Zach LuceroMarketing: Sydney JonesSocial: Griffin ShumanBooking: Gretchen Schrock

What happens when the systems meant to help actually hurt? Shanelle is a pastor’s wife, attorney, and Executive Director of the Racial Equity Collaborative. In this episode, she shares her passion for addressing racial disparities in the child welfare system—and her commitment to community-driven solutions that bring lasting change.We talk about racial trauma, what’s often misunderstood about equity work, how faith informs her approach, and what it means to “have equity eyes.”📌 More from Shanelle & the Racial Equity Collaborative:WebsiteInstagramYoutubeSkin DeepProduction Credits:Producer/Cam Op: Zach LuceroMarketing: Sydney JonesCam Op/Social: Griffin ShumanBooking: Gretchen SchrockSpecial thanks to Westside Church and the RE Conference team for being gracious hosts!https://www.westsidefamily.church/https://www.realencouragement.org/

1 in 20 school-age kids in the U.S. are impacted by Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD)—yet most go undiagnosed. Sandra Flach, host of The Adoption & Foster Care Journey podcast, shares her powerful insights as an adoptive mom, FASD educator, and advocate for trauma-informed care. If you're parenting a child from a hard place, navigating FASD, or supporting adoptive and foster families, this episode is for you.🔹 Learn how trauma and prenatal alcohol exposure impact the brain🔹 Understand why traditional discipline approaches don’t work for neurodivergent kids🔹 Discover hope, community, and strategies for parenting children with FASD📌 CHAPTER MARKERS0:00 – Intro07:41 – The ADHD & FASD Overlap – Why Kids Are Often Misdiagnosed12:56 – Why Doctors & Schools Miss FASD – The Gaps in Medical Training20:36 – The Parenting Shift – Why Traditional Discipline Fails These Kids34:12 – FASD & Church Hurt – How Faith Communities Can Do Better44:20 – Invisible Disability, Real Challenges – What Needs to Change50:02 – Stories of Hope – How Kids with FASD Can Thrive📢 Further Resources from Sandra Flach🔗 Podcast: https://www.justicefororphansny.org/podcast🔗 FASD Training & Support: https://www.justicefororphansny.org/registration🔗 Hope for the FASD Journey Community: https://www.justicefororphansny.org/hope-community🔗 Sandra Flach’s Website: https://www.sandraflach.com/🔗 National FASD Resources: https://fasdunited.org/📲 Connect with Sandra & Justice for Orphans➡️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sandraflach_jfo | https://www.instagram.com/justicefororphans➡️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SandraFlach | https://www.facebook.com/JusticeForOrphans🎬 Production CreditsProducer: Zach LuceroMarketing: Sydney JonesSocial: Griffin ShumanBooking: Gretchen Schrock

The church should be the most welcoming place on earth—so why do so many families with disabilities feel unseen and excluded? Rebecca Wall, Executive Director of WITH Ministries, shares powerful stories, eye-opening stats, and practical ways churches can shift from exclusion to belonging.In This Episode:✅ Why so many families with disabilities are leaving the church✅ The heartbreaking reality of being told, "Your child is a liability"✅ How churches can shift from separate spaces to true inclusion✅ Practical steps for church leaders, parents, and individuals to foster belongingLearn moreWebsite - https://withministries.org/Research & Resources- https://withministries.org/equip/Access Subscription- https://withministries.org/access/Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/withministriesorg/Tim Tebow Foundation - https://timtebowfoundation.org/Boundless Hope by Kim Botto - https://store.kimbotto.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYNIi-I_5MhGe3hSOyb6iQkuT1zVgwZRcSqhyT8bRrQoMQ23_Vq55aRfkQ_aem_mxQRvtc7CSzeA2zrqpXuCQProducer: Zach LuceroMarketing: Sydney JonesSocial: Griffin ShumanBooking: Gretchen Schrock

Parenting kids who have experienced trauma or live with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) comes with unique challenges. In this episode, Meredith sits down with Barb Clark, Director of Training at Families Rising, to discuss parenting strategies that work, the power of connection, and how understanding brain-based differences can transform the way we support kids. With humor and real-life insights, Barb shares her journey as a parent to five adult children, including those affected by prenatal alcohol and drug exposure. She also highlights the most common misconceptions about FASD, why traditional parenting strategies often fail, and how professionals—caregivers, therapists, social workers, and law enforcement—can better support impacted individuals.Barb is a nationally recognized trainer and the head coach of the FASD Caregiver Kickstart Program, an international initiative helping families navigate the challenges of FASD. If you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or unsure how to help a child struggling with big behaviors, this episode is for you.Producer: Zach LuceroMarketing: Sydney JonesSocial: Griffin ShumanBooking: Gretchen Schrock📚 Resources Mentioned:Families Rising (Training, Resources, and Support): www.wearefamiliesrising.orgFASD Training Webinar Series by Barb Clark: https://wearefamiliesrising.org/training-series/fetal-alcohol-spectrum-disorders-training-series-webinar/FASD Success Caregiver Kickstart Program: https://www.fasdsuccess.comFASD United (State Resource Directory): https://www.fasdunited.orgReConference (Real Encouragement for Families): https://www.realencouragement.orgFaithBridge Foster Care (Past Sessions by Barb): https://faithbridgeu.com/Join the Notification List for Barb’s Upcoming Book: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScESI1VSx_QOLu9GhKbskHHkO-BMvoJUy-nVgPbOfaTP5xPCg/viewform🔗 Follow Families Rising:• Website: https://wearefamiliesrising.org• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/58249251/• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wearefamiliesrising• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearefamiliesrising• Twitter: https://x.com/familiesrising💬 Join the conversation! What’s one takeaway from this episode that stuck with you? Drop a comment or send us a message.

In this episode, Meredith sits down with Ryan and Kayla North to delve into the unique challenges and joys of foster and adoptive families. They discuss how shared experiences, trauma-informed approaches, and practical tools can build trust and connection in families navigating complex dynamics. Together, they explore what it means to create a community where healing and growth are possible, even in the hardest seasons. Join us for a conversation full of honesty, wisdom, and encouragement for every step of the journey. 🎙 About Our Guests: Ryan and Kayla North are pioneers in the foster and adoptive community, bringing years of experience as parents, trainers, and advocates. As TBRI-trained practitioners, their work focuses on empowering families through connection, understanding, and trauma-informed approaches. References: * One Big Happy Home: https://www.onebighappyhome.com/ * Empowered Parent Podcast: https://www.onebighappyhome.com/podcast/ * RE: conference: https://www.realencouragement.org/ Producer: Zach Lucero Marketing: Sydney Jones Social Media: Griffin Shuman Guest Booking: Gretchen Schrock

At James Trail, we believe healing begins with understanding. In this episode, Meredith, founder and leader of James Trail, shares her personal journey with trauma-informed care and how it shapes her leadership and approach to community building. From real-life stories to practical insights, Meredith dives into how empathy and connection create safe spaces for growth and resilience. 📚 What We Offer: -Trauma-informed training for schools, businesses, and churches -Resources for individuals and families facing trauma -Supportive spaces for healing and growth 🎙 About Meredith: Meredith brings years of experience in trauma-informed care and a deep passion for equipping others to navigate life’s challenges. As a leader and educator, she fosters healing through connection, practical tools, and faith-driven wisdom. References: Being Known Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-known-podcast/id1556261828 Anxious People (novel): https://a.co/d/9OdE0qW Bear Town (novel): https://a.co/d/3DTriLb 🔗 Learn More: https://jamestrail.org 💬 Follow Us on Social Media: Instagram: https://instagram.com/jamestrailorg Facebook: https://facebook.com/jamestrailorg LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/jamestrailorg 💬 Join us on the trail #TraumaInformedCare

Meredith welcomes back Dr. Joshua Kreimeyer, James Trail board member, mental health professional, and friend, for a heartfelt conversation about healing, faith, and the journey of walking the trail together. They dive into Josh's personal experiences with emotional suppression, the power of rest, and the profound significance of the word "yet." Through shared wisdom, humor, and a Marvel-style team spirit, they unpack the mission of James Trail—to walk alongside others, reduce the impact of trauma, and remind every listener: you might feel stuck, but you're not. Whether you're wrestling with rest, seeking hope, or just need a reminder that you're not alone, this episode delivers insight, encouragement, and a whole lot of heart. Learn more: ⁠https://www.jamestrail.org/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jamestrailglobal⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/jamestrail127

Meredith and Pastor Roy Sprunger discuss the critical role of listening and leadership in healing spaces. From the power of presence to the importance of community, Pastor Roy reflects on James Trail’s work and how empathy transforms lives touched by trauma. ⁠https://www.rainiercomcog.org/⁠ Learn more about James Trail: ⁠https://www.jamestrail.org/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jamestrailglobal⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/jamestrail127

Meredith talks with James Trail board member Irasema Renteria about faith, vulnerability, and the transformative power of trauma-informed practices. Irasema shares her journey as a parent and advocate, her perspective on the importance of curiosity and compassion, and how James Trail has opened unexpected doors. They discuss the beauty in small moments, the importance of listening to God's guidance, and the global impact of bringing trauma-informed care to diverse communities. Learn more about James Trail: https://www.jamestrail.org/ https://www.instagram.com/jamestrailglobal https://www.facebook.com/jamestrail127

Meredith talks with Daniel Ziegler, James Trail board member, about faith, leadership, and the role of empathy in parenting, business, and relationships. They discuss the power of community and the importance of understanding trauma. Daniel graduated with a design degree from the University of Cincinnati and spent the next 6 years working in marketing for Back2Back Ministries, a global non-profit dedicated to giving a voice to orphaned and vulnerable children. He brought his photography, video, and marketing experience to launch Next Door Photos, a real estate photography company, in Cincinnati, Ohio. He’s passionate about Next Door Photos' mission to provide employment to survivors of human trafficking. When Daniel is not helping realtors delight their clients with high quality media, you can find him playing outside with his wife, two sons and a daughter, or tackling that next big DIY project at home.  Learn More Next Door Photos James Trail

In this special episode, we sit down with members of the James Trail Board, sharing personal stories, reflections, and deep insights on the power of empathy, vulnerability, and healing in trauma-informed care. From exploring how faith guides their mission to the importance of community and leadership in addressing trauma, this conversation delves into what makes James Trail a unique force in transforming lives. Learn more about James Trail:WebsiteInstagramLinkedin

In this episode, Nate Nielsen, Principal Consultant at the Table Group, dives deep into the  importance of trust, vulnerability, and healthy conflict in organizational leadership. Nate shares his personal journey, professional insights, and the role faith plays in his work. He also tackles the complex intersections of leadership, mental health, and trauma, illustrating how authenticity and vulnerability can transform not only teams but personal lives as well. Let’s explore how business strategies overlap with relational dynamics, and how true leadership requires minimizing politics, fostering clarity, and creating a culture of trust.Learn morehttps://natenielsenconsulting.com/https://www.tablegroup.com/ The Bear Succession

Meredith sits down with Matthew Ayers from Dream Centers in Colorado Springs to discuss the profound impact of trauma-informed care in today's world. Matthew shares invaluable insights into the importance of intentional healing work for individuals, especially children, who have experienced trauma. From building safe spaces to creating authentic relationships grounded in trust and love, they explore the transformative effects of trauma-informed practices on both clients and communities.Matthew also delves into the role of faith, the importance of slowing down to truly connect, and how healing can begin in the simplest acts of hospitality. This episode serves as an eye-opener for organizations, schools, and businesses, demonstrating why trauma-informed care is a vital investment for the future.Learn more about Dream Centers:https://www.dreamcenters.com/about-dream-centers/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGot8j3FF-QHsZwbgsr_lAwhttps://www.instagram.com/dreamcenters/?hl=en

In this episode, Meredith sits down with Susie Gurley, host of the Just A Mom podcast, to explore the powerful stories behind teen mental health. Susie shares her family's personal journey, discussing the challenges and redemptive moments that come from navigating mental illness in a loved one. From the inception of her podcast to the importance of safe spaces for vulnerability, this conversation sheds light on the realities of mental health and the ways we can all come alongside those who are struggling. Join us for an insightful discussion that offers hope, encouragement, and practical advice for anyone touched by the complexities of mental health.You are not alone.Just A Momhttps://www.thejustamompodcast.com/https://www.instagram.com/thejustamompodcast/https://www.facebook.com/thejustamompodcast/You Matter Festivalhttps://www.youmatterfestival.net/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pn8ut-Z82O0Other resourceshttps://zeroreasonswhy.org/https://988lifeline.org/

Join us as we explore the powerful story of Cory Ard, a former gang member turned urban missionary. Cory opens up about his tumultuous past, the violence he endured, and how he found redemption in Christ. Now, he's dedicated to transforming his community and spreading hope to those who need it most. Connect With Cory Ard https://coryard.com/ https://www.instagram.com/coryard https://www.facebook.com/coryard https://www.tiktok.com/@coryard?_t=8Vp9Z8picV4&_r=1 Ministry Links: https://www.socoyfc.org/ https://hopeisalive.net/ https://www.fcacolorado.org/ Other Links: https://andymineo.com/ https://builttobrag.com/ https://www.reachrecords.com/artists/tedashii/

Join Meredith as she talks with Kim Botto, an advocate for children with unique needs. Kim shares her journey from banking to ministry, her experiences as an adoptive mother, and her work in creating inclusive spaces in churches and communities. Learn about the importance of curiosity, empathy, and understanding in supporting children and their families. Discover practical strategies to make every child feel seen and safe. Tune in to be inspired and equipped to make a difference. https://kimbotto.com/https://www.crossroads.net/media/authors/kim-bottohttps://www.instagram.com/kimbotto/“Let the little children come” by Hailey Botto - https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/778739233/let-the-little-children-come?click_key=0d0261a8a5bbefb9a3a328579b793372ba727f67%3A778739233&click_sum=3a83d781&ref=shop_home_feat_1

Step into The James Trail Podcast, where host Meredith takes you on a journey through inspiring stories and heartfelt conversations. Each episode, released every other Friday morning, brings you closer to understanding the power of community, resilience, and faith. Whether you’re looking for encouragement, personal growth, or just a great story, The James Trail Podcast offers something special. Join us on the trail and let’s walk this path together—subscribe now and don’t miss a single episode!

In this episode of The James Trail Podcast, we sit down with Dolly Regier, a passionate advocate for neurofeedback therapy. Dolly shares her personal journey from experiencing trauma to becoming an adoptive mom, which led her to discover the transformative power of neurofeedback. Learn how this non-invasive technology, likened to physical therapy for the brain, can help improve flexibility, resilience, and overall mental health. Join us for this insightful conversation about the intersection of neuroscience and faith. -Learn more about neurofeedback:www.balancedbrainsandbodies.com(Both a private fb group + main page)https://www.facebook.com/groups/balancedbrainsandbodies/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557440587940https://www.instagram.com/balancedbrainsandbodies/A Symphony In The Brain - https://www.amazon.com/Symphony-Brain-Evolution-Wave-Biofeedback/dp/0802143814The Body Keeps The Score - https://a.co/d/0fbMnyvs-More Info & Links:RE: Conference - https://www.realencouragement.org/Orienting Reflex - https://nurturescienceprogram.org/the-orienting-reflex-the-foundation-of-relational-health/The term fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD) refers to the wide range of physical, behavioral, and cognitive impairments that occur due to alcohol exposure before birth (also known as prenatal alcohol exposure). These impairments may appear at any time during childhood and last a lifetime.https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/brochures-and-fact-sheets/understanding-fetal-alcohol-spectrum-disorders#:~:text=The%20term%20fetal%20alcohol%20spectrum,childhood%20and%20last%20a%20lifetime.Tim Hawkins Comedy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgfq0RxIakQ

In this episode of the James Trail Podcast, we talk with Christy Duncan, associate pastor at New Life Midtown in Colorado Springs. Christy shares her journey of joining New Life Church, her passion for global engagement, and her experiences in ministry, particularly her time spent in Nepal. She emphasizes the importance of belonging, vulnerability in leadership, and the unique challenges faced by women in leadership. Listen and learn how to better find beauty in every season of life!

On today’s episode, we explore the inspiring story of Pastor Ra'ed, who leads his congregation in Jordan with unwavering faith and resilience. Despite facing numerous challenges, he remains committed to spreading the gospel and supporting his diverse community. We discuss the unique dynamics of ministry in this region, the importance of trauma-informed care, and the profound similarities that unite believers worldwide. Join us for an uplifting conversation about the power of community in the face of adversity. https://www.jamestrail.org/

Join us for a special episode recorded in the vibrant streets of Jordan. Meredith sits down with family physician and friend Brianne Clark, D.O. to discuss the unique challenges and rewards of living cross-culturally, the importance of faith in their work, and the powerful impact of community. Hear firsthand accounts of their experiences, from bustling markets to the historic site of Petra. Discover how embracing vulnerability and fostering connections can lead to profound personal growth and resilience, helping us find strength in unexpected places. https://www.jamestrail.org/

Explore the transformative power of community and support through Kristen Faith Sharpe, CEO of Boss Babe Networking. Learn how overcoming personal challenges can lead to initiatives that uplift women in business and life. Discover the critical role of vulnerability and the strength of forming connections that promote healing and growth. Hear about the importance of breaking the silence on trauma within diverse communities and how storytelling and faith guide personal development. Join us as we delve into the journey of building empowering networks that foster resilience and empower women to lead with confidence. https://www.bossbabenetworking.com/ https://www.instagram.com/officialbossbabenetworking/ https://www.jamestrail.org/

Join us as we dive into a profound conversation with Judson Howe, President of Adventist Health North Coast Network. In this episode, Judson shares his unwavering commitment to providing holistic, trauma-informed healthcare to underserved communities in Northern California. Discover how Judson's personal faith deeply intertwines with his professional values, fostering a transformative journey towards comprehensive care that addresses the emotional, spiritual, and physical wounds of those served. About Today's Guest Judson Howe has a diverse range of work experience in the healthcare industry. Judson began their career in 2006 as a Senior Auditor at the General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists and later transitioned to Adventist Health in 2010. At Adventist Health, they held several roles, including Director of Business Intelligence and Regional Controller, before being promoted to Vice President of Strategy and Operations in Mendocino County. Judson then took on the role of Chief Financial Officer at Adventist Health Howard Memorial. In 2020, Judson became the Market President of Mendocino County, overseeing three hospitals and focusing on provider relationships and employee engagement. Currently, they serve as the Network President for the North Coast Network, leading a $910M enterprise and driving financial performance and strategic planning. Judson has a strong background in operational excellence, data analytics, and financial management within the healthcare sector. Judson Howe holds a Master of Science degree in Health Care Delivery from Dartmouth College. Prior to that, they obtained a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration from California State University-San Bernardino. In addition, they are a Certified Public Accountant, certified by the California Board of Accountancy in 2010. https://adventisthealth.org/howard-memorial/about-us/executives/ Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability | TED TalkTEDhttps://www.ted.com › talks › brene_brown_the_power...

In this episode, Meredith talks with Stuart about his journey from the racial divides of apartheid South Africa to pastoring a multicultural congregation in Calgary. Stuart discusses overcoming personal tragedy, the importance of empathy in leadership, and fostering an intercultural church community. They touch on the power of vulnerability, the role of women in spreading the gospel, and the challenge and beauty of diversity within faith communities. This conversation highlights the transformative potential of listening, learning, and uniting across differences to create a space of healing and belonging. https://www.skyviewchurch.ca/ "The Promise of Difference: An Intercultural Response to Racial Diversity" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzl8zwWvYwQ&t=473s https://www.instagram.com/stuincanada/

Join Jordan Lewis, a pastor and poet, as she delves into the healing power of creativity and its profound impact on our well-being. Through her personal journey with poetry, Jordan reveals how art has served as a catalyst for emotional and spiritual growth, offering insights into the power of self-expression and introspection. In this episode, Jordan emphasizes the importance of integrating art into our daily routines and creating dedicated spaces for creative expression. Explore the idea of embracing imperfection in art and the valuable lessons it teaches us about resilience. Jordan also shares her reflections on writing poetry for Black History Month, highlighting the importance of honoring legacy and celebrating cultural richness. Gain insights into the language of tears, the joy of generosity, and finding beauty amidst life's trials. Step into a world of creativity as we embark on a profound journey of self-discovery and expression. follow Jordan on instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jordanvictorialewis?igsh=ZjVxeXY2bnl4aWV2 check out her poetry - https://www.amazon.com/Hear-Heaven-Poems-Jordan-Lewis-ebook/dp/B08RSS4RW6/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=hear+from+heaven&qid=1609519840&refinements=p_n_publication_date%3A1250226011&rnid=1250225011&s=books&sr=1-1 find out more about new life friday night - https://fridays.newlifechurch.org/ follow new life friday night on instagram - https://www.instagram.com/newlifefriday?igsh=aW1zdHc0eTlnMGQw

In this conversation, pastors from Nueva Vida and Colorado Springs discuss the impact of trauma on individuals and communities. They emphasize the importance of meeting physical and emotional needs, creating a sense of community and felt safety, and providing support and assistance to those in need. They also address stereotypes and cultural misunderstandings, highlighting the diversity within the Hispanic community and the need for open-mindedness and understanding. This conversation with Pastores Ana and Jeremías Tamarez covers various themes related to their ministry and community. They discuss the professions represented in their congregation and share the story of Javier and his family, who found refuge and support in their community. The pastors emphasize the importance of flourishing and stepping into a life of abundance. They also highlight the significance of the fountain of life and the role of love and compassion in ministering to others. The pastors share their struggles and prayer requests, and they find beauty in serving others and finding unity and hope in a divided world. For more information about Nueva Vida: https://www.instagram.com/iglesianuevavidacs/ https://nuevavida.newlifechurch.org https://www.youtube.com/@iglesianuevavidacos6199

In this conversation, Bonni Goodwin discusses her experience working in an adoption specialized counseling center and as the statewide coordinator of adoption preservation services. She emphasizes the importance of post-adoption support and the challenges faced by adoptive families. Goodwin also highlights the role of race and ethnicity in adoption and the need for community support. She encourages the church and community to provide ongoing support and understanding to adoptive families. In this conversation, Bonni Goodwin discusses the importance of supporting adult adoptees and the lifelong journey they go through. She shares the story of her mother-in-law, an adult adoptee, who carried feelings of rejection and abandonment throughout her life. Bonni emphasizes the need for adoptees to have a community of people who understand their experiences and can provide support. She also discusses the complexities of adoption and grief, as well as the healing power of sharing stories in safe spaces. The conversation concludes with gratitude for the opportunity to connect and support adoptees.

Welcome to the James Trail: Functional to Flourishing Podcast, where insightful conversations meet compassionate understanding. In this episode, our host Meredith Shuman engages in a deep discussion with Joshua Kreimeyer, a seasoned therapist, about a topic that resonates with many: PTSD. In this episode Meredith and Joshua discuss: -A therapeutic exploration of PTSD -Clinical definition of PTSD - How symptoms converge to warrant a PTSD diagnosis, emphasizing the impact on thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. -Trauma, whether physical or psychological, is highlighted as a boundary-breaking experience, bringing attention to both 'Big T' and 'Little T' traumas. -The importance of not comparing traumas -The nature vs. nurture; genetic predispositions and environmental influences, Join Meredith and Joshua in this enlightening episode as they navigate the complexities of PTSD, weaving together clinical expertise and relatable stories. Subscribe now for more insightful and compassionate conversations. [Keywords: PTSD, Mental Health, Trauma, Therapeutic Insights, Clinical Definition, Stress Tolerance, Nature vs. Nurture, Compassionate Understanding]

Welcome to The James Trail: Functional to Flourishing Podcast!🎙️ In this insightful episode, join host Meredith Shuman as she engages in a compelling conversation with son Jordan Shuman, sharing his remarkable journey of adoption, self-discovery and ministry within the backdrop of a large, diverse family.🌟 Key Takeaways:* Growing Up: Dive into Jordan's experiences growing up in a large family and transitioning to being one of the oldest siblings.* Advice Corner: Gain valuable advice for parents of young adults and insights into parenting imperfection.* Journey Unveiled: Explore Jordan's journey in an interracial and adoptive family, discovering ministry, and starting Ascension Ministries.* Caring for Trauma: Delve into the importance of empathy, community building, and the power of listening when caring for those who have experienced trauma.* Finding Beauty: Uncover the profound connection with God and appreciation for life's essence in seasons of lack.Tune in for a transformative discussion filled with wisdom, compassion, and a deeper understanding of the beauty in life's diverse seasons.The James Trail: Functional to Flourishing Podcast is your guide to meaningful conversations. Subscribe now for more episodes that inspire and uplift! 🌟 Ascension Ministry Links Instagram Facebook YouTube

Join us in this insightful episode as Jen Decker unfolds her inspiring journey from church work to pioneering a foster adoption ministry and organizing the transformative ReConference. Discover the profound importance of cultivating a safe and informed community for foster and adoptive families. Jen delves into the essence of awareness, understanding, and application in providing effective support to these families. https://www.realencouragement.org/ https://www.facebook.com/RealEncouragement https://www.instagram.com/reconferencekc/ Uncover the power of vulnerability and the role of a secure community in the healing and mental health journey. The ReConference emerges as a vital space where foster and adoptive parents connect, share their narratives, and find unwavering support. In a compelling conversation, Jen Decker and Meredith explore the nuances of building empathy, embracing vulnerability, and the invaluable role of community. Jen and Meredith discuss the following topics: -Creating a safe and informed community is crucial for supporting foster and adoptive families. -Awareness, understanding, and application are fundamental keys in providing effective support. -Vulnerability and safe community play a significant role in the healing and mental health journey. -The Re-Conference offers a space for foster and adoptive parents to connect, share stories, and find support. -Building empathy and vulnerability is a skill that requires practice and self-reflection. -Acknowledging and sharing emotions create a space for healing and connection. -A supportive community makes difficult seasons of life more bearable and provides valuable support. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Background 06:10 - Starting a Foster Adoption Ministry 09:23 - Creating a Safe and Informed Church Community 14:54 - The Importance of Awareness, Understanding, and Application 21:29 - The Impact of the ReConference 28:12 - The Power of Vulnerability and Safe Community 30:00 - Highlights of the ReConference 35:08 - The Role of Vulnerability in Healing and Mental Health 44:30 - Building Empathy and Vulnerability 47:14 - Acknowledging and Sharing Emotions 48:46 - The Value of Community Join us on this enriching journey of empathy, understanding, and community support. Subscribe now and be part of a conversation that can make a difference in the lives of foster and adoptive families. https://www.jamestrail.org/