LP Sessions: Leading from the Heart with Fifi and Meryn

What do a tuning fork and our discipleship relationships have in common? In this episode, Fifi and Meryn explore the concept of resonance and why it’s essential for genuine, lasting transformation.

In this episode of LP Sessions, Fifi and Meryn explore why understanding how people are wired is essential for effective leadership. They unpack the value of personality awareness and introduce the DISC profiles as a practical tool for recognising different strengths, motivations, and communication styles.The conversation highlights how people are motivated in different ways, how those differences show up in teams, and why leaders who learn to lead beyond their own wiring are better equipped to draw out the best in others.

Join us for Part 2 of our conversation with Dewald & Nicolene. In this episode, we continue exploring their journey of pioneering, family, ministry, and trusting God in the unknown.Find them at @incouragechurch and @nicolene_du_plessis.

This week on LP Sessions, we’re joined by our friends and pastors, Dewald and Nicolene, for the first of a two-part episode. They open up about the realities of pioneering from the ground up, the ups and downs of church planting, balancing family and ministry, and the personal journey that prepared them to lead.

In this episode, we talk honestly about identity, purpose, and the internal work that often gets overlooked. We explore how our beliefs are formed, why confidence is so closely tied to identity, and what it looks like to grow through the things that hold us back. If you’re in a season of reflection, transition, or wanting to lead from a healthier place, this conversation offers clarity, encouragement, and space to rethink who you’re becoming.00:00 – Welcome & intro 01:10 – Why identity matters more than we think 04:32 – Where our beliefs about ourselves come from 08:45 – The impact of false narratives 12:28 – Seeing identity through a Kingdom lens 16:02 – Internal healing and the slow work of growth 20:40 – How identity shapes purpose 24:50 – Practical ways to discern your purpose 29:22 – Walking in confidence without pretending 33:05 – Final reflections & encouragement

What does it really mean to grow your capacity as a leader — without burning out? Fifi and Meryn explore the balance between growth and authenticity, the seasons God uses to shape us, and how true capacity comes from stewardship, not striving.Episode Chapters:00:00 Introduction01:00 Why Capacity Matters04:30 How God Uses Pressure to Develop Resilience07:00 Authenticity and Growth10:00 Seasons of Healing vs Growth14:00 The Danger of Overdrive21:00 Alignment and Design27:30 Capacity Killers38:00 Prophecy, Vision, and Capacity44:30 Redefining Capacity & Closing Reflections

Our first video episode is here! 🎥 We’re still finding our best angles — quite literally (sorry for the half-face moments 😅). Thanks for being part of the journey as we keep leveling up our setup and our storytelling! We all go through seasons of change—but what about the in-between? In this episode, Meryn and Fifi unpack what it means to navigate transitions—those “fifth seasons” where the old no longer fits, but the new hasn’t fully begun. They explore how to discern when a transition is happening, what God might be doing beneath the surface, and why these in-between moments are often where the deepest growth occurs. From processing loss and discontent to recognizing when grace is lifting and courage is needed to step forward, this episode will help you read the season you’re in and walk through it with wisdom, faith, and hope. If you’ve been feeling in-between—no longer who you were, but not yet who you’re becoming—this one’s for you.00:45 What Is Transition? 02:20 The Four Seasons of Life (and Faith) 06:40 The Season Between Seasons 07:12 Signs You’re in Transition 10:45 When Grace Lifts and Wisdom Is Needed 13:20 God's Kindness in Disruption15:30 Identity and Transition 17:40 God Is Upgrading You 21:30 Idols, Trust, and Letting Go 24:10 Fifi's Story of Transition 27:50 When Others Don’t Understand Your Shift 31:50 When Fruit Isn’t Visible 36:50 The Right People for the Season 38:05 Recognizing the Threshold 46:10 Facing the past and Stepping Forward

Fifi and Meryn unpack the raw, often messy process of starting something new — the emotions, doubts, and courage it takes to pioneer with God. It’s a heartfelt conversation about faithfulness over perfection, and the importance of having the right voices — spiritual “midwives” — who help nurture what God is doing in and through you.If you’ve ever felt both the excitement and fear of stepping into a new season, this one’s for you.Chapters:00:00 Navigating the Emotional Landscape of New Beginnings02:57 The Role of Courage in Pioneering05:50 Journaling as a Tool for Clarity08:57 The Concept of Spiritual Midwifery11:49 The Messiness of Starting Something New14:44 Dealing with Past Failures and Voices of Doubt17:37 Embracing Complexity in Personal Growth20:30 The Importance of Supportive Voices23:20 Carrying Dreams and Navigating Criticism

In this episode of LP Sessions, Fifi shares his journey from a shy, introverted child fascinated by leadership to navigating the real challenges of becoming one.He opens up about facing rejection, wrestling with confidence, and learning to lead with authenticity.Through his story, Fifi reminds us that leadership isn’t about personality or charisma — it’s about purpose, identity, and walking out the mission God has placed on your life.

In this episode of LP Sessions, Meryn shares her leadership journey — from her early call to step up to lead to the challenges and growth that shaped her along the way.She reflects on how self-awareness and personal healing have transformed her approach to leadership, and why rest and emotional health are essential for leading well.This honest and grounded conversation offers encouragement and insight for young leaders learning to lead from wholeness.

Welcome to LP Sessions!In this opening episode, Fifi redefines leadership through the lens of what Jesus taught — a model rooted not in power or position, but in purpose, humility, and transformation.He breaks it down into three anchors: a different ambition, a different way, and a different source. This is the kind of leadership we’re called to — and it changes everything.