My Advice to You

Well well, sweet, sweet November Hello, darlings I AM SO HAPPY to be yappin' again. This one is short & sweet. Feel free to listen to me yap about being rooted in purpose-- how knowing your WHY serves your highest self. I dive in about how having a purpose with good intentions may bring you joy and lead you to grow in various areas of life.  Sorry it's taken me so long to get back to this. To say I've been busy is an understatement. However, I've been falling in love with life. Cheers to finding joy in everything you do. I hope you enjoy this episode. Let this be a reminder to revisit your "Why(s)" and redirect yourself to what uplifts you.  Until the next one, babydolls. Love ya,   XOXO  Ray

Hey there, butterflies!! I hope you all are doing fabulous and off to a great start of the week! I have a new episode for ya with a message I am quite excited to share. This one has been sitting in my heart for some time, but I finally found the words to get it off my chest.  In this episode, I'm diving deep into the importance of learning and staying true to your value. God crafted you with their own hands, so recognize the power that exists within that.  Moral of the story, Know Your Fucking Worth.  Enjoy, baby dolls!!    All my love,    Ray

Hello, baby dolls! I hope you are amazing as ever! I'm back with another episode for ya! Two in one week, can ya believe?  Anyway, grab something to drink, this one is a bit of a long one! I'm talking you through the importance of time. Time is precious and it is not something you can get back, so spend it wisely.  You are valuable and so is your time, be selective on where you spend it.  Until next time loves.   XOXO,   RAY

HI, HELLO! WELCOME! I am back with a very special episode! I was recently featured on Outside Minds Podcast and we did a lil' swapcast together :D Now, you have the episode available on double platforms.  Join us as we talk about synchronicities, passions and education. Get comfy because this is a fun one! Be on the lookout for future swapcasts!  Until next time, baby dolls!    XOXO,   Ray   FOLLOW and Keep Up with Outside Minds Podcast here:  Instagram: @outsidemindspodcast Apple Podcasts: @outsidemindspodcast Spotify: @outsidemindspodcast YouTube: @outsidemindspodcast

Hellooo babydolls, As we close out February, I want you to reflect-- especially before we go any further into 2025. In this episode, I encourage you to ask yourself what's been filling your cup lately and vice versa, what have you been pouring into? If it's not fulfilling you, it may be time to shift your focus, routine and mindset.  Whatever the case may be for you right now, remember to give yourself grace.  You are loved. You are valuable. You are capable. You are worthy. You are strong.  Love ya & Until next time,  XOXO Ray   CHECK EM' OUT RIGHT MEOW:  Stephanie Madera - @baddiebmindet (Instagram, YouTube, Apple Podcasts)  linktr.ee/baddiebmindset  Joyce Meyer  https://www.joycemeyer.org  Books Mentioned:  Blessed in the Mess  The Confident Woman The Confident Woman Devotional  Florence Given - @florencegiven (Instagram) Florence Given Books Mentioned: Women Don't Owe You Pretty Women Living Deliciously   

Helloooo lovelies :) FIRST episode of 2025! I know I said I'd give you an episode every month... well, here it is on the last day of January ;).  Anyways, we have a very special guest back on the show, SteeloFree! We take a dive into dreams and what we believe to be of them. We talk dream manifestations, alternate realities, the reoccuring & memorable. Very much appreciate your patience and I hope you all enjoy this episode. Once again, as always, it twas' a pleasure chattin with ya, Steelo! :)  Goodnight everybody.  XOXO, Ray   Follow Steelo here:  X aka Twitter - @steeloFree Instagram - @steelofree Youtube - @steelofreetv Tiktok - @steelofree  Outside Minds Podcast  Youtube - @outsidemindspodcast  Instagram - @outsidemindspodcast  TikTok - @outsidemindspodcast 

Hellooooo pretty bbies We did it! I hope you are as ready to say GOOD MF RIDDENS to 2024 as I am. ^__^ As we say goodbye to 2024, this rollercoaster of a fXcking year, there's a few thoughts I am leavin' ya with. I hope you were able to take some time to reflect on how your year went, the good & the trying times, the laughs, the cries, the hello's and goodbyes. I hope you are able to redirect yourself to all that truly matters. I hope you are able to make new resolutions for yourself or hell, even bring back your old ones. Whatever the case may be for you as you end 2024, I mostly hope you find peace and happiness in all that is yet to come in 2025.  Please be wise tonight, be safe, and most of all, CELEBRATE I am proud of you. You are valued. You are loved.  Until next year babydolls,  Byeeeee  

HEY, HI, HELLOOOO, Hope you are alllll amazing as ever. It feels SO GOOD to be back and writing to you all. This episode is a pretty lengthy one, so grab some coffee, tea, lemonade, helll, a cocktail, whatever you need to chill the f*ck out. It's your world, I'm just living in it.  Anywayz, as of late, I've been in this funk and had not been feeling very much like myself. Needless to say, I was in need of a break. I finally had some down time this past weekend and decided to keep to myself. I finally found the time to wind down and center myself.  With that being said, I had very deep realizations that my issue was that I had been keeping guards up. I had not been open to change. I felt change coming, and instead of surrendering, I fought really hard against the current. However, life swept me up and I learned that what I needed to do was go with the current, not fight against it. I needed to be open to change, open to new feelings, open to the unknown.  If you've been struggling to let guards down, being honest with yourself, this one's for you. This episode is about openning up. It's a practice. However, when you aren't open, you're closing doors for potential growth. You're hindering your growth. It's time to open up and walk through those doors to welcome what's next to come.  Until next time baby dolls.   XOXO   Ray

Hellooooo, HI August, baby, leaving so soon? BYE THENNN. I mean that with soo much love, I am just eager for September ;). We are now in VIRGO season which means my bday month is pretty much here! I am so happy that I finally have an episode to release to ya.  This episode is a short and sweet one; a catch up on what I've been up to and most importantly, a reminder to prioritize your peace. I hope you enjoy and are as lovely as ever!    XOXO,    RAY    ALSO, I am most likely switching up my release dates to once a month. However, I may slip in an extra episode here and there. For now, this is how I can best deliver a worthy message while also keeping my peace a priority. Love ya! :) 

Hiiiiiiii, baby dolls! I hope you are f*cking amazing, as always! I hope you have been enjoying your summer so far! Lawddddd, I cannot believe how fast time has been going. I know I say this every time, but 2024, plz, slow down!  Anyway, I've worked really hard to make the time to record another episode for this podcast and of course, made sure it was something coming from the heart. Life has a great way of happening when it is supposed to, therefore, giving me some real sh*t to talk about. I'm opening up in this episode, it is a continuance from the last episode. This episode reminds you that when one door closes, it's redirecting you to a new one. Take the time you need to open it, but please give yourself comfort in knowing it is opening your path for where you are meant to be. Often times, we get so busy planting seeds all around us, and we forget the flowers we have already grown. With that said, it's time to refocus and water them. It's reminding you that there are no failures, only lessons. Give yourself grace and know that you are are being led by your angels to where you are truly meant to be.  I hope you enjoy this episode and until the next one, I love you!   XOXO,   Ray

Hellooooo beautiful peopleee I cannot believe 2 and a half weeks have flew by so damn fast. 2024, you're such a blessing but, slow down. :') On a serious note, I do apologize once again for the lag, but I am pretty damn proud of how open I'm being and reminding yall of what has kept me in peace, which is to stay present. Life has been lifin' and it's been overwhelming for ya girl. However, staying present and reminding myself to stay grounded, to follow peace, to keep on praying, that is what has been necessary.  I hope that this episode gives you a glimmer of hope and reminds you to give yourself grace. Let go and Let God.  Until next time my beauties.    Love ya,   RAY

Hellooooo pretty babies I hope you are all doing amazinggg! I'm so happy I managed to squeeze this episode in this week! I'm tellin ya, I'm trying ;). So far, so good! Throughout this time, I also managed to begin the process to get back on track with my routines. In this episode, I'm sharing some pointers on how I've been able to that and sending you some good vibes just in case you might be on the same boat.  SENDING ALL MY LOVE TO YA   - Rayleane :D 

Hellooooo, Pretty Babies I hope you have been well and blessed! Missing this whole damn process of writing to yall and uploading. As I have mentioned plenty, I am working on being more disciplined with creating and uploading. With that said, I am sorryyyy it has been way too long since I've brought a message to you, but this one means a whole lot. I hope it settles in your heart the way I've sent it out to reach it. I mean what I say! I wish you Roses, I wish you Love, I wish you peace. I'm diving into the importance of what it means to wish life roses. Let go of what doesn't serve you, and move with love. It has been the greatest lesson for me and it has allowed me to manifest all the love that I deserve and more. You deserve the same kind of peace, love and happiness.  Have the bestest day!!    XOXO,   RAY   Also!! I have already started on my next episode, so be on the lookout for that coming this week ;) Love ya! 

HI BABIES, HELLO LOVES I am SO sorry I am a few days late, but as always, better late than never ;). I have been a busy bee but, no excuses! I'm working on my discipline muscle. It's not perfect yet, but it's strengthening! Dudes, we're already 5 months deep in 2024. So pretty much, hey there, 2025! xD Totally kidding, enjoy your life. Seriously though, time is flyin.  With that being said, I hope that you are in a great place in life. If you aren't or feeling some sort of discouragement due to your personal challenges, tests and trials, this episode is for you. I'm sending some love and light your way and letting you know that I do not want you to give up. Whatever the case may be, keep on going. Whatever is meant for you will be, so let it. Try not to resist and follow peace the whole way through.  I hope you enjoy this episode as it's pretty much just a lil positive rant for you. Until next time babies   LATERZ,    Rayleane :) :*

Hellooooo my loves I hope you had a great week and beautiful weekend! It felt like California experienced all four seasons this week :)))). Hope yall had some consistency with your weather where ever you may be! As for us Cali peeps, take your damn vitamins because weather change like this is crazy for our health.  Anyway! This episode dives into the thought to take life moment by moment. I share my thoughts on how healthy it is for me to think of taking life's challenges moment by moment rather than day by day. Day by day just seems too long for me, whereas moment by moment allows grace.  I hope you enjoy this episode and as always, feel free to share your thoughts with me on the Instagram page @mad222you_ :)  Have a great rest of your day loves!    XOXO,   Rayleane   References:  Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast - Power Thoughts  https://www.joycemeyer.org/Shows?episodeId={D87E811D-7737-4827-A956-2E8E9E9C2140}  Scripture Affirmations Mentioned:  Proverbs 3:5  Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.  2 Corinthians 5:21 I am the righteousness of God in Jesus Christ.  Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.    Affirmations:  I am strong. I am fearless.  All that I need is within me.  Love surrounds me constantly.  I am powerful. 

HIIIIIII BABIES! Hello, HI & welcome back! It has been two weeks TOO long! Ugh. I have missed this so much. This episode shares an update on lil' miss busy, I apologize again for the wait! I also share some deep thoughts on the importance of managing our fears. I talk about the fears that come quite often with career changes, relationships and projects.  As always, I hope you enjoy this episode! Always feel free to leave your thoughts, comments and/ or reviews on the platform you listen to and/ OR you can send it my way personally on the Insta page, @mad222you_ I hope you have a beautiful rest of your day!   XOXO,   Ray    SOME INSPO BELOW:  Joyce Meyer - Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast  https://joycemeyer.org  Ashley Leggs - Slay Girl Slay: Pull the Trigger Episode  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pull-the-trigger/id1332402254?i=1000646847774  Stephanie Madera - BaddieB Mindset  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-baddie-b-mindset-podcast/id1542731929    Instagram: My Advice to You - @mad222you_  PeaceArt Summer Luvin' - @summerluvinfest (This was the first podcast series I had worked on with Tony! Feel free to explore our page when we hosted this festival!)  PeaceArt Wraps w/ Tony - @peaceart_wraps 

Hellooooooo, my babies!   HI, HELLO, WELCOME BACK! I am so thrilled to be postin again. I know it has only been a week and I missed one episode, BUT, I missed it so much. I was slammed last week, getting things done & it made the week go that much faster! I'm human too, y'all, so I had to take a mini break. During that time, I came up with multiple ideas for the next couple of episodes, so there's that ;). Told ya I will not record unless I have messages coming from my heart, and well, it's exploding.  In today's episode, I talk about trials and tribulations which are the daily challenges that test our character. I encourage you to remain your highest self when you are being tested. Trust me, I know it's a challenge. However, maintaining your character during these tests will play a huge part in your manifestation era.  I just have to let you know, as much as I have practiced growth mindset, I am still tested on a daily. Here's something crazy. Just after I had recorded this episode, I was on my way out and low & behold, as I approached my car, I realized I had a parking ticket. :))))) Did it feel good to get a parking ticket? NO. It was bills week, so of course it did not feel good. Did I let that ticket ruin my whole entire day? NO. Know why? Because this too, shall pass. It will be taken care of in time. I counted my blessings and I ended up having a beautiful day. Remember your blessings during your personal trials and tribulations.  I hope you enjoy this episode and until next time, beautiful souls.  XOXO,   Raaaay :) 

Hellooo, my lovelies I hope you are happy and feeling loved today! Congrats, you made it through another month! We are welcoming March with open arms and I hope you are experiencing the blessings all around you. This month, I want us to focus on abundance. In manifesting your truest desires to the fullest, we have to be ready and open to receive them. This means doing the work to let go of what does not serve you in order to be open to receive the blessings meant for you.  We have a very special guest on today's episode, Steelo Free! Steelo Free is a phenomenal artist and content creator. Today, we are talking about the importance of self-accountability and self-forgiveness. We mention the challenge of holding yourself accountable for your actions when we fall short in various areas, but also the importance of forgiving yourself in order to let go of any negative energy that may be hindering your growth.  I hope you enjoy this episode! Feel free to leave a review and follow the Instagram page @mad222you_     Do yourself a favor and FOLLOW/ SUBSCRIBE to Steelo Free's social media accounts:  Steelo Free - Artist  Social Media: Instagram - @steelofree Tik Tok - @steelofree  X aka TWITTER - @steelofree YouTube - @steelofree Outside Minds Podcast  YouTube - @Outsidemindspodcast  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ao94HwhBpYw  Lights & Shadows on Apple Music  https://music.apple.com/us/artist/steelo-free/531182473   

Helllooooo, Beauties! I hope you're feeling fabulous. I apologize for not publishing this episode by 8am this morning, but betta late than neva! ;)  Today's episode is going IN on codependency. I challenge you and encourage you to rely solely on yourself and higher power for value and worth.  If you like this episode, feel free to leave a review and follow the Instagram page @mad222you_ :)    XOXO, Rayleane   REFERENCESSSS:  Joyce Meyer - Pastor  Enjoying Everyday Life: Goodbye Loneliness  https://joycemeyer.org/todaysshow  Managing Your Emotions  https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/managing-your-emotions-instead-of-your-emotions-managing-you_joyce-meyer/256352/item/4446792/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_frontlist_under_%2410&utm_adgroup=&utm_term=&utm_content=&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAxOauBhCaARIsAEbUSQQsvcdtCQudq7L9fkKNgWcVWH3uXvgpLyZu0dbYWK5qlekPzvW2O48aAgPoEALw_wcB#idiq=4446792&edition=3600732        It's been such a pain in the A** today uploading and saving this description, hoping this sticks now. Sorry for the delay! ;( 

Hello Valentines I hope you experienced a special week of love. I hope this week was just a reminder for you to show love not only during this time, but always. If you have had thoughts about how to do just that, this week's episode is for you.  We have a special guest, a birthday boy, Edwin Pineda! He's back and full of great messages exploring the idea of romanticizing your life. The idea behind romanticizing life is that you romanticize every aspect of your life, not just during the good times, but the hard times, too.  As always, I hope you enjoy this episode! If you do, please feel free to rate this podcast and leave a review on which ever platform you are listening on. Feel free to follow the Instagram page, @mad222you_ for updates and fun posts :)  Laterz baby,  Rayyy   Don't be shy, Say HI! - Keep up with Edwin Pineda by following his socials:  Instagram: @edwin.pedwin  TikTok: @eddy.petty16

Hellooooo beauties I hope you are feeling blessed and embracing the blessings which surround you! I am sending you some love and now manifesting some love for you! In this week's episode, I share a cool lil' experience with you AND I give you a cute lil' challenge for yourself. This challenge is meant for you to show yourself a lil' love, share a lil' love with another, and watch it come back to you in full effect. Have fun with this as it is meant to be just a TAD uncomfortable, but enough to excite you and bring some love to your table. You deserve it!  Enjoy my babies. ALSO, please share whatever you decide to do on the My Advice to You Instagram page, @mad222you_ . Share your pics, experiences and how it made you feel, whether that be in a tagged story, DM, or post, whatever is clever. I just want to be nosey and see how the challenge went for you. That's all for now..  XOXO, Rayyyy

Hello beautiful peeps Happy February! We are now in the month of LOVE! I hope your February is filled with love. For yourself. For those around you. For everything that surrounds you. To start you off, I am sending you all my love!  Today's episode is a reminder that BLESSINGS are coming your way! Whatever you may be currently going through, it's also something you will be GROWING through. All that is challenging you is building you up so that when you get to where you want to be, you are ready for each and every blessing that has been waiting for you. Keep going babies.  As always, feel free to follow the Instagram page, @mad222you_ (:  XOXO, Ray

Hellooooo sweet babies Happy Saturday! I just want to share how GRATEFUL I am for every listener. I am celebrating 423 downloads of My Advice to You episodes!! It amazes me every time I surpass another 100 downloads because that means that these messages are being shared with you beautiful souls.  This week's episode is about the feelings that come when we realize there is room for growth. Specifically when we notice there is room for growth after just accomplishing a goal or becoming the closest to accomplishing one goal. When we realize how close we really are to getting to where we want to be, we often notice that there's even more room to grow at the level we waited so long to get to. THIS IS OKAY.  Every level you excel is meant to take you further because we are constantly growing towards something new that we are meant for, as long as we give ourselves grace on the way there. This is a reminder to ENJOY exactly where you are in the current moment you are in. It is also a reminder to congratulate yourself on the journey you are in, because you are not where you used to be, and that in itself is something to celebrate.  This is a quick episode diving into more of what I just shared with you all. I hope you enjoy and as always, feel free to follow My Advice to You on Instagram, @mad222you_ .    With all my love,   Rayleane

HI BEAUTIES Welp, we basically made it through January! I hope you are still thriving. If you are, I'm proud of you! However, if you are feeling burnt out, getting to a certain point of exhaustion-- mentally, physically or emotionally, this one's for you. Feel free to listen as I share a few tips on how I practice resisting burnout. Don't worry, this is a human feeling & I'm still proud of you, too.  Enjoy your last week of January and remind yourself of your power! Until next time loves. XOXO,   Ray   References: Joyce Meyer - Pastor Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast - https://www.joycemeyer.org/todaysshow Confidently You - https://www.joycemeyer.org/shop/Books%3djoycemeyer_usa-books/ConfidentlyYou%3d014895?itemId=248d4f9914b5e1e3492db43e2ccd684c   Past Episodes Mentioned: Stop Letting Fear Decide Your Fate - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/stop-letting-fear-decide-your-fate/id1717477112?i=1000641551965  Patience - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/patience/id1717477112?i=1000640746189 Being Yourself, Unapologetically with Stephanie Madera - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-yourself-unapologetically-with-stephanie-madera/id1717477112?i=1000638789350    

Hello, beauties!!  I hope you are well and thriving! Today's episode is going to be a quick talk about fear. Often times, we let fear get in the way of our growth due to making decisions based on fear. It's time to stop that sh!t.  Start making decisions that are coming from love, excitement and peace. We're in this together and just know, it's a practice. Short and sweet episode, I hope you enjoy!  Also, I apologize for the delay as I try my best to get these episodes up bright and early, but mama had a busy week! Alright, that's all for now.    Xoxo, Ray    Feel free to follow My Advice to You on Instagram, @mad222you_ !

Hello, beauties!!  HAPPY 2024!!!! I know I said I'd be taking a two week break, but I lied I hope you enjoy this episode as I go through the importance of strenthening our patience muscle by going through our day dedicating time for our mind, body and spirituality. As always, feel free to follow the Instagram page for updates and cute posts, @mad222you_ .  References mentioned:  Reading:  Joyce Meyer - Pastor Confidently You - https://www.amazon.com/Confidently-You-Joyce-Meyer/dp/1546013512  Blessed in the Mess - https://www.amazon.com/Blessed-Mess-Experience-Goodness-Midst/dp/B0BWFRHV4J/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1CKOLYD68UD7&keywords=blessed+in+the+mess+joyce+meyer&qid=1704514097&s=books&sprefix=blessed+in+t%2Cstripbooks%2C147&sr=1-1  Power Thoughts Devotional - https://www.amazon.com/Power-Thoughts-Devotional-audiobook/dp/B00FJHE866/ref=sr_1_1?crid=21QFJDY8M1CHP&keywords=power+thoughts+devotional&qid=1704514150&s=audible&sprefix=power+thoughts+de%2Caudible%2C126&sr=1-1  Affirmations Mentioned:  Power Thoughts Devotional - https://www.amazon.com/Power-Thoughts-Devotional-audiobook/dp/B00FJHE866/ref=sr_1_1?crid=21QFJDY8M1CHP&keywords=power+thoughts+devotional&qid=1704514150&s=audible&sprefix=power+thoughts+de%2Caudible%2C126&sr=1-1  I can live in perfect peace (Isaiah 26:3) I can do all things through Christ, Who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13)  I can overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21) Pilates Home Workouts:  Move with Nicole - 15 min workout  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaQ7LZcS2ig&list=PLipSZg1JNsC_uKB9PQoIlTao6ZCWlnZPE  Lily Sabri - 10 min workout  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6JQPiSmMa0  Spirituality:  Joyce Meyer - Pastor  Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast - https://joycemeyer.org/todaysshow Kobe Bryant - The Power of Sleep and Meditation - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w14a7xVfIuI  Shivarasa - Breathwork Meditation - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v15B2FxaIvY  *I forgot to mention this, but this breathwork excercise is one of my absolute favorites when battling any kind of stress and/or anxiety. I hope you enjoy!!    NOTE: These are tips on what has helped me in the past. Feel free to take what works best for YOU.    XOXO,   Ray  

Hello, beauties!  Happy New Year! Basically. Excuse me for being a few hours late on posting this episode, but better late than never ;). As we conclude 2023, I thought it'd be best to end the first season with one of the best lessons I have learned this year, which is to follow peace.  I have learned that following peace is a practice. It is a choice we make as we go through our day. There are plenty of situations we go through on a daily basis where we are given the magical choice of choosing peace or doing the complete opposite and following chaos. This is a practice because regardless of how hard we try, we are only human. I say this is a practice and I remind you that we are only human, because I myself, too, battle with making the right decision of knowing when and how to choose peace.  Enjoy this episode as my best friend Bianey gives her advice on how she follows peace. Bianey was one of the first of my favorite humans to share advice on how following peace is key in navigating through trying times.  As you conclude your year, I encourage you to share your favorite lessons of the year with those you love, even strangers. Life is such a gift and we can learn so much from each other if we will allow it. I hope you end your year celebrating where life has taken you. I want to remind you that there are better times to come. I want you to know that regardless of where you are in life, you are where you are meant to be. I want you to know that circumstances change constantly and life moves at Godspeed. I hope you spend your time following peace, because where there is peace, there is love. Again, no matter where you are in life at this moment, if you are here about to enter 2024, you are blessed. There's time ahead of you and I pray you spend it where you are happiest.  I will be continuing My Advice to You as soon as I have more episodes ready to release to you. I hope within the next two weeks, as I will be enjoying entering the new year with a clean slate, celebrating the year I've had and made it through. In that time, I will be coming up with new ideas for the next season and making sure it's coming from my heart. Of course, I'll post updates on @mad222you_ on Instagram. Please be safe as you celebrate the end of your year, you made it! Let's go 2024!! Kobe Year!!   Best of my love,   Ray   SIDE NOTE: *Ahem* I made a mistake referencing the bible verses! I mixed up the verses, but please do see the corrections below from New King James Version bible Bianey mentioned: Phillipians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." NKJV  Ray meant to mention...: 2 Corinthians 5:21 "I am the righteousness of God in Jesus Christ." NKJV   Follow Bianey aka the 5D Princess on her platforms as she is THEE ICON & BLUEPRINT:  Instagram: @5thdimensionprincess Tik Tok: 5Dprincess  Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/artist/5th-dimension-princess/1688599601  Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/42Uh2ZihCnuobKeIY3KyG8?si=o2Uea_X5SISoqsHbnEgmxQ 

Hello, lovelies!  Merry Christmas, my beauties! I cannot believe it is basically 2024. I feel like 2023 began and I blinked. However, I am so very grateful for the lessons I have learned throughout the year. One of my favorite lessons thus far has been to keep moving forward. In this episode, I talk about the journey in moving forward and overcoming the challenges on your path when doing so. I hope you enjoy this holiday weekend and I hope you have some special time to wind down. You've made it this far babies, keep goin!   XOXO, Rayleane   Mentions:  Joyce Meyer - Pastor  Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast - https://joycemeyer.org/todaysshow  Lil ol' Me :) My Advice to You Podcast: Episode 3 -  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/controlling-your-thoughts/id1717477112?i=1000637282063  https://open.spotify.com/episode/5EPQ2vtvceMS5PztrtNoIg?si=c9179834c0b24dea 

Hey there, beauties! I hope you are having a beautiful day so far! I would like to wish my sister, my bestest friend, Stephanie Madera, a Happy Birthday MONTH! Feel free to send birthday wishes to this beautiful soul This is a very special episode featuring Steph, aka Baddie B Mindset, where we share a few tips on how to be yourself, unapologetically. This convo is about embodying your truest, highest self. We mention a few books as well to help guide you on the path of becoming your highest self. We hope you enjoy! Tips Mentioned:   Stephanie Madera - Mindset and Self-Love Coach  Baddie B Mindset Podcast - https://linktr.ee/baddiebmindset   Byron Katie - Author  Loving What Is - https://thework.com/books/   Mark Manson - Author Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck - https://markmanson.net/books/subtle-art  Sahara Rose  Discover Your Dharma - https://iamsahararose.com/links/  Feel free to follow My Advice to You on Instagram, @mad222you_ for updates and posts by yours truly!    Xoxo, Ray

Hello, babies!  Welcome back to another week of My Advice to You! I hope you are flourishing as we are another week closer to ending our year. Join me in this episode as Nia and I talk about venting and the importance of knowing WHEN to vent, as well as WHO to vent to.  Nia is one of my favorite humans; she makes me laugh until my cheeks hurt. We are currently taking another trip to Nashville, as it is Nia's Disneyland... and mine, too! We had to treat ourselves with another trip together before the year ends and it happened to be the same week as this episode. Talk about perfect timing. I hope you enjoy her presence as much as I do because we will definitely have more episodes together.  Be safe this weekend and don't forget to tune in next Saturday!  Xoxo, Ray    Feel free to follow the talented Nia Madrigal on the following sites:  Nia Madrigal - Artist; MUA; Business Woman Instagram(s)  MUA - @yesistudios  Business - House of Holly @houseof.holly Personal - @leatherandlacex0 Tik Tok - @leatherandlacexo0   

Hello, Beauties!  Happy December & Welcome back to My Advice to You! I want to give a HUGE THANK YOU to those who have been listening for the past two weeks, as I am celebrating 117 downloads!!! From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU!!! I appreciate all of you who have taken the time to listen! You are all amazing and I am overjoyed Please bear with me for this week's episode as you may notice a few hiccups! Please excuse Ms. AC in the background as she wanted to make an appearance throughout this episode. I tried my best to edit out Ms. AC in the background, but it just wasn't happening. Also, I mention this is episode number 2, I lied! It's because I re-recorded that first introduction episode, thus making this episode number 3! Silly me. I'm just a girl! Other than that, I hope you enjoy this episode as it's one of my favs about my advice on how I control those pesty thoughts and turn them into helpful ones.  As always, feel free to check out the tips mentioned below for more help:  Joyce Meyer - Pastor  Prayer - https://www.joycemeyer.org/everydayanswers/requestprayer  Feel free to submit a prayer if you'd like others to pray for you.  Stephanie Madera - Baddie B Mindset Affirmations - Feel free to check out her multiple episodes on affirmations as there are various great options!  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-5-raise-your-vibrations-challenge-day-5-affirmations/id1542731929?i=1000501446101  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/baddie-morning-affirmations-v-1/id1542731929?i=1000617826685  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confidence-affirmations-v-1/id1542731929?i=1000537905421  My Music Selection during those days:  J Dilla  https://open.spotify.com/artist/0IVcLMMbm05VIjnzPkGCyp?si=oHWK199ZSLWP8kgvxggkVQ  Jessie Reyez  https://open.spotify.com/album/50mB1fMh9YFuLjx92ywsqV?si=hVEz_zxFTxScH2cOiFxS1A  Kaytranada  https://open.spotify.com/artist/6qgnBH6iDM91ipVXv28OMu?si=jIgSnXaPTiWp8a8qHX65RQ 

Hello, beauties!   Welcome back to My Advice to You! This is an episode going back in time to March! Enjoy this episode as you listen to that 1st try of mine for an intro episode and meet a great friend of mine, the first guest on this podcast, Edwin Pineda. Join us in our conversation sharing aspects of the masculine and feminine journey of healing. We also share a few tips and great reads on those who have helped us on our continuous journey of healing.    Healing Tips Ray Mentioned:  Stephanie Madera - Mindset and Self-Love Coach  Baddie B Mindset Podcast - https://linktr.ee/baddiebmindset  Joyce Meyer - Pastor  Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast - https://joycemeyer.org/todaysshow Byron Katie - Author  Loving What Is - https://thework.com/books/     Healing Tips Edwin Mentioned:  Dr. Kristin Neff - Associate Professor of Educational Psychology Self-Compassion - https://self-compassion.org/  Lisa Olivera - Author and Therapist  Already Enough - https://www.amazon.com/Already-Enough-Self-Acceptance-Lisa-Olivera-ebook/dp/B08VJMFZ2T  Yung Pueblo - Author/ Poet  Lighter - https://yungpueblo.com/books-1  Follow Edwin Pineda on Instagram: @edwin.pedwin      Please note: These are tips we shared that have worked personally for us on our healing journey-- there are so many ways to do so. We encourage you to start anywhere you feel comfortable, as what worked for us may not be for you, but it's a place to start.   

Hello, beauties!   If you are coming across My Advice to You for the first time, welcome!    This episode is an introduction to myself and a podcast series dedicated to giving advice to help shape the person we are meant to be.    A few baddies who helped shape the woman I am as discussed during the episode, please see their information below:    Joyce Meyer - Pastor  Enjoying Everyday Life Podcast - https://joycemeyer.org/todaysshow    Byron Katie - Author  Loving What Is - https://thework.com/books/    Stephanie Madera - Mindset and Self-Love Coach  Baddie B Mindset Podcast - https://linktr.ee/baddiebmindset      Thank you for joining in on launch day, I hope you listen and enjoy!    Feel free to follow My Advice to You on Instagram, @mad222you_ for updates and posts by yours truly!      Xoxo,   Rayleane Hope Martinez