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NeurOrdinary

In a world that often celebrates the ordinary, we celebrate the "neur-ordinary." Welcome to the NeurOrdinary Podcast, your go-to source for the authentic, heartfelt support you need as an autism parent. I'm Karen, a neurospicy autism parent with 13+ years of experience raising two autistic kiddos.Being an autism parent means you get a one-way ticket into the extra-ordinary world of neurodiversity. I'm here to help you navigate the challenges you face on your journey, and ensure you get the self-care, community, and support you need to be the best parent possible.

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    Mindfulness Without Perfection: How Meditation Helps Autism Parents Thrive | NeurOrdinary Podcast: S2E11

    Ever feel like meditation just isn’t made for your kind of brain, or your kind of life? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m breaking down some of the biggest myths that make meditation feel impossible for neurodivergent and autism parents…And I offer a gentler, more realistic way to make mindfulness and meditation work in your real life.We’re talking about what meditation looks like when your house is noisy, your schedule is packed, and your brain won’t stop buzzing. (Spoiler: it doesn’t have to be silent, still, or even particularly calm.)Inside this episode, we’ll walk through:Why “I don’t have time” is totally valid (and also work-through-able)What to do when “clear your mind” makes you want to throw somethingTiny ways to weave mindfulness into real-life moments…even if you're folding laundry, hiding in the bathroom, or rocking a fidget toyYou’ll also get simple ideas like 60-second breath resets, sensory check-ins, and sound-based or movement-friendly options that won’t make you feel like you’re doing it wrong.Whether you’re new to mindfulness or just haven’t found a version that fits your life, this episode is a permission slip to try again, your way.Want more support? Check out my guided meditations over on Substack, created specifically for neurodivergent and autism parents who crave more peace in the middle of it all.* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. Resources Mentioned In This Episode:Check out The Self-Care Support Squad Substack! Join for only $7/month to get access to exclusive bonus content (including 3 exclusive downloadable meditations), monthly group coaching calls, and more great resources!Your Ultimate Self-Care Toolkit: Guided Meditation and Affirmations for Parents of Autistic KidsEmbracing Now: Staying Positive and Present as an Autism ParentMindfulness as a Self-Care Tool for Autism Parents: Prioritizing Your Wellbeing

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    S2E10 | Navigating Stress & Uncertainty: Self-Care Tips for Parents of Autistic & Disabled Kids

    Welcoming you to a brand new episode of NeurOrdinary! In this one, I’m getting really real about what it’s like to parent an autistic or disabled child when things feel extra uncertain, especially with all the recent talk about changes to disability funding and support services.This episode is all about finding ways to stay steady and resilient when the world feels shaky. I walk you through practical strategies for self-care and managing stress, including tips for setting healthy boundaries with the endless news cycle, so you can stay informed without burning out. We dig into grounding techniques (shout-out to my favorite, the five-four-three-two-one method!) to help pull you out of the swirl of anxiety and back into the present moment when those “what ifs” get loud.Mindfulness is another big theme, and I share simple ways to weave it into your daily rituals (even five minutes can make a difference!) and give you pointers on how to actually build these habits so they stick. Plus, we talk about community: how connecting with other autism and neurodivergent parents can help lighten the mental load, and how to get involved in advocacy without tipping into burnout.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or just plain exhausted by everything going on, this episode is filled with reminders that you are not powerless, you’re doing enough, and you’re absolutely not alone. Grab your coffee, find a cozy spot, and let’s build some resilience together.* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.Resources Mentioned In This EpisodeJoin the Self-Care Support Squad Substack! For just $7/month, get access to monthly group coaching calls, replays of The Ultimate Autism Parents Self-Care Workshop, and more!Check out free guided meditations to help you build resilience and practice mindful awareness here.Parent Resource Center: Get The Help Your Autistic Child Needs...For Free!Autism 101 For Parents: How Meditation Can Help You...And Why You Should Do ItMindfulness as a Self-Care Tool for Autism Parents: Prioritizing Your Wellbeing

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    The Ripple Effect of Self-Care: Transforming Your Family Through You| NeurOrdinary Podcast: S2E9

    Hey there! In this episode of NeurOrdinary, I dive into the ripple effect of self-care and why it's not just about pampering yourself—it's a game changer for your whole family. As a self-care and resilience coach, I know how challenging it can be to find time for yourself, especially when you're navigating parenting and neurodivergence.We start with why self-care isn't selfish but essential. You'll hear about Megan, a parent who felt depleted before discovering how small self-care steps could lead to big positive changes in her family life. You'll learn practical strategies for sneaking in those little moments for yourself, like setting boundaries and practicing gratitude.We'll chat about how your emotional regulation can improve when you take even a little bit of time to recharge. Plus, modeling these healthy habits can be a powerful lesson for your kids, teaching them the value of self-care.Being present with your family isn’t always easy when you're exhausted, but self-care helps create meaningful connections and stronger relationships. And remember, the energy you bring to your household sets the tone for everyone else. So, take a breath and find those moments of calm amidst the chaos.Tune in and see how self-care can make a delightful difference in your life and home! Until next time, keep it spicy, and remember, you matter...and so does your self-care.* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. Resources Mentioned In This EpisodeJoin The Self-Care Support Squad for just $7/month and get access to a growing library of articles, workshop replays, and our monthly group coaching call. Click here to join us!NeurOrdinary Podcast: S2E8 | How to Recharge After a Meltdown: Tips for Autism ParentsNeurOrdinary Podcast S2E1 | Self-Care That Works: 5-Minute Strategies for Autism ParentsAutism 101 For Parents: How Meditation Can Help You...And Why You Should Do ItRevitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent

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    NeurOrdinary Podcast: S2E8 | How to Recharge After a Meltdown: Tips for Autism Parents

    Hey there, welcome to another episode of NeurOrdinary! Today, we’re diving into a question I hear all the time: How do you recharge after a meltdown? Whether it’s your child’s or, let’s be honest, your own, meltdowns can leave you feeling utterly drained. But recovery is just as crucial as surviving the meltdown itself.In this episode, I talk about five practical strategies to reset and recover—offering a mix of grounding techniques, sensory recovery, and micro moments to rebuild resilience.From the five-four-three-two-one method that engages your senses, to replenishing that depleted energy with everyday actions, I've got you covered. We explore how reflection over rumination empowers learning, not self-blame. Because let's face it, every meltdown is an opportunity to discover and do better next time, not a failure.I also share personal stories and tips from other parents I've coached, revealing that those micro moments of self-care aren’t just beneficial—they’re essential. And hey, if you’ve ever thought taking time for yourself is indulgence, think again! Self-care is family care because you can't pour from an empty cup.Don’t forget to grab my free Thrive in Five SOS toolkit from the link in the show notes. It's packed with grounding exercises, sensory recovery tips, and an exclusive meltdown recovery guide. Whether you have five minutes or an entire afternoon, there’s something in there for everyone.So tune in as we build resilience one tiny step at a time. You've got this, and I'm here cheering you on every meltdown of the way! Keep it spicy until next week!* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. Resources Mentioned In This EpisodeGet your free Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit here!From Overwhelm to Empowerment: Discovering Your Limits as an Autism ParentFrom Anger to Empathy: Cultivating Emotional Resilience with Anger-Releasing Meditation for Autism ParentsNavigating Emotional Turbulence: Supporting Autism Parents with Post-Meltdown MeditationBeyond Burnout: Discover the 7 Types of Rest Crucial for Autism Parents

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    NeurOrdinary Podcast: S2E7 | Parenting Through Hard Days: Permission to Feel and Heal

    Hey there, it's Karen Kossow, your self-care and resilience coach, welcoming you back to another episode of NeurOrdinary. In this week's chat, we're diving into a topic that hits home for so many parents out there—those tough days where nothing seems to go right, and your patience feels like it's on fumes. Trust me, I've been there!This episode is all about giving yourself permission to truly feel those emotions on challenging parenting days. I share a personal story about a day where everything seemed to be overwhelming at once—like a sensory overload meltdown at the same time as work deadlines. Spoiler alert: I'm far from perfect, but I've learned that perfection isn't the goal. Instead, it's about connecting with our kids and genuinely showing up as our authentic selves.We explore the power of acknowledging negative emotions without judgment and how these feelings don't make you a bad parent—they make you human. Letting go of the perfect parent ideal can help us focus on the love and connection our kids truly need.I'll also guide you through taking small, meaningful steps toward healing. I share examples like the "reset minute" or keeping a daily journal highlighting one thing you did well. These small acts can be like little bricks building a strong foundation of well-being and resilience.If you're navigating the hard days and need self-care tips that actually fit into your crazy schedule, you're in the right place. Grab a glass of water, take a deep breath, and join me. You're stronger than you think, and we've got this together!* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. Resources Mentioned In This Episode Grab your free copy of the Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit! An Autism Parent’s Guide to Breaking Free from the Perfectionism Cycle | NeurOrdinary Podcast Episode 12 Your Ultimate Self-Care Toolkit: Guided Meditation and Affirmations for Parents of Autistic Kids Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent Your Ultimate Guide to Boundaries as an Autism Parent: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Your Child

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    S2E6: Overcoming Guilt: How Autism Parents Can Prioritize Self-Care

    Hey there! In this episode of NeurOrdinary, I'm diving into a topic that's difficult for many neurodivergent and autism parents: self-care. As a self-care and resilience coach, I'm here to remind you that taking time for yourself isn't selfish—it's essential. Parenting can feel like juggling a million things, and the guilt of stepping away for a breather can be overwhelming. But here's the truth: prioritizing yourself is one of the most loving things you can do for your family.We'll explore three key strategies to help you integrate self-care into your life without compromising the care you give to your family. First, we'll tackle that pesky guilt, learning to see it as a signal instead of a verdict. I'll share stories of my clients, like Sarah, who learned to use guilt as a reminder of how much they care, rather than letting it stop them.Next, we'll discuss setting boundaries that support everyone. Boundaries aren't barriers—they're bridges to healthier relationships. I'll tell you about James, who found peace in a simple nightly routine that helped him recharge and be more present for his family.Finally, we'll talk about weaving self-care into your daily routine. It doesn't have to be elaborate or time-consuming. I'll give you tips on finding micro-moments throughout your day for self-care, just like my client Maria did with her morning breaths or listening to a calming playlist. Remember, small steps can lead to big changes! Tune in and learn how to prioritize yourself, because you deserve to feel supported and resilient.* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. Resources Mentioned In This Episode Join The Self-Care Support Squad Substack! For just $7/month get access to monthly group coaching calls, replays of The Ultimate Autism Parents Self-Care Workshop, and more! Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent From Overwhelm to Empowerment: Discovering Your Limits as an Autism Parent Embracing Now: Staying Positive and Present as an Autism Parent Self-Care for Autism Parents: 5 Essential Steps to Maintain Your Identity

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    S2E5+ NeurOrdinary Podcast: Finding Energy in Chaos: How to Recharge as a Caregiver

    Hey there, it's Karen! Welcome to another episode of the NeurOrdinary podcast. If you're anything like me, constantly juggling caregiving and endless appointments, it might feel like finding time for yourself is a mythical creature. But hold on, because I've got some tips for squeezing in a bit of self-care without needing a full day at the spa. In this episode, I share three strategies to recharge emotionally and three practical self-care techniques you can start using ASAP. We're talking about small but mighty habits: practicing gratitude even on the toughest days, leaning into sensory-based self-care, and leveraging community support for emotional renewal. I'm here to remind you that self-care doesn't have to take a ton of time – sometimes it's as simple as taking a deep breath or enjoying a cup of tea. Don't worry if you're thinking you can't add another thing to your plate, because I'm sharing ways to make these practices fit right into your busy day. Whether you're setting up a calming corner for a quick reset or stepping outside for a breath of fresh air, every little bit counts. So, let's reclaim those precious moments for yourself and feel empowered to tackle the challenges with a renewed spirit. Remember, even amidst the chaos, you've got the power to recharge. Keep it spicy, and I'll catch you in the next episode! * Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode... Join the Self-Care Support Squad Substack! For just $7/month get access to monthly group coaching calls, replays of The Ultimate Autism Parents Self-Care Workshop, and more! Become part of the Self-Care Support Squad on Facebook.  Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent Energy on Demand: 7 Quick Fixes for Exhausted Autism Parents Mindfulness as a Self-Care Tool for Autism Parents: Prioritizing Your Wellbeing

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    S2E4 Find Time for Yourself When Your Child Needs Constant Attention | NeurOrdinary Podcast

    Hey there, it's Karen! In this episode of the NeurOrdinary podcast, I dove into one of the trickiest questions we autism parents face: “How do I find time for myself when my child needs constant attention?” Trust me, you're not alone if you've struggled with this. I started by addressing the emotional hurdles we often face—guilt, frustration, and that constant feeling of being stretched too thin. I shared a personal story about how even my attempts to steal ten minutes for a hot tea and a Harry Styles video often get derailed by sensory overloads or school help demands.  The key takeaway here? It's okay to feel those emotions, but they shouldn't stop you from seeking self-care. Then, I got practical. I talked about carving out micro-moments for self-care—think 5 minutes while waiting for breakfast to cook or keeping a gratitude journal on the counter. I also suggested tools and tech that can help, like visual schedules or even the occasional iPad day. One of my favorite tips? Time blocking in miniature. Instead of aiming for an hour, start with five-minute chunks. And don’t shy away from asking for help, whether it's a partner taking over bedtime or a friend giving you a short break. Lastly, I emphasized the importance of community. Emotional support from fellow parents can be a game-changer. Whether you join my Substack community or a free Facebook group, connecting with others who "get it" can make a world of difference. * Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode Join the Self-Care Support Squad Substack! For just $7/month get access to monthly group coaching calls, replays of The Ultimate Autism Parents Self-Care Workshop, and more! Become part of the Self-Care Support Squad on Facebook.  Check out free guided meditations to help you build resilience and practice mindful awareness here. Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent Energy on Demand: 7 Quick Fixes for Exhausted Autism Parents

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    S2E3 When Self-Care Feels Like a Luxury: Simple Self-Care for Overwhelmed Autism Parents

    Hey there, it's Karen. In this episode of NeurOrdinary, I dive into the critical topic of self-care, especially for us neurospicy autism parents. I know firsthand how it feels to run on empty while juggling parenting, work, and everything in between. If you've ever thought, "Self-care? That's a luxury I can't afford," this one's for you. We start by unpacking why self-care often feels out of reach, particularly for autism parents dealing with therapy appointments, meltdowns, and everything else that comes our way.  One of my clients once said, "If I take time for myself, who's going to pick up the slack?" Sound familiar?  You're not alone! Society glorifies the idea of the sacrificial parent, leaving us to feel guilty for even thinking about our own needs. But here's the kicker: self-care isn't a luxury…it's about survival and resilience. Through real-life stories of clients like Mike and Emma, I explore how small acts of self-care can make a world of difference. Mike discovered that practicing something as simple as a "reset breath" helped him handle his son's meltdowns more patiently. And Emma found a three-minute dance party could recharge her energy like nothing else. I share practical tips to help you move past the guilt and integrate micro-moments of self-care into your daily routine. Think drinking your coffee while it's hot, taking a walk during your child's therapy session, or even a one-song dance party in the kitchen. Remember, resilience isn't about never struggling but about having the strength to bounce back. Self-care is essential for that, and you deserve it. Be sure to check out my free Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit for more strategies to help you recharge. Thanks for listening/watching! Catch you next week. * Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned in This Episode... Grab your free copy of the Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit here! Martyr Mom Island - What Is It and How Can You Avoid It What is an Empowered and Engaged Autism Parent Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent From Anger to Empathy: Cultivating Emotional Resilience with Anger Releasing Meditation for Autism Parents

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    S2E2 - Building Resilience: Simple Steps to Thrive as an Autism Parent

    Hey, it’s Karen! Thanks for joining me for another episode of NeurOrdinary. Today, we're diving into a topic really close to my heart: resilience. If you've ever felt overwhelmed as a neurospicy or autism parent juggling therapy appointments, meltdowns, and everyday tasks, this episode is for you. I get how chaotic life can feel! We start by debunking the myth that resilience means being unshakable. In reality, it's about bouncing back when life knocks you down. I share three actionable strategies to help you build resilience every day.  First, we explore the power of micro-actions – tiny, manageable steps that can create a big ripple effect on your overall well-being. For instance, practicing a simple reset breath during stress can set a calming tone for the rest of your day. Next, we dig into the idea of reframing your internal dialogue. How you talk to yourself can significantly impact your emotional resilience. Instead of focusing on failures, learn to see struggles as opportunities for growth.  Finally, I emphasize the importance of building your support squad. Having a community or even just one trusted friend can make a world of difference in how you handle life's ups and downs. I also share inspiring stories from other parents who've transformed their lives by practicing these strategies. Trust me, you're not alone in this journey. For more tips and strategies, download my free Thrive in 5! SOS toolkit – the link is in the show notes. Remember, resilience isn't about never falling down. It's about getting back up and continuing forward, one small step at a time. Thanks for joining me, and don't forget to keep it spicy! * Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode Join The Self-Care Support Squad Facebook Group Check out The Self-Care Support Squad Substack (join for only $7/month to get access to exclusive bonus content, monthly group coaching calls, and more great resources!) Snag your FREE Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit here! From Anger to Empathy: Cultivating Emotional Resilience with Anger Releasing Meditation for Autism Parents Self-Care for Autism Parents: 5 Essential Steps to Maintain Your Identity

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    S2E1: Self-Care That Works: 5-Minute Strategies for Autism Parents

    Welcome to the NeurOrdinary podcast, where we explore practical, actionable self-care and resilience strategies for autism parents. In today's episode, resilience coach and neurodivergent autism parent Karen Kossow delves into small, effective self-care strategies that can fit into even the busiest of days. Episode Highlights: Reset Breath - A quick grounding tool for stressful moments. Micro Meditations - Finding mindfulness in small pockets of your day. One Song Dance Party - A fun and energizing way to release stress. Gratitude on-the-Go - Shifting your focus to what's going right. Stepping Outside - A simple reset for your mind and body. Karen shares personal anecdotes and practical tips that will help you integrate these self-care practices into your daily routine, ensuring that you can continue to show up for your family while also taking care of yourself. You’ll walk away from this episode with a handy toolkit of strategies that require just a few minutes but can make a significant impact on your well-being. Resources Mentioned: Karen’s YouTube Channel featuring short meditations for busy parents. Karen’s Substack for weekly self-care tips and reflections. Links: YouTube Guided Meditations for Autism Parents Join the Self-Care Support Squad on Substack Join the Conversation: New episodes of the No Ordinary podcast drop every Thursday. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with other autism parents who might benefit from these insights. Don't forget to keep it spicy!

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    The Autism Parents' Guide to a Stress-Less Holiday Season | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 020

    On this week's episode of NeurOrdinary, we're diving into how you can navigate the holiday season as an autism parent, with less stress and more self-care. We all know this time of year brings unique challenges, and we're here to explore some strategies to not just survive, but thrive during the hectic holiday season. We start by tackling one of the most significant stressors for us, autism parents – our own expectations. You'll discover how to ground yourself in realistic expectations as you prioritize your child's well-being while preserving your own mental and emotional balance. Then, we explore practical strategies to nurture your emotional well-being, such as creating moments of solitude, connecting with support systems, and practicing mindful breathing exercises. Of course, we can't forget about self-care!  Next, I share actionable strategies like prioritizing sleep, scheduling nature walks, and practicing mindful eating…all designed to ensure you prioritize these essential moments that rejuvenate you. Finally, we’ll delve into the idea of flexibility. I’ll reveal how embracing the unexpected can contribute to a more fulfilling holiday season for everyone, and why building supportive traditions tailored to your family's unique needs is crucial for managing holiday stress. If you're an autism parent looking to make this holiday season a little more joyous and a lot less stressful, you won't want to miss this episode!  Whether you celebrate Christmas, Diwali, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or another winter holiday, let's make this season a little brighter together. Tune in today and let's make this holiday season a stress-less one for you and your family. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  ✨ ✨ ✨ Resources Mentioned In This Episode The Nightly Dilemma: Understanding Autism-Related Sleep Disorders in Kids Empowering Autism Parents: The Power of Realistic Expectations | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 014 Join the FREE Out Of Your Ordinary Autism Parent Self-Care Support Group! Revenge Bedtime Procrastination: Why Autism Parents Need to Avoid This Common Obstacle Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents

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    Creating Calm Amidst the Cheer: Autism-Friendly Holidays | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 019

    Welcome to this special episode of NeurOrdinary, where I'm excited to share my favorite tips and tricks on how you can craft autism-friendly holiday traditions. As a mom to two wonderful neurospicy autistic kiddos, I understand the mix of excitement and stress that the holidays can bring, especially for families like ours. In today's episode, I'll share practical tips for making holiday traditions sensory-friendly. From sensory-friendly ornament-making sessions to themed sensory bins and cozy storytelling, I've got innovative ideas to add joy and autism-friendly connection into the season.  Throughout this episode, I stress the importance of self-care for us parents, and I reveal how meeting our kids' needs allows us more time to care for ourselves, reducing overall parenting stress. I'll also share advice on adapting existing traditions to better suit the needs of our autistic children, including embracing cozy movie nights and virtual hangouts for maintaining connection (without the sensory overload). Plus, I'll highlight the significance of fostering family inclusivity and effective communication to create supportive holiday environments for everyone. Join me as we explore the world of inclusive, joy-filled, and sensory-friendly holiday traditions for families with neurospicy kiddos.  My hope is that, with this heartfelt guidance, you'll feel inspired to celebrate the holidays in a way that nurtures joy, understanding, and love for your entire family. Don't miss out on this insightful episode – and get ready to create meaningful holiday memories with your neurospicy kiddos! ✨ Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. ✨ ***************************************************************** Resources Mentioned In This Episode... Your Ultimate Guide to Boundaries as an Autism Parent: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Your Child Parenting Autistic Kids When You Don't Have Family Support | NeurOrdinary Podcast 003 Everything is Celebratable! Cultivating Happiness in Your Everyday Life as an Autism Parent An Autism Parent’s Guide to Breaking Free from the Perfectionism Cycle | NeurOrdinary Podcast Episode 012 Empowering Autism Parents: The Power of Realistic Expectations | NeurOrdinary Podcast Episode 014

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    Building Resilience: Self-Care Essentials for Autism Parents | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 018

    Hey there, lovely listeners! In this episode of NeuroOrdinary, we delve into the sometimes overlooked topic of cultivating emotional resilience in autism parenting.  As a parent to two amazingly autistic kiddos, I understand the unique challenges we face and the importance of building our own resilience toolkit. Join me as we explore the significance of emotional resilience and how it serves as our superpower as we face the sometimes (always?!) unpredictable journey of autism parenting. We'll discuss practical strategies for cultivating resilience, such as the power of pause, mindfulness, and gratitude journaling. I'll guide you through simple and impactful self-care exercises, like the "me time challenge," mindful walking, and creating a gratitude jar. These exercises are tailored specifically to provide the extra boost we need when things get tough. Together, we'll explore why resilience is not just a luxury, but a necessity for autism parents like us. Fostering resilience isn't about avoiding stress or struggles, but rather facing them head-on and emerging stronger on the other side, just like the sturdy bamboo that bends in the wind but doesn't break. So grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and join me in this empowering discussion on how to cultivate emotional resilience as autism parents.  Remember, you're doing an extraordinary job, and you're not alone on this journey.  Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode... Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents Meditation For Autism Parents: How It Helps And Why You Should Do It  7 Simple Ways to Reduce Your Stress: A Guide for Parents of Autistic Children Thriving Beyond Challenges: The Transformative Power of Self-Care for Autism Parents From Anger to Empathy: Cultivating Emotional Resilience with Anger Releasing Meditation for Autism Parents

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    Everyday Wins in Autism Parenting: Navigating Progress with Gratitude | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 017

    Hey there! Welcome to the NeurOrdinary podcast. I'm your host, Karen, a mom to two amazingly autistic kiddos. In this episode, we're diving deep into the theme of gratitude and celebrating the small wins.  As autism parents, we know that our journey can be challenging and overwhelming at times. That's why it's so important we appreciate the little victories along the way. These small wins may seem insignificant to others, but for us, they hold immense value. We'll discuss how gratitude can transform our perspective and turn ordinary, everyday moments into something extraordinary. By shifting our focus and embracing gratitude, we can uncover the beauty hidden within our daily routines and the progress our children are making.  I'll share three practical ideas to help you celebrate and focus on the small wins. From creating a gratitude jar with your child to ending your day with a simple (but effective!) gratitude practice, these quick and easy practices can have a profound impact on your relationship with yourself and your child, plus they really help shape your mindset as an autism parent. If you're looking for inspiration to navigate the ups and downs of autism parenting, this episode is for you! Let's explore the power of gratitude together and learn to find joy in our journey. Join me on NeurOrdinary as we celebrate the small wins and cultivate resilience in our parenting adventure. Make sure to tune in every Thursday for new episodes. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share with other autism parents who could use some support and inspiration. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode... Out Of Your Ordinary Facebook and Instagram Communities Pathological Demand Avoidance in Autistic Children: What Autism Parents Need to Know Redefining Success: Embracing Your Unique Path as an Autism Parent Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents Embracing Now: Staying Positive and Present as an Autism Parent

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    Cultivating Grace on the Autism Parenting Journey: A Self-Care Guide | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 016

    In this week's episode of NeurOrdinary, we delved into three important topics for autism parents: resilience, self-care, and personal growth. As a neurospicy autism parent myself, I totally get the challenges we face, and that's exactly why we're exploring these crucial areas together.  First off, we’ll talk all about resilience, which is our ability to bounce back from tough times. I’ll share the importance of finding a supportive community and embracing imperfection, both for ourselves and our children. It's all about facing the challenges head-on and creating a space where everyone can thrive and grow. Next, we’ll tackle the idea of self-care. As autism parents, it's easy to put ourselves last on the list, but we learned that self-care isn't a luxury – it's a necessity.  We’ll discuss setting boundaries, finding activities that recharge us, and address the guilt that sometimes comes with taking time for ourselves. And finally, we explore the incredible opportunity for personal growth that autism parenting offers. I cover the importance of self-reflection, self-compassion, and how our children's diagnoses can lead to a deeper understanding of our own needs and challenges. Overall, this episode is all about reminding autism parents that we're not alone! I also provide practical tips and insights to help you navigate your journey with grace all while you create a beautiful, authentic life for yourself and your children.  So don't forget to tune in every Thursday for new episodes…if you loved what you heard, drop a comment or review to let me know your thoughts. And if you know someone who could benefit from these discussions, be sure to share this episode with them. Thanks for listening, and remember: It may not always be easy, but it doesn’t have to be so hard! You're not alone in this.   Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  ✨ ✨ Resources Mentioned In This Episode: These are some of my favorite self-care resources… Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents Meditation For Autism Parents: How It Helps And Why You Should Do It  Revenge Bedtime Procrastination: Why Autism Parents Need to Avoid This Common Obstacle Reclaim Your Identity: Nurturing Your Passions Outside of 'Autism Mom' Duties Your Ultimate Guide to Boundaries as an Autism Parent: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Your Child 7 Simple Ways to Reduce Your Stress: A Guide for Parents of Autistic Children

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    Embracing Gratitude: Your Guide to Thriving as an Autism Parent | NeurOrdinary Episode 015

    Welcome to NeurOrdinary, the podcast where we explore topics that are close to the hearts of parents raising their neurodiverse kiddos. I'm your host, Karen, a mom to two extraordinary autistic kiddos. As an autism parent, I understand the daily struggles, challenges, and victories that come with raising neurodiverse children.  In today's episode, I dive deep into one of my absolute favorite topics: the power of gratitude in the lives of autism parents.  We all know that our lives can often feel like a whirlwind of therapies, appointments, and overwhelming responsibilities. It's easy to get caught up in the daily challenges and lose sight of our own well-being.  That’s where cultivating gratitude comes in. By embracing an attitude of gratitude, we create an intentional practice of acknowledging and appreciating the positives in our lives. It doesn't have to be time-consuming or complicated. It can be as simple as taking a few moments each day to reflect on the things we're thankful for, no matter how small they may seem.  Throughout the episode, I discuss the incredible power of the gratitude mindset, how to notice the hidden silver linings in our journey as autism parents, and the profound role that cultivating gratitude plays in self-care.  Join me as I share personal stories, practical tips, and insights to help us all navigate the ups and downs of autism parenting with grace, strength, and resilience. So grab your favorite beverage, find a comfy spot, and let's dive into this episode! Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents Thriving Beyond Challenges: The Transformative Power of Self-Care for Autism Parents Gratitude Meditation: Nurturing Self-Care for Autism Parents 7 Simple Ways to Find Time for Self-Care: A Guide for Autism Parents Follow along on Facebook or Instagram as I share my gratitude resources and daily insights!

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    Empowering Autism Parents: The Power of Realistic Expectations | NeurOrdinary Podcast: 014

    Welcome to Episode 014 of NeurOrdinary! I'm Karen Kossow, a neurospicy autism mom, who is no stranger to the unique challenges of autism parenting. In today's episode, we'll talk about some common myths and the societal pressures that compel autism parents to act like “superheroes” who can manage every aspect of our child's life.  But let me share a little secret with you—perfection isn’t possible!  We can't control every detail of this journey, and that's okay. We’ll all enjoy life a lot more if we stop trying to force our idea of what “should” be, and embrace what is. Throughout this episode, we'll serve up practical strategies to help you recalibrate your expectations and nurture self-compassion. We'll talk about the significance of setting achievable boundaries and celebrating the little victories along the way.  Remember, you're not alone on this journey!  We're creating a supportive community of autism parents, folks who truly grasp the “adventure” we're on and are committed to uplifting each other. Join us on NeurOrdinary as we explore the art of releasing the need for control, embracing the beauty of imperfection, and enjoying this wild ride together. Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? Contact me here to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode Follow Out Of Your Ordinary on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram! What is an Empowered and Engaged Autism Parent? Thriving Beyond Challenges: The Transformative Power of Self-Care for Autism Parents Your Ultimate Guide to Boundaries as an Autism Parent: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Your Child Redefining Success: Embracing Your Unique Path as an Autism Parent

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    Coping with Uncertainty: Tips for Letting Go of Control as an Autism Parent

    Hey there! Welcome to NeurOrdinary, the podcast that's all about navigating the unpredictable journey of autism parenting. I'm your host, Karen, a mom to two incredible neurodiverse kiddos. As an autism parent, I understand the challenges we face daily, and I know that sometimes, we just need a safe space to vent, share our experiences, and find support. In our latest episode, we delve into a topic that many of us can relate to: letting go of control and coping with uncertainty. As autism parents, we often find ourselves yearning for control to create the perfect, predictable environment for ourselves, and our children. However, holding onto perfectionism and control can actually do more harm than good. During this episode, we explore the consequences of perfectionism, such as increased stress and anxiety, missed opportunities for connection with our kids, unrealistic expectations, and emotional exhaustion.  But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom!  We also provide practical advice on how to let go of these tendencies. We discuss the importance of self-compassion, setting realistic expectations, seeking support from friends, family, and professionals, and practicing mindfulness and acceptance. By embracing imperfection and releasing our tight grip on control, we create an environment of acceptance and love for ourselves and our unique kiddos. So grab a cozy blanket and your favorite beverage, and join us on this journey of self-discovery and resilience! Resources Mentioned In This Episode Join my newsletter to be notified when the Out Of Your Ordinary membership opens…and receive a free gift! Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents Meditation For Autism Parents: How It Helps And Why You Should Do It  Parenting with Presence: Harnessing the Benefits of Daily Awareness Meditation for Autism Parents Mindfulness as a Self-Care Tool for Autism Parents: Prioritizing Your Wellbeing Don't see your preferred podcast program listed? ⁠Contact me here⁠ to suggest where you'd like to listen to NeurOrdinary. 

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    An Autism Parent’s Guide to Breaking Free from the Perfectionism Cycle

    Today, we're delving into a topic that's close to my heart – breaking free from the clutches of perfectionism as an autism parent.  Now, I don't just talk the talk; I walk the walk, as a mother of two neurospicy kiddos who've taught me life's beautiful messiness. You see, perfectionism is like that uninvited guest who overstays their welcome. It's the nagging inner voice that insists we must be flawless, or we fall short. And as autism parents, the stakes often feel higher. The pressure to control every detail and have all the answers can be overwhelming.  But guess what? It's time to kick perfectionism to the curb. In today's episode, I'm dishing out the strategies that have helped me tame my anxiety and release the need for perfectionism. First up, let's chat about self-compassion. It's about being your own best friend, offering kindness when you stumble. Embrace the fact that you're allowed to make mistakes, and perfection isn't the goal. Then, there's the game-changer – setting realistic expectations. It's like celebrating the small wins that paint the big picture. These victories reshape your mindset and let positivity flow. Remember, you're not on this journey alone. Seeking support from friends, family, and professionals lightens your load. You don't need to bear the world's weight alone. The wisdom and shared experiences of others can make all the difference. To wrap things up, I'll share a personal story about relinquishing control within my own family. Releasing the grip of perfectionism allowed my husband and children to find their unique ways to handle things, and gave me a much-needed break. So, don't miss this episode! It's packed with priceless insights and actionable strategies that'll help you break free from perfectionism, live a happier, healthier life, and nurture yourself, and your extraordinary children.  Resources Mentioned In This Episode Why Autism Dads Matter…The Power of Father-Child Relationships in Autism Martyr Mom Island - What Is It and How Can You Avoid It? What is an Empowered and Engaged Autism Parent?  Your Ultimate Guide to Boundaries as an Autism Parent: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Your Child Redefining Success: Embracing Your Unique Path as an Autism Parent

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    Love in the Neurodiverse Lane: Relationship Strategies for Autism Parents

    On episode 11 of NeurOrdinary, we’ll talk tips, strategies, and a bit of heartfelt advice to help strengthen your marriage as you navigate the roles of autism parent and spouse. Balancing these roles can sometimes feel like riding a roller coaster blindfolded, but fret not…I’m here to help!   Together, we’ll explore how open and honest communication with your partner can create a safe space to share your thoughts, worries, and triumphs as you navigate the ups and downs of autism parenting.    We also discuss the power of active listening without judgment and finding common ground, even when you have different perspectives. And we delve into the significance of prioritizing quality time for you and your spouse or partner.    Finally, we’ll talk about the value of setting aside dedicated couples time to rediscover each other and nurture your emotional connection. Whether it's a simple at-home date night or a walk in your favorite park, these moments of togetherness hold the magic that strengthens your relationship.   Join us on NeurOrdinary as we provide practical advice, insights, and a supportive community for autism parents like you. You are not alone on this journey. Together, we can find joy and fulfillment in raising our incredible neurospicy kiddos. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Why Autism Dads Matter…The Power of Father-Child Relationships in Autism   3 Reasons Why You Need An Autism Parent Coach   Autism Parent Coach vs. Therapist...Which Is Better For Autism Parents?   Martyr Mom Island - What Is It and How Can You Avoid It?   Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent

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    How I Juggle Life as an Autism Mom

    As an autism mom, I understand the overwhelming demands and responsibilities that come with loving and caring for a child on the spectrum. It can often feel like a constant juggling act, trying to balance work, home, and the needs of our amazing children.   In this episode, we talk about how I manage my day-to-day life as a business owner, autism mom, wife, and homeschooler.   We’ll explore the importance of open communication and sharing responsibilities with our partners. Having an actively involved partner not only lightens the load but also strengthens the bond between partners, and within the entire family unit. Discover why you need to let your partner do things their way (hint: it’ll really help everyone in the family, trust me)!   We also emphasize the significance of reaching out for support, both from fellow autism parents and from available resources in our communities. We discuss the benefits of therapy services, educational support, and community programs that can greatly assist in managing the challenges of being an autism parent.   Throughout the episode, I provide practical tips and strategies for navigating the daily demands of life as an autism mom.   From setting routines and clear expectations to prioritizing self-care and delegating responsibilities, we’ll explore ways to find balance and maintain our own well-being while caring for our children.   You are not alone in this journey! Together, we can empower each other to embrace the joys and challenges of raising our extraordinary children. Come see how I do it on this episode of NeurOrdinary! Resources Mentioned in This Episode Parent Resource Center: Get The Help Your Autistic Child Needs...For Free!   Why Autism Dads Matter…The Power of Father-Child Relationships in Autism   Navigating the Application Process: Your Step-by-Step Guide to the Katie Beckett Waiver in Idaho *   How to Apply for Children's Developmental Disabilities Services in Idaho: Your 5-Step Guide *   *This article is specific to Idaho but may be helpful no matter what state you live in.    New episodes of NeurOrdinary are released every Thursday…be sure to like, subscribe, and leave a comment or review letting me know what you think. And as always, keep it spicy!

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    Why We Don't Do ABA Therapy: An Autism Mom Speaks

    Buckle up, because this one may be a bit controversial….   In this episode, "Why We Don't Do ABA Therapy: An Autism Mom Speaks," I talk about our decision to not pursue Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy for our two autistic kids.    I understand that every family's journey with autism is unique, and ABA therapy may have its benefits in certain, limited circumstances, but I want to shed light on our perspective and the alternative therapies we've chosen to prioritize.   As autism parents, we strive to make informed decisions based on what we genuinely believe is best for our children.    My husband and I continuously learn, explore different options, and align our choices with the specific needs of our kids. Our focus is on embracing their individuality, respecting their autonomy, and creating a supportive environment where they can thrive.   In this episode, we discuss why we have chosen not to pursue ABA therapy for our children. We touch on therapies such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, and play therapy that prioritize overall well-being and individual needs, while also providing specific strategies to address challenges.   We also address concerns about ABA therapy's potential long-term effects and its heavy reliance on adult-led instruction…as well as the fact that many adult autistics are strongly opposed to the practice and have had severe, long-lasting consequences from it.    Rather than using ABA, we prioritize teaching our children critical thinking, self-expression skills, self-advocacy skills, and the ability to set boundaries. We want to empower them to navigate the world confidently and stand up for themselves, particularly in the face of unique safety concerns and risks that autistic individuals, especially women, often face.   Whether you’ve done ABA in the past, are currently doing it, or you’re considering it for your child, I urge you to listen to today’s episode. It could have a huge impact not only on your child but the relationship you have with them now, and into the future. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Chris Bonello, Autistic Author and Advocate - Autistic Not Weird   Pathological Demand Avoidance in Autistic Children: What Autism Parents Need to Know   Thriving Together: Positive Parenting Tips for Families Living with Autism   The Hidden Consequences: Exploring the Negative Side of Autism Warrior Parenting New episodes of NeurOrdinary are released every Thursday…be sure to like, subscribe, and leave a comment or review letting me know what you think. And as always, keep it spicy!

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    Autism Parent Essentials: Meditation and Mindfulness

    In this episode of NeurOrdinary, we dive deep into the transformative benefits that mindfulness and meditation can bring to our lives as autism parents.    We'll discover how developing a nonjudgmental mindset allows us to respond to our children's needs with love and understanding. By cultivating a calm and centered mindset, we create a supportive and loving environment for their growth.   But it doesn't stop there. Meditation and mindfulness also support our own self-care journey and nurture our well-being!   As we replenish our inner resources and build resilience, we become better equipped to handle the challenges that arise. Not only do these practices positively impact our physical health by lowering blood pressure, improving sleep, and boosting our immune system, but they also enhance our relationships, well-being, and overall experience as autism parents.   So, join me in this exploration of meditation and mindfulness as we uncover the tools and techniques that can help us find moments of stillness and presence in our parenting journey.    From starting with just a few minutes each day to incorporating sensory awareness and guided meditation, we'll discover a world of possibilities to support and nourish ourselves as we nurture our children. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Out Of Your Ordinary’s Guided Meditation Playlist   Meditation For Autism Parents: How It Helps And Why You Should Do It   Embracing Now: Staying Positive and Present as an Autism Parent   Mindfulness as a Self-Care Tool for Autism Parents: Prioritizing Your Well-being   New episodes of NeurOrdinary are released every Thursday…be sure to like, subscribe, and leave a comment or review letting me know what you think. And as always, keep it spicy!

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    Navigate Your Autistic Child's Education With Confidence

    In this episode, we dive deep into the critical topic of educational options and resources for autistic children and how those choices can have a profound impact on their development and well-being.   Join us as we uncover the challenges faced by parents when choosing the most suitable educational environment for their autistic child.    We explore the unique educational needs of autistic children and discuss how school choice allows parents to explore a range of programs and settings to find the best fit. Discover the benefits of school choice for autistic children, including access to specialized programs and support services tailored to their unique needs.  We dive into the importance of collaboration between parents, therapists, and school personnel in integrating private therapies into a child's school routine. Learn about the crucial role of open communication and sharing of assessment reports and therapy plans to support the child's progress in the school environment.  We’ll even talk about homeschooling, so you can get a balanced list of educational options to best fit you and your child’s needs!   From understanding the IEP and 504 Plan process to finding inclusive homeschooling resources, this episode of NeurOrdinary is your go-to podcast for empowering your children to thrive academically, socially, and emotionally ... .all while you manage the chaos and reduce your feelings of overwhelm as a parent! Resources Mentioned in This Episode Autism 101 For Parents: What You Need To Know About Your Child’s Education *Includes information on and links to your local Parent Resource Council, as well as most of the other topics discussed in today's episode.   Happily Homeschooling: 10 Tips for Parents of Autistic Children   Your Ultimate Guide to Boundaries as an Autism Parent: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Your Child   Redefining Success: Embracing Your Unique Path as an Autism Parent   Contact me here to set up your 60-minute education coaching session!

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    My Three Favorite Self-care Practices as an Autism Mom

    Today I’m excited to dive into a topic that is near and dear to my heart as an autism mom, and a certified meditation instructor. In this episode, I'll be sharing my three favorite self-care practices that have been absolute game-changers in my life.   First up, we have meditation. I can't stress enough how transformative this practice has been for me. From YouTube meditations to the Calm app, these resources have provided gentle guidance and support for exploring different meditation techniques.    Meditation has such a positive impact on my overall well-being by resetting my mind, increasing clarity, and bringing a sense of presence to my day.   Next, we’ll talk about the importance of alone time. As parents of autistic children, it is so easy to lose ourselves in the constant demands of our kids. But carving out time for ourselves is crucial so we can be the best version of ourselves and support others effectively. I'll share some tips on how to find those moments of solitude without feeling guilty...trust me, it's worth it.   Last but not least, I'll discuss the power of gratitude. Keeping a gratitude journal has literally transformed my life!    Each day, I write down at least three things I’m grateful for and one big win that happened that day. This simple practice helps anchor feelings of gratitude and creates a positive mindset. Gratitude has trained my brain to focus on the positive in different situations, and it has made a significant and transformative impact on my life.   So grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and tune in to this episode of NeurOrdinary as I share my favorite self-care practices as an autism mom. It's time to nourish ourselves, recharge, and thrive…no matter what life throws at us. Let's dive in! Resources Mentioned in This Episode Out Of Your Ordinary YouTube Channel guided meditations playlist   Gratitude Practice For Autism Parents   Create your FREE personalized Self-care Guide   Get started with self-care the quick and easy way…FREE self-care quick start guide!

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    What Exactly Is An Autism Parent Coach...And Why Do You Need One?

    In today's episode, we’ll explore the fascinating role of an Autism Parent Coach and I’ll reveal why you probably need one. Parenting an autistic child is a unique journey, filled with complexity, overwhelm, and often feelings of isolation. Autism parent coaches are specially trained professionals who help parents understand their child's behavior, develop effective strategies, and navigate the various challenges along the autism parenting journey. They offer personalized guidance tailored to your unique circumstances and the needs of you and your child. But the benefits of working with an Autism Parent Coach don't stop there. They also empower you with the skills and tools to become a strong advocate for your child, ensuring they receive the appropriate support and resources they need. Throughout this episode, we'll discuss the vital role of an Autism Parent Coach, the specific ways they can support you, and how to find the right coach for your journey. We'll also explore the importance of self-care and establishing a solid foundation of understanding, trust, and collaboration with your coach. So grab a cup of tea, sit back, and let's dive into the extraordinary world of neurodiversity on NeurOrdinary!

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    Can An Autism Parent Coach Help Dads?!

    Welcome to the NeurOrdinary podcast, where we dive deep into the extraordinary journey of parenting neurodiverse kids. I'm your host, Karen Kossow. As a mother of two autistic kids and a self-care coach for autism parents, I'm here to share stories, insights, and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of raising an autistic child. In this week's episode, titled "Can an Autism Parent Coach Help Dads?", we'll focus on an important but often overlooked aspect of autism parenting: the role of dads. The autism parenting world has predominantly been shaped by moms, leaving many dads feeling pushed to the side or left out. But today, we're shifting the spotlight and creating a space for dads to share their unique struggles and experiences. We'll explore how dads can prioritize their well-being, navigate their own neurodivergent tendencies, and build a successful relationship with their child(ren). And, we'll discuss the importance of self-care, and personal growth, and how they can lead to transformational changes in the lives of dads. From reducing stress and improving relationships with oneself and their partner to finding a stronger sense of purpose, the benefits of engaging in self-care coaching are profound…especially for dads! Join us on NeurOrdinary as we delve into the world of autism parenting from a dad's perspective, and discover how personal growth and well-being can lead to a fulfilling and thriving family life.

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    Parenting Autistic Kids When You Don't Have Family Support

    As a parent of not one, but two autistic children, I know firsthand the challenges that come with navigating the parenting journey without the support of immediate family. Hi, I'm Karen, the host of NeurOrdinary, a podcast dedicated to discussing the unique experiences of parenting autistic children and finding strength in unconventional places. In this episode, we delve into the reality of parenting autistic kids when you don't have family support. We explore the demanding nature of raising these incredible children, which often leaves little time for personal pursuits. We acknowledge the importance of self-care, not just for our own well-being, but also for the sake of our children. I share my personal journey of prioritizing self-care activities. From hobbies and exercise, to therapy and meal planning…despite the absence of family support. We discuss the difficult decision to cut ties with toxic family members, made to protect the happiness and well-being of our children and ourselves. But it doesn't end there! We delve into the unexpected positive outcomes that arise from making these difficult decisions. I open up about how this experience empowered me to become a successful self-care coach and build a new, chosen family who has provided the support and understanding we were lacking before. Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of finding organizations and support groups that appreciate and understand the unique challenges we face as parents of autistic children. We explore resources such as respite care services, which offer temporary relief to parents by providing trained professionals to care for our children. Join me on NeurOrdinary as we navigate the ups and downs of parenting autistic children without family support and discover the strength and resilience that lie within us. Together, we'll embrace the extraordinary in our ordinary.

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    The Top 5 Hurdles Autism Parents Face and How You Can Overcome Them

    As a parent of two autistic children, I understand the hurdles that autism parents face on a daily basis. In this episode of NeurOrdinary Podcast, we’ll talk about the top five challenges that autism parents encounter and provide strategies to overcome them.   Everyone’s autism parenting journey begins with navigating the diagnosis process, which can be overwhelming and uncertain. I share the importance of educating yourself about autism and connecting with reputable resources (including other autism parents) for support. It is essential to focus on credible support options and avoid harmful treatments or misinformation.   Managing multiple responsibilities is another significant challenge for autism parents.    From being an advocate to a therapist, caregiver, and educator, it's easy to feel stretched thin. I provide tips on effective time management, prioritizing tasks, and seeking support to create a manageable routine.   Financial stress and obligations can also be overwhelming. I share insights on planning ahead, utilizing available resources such as grants and community programs, and taking advantage of early intervention services and school programs.   Self-care is often neglected when the focus is solely on the well-being of our children.    However, it is crucial to prioritize self-care to be a strong advocate and caregiver. I discuss the importance of engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation, seeking emotional support, and accessing specialized self-care coaches.   Throughout the episode, I discuss the emotional toll of autism parenting, the range of emotions that come with a diagnosis, and the common judgment and misconceptions faced by autism parents. I emphasize the importance of building resilience, advocating for understanding, and surrounding oneself with a supportive network.   Join me on this episode of NeurOrdinary as we explore the top five hurdles that autism parents face and learn strategies to overcome them.

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    Why I Became an Autism Parent Self-Care Coach

    In the very first episode of The NeurOrdinary Podcast, we delve into a powerful and overlooked aspect of the autism journey…the well-being of parents and caregivers.    Join me as I share my personal experiences, valuable insights, and practical strategies to create a positive impact on autism families.   My autism parenting journey began when I first noticed something different about my oldest kiddo.    But, like many of you, I faced difficulties getting medical professionals to recognize my concerns. At home, our family encountered challenges that went unnoticed in doctor's offices, leading to emotional roller coasters, stress, and overwhelming situations.   Three years ago, I made a pivotal decision to prioritize my own well-being and practice self-care. This transformative shift had a profound effect not only on me but also on my children and the entire family. As I gained knowledge, strategies, and coping mechanisms, everyone’s lives improved drastically.   The episode shines a light on the challenges faced by autism parents, including managing therapies, caring for other children, and balancing work.    It emphasizes the importance of self-care in reducing stress and burnout rates that are alarmingly high among caregivers.   Join me in building a brighter future for both autistic children and the incredible individuals who support and nurture them. Together, we can shift the narrative, raise awareness, and ensure that self-care becomes an essential part of the autism parenting journey. By taking care of ourselves, we can better care for our loved ones.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

In a world that often celebrates the ordinary, we celebrate the "neur-ordinary." Welcome to the NeurOrdinary Podcast, your go-to source for the authentic, heartfelt support you need as an autism parent. I'm Karen, a neurospicy autism parent with 13+ years of experience raising two autistic kiddos.Being an autism parent means you get a one-way ticket into the extra-ordinary world of neurodiversity. I'm here to help you navigate the challenges you face on your journey, and ensure you get the self-care, community, and support you need to be the best parent possible.

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