Pearls of Motherhood

What happens when you can’t hold everything together anymore?In this deeply personal Season 4 finale of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana opens up about postpartum anxiety after her C-section, the pressure moms feel to “do it all,” and the hidden emotional toll of constantly trying to stay in control during uncertain seasons of motherhood.From obsessing over laundry and routines while recovering postpartum to the guilt, overstimulation, and emotional exhaustion so many moms silently carry, this episode explores the psychology behind why mothers over-function when life feels overwhelming—and why struggling does not mean you’re failing.Plus, a heartfelt listener mail from a mom of two toddlers sparks an honest conversation about mom guilt, emotional regulation, mental overload, self-criticism, and the impossible expectations modern mothers place on themselves.If you’ve ever:felt emotionally exhausted in motherhoodstruggled with postpartum anxiety or overwhelmwondered why you can’t “just handle it better”felt guilty for not enjoying every momentfelt like you were barely holding it together…this episode is for you.Because motherhood isn’t about holding everything together perfectly.Sometimes the bravest thing a mom can do… is stay.✨ Topics discussed:Postpartum recovery, maternal mental health, emotional overload, mom guilt, overstimulation, perfectionism, intolerance of uncertainty, emotional regulation, identity shifts in motherhood, self-compassion, and parenting through hard seasons.Follow us on Instagram, Threads, and Facebook: @pomcasts 💛💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Ever looked at your child in a moment and thought…“why don’t they care?”When your kid ignores someone crying, grabs a toy without a second thought, or says “I don’t care” with full eye contact—it can feel personal. Like you’re failing. Like something’s off.But what if the truth is simpler… and a whole lot more relieving?In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re saying something out loud that most moms think but don’t say:👉 some kids just don’t care… yet.We break down what empathy actually looks like in child development (hint: it’s not automatic), why your child’s brain might not be there yet, and how to stop feeling like a broken record repeating “be kind” all day long.You’ll learn:Why empathy is a capacity issue, not a character flawThe 3 layers of empathy (and why most of us jump straight to the last one)How to teach empathy in real life—without losing your mindWhy connection works better than correctionWhat to do instead of forcing apologiesA simple, in-the-moment formula: notice it, name it, guide itWe also talk about the emotional side of this—those moments that make you question everything—and how to reframe them with a little more compassion (for your child and yourself).Because empathy isn’t something you can force.It’s something you grow—slowly, imperfectly, and over time.🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

You’re not getting an apology.And waiting for one is keeping you stuck.They moved on.They’re not thinking about it.And you’re still carrying the weight.That’s the part no one says out loud.In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we talk about the kind of forgiveness that feels unfair—the kind where they never say sorry.Because forgiveness isn’t about them.It doesn’t mean– it was okay– you forget– you let them back inIt means you stop letting it control you.You may never get the apology…but you don’t need it to move forward.🎧 You’re Not Getting an Apology: How to Find Peace Without ClosureListen now!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Ever feel like you're losing at motherhood… just by being around other moms?In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re unpacking the silent competition no one talks about—mom comparison—and how it quietly steals your joy.That thought—“Why can’t I do it like she does?”—It’s not truth. It’s pressure.Because here’s what no one tells you:Most moms aren’t judging you… they’re questioning themselves too.✨ The competition isn’t real✨ The standard isn’t fair✨ And your motherhood was never meant to look like hersIf you’ve ever walked away from a playdate, scroll session, or school pickup feeling “less than”… this episode is your reset.🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Ever felt like you love your kid… but don’t actually like them right now?That feeling almost no mom talks about? We're talking about it today.It’s one of the most taboo feelings in motherhood—and one almost no one talks about out loud.In this honest and compassionate episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we break the silence around those moments when your child pushes every button you have. The truth is, loving your child and enjoying every moment with them are not the same thing—and that doesn’t make you a bad mom. It makes you human.We explore why these feelings happen more often than moms admit. Sometimes it’s a mismatch in temperament. Sometimes it’s sensory overload, exhaustion, or constant power struggles. And sometimes it’s simply the weight of parenting without enough support.Instead of shame, we offer understanding—and practical ways to reset when you feel overwhelmed.In this episode, we talk about:Why loving your child and liking their behavior are two different thingsHow burnout, sensory overload, and power struggles affect your reactionsSimple ways to regulate your nervous system before respondingHow connection can soften difficult momentsWhy repair and honest conversations strengthen your relationship with your childIf you’ve ever thought, “I love my child, but right now I don’t like this moment,” this conversation is for you.Because motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about honesty, growth, and learning how to come back to connection.You’re not alone in this.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Somewhere between raising kids, supporting our parents, and holding everything together, many moms start asking the same question: where did I go?In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana and Tessie explore one of the biggest emotional shifts of motherhood: how to stay connected to yourself while caring for everyone else.We talk about matrescence, the developmental transition into motherhood that explains why becoming a parent can feel so disorienting—even when it’s deeply joyful. We also dive into the reality of being the “bridge generation”, balancing the needs of our children while also supporting aging parents.Through personal stories and thoughtful reflection, we explore how modern motherhood can stretch women in every direction—and why protecting your identity isn’t selfish, it’s essential.In this episode, we discuss:• What matrescence is and why every mother should know about it• Why so many moms feel like they’ve lost themselves after having kids• The pressure of caring for both children and aging parents• How boundaries and intentional living help moms stay grounded• Small ways to reconnect with yourself while raising a familyMotherhood transforms you—but it doesn’t have to erase you.This conversation is a reminder that you are still allowed to be a whole person while raising your children.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Why do moms experience rage? And why does no one talk about it?If you’ve ever snapped at your kids and immediately felt crushing guilt… this episode is for you.In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Tessie and Diana unpack the very real (and very common) experience of mom rage—those moments when the overwhelm, exhaustion, and constant demands of motherhood boil over.Instead of shaming the anger, we ask a deeper question:What if mom rage isn’t a failure… but a signal?We talk about the real pressures behind it, including:• chronic overstimulation• the invisible labor and mental load of motherhood• lack of support many moms quietly carry• why guilt keeps us stuck in the cycleWe also share practical ways to pause, regulate, and repair when those big emotions hit.This conversation is honest, compassionate, and deeply validating for any mom who has ever wondered, “Why do I feel like this?”Because the truth is: you’re not a bad mom. You’re a human being doing one of the hardest jobs in the world.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Unpopular truth: your kid might not be the problem. Your routine might be.If mornings feel chaotic, transitions trigger meltdowns, and bedtime turns into a long negotiation, the issue may not be your child’s behavior — it might be the rhythm of the day.In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Tessie and Diana break down the science behind why kids thrive on predictable routines and how small shifts can dramatically reduce tantrums, sibling fights, and daily power struggles.You’ll learn:• Why rushed mornings raise kids’ stress levels• The hidden reason transitions trigger meltdowns• 5 routine red flags most parents miss• Simple ways to reset your day without rigid schedulesBecause when kids know what’s coming next, their nervous systems calm down — and behavior often improves.✨ Pearl of the episode: When you regulate the rhythm of your home, your kids regulate too.If you’re navigating toddler chaos, bedtime battles, or daily meltdowns, this episode will help you rethink routines and bring more calm to your home.Your kids aren’t broken.Your routine might just need a tune-up.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Feeling emotionally exhausted, irritable, or disconnected from yourself? You’re not failing — you might be burned out.In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Tessie and Diana unpack the real signs of mom burnout, why it happens, and how to recover without guilt. We talk emotional exhaustion, mental load, overstimulation, and the myth that “good moms just push through.”You’ll walk away with practical, science-backed strategies — from setting boundaries and taking micro-rests to rediscovering your identity beyond motherhood.Burnout isn’t weakness. It’s feedback. Let’s grow through it together.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

The problem isn’t your toddler’s tantrum. It’s how exhausted you are.In this Season Four premiere of Pearls of Motherhood, hosts Tessie and Diana get real about patience, presence, and grace in modern parenting. They unpack why patience isn’t something you’re born with—it’s a muscle built through repetition, repair, and a whole lot of trial and error. From toddler meltdowns to emotional overload, they explore how everyday stress accumulates and why losing patience is often about far more than the moment in front of us.This episode dives into co-regulation, breaking down how children learn emotional regulation by watching how we manage our own emotions. Through personal stories, Tessie and Diana reflect on parenting triggers, sleep deprivation, self-compassion, and the importance of repairing after hard moments. Because motherhood isn’t about staying calm all the time—it’s about coming back together.Parenting is both hard work and heart work, and every act of grace strengthens the muscles that matter most.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

What happens when parents stop guessing — and actually listen to kids?In this special episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we welcome our first-ever kid guest. Thirteen-year-old Luke Keen joins us as a Junior Correspondent to deliver a field report on three popular family water parks: Camelback, Kalahari, and Aquatopia.From rides and attractions to food, fun, and overall experience, Luke shares an honest, kid-approved perspective parents don’t usually get. No hype. No marketing spin. Just real opinions from the age group these parks are built for.Whether you’re planning a family vacation, searching for summer activities with kids, or wondering which water park is actually worth it, this episode offers practical insight straight from the source.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Motherhood isn’t a race—it’s a season, and you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.In this season finale, we unpack comparison, mom guilt, everyday growth, and the small moments that anchor you when life feels chaotic. If you need a breath of hope, perspective, and real talk—you’ll love this one.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana and Tessie get real about mom guilt, comparison culture, and the crushing mental load so many moms carry in silence. They break down why motherhood feels so heavy, how community and empathy can lighten the load, and why every mom deserves space to be honest about her struggles. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, judged, or just tired, this conversation will make you feel seen—and remind you that you’re never alone.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Who decided moms have to be beige? In this episode, we’re calling B.S. on the myth that motherhood makes you boring. From bold hair and side hustles to pole fitness and marathon goals, moms everywhere are rewriting what it means to “settle down.” Tune in as we talk identity, hobbies, style, and ambition—proof that motherhood didn’t make you basic, it made you limitless.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Diana grew up first-generation Chinese American in a tiny NYC apartment, surrounded by family, ambition, and big expectations. Career-driven and navigating cultural traditions, she faced failures like not passing her U.S. Medical Licensing Examination and became the first among her siblings to marry outside her culture. In this episode, Diana shares how she pivoted, embraced motherhood in unexpected ways, and learned what true resilience and privilege really look like.Full of laughs, NYC nostalgia, first-gen insights, and parenting reflections, this episode is for any mom balancing expectations while carving out a life and motherhood that feels authentic.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, host Diana flips the mic to co-host Tessie—who went from a free-range childhood in rural Arizona to raising (soon-to-be) five kids with heart, humor, and grit. Tessie shares how growing up with brothers, helping in her family’s business, and working in a homeless shelter shaped her confidence, compassion, and perspective as a mom. She opens up about her journey through motherhood, mental health work, and learning to build community while raising a big family.This is a real motherhood story about identity, resilience, and finding joy in the chaos. Whether you’re juggling toddlers or teens, you’ll laugh, nod, and maybe tear up a little too.Key Takeaways:Independence builds confidence and courage in motherhoodMotherhood reveals strength you didn’t know you hadCommunity and compassion matter more than perfectionA must-listen for any mom craving connection, laughter, and a reminder that there’s no one way to do this mom life.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Everyone says “it takes a village.” Cool. So… where is it?We’re calling out the loneliness of modern motherhood and talking about how to find your people in a world that glorifies doing it all alone. Listen in as we trade guilt for grace and isolation for real connection—because your village might be closer than you think.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Think your degree disappeared the day you became “Mom”? Think again. From biology majors decoding toddler rashes to English grads narrating Goodnight Moon like Broadway pros, this episode proves your education is alive and thrivingin motherhood. We’ll laugh, reframe “wasted potential,” and celebrate every mom using her skills in unexpected ways.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Tired of pretending to be the “always patient” mom? Tessie and Diana call out the myth that good moms never lose their cool. From gentle parenting guilt to real-life meltdowns, this episode gets honest, funny, and freeing. Patience is human—not perfect.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Ever eaten a cookie in the bathroom just to get a minute of peace? Same. In this wildly relatable episode, Tessie and Diana confess the hilarious lengths moms go to for alone time—and why we shouldn’t have to hide to get it. From the “17 minutes of free time” stat to secret mom hideouts, we’re calling it what it is: survival. Tune in, laugh hard, and send us your best mom hiding spots!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

What does it really mean when a mom says “I don’t work”? In this spicy and heartfelt Season 3 kickoff, Tessie and Diana unpack the assumptions, guilt, and hidden power behind stay-at-home motherhood. From identity crises to invisible labor, this episode reframes what ambition and purpose look like when your office is your living room. Featuring insights from Neha Ruch’s The Power Pause, this one will make you rethink what it means to “pause” with purpose. Perfect for moms navigating identity shifts, ambition, and self-worth. Follow @pomcasts on Instagram and join the conversation: “I don’t work, but…”💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Home Birth vs. Hospital Birth — The Unexpected, Hilarious, and Totally Unfiltered TruthIn this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana’s hospital birth took such a turn that the entire unit shut down, while Tessie’s home birth came with a clean-up scene straight out of a crime drama. We swap stories, compare pain scales, debate safety vs. comfort, and confess the moments no one puts in the glossy birth magazines.Whether you’re an epidural enthusiast or a home-birth believer, you’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe even rethink your “perfect” birth plan.Perfect for moms-to-be, birth story addicts, and anyone who loves a little drama with their delivery.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

One of us was told she was miscarrying—without test results. The other became a mom through IVF. From false alarms to fertility clinics, we're sharing real birth stories, motherhood journeys, and how there's no one way to become a mom. Perfect for listeners navigating TTC, IVF, or pregnancy curveballs.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Perfect moms don’t listen to this podcast—and we like it that way. We’re laughing through the mess, reframing the fails, and calling it growth. Forgot snack day? Lost the permission slip? Us too! Motherhood’s not a performance—it’s a beautifully chaotic ride. If you’ve ever felt like you’re messing it all up… you’re in the right place.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

She’s a mom of two, an Army vet, and works in HR at Amazon—but her story is anything but ordinary. With Nigerian, Caribbean, and UK roots, now a U.S. citizen, she opens up about identity, grit, and raising kids across cultures and continents. This episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and major inspo for any mom chasing purpose on her own terms.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Have you ever grabbed your phone—just to check one thing—but ended up missing a tender moment? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we dive into how those small scrolls can affect our kids’ behavior and connection, backed by real research and relatable mom stories. We also share simple, doable ways to reconnect—without tossing your phone out the window.🎧 Tune in for grace, honesty, and a reminder that looking up matters more than perfection.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

A cross-country flight. One fragile embryo. And the wait that changed everything. Diana shares the final chapter of her IVF journey—and the moment she let hope take root.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

After 13 years of heartbreak and early losses, Diana steps into IVF during a pandemic—with one embryo, and a quiet, fierce hope that this could finally be it. In Part I of The One That Stayed, she shares the raw beginning of her fertility journey—from grief to grit, and the decision to keep going when everything felt uncertain.7JpfWGBjpBtdrUgedBqr💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

“Perfectionism in Motherhood: Why We’re Retiring Our Capes (But Keeping the Coffee)” isn’t just a title—it’s our battle cry. In this episode, we trade in impossible standards for real-life stories, some hard-won wisdom, and a lot of laughter. From whispered midnight mantras to stepping on Legos barefoot, we’re sharing why presence beats perfection every single time.👉 Tune in and join us on Instagram @PoMCasts—because motherhood’s messy, but it’s better with company.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Fear is a natural part of childhood, but how do we help our kids face their fears with confidence? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re diving into why kids experience fear, how their brains process it (hello, amygdala hijack!), and how we as moms can gently guide them through it. We’ll explore expert-backed strategies, real-life stories, and practical tips to help your child navigate fears in a healthy way. Plus, we’ll highlight two must-read books—I Am Courage: A Book of Resilience by Susan Verde and The Big Slide by Daniel Kirk—to inspire bravery in little hearts. Don't forget to check out our blog for even more insights: From Scary to Smiley: Helping Our Kids Face Their Fears!🎧 Tune in now and let’s help our kids turn fear into confidence, one small step at a time!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Ready to unlock your child’s love language? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re diving into the playful world of hugs, high-fives, and words of affirmation to discover how your little one feels truly loved. We’ll break down the five love languages with fun stories, simple tips, and a challenge to decode your toddler’s love language. Tune in for a dose of hope, laughter, and a little bit of decoding magic to help you strengthen that heart-to-heart connection with your kiddo!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

To celebrate the completion of our first season, we’re bringing you this special bonus episode! Today, we’re diving into one of the most powerful forces in shaping the future: motherhood. A mother’s influence extends far beyond childhood, impacting confidence, relationships, career choices, and emotional well-being.We also want to take a moment to thank YOU—our incredible listeners—for your love and support throughout this journey. Your encouragement has made this season so special, and we’re beyond grateful to have you as part of our community. Stay tuned for more to come! 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Moms are expected to do it all—but no matter what we do, it somehow never feels like enough. From working moms to stay-at-home moms, from body image pressures to parenting styles, the unrealistic (and unfair) expectations placed on mothers are relentless.In this episode, we’re breaking down these double standards, sharing real stories, and having an honest conversation about how we can start pushing back against the impossible pressures of motherhood. And before we begin, here’s your reminder: You are enough. You are a good mom. Now, let’s talk about it. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

To Share or Not to Share? Moms everywhere face the question of whether to post their kids online or keep them private. In this episode, we explore both sides—the benefits of sharing, the concerns about privacy, and expert insights to help you decide what’s best for your family. No guilt, no judgment—just real talk about navigating motherhood in the digital age. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

As moms, we all want to raise kids who are confident, capable, and ready to take on the world—but let’s be honest, knowing when to step in and when to step back is one of the hardest parts of parenting. In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to raise resilient kids—kids who can handle challenges, solve problems, and navigate life with confidence.We’ll explore different parenting approaches, share expert insights, and have an open, judgment-free conversation about how to find the right balance between support and independence. Whether you believe in tough love, gentle parenting, or something in between—there’s no one right way to do this, just what works best for your family.We’re still figuring it out too, and we’re so glad you’re here to learn alongside us.  Grab your coffee (yes, even if it’s cold ), hit play, and let’s tackle this motherhood journey together! 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Motherhood is beautiful, but let’s be real—it’s also exhausting. Between sleepless nights, constant demands, and the never-ending to-do list, it’s easy to put yourself last. But here’s the truth: self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.In this episode, we’re talking about why taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your family. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or struggling to find time for you, this conversation is a must-listen. Let’s ditch the guilt and start making self-care a priority. You deserve it.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Having kids is one of the biggest transitions in life—not just for your daily routine but for your relationship, too. Parenthood can test even the strongest couples, shifting the dynamic from being two people in love to a team managing endless responsibilities. So, how do you stay connected through sleepless nights, diaper blowouts, and the overwhelming mental load?In this episode, we’re diving into the real changes that happen when you become parents, the challenges that arise, and, most importantly, how to keep your relationship strong through it all. Whether you’re expecting, a new parent, or years into the parenting journey, this is the conversation you need to hear.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

In today’s episode, we’re exploring why parenting books are great—but they shouldn’t be your only guide. While books offer expert advice, relying on them too much can make us feel like failures when things don’t go as planned (and let’s face it, they never do!). We’ll chat about how to balance book tips with your own instincts and why trusting yourself is key to raising your little one. It’s about Pearls Beyond the Pages!  Tune in for a reminder that the real treasure in parenting is mixing what you read with what you know works best for your family!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

In this episode, we’re breaking down the four parenting styles: from rule-enforcing “I said so” to the laid-back “you do you.” We’ll spill the pros, the cons, and the “wait, which one am I?” moments that come with each style. Whether you’re a bossy bear or a chill zebra, we’ll help you figure out where you land (spoiler: it’s probably a mix of all of them). Tune in for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of mom truth!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

In this episode, we dive into the world of mom judgment and why it’s time to break the cycle. We’ve all been there—whether it's judging other moms or feeling the sting of criticism ourselves. We’ll unpack the reasons behind the judgment, explore the impact it has on our confidence and community, and share tips on how to stop the cycle for good. Tune in for a dose of humor, honesty, and some serious mom-to-mom support!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Welcome to Pearls of Motherhood! In this episode, Tessie and Diana dive into the powerhouse role of moms and why running a family is like running a Fortune 500 company. From time management to crisis control, budgeting to negotiation, moms do it all—without the paycheck!We’ll explore how motherhood reshapes identity, the value of stay-at-home moms, and the deep skill set required to keep a household thriving. Plus, we break down what a mom’s salary should be. Spoiler: It’s a lot!Join us for real talk, laughter, and a celebration of the ultimate CEO: Mom.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls! 

Welcome to Pearls of Motherhood, a podcast that celebrates the highs, lows, and everything in between of the motherhood journey. In Episode 1, we’re laying the foundation for what’s to come, sharing the heart and vision behind our podcast, and setting the stage for stories, insights, and conversations that will inspire and empower every mom. Whether you're a new mom or a seasoned pro, this is your safe space to connect, learn, and find the pearls of wisdom that make motherhood so special. Join us as we begin this beautiful journey together!💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!