PURPOSE After Domestic Violence

In Episode 2 of our Freedom After DV series, Tina speaks to the invisible chains many of us still carry after leaving abuse. Through Scripture and personal insight, she walks through how to break free from the grip of fear, the lie of guilt, and the power of lingering control. What You’ll Learn: How fear operates spiritually—and how to resist it Why guilt is not from God How to recognize and reject lingering control The truth about who you are now: no longer a slave, but a daughter Key Scriptures: 2 Timothy 1:7 (TPT) Isaiah 54:17 (ESV) Romans 8:1 (TPT) Galatians 5:1 (TPT) Romans 8:15 (TPT) Psalm 34:4 (ESV) We’d love to Connect with YOU: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Please Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

This week on POWER After DV, Tina explores the difference between the world’s idea of freedom and the true spiritual freedom found only in Christ. Those of us who have experienced domestic violence often find ourselves free in body but still bound in spirit. But Jesus came to make you unquestionably free. What You’ll Learn: Why leaving abuse is just the beginning of freedom How Scripture defines freedom differently than the world What it means to walk in true spiritual liberty A reminder that your story is being re-storied by God Himself Key Scriptures: John 8:36 (TPT) Galatians 5:1 (TPT) Exodus 14:13–14 (ESV) Psalm 139:16 (ESV) We’d love to Connect with YOU: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Please Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

What do you do when the marriage is over, the court case is closed, and you’re left sitting in the quiet with the crushing thought: “I failed”? In this powerful episode of the POWER After DV podcast, we speak to the heart of every woman who wonders if her broken marriage disqualified her from God's love, her calling, or her future. You are not alone—and you are not a failure! In fact, YOU are exactly the kind of woman God loves to Re-Story! In this episode, you’ll hear: The lies the enemy tells women after divorce and abuse—and what God says instead Why brokenness isn’t the end, but the beginning of something new How to release shame and embrace your redemption story Encouraging biblical stories of women God used after heartbreak Scriptures to remind you that you are still chosen and still called Key Scriptures: Romans 8:1 Isaiah 61:1–3 Psalm 34:18 John 4 (The Woman at the Well) 2 Corinthians 12:9 Philippians 1:6 Joel 2:25 Micah 6:8 Isaiah 43:18–19 Jeremiah 29:11 God’s grace is not intimidated by your broken pieces. He sees you, He loves you, and He still has a plan for your life. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

You’ve left the fire. You’ve survived the abuse. But now something deeper is trying to take root. In this episode of the POWER After DV podcast, we’re talking about bitterness—how it grows, what it costs us, and how God calls us to uproot it and replace it with His truth. Whether you’re navigating the aftermath of divorce, custody battles, or a season of grief and betrayal, bitterness may be quietly growing underneath the surface. But you don’t have to let it. In this episode, you’ll hear: What bitterness really is—and how it starts with real pain Why it’s dangerous to your healing and your relationships How to identify it, uproot it, and plant something better Key Scriptures: Hebrews 12:15 Ephesians 4:31–32 Matthew 6:14–15 Isaiah 61:3 Psalm 139:23–24 Genesis 50:20 Romans 12:19 Philippians 4:7 Lamentations 3:19–23 This is for every woman who says, “I thought I was done hurting, but it still lingers.” God sees what’s beneath the surface, and He’s ready to heal it. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

If you feel like you’re walking through fire right now—emotionally, legally, or spiritually—you’re not alone. In this episode, we look at the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in Daniel 3 and how God met them in the fire, not just after it. Whether you’re facing a difficult custody battle, struggling with fear, or feeling overwhelmed by the weight of this season, there is comfort, strength, and truth waiting for you in the flames. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why God sometimes allows the fire but never abandons you in it How to recognize the fourth man in the fire—Jesus, standing with you Encouragement that you can come through this trial without the smell of smoke Scriptural promises that speak directly to your current storm Key Scriptures: Daniel 3:13–27 Isaiah 43:2 Psalm 34:18 Hebrews 13:5 Joel 2:25 Romans 8:28 Psalm 66:10–12 This episode is for every woman who feels like she’s doing everything right and still facing fire. You’re not being punished—you’re being purified. And you are never, ever alone. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

In this powerful episode of PURPOSE After DV, I’m putting the widely known Escalation of Violence Scale side-by-side with a tool I personally created: the Victim to Victory Scale, found in my POWER After DV Workbook. The Escalation of Violence Scale helps us recognize the progressive nature of abuse—how it often starts subtly and grows more dangerous over time. But that’s only one side of the story. My Victim to Victory Scale offers a new, hope-filled perspective. It’s a visual tool to help you recognize where you are on your healing journey and where God is calling you to go next. In this episode, we will: Walk through the stages of the Escalation of Violence Scale Introduce and explain each phase of the Victim to Victory Scale Reflect on what healing and restoration look like in real life Introduce a concept called "Re-Story" Whether you’re still in survival mode or finally starting to dream again, this episode will give you a language—and a ladder—for moving upward in God’s strength. Scripture Focus: 📖 “He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” – Psalm 40:2 (NIV) Here is the link to the scales free pdf: Escalation of Violence and my Victim to Victory Scales Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.    

In this follow-up episode, I switch hats and share my experience at the 2025 Called to Peace Survivor Healing Retreat as a people helper—attorney, author, and vendor. While I came to support survivors with legal insight and healing resources, God had even more in store. You’ll hear: What it was like to offer support from the other side of the table Golden nuggets from women hungry for both justice and Jesus God's presence and His love for His daughters If you’re a ministry leader, counselor, attorney, advocate, or just someone who wants to help survivors in meaningful ways, this episode will encourage and equip you. Mentioned in this episode: Called to Peace Ministries Training for People Helpers Loads of Scripture verses to take with you to the Courtroom Let’s keep the conversation going: Leave a review or tag me on social with your thoughts. And if you’re a fellow people helper—let’s connect!

In this heartfelt episode, I share my personal journey as a survivor of domestic violence attending the 2025 Called to Peace Ministries Survivor Healing Retreat. Set against the beautiful backdrop of Lake Junaluska, this retreat was a sacred space of safety, restoration, and powerful reminders that our Redeemer sees, hears, and heals. I’ll walk you through moments of breakthrough, powerful teaching from keynote speaker Leslie Vernick, and the deeply personal ways God met me in worship, creativity, and community. Whether you're early in your healing journey or walking alongside someone who is, I pray this episode brings hope, encouragement, and the gentle reminder that your healing matters—and it’s not over yet. Mentioned in this episode: Psalm 55:18 – He rescues me unharmed from the battle waged against me. Called to Peace Ministries: www.calledtopeace.org Leslie Vernick: www.leslievernick.com Subscribe, share, and leave a review! Know someone who needs to hear this message? Please forward this episode and help them find hope today.

In this special episode, I’m putting on my attorney hat again for the first half of our conversation to walk you through step-parent adoption — what it means legally, how it works, and what families should know when walking this path. Then, we shift into a powerful spiritual truth: you, my sweet sister, have been adopted by God. Whether you're navigating the legal system or simply searching for a place to belong, this episode is a reminder of your worth, your identity, and your inheritance in Christ. We’ll explore what Scripture says about our adoption into God's family — how it’s not only a change of legal status, but a declaration of love. Key Scriptures: Romans 8:15 Galatians 4:4–7 Ephesians 1:5 John 1:12 Legal Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I am not your attorney. The legal content in this episode is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice or establish an attorney-client relationship. Listen now to be reminded that you are chosen, loved, and never alone. For more information about PURPOSE Law Firm please visit our website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com For more information about PURPOSE Courses please visit our website at https://purposeafterdv.com

After the storm, you get to rebuild your life—and that includes protecting your future. In this episode, I walk you through estate planning basics specifically for women who’ve experienced domestic violence and are starting fresh after divorce.  I also cover what to do before filing for divorce, what you can and can't do once the divorce has been filed, and what to do once your divorce is final. Learn why estate planning is an act of empowerment, what documents you may need, and how to start building a legacy of strength for your children and future generations. Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/

Divorce and custody don’t always have to be a battleground. In this episode, we’re talking about mediation—what it is, when it’s helpful, and how it can provide a more peaceful path forward for women overcoming domestic violence. I’ll also introduce you to my “PURSUE with PURPOSE” program that helps you walk in wisdom, clarity, and strength as you deal with an attorney who may not understand the dynamics of domestic violence. Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/  

In this powerful episode, I put on my attorney hat and speak directly to women navigating the painful realities of divorce and custody battles while overcoming domestic violence. I walk you through the the importance of finding an attorney who understands the dynamics of domestic violence in a way that’s practical and empowering—because you deserve to know your rights and options. We’ll also discuss how to approach these situations with both wisdom and strength. Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/

In this foundational episode, we unpack the meaning behind the acronym POWER and how each letter serves as a stepping stone toward healing, wholeness, and freedom after domestic violence. From reclaiming your spiritual authority to engaging in true restoration, this episode will encourage, equip, and empower you to rise. POWER = P – Powerful O – Overcoming W – Women E – Engaging in R – Restoration Reflection Question: Which letter in the POWER acronym speaks to you the most? 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

In this episode, Becca joins me once again to unpack the final stretch of Mara’s journey—and what it means for your story. We dive into the last four steps of the Story Brand framework and how they paint a powerful picture of what’s possible when we stop just surviving and start stepping fully into the life God is calling us to. Together, we reflect on: 💥 The call to action – what it really means to say yes to healing, growth, and purpose 🌱 The consequences of not stepping forward—and why staying stuck isn't harmless 🕊️ What success looks like when we embrace our God-given identity 🦋 Mara’s complete transformation—from survivor to soaring daughter of the King 🔥 The anointing to set the captives free—and why that mission matters now more than ever Whether you’ve been with us since Episode 1 or you’re just jumping in, this conversation will remind you: Your story isn’t over. You are not disqualified. There is still so much more ahead. 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 💬 Let’s Connect: What part of Mara’s story spoke most to you? Reach out, share your takeaway, or ask a question—we’re here to walk with you. 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

🦋 You were made for more. 🦋 In this powerful episode, we complete Mara’s journey—bringing together everything we’ve covered in the StoryBrand framework. Mara’s transformation is your transformation—from a woman trapped in survivor mode to a strong, beautiful, confident, woman of God. Like a caterpillar, you may have spent years crawling through life, simply surviving. Maybe you’ve felt trapped in a cocoon, unsure if freedom is really possible. But God’s plan for you has always been greater—you were meant to fly. In this episode, we’ll cover: ✔️ How Mara moved from survivor mode to walking in total freedom ✔️ The biblical process of shifting from brokenness to wholeness ✔️ How YOU can take your next step toward total freedom 💡 Your butterfly moment is coming...  Your Next Step: It’s time to stop crawling and start soaring!!! 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

Your story doesn’t end in survival—it ends in freedom! In this episode of the StoryBrand series, we are talking about what true success looks like: complete freedom from the effects of domestic violence and stepping boldly into your God-given purpose. We’ll discuss: ✅ What it really means to break out of survivor mode ✅ How God’s promises guarantee your success when you trust Him ✅ The anointing to set the captives free (Isaiah 61:1) and why your healing and freedom isn’t just for you ✅ How your PURPOSE is waiting on you—and so are the people God has called you to impact If you’ve ever doubted whether true freedom is possible for you, this episode is your reminder that God has so much more for you. You are not just healed—you are anointed. You are not just redeemed—you are called. It’s time to step into the life God created you for! 📖 Scriptures Mentioned: Isaiah 61:1 – The anointing to set captives free Jeremiah 29:11 – God's plans for your future John 8:36 – Who the Son sets free is free indeed Romans 8:37 – You are more than a conqueror 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

Have you ever considered that staying stuck in survival mode after domestic violence isn’t just painful—it’s disobedience? In this episode, we dive deep into Isaiah 30:1, where God warns against making plans outside of His will. If we allow the effects of domestic violence to keep us from our God-given purpose, we are aligning with the enemy’s lies instead of stepping into the freedom God has for us. What’s at stake if we don’t take action? The risk isn’t just personal—it’s generational. If we don’t break free, our children may never see what walking in healing and purpose truly looks like. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why purpose is not optional—it’s a divine assignment. (Jeremiah 29:11, Ephesians 2:10) How survival mode keeps us trapped in the enemy’s cycle instead of God’s plan. (John 10:10) Why disobedience brings bondage, but obedience brings freedom. (James 4:17) How to step out of fear and into faith so you can fully embrace God’s calling. Your Next Step: Start aligning your plans with God's plans!!! 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

Today, we focus on the next step in the StoryBrand framework—calling the hero to action. You will never take action unless you are challenged, and the stakes are high. Healing, purpose, and legacy are all at stake, but so is the future example we set for our children. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: Why action is key in overcoming domestic violence and stepping into the life God has for you. The importance of a clear plan to move from survivor mode to thriving in purpose. A breakdown of the 4 actionable steps you can take to start your journey today, including downloading my freebie, grabbing the Proverbs 26:2 Bundle, and diving into my book, workbook, and our POWER After DV programs. A compelling invitation to take the next step toward true freedom and healing. Key Scriptures Mentioned: Matthew 7:7 - “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” Isaiah 41:10 - “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Proverbs 3:5-6 - “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Your Next Step: Start the healing journey today by following the action steps shared in this episode. It’s time to reclaim your life, your purpose, and your legacy. 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

In today’s episode, Becca is joining me to reflect on the first four episodes of this series. We dive deep into the StoryBrand journey we’ve been walking through together and discuss the powerful insights that have emerged along the way. If you’ve been following this series, this episode will help you process what you’ve learned so far and solidify your next steps. Here’s what we cover in this conversation: Episode 1: The Hero’s Journey – Why understanding your story is the first step to transformation. Episode 2: Identifying the Problem – How recognizing the real enemy (the devil) empowers us to break free. Episode 3: Finding the Guide – The importance of mentorship, biblical guidance, and learning from those who’ve walked the road before us. Episode 4: The Power of a Plan – Why having a clear, God-ordained roadmap makes all the difference. This is a heartfelt, real conversation about the challenges, victories, and revelations that come with healing from domestic violence and stepping into God’s freedom and healing.  Reflection: Take a moment to reflect on where you are in this journey. What has stood out the most to you? How will you take action in the coming weeks?   Your Next Step: If you haven’t yet, make sure to download the freebie and take your first step toward freedom! 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

In this episode, we dive into the next step of the Story Brand framework—Who gives them a plan. As we continue the journey to break free from survivor mode, we’ll explore the importance of clarity and how a well-defined plan removes uncertainty and fear from your healing process. You’ll learn: Why God is a God of order, not chaos, and how He has provided clear, structured plans for His people throughout Scripture. The specific instructions God gave Noah when building the ark, and how these can serve as a blueprint for your journey to freedom. The four steps in the PURPOSE Pyramid (POWER After DV level) and how they guide you step-by-step through healing. How a good plan brings clarity and removes the risk of stepping into the unknown. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why following a plan is crucial to your healing journey, and how God has already laid out a path for you—one that leads to freedom, purpose, and restoration. Your Next Step: 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today. 🔜 Next Episode Preview: Next week Becca will be joining us to discuss the Hero, the villain and the problem, the guide and the plan.

Every hero needs a guide. If you’ve experienced domestic violence and feel stuck in survivor mode, you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. In this episode, I introduce the role of a guide—someone who has walked the path before you and can help you move forward with clarity, faith, and purpose. I share my personal journey of overcoming domestic violence and explain why I am here to guide you toward the life God has called you to live. Using biblical examples like Naomi & Ruth, Paul & Timothy, and Moses & Joshua, we’ll explore how mentorship, encouragement, and wisdom can transform your healing journey. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to take the next step toward healing and purpose—this is it. Let’s walk this journey together. 🎧 Listen now and discover how to break free from survivor mode! In This Episode, You’ll Learn: ✔️ Why every hero needs a guide to help them move forward. ✔️ How my personal experience equips me to guide you. ✔️ Biblical examples of mentor/mentee relationships and why they matter. ✔️ The key to breaking free from survivor mode and stepping into your God-given calling. 🙌 You are not alone. You have a guide who understands, and you have a God who redeems. Let’s take the next step together! Your Next Step: 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today. 🔜 Next Episode Preview: Every great guide has plan. In the next episode, we will discuss why clarity is so important in your journey to freedom, and how a well-defined plan removes the fear of the unknown.

Every hero faces an obstacle—and every story has a villain. If you’ve ever felt trapped in survivor mode, unable to step into the calling God has placed on your life, you’re not alone. But the reason you feel stuck might not be what you think. In this episode, we uncover the real battle keeping you from moving forward. The enemy—the devil—wants to steal your identity, kill your purpose, and destroy your hope (John 10:10). But God has called you to more than just survival. We’ll break down: 🔹 The external challenge: Your past experience with domestic violence. 🔹 The internal struggle: Knowing you’re called by God but feeling stuck. 🔹 The philosophical truth: God does not want His daughters in survivor mode. The lies of the enemy will keep you bound, but God’s truth sets you free. Join me as we identify these lies, replace them with scripture, and prepare to move from survival to PURPOSE. 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today. 🔜 Next Episode Preview: Every hero needs a guide. In the next episode, we’ll introduce the One who leads you from brokenness to PURPOSE.

Every great story begins with a hero facing challenges—and in this series, that hero is you. In today’s episode, we introduce Building a Story Brand by Donald Miller and explore how understanding your own story can lead to transformation. We’ll meet our fictional hero, Mara, inspired by Naomi’s story in the Bible—a woman who experienced deep loss and called herself bitter. If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode, struggling to reclaim your identity, this episode will speak to your heart. Join me as we walk through Naomi’s story, connect it to your own journey, and prepare for the next step—understanding the real challenges you face and how to overcome them. 🎁 Free Resource: Download The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share: If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe and share it with a friend who needs hope today. 🔜 Next Episode Preview: Next time, we’ll talk about the problem—every hero faces obstacles. What’s keeping you stuck? Let’s uncover it together.

In this special 1-year anniversary episode of PURPOSE After DV, we take a moment to reflect on the journey so far. Join me as I recap highlights from each episode, share personal insights from my current season of life, and anticipate what God might have in store for the podcast in 2025. From empowering women to overcome the effects of domestic violence to guiding them toward discovering their God-given PURPOSE, we celebrate the growth and transformation that’s taken place. This milestone episode is a reminder that God is faithful in every season, and the best is yet to come. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

In this episode of PURPOSE After DV, we take a deep dive into God’s definition of love, focusing on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and Ephesians 4:2. We compare and contrast God’s idea of love with the distorted version found in abusive relationships, highlighting how these scriptures can serve as a litmus test for identifying healthy versus harmful relationships. Discover how true, godly love is marked by patience, kindness, humility, and truth, and learn why love is never meant to tolerate abuse. Whether you’re seeking to strengthen a relationship, evaluate its health, or find hope after experiencing domestic violence, this episode offers biblical insight and encouragement for your journey. Key Discussion Points: Understanding God’s Love (1 Corinthians 13:4-7): How godly love is patient, kind, and rejoices in the truth. The contrast between true love and abusive behaviors like pride, selfishness, and manipulation. Ephesians 4:2 and Relationships: What humility, gentleness, patience, and selfless love look like in a godly relationship. Why women in abusive relationships are not called to endure harm and how seeking safety aligns with God’s Word. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

In this episode of PURPOSE After DV, we explore the profound truth about hope as described in Scripture. Far from being wishful thinking or blind optimism, biblical hope is a gift from God, poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, and an anchor that keeps us steady in life’s storms. Whether you’re in a season of struggle or simply seeking encouragement, this episode will help you anchor your soul in God’s promises. Key Scriptures from Today’s Episode: Romans 15:13 – "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope." Hebrews 6:19 – "We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure." Highlights and Takeaways: Hope as a Gift: God, as the "God of hope," fills us with joy and peace as we trust in Him, making hope a divine gift rather than something we have to create on our own. Hope as an Anchor: Just as an anchor steadies a ship in a storm, hope keeps us grounded in God’s promises, no matter how chaotic life feels. The Role of the Holy Spirit: The Holy Spirit empowers us to abound in hope, even when circumstances feel hopeless. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

As we step into a new year, this episode dives into the power of faith and how God wants to transform your life. Drawing from key scriptures like Hebrews 11:1 (“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see”) and James 2:26 (“Faith without works is dead”), we explore what it means to trust God fully, even when the path ahead feels uncertain. I’ll share my personal journey of faith—how God led me to write POWER After DV, a book that became a testament to His healing and redemptive power. Whether you’re recovering from domestic violence or navigating other challenges, this episode is a reminder that faith can be the bridge between your pain and God’s purpose. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The biblical definition of faith and why it’s the foundation of our walk with God. How to align your faith with action as you pursue healing and purpose. Encouragement for women who’ve experienced domestic violence, with a focus on God’s transformative power. Insights into my personal story of writing POWER After DV as an act of faith. Reflection Questions: What areas of my life require me to trust God more fully? Am I actively living out my faith, or have I become complacent? Connect with Me: Website: https://purposeafterdv.com POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Bible Reading Plan: Start your new year with my Daily Bible Reading Plan available on my website! Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement as they step into a new year of faith and transformation.

Welcome to the first episode of 2025 on PURPOSE After DV! In this inspiring and practical episode, we dive into a new year with a fresh focus on building godly habits through daily Bible reading. Tina introduces her Daily Bible Reading Plan with PURPOSE—designed to help women reflect on God’s Word daily and experience spiritual transformation throughout the year. Learn why New Year’s resolutions often fail and how committing to a Bible Reading Plan leads to lasting, meaningful change. Together, we explore Psalm 119:105, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path,” and discuss how God’s Word can illuminate your journey and provide clarity for each step. If you're ready to leave behind fleeting resolutions and embrace a deeper connection with God in 2025, this episode is for you! What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The key differences between New Year’s resolutions and a Bible Reading Plan. A deeper understanding of Psalm 119:105 and its relevance to your walk with God. How to join Tina’s Daily Bible Reading Plan with PURPOSE and receive guidance, encouragement, and accountability throughout the year. Practical tips for starting small, staying consistent, and letting God’s Word transform your daily life. Key Scriptures: Psalm 119:105 – “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” Resources Mentioned: Daily Bible Reading Plan with PURPOSE: Sign up to receive the plan directly to your inbox at https://purposeafterdv.com/2025bible662668 The Bible Tina uses every day: https://amzn.to/4gL7ceK Please note, I do get a small commission when you purchase this Bible through my affiliate link. If this episode blessed you, please leave a review and share it with someone who needs encouragement. Together, let’s embrace a new year and a new you in Christ!

In this final episode of the December mini-series for PURPOSE After DV, we focus on PASSION After DV, the next step in walking out your God-given PURPOSE. If you've experienced freedom from the effects of domestic violence, found your PURPOSE, and created a plan to walk it our, now it's time to walk in the PASSION and resources God has prepared for you. In this episode, we explore the powerful verses of 2 Kings 4:2 and Galatians 5:1, which highlight the importance of resources and freedom in fulfilling your calling. Plus, we dive into Isaiah 30:1, discussing how to avoid the trap of seeking wisdom and plans apart from God’s guidance. Learn how being part of a Mastermind and linking arms with other like-minded strong, beautiful, confident women of God can help you step into your PURPOSE with PASSION, knowing that God’s provision and freedom are with you every step of the way. Key Takeaways: Discover how to embrace God’s provision of resources for your calling. Understand the importance of freedom in walking out your purpose. Explore the biblical connection between passion and purpose. Learn practical ways to seek God’s guidance and align your plans with His will. Tune in for a transformative episode as we dive deep into how to walk confidently in the PASSION God has given you, and how His resources and freedom are key to fulfilling your purpose. ******* Connect with me for coaching and support at www.purposeafterdv.com Be sure to subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help spread the message of hope and empowerment!  

In this episode of PURPOSE After DV, we continue our December mini-series, reflecting on the past year and vision casting for the year ahead. Today’s focus is on PATHWAY After DV, my Christian Life Coaching program designed to help women who have experienced domestic violence and have found their God-given PURPOSE to create a plan to walk it out. We dive deep into the powerful concepts of responsibility and future, anchored in Ezra 10:4 and Jeremiah 29:11. Together, we explore what it means to walk the PATHWAY God has for us and how PATHWAY After DV equips you to take those steps with courage and clarity. Throughout this episode, we’ll unpack Scriptures like Proverbs 3:5-6, Psalm 119:105, and Philippians 3:13-14, offering practical insights and encouragement for staying aligned with God’s plan for your life. You’ll learn how to trust God’s guidance, persevere through challenges, and find peace in His perfect PATHWAY for you. Key Takeaways: What responsibility means in walking out your purpose (Ezra 10:4). Understanding God’s promise of a hopeful future (Jeremiah 29:11). How PATHWAY After DV helps you create a plan to fulfill your calling. Insights from Scripture on trusting, persevering, and staying focused on God’s path. Listen Now: Discover how to embrace God’s PATHWAY for your life and take meaningful steps toward your God-given PURPOSE. ******* Connect with me for coaching and support at www.purposeafterdv.com Be sure to subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help spread the message of hope and empowerment!

In this week’s episode of PURPOSE After DV, we continue our December mini-series on reflecting on the past year and vision casting for the year ahead. Today, we’re diving into the heart of what PURPOSE After DV is all about: helping women who have found freedom from domestic violence uncover their God-given PURPOSE and step boldly into the life He has designed for them. We explore two key scriptures: Jeremiah 30:3 – The promise of restoration and how God is faithful to rebuild what has been broken. Matthew 7:24 – The importance of building your life on the solid foundation of God’s Word. But we don’t stop there! We also uncover additional scriptures that reveal how God speaks to our purpose, such as: Ephesians 2:10 – We are His masterpiece, created for good works. Jeremiah 29:11 – His plans for us are good, filled with hope and a future. Proverbs 19:21 – God's purpose will prevail. Through these passages, we reflect on how PURPOSE After DV guides you to: Experience restoration in your life. Build a strong foundation rooted in faith. Discover and live out your unique calling, glorifying God in every season. Reflection Questions: How has God been restoring you this year? What areas of your life need a stronger foundation? What passions or gifts might God be calling you to use for His glory? Whether you’re rebuilding after a storm or ready to step into your next chapter, this episode will encourage and equip you to move forward in faith. Tune in now, and let’s journey together toward your God-given PURPOSE! ******* Follow my PURPOSE Courses Facebook page and watch the video I posted from Dr. Myles Munroe at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/  Connect with me for coaching and support at www.purposeafterdv.com Be sure to subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help spread the message of hope and empowerment!

In this powerful episode of PURPOSE After DV, we reflect on the transformative journey of healing through the lenses of repentance and forgiveness, guided by two key scriptures: Acts 26:20 and Matthew 6:14-15. Repentance invites us to turn away from the pain and destructive patterns of the past, embracing God’s purpose and a life of freedom. Forgiveness, though challenging, is the key to unlocking peace, joy, and deeper intimacy with God. Together, we’ll explore: What true repentance looks like and how it can transform your life. The vital role of forgiveness in healing and how it frees you from the hold of bitterness. The spiritual, emotional, and physical consequences of withholding forgiveness. Practical steps to walk in repentance and extend forgiveness, even in the face of deep wounds. Key Scriptures: Acts 26:20 (AMP) – The call to turn to God and live a life that reflects true repentance. Matthew 6:14-15 (AMP) – The necessity of forgiveness to receive God’s grace fully. Takeaway: Forgiveness isn’t about excusing the hurt—it’s about releasing yourself from its power. Repentance and forgiveness are the twin keys to living victoriously, stepping into your God-given purpose with peace and freedom. Resources Mentioned: POWER After DV – My book on healing and empowerment after domestic violence. Connect with me for coaching and support at www.purposeafterdv.com Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help others find this message of hope and healing!

In this first episode of the December mini-series on the PURPOSE After DV Podcast, we dive into the power of reflection and vision casting as essential tools for growth and healing. Far from being a "woowoo" concept, vision casting is deeply rooted in God’s Word, as seen in Habakkuk 2:2: “Write the vision and make it plain.” Together, we’ll explore: Why reflecting on the past year is crucial for healing, growth, and clarity. How to embrace vision casting as a God-ordained practice for aligning your life with His purpose. Practical tips for creating a clear, actionable vision for the year ahead. An introduction to the PURPOSE Pyramid and the first "P" we’ll focus on in this mini-series, PROMISE. Key Scripture: Habakkuk 2:2 – Writing the vision to make it clear and actionable in your life. Takeaway: Reflection brings wisdom, and vision casting brings direction. As we walk through this month, we’ll unpack each step in the PURPOSE Pyramid, empowering you to step into the new year with clarity, confidence, and God’s guidance. Resources Mentioned: POWER After DV – My book on healing and living in your God-given purpose. Connect with me for coaching and support at www.purposeafterdv.com Be sure to subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help spread the message of hope and empowerment!

How can we bring faith to the areas that shape our world? In this episode, I explore The Seven Mountain Prophecy, which reveals how we’re called to impact culture—from Family and Education to Arts and Business. Tune in as we unpack each “mountain” and learn how to align our PURPOSE with God’s vision for a transformed world. ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses

🎙️ Special Guest Alert! Today, we’re joined by Megan B. Nilsen, author of Untangled Faith, for an honest conversation on finding faith and clarity amid life’s challenges. Together, we discuss healing, resilience, and the beauty of an unshakeable faith. Don’t miss this heartfelt episode with powerful insights on letting go and growing stronger in faith. ******* Find Megan on her website at https://meganbnilsen.com/ You can find everything Megan and I discussed on her website, from her books and podcast as well as the bookmark and guided journaling podcast both in her free resources under the studies & events tab.

In this episode, we discuss The Four Keys to Hearing God's Voice by Mark and Patti Virkler, exploring how this book can help us build a closer relationship with God through clear, intentional communication. We’ll discuss the four keys to recognizing God’s voice, the importance of listening with an open heart, and the ways this book aligns with our mission of discovering PURPOSE and deepening our relationship with God. Join me as we uncover practical, life-changing techniques to deepen your faith and hear God’s guidance in your life. ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses  

In this first episode of November, I'm excited to introduce the "coming soon" to our website: PURPOSE Library—a curated collection of powerful, faith-based books designed to help listeners grow spiritually, heal from past trauma, and discover their God-given PURPOSE in life. In this episode, we’ll dive into why reading and being a forever learner are essential, share statistics on the transformative impact of reading, and highlight some key books, including my own, POWER After DV. This series marks a shift from POWER After DV to PURPOSE After DV, reflecting a journey from healing to fulfilling our PURPOSE in Christ. ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses  

When we think of the first sin, we often picture Eve eating the forbidden fruit. But what if the true root of humanity’s fall was found in Adam’s disobedience? God gave Adam a direct command to protect and lead, yet he chose to remain passive. Instead of stepping in to protect Eve, Adam willingly disobeyed God’s instruction, leading to the separation between humanity and God. Join me as I explore how understanding Adam’s role brings fresh insight into the meaning of sin and the depth of God’s redemptive love! ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses  

Join me today as I discuss some key points about Adam and Eve and how the Fall led to the dynamics that contribute to domestic violence. I also dive deeper into the sin in the Garden of Eden and its implications in terms of responsibility, roles, and the breakdown that led to domestic violence. ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses  

Join Becca and me today as we recognize Domestic Violence Awareness month, discuss wrapping up our first in person session leading some amazing women through POWER After DV and a surprise revelation about the Mama Bear Anointing. ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses

This week I am so honored to have as my guest Jane Yorn from Safe Passage, Inc.  Listen in today as we discuss our pilot group discussing POWER After DV. Visit the Safe Passage website at https://safepassageinc.org/ Also visit the Domestic Shelters website that Jane mentioned in our conversation at https://www.domesticshelters.org/ ******* Please like, share and subscribe to this podcast. Visit our website at www.purposeafterdv.com Enroll in our free Proverbs 26:2 Bundle to begin your journey... It would also bless me indeed if you would follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses  

Join me today to discuss how far we have come and what's coming up next. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle

In this weeks episode I share a teaching about divorce.   "And I saw [that even though Judah knew] that for all the acts of adultery (idolatry) of faithless Israel, I [the Lord] had [a]sent her away and given her a certificate of divorce..." [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Jeremiah%203&version=AMP] God created divorce to give you an escape plan from an abusive marriage!!! Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle

In today's podcast Becca and I wrap up this series on my POWER After DV Book. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle

In today's podcast Becca and I chat about post separation abuse. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle

In today's podcast Becca and I chat about spiritual abuse. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle  

In today's podcast Becca and I chat about technology abuse. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle  

In today's podcast Becca and I chat about legal abuse. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle  

In today's podcast Becca and I chat about financial abuse. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle  

In today's podcast Becca and I chat about psychological abuse. Join the free version of our POWER After DV Membership & Christian Life Coaching Program anytime!  Sign up here: https://purposeafterdv.com/powerbasicbundle