Someone Had To Say It

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Someone Had To Say It

From Love, Faith and Family to navigating the chaos of modern life, we tackle the topics that everyone's thinking about but no one wants to say out loud!This is Someone Had To Say It with LA & Tope Doks.

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    THE MARRIAGE BOYCOTT | WHY YOUNG PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OF GETTING MARRIED

    Is this generation genuinely afraid of marriage — or are they just being realistic?In this episode of Someone Had to Say It, LA and Temitope get into one of the most honest conversations young people need to hear. They break down why so many people are avoiding marriage, whether society's definition of a "proper wedding" is setting couples up to start in debt, and what actually getting married on a budget looks like in practice.They also end on something people rarely talk about — the real, underrated benefits of marriage that nobody puts on their vision board.If you're in a relationship and marriage feels scary, expensive, or just far away, this one is for you.🎙️ Topics covered:Why young people are genuinely afraid of marriage todayThe financial pressure of weddings and who it's really servingPractical advice for couples looking to marry on a limited budgetThe benefits of marriage worth actually looking forward toListen on Youtube, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you get your podcasts.🔔 Subscribe so you don't miss the next one.

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    THE STRUGGLE TO MAKE IT BEFORE 30| ARE WE AGING PEOPLE OUT BEFORE THEIR TIME?

    Somewhere between Instagram highlight reels and unsolicited timeline advice, turning 30 became a crisis. In this episode, Olaoluwa and Temitope unpack one of the most unnecessary sources of anxiety in a generation — the idea that if you haven't figured it all out by 30, you're somehow behind, late, or running out of time.In this episode we discuss:Why do people act like turning 30 is entering senior citizenship?How much of the "I'm already old" narrative is actually a social media creation?Why do we celebrate people who make it early — but quietly ignore late bloomers with equally remarkable stories?Is it even fair to expect a 25-year-old to have the results, the clarity, and the composure of someone twice their age?This episode is for you if:You've ever felt behind simply because someone your age seems further aheadYou're in your 20s or 30s carrying anxiety about a timeline nobody actually agreed toYou know someone who needs permission to stop panicking about their ageYou've celebrated an early success story but never stopped to ask what the pressure behind it cost🎧 Listen on :🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/J-taZteR5wUAre you where you thought you'd be at your age — and does it actually matter? Tell us in the comments.Someone Had to Say It — honest conversations about faith, culture, and the things most people think but never say out loud.#Is30TheNew60 #SomeonHadToSayIt #TurningThirty #LateBloomer #GenerationalAnxiety #SocialMediaPressure #NigerianPodcast #AgeAndSuccess #AfricanMillennials #YoungAndFiguredOut

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    GENDER STEREOTYPES | UNLEARNING WHAT SOCIETY TOLD US ABOUT MEN AND WOMEN

    GENDER STEREOTYPES | Unlearning What We Were Taught About Men & WomenWe didn't choose the scripts we were handed about what it means to be a man or a woman — but we've been living by them anyway. In this episode, Olaoluwa and Temitope get honest about the gender stereotypes they grew up with, the ones they've had to unlearn, and the ones they're determined not to pass down to their daughters.In this episode we discuss:The most common gender stereotypes people still believe — and where they actually come fromGender roles in the home — do they serve us or limit us?The stereotypes we're consciously choosing not to pass down to our childrenA honest look at the claims in Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus — true, false, or more complicated than that?Do women really verbalise emotions more while men internalise?Do men withdraw under stress while women seek connection?Do women need to feel loved while men need to feel useful — or is that too simple?This episode is for you if:You've ever felt boxed in by expectations tied to your genderYou're raising children and thinking carefully about what you model for themYou've had the "gender roles" argument with your spouse and nobody quite wonYou loved Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus — or strongly disagreed with it📺 Watch on YouTube: 🎙️ Apple Podcasts: Where do you land on gender roles in the home? Drop your take in the comments — we want to know.Someone Had to Say It — honest conversations about faith, marriage, and the things most people think but never say out loud.#GenderStereotypes #MarriageAndFamily #SomeonHadToSayIt #MenAndWomen #GenderRoles #MenAreFromMarsWomenAreFromVenus #Parenting #AfricanMarriage #FaithAndFamily #UnlearnAndRelearn

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    CHURCH OR SOCIAL CLUB | IS THE MEGA-CHURCH EXPERIENCE REAL WORSHIP OR JUST REALLY GOOD LIGHTING?

    Is church still about God… or has it quietly become about us?From curated outfits to post-service photos, from powerful worship moments to perfectly captured aesthetics — somewhere along the line, the lines may have started to blur.In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about modern church culture:Are we chasing presence or just presentation?When did worship start feeling like a performance?Is community becoming more about cliques than Christ?And how do we find our way back to authentic faith?This isn’t an attack on the church — it’s a call to reflect.Because if everything external was stripped away…Would our hunger for God remain the same?Join the conversation:Have you ever felt pressure to “look the part” in church?What does real worship mean to you?Drop your thoughts in the comments 👇📌 If this challenged or helped you:Like 👍Subscribe 🔔Share with someone who needs this conversation🎧 New episodes every other week

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    SOFT LIFE OR FAKE LIFE? THE PRESSURE TO LOOK SUCCESSFUL

    In this episode of Someone Had to Say It, Olaoluwa and Temitope tackle one of the most talked-about and least honestly discussed cultural shifts of our time: the "soft life."Everyone wants it. Everyone's posting it. But is it actually real?We unpack the growing obsession with appearing successful, from curated social media lifestyles to the subtle social pressure to always look like you're winning. Because somewhere between aspiration and authenticity, a lot of people got lost. And the cost of keeping up the performance? Higher than most people want to admit.We go deep on why the soft life started as a pursuit of peace and how it quietly became just another standard to perform for.In this episode, we discuss:The difference between genuine success and performative successHow social media rewired our expectations of wealth and lifestyleWhy so many people feel pressured to look like they're winningThe emotional and financial cost of chasing appearancesHow to pursue success without losing yourself in the processThis episode is for you if:You've ever posted something online that didn't fully reflect your realityYou feel quietly exhausted by the pressure to look like you have it togetherYou're wondering whether the life you're chasing is actually yoursYou're a Christian navigating ambition, contentment, and authenticity in modern cultureLISTEN ON:Youtube - https://youtu.be/C2HLny9N8SMApple Podcasts📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.pod💬 Let us know in the comments:Do you think the soft life movement is freedom… or just another form of pressure?Someone Had to Say It is a podcast about culture, relationships, faith, and modern life, honest conversations for people who are done with surface-level answers.#SoftLife #PerformativeSuccess #SomeonHadToSayIt #ChristianPodcast #NigerianPodcast #AfricanDiaspora #FaithAndCulture #AuthenticLiving #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianCouples #ModernLife #SocialMediaCulture #ContentmentOverPerformance #HonestConversations #MarriageAndFaith

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    FROM HARD MEN TO SOFT MEN: GENTLE OR WEAK GENERATION?

    In this episode of Someone Had to Say It, Olaoluwa and Temitope sit down for one of the most important conversations happening right now: the rise of the "soft man." We're not here to throw stones — we're here to ask the questions most people are too afraid to ask out loud.Are men today becoming emotionally intelligent, or are they simply responding to a world where traditional male dominance is fading? Is the gentleness we're seeing genuine growth, or a survival mechanism dressed up as emotional maturity?We go deep on why women say they want sensitive, emotionally available men — and why that same sensitivity can quietly kill attraction over time. We talk about toxic masculinity, unlearning generational trauma, and whether the pendulum has swung too far in the other direction.In this episode, we discuss:What "soft" actually means — and why the definition mattersWhether emotional intelligence in men is growth or a reaction to lost powerWhy women lose attraction to the sensitive men they claim to wantThe difference between toxic masculinity and genuine strengthWhat a healthy, godly man looks like in today's worldHow to raise boys who are strong and emotionally safeThis episode is for you if:You're a man trying to figure out where you stand in a rapidly changing worldYou're a woman who's confused about what you actually want in a partnerYou're a parent raising boys and wondering how to get the balance rightYou're a Christian couple navigating masculinity and femininity in modern culture🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/H-GUSuw_EPQApple Podcasts: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbU9pR1VjLUxQY1FrNHJMMlA4ejBKSnFjOTB5UXxBQ3Jtc0ttZWZSMGgwOUlqaGxXdUhWbTMwLXlFeWp4aFNRTjJFcUlZcTMzempFMnRtR0VOMmxMT3g0ZTlrN1lWQXNrMVJSbWE0Q1JGR1ZySFFfcW5KOVR2MUw1bE9pOFRWenFNbGt0V29uX1h1d1lhcFVEUkhUWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fpodcasts.apple.com%2Fus%2Fpodcast%2Fsomeone-had-to-say-it%2Fid1798080321&v=KhA67AXSV7I📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.pod#SoftMen #Masculinity #ChristianPodcast #Manhood #ToxicMasculinity #GodlyMan #RelationshipAdvice #NigerianPodcast #AfricanDiaspora #SomeonHadToSayIt #FaithAndRelationships #EmotionalIntelligence #ChristianCouples #MarriageAdvice #MenAndWomen

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    WHY INFIDELITY HAPPENS IN MARRIAGES

    Infidelity is one of the most painful and misunderstood issues in relationships.In this episode of the Someone Had to Say it Podcast, Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun have an honest, thoughtful conversation about cheating, why it happens, what it reveals about relationships, and the real cost it carries for trust, intimacy, and identity.We move beyond surface-level blame to explore the emotional, psychological, and relational factors behind infidelity. From unmet needs and poor boundaries to entitlement, secrecy, and unresolved conflict, we ask the questions many people avoid.Whether you’ve experienced infidelity personally, are trying to rebuild trust, or simply want healthier relationships, this conversation will challenge how you think about cheating and faithfulness.In this episode, we discuss:Why people cheat Infidelity as a symptom vs the real issueBoundaries, honesty, and personal responsibility💬 Join the conversation in the comments.Chapters:If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to:👍 Like🔔 Subscribe📤 Share with someone who needs this conversation

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    MORE THAN WHAT YOU'RE WEARING - THE MODESTY CONVERSATION

    Welcome to this seasons finale of Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In this episode, we’re unpacking a topic that’s been quietly controversial in Christian circles for years: modesty. Is it just about how we dress—or is there more to it?Join us as we dive deep into the modesty conversation, asking the uncomfortable but necessary questions, like:What really comes to mind when we hear “modesty”—and where did those ideas originate?Has modesty been reduced to fashion policing instead of cultivating a posture of the heart?Where’s the line between confidence and showing off in a Christian context?When does personal expression (fashion, makeup, aesthetics) cross into vanity or distraction?Are men held to the same modesty standards, or is this a gendered expectation?How can we teach modesty in a way that’s both biblically grounded and compassionately framed?This episode is for anyone who’s ever wrestled with the tension between personal style and spiritual values. Whether you’ve been judged, done the judging, or are simply trying to understand how modesty fits into today’s faith walk—we’re talking about it.Because maybe modesty isn’t just about what’s on your body… but what’s going on in your heart.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/ewpZSH80UdAApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:What shaped your view of modesty growing up? And how has it evolved over time? Share your thoughts—we’d love to hear from you.Subscribe to Someone Had to Say It! on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you never miss the conversations that someone had to say. 🎙️

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    TOO PICKY IN DATING? HOW TO BALANCE STANDARDS AND LOVE

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun. In this episode, we’re tackling a hot topic in modern relationships: Is there such a thing as being too picky in dating?Join us as we dive into the nuances of dating standards, exploring when pickiness is a strength and when it might hold you back from meaningful connection. We unpack:What does "picky" really mean? Is having high standards a bad thing, or a sign of self-respect?Healthy standards vs. unrealistic expectations: Where’s the line between knowing your worth and chasing a delusion disguised as a preference?Fear in modern dating: Are people more afraid of settling for the wrong partner or facing loneliness?The “ick” factor: Have you ever passed on a great person over a minor flaw or unmet expectation?Choosing well for marriage: What does it mean to make a wise, intentional choice for a lifelong partner?This episode is for anyone navigating the dating world, wrestling with their standards, or seeking clarity on how to choose a partner with purpose. We explore how fear, faith, and modern dating culture shape our decisions, offering practical and spiritual insights for building lasting connections.Because dating isn’t just about finding “the one”, it’s about choosing well.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/tN3EsZfkTvkApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:What’s been your biggest challenge in balancing standards and openness in dating? Share your story, and let’s grow together.New episodes drop every other week—subscribe to Someone Had to Say It! on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to catch the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

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    PREPARING FOR PARENTHOOD: HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU'RE READY?

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s episode, we’re diving into a life-altering transition: preparing for parenthood.• How do you know you’re actually ready to have a child?• What does emotional preparation for parenting even look like?• How does the health of your relationship as a couple impact your parenting journey?• Can you ever truly be financially ready for a baby?• How does becoming a parent shift your sense of identity and your vision for marriage or career?• And how do you prepare spiritually for something so sacred and stretching?This episode is for anyone who’s planning for a child, expecting one, or just wondering what this season requires beyond baby clothes and hospital bags.Because preparing for parenthood isn’t just practical, it’s deeply spiritual.Let’s talk about it.TIMESTAMP:🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/4L3mm_ogMLUApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:What part of preparing for parenthood has challenged or changed you the most?Let’s grow together.New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

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    FAITH VS HUSTLE CULTURE: BALANCING AMBITION WITH PURPOSE

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s honest and unfiltered episode, we’re tackling a struggle that sits quietly in many hearts, the tension between faith and hustle culture.From the pressure to “always be grinding” to the guilt of slowing down, we’re asking the hard questions: • How do you know if your ambition is God-led or ego-driven? • Is burnout just bad boundaries—or a sign of misplaced trust? • Can you stay spiritually fervent in an environment that rewards overwork? • What do you do when your church commitments are pulling you one way and your job expectations another? • Is it possible to be both content and ambitious or are those opposites?We’re unpacking what it looks like to pursue excellence without losing your soul, to set goals without worshiping them, and to stay rooted in purpose even when life gets noisy.This episode is for the believer who’s building something but doesn’t want to lose themselves (or their peace) in the process.What does balance look like in a world that’s constantly telling you to do more, be more, prove more?Let’s talk about it.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/KhA67AXSV7IApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:How are you navigating ambition, faith, and burnout?What’s helped—or what’s still hard?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

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    THE PORNOGRAPHY EPISODE: THE SECRET NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a conversation that many people battle silently—pornography and the quiet wreckage it leaves behind.From early exposure to secret struggles in adulthood, we’re pulling back the curtain on how porn is shaping expectations around sex, intimacy, and love—and the real impact it has on individuals, marriages, and faith.What happens when you’re married but still battling this addiction?How do you even begin to bring it up with your spouse?Can someone truly break free—and how?We’re sharing personal reflections, honest questions, and hope-filled insight for anyone navigating this complex journey.This episode is about more than porn. It’s about truth, vulnerability, healing, and finding your way back to freedom.Whether you’re single, married, healing, or supporting someone who’s struggling—this one’s for you.Would you know what to do if someone you loved confessed a porn addiction? Let’s talk about it.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/9O32gpfRBlwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:Have you or someone you know had to face this battle?What helped—or what do you wish you heard sooner?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

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    LOVE ON A BUDGET: MANAGING MONEY AS A COUPLE

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a conversation that many couples tiptoe around—managing money together in a relationship.From awkward first money talks to differing spending styles, we’re breaking down the real-life struggles and strategies that come with loving someone on a budget.Is a formal budget necessary, or can mutual understanding really work?What happens when one person earns more than the other?And how do you handle your partner’s impulse buys without starting World War III?We’re sharing our own stories, practical wisdom, and insight on how couples can thrive financially without losing love or peace in the process.This isn’t just about money, it’s about trust, communication, and building a life together with intention.Whether you’re dating, engaged, or ten years deep in marriage, this one’s for you.Would you and your partner survive a money conversation today? Let’s find out. 🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/cp9yXepAxJYApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments: How do you and your partner manage money?Are you Team Spreadsheet or Team “Let’s Just Trust Each Other”?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️#SomeoneHadToSayIt #LoveOnABudget #ChristianCouples #MoneyAndMarriage #BudgetingTogether #RelationshipGoals #FinancialWisdom #FaithAndFinance #ChristianPodcast #MoneyTalks #CouplesAndCash #SHTSIPodcast

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    THE EX FACTOR: STAYING FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX WHEN YOU'RE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a question that’s stirred up tension in group chats, counseling rooms, and quiet corners of many relationships—“Is it okay to stay friends with your ex while in a new relationship?”Whether it ended amicably or ended in flames, the idea of keeping an ex in your life can get… complicated.Is it maturity or emotional hoarding? Is it harmless nostalgia or a door left open for drama?We’re unpacking all of it—emotional boundaries, soul ties, trust dynamics, and how your past might be quietly sabotaging your present. And of course, we explore what scripture and spiritual wisdom say about these gray areas that the Bible doesn’t spell out in black and white.This is not about condemnation—it’s about clarity, growth, and having the conversations most people avoid until it’s too late.Is your ex really “just a friend”?Would your partner be comfortable knowing how often you talk?Can you truly heal while still holding on?Let’s talk about it. Honestly.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.pod Let us know in the comments: Would you let your partner stay close friends with their ex? Why or why not?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️#SomeoneHadToSayIt #ChristianDating #BoundariesInRelationships #FaithAndLove #FriendshipWithEx #EmotionalClarity #SoulTies #ChristianPodcast #DatingWisdom #ExFactor #TrustAndRelationships #ModernChristianity #SHTSIPodcast...

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    ENTERTAINMENT & CHRISTIANITY: HOW FAR IS TOO FAR?

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun. In today’s eye-opening episode, we explore a topic that’s sparked countless debates in church groups, social media threads, and Christian circles—Entertainment and Christianity: How far is too far?From Netflix shows to secular music, fashion trends to comedy skits—how do believers draw the line between freedom and compromise? Can you be a committed Christian and still enjoy pop culture? Are some forms of entertainment harmless fun, or are they quietly shaping our values?We dive deep into the heart of these questions—discussing biblical wisdom, cultural influence, personal convictions, and how to navigate entertainment in a way that honors God without falling into legalism or fear.It’s honest, it’s thought-provoking, and it’s the conversation many avoid but desperately need. Whether you’ve been wondering if your playlist needs a cleanse or you’ve just been judged for watching a Marvel movie—you’ll want to hear this.What’s your take? Where do you personally draw the line? Let’s talk in the comments.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomeoneHadToSayIt.PodcastApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@someonehadtosayit.podDon’t forget to subscribe, hit the like button, and share this episode with someone who’s asking the same questions.#SomeoneHadToSayIt #ChristianEntertainment #FaithAndCulture #HowFarIsTooFar #SHTSIPodcast #ChristianFreedom #PopCultureAndFaith #ConvictionsVsCondemnation #JesusAndNetflix #EntertainmentBoundariesNew episodes drop every other week—subscribe and stay tuned for more conversations that matter! 

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    DEALING WITH TOXIC PARENTS AND FAMILY TRAUMA

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun. In today’s powerful episode, we dive deep into the challenging but crucial topic of toxic parents and navigating family trauma.Have you ever felt emotionally drained, manipulated, or misunderstood by the people closest to you? You’re not alone. We’re unpacking the complicated layers of familial relationships, discussing signs of toxicity, how unresolved trauma affects us into adulthood, and practical strategies to heal and reclaim your emotional well-being.It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s the conversation many families avoid—but we believe healing starts with openness. Tune in and learn how to protect your peace and build healthier relationships.Tell us your story! Drop your thoughts or experiences with toxic family dynamics in the comments below. How have you dealt with family trauma?🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=someone+had+to+say+it📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@someonehadtosayit.podRemember to subscribe, hit the like button, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!#SomeoneHadToSayIt #ToxicFamily #FamilyTrauma #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingFromTrauma #Boundaries #EmotionalHealing #FamilyTherapy #SHTSIPodcast #RealTalkTimestamps:0:00 - Intro1:23 - Recognising Toxic Family Behaviour7:15 - How to prevent Toxic cycles from repeating itself15:14 - Protecting you Spouse and Children from Exposure to Toxic Family Dynamics27:06 - How do you honour a parent that is Toxic?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe and stay tuned for more conversations that matter!

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    WHAT THEY DIDN'T TELL US ABOUT SEX & DATING || EPISODE 2

    Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! In this episode, we’re stepping into the deep, messy, and often misunderstood world of dating, sex, and the dreams purity culture sold us.For years, we were told that waiting until marriage was the golden ticket to a perfect relationship—but was it really? From shame-based teachings to the fear of intimacy and the pressure to stay “pure”, we’re breaking down how purity culture shaped our views on sex, relationships, and even self-worth.It’s unfiltered, it’s honest, and we’re asking the questions that need answers. Did purity culture help, hurt, or just leave us wildly unprepared? Let’s talk about it. Drop your thoughts in the comments! Did you grow up with purity culture? How has it shaped your views on sex and dating?🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomeoneHadToSayIt.PodcastApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@someonehadtosayit.pod#SomeoneHadToSayIt #ChristianDating #PurityCulture #Relationships #FaithAndSex #SHTSIPodcast #RealTalk

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    BLACK TAX, FAMILY EXPECTATIONS AND THE ADULTHOOD SCAM || EPISODE 1

    Welcome to the Premiere Episode of Someone Had to Say It! Today, we’re diving headfirst into the stuff no one warned us about: Black Tax, Family Expectations, and the wild ride we’re calling The Adulthood Scam. Ever felt the weight of sending money home? Or wondered why adulting feels like a bait-and-switch? We’re unpacking it all—raw, real, and with a few laughs along the way. In Episode 1, we’re spilling the tea on: What Black Tax really means and why it’s hitting so many of us hard Navigating family pressure when you’re just trying to live your life How adulthood turned out to be the biggest plot twist yet Drop your thoughts in the comments—have you dealt with Black Tax or family expectations? Let’s get this convo going! Subscribe now for more unfiltered takes every week! Hit that bell so you don’t miss Episode 2. 📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/someonehadtosayit.pod?igsh=MTg1bHB2OHV3a3Fneg==TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@someonehadtosayit.pod#SomeoneHadToSayIt #BlackTax #FamilyExpectations #AdulthoodScam #SHTSIPodcast #PodcastPremiere #RealTalk New episodes drop every other week — stick around for the mic drops that matter!

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    WHY YOU'RE GONNA LOVE SHTSI || INTRO EPISODE

    Hey there! We’re LA and T Doks and we’re diving into the wild ride of life with our new podcast! In this intro, we’re sharing why we started this journey—think real-life experiences, faith that keeps us grounded, love that tests us, messy relationships, and the total chaos of adulthood. Expect honest talks, big laughs, and raw moments as we figure it all out with you. Stick around for stories that hit home and tips to survive the madness! Hit subscribe, and join the ride—new episodes drop soon!Follow us on 👇🏻🎯 Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.pod🎯 Tiktok: @someonehadtosayit.pod

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

From Love, Faith and Family to navigating the chaos of modern life, we tackle the topics that everyone's thinking about but no one wants to say out loud!This is Someone Had To Say It with LA & Tope Doks.

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