Ten & Two - A Family Podcast

The War Over Family | Sunday Sermon There is a real war being waged right now — and the front line is your family. Family wasn't man's idea. It was God's first institution. Before there was a nation, a temple, or even a church, there was a family. And the enemy has known from the beginning that if he can fracture the family, he can fracture everything downstream of it — the church, the community, and the next generation's view of God Himself. In this message, we trace the war back to its origin in Genesis 3:15, and we expose the four-pronged strategy the enemy is running against the seed of the woman in 2026: 1. NO SEED — Don't get married. 2. KILL THE SEED — Abortion. 3. LIMIT THE SEED — Fewer or no children.4. NEGLECT THE SEED — Broken families and fatherlessness. This isn't a physical war. It's a spiritual one. And we don't fight it with the weapons of the flesh — we fight it with the weapons of heaven (2 Corinthians 10:3–6). By the end of this message, you'll walk away with a clear three-step path to winning the war in your own home: 🔹 Identify the root 🔹 Change your heart, change your perspective 🔹 Model the hope This isn't a culture-war message. It's a heart-change message. Wherever you are — single, married, parenting, grandparenting, or somewhere in the middle — God has a position for you in this fight. And the church needs every generation to step into it. 📖 KEY SCRIPTURES Genesis 3:15 Revelation 12:17 2 Corinthians 10:3–6 Deuteronomy 6:6–7 📌 IN THIS MESSAGE The original battle in the Garden — and why it was always about the seed How smartphones, pornography, and screens are quietly dismantling the home The post-Dobbs reality — over 1.1 million abortions in 2025 What our generation was told about marriage and family — and the lies we have to unlearn Why fatherlessness is the wound under the wound A blessing and a charge to every generation in the room — grandparents, parents, and the rising generation 🎙 ABOUT TEN AND TWO TEN and Two is a family-rooted ministry calling this generation back to the beauty of the Gospel, the strength of the family, and the hope of revival. We believe Godly families are not optional — they are the front line.

📍 Recorded LIVE at Southview Church – May 18, 2025 Modern culture is not neutral—it's at war with God's design for marriage, family, gender, and spiritual order. In this unfiltered, live episode of TEN & TWO, recorded during a powerful Sunday gathering at Southview Church, we expose the 4 major cultural attacks on the family that are shaping (and shaking) Christian homes today. From the redefinition of identity and marriage to the idol of careerism, the epidemic of pornography, and the crisis of spiritual fatherhood—we draw a clear line between counterfeit cultural values and God's unchanging truth. 🔥 What we cover in this episode: 1️⃣ God's Definitions – Why marriage, gender, and roles aren't up for redefinition. 2️⃣ The Higher Purpose – How careerism and self-fulfillment are crushing generational legacy. 3️⃣ Holy Relationships – Why purity still matters in a world addicted to lust. 4️⃣ The Authority of the Parent – Reclaiming spiritual leadership in a fatherless generation.   👊🏽 It's time for believers to stop negotiating with Babylon and take a stand. These aren't just social issues—they're spiritual battlegrounds. We don't fix families by agreeing with culture—we do it by returning to trust and obedience with God. 📖 Scripture Highlights: Genesis 2:24 | Romans 1:26–27 | Philippians 2:3–4 | 1 Corinthians 6:18–20 | Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (Episode includes in-depth Scripture teaching on each cultural lie.) 📊 Real Stats. Real Talk. Real Freedom. We break down current statistics on same-sex marriage, the pressure of work culture, the rise of porn in the Church, and fatherlessness in America—then contrast them with God's Word. 🔔 Subscribe to stay equipped and encouraged. 🛑 Don't just watch culture shift—stand against it in your home.  

Culture is shifting fast — but are these new family and relationship trends biblical? 🤔 In this episode, we break down 7 major cultural movements — from open relationships and FAFO parenting to the "couple goals" obsession online — and ask the hard question: Does this align with God's design? 📖 Whether you're navigating marriage, parenting, or dating, this conversation will help you discern truth from trends and stay rooted in a biblical worldview. 🙌 🔎 Topics we cover: Open Relationships & Polyamorous Parenting Oversharing Marital Problems Online The Decline of Marriage Among Young Adults FAFO Parenting Methods Weaponized Incompetence in the Home Digital Intimacy & Virtual Relationships The Pressure of "Couple Goals" on Social Media   ✨ Join us as we pull back the curtain, look at the Word, and ask: Is That Biblical?

Forgiveness doesn't mean they were right. It means you're ready to heal. Anger. Bitterness. Resentment. We carry it in our hearts and it shows up in our relationships — especially the ones we love most. In this episode, we're diving into what forgiveness really is: ⚡ a tool for freedom 💔 a path to healing 🧠 and yes — it even helps your body recover too. Whether you're learning to forgive your spouse, yourself, or someone from your past — this one is for you. Let's get free together. 🎧 Available now on all platforms.  

Every parent wrestles with this question at some point: Am I doing a good job? The pressure to get it right can feel overwhelming, and it's easy to slip into guilt, self-doubt, or comparison. In this episode of TEN & TWO, we unpack the two biggest factors that shape our view of parenting: our own upbringing 👶🏽➡️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 and cultural expectations 🌎📲. ✨ Topics we cover: ✅ How your childhood impacts the way you parent 🏡 ✅ Are you parenting from fear, overcorrection, or pressure? 🚦 ✅ Breaking free from unrealistic cultural parenting standards 💡 If you've ever second-guessed your parenting, you're not alone! Let's have an honest conversation about what really matters in raising kids who love God and thrive in life. 💙

Conflict in marriage is inevitable, but how you handle it determines the health and strength of your relationship. In this episode of TEN & TWO, we dive into biblical principles for resolving disagreements in a way that builds your marriage instead of tearing it down. 🔹 Is fighting in marriage always bad? 🔹 What does it mean to "not let the sun go down on your anger"? (Ephesians 4:26-27) 🔹 When do you need a mediator or outside help? 🔹 How to recognize red flags before it's too late 🔹 Practical rules for fighting fair—what works & what doesn't If you and your spouse struggle with conflict resolution, this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom and practical tools to fight fair and strengthen your marriage. 💬 What's one rule you and your spouse follow when handling conflict? Drop a comment below! 👉 LIKE, SHARE & FOLLOW for more real talk on marriage & parenting! 🎧 Listen now #MarriageMatters #FightFair #ChristianMarriage #BiblicalWisdom #HealthyConflict #MarriagePodcast #TENandTWO

Are we making life too easy for our kids? In a world of instant gratification, where everything is just a click away, many parents are struggling with entitlement in their children. In this episode of TEN & TWO, we break down: ✅ Signs your child might be entitled ✅ How over-giving and avoiding conflict can backfire ✅ The biblical approach to teaching gratitude & responsibility ✅ Practical steps to raise hardworking, content, and grateful kids It's time to shift from entitlement to empowerment! Don't miss this conversation—LIKE, SHARE & FOLLOW for more real talk on parenting! 👏 #Parenting #Entitlement #RaisingKids #Gratitude #ChristianParenting #TENandTWO

🔥 NEW EPISODE – INTIMACY AGAIN! 🔥 We're diving back into the conversation on biblical intimacy in marriage, and this time, we're not alone! Special guests Pastor Rafael & Mia Saracual join us to bring wisdom, truth, and real talk about God's design for intimacy. 💬 What does the Bible really say about s*x? ❤️ How can couples build deeper, God-honoring intimacy? 🚫 Breaking myths, awkward church silence, and cultural lies. Don't miss this raw, honest, and much-needed conversation! Listen now! 🎧✨ #Marriage #BiblicalIntimacy #TenAndTwoPodcast

"Let's talk about it—REAL intimacy in marriage! 😳🔥 Why do so many Christian couples struggle with s*x and intimacy? Is it a taboo topic in the church, or are we just asking the wrong questions? In this episode of TEN & TWO, we dive into the raw, unfiltered truth about intimacy in marriage—spiritual, emotional, and physical. From misconceptions to deep connection, we're breaking down the barriers that keep couples from experiencing the full blessing of intimacy as God designed it. Married? Engaged? Struggling? This one's for you! Don't miss this candid conversation that could change everything in your relationship!

On this episode, we get to hear from our friends John & Chris Blue, pastors and parents of 5 children. We learn some valuable advice from these seasoned parents/grandparents. They talk about their parenting struggles, the highs and lows, and what it looks like to trust Jesus with your children. Some true marriage/parenting nuggets. 

There are a ton of Marriage Misconceptions that we believe and act from. We walk into marriage thinking one thing and then experiencing something else. On this episode we discuss some wrong ideas about marriage as we tackle the top 5 misconceptions based off of the"All Pro Dad" list. Which ones do you believe? Which ones are you breaking from? Marriage is a blessing and we hope to inspire you to think that way too.

One of the biggest questions we get is "What is a normal day like for parents of 10 kids"? Mark and LeeAnn decide to kick off Season 2 with a run down of a day in the life. One of the recurring themes is that no matter if you have 10 kids or 1, you need to make your life work so you can enjoy the little things and not miss the stuff that matters. Children are a blessing and how we approach our day helps us to appreciate this truth.

It's Christmas Time in Nashville....Our favorite time of year! Maybe? Well we can definitely agree it's in the top 2. Mark & LeeAnn do a special holiday episode to answer some questions about Christmas and family. 

Mark & LeeAnn officially wrap up Season 1 of Ten & Two, but that doesn't mean it's over for good! Stay tuned for more stories, insight, encouragement and fun as they plan for Season 2. Topics like Intimacy, Fighting Fair, Finding Your Spouse, Marriage Misconceptions and even some "special guests" are planned for our kick off in Feb 2025.

Research tells us that more and more people are struggling with depression. Postpartum seems to be getting worse and worse in new moms. Even in a culture where we seem to have it all, we still aren't happy and are filled with loneliness. In this episode, Mark shares a very personal story that, for years, he never knew how depression tried to rob him of his very life. Listen in as we talk about depression, postpartum, and redemption. There is HOPE!! 

Life is full of ups and downs, wins and losses, happiness and sorrow. This episode we dive into miscarriage, loss, and navigating the unknown, yet keeping the joy in the journey.  Join Mark & LeeAnn as they get personal (yet again) and share their grief and joy, and how it led them to trust God even further.

Fathers are the backbone of society. They are needed to push us to greatness. So why is there a lack of Fathers Rising Up? Why is our society trying to demoralize men? Listen in as we discuss about the greatness of the father and what is needed to see more men walk in this God given role. {Ladies don't skip over this episode}

The role of the mother is vital. Her position in the home is essential. {Men don't skip over this episode}. Whether you are a mom or want to be, listen in as we talk all about how Mothers Rule and how their ministry is so needed in society.  

We live in a culture where church attendance is on the decline, in this episode we discuss the importance of going to church as a family, not because the devil is gonna get you, but because God will get a hold of you and you will never be the same.    Our Links: https://linktr.ee/therampullas

It's easy to get caught up in what everyone has to say about a topic on social media, but are we being mindful of who we let influence us? In this episode, we encourage you not follow the influencers, but to follow God instead.  Our Links: https://linktr.ee/therampullas

Be fruitful & multiply was one of Gods first commands, but here in the 21st century, we seem to disobey what he has asked of us. In this episode we talk about the importance of having children and the benefits we receive when we obey God. Our Links: https://linktr.ee/therampullas

How do you parent kids in today's environment? No one gives you a manual on how to navigate all the ups and downs of family life. and most times it feels like we have to figure it out on our own. sometimes we just need some reinforcement that we are on the right path. Join Mark & LeeAnn, pastors & parents of 10 children, as they give some practical and spiritual advice that they have learned along the way, on cultivating the family. we hope you walk away encouraged and empowered and ready to embrace the joy, the struggle and the journey of building strong family.   Our Links: https://linktr.ee/therampullas

A brand new weekly podcast about parenting, marriage and kids. Why another podcast? Well this couple has 10 kids and pastor a church outside of Nashville. With 25+ years of marriage and 15+ years leading a church, they have stories to tell and aren't afraid to share them. The joys, and sometimes pains, of marriage and family can teach us a lot. Join the journey and walk away encouraged, challenged and probably laughing along the way.    Our Links: https://linktr.ee/therampullas