The Feminine Perspective

This week’s dilemma dives into the messy middle of long-term love and unexpected temptation…Our listener has been in a steady relationship for four years — comfortable, secure, but lately… a little stagnant. The spark that once felt effortless now takes work, and she’s starting to wonder if that’s just what long-term relationships become — or if something’s missing.Complicating things further, there’s a co-worker in the picture. Nothing has happened, but there’s an undeniable chemistry — lingering conversations, a flirty energy, and a growing “what if?” that she can’t ignore.So now she’s stuck at a crossroads:Does she stay and try to reignite the relationship she’s built over years, or take a risk on something new and uncertain?Emily and Verity unpack the dilemma with honesty and nuance, exploring the difference between comfort and complacency, the role of curiosity in relationships, and whether a spark with someone new is a sign — or just a distraction. They discuss communication, timing, emotional responsibility, and how to make a decision you can stand by without regret.If you’ve ever questioned a long-term relationship or felt tempted by the excitement of someone new, this episode will definitely get you thinking…✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨Follow our socials:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefeminineperspective_Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefeminineperspective_/Emily's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmysloan22/Verity's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/verity_j_x/

In this candid and unfiltered episode, Emily and Verity sit down for an honest, no-holds-barred conversation about Emily’s rhinoplasty journey—from the very first consultation to life after surgery. If you’ve ever been curious about nose jobs, considering one yourself, or just want the real story behind the process, this episode covers it all.Emily opens up about why she decided to get rhinoplasty in the first place, including her personal insecurities, expectations, and the moment she knew she was ready to go through with it. She breaks down the full timeline - from researching surgeons and consultations to surgery day and recovery - sharing the details most people don’t talk about.They also dive into the financial side, with Emily transparently discussing the total cost, what was included, and whether she feels it was worth the investment. Nothing is off-limits as Verity asks all the questions you’re probably thinking: Did it hurt? How long did the swelling last? What was the most difficult part of recovery? Would she do it again?Emily also shares the emotional side of the experience—how she felt before and after the surgery, how it impacted her confidence, and whether it matched her expectations. She talks honestly about the highs, the doubts, and the reality of seeing your face change.Whether you’re seriously considering rhinoplasty or just curious about what it’s really like, this episode is packed with insights, personal reflections, and practical advice you won’t find in a quick Google search.Tune in for a real, relatable, and refreshingly honest deep dive into one of the most talked-about cosmetic procedures.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

This week, Emily and Verity dive into a listener dilemma that hits way too close to home for many of us. One viewer writes in to share her frustration about constantly attracting men who seem charming at first… but quickly reveal themselves to be walking red flags. From love bombing to emotional unavailability, Emily and Verity unpack the patterns, the warning signs, and the deeper reasons this might be happening.The conversation gets real as they break down the “nitty gritty” of the dilemma—how early behaviours can predict long-term issues, why we sometimes ignore our instincts, and how past experiences can shape the kind of partners we gravitate toward. Emily and Verity offer practical advice on what to actually look for in a healthy relationship, from consistency and communication to emotional maturity and respect.But it’s not all serious—there’s plenty of reassurance too. The girls remind listeners that good men do exist, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. They encourage anyone feeling disheartened to hold onto their standards and trust that the right person won’t leave them questioning their worth.And of course, no episode would be complete without a little pop culture detour. Emily and Verity share their latest thoughts on Bridgerton, from swoon-worthy moments to the relationship dynamics that (sometimes) mirror real life a little too well.To top it all off, Emily drops a little teaser—there’s a surprise coming in the next episode, so you’ll definitely want to stay tuned…Grab a cup of tea and join the conversation 💬

This week, Emily and Verity sit down for a long overdue catch-up. Emily shares the sad news that her beloved cat Boris passed away at the incredible age of 19, prompting a heartfelt conversation about grief, the idea of the soul, and whether our pets or people might still be with us in ways we can’t explain.That emotional moment takes a spooky turn as the pair dive into the paranormal — including a strange experience they recently had in an escape room that left them questioning what was real and what definitely wasn’t part of the game.Naturally, the mood then swings back to the comfort of reality TV. Emily and Verity break down their thoughts on Love Island, The Real Housewives, Bridgerton, and The Traitors, and debate the ultimate question: would they make better Traitors or Faithfuls?As always, the chat goes deeper than expected, finishing with a thoughtful reflection on the current state of the world and why everything feels a little heavier right now.A mix of laughter, ghost stories, reality TV hot takes, and honest conversation — just like catching up with friends. 🎙️✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

After three sun-soaked weeks in Australia, Verity is finally back — and there’s a lot to unpack. In this first episode they have filmed this year, Emily and Verity sit down for a long-overdue catch-up filled with travel tales, life updates, and the kind of honest conversations that only happen between best friends.Verity shares stories from her Australian adventure, meanwhile, Emily opens up about a friendship that’s recently fractured, what happens when loyalty gets complicated, and the emotional aftermath of a falling out. But it’s not all heavy — she also spills the details on a new love interest who may (or may not) be shifting her perspective on relationships this year.As the conversation unfolds, the two dive into a bigger question that’s been on their minds: what actually makes someone good or evil? Is it a single choice, repeated behaviour, intention, or impact? It’s thoughtful, funny, reflective, and a little chaotic — the perfect way to start a new season.New year. New stories. Same Emily and Verity.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

Emily is back with another dating horror story—and this one might take the cake. 😬In this episode, she opens up about her relationship with a man who turned out to be a full-blown narcissist, breaking down all the red flags and alarm-bell moments she clocked along the way (spoiler: there were MANY).From love-bombing and manipulation to the night he deliberately ruined her birthday and spiraled into a rage so intense he broke her front door, Emily walks us through the shocking moments that finally made everything click.But don’t worry—this story doesn’t end there. Emily shares how she found the strength to end things for good… and how she got her ultimate revenge in the most satisfying way possible. 💅If you’ve ever ignored your intuition, dated someone who made you feel small, or wondered how to take your power back after a toxic relationship—this episode is for you.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

In this episode, Emily and Verity dive into a jaw-dropping dilemma: a girl cheats on her boyfriend twice with her ex — in the house she shares with her partner — all while she’s due to get married in just a few months. The situation gets even messier when she confesses everything to a friend who happens to be close with both people in the relationship, leaving the friend stuck with a moral crisis and no idea what to do next. Emily and Verity unpack the dilemma, debating honesty, loyalty, and whether staying silent ever really protects anyone.From there, the conversation turns personal as Emily and Verity open up about their own experiences with cheating, how it’s shaped their views on trust, and how they think they’d react if they found out they were cheated on now. The episode wraps up with a teaser you won’t want to miss — Emily begins telling a wild story about a toxic guy she once dated who literally broke down her front door… but you’ll have to tune in to the next episode to hear how that one ends! 😱✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨Follow our socials:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefeminineperspective_Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefeminineperspective_/Emily's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmysloan22/Verity's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/verity_j_x/

In this open and thought-provoking episode, Emily and Verity explore the importance of setting boundaries — why they’re essential, how they protect your peace, and what can happen when red flags are ignored 🚩Emily then shares a deeply personal story about spotting the warning signs early on when her best friend began dating someone who displayed clear narcissistic traits. She talks through the behaviours that immediately raised concerns, the frustration and helplessness of watching someone you love fall deeper into a toxic relationship, and the emotional strain of trying to speak up when your friend isn’t ready to listen.The conversation delves into the reality of setting boundaries not only with difficult partners, but also within friendships. Emily opens up about how she became certain her friend’s boyfriend was cheating, how she connected the dots, and the moment she finally decided to reveal everything — knowing it could put the friendship at risk.This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever:• Struggled to set boundaries with friends or partners• Ignored red flags out of love or loyalty• Tried to help someone who wasn’t ready to hear the truth• Learnt that honesty can be painful, but necessaryRaw, emotional and eye-opening, this episode is a powerful reminder to trust your intuition, stand by your values, and recognise that setting boundaries is an act of self-respect — not selfishness.

Emily and Verity are back with a festive frenzy of drama, and this week’s Christmas special delivers the wildest dilemma we’ve ever had on the podcast.A story that starts messy… and only gets messier. She discovers her boyfriend has been cheating — but instead of quietly walking away, she decides to tell the other girl’s boyfriend the truth. One emotional spiral, one unexpected hookup, and one positive pregnancy test later… everything changes.In this episode, she reveals exactly how she found out, why she told the other boyfriend, what went down between them, and the biggest question of all:👉 Did she keep the baby?👉 Where do all four of them stand now?👉 How did this life-altering situation unfold?Grab your hot chocolate, settle in by the tree, and get ready — this Christmas story isn’t jolly… but it is jaw-dropping.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

💬 In this episode, Emily and Verity dive deep into a friendship dilemma!A listener writes in asking for advice about her confusing friendship, and the girls unpack everything — from overthinking and mixed signals to what healthy adult friendships should actually feel like.✨ What we cover in this episode:Is she overthinking… or is something actually off?How friendships change as we get olderRed flags to look out forEmily and Verity’s own personal experiences with friendships that came to an endSubtle signs that someone isn’t being a real friendWhat your friends should be giving you in a supportive relationshipAll the possible reasons her friendship might feel “off” — and how to figure out the truthIf you’ve ever questioned a friendship, felt like someone’s energy was shifting, or wondered what healthy boundaries should look like… this episode is for you. 💛🎧 Listen now and join the conversation!Don’t forget to like, subscribe & leave a comment with your own friendship experiences or dilemmas.

In this episode, Emily and Verity unpack a messy, very real dilemma:A husband accidentally learns—from his own wife—that his best friend’s wife is cheating. The twist? The cheating wife is also his wife’s friend. Now he’s stuck between loyalty, secrecy, and the potential fallout from every possible choice.Emily & Verity break down every angle:Should you tell your friend—even if it destroys another friendship?Is it ever okay to stay silent to protect someone else?What happens when your partner is the one who shared the secret in the first place?And what responsibility do you hold when the information wasn’t meant for you?They also open up about their own real-life experiences telling friends they were being cheated on—how it went, the reactions they got, and how those moments permanently changed their friendships.💬 What would YOU do in this situation?Share your thoughts in the comments—Emily & Verity love hearing your takes for future episodes!✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

In this episode, Emily shares one of her funniest (and strangest) nights out — the kind of story that starts as a fun evening and ends with a full-on declaration of love from a man she barely knew. Picture this: she’s 21, he’s in his 40s, dressed in a top hat and sharp suit, and seems eccentric but harmless. After a night of harmless fun and polite conversation, Emily thought nothing of it… until she received an extremely long text message confessing his love — followed by an even longer voicemail.Emily reads the infamous text, plays the voicemail, and reflects on what you get for simply being kind to men. But the story doesn’t stop there. Months later, when she starts dating someone new, the universe throws a wild twist her way — turns out he was on that same night out, and even spoke to the man in the top hat after he’d proclaimed he’d met his “future wife.” Coincidence… or proof of the string theory at work?Then, Verity switches gears and brings the glam — recounting her boujee Vegas weekend filled with high-rollers, luxury hotels, and a whole lot of champagne.✨ From unhinged love confessions to universe-level coincidences and Vegas extravagance — this episode has it all. Do you believe in the string theory?

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Verity opens up about her experience of becoming pregnant at 15 and a Mum at 16 — the challenges, the stigma, and how those early years shaped the woman she is today. She reflects on what she’s learned about resilience, identity, and motherhood.Emily shares her own story — from her relationship with sex and contraception when she was younger, to the lessons she’s learned about self-worth, boundaries, and love. She also gets candid about what she’s looking for in a relationship now and whether motherhood is something she wants for her future.This conversation is honest, emotional, and full of reflection — touching on topics we don’t talk about enough.💬 Join the conversation: What lessons did your teenage years teach you about love, sex, or responsibility? Share your thoughts in the comments below.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes every Sunday! ✨

This week, we’re spilling all the tea as we answer questions!From our favourite drinks and wild stories of being spiked, to what’s hiding in our Notes apps 👀, we’re baring it all. We even dive into some deeper chats about jealousy, porn, and where we stand on it.And of course, no episode would be complete without a trip down memory lane — Emily confesses her first crush was Sonic the Hedgehog (yep, really 🦔) while Verity’s heart belonged to Draco Malfoy ⚡It’s raw, funny, and a little too honest — exactly how we like it.✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes every Sunday! ✨

In this deeply personal and eerie episode, Emily opens up about two unforgettable encounters with sleep paralysis - one involving a terrifying beast and another with a figure wearing her own face. She also shares an emotional story about revealing to a client that she was pregnant before even knowing herself - only to later discover she truly was. The story comes full circle in a heartwarming way when she reveals the baby’s gender and a meaningful connection to the child’s birth date.Emily also recounts visiting a medium on the one-year anniversary of her best friend’s passing, revealing what the medium shared that left her stunned. Together, Emily and Verity explore their beliefs in the afterlife, recount their own spiritual awakenings, and discuss their experiences with tarot cards.Verity takes listeners into the world of Ouija boards and shares a chilling haunted-night experience. The two also dive into life path numbers and how they may connect to reincarnation.This episode is a journey through the mystical, the chilling, and the deeply personal—one you won’t want to miss.

Join Emily and Verity this week as they pull back the curtain on the world’s most controversial conspiracies — from 9/11, time travel and the Illuminati, to Charlie Kirk, new Kanye West, fluoride in the water, and even reptilian shapeshifters. With a mix of deep dives, wild theories, and candid opinions, this fun episode explores what could potentially be going on beneath the surface. ✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes every Sunday! ✨Follow our socials:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_feminineperspectiveInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_feminineperspective/Emily's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmysloan22/Verity's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/verity_j_x/Stream on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6CdxgyWdoMTffKk28QwQwS?si=a39abcd117304894Stream on Apple Music: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-feminine-perspective/id1820657284Stream on Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/92d73236-32e0-449c-b129-4420c2d2c83e/the-feminine-perspective

In part two of their heartfelt conversation, Emily and Verity continue to dive into the realities of living with OCD and how it impacts their mental health. Verity opens up about her current struggles with trust in a relationship, while Emily offers thoughtful advice drawn from her own experiences. Together, they explore the importance of speaking openly about personal struggles instead of carrying the weight alone. Emily shares how opening up truly saved her life, reminding listeners of the power of connection, vulnerability, and support.

In this heartfelt episode, Verity shares her personal journey of experiencing abuse in relationships. She talks about the painful truths she faced, the warning signs she overlooked, and the valuable lessons she gained from it all. With honesty and bravery, Verity reveals how she found the courage to leave, rebuild her life, and protect her peace. This episode serves as both an emotional story and a helpful guide for anyone questioning their own relationship dynamics.✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes every Sunday! ✨Follow our socials:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_feminineperspectiveInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_feminineperspective/Emily's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmysloan22/Verity's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/verity_j_x/

In Episode 6, Emily shares yet another hilariously disastrous dating story—this time featuring a guy who made it to three dates before she swiftly binned him off. From driving like a maniac to bragging about getting into random street fights on nights out, the red flags were practically glowing. But the final straw? Two absolutely unhinged pet stories - one involving a dog, some kittens, and zero remorse, and another where he casually admits to killing his own cat. Yes, really.Buckle up for a chaotic tale of 🚩🚩🚩 and the moment Emily knew it was time to run.Content warning: This episode contains references to animal harm. Listener discretion is advised.

After a toxic whirlwind of a relationship that ended almost as fast as it started, Emily never thought she'd speak to her ex again. But a hauntingly vivid nightmare two years later pushed her to reach out.In this explosive episode, Emily opens up about their short-lived but emotionally draining relationship, the manipulation, gaslighting, and all the red flags he displayed. They reconnected as “friends” for over a year and a half—until a listener, sparked by a brief mention in Episode 2, slid into Emily’s DMs with shocking receipts: he had a secret girlfriend for three entire years.Nothing is off-limits as Emily finally shares the full truth. The lies, the toxic behavior, the twisted games—everything she’s kept quiet... until now. Get ready. The tea is scalding.

In this raw and revealing episode, Emily and Verity open up like never before. They both share deeply personal stories of being cheated on — the heartbreak, the betrayal, and yes, the drama! Emotions run high as they reflect on the signs they missed and the moments everything unraveled. Things take a juicy turn when they track down one of the women involved in Emily’s past relationship… and attempt to get some long-overdue answers.Emily doesn’t stop there. She spills the details of a surprising conversation with a man who openly admitted to cheating — and revealed exactly what was going through his mind at the time. His candid insight offers a rare peek into the male psyche when it comes to infidelity.And to top it off, the girls dive into a loaded question: Is fantasizing about someone else the same as cheating? Prepare for a wild ride of honesty, outrage, and some serious late-night truths.✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

In this episode, Emily and Verity share their personal experiences and reflections on relationships, dating, and navigating the often murky waters of intimacy. Emily opens up about her traumatic holiday experience, where she faced sexual assault, and how this has shaped her understanding of personal safety and boundaries. Verity also bravely shares her own story of a man she dated who lied about his age, was much older than she expected, and eventually cheated on her. Together, we dive into the importance of recognising red flags early on in relationships, especially in the initial stages of dating. Emily even shares insights from her time dating a best man from the tv show Married at First Sight, and how that experience taught her valuable lessons about trust and emotional safety. This raw, honest conversation highlights the importance of listening to our instincts, advocating for ourselves, and supporting one another as we navigate the complexities of modern dating. Tune in for a candid discussion about love, trauma, healing, and the realities that so many women face. Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics such as sexual assault, trauma, and cheating. Please listen with care. ✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

In this episode, we dive deep into the strange and mysterious world of dreams. Emily shares a surreal story of how a close friend who passed away visited her in a dream - and what that dream revealed. She also opens up about a haunting nightmare involving her ex-boyfriend, only to run into him unexpectedly shortly after. Verity recounts a powerful and unsettling dream where she was told exactly when her stepdad would pass away. We also explore the line between dreams and the paranormal: Are some dreams more than just dreams? Can they be warnings, messages, or visits from beyond? Join us as we unpack the eerie, emotional, and unexplained.✨ Subscribe and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

Welcome to our very first episode! We're kicking things off with a fun intro so you can get to know us—who we are, why we started this podcast, and what you can expect to come. Emily spills the tea on a hilariously awkward date, and we dive into a real talk about female empowerment and some of the issues we face when it comes to dating. It’s equal parts laughter, honesty, and inspiration—just how we like it.